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And welcome back
to Good Day Portland.
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I'm Bink Williams.
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With me, as always,
my delightful co-host--
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Misty McAllister.
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And with us in our second hour,
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Dr. Miranda Faraday,
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founder of a new
breakup boot camp
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that's taking Portland
by storm.
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Now, correct me
if I'm wrong, Miranda,
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you're a psychologist?
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A Ph.D., yes.
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Right, and you provide
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a six-week
health and wellness program
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to heal the recently
broken-hearted?
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Exactly.
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When you typically
get out of a relationship,
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you want one of two things,
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to have the relationship
not be over,
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or to be over the relationship,
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and one of those things
we can't control,
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but the other
is well within our power.
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Well, it sounds like something
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that could help someone
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who maybe
can't get over lost love.
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Well, sometimes,
people hide their true selves
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until six months in,
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when you witness her
scream at a waiter,
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making him cry,
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but tell us how this all works.
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Each week has a theme.
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"Release, Endurance, Teamwork,
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Connection, Trust,
and Closure,"
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and we do a coordinated
activity or exercise
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in keeping with
the word of the week.
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People may feel like
broken hearts last forever,
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but I am here to tell them
that it doesn't.
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Okay, folks,
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we're going to go to Rick
for the weather,
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and when we return,
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Dr. Miranda Faraday
will tell us more
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about her program.
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Uh, Miranda?
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Mm-hmm.
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He's going to need
your business card,
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like, right now.
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Yeah.
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Well, everyone kept saying
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how he's this young,
financial genius,
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and they're crediting
my reporting
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for taking down
what turned out to be
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this massive Ponzi scheme.
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The reason I didn't see you
for three weeks.
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Jen, I'm doing this for us.
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I'm working really hard
to prove myself,
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and they're finally
starting to take notice.
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That's great,
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but I need you to take notice
of other things.
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Like what?
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It's been six months.
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Where are we going?
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Right now,
we're going to dinner.
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Ben, we hardly see each other
these days.
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I'm on track
to become an editor,
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and then I get to be the one
handing out the assignments,
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but in the meantime,
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I kinda gotta write
what they tell me to write.
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And I need someone
who is present.
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I am.
I'm right here.
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Look, let's not focus
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on the time
that we don't spend together,
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and instead
enjoy the time that we do.
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That's not enough for me, Ben.
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Something's got to give.
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Are you asking me to choose
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between you and my career?
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I'm saying,
the right answer
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is, "You, Jen.
I choose you."
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I do...
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and I choose my career.
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I'm sorry,
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that's not enough for me.
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Goodbye, Ben.
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He went looking for my car
ages ago.
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I have no idea where he is.
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Think he took it
for a joy ride?
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That would be about right
for the night I'm having.
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I swear, it has nothing to do
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with the woman
who just got in a cab
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with my heart
on the bottom of her shoe.
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I think they charge
an extra cleaning fee for that.
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Probably.
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Well, I'm sorry to hear
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that both your car
and your heart are MIA.
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That's all right,
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I didn't really like it
that much anyways.
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Thinking about trading it in
for a newer model.
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The car or the heart?
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I need one of them
to get home,
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so I guess the heart
is of less use at the moment.
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And the girlfriend?
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Ex-girlfriend, actually,
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but the bread was great,
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so I guess that sort of
makes up a little
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for getting dumped.
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Do you want to talk about it?
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Ah, you've heard the story
a thousand times.
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Boy meets girl.
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Girl gives boy
an unreasonable ultimatum.
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Girl storms out.
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Boy eats both entrees.
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Yeah, we all have one of those.
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Do tell.
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Comfort me with your pain.
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Uh, you've heard it
a million times.
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Girl meets boy,
girl marries boy.
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Boy leaves girl,
girl takes up kickboxing,
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pretends bag is boy.
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I feel bad for the bag.
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Not so much for the boy.
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This is me.
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Hey...
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Broken hearts do heal.
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I've seen it happen.
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Thanks.
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This letter is your chance
to say it all
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to that person
who broke your heart.
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It's only two minutes,
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so don't hold back.
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This is about you now,
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and you are not the same person
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who signed up for this program
a month and a half ago.
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You have overcome obstacles,
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you have stepped
outside of yourself.
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You have changed in ways
you never thought possible.
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Three, two, one...
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pens down.
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How are we feeling?
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Mine has
a lot of swears in it.
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That's perfect.
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Excellent.
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So, as closure week
comes to a close,
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you have to decide
at our bonfire,
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do you send your letter,
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or do you burn it?
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That's all for today.
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I'll see you tomorrow.
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Oh, and remember
the first rule,
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no cyberstalking your ex.
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You know I'm right.
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Stay off Instagram.
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Chloe, hi.
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The phone has been ringing
off the hook
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since the segment
on Good Day Portland.
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And Bink Williams
signed up for the program,
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so that's
our best publicity ever.
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We are at capacity again,
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so I had to add
another session.
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Good.
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Maybe soon we can get
a dance studio or something,
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so we don't have to share
the space.
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I know.
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It's all happening.
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Are you ready
to lead a session yet?
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You know why
this business works?
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Hmm.
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Because I know
how to stay in my lane.
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I handle the business,
you handle the clients.
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Well, it would be pretty easy
for you to just, like,
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toss your blinker on
and change lanes.
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You know this program
like the back of your hand.
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Mm-hmm,
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and you are the heart
of the business,
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and I am the head,
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but I am sorting
through resumes,
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and there are
some great candidates.
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I'll set up interviews
this week.
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You will not be on your own
forever, I promise,
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and then, maybe
when the pressure is off,
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you can take
some time for you.
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I take plenty of time
for myself.
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I'm going to the rock wall
tonight for a climb.
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That's not what I mean.
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You need to stop moving,
and doing, and climbing,
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and get back out there.
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What would you say to a client
who refused to move on?
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I'm not refusing to move on.
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I will get back out there,
eventually.
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I'm just...
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You know, success
is happening for us right now,
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and I want to ride that wave.
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Thank you.
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Mm-hmm.
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Hey, Kim.
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Hi.
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Mom and Dad okay?
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Oh, yeah, they're fine.
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I just need you to talk me
out of doing something.
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Ah, my greatest skill.
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Darren's engaged.
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I know it's been a year
since we broke up,
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but it still stings.
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What exactly
am I talking you out of?
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Don't let me call him.
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Okay.
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Or email.
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Yeah, no, don't do that.
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Or ride my bike by his house.
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I will literally
stand in the street
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in front of your bike.
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Aw, look at us.
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It's like we're some
sibling lonely hearts club.
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Oh, speak for yourself.
I'm fine.
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You just think
you're fine, Ben,
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because that's what you do
after a breakup,
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ever since Serena.
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Why do you always
have to bring her up?
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That was, like, 10 years ago.
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Because it broke you,
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and ever since,
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you've just been putting
a Band-Aid over a bullet hole.
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Have not.
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I was almost
about to talk to Jen
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about taking it
to the next level.
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"Almost about to"?
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- Mm-hmm.
- Yeah, big step.
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So, there is this program
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that helps people
get over a breakup,
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and I want you to come with me.
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You remember the last one,
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where they just yelled at you,
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and told you
all the stuff you did wrong?
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Or the walking on hot coals guy
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that promised you
all this empowerment,
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and the coals
weren't even real?
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Yeah, I'm still
paying that one off.
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But at least I'm trying.
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Unlike some people
who pretend that they're fine
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and then probably cry
in their cereal every morning.
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I don't even eat cereal.
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Look...
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I just don't want to see you
taken advantage of, okay?
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Give me some credit.
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I did my research.
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She has a great reputation,
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and it's in Campbell Park.
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You love Campbell Park.
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Come on, I'm tired
of feeling like this,
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and I don't
want to do it alone,
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and remember?
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Helping your sister?
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Your greatest strength?
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I hate it when my words
come back to haunt me.
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Fine.
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Thank you.
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Look at her resume.
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Advanced psychology degree,
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was in private practice,
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and she's a Reiki instructor.
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I don't know what that means,
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but it sounds like
teaching experience to me.
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Sounds great,
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but I mean, qualifications
aren't everything.
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We need to find somebody
who gets what we do.
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I have a good feeling
about her.
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And what I've learned
in my practice
269
00:10:00,250 --> 00:10:02,166
is it's not one size fits all.
270
00:10:02,250 --> 00:10:04,959
You can't treat everyone
out of a textbook.
271
00:10:05,041 --> 00:10:06,625
I could not agree more.
272
00:10:06,709 --> 00:10:08,542
I think that
too much talk therapy,
273
00:10:08,542 --> 00:10:10,417
instead of real action,
274
00:10:10,417 --> 00:10:11,500
can keep people stuck.
275
00:10:11,500 --> 00:10:12,917
Exactly.
276
00:10:12,917 --> 00:10:14,375
So, I was wondering...
277
00:10:14,375 --> 00:10:15,667
how do you feel
278
00:10:15,667 --> 00:10:18,083
about incorporating
past-life regression
279
00:10:18,083 --> 00:10:19,583
into your program?
280
00:10:21,083 --> 00:10:22,875
Uh... wow.
281
00:10:22,959 --> 00:10:25,792
Well, that is...
282
00:10:25,792 --> 00:10:27,250
not really what--
what we do.
283
00:10:27,250 --> 00:10:28,709
But you should.
284
00:10:28,709 --> 00:10:31,000
Because we aren't always
dealing with trauma
285
00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,083
from this lifetime.
286
00:10:34,583 --> 00:10:35,709
Mm-hmm.
287
00:10:35,709 --> 00:10:38,458
Okay, uh, thanks, Gayle.
288
00:10:38,542 --> 00:10:40,333
We will be in touch.
289
00:10:44,291 --> 00:10:45,291
Thank you.
290
00:10:45,375 --> 00:10:47,500
Namaste.
291
00:10:52,625 --> 00:10:54,750
Hi.
292
00:10:54,834 --> 00:10:55,792
Hi. I'm Helen.
293
00:10:55,792 --> 00:10:57,542
It's my second go-round.
294
00:10:57,542 --> 00:10:59,458
I guess it takes more
than six weeks
295
00:10:59,542 --> 00:11:01,041
to get over
a 30-year marriage.
296
00:11:01,125 --> 00:11:04,458
Oh, my goodness,
Bink Williams!
297
00:11:04,542 --> 00:11:05,834
I watch you every morning.
298
00:11:05,834 --> 00:11:08,417
I guess no one's immune
from heartbreak.
299
00:11:08,417 --> 00:11:10,625
Uh, I guess not.
300
00:11:10,709 --> 00:11:12,083
I'm just gonna...
301
00:11:13,583 --> 00:11:14,709
I'm Kim. Hi.
302
00:11:14,709 --> 00:11:15,834
Hi.
303
00:11:15,834 --> 00:11:18,250
I'm here for moral support.
304
00:11:18,250 --> 00:11:20,917
Oh, yes, my brother
is completely unaffected
305
00:11:20,917 --> 00:11:22,041
by his recent breakup,
306
00:11:22,125 --> 00:11:23,208
or any other breakups
307
00:11:23,208 --> 00:11:25,166
that may have happened
in the past.
308
00:11:25,250 --> 00:11:27,083
At least, that's the story
we're going with.
309
00:11:27,083 --> 00:11:28,750
Well, that's because
it's the truth.
310
00:11:28,834 --> 00:11:30,000
- Ben.
- Hi.
311
00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,750
We all go at our own pace.
312
00:11:31,834 --> 00:11:33,333
It takes as long as it takes.
No pressure.
313
00:11:33,417 --> 00:11:35,667
Well, we'll remember that.
314
00:11:35,667 --> 00:11:37,500
Oh.
315
00:11:37,500 --> 00:11:39,125
It's work.
316
00:11:39,125 --> 00:11:40,792
I'm gonna take this outside.
317
00:11:40,792 --> 00:11:42,500
You're gonna want a muffin.
318
00:11:42,500 --> 00:11:43,917
Yeah, I'll see you
in the morning, Leo.
319
00:11:43,917 --> 00:11:45,792
Yeah, bye.
320
00:11:49,250 --> 00:11:50,583
You.
321
00:11:50,667 --> 00:11:52,917
Of all the boot camps
in all the world, right?
322
00:11:52,917 --> 00:11:54,083
Do you know of many others?
323
00:11:54,083 --> 00:11:55,625
Only the military kind.
324
00:11:55,709 --> 00:11:57,083
Hmm.
325
00:11:59,041 --> 00:12:00,250
What are you doing?
326
00:12:00,250 --> 00:12:03,041
Just trying to picture you
with a buzz cut.
327
00:12:03,125 --> 00:12:04,166
And how's that?
328
00:12:04,250 --> 00:12:05,417
I think you picked
the right boot camp.
329
00:12:09,083 --> 00:12:10,834
Well, you don't sound
too thrilled about it.
330
00:12:10,834 --> 00:12:12,667
Well, my sister
wanted to go to this one.
331
00:12:12,667 --> 00:12:14,792
I'm here for moral support.
332
00:12:14,792 --> 00:12:17,375
That, and she knows
all my secrets.
333
00:12:17,375 --> 00:12:19,542
I mean, it's got
a pretty good reputation,
334
00:12:19,542 --> 00:12:21,500
and you can't beat
the view, so...
335
00:12:21,500 --> 00:12:23,875
Well... yeah,
336
00:12:23,959 --> 00:12:26,041
but Miranda's
Breakup Boot Camp?
337
00:12:26,125 --> 00:12:27,250
Come on,
I cannot be the only one
338
00:12:27,250 --> 00:12:28,792
that thinks this is
a little out there.
339
00:12:28,792 --> 00:12:32,000
I mean, maybe this lady thinks
she can start some new fad,
340
00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:33,125
make a couple bucks,
341
00:12:33,125 --> 00:12:34,959
I've seen it before.
342
00:12:35,041 --> 00:12:35,875
Everybody likes a quick fix.
343
00:12:35,959 --> 00:12:37,291
Mm.
344
00:12:37,375 --> 00:12:39,041
You have some pretty
strong feelings about it.
345
00:12:39,125 --> 00:12:41,625
Pretty strong feelings
about a lot of things.
346
00:12:41,709 --> 00:12:43,250
Like pizza.
347
00:12:43,250 --> 00:12:45,166
Want to go grab a slice?
348
00:12:46,709 --> 00:12:48,834
Maybe you shouldn't
knock it before you try it.
349
00:12:48,834 --> 00:12:52,417
I don't know, the whole
kumbaya, circle time,
350
00:12:52,417 --> 00:12:54,667
chanting with strangers
isn't really my thing.
351
00:12:54,667 --> 00:12:57,250
Yeah, no, that's not
my thing at all either, so.
352
00:12:57,250 --> 00:12:59,625
Excellent.
Then we're in agreement.
353
00:12:59,709 --> 00:13:01,041
So, pizza?
354
00:13:02,417 --> 00:13:05,375
Let's just go in,
and just--just give it a try.
355
00:13:05,375 --> 00:13:07,041
You're not going to save me
from this, are you?
356
00:13:07,125 --> 00:13:08,166
Is that what you're saying?
357
00:13:08,250 --> 00:13:10,333
I think only you
can save yourself.
358
00:13:11,291 --> 00:13:12,291
Come on.
359
00:13:14,542 --> 00:13:18,125
Okay, everybody,
give Bink a little space.
360
00:13:18,125 --> 00:13:19,583
And the first thing
that you're gonna learn here
361
00:13:19,667 --> 00:13:20,750
is that we don't date
on the rebound,
362
00:13:20,834 --> 00:13:22,542
yours or anyone else's.
363
00:13:22,542 --> 00:13:23,959
So...
364
00:13:24,041 --> 00:13:26,417
Thank you.
365
00:13:26,417 --> 00:13:27,834
So you're the teacher.
366
00:13:27,834 --> 00:13:30,375
The... breakup boot camper.
367
00:13:30,375 --> 00:13:31,583
Miranda Faraday.
368
00:13:33,083 --> 00:13:35,333
Ready for a little kumbaya,
circle time?
369
00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:38,792
...And by the time
we reach week three,
370
00:13:38,792 --> 00:13:40,333
"Teamwork,"
371
00:13:40,417 --> 00:13:42,375
you are going to feel like
completely different people,
372
00:13:42,375 --> 00:13:44,083
and that'll bring us
right into to week four,
373
00:13:44,083 --> 00:13:45,166
"Connection."
374
00:13:45,250 --> 00:13:47,250
Uh, can I chime in really fast?
375
00:13:47,250 --> 00:13:49,542
I'm sorry, is that a thing
we're allowed to do here?
376
00:13:49,542 --> 00:13:52,375
Yes, this is an open dialogue.
377
00:13:52,375 --> 00:13:54,083
What about fear?
378
00:13:54,208 --> 00:13:55,875
What about fear?
379
00:13:55,959 --> 00:13:57,250
Well, I don't see it
on your list.
380
00:13:57,250 --> 00:13:58,333
You have all these buzzwords,
381
00:13:58,417 --> 00:14:00,750
"Trust, Release, Endurance,"
382
00:14:00,834 --> 00:14:02,875
but when do we deal with fear?
383
00:14:02,959 --> 00:14:04,166
Because that's why
we're all here, right?
384
00:14:04,250 --> 00:14:06,542
We're afraid to deal with life,
385
00:14:06,542 --> 00:14:07,959
without that person
that just broke our hearts.
386
00:14:08,041 --> 00:14:09,000
Ben--
387
00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,125
He's right.
388
00:14:11,125 --> 00:14:12,625
I'm scared to be on my own,
389
00:14:12,709 --> 00:14:14,959
and I can't just move on
390
00:14:15,041 --> 00:14:16,667
since I have to see Bethany
and her new girlfriend,
391
00:14:16,667 --> 00:14:17,750
every other week,
392
00:14:17,834 --> 00:14:19,834
because of Ruth.
393
00:14:19,834 --> 00:14:22,875
We share custody.
394
00:14:22,959 --> 00:14:25,834
It's so hard on the kids,
going back and forth.
395
00:14:25,834 --> 00:14:27,834
Thankfully,
mine are grown now.
396
00:14:27,834 --> 00:14:30,000
Oh, Ruth is a cat,
397
00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:34,834
but she's definitely struggling.
398
00:14:34,834 --> 00:14:36,709
See, fear is a powerful
motivator for people.
399
00:14:36,709 --> 00:14:39,000
Fear is a symptom.
400
00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:40,750
Trust, endurance,
401
00:14:40,834 --> 00:14:42,583
those are solutions,
402
00:14:42,667 --> 00:14:44,667
and here in my boot camp,
403
00:14:44,667 --> 00:14:46,792
we choose to focus
on the buzzwords that uplift.
404
00:14:46,792 --> 00:14:49,542
Yeah, perhaps the person
with the Ph.D.
405
00:14:49,542 --> 00:14:51,208
can continue
with the orientation.
406
00:14:51,208 --> 00:14:52,375
Unless, of course,
407
00:14:52,375 --> 00:14:53,500
you have a post graduate degree
as well?
408
00:14:53,500 --> 00:14:56,083
No, no,
just asking questions.
409
00:14:56,083 --> 00:14:57,125
She said it was allowed.
410
00:14:57,125 --> 00:14:58,250
It's okay.
411
00:14:58,250 --> 00:14:59,125
We're all just
breaking the ice here,
412
00:14:59,125 --> 00:15:00,583
but I do think
413
00:15:00,667 --> 00:15:03,375
that you should do one thing
every day that scares you,
414
00:15:03,375 --> 00:15:04,917
but I call that empowerment.
415
00:15:04,917 --> 00:15:07,125
What are you afraid of?
416
00:15:07,125 --> 00:15:08,166
Heights.
417
00:15:08,250 --> 00:15:09,125
Spiders.
418
00:15:09,125 --> 00:15:11,250
Dentist...
419
00:15:11,250 --> 00:15:13,875
but I'm not going
to the dentist every day.
420
00:15:13,959 --> 00:15:16,208
No, no, no one
is asking you to do that,
421
00:15:16,208 --> 00:15:17,625
but when you face those fears,
422
00:15:17,709 --> 00:15:18,959
the heights, the spiders,
the dentist,
423
00:15:19,041 --> 00:15:21,542
you feel like
you can overcome anything,
424
00:15:21,542 --> 00:15:22,709
including a broken heart,
425
00:15:22,709 --> 00:15:25,333
and that is empowerment.
426
00:15:25,417 --> 00:15:28,417
Because it's easy
to just be negative and cynical
427
00:15:28,417 --> 00:15:30,709
and want to tear things down.
428
00:15:30,709 --> 00:15:32,291
So, this program,
429
00:15:32,375 --> 00:15:34,291
we're gonna focus
on the positive,
430
00:15:34,375 --> 00:15:35,500
and you will see
exactly what I mean
431
00:15:35,500 --> 00:15:37,542
in our kickstart session,
on Thursday,
432
00:15:37,542 --> 00:15:38,375
called "Release."
433
00:15:46,834 --> 00:15:47,583
Ben...
434
00:15:49,333 --> 00:15:51,291
I'll wait for you outside.
435
00:15:51,375 --> 00:15:52,250
Apologize.
436
00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:57,917
You didn't tell me
who you were.
437
00:15:57,917 --> 00:15:59,166
You didn't ask.
438
00:15:59,250 --> 00:16:00,709
I just wanted to say
439
00:16:00,709 --> 00:16:02,750
that I know it might be weird
440
00:16:02,834 --> 00:16:05,208
because you were so vulnerable
with me the other night,
441
00:16:05,208 --> 00:16:07,417
but there's no shame
in having your heart broken.
442
00:16:09,125 --> 00:16:12,125
My heart's not broken,
it's gently bruised.
443
00:16:12,125 --> 00:16:14,166
Bruises heal faster
than breaks.
444
00:16:14,250 --> 00:16:17,041
Maybe there's
an underlying injury
445
00:16:17,125 --> 00:16:18,000
you don't know about?
446
00:16:19,333 --> 00:16:20,166
Come on, I was there.
447
00:16:20,250 --> 00:16:22,458
I saw you.
448
00:16:22,542 --> 00:16:24,000
It's not as bad
as you're making it out to be.
449
00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:25,500
I'm doing great now.
450
00:16:25,500 --> 00:16:26,542
I'm processing things.
451
00:16:26,542 --> 00:16:27,709
Moving on.
452
00:16:27,709 --> 00:16:28,834
In four days?
453
00:16:28,834 --> 00:16:30,583
Sometimes, four days
is all you need.
454
00:16:32,333 --> 00:16:34,875
Okay.
455
00:16:34,959 --> 00:16:35,959
I think there's
something you want to say,
456
00:16:36,041 --> 00:16:37,166
and I think it has to do
with the fact
457
00:16:37,250 --> 00:16:38,291
that you're famished,
458
00:16:38,375 --> 00:16:39,667
and you really want
to take me up
459
00:16:39,667 --> 00:16:41,041
on that pizza offer right now.
460
00:16:41,125 --> 00:16:43,083
Yeah, that's not
what I was going to say.
461
00:16:43,083 --> 00:16:44,542
I do wonder
462
00:16:44,542 --> 00:16:45,917
if this program
is the right fit for you?
463
00:16:45,917 --> 00:16:49,291
Are you booting me out
of boot camp?
464
00:16:49,375 --> 00:16:50,458
No, I wouldn't do that,
465
00:16:50,542 --> 00:16:52,125
because I can help you,
466
00:16:52,125 --> 00:16:54,250
but it only works
if you take it seriously,
467
00:16:54,250 --> 00:16:56,375
so I think that is something
that you need to figure out.
468
00:17:03,834 --> 00:17:05,500
You just can't help yourself.
469
00:17:05,500 --> 00:17:06,917
You always
have to say something.
470
00:17:06,917 --> 00:17:08,208
Editor of the Harvard Crimson.
471
00:17:08,208 --> 00:17:10,542
You went to an Ivy,
and became a know-it-all.
472
00:17:10,542 --> 00:17:11,709
Oh, stop.
473
00:17:11,709 --> 00:17:13,583
I was a know-it-all
way before Harvard.
474
00:17:14,834 --> 00:17:16,125
You know what, I'm fine.
475
00:17:16,125 --> 00:17:17,667
I can do this on my own.
476
00:17:17,667 --> 00:17:18,875
I mean, it's obvious
477
00:17:18,959 --> 00:17:20,166
you're never going to deal
with your stuff.
478
00:17:20,250 --> 00:17:21,333
Or is it
479
00:17:21,417 --> 00:17:22,417
that I've already
dealt with my stuff,
480
00:17:22,417 --> 00:17:23,542
and this is redundant?
481
00:17:25,250 --> 00:17:26,917
You don't have to come back
on Thursday.
482
00:17:26,917 --> 00:17:29,583
Well, you can't say
we didn't try.
483
00:17:29,667 --> 00:17:31,458
Sure I can.
484
00:17:37,917 --> 00:17:40,083
You've reached
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp.
485
00:17:40,083 --> 00:17:41,834
Please leave your name
and number,
486
00:17:41,834 --> 00:17:42,709
and someone
will get back to you
487
00:17:42,709 --> 00:17:44,000
as soon as possible.
488
00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:45,166
Thanks.
489
00:17:45,250 --> 00:17:47,125
Miranda, hey,
Ben Myers here.
490
00:17:47,125 --> 00:17:49,208
Listen, I was thinking
about what you said,
491
00:17:49,208 --> 00:17:53,750
and I think that the program
is not for me,
492
00:17:53,834 --> 00:17:55,667
but I did want to say thank you,
493
00:17:55,667 --> 00:17:57,166
and good luck,
494
00:17:57,250 --> 00:18:01,250
and if you change your mind
about that pizza...
495
00:18:01,250 --> 00:18:04,083
Yeah. Bye.
496
00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,000
You got a minute?
497
00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:07,917
I have some news.
498
00:18:07,917 --> 00:18:08,792
Yeah, yeah, sure.
499
00:18:10,417 --> 00:18:12,458
Dean Rossi
got a job in Austin.
500
00:18:12,542 --> 00:18:13,792
He's leaving
at the end of the month.
501
00:18:13,792 --> 00:18:16,083
So there's an opening
for a features editor?
502
00:18:16,083 --> 00:18:17,875
The board doesn't know
if you're ready,
503
00:18:17,959 --> 00:18:19,125
but I'm working on them.
504
00:18:19,125 --> 00:18:20,583
You just keep doing
what you're doing.
505
00:18:20,667 --> 00:18:22,166
Whatever it takes.
506
00:18:22,250 --> 00:18:25,000
I appreciate the vote
of confidence, Leo, really.
507
00:18:28,792 --> 00:18:31,208
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp.
508
00:18:31,208 --> 00:18:32,917
I saw this lady
on Good Day Portland.
509
00:18:34,291 --> 00:18:36,291
- Are you doing this?
- Well, no.
510
00:18:36,375 --> 00:18:38,625
I went once,
but just to help my sister,
511
00:18:38,709 --> 00:18:40,000
I'm not gonna go back.
512
00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:43,125
She's always into
that self-help, fad stuff.
513
00:18:43,125 --> 00:18:44,083
No, Ben...
514
00:18:44,083 --> 00:18:45,250
You need to go back.
515
00:18:45,250 --> 00:18:47,458
I don't need this, Leo.
I'm fine.
516
00:18:47,542 --> 00:18:49,750
No, I mean, on assignment.
517
00:18:49,834 --> 00:18:51,291
You know more than anyone
518
00:18:51,375 --> 00:18:52,792
that once you start digging
beneath the surface,
519
00:18:52,792 --> 00:18:53,750
sometimes, you strike oil,
520
00:18:53,834 --> 00:18:55,250
like with that Ponzi thing.
521
00:18:55,250 --> 00:18:57,583
Well, I don't know that
this is like the Ponzi thing.
522
00:18:57,667 --> 00:18:59,125
Well, maybe not,
523
00:18:59,125 --> 00:19:00,000
but is this the real deal,
524
00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:01,333
or is it just some fad,
525
00:19:01,417 --> 00:19:03,000
full of empty promises?
526
00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,583
These people are everywhere.
527
00:19:05,667 --> 00:19:07,000
Nobody is better than you
528
00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:08,375
at finding the story
beneath the story.
529
00:19:08,375 --> 00:19:10,250
Go back, dig around,
530
00:19:10,250 --> 00:19:11,625
and bring me something good,
531
00:19:11,709 --> 00:19:13,750
and if it turns out as well
as the last piece,
532
00:19:13,834 --> 00:19:16,291
well, that editor job
is as good as yours.
533
00:19:26,959 --> 00:19:28,000
Hey.
534
00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:29,917
Ben isn't gonna be coming back,
535
00:19:29,917 --> 00:19:31,750
so I'll use the extra bag
for demonstration.
536
00:19:31,834 --> 00:19:33,750
- Can I talk to you for a sec?
- Yeah, what's up?
537
00:19:33,834 --> 00:19:35,959
There's a voicemail
you need to listen to.
538
00:19:37,375 --> 00:19:39,875
Hi, um... it's Dex.
539
00:19:39,959 --> 00:19:41,792
You're probably surprised
to hear from me,
540
00:19:41,792 --> 00:19:43,875
but I, uh,
541
00:19:43,959 --> 00:19:47,500
noticed you liked
one of my photos online,
542
00:19:47,500 --> 00:19:49,875
which was kind of strange,
543
00:19:49,959 --> 00:19:52,250
uh, and I think we should talk.
544
00:19:52,250 --> 00:19:53,417
So can you call me?
545
00:19:53,417 --> 00:19:54,834
Thanks.
546
00:19:54,834 --> 00:19:56,917
You liked one of
your ex-husband's photos?
547
00:19:56,917 --> 00:19:57,959
No!
548
00:19:58,041 --> 00:20:00,208
Not on purpose.
549
00:20:00,208 --> 00:20:02,083
You were cyberstalking him?
550
00:20:02,083 --> 00:20:02,917
I was curious,
551
00:20:02,917 --> 00:20:04,417
I...
552
00:20:04,417 --> 00:20:06,041
kind of like when you're
watching the nature channel,
553
00:20:06,125 --> 00:20:07,875
and you see, like,
a snake eating a frog,
554
00:20:07,959 --> 00:20:10,208
and you just... keep watching.
555
00:20:10,208 --> 00:20:12,083
That is such a weird analogy,
556
00:20:12,083 --> 00:20:13,709
and I don't know
what is going on with you,
557
00:20:13,709 --> 00:20:16,917
but that is exactly what
we tell our clients not to do.
558
00:20:16,917 --> 00:20:19,208
Dex does not deserve
any more of your attention.
559
00:20:19,208 --> 00:20:21,000
I know.
It was one time, Chloe.
560
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,083
Are you gonna call him?
561
00:20:22,083 --> 00:20:23,417
No.
562
00:20:23,417 --> 00:20:25,667
He clearly thinks
that I'm pining over him,
563
00:20:25,667 --> 00:20:26,709
and if I call him back,
564
00:20:26,709 --> 00:20:27,792
it's just gonna confirm that,
565
00:20:27,792 --> 00:20:29,834
so no, I'm not calling him back.
566
00:20:29,834 --> 00:20:31,000
Tell me that you are not.
567
00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:32,000
Not what?
568
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:33,291
Pining over him.
569
00:20:33,375 --> 00:20:34,583
No!
570
00:20:34,667 --> 00:20:38,125
I am totally, definitely,
categorically
571
00:20:38,125 --> 00:20:39,667
not pining over him.
572
00:20:39,667 --> 00:20:42,500
I don't need to call him back
to prove that.
573
00:20:42,500 --> 00:20:44,625
So, yeah, no,
I'm not calling him back.
574
00:20:44,709 --> 00:20:47,041
And you are deleting
that app off your phone.
575
00:20:56,083 --> 00:20:58,125
I mean, I'm the first one
there in the morning,
576
00:20:58,125 --> 00:21:00,375
I'm the last to leave at night,
577
00:21:00,375 --> 00:21:02,041
I do every assignment
that they give me,
578
00:21:02,125 --> 00:21:03,709
and he still has to sell me
to the board.
579
00:21:03,709 --> 00:21:05,208
You've only been
at the magazine for two years.
580
00:21:05,208 --> 00:21:06,500
These things take time.
581
00:21:06,500 --> 00:21:08,750
But I'm so ready.
582
00:21:08,834 --> 00:21:11,083
I'll do whatever it takes
to prove I'm up to the task.
583
00:21:11,083 --> 00:21:12,250
You'll get there.
584
00:21:12,250 --> 00:21:13,166
Just keep doing
what you're doing.
585
00:21:13,250 --> 00:21:14,333
Yeah.
586
00:21:15,500 --> 00:21:17,834
- Jen.
- Ben.
587
00:21:17,834 --> 00:21:18,959
Hey.
588
00:21:19,041 --> 00:21:21,542
It's not what it looks like.
589
00:21:21,542 --> 00:21:23,166
We just... went to lunch.
590
00:21:23,250 --> 00:21:25,125
Right.
591
00:21:26,750 --> 00:21:28,959
You remember Emmett
from my office?
592
00:21:29,041 --> 00:21:30,667
Yeah. Sure.
593
00:21:30,667 --> 00:21:32,166
No hard feelings,
right, bro?
594
00:21:34,458 --> 00:21:35,375
No.
595
00:21:38,458 --> 00:21:40,250
We gotta go to work.
596
00:21:40,250 --> 00:21:41,917
Yeah, us too.
597
00:21:46,291 --> 00:21:48,625
So at least that wasn't awkward.
598
00:21:48,709 --> 00:21:50,458
Well, he seems
perfectly terrible.
599
00:21:50,542 --> 00:21:51,750
Oh, I've met him.
He is.
600
00:21:51,834 --> 00:21:54,291
You okay?
601
00:21:54,375 --> 00:21:56,625
I didn't realize
I was that replaceable.
602
00:21:56,709 --> 00:21:58,333
Hey...
603
00:21:58,417 --> 00:22:00,166
this says way more about her
than it does you.
604
00:22:00,250 --> 00:22:02,333
Don't self-help me.
605
00:22:02,417 --> 00:22:04,417
Come on, you sound like
the boot camp instructor.
606
00:22:04,417 --> 00:22:06,083
I'll take that as a compliment.
607
00:22:06,083 --> 00:22:07,250
She's very smart.
608
00:22:07,250 --> 00:22:09,417
- Lots of five-star reviews
- Oh.
609
00:22:09,417 --> 00:22:11,917
Come on, we can
get over this together.
610
00:22:11,917 --> 00:22:13,542
Me and you,
611
00:22:13,542 --> 00:22:14,709
and you and me.
612
00:22:14,709 --> 00:22:15,792
Us. Team.
613
00:22:15,792 --> 00:22:17,208
Power healing.
614
00:22:18,709 --> 00:22:20,542
Fine. I'll go back with you,
615
00:22:20,542 --> 00:22:21,959
but only because I want
to take care of you, all right?
616
00:22:22,041 --> 00:22:23,291
I want to make sure
you don't get sucked in.
617
00:22:23,375 --> 00:22:25,750
Yeah, I don't think
that's the only reason.
618
00:22:27,083 --> 00:22:28,458
Thank you.
619
00:22:29,542 --> 00:22:30,417
Miranda?
620
00:22:31,792 --> 00:22:34,125
Oh, hi, uh, refund.
621
00:22:34,125 --> 00:22:36,083
I'll have Chloe
cut you a check.
622
00:22:36,083 --> 00:22:37,125
No, actually...
623
00:22:38,458 --> 00:22:40,709
Um, I've been thinking about it,
624
00:22:40,709 --> 00:22:42,041
and I'm ready to do the work.
625
00:22:42,125 --> 00:22:44,625
That's a pretty big change
from before
626
00:22:44,709 --> 00:22:46,208
when you called it a fad,
627
00:22:46,208 --> 00:22:48,959
and said that I was trying
to con vulnerable people
628
00:22:49,041 --> 00:22:50,083
out of their hard-earned money.
629
00:22:50,083 --> 00:22:51,083
I didn't say that
about you specifically--
630
00:22:51,083 --> 00:22:52,667
- It was implied.
- But not intended.
631
00:22:52,667 --> 00:22:53,875
So, what changed?
632
00:22:53,959 --> 00:22:55,750
I'm a man who knows his flaws.
633
00:22:55,834 --> 00:22:57,917
Oh, do go on.
634
00:22:57,917 --> 00:23:00,834
Okay, I ran into
my ex-girlfriend,
635
00:23:00,834 --> 00:23:02,792
already on a date.
636
00:23:02,792 --> 00:23:04,250
That sucks.
637
00:23:04,250 --> 00:23:05,458
I'm sorry to hear that.
638
00:23:05,542 --> 00:23:07,083
Sounds like a textbook rebound.
639
00:23:07,083 --> 00:23:08,959
Yeah.
The guy called me, "Bro," too
640
00:23:09,041 --> 00:23:10,125
Yikes.
641
00:23:10,125 --> 00:23:11,333
Extra sorry.
642
00:23:11,417 --> 00:23:13,792
Okay, well, are you ready
643
00:23:13,792 --> 00:23:15,291
to check your inner cynic
at the door?
644
00:23:15,375 --> 00:23:17,500
Because tonight
we sign the pledge.
645
00:23:17,500 --> 00:23:18,709
Of allegiance?
646
00:23:18,709 --> 00:23:20,834
Because if not,
647
00:23:20,834 --> 00:23:22,375
that sounds a little culty,
you know that, right?
648
00:23:22,375 --> 00:23:23,709
What am I signing exactly?
649
00:23:23,709 --> 00:23:24,875
It's a pledge of commitment,
650
00:23:24,959 --> 00:23:25,875
and it's not to me,
651
00:23:25,959 --> 00:23:27,250
it's to you.
652
00:23:27,250 --> 00:23:28,291
If you think you can commit.
653
00:23:28,375 --> 00:23:29,458
Oh, I can commit.
654
00:23:29,542 --> 00:23:30,500
I've had the same ficus
for 10 years,
655
00:23:30,500 --> 00:23:32,000
but I never sign anything
656
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:33,417
until I see the fine print.
657
00:23:33,417 --> 00:23:35,250
Listen, Ben,
I want you to know
658
00:23:35,250 --> 00:23:36,625
that I am committed
659
00:23:36,709 --> 00:23:38,500
to helping you
get over your breakup.
660
00:23:38,500 --> 00:23:40,250
And I'm committed
to helping you get over yours.
661
00:23:40,250 --> 00:23:42,667
Mm, that's not
how this is gonna work.
662
00:23:42,667 --> 00:23:43,875
Ah, but is it, though?
663
00:23:43,959 --> 00:23:45,959
Okay, how about
664
00:23:46,041 --> 00:23:48,083
we just lose
all preconceived notions
665
00:23:48,083 --> 00:23:50,000
we have about one another,
666
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:50,917
and we start fresh.
667
00:23:50,917 --> 00:23:51,792
Deal?
668
00:23:53,959 --> 00:23:55,208
Deal.
669
00:23:55,208 --> 00:23:57,208
Good.
670
00:24:01,417 --> 00:24:03,125
Kick!
671
00:24:03,125 --> 00:24:06,500
Welcome to week one, "Release".
672
00:24:06,500 --> 00:24:07,834
Punch!
673
00:24:07,834 --> 00:24:09,583
Kick! Come on!
674
00:24:10,709 --> 00:24:11,583
Atta way.
675
00:24:11,667 --> 00:24:13,250
You have anger.
676
00:24:13,250 --> 00:24:15,917
You have pain, you have fear.
677
00:24:15,917 --> 00:24:17,834
Accept those emotions,
678
00:24:17,834 --> 00:24:20,083
and then release them
into that bag.
679
00:24:20,083 --> 00:24:21,625
Just like that.
680
00:24:21,709 --> 00:24:24,291
Kim, do not go easy
on that bag.
681
00:24:24,375 --> 00:24:25,750
Did what's-his-name
go easy on your heart?
682
00:24:25,834 --> 00:24:26,917
Darren?
683
00:24:26,917 --> 00:24:28,875
No, he did not.
684
00:24:28,959 --> 00:24:29,917
Atta girl.
685
00:24:29,917 --> 00:24:31,166
Let it out, let it out!
686
00:24:31,250 --> 00:24:33,542
What is going on over here?
687
00:24:33,542 --> 00:24:35,166
I just, I don't see
what good this is doing.
688
00:24:35,250 --> 00:24:37,166
I'm a lover, not a fighter.
689
00:24:38,375 --> 00:24:40,083
Less talking, more punching.
690
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,500
Oh, come on, Ben,
a nine-year-old could take you.
691
00:24:45,500 --> 00:24:46,834
Do better.
You're holding on too tight.
692
00:24:46,834 --> 00:24:49,375
I don't want to pretend
the bag is Jen.
693
00:24:49,375 --> 00:24:50,959
Or someone else
from your past?
694
00:24:52,959 --> 00:24:54,208
Okay, then,
695
00:24:54,208 --> 00:24:58,041
why don't you just
give it a hit... bro?
696
00:25:01,667 --> 00:25:02,834
Yes! Better.
697
00:25:02,834 --> 00:25:04,750
Thank you, Ben,
for joining us.
698
00:25:04,834 --> 00:25:05,542
Kick!
699
00:25:06,750 --> 00:25:07,875
Ooh! Ow!
700
00:25:09,166 --> 00:25:10,291
Sorry.
701
00:25:10,375 --> 00:25:12,500
You're okay.
Let's walk it off.
702
00:25:17,959 --> 00:25:20,333
So, Bink Williams hates me.
703
00:25:20,417 --> 00:25:21,667
I never thought I'd say that.
704
00:25:23,208 --> 00:25:24,375
This does feel good,
though, right?
705
00:25:25,834 --> 00:25:27,291
Yeah, I guess.
706
00:25:30,333 --> 00:25:32,083
- Have a good night.
- See ya.
707
00:25:35,542 --> 00:25:37,625
- Yo, hey.
- How was it?
708
00:25:37,709 --> 00:25:39,458
It was about
what you'd expect,
709
00:25:39,542 --> 00:25:40,625
but I got a good workout,
710
00:25:40,709 --> 00:25:42,834
which is a win
since you keep me so busy,
711
00:25:42,834 --> 00:25:44,125
I had to cancel the gym.
712
00:25:44,125 --> 00:25:45,625
So what's the deal?
713
00:25:45,709 --> 00:25:47,959
I don't know yet,
still sussing it out,
714
00:25:48,041 --> 00:25:50,333
but there was
one red flag, though.
715
00:25:50,417 --> 00:25:52,291
This commitment thing
she wants us to sign.
716
00:25:52,375 --> 00:25:53,542
Hmm.
717
00:25:53,542 --> 00:25:55,125
Well, make sure
you read the fine print.
718
00:25:55,125 --> 00:25:56,458
Oh, I intend to.
719
00:25:56,542 --> 00:25:57,625
Okay, keep digging, Ben.
720
00:25:57,709 --> 00:25:59,166
Yeah.
721
00:26:07,125 --> 00:26:07,834
Hey...
722
00:26:07,834 --> 00:26:09,542
Hey.
723
00:26:09,542 --> 00:26:10,750
Uh, I just wanted to say
724
00:26:10,834 --> 00:26:13,166
that was really good in there.
725
00:26:13,250 --> 00:26:14,750
Uh, I'm just really feeling it.
726
00:26:14,834 --> 00:26:17,834
See, once you stop resisting,
it's not so bad.
727
00:26:17,834 --> 00:26:19,500
Yeah...
728
00:26:19,500 --> 00:26:22,250
and starting with Release Week
was super intense.
729
00:26:22,250 --> 00:26:23,000
Anybody ever ask
for their money back
730
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:23,959
after this point?
731
00:26:24,041 --> 00:26:27,500
I was checking out your terms,
732
00:26:27,500 --> 00:26:30,166
and you're pretty tough
on refunds.
733
00:26:30,250 --> 00:26:31,583
Well, I'm only tough on them
because--
734
00:26:31,667 --> 00:26:33,750
Miranda.
735
00:26:35,709 --> 00:26:36,625
Dex.
736
00:26:36,709 --> 00:26:38,375
You, um...
737
00:26:38,375 --> 00:26:40,959
you didn't call me back,
and I think we should talk.
738
00:26:41,041 --> 00:26:44,041
Uh, y-yeah,
we totally should, uh,
739
00:26:44,125 --> 00:26:46,208
but tonight is not good for me.
740
00:26:46,208 --> 00:26:47,959
I, uh...
741
00:26:48,041 --> 00:26:50,291
W-we have a thing.
742
00:26:53,333 --> 00:26:54,625
Right,
743
00:26:54,709 --> 00:26:56,834
and we're late for that thing.
744
00:26:56,834 --> 00:26:58,792
Yeah.
745
00:26:58,792 --> 00:26:59,875
Reservations.
Our favorite restaurant.
746
00:26:59,959 --> 00:27:01,125
Sushi restaurant.
747
00:27:01,125 --> 00:27:04,208
Chef Koji
keeps the hand rolls coming.
748
00:27:05,333 --> 00:27:06,917
They are... good.
749
00:27:06,917 --> 00:27:08,125
Mm-hmm.
750
00:27:08,125 --> 00:27:10,041
And then after,
751
00:27:10,125 --> 00:27:12,875
we go to the overlook,
752
00:27:12,959 --> 00:27:14,417
and drink some wine,
753
00:27:14,417 --> 00:27:16,667
and look out over the city,
754
00:27:16,667 --> 00:27:19,291
and plot out our lives.
755
00:27:22,500 --> 00:27:23,500
Yup, that's us.
756
00:27:23,500 --> 00:27:25,166
Every Thursday night.
757
00:27:27,291 --> 00:27:28,917
Super fun.
758
00:27:28,917 --> 00:27:30,041
You bet.
759
00:27:30,125 --> 00:27:31,959
Right...
760
00:27:32,041 --> 00:27:34,000
Okay, um...
761
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:35,709
So, you'll call me
to set up a time?
762
00:27:35,709 --> 00:27:37,250
Yeah, totally, um...
763
00:27:37,250 --> 00:27:39,458
Bye.
764
00:27:51,417 --> 00:27:53,959
You want to talk about it?
765
00:27:54,041 --> 00:27:55,125
No.
766
00:27:55,125 --> 00:27:56,333
Ah-hah.
767
00:27:56,417 --> 00:27:59,417
Invisible teacher-client line, huh?
768
00:27:59,417 --> 00:28:01,500
But I am kind of involved now,
769
00:28:01,500 --> 00:28:03,959
if you did
want to talk about it.
770
00:28:04,041 --> 00:28:05,875
I promise
I wouldn't tell anybody.
771
00:28:07,041 --> 00:28:08,500
That was my ex-husband.
772
00:28:08,500 --> 00:28:09,709
I sort of assumed.
773
00:28:09,709 --> 00:28:10,959
Hmm, well, you know
what they say
774
00:28:11,041 --> 00:28:12,333
about people who assume...
775
00:28:12,417 --> 00:28:13,583
They're very charming.
776
00:28:15,834 --> 00:28:17,458
So, are you going to call him?
777
00:28:17,542 --> 00:28:19,166
No.
778
00:28:19,250 --> 00:28:20,625
Look, I know
we don't get to closure
779
00:28:20,709 --> 00:28:21,834
until, like, week six,
780
00:28:21,834 --> 00:28:24,417
but maybe
that's why he was here?
781
00:28:24,417 --> 00:28:26,250
I don't need closure.
782
00:28:26,250 --> 00:28:28,000
Oh, come on, you tell
everybody in your classes
783
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,041
to do these things,
784
00:28:29,125 --> 00:28:30,208
but you don't
believe it yourself?
785
00:28:30,208 --> 00:28:31,750
No, that's not what...
786
00:28:31,834 --> 00:28:33,834
Look, he doesn't get
to just leave
787
00:28:33,834 --> 00:28:34,709
without saying a word,
788
00:28:34,709 --> 00:28:36,583
and show back up out of...
789
00:28:36,667 --> 00:28:37,959
What were you talking about,
790
00:28:38,041 --> 00:28:40,041
because that stuff
was very specific.
791
00:28:40,125 --> 00:28:44,667
Uh, I was just...
mentioning my favorite place.
792
00:28:44,667 --> 00:28:45,500
I know what you're doing.
793
00:28:45,500 --> 00:28:46,792
What am I doing?
794
00:28:46,792 --> 00:28:48,083
Well, you're turning it
back around on me,
795
00:28:48,083 --> 00:28:49,583
when the moment
was most definitely about you.
796
00:28:49,667 --> 00:28:50,834
Yeah,
but you made it about you
797
00:28:50,834 --> 00:28:52,959
when you started getting
super descriptive.
798
00:28:53,041 --> 00:28:54,500
It was hypothetical.
799
00:28:54,500 --> 00:28:56,041
Was it, though?
800
00:28:56,125 --> 00:28:57,208
Yeah.
801
00:28:57,208 --> 00:28:59,125
Yeah, it was...
802
00:28:59,125 --> 00:29:01,667
I would be happy to do that
in real life sometime,
803
00:29:01,667 --> 00:29:02,667
if you're game.
804
00:29:05,333 --> 00:29:08,166
I have to go prep a class
that starts tomorrow,
805
00:29:08,250 --> 00:29:10,625
but thank you very much
806
00:29:10,709 --> 00:29:11,458
for your help,
807
00:29:11,542 --> 00:29:12,709
Ben.
808
00:29:20,917 --> 00:29:22,959
Tough love, but then
I leave out the love part,
809
00:29:23,041 --> 00:29:24,333
because you can't go too easy
on your clients,
810
00:29:24,417 --> 00:29:25,750
or they never learn.
811
00:29:25,834 --> 00:29:28,458
What we're looking for
in our new instructor, Simon,
812
00:29:28,542 --> 00:29:30,208
is someone
who can approach things
813
00:29:30,208 --> 00:29:32,083
from a place of kindness.
814
00:29:32,083 --> 00:29:34,417
Kindness can be mistaken
for weakness,
815
00:29:34,417 --> 00:29:36,375
and I'm not weak.
816
00:29:37,959 --> 00:29:40,208
There's certainly
no question about that.
817
00:29:48,875 --> 00:29:49,834
Well, they can't be all good.
818
00:29:49,834 --> 00:29:51,417
What's that?
819
00:29:51,417 --> 00:29:53,333
47 five-star reviews.
820
00:29:53,417 --> 00:29:55,500
Well, you know people are able
to get those things removed
821
00:29:55,500 --> 00:29:56,709
when they're
particularly scathing.
822
00:29:56,709 --> 00:29:57,750
Yeah.
823
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,208
Miranda did say one thing
824
00:30:00,208 --> 00:30:02,458
that was sort of cryptic
the other night.
825
00:30:02,542 --> 00:30:05,333
Almost as if she doesn't believe
in the things that she's doing,
826
00:30:05,417 --> 00:30:07,041
or follow them herself.
827
00:30:07,125 --> 00:30:10,709
Hmm, sounds like something
worth looking into.
828
00:30:10,709 --> 00:30:12,166
I have a meeting in the morning,
829
00:30:12,250 --> 00:30:13,625
so do you mind covering
the feature department meeting
830
00:30:13,709 --> 00:30:15,000
till I get there?
831
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,583
Yeah, for sure, I can do that.
832
00:30:16,667 --> 00:30:18,417
It'll be good practice for you.
833
00:30:18,417 --> 00:30:20,959
You know, for the future.
834
00:30:27,959 --> 00:30:29,875
Welcome to week two.
835
00:30:29,959 --> 00:30:30,959
Endurance.
836
00:30:31,041 --> 00:30:34,417
I hated this week last time.
837
00:30:34,417 --> 00:30:35,625
And squats.
838
00:30:38,125 --> 00:30:39,625
I mean,
it's not like I wasn't warned--
839
00:30:39,709 --> 00:30:41,291
by Misty,
840
00:30:41,375 --> 00:30:43,959
my guy friends...
841
00:30:44,041 --> 00:30:45,333
even my mom--
842
00:30:45,417 --> 00:30:47,917
but she hates everyone,
so I can't really count her.
843
00:30:47,917 --> 00:30:49,375
I get it, Bink.
844
00:30:49,375 --> 00:30:50,875
My dog hated Darren.
845
00:30:50,959 --> 00:30:52,166
That should've been
my first sign.
846
00:30:52,250 --> 00:30:53,709
Dogs know, Kim.
847
00:30:53,709 --> 00:30:54,750
Dogs know.
848
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,500
I should have, too.
849
00:30:57,500 --> 00:30:59,125
I feel like such an idiot.
850
00:30:59,125 --> 00:31:01,917
But there was this undeniable
connection, you know?
851
00:31:01,917 --> 00:31:03,208
Mm-hmm.
852
00:31:03,208 --> 00:31:05,291
She got me in a way
that no one else ever has.
853
00:31:05,375 --> 00:31:07,417
And you're good.
854
00:31:07,417 --> 00:31:11,208
Somebody else will get you
like that again one day, Bink.
855
00:31:11,208 --> 00:31:13,583
In relationships,
we see what we want to see.
856
00:31:13,667 --> 00:31:15,750
This was a lesson
you needed to learn on your own,
857
00:31:15,834 --> 00:31:16,792
and you did.
858
00:31:19,542 --> 00:31:21,208
Okay, jumping jacks, people!
This is endurance!
859
00:31:21,208 --> 00:31:22,375
Come on, come on, come on!
860
00:31:26,542 --> 00:31:28,458
Like a boss, Kim!
861
00:31:30,083 --> 00:31:30,959
Good job!
862
00:31:32,125 --> 00:31:33,208
I don't understand
863
00:31:33,208 --> 00:31:34,583
how this is supposed
864
00:31:34,667 --> 00:31:35,792
to help somebody
get over a breakup.
865
00:31:35,792 --> 00:31:37,625
Challenging yourself
866
00:31:37,709 --> 00:31:40,208
at a point where your confidence
may be depleted
867
00:31:40,208 --> 00:31:41,583
can make you feel powerful.
868
00:31:43,667 --> 00:31:47,333
So I went bungee jumping
this weekend.
869
00:31:47,417 --> 00:31:49,250
I wanted to face my fear,
870
00:31:49,250 --> 00:31:50,542
and it was terrifying--
871
00:31:50,542 --> 00:31:51,959
but in a good way.
872
00:31:53,166 --> 00:31:54,166
She used one of the bad words.
873
00:31:54,250 --> 00:31:56,041
Never mind him.
Go on, Helen.
874
00:31:57,250 --> 00:31:58,333
Well, it was either that,
875
00:31:58,417 --> 00:32:00,375
or call Roger,
876
00:32:00,375 --> 00:32:05,250
so I opted for diving
head first toward the concrete
877
00:32:05,250 --> 00:32:08,166
and praying that the ropes hold.
878
00:32:08,250 --> 00:32:10,959
Well, I'm glad you chose
the safe option.
879
00:32:11,041 --> 00:32:12,417
I wanted to feel alive,
880
00:32:12,417 --> 00:32:15,792
which I really actually
haven't felt since my divorce.
881
00:32:17,041 --> 00:32:19,208
And now
everything looks different.
882
00:32:19,208 --> 00:32:20,375
I feel different.
883
00:32:20,375 --> 00:32:21,375
Whoo!
884
00:32:22,917 --> 00:32:24,333
You're really inspiring, Helen.
885
00:32:24,417 --> 00:32:25,667
I am?
886
00:32:27,125 --> 00:32:28,709
Maybe I'm not so wrong.
You should add a fear week.
887
00:32:28,709 --> 00:32:29,750
Maybe I should,
888
00:32:29,834 --> 00:32:30,917
but I would call it
transcendence.
889
00:32:32,291 --> 00:32:33,834
Good job!
890
00:32:33,834 --> 00:32:37,375
Remember, in this life,
you are not alone.
891
00:32:37,375 --> 00:32:40,083
You have a support system.
892
00:32:40,083 --> 00:32:43,041
We'll get more into it during
the Trust and Teamwork week,
893
00:32:43,125 --> 00:32:45,417
but lean on each other, here.
894
00:32:45,417 --> 00:32:46,500
Your turn.
895
00:32:46,500 --> 00:32:48,875
Get across that beam.
896
00:32:48,959 --> 00:32:50,083
You're so pushy.
897
00:32:50,083 --> 00:32:51,125
Please.
898
00:32:52,375 --> 00:32:53,875
Whoo.
899
00:32:53,959 --> 00:32:56,166
Look at that course.
900
00:32:56,250 --> 00:32:57,208
All of you made it.
901
00:32:57,208 --> 00:33:00,291
Not a single one of you quit.
902
00:33:00,375 --> 00:33:01,917
Next time your confidence
takes a hit,
903
00:33:01,917 --> 00:33:03,166
I want you to remember that,
904
00:33:03,250 --> 00:33:04,750
and I want you to relish it.
905
00:33:06,458 --> 00:33:07,458
Well done.
906
00:33:07,542 --> 00:33:08,417
Helen, how are you feeling?
907
00:33:08,417 --> 00:33:09,667
Oh, yeah.
908
00:33:35,709 --> 00:33:37,291
Huh.
909
00:33:37,375 --> 00:33:39,375
Looks like I need to find myself
an end-of-the-week ritual, too.
910
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:45,875
And my sister's yoga teacher
is selling her studio
911
00:33:45,959 --> 00:33:47,417
when she moves
at the end of the summer.
912
00:33:48,750 --> 00:33:49,959
It could be the place.
913
00:33:50,041 --> 00:33:52,000
I mean, if new sign-ups
continue like this,
914
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,750
it's a definite possibility.
915
00:33:55,208 --> 00:33:57,959
So this candidate
has two degrees.
916
00:33:58,041 --> 00:34:00,375
Early childhood education
from NYU
917
00:34:00,375 --> 00:34:02,667
and psychology
from Carnegie Mellon.
918
00:34:02,667 --> 00:34:03,917
Sounds good,
919
00:34:03,917 --> 00:34:06,375
but I know somebody
with an MBA from Columbia
920
00:34:06,375 --> 00:34:07,625
who would be perfect.
921
00:34:07,709 --> 00:34:08,792
This is our business, Miranda.
922
00:34:08,792 --> 00:34:10,125
It's too risky.
923
00:34:11,667 --> 00:34:13,834
Chloe, you've been with me
every step of the way,
924
00:34:13,834 --> 00:34:15,208
since Dex left.
925
00:34:15,208 --> 00:34:18,083
You know this program
better than me, probably.
926
00:34:18,083 --> 00:34:20,250
I just don't have your...
927
00:34:20,250 --> 00:34:21,250
vitality.
928
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:23,959
Please, between the two of us,
929
00:34:24,041 --> 00:34:25,583
you are the most...
930
00:34:25,667 --> 00:34:27,208
vitalitous.
931
00:34:27,208 --> 00:34:28,041
That is not a word.
932
00:34:29,917 --> 00:34:31,583
It could be, in Canada.
933
00:34:33,417 --> 00:34:34,333
There she is.
934
00:34:45,166 --> 00:34:46,166
You?
935
00:34:46,250 --> 00:34:48,041
Me? You?
936
00:34:48,125 --> 00:34:49,792
You climb here?
I climb here.
937
00:34:49,792 --> 00:34:51,375
Like, all the time.
938
00:34:51,375 --> 00:34:52,542
Funny, I've never seen you.
939
00:34:52,542 --> 00:34:54,959
I was thinking about
the obstacle course.
940
00:34:55,041 --> 00:34:58,458
It was empowering.
941
00:34:58,542 --> 00:35:00,333
Didn't want to lose
the momentum.
942
00:35:00,417 --> 00:35:01,709
Good.
943
00:35:01,709 --> 00:35:03,291
Want to race to the top?
944
00:35:03,375 --> 00:35:06,041
I'm more of a slow and steady
kind of climber.
945
00:35:06,125 --> 00:35:07,250
I'm more of
946
00:35:07,250 --> 00:35:08,208
a challenge yourself,
beat your best time
947
00:35:08,208 --> 00:35:09,709
kinda climber.
948
00:35:09,709 --> 00:35:11,041
Kind of figured.
949
00:35:11,125 --> 00:35:12,417
Always on the move, right?
950
00:35:12,417 --> 00:35:14,333
Classes by day,
climbing walls by night?
951
00:35:14,417 --> 00:35:16,125
Uh...
952
00:35:16,125 --> 00:35:17,667
it's how I manage my stress,
I guess.
953
00:35:17,667 --> 00:35:18,834
That's fine,
954
00:35:18,834 --> 00:35:20,583
as long as it's not
an avoidance tactic.
955
00:35:21,959 --> 00:35:23,000
I manage mine by sitting still.
956
00:35:26,291 --> 00:35:27,959
You know, your class is a lot
more expensive than you think.
957
00:35:28,041 --> 00:35:30,083
I've had to go
to the chiropractor three times
958
00:35:30,083 --> 00:35:31,750
since I started--my back.
959
00:35:31,834 --> 00:35:34,458
My class is very affordable.
960
00:35:34,542 --> 00:35:35,583
And I'm sorry about your back.
961
00:35:37,166 --> 00:35:38,041
What about your heart?
962
00:35:40,375 --> 00:35:41,208
Strong and sturdy.
963
00:35:43,041 --> 00:35:44,667
Okay. Not ready
to talk about your stuff yet.
964
00:35:44,667 --> 00:35:46,417
That's fine.
965
00:35:46,417 --> 00:35:47,417
We'll work on it.
966
00:35:49,750 --> 00:35:50,959
I don't have stuff.
967
00:36:01,875 --> 00:36:02,709
I'm getting there.
968
00:36:05,333 --> 00:36:06,250
Whoa!
969
00:36:11,667 --> 00:36:12,500
You done already?
970
00:36:15,709 --> 00:36:16,583
Okay.
971
00:36:17,875 --> 00:36:18,750
You want to switch walls?
972
00:36:18,834 --> 00:36:20,375
Yeah, sure.
973
00:36:20,375 --> 00:36:21,250
Can I get some water first?
974
00:36:21,250 --> 00:36:22,542
Sure.
975
00:36:23,500 --> 00:36:24,458
So boot camp?
976
00:36:24,542 --> 00:36:25,583
Where did that come from?
977
00:36:26,834 --> 00:36:28,667
Necessity is the mother of invention.
978
00:36:28,667 --> 00:36:29,709
Necessity for you?
979
00:36:30,875 --> 00:36:31,875
You're a Ph.D.
980
00:36:31,959 --> 00:36:33,458
You had to be making
a nice living.
981
00:36:35,125 --> 00:36:36,458
It's never
about the money for me.
982
00:36:36,542 --> 00:36:38,000
It says on your website
983
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:42,875
that you have 417 healed hearts
under your belt.
984
00:36:42,959 --> 00:36:44,375
How many unhealed?
985
00:36:44,375 --> 00:36:46,375
You know, looking for problems
where none exist
986
00:36:46,375 --> 00:36:47,458
is a very unhealthy outlook.
987
00:36:49,041 --> 00:36:51,166
Or focusing on the negative
from time to time
988
00:36:51,250 --> 00:36:52,333
is how we improve.
989
00:36:52,417 --> 00:36:54,250
Grow.
990
00:36:54,250 --> 00:36:55,667
Which I understand
is sort of your thing.
991
00:36:56,959 --> 00:36:59,166
See, I pay attention in class.
992
00:37:01,208 --> 00:37:02,792
Well, sometimes.
993
00:37:02,792 --> 00:37:04,125
But not in my boot camp.
994
00:37:04,125 --> 00:37:08,083
Look, this is how I healed
after a broken heart,
995
00:37:08,083 --> 00:37:09,125
so now it's how I help others.
996
00:37:09,125 --> 00:37:11,500
Ah, so the business
was your rebound?
997
00:37:13,250 --> 00:37:15,208
What, is this a workout
or an interrogation?
998
00:37:17,166 --> 00:37:18,625
I'm placing my trust in you,
999
00:37:18,709 --> 00:37:20,000
and I just...
1000
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,166
I kind of want to understand
what I should.
1001
00:37:22,250 --> 00:37:23,875
Because it works.
1002
00:37:25,333 --> 00:37:26,208
You'll see.
1003
00:37:26,208 --> 00:37:27,542
Okay.
1004
00:37:29,041 --> 00:37:30,291
As long as you're not diving
into other people's problems
1005
00:37:30,375 --> 00:37:32,041
so you don't have to deal
with your own.
1006
00:37:32,125 --> 00:37:34,125
Is that what you think,
Dr. Freud?
1007
00:37:35,583 --> 00:37:36,792
Go. You can have
a head start this time
1008
00:37:36,792 --> 00:37:38,417
so it's not
so embarrassing for you.
1009
00:37:38,417 --> 00:37:40,291
Right. Here we go again.
1010
00:37:41,875 --> 00:37:42,750
Time's up.
1011
00:37:44,208 --> 00:37:45,542
Okay...
1012
00:37:47,458 --> 00:37:48,875
That's...
1013
00:37:48,959 --> 00:37:50,417
as far as I go.
1014
00:37:53,500 --> 00:37:54,917
- You're doing great.
- I know.
1015
00:37:56,166 --> 00:37:57,333
I'm on to you, you know.
1016
00:37:58,667 --> 00:37:59,959
You can tell me the truth.
1017
00:38:01,375 --> 00:38:02,750
This was your first time,
wasn't it?
1018
00:38:02,834 --> 00:38:04,208
Mm-hmm.
1019
00:38:04,208 --> 00:38:05,875
You got me.
1020
00:38:07,625 --> 00:38:08,875
As you can see,
1021
00:38:08,959 --> 00:38:11,208
I'm not so good
at being not so good at things.
1022
00:38:11,208 --> 00:38:12,834
That's why you need
to challenge yourself,
1023
00:38:12,834 --> 00:38:14,500
so that you're not
in your head so much.
1024
00:38:16,583 --> 00:38:18,917
Well, I'm a chronic
over-thinker.
1025
00:38:20,583 --> 00:38:22,709
It's hard for me
to just turn it off.
1026
00:38:23,709 --> 00:38:24,750
There he is.
1027
00:38:24,834 --> 00:38:26,250
I was waiting for that guy
to get here.
1028
00:38:26,250 --> 00:38:27,583
What guy?
1029
00:38:27,667 --> 00:38:29,875
Valet stand Ben.
1030
00:38:29,959 --> 00:38:30,959
The one who thought
1031
00:38:31,041 --> 00:38:31,959
he was never
going to see me again,
1032
00:38:32,041 --> 00:38:33,291
so he was completely real.
1033
00:38:34,667 --> 00:38:36,959
Well, I feel the same way
about valet stand Miranda.
1034
00:38:37,041 --> 00:38:38,166
She just listened.
1035
00:38:38,250 --> 00:38:40,333
She didn't try
to analyze or fix me.
1036
00:38:40,417 --> 00:38:41,667
But that's exactly
1037
00:38:41,667 --> 00:38:43,500
what you're paying
Boot Camp Miranda to do, so.
1038
00:38:44,625 --> 00:38:45,750
Not tonight.
1039
00:38:45,834 --> 00:38:47,041
Tonight, we're just
a couple of climbers.
1040
00:38:47,125 --> 00:38:50,166
One very accomplished climber.
1041
00:38:50,250 --> 00:38:51,709
One who's just happy
he didn't break any bones.
1042
00:38:54,542 --> 00:38:55,750
The night I met you...
1043
00:38:55,834 --> 00:38:57,417
I think Serena did me a favor.
1044
00:39:00,417 --> 00:39:01,417
Did she?
1045
00:39:01,417 --> 00:39:02,625
Yeah.
1046
00:39:02,709 --> 00:39:04,375
I was always talking about
1047
00:39:04,375 --> 00:39:06,500
"maybe almost" taking things
to the next level.
1048
00:39:07,750 --> 00:39:09,125
Jen's problem with me.
1049
00:39:09,125 --> 00:39:11,542
I could never get past
"maybe almost."
1050
00:39:15,417 --> 00:39:16,458
What? Why are you
smirking at me?
1051
00:39:16,542 --> 00:39:19,083
It's not a smirk.
1052
00:39:19,083 --> 00:39:20,333
This is exactly
where you should be
1053
00:39:20,417 --> 00:39:21,375
at this point of the program.
1054
00:39:22,792 --> 00:39:23,959
The letting-go stage.
1055
00:39:26,667 --> 00:39:28,291
That means it's working.
1056
00:40:04,917 --> 00:40:06,583
Well, everyone,
welcome to week three.
1057
00:40:06,667 --> 00:40:07,542
Teamwork.
1058
00:40:08,583 --> 00:40:10,125
After a breakup,
1059
00:40:10,125 --> 00:40:12,333
we can feel like
our trust is shattered
1060
00:40:12,417 --> 00:40:13,500
and that we're alone,
1061
00:40:13,500 --> 00:40:14,667
but we're not.
1062
00:40:15,917 --> 00:40:17,709
We can rely on other people
1063
00:40:17,709 --> 00:40:19,917
to help us through anything.
1064
00:40:19,917 --> 00:40:23,291
So, today,
we are going to work together--
1065
00:40:23,375 --> 00:40:25,125
or we are all going to die!
1066
00:40:26,667 --> 00:40:28,333
There is a bomb in this room
1067
00:40:28,417 --> 00:40:30,750
that is big enough
to destroy the entire city,
1068
00:40:30,834 --> 00:40:33,166
and we have 60 minutes
to dismantle it.
1069
00:40:33,250 --> 00:40:34,333
Start the clock!
1070
00:40:35,959 --> 00:40:38,125
The fate of the people
rests in our collective hands.
1071
00:40:38,125 --> 00:40:39,375
Do not let them down.
1072
00:40:39,375 --> 00:40:40,500
Start.
1073
00:40:40,500 --> 00:40:41,583
Seriously, come on.
There's a bomb!
1074
00:40:46,542 --> 00:40:49,709
Okay... One, two...
1075
00:40:49,709 --> 00:40:50,750
five.
1076
00:40:50,834 --> 00:40:52,166
- Come on.
- Four...
1077
00:40:52,250 --> 00:40:53,041
I'm trying to get this right.
1078
00:40:53,125 --> 00:40:55,166
It's not right!
1079
00:40:55,250 --> 00:40:57,041
Don't yell at your partner.
Lean on them.
1080
00:40:57,125 --> 00:40:58,792
Don't make me do math!
1081
00:40:58,792 --> 00:41:00,208
Okay, switch places.
1082
00:41:00,208 --> 00:41:01,166
- Okay.
- Okay.
1083
00:41:02,959 --> 00:41:05,375
In relationships,
1084
00:41:05,375 --> 00:41:06,834
just as in life,
1085
00:41:06,834 --> 00:41:08,667
if something's not working,
we try a different tactic.
1086
00:41:13,625 --> 00:41:14,542
Ben, how you doing?
1087
00:41:14,542 --> 00:41:16,041
Uh...
1088
00:41:17,542 --> 00:41:18,500
Pretty good, actually.
1089
00:41:18,500 --> 00:41:20,125
You want to, uh...
1090
00:41:20,125 --> 00:41:21,917
you want to press
the big red button?
1091
00:41:21,917 --> 00:41:23,834
Just don't blow up the city.
1092
00:41:30,500 --> 00:41:31,917
Uh...
1093
00:41:31,917 --> 00:41:33,041
cool.
1094
00:41:33,125 --> 00:41:34,375
Secret passage.
1095
00:41:34,375 --> 00:41:35,250
There's no door knob.
1096
00:41:38,250 --> 00:41:39,500
- Yikes.
- Yeah.
1097
00:41:42,375 --> 00:41:44,250
Um...
1098
00:41:44,250 --> 00:41:45,792
There's no door knob.
1099
00:41:45,792 --> 00:41:47,083
Your teammates have encroached
1100
00:41:47,083 --> 00:41:48,291
on enemy territory
1101
00:41:48,375 --> 00:41:49,417
and have been captured.
1102
00:41:49,417 --> 00:41:50,792
You must rescue them
1103
00:41:50,792 --> 00:41:52,208
in order to receive
your next clue.
1104
00:41:54,458 --> 00:41:56,000
Hang in there, Miranda,
we'll save you!
1105
00:41:58,041 --> 00:41:59,834
And my brother.
1106
00:41:59,834 --> 00:42:01,208
Yeah. Sure, whatever.
1107
00:42:02,583 --> 00:42:03,667
Tell my mother
I love her.
1108
00:42:06,041 --> 00:42:07,458
I'm not a big fan
of small spaces.
1109
00:42:07,542 --> 00:42:11,417
I have never been a big fan
of small spaces.
1110
00:42:11,417 --> 00:42:12,959
Can...
1111
00:42:15,625 --> 00:42:16,959
Okay, um...
1112
00:42:19,375 --> 00:42:21,291
Hey, hey, are you okay?
1113
00:42:21,375 --> 00:42:22,917
Yeah.
1114
00:42:22,917 --> 00:42:24,959
I'm-I'm totally not panicking.
1115
00:42:25,041 --> 00:42:26,458
Except for the part
1116
00:42:26,542 --> 00:42:28,792
where I'm kind of
a little bit panicking.
1117
00:42:28,792 --> 00:42:30,041
Can you just ask me a question
1118
00:42:30,125 --> 00:42:32,000
or distract me
or something, please?
1119
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:33,291
Yeah. Yeah.
1120
00:42:35,291 --> 00:42:36,291
Uh...
1121
00:42:36,375 --> 00:42:37,291
favorite ice cream?
1122
00:42:37,375 --> 00:42:38,375
Vanilla.
1123
00:42:38,375 --> 00:42:40,125
Come on, that's so boring.
1124
00:42:40,125 --> 00:42:41,166
What's yours?
1125
00:42:41,250 --> 00:42:42,709
Chocolate chip cookie dough.
1126
00:42:42,709 --> 00:42:44,458
Way too complicated.
I'm a purist.
1127
00:42:46,542 --> 00:42:49,000
We're working on it, you guys!
Making real good progress here.
1128
00:42:50,166 --> 00:42:51,000
No, we're not!
1129
00:42:52,542 --> 00:42:54,750
I know sitting still is not
your favorite activity.
1130
00:42:54,834 --> 00:42:57,458
It's actually right above
being trapped in small spaces,
1131
00:42:57,542 --> 00:42:58,834
so I'm really killing it here.
1132
00:42:58,834 --> 00:43:00,083
Oh, good.
1133
00:43:01,667 --> 00:43:03,250
Oh, can you not tell anyone
out there about this, please?
1134
00:43:03,250 --> 00:43:04,583
Because I do need to maintain
1135
00:43:04,667 --> 00:43:06,542
some sort of
street cred with them.
1136
00:43:08,083 --> 00:43:10,041
I'm not so great
at letting my guard down.
1137
00:43:11,250 --> 00:43:13,000
Ah, see,
but by telling me that,
1138
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,458
that's exactly
what you're doing.
1139
00:43:15,625 --> 00:43:16,709
Very astute.
1140
00:43:16,709 --> 00:43:18,250
Maybe you should be
teaching this class.
1141
00:43:18,250 --> 00:43:19,959
I'm just trying
to return the favor.
1142
00:43:21,750 --> 00:43:23,166
You take care of everybody else.
1143
00:43:24,667 --> 00:43:25,959
You know...
1144
00:43:26,041 --> 00:43:27,917
you could let
your guard down, too.
1145
00:43:27,917 --> 00:43:29,625
See, that's one of
my least favorite activities--
1146
00:43:29,709 --> 00:43:32,250
right up there with...
1147
00:43:32,250 --> 00:43:34,458
failing at
pretty much anything,
1148
00:43:34,542 --> 00:43:36,583
and getting attacked by a shark.
1149
00:43:36,667 --> 00:43:37,750
Well, the shark thing's normal.
1150
00:43:39,375 --> 00:43:40,792
And you don't really strike me
as the type who fails at much.
1151
00:43:40,792 --> 00:43:42,083
See, that's the thing,
1152
00:43:42,083 --> 00:43:45,166
I work really hard
to not fail at much.
1153
00:43:45,250 --> 00:43:46,417
In my business life, at least.
1154
00:43:47,834 --> 00:43:49,500
Hmm. And in your relationships?
1155
00:43:52,083 --> 00:43:55,083
Suppose I could've
paid those equal attention.
1156
00:43:56,667 --> 00:43:58,208
Yeah...
1157
00:43:58,208 --> 00:43:59,625
same.
1158
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:04,917
Oh, uh...
1159
00:44:04,917 --> 00:44:05,917
everyone's dead.
1160
00:44:05,917 --> 00:44:07,041
Great!
1161
00:44:10,542 --> 00:44:11,917
Well, you can't win 'em all,
1162
00:44:11,917 --> 00:44:12,917
but we worked together,
1163
00:44:12,917 --> 00:44:13,917
we enjoyed the journey,
1164
00:44:13,917 --> 00:44:15,667
and that is the lesson.
1165
00:44:16,625 --> 00:44:18,375
So... smile.
1166
00:44:19,834 --> 00:44:21,542
Great. Thank you.
1167
00:44:21,542 --> 00:44:23,000
Get home safe.
I'll see you all next week.
1168
00:44:24,208 --> 00:44:25,208
Hey...
1169
00:44:25,208 --> 00:44:26,125
I had a question.
1170
00:44:26,125 --> 00:44:27,583
Shoot.
1171
00:44:27,667 --> 00:44:28,542
About the letter,
1172
00:44:28,542 --> 00:44:29,875
at the end,
1173
00:44:29,959 --> 00:44:31,375
where we burn it
or send it or whatever.
1174
00:44:32,667 --> 00:44:33,750
Are there rules there,
1175
00:44:33,834 --> 00:44:35,291
or can we change who it's for?
1176
00:44:35,375 --> 00:44:36,417
I mean, you're getting
a little ahead of yourself,
1177
00:44:36,417 --> 00:44:37,458
that's week six,
1178
00:44:37,542 --> 00:44:39,208
but you'll be writing it
1179
00:44:39,208 --> 00:44:41,000
to the person you need
to let go of the most.
1180
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,166
Yeah.
1181
00:44:42,250 --> 00:44:43,083
That's kind of what I thought.
1182
00:44:44,458 --> 00:44:45,375
Serena?
1183
00:44:49,208 --> 00:44:50,125
Kim tell you that?
1184
00:44:50,125 --> 00:44:51,083
You told me that.
1185
00:44:51,083 --> 00:44:52,417
At Rock Wall.
1186
00:44:52,417 --> 00:44:53,542
Freudian slip, maybe,
1187
00:44:53,542 --> 00:44:54,709
when you said Serena,
instead of Jen.
1188
00:44:56,083 --> 00:44:57,375
You're a really good listener.
1189
00:44:57,375 --> 00:44:58,458
That's--that's really annoying.
1190
00:44:58,542 --> 00:44:59,375
It's kind of the job.
1191
00:45:00,583 --> 00:45:01,458
Why the change?
1192
00:45:03,458 --> 00:45:05,583
You know...
1193
00:45:05,667 --> 00:45:08,750
because I was always just
toeing the line with Jen,
1194
00:45:08,834 --> 00:45:09,875
couldn't figure out
why I couldn't really commit.
1195
00:45:11,083 --> 00:45:12,291
Maybe because
1196
00:45:12,375 --> 00:45:14,041
you never really let go
of your one?
1197
00:45:16,500 --> 00:45:17,500
I'll see you next week.
1198
00:45:25,542 --> 00:45:27,709
Welcome to week four--
1199
00:45:27,709 --> 00:45:29,291
Connection.
1200
00:45:29,375 --> 00:45:30,583
This week is all about
1201
00:45:30,667 --> 00:45:33,959
getting back in touch
with our vulnerability.
1202
00:45:34,041 --> 00:45:36,500
And this here is a safe space
where you can feel that.
1203
00:45:36,500 --> 00:45:38,875
This was my favorite week
last go-around,
1204
00:45:38,959 --> 00:45:41,667
and I have to say,
I was pretty darn good at it.
1205
00:45:43,250 --> 00:45:44,458
This is Senora Cornejo.
1206
00:45:44,542 --> 00:45:46,792
She is a world champion
on the salsa circuit.
1207
00:45:46,792 --> 00:45:48,333
She's going to teach us
some moves today.
1208
00:45:48,417 --> 00:45:51,041
We are one short today
because Jess is out,
1209
00:45:51,125 --> 00:45:52,750
so, Bink,
I will be your partner.
1210
00:45:53,792 --> 00:45:55,667
Salsa is not only
a dance of love.
1211
00:45:55,667 --> 00:45:57,083
It's a dance of feeling.
1212
00:45:57,083 --> 00:45:59,291
So I want you
to be in your body,
1213
00:45:59,375 --> 00:46:01,041
and don't worry
about how you look,
1214
00:46:01,125 --> 00:46:03,250
just feel the music
with all of your being.
1215
00:46:03,250 --> 00:46:07,333
We're going to be doing
a very simple dance I created
1216
00:46:07,417 --> 00:46:09,667
called "La Vida Del Amor,"
"A Life of Love".
1217
00:46:09,667 --> 00:46:10,625
Is everybody ready?
1218
00:46:11,750 --> 00:46:13,500
I'm sorry.
1219
00:46:13,500 --> 00:46:14,792
This is weird.
1220
00:46:14,792 --> 00:46:17,333
I cannot be partnered
with my brother for this.
1221
00:46:17,417 --> 00:46:18,750
- Yeah.
- Let's switch.
1222
00:46:18,834 --> 00:46:20,625
I'll dance with you
and Ben can dance with Miranda.
1223
00:46:20,709 --> 00:46:21,750
Thank you.
1224
00:46:29,333 --> 00:46:30,834
Trust your partner.
1225
00:46:30,834 --> 00:46:33,083
Do not be afraid
to hold onto each other.
1226
00:46:35,542 --> 00:46:37,500
Dance is an unspoken language.
1227
00:46:37,500 --> 00:46:40,166
We say so much in silence
1228
00:46:40,250 --> 00:46:42,709
as we move, together,
to the music.
1229
00:46:45,500 --> 00:46:47,500
And step, two, three, four.
1230
00:46:47,500 --> 00:46:49,291
And back, two, three, four.
1231
00:46:49,375 --> 00:46:50,291
Twirl out,
1232
00:46:50,375 --> 00:46:52,000
twirl in...
1233
00:46:53,041 --> 00:46:54,083
- Oops, sorry.
- Sorry.
1234
00:46:54,083 --> 00:46:54,917
- I'm sorry.
- That's okay.
1235
00:46:59,542 --> 00:47:01,458
And step, two, three, four.
1236
00:47:01,542 --> 00:47:03,709
And back, two, three, four.
1237
00:47:03,709 --> 00:47:06,417
Twirl out, twirl in, and dip.
1238
00:47:06,417 --> 00:47:07,375
Try that again.
1239
00:47:07,375 --> 00:47:08,750
Okay.
1240
00:47:15,917 --> 00:47:18,041
And step, two, three, four.
1241
00:47:18,125 --> 00:47:20,166
And back, two, three, four.
1242
00:47:20,250 --> 00:47:21,875
Twirl out,
1243
00:47:21,959 --> 00:47:23,250
twirl in,
1244
00:47:23,250 --> 00:47:24,333
and dip.
1245
00:47:34,083 --> 00:47:35,959
Remember...
1246
00:47:36,041 --> 00:47:37,250
remember what it's like
1247
00:47:37,250 --> 00:47:39,500
to feel safe
in the arms of another person.
1248
00:47:40,583 --> 00:47:41,792
You get to have that again.
1249
00:47:44,166 --> 00:47:45,291
We all do.
1250
00:48:22,041 --> 00:48:22,959
Ben. Hi.
1251
00:48:23,041 --> 00:48:24,667
Hey.
1252
00:48:24,667 --> 00:48:26,083
I know this is
sort of outside of your realm,
1253
00:48:26,083 --> 00:48:27,500
but I need your help
with something,
1254
00:48:27,500 --> 00:48:28,959
and I don't think I'm equipped
to handle it alone.
1255
00:48:29,041 --> 00:48:30,166
What's going on?
1256
00:48:30,250 --> 00:48:31,417
It's Kim.
1257
00:48:31,417 --> 00:48:32,583
She wrote
her week-six letter early,
1258
00:48:32,667 --> 00:48:33,917
went to drop it off
to Darren today,
1259
00:48:33,917 --> 00:48:35,333
to show him that
she's doing fine without him,
1260
00:48:35,417 --> 00:48:36,375
and it did not go well.
1261
00:48:36,375 --> 00:48:38,125
Oh, no.
Where is she?
1262
00:48:38,125 --> 00:48:39,625
I'm meeting her at my place
in 10 minutes.
1263
00:48:39,709 --> 00:48:40,500
Can I text you the address?
1264
00:48:40,500 --> 00:48:42,000
Yeah.
1265
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:43,375
I'll be right there.
1266
00:48:46,291 --> 00:48:48,000
Weekend in Laguna?
Delete.
1267
00:48:49,625 --> 00:48:51,000
Epcot Center?
1268
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:51,917
Never happened.
1269
00:48:55,125 --> 00:48:57,208
Mom and Dad's
40th wedding anniversary.
1270
00:48:57,208 --> 00:48:59,083
Hey, don't delete them.
1271
00:48:59,083 --> 00:49:00,375
We'll photoshop him out.
1272
00:49:01,917 --> 00:49:03,000
Make George Clooney your date.
1273
00:49:04,834 --> 00:49:06,291
We have a really good
art department at the magazine.
1274
00:49:06,375 --> 00:49:08,417
Okay, but can Chris Pine
be my date?
1275
00:49:09,375 --> 00:49:10,375
Done.
1276
00:49:13,291 --> 00:49:14,208
I'm so stupid.
1277
00:49:15,709 --> 00:49:18,333
I saw his fiancée
and I burst into tears.
1278
00:49:18,417 --> 00:49:20,000
I didn't want to wait.
1279
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:21,166
I wanted him to know right now.
1280
00:49:22,500 --> 00:49:23,291
That I'm doing just fine.
1281
00:49:26,041 --> 00:49:28,375
But we send those letters
or we burn them for us.
1282
00:49:29,500 --> 00:49:30,375
Not for them.
1283
00:49:31,542 --> 00:49:32,834
I really thought I was okay.
1284
00:49:33,959 --> 00:49:35,458
Yeah.
1285
00:49:35,542 --> 00:49:37,333
Sometimes, it's so much easier
just to be angry at someone
1286
00:49:37,417 --> 00:49:38,333
than it is to forgive them.
1287
00:49:39,417 --> 00:49:40,667
Why is that?
1288
00:49:40,667 --> 00:49:43,125
I guess because
when somebody's wronged us,
1289
00:49:43,125 --> 00:49:44,500
we don't want them
to get away with it.
1290
00:49:44,500 --> 00:49:46,458
I mean, how's that fair?
Why do they get to be happy?
1291
00:49:46,542 --> 00:49:47,834
That's exactly how I feel.
1292
00:49:49,375 --> 00:49:51,375
But all that does
is steal our joy,
1293
00:49:51,375 --> 00:49:52,750
while they're out there,
living their lives,
1294
00:49:52,834 --> 00:49:53,959
none the wiser.
1295
00:49:55,458 --> 00:49:57,375
So don't let him have
that much power over you.
1296
00:49:57,375 --> 00:49:59,083
Don't let him steal your joy.
1297
00:50:01,125 --> 00:50:02,000
You're right.
1298
00:50:04,166 --> 00:50:06,834
And I have
a potential new client to meet.
1299
00:50:06,834 --> 00:50:08,291
So, I am going to go home,
1300
00:50:08,375 --> 00:50:09,792
clean myself up,
1301
00:50:09,792 --> 00:50:12,500
and continue being
hugely successful in my career.
1302
00:50:13,709 --> 00:50:14,583
Way better.
1303
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:23,917
Thank you.
1304
00:50:26,834 --> 00:50:28,458
That was
pretty great back there.
1305
00:50:28,542 --> 00:50:29,709
Thanks.
1306
00:50:29,709 --> 00:50:31,959
Empowerment can kind of be
a mirage at first.
1307
00:50:33,250 --> 00:50:34,792
It feels so good,
that you think your work's done,
1308
00:50:34,792 --> 00:50:35,875
but...
1309
00:50:35,959 --> 00:50:38,250
really, you're just
getting started.
1310
00:50:38,250 --> 00:50:39,542
It's a process.
1311
00:50:39,542 --> 00:50:42,667
Kind of like two steps forward,
10 steps back.
1312
00:50:42,667 --> 00:50:44,125
Well, how many steps
does it usually take?
1313
00:50:44,125 --> 00:50:45,417
Is this, like,
1314
00:50:45,417 --> 00:50:46,875
a "I need to buy
new running shoes" kind of thing
1315
00:50:46,959 --> 00:50:49,000
or a flip-flop level distance?
1316
00:50:50,250 --> 00:50:51,583
Everybody's different.
1317
00:50:52,834 --> 00:50:53,583
How many steps
did it take for you?
1318
00:50:56,375 --> 00:50:58,500
I will let you know
when I get there.
1319
00:51:00,291 --> 00:51:02,750
Bit of a work in progress?
1320
00:51:02,834 --> 00:51:03,667
Something like that.
1321
00:51:08,417 --> 00:51:09,875
We started with one class
1322
00:51:09,959 --> 00:51:12,834
and now we have five
that run simultaneously.
1323
00:51:12,834 --> 00:51:14,333
Miranda covers them all,
1324
00:51:14,417 --> 00:51:16,875
so you can see
why we need a new instructor,
1325
00:51:16,959 --> 00:51:17,959
especially now that
there's interest
1326
00:51:18,041 --> 00:51:19,917
in expanding outside Portland.
1327
00:51:19,917 --> 00:51:21,625
But Miranda will go over
1328
00:51:21,709 --> 00:51:23,166
the nuts and bolts with you
when she gets here.
1329
00:51:23,250 --> 00:51:25,083
Hmm.
1330
00:51:25,083 --> 00:51:27,208
And there's
our illustrious leader now.
1331
00:51:27,208 --> 00:51:28,667
Excuse me for a moment.
1332
00:51:30,583 --> 00:51:31,542
Hey.
1333
00:51:31,542 --> 00:51:33,625
Dex called again.
1334
00:51:33,709 --> 00:51:34,834
He won't stop calling.
1335
00:51:34,834 --> 00:51:35,959
He started talking to me
1336
00:51:36,041 --> 00:51:37,625
about how we were
all such good friends,
1337
00:51:37,709 --> 00:51:38,583
playing on my sympathies.
1338
00:51:38,667 --> 00:51:39,709
What did you say?
1339
00:51:39,709 --> 00:51:40,875
All I could say.
1340
00:51:40,959 --> 00:51:42,500
That I would relay
the message to you.
1341
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:45,792
I don't think
he's going to let up.
1342
00:51:45,792 --> 00:51:46,875
What are you going to do?
1343
00:51:49,291 --> 00:51:50,291
I don't know.
1344
00:51:50,375 --> 00:51:51,542
Maybe you should
hear him out.
1345
00:51:53,041 --> 00:51:55,041
Once you step out
of your comfort zone,
1346
00:51:55,125 --> 00:51:56,250
it becomes a lot easier.
1347
00:51:58,458 --> 00:52:00,625
And you say you're not ready
to run a class.
1348
00:52:02,959 --> 00:52:04,041
He's waiting.
1349
00:52:06,458 --> 00:52:08,000
You did a good job
with that staff meeting.
1350
00:52:08,125 --> 00:52:09,041
You're a natural born leader.
1351
00:52:09,125 --> 00:52:10,041
You think so?
1352
00:52:10,125 --> 00:52:11,709
I do.
1353
00:52:11,709 --> 00:52:13,000
They're coming around
upstairs, too.
1354
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,583
I can be very convincing
when I want to be.
1355
00:52:15,667 --> 00:52:16,667
I appreciate that about you.
1356
00:52:17,917 --> 00:52:19,458
So how's the boot camp
piece coming?
1357
00:52:19,542 --> 00:52:20,500
Anything I can look at yet?
1358
00:52:20,500 --> 00:52:22,667
Still kind of
piecing it together,
1359
00:52:22,667 --> 00:52:26,375
compiling notes, research,
background, stuff like that.
1360
00:52:26,375 --> 00:52:27,542
Plus, there's still
1361
00:52:27,542 --> 00:52:28,750
a couple of weeks left
in the program.
1362
00:52:28,834 --> 00:52:30,375
I have to admit,
1363
00:52:30,375 --> 00:52:32,041
it's not at all what I thought
it was going to be like.
1364
00:52:32,125 --> 00:52:33,834
Uh-oh.
1365
00:52:33,834 --> 00:52:35,709
You're getting involved,
I can tell.
1366
00:52:35,709 --> 00:52:37,041
Are we going
to have to deprogram you?
1367
00:52:37,125 --> 00:52:38,625
Sometimes, the truth
can be ugly, you know?
1368
00:52:38,709 --> 00:52:39,875
It's not like that.
1369
00:52:41,333 --> 00:52:43,875
Listen, don't worry about
how far along it is.
1370
00:52:43,959 --> 00:52:45,750
Just get me your notes,
whatever they are,
1371
00:52:45,834 --> 00:52:46,959
just so I can get an idea
1372
00:52:47,041 --> 00:52:47,625
of how it will best fit
in the next issue.
1373
00:52:49,250 --> 00:52:50,333
And let's talk deadline
later today.
1374
00:52:50,417 --> 00:52:51,917
You think
you can get me some photos?
1375
00:52:51,917 --> 00:52:53,166
Yeah.
1376
00:52:53,250 --> 00:52:54,333
Nice.
1377
00:53:00,542 --> 00:53:01,458
In this day and age,
1378
00:53:01,542 --> 00:53:02,875
where millionaires are made
1379
00:53:02,959 --> 00:53:03,792
in the self-help aisle
of a Barnes & Noble,
1380
00:53:03,792 --> 00:53:06,000
one has to ask oneself,
1381
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:08,417
can you get over a broken heart
in six short weeks?
1382
00:53:09,834 --> 00:53:11,959
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp
in Portland, Oregon
1383
00:53:12,041 --> 00:53:13,208
seems to think you can.
1384
00:53:18,500 --> 00:53:20,291
So, should I call her in
for a second interview?
1385
00:53:20,375 --> 00:53:21,583
No.
1386
00:53:21,667 --> 00:53:23,000
You are not going
to let up, are you?
1387
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:24,083
You've known me
since I was 19.
1388
00:53:24,083 --> 00:53:25,125
Have I ever let up?
1389
00:53:27,917 --> 00:53:29,542
Looks like you have a visitor.
1390
00:53:30,667 --> 00:53:32,333
See you.
'Night, Ben.
1391
00:53:32,417 --> 00:53:33,583
'Night.
1392
00:53:33,667 --> 00:53:35,667
You.
1393
00:53:35,667 --> 00:53:37,583
Hey.
1394
00:53:37,667 --> 00:53:39,458
Sorry. I hope this isn't
a bad time.
1395
00:53:39,542 --> 00:53:40,959
I just needed to talk to you.
1396
00:53:41,041 --> 00:53:42,125
No, I was just heading
to Rock Wall.
1397
00:53:42,125 --> 00:53:43,250
You want a rematch?
1398
00:53:43,250 --> 00:53:44,959
Would you be up
for something different?
1399
00:53:46,208 --> 00:53:47,250
Maybe go to one of
my favorite places,
1400
00:53:47,250 --> 00:53:48,500
when I've got
to shake off the cobwebs?
1401
00:53:52,542 --> 00:53:54,625
I guess I could be up
for something different
1402
00:53:54,709 --> 00:53:55,959
this one time.
1403
00:54:17,959 --> 00:54:18,959
When I was just out of college,
1404
00:54:19,041 --> 00:54:20,458
I used to come up here,
1405
00:54:20,542 --> 00:54:22,417
look out at the city,
1406
00:54:22,417 --> 00:54:23,750
and think...
1407
00:54:23,834 --> 00:54:25,000
I'm going to make it here.
1408
00:54:26,166 --> 00:54:27,208
It's so beautiful.
1409
00:54:28,542 --> 00:54:29,542
It's too bad
we blew it all up.
1410
00:54:31,166 --> 00:54:32,375
We'll save the city next time.
1411
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:36,959
- I wanted...
- Look...
1412
00:54:37,041 --> 00:54:37,917
Can I say something?
1413
00:54:37,917 --> 00:54:38,834
Yeah, sure.
1414
00:54:40,417 --> 00:54:41,417
I'm sorry.
1415
00:54:41,417 --> 00:54:43,375
What do you have
to be sorry about?
1416
00:54:43,375 --> 00:54:44,792
I misjudged you.
1417
00:54:44,792 --> 00:54:46,375
I called you a cynic,
1418
00:54:46,375 --> 00:54:48,333
and I didn't give you
the benefit of the doubt
1419
00:54:48,417 --> 00:54:50,458
that I give everyone else
who takes my program.
1420
00:54:53,375 --> 00:54:54,792
But after the escape room
the other day...
1421
00:54:56,333 --> 00:54:57,166
You're a good guy, Ben.
1422
00:55:00,250 --> 00:55:01,250
Well...
1423
00:55:01,250 --> 00:55:02,291
You were sort of
right about me.
1424
00:55:03,500 --> 00:55:04,583
Go on.
1425
00:55:06,500 --> 00:55:07,375
Serena.
1426
00:55:07,375 --> 00:55:08,417
Jen.
1427
00:55:10,500 --> 00:55:12,542
Every girlfriend in between.
1428
00:55:12,542 --> 00:55:14,166
It's like for the last 10 years,
1429
00:55:14,250 --> 00:55:16,834
I've kept everybody
at arm's length.
1430
00:55:16,834 --> 00:55:18,166
Avoiding.
1431
00:55:20,417 --> 00:55:21,583
Yeah...
1432
00:55:21,667 --> 00:55:23,917
you maybe...
1433
00:55:23,917 --> 00:55:26,166
were a little bit right
about me, too.
1434
00:55:26,250 --> 00:55:27,917
I'm sorry,
can you say that again?
1435
00:55:27,917 --> 00:55:29,083
I just want to make sure
I heard that right.
1436
00:55:29,083 --> 00:55:30,542
Don't ruin it.
1437
00:55:32,750 --> 00:55:33,917
Boot camp was my rebound.
1438
00:55:33,917 --> 00:55:35,166
After Dex left,
1439
00:55:35,250 --> 00:55:37,500
I threw myself into it,
and it worked.
1440
00:55:37,500 --> 00:55:38,709
So, I just--
1441
00:55:38,709 --> 00:55:40,250
I never really addressed
any underlying issues.
1442
00:55:41,750 --> 00:55:43,709
But your program has helped
so many people to let go.
1443
00:55:43,709 --> 00:55:45,417
And I speak from experience.
1444
00:55:45,417 --> 00:55:46,667
I'd never be here
1445
00:55:46,667 --> 00:55:47,917
if you hadn't dragged it
out of me.
1446
00:55:50,875 --> 00:55:52,458
So, uh...
1447
00:55:52,542 --> 00:55:53,417
what's next?
1448
00:55:55,125 --> 00:55:56,500
Why don't we just stay here?
1449
00:55:57,834 --> 00:55:59,375
It's okay to just stop, Miranda.
1450
00:55:59,375 --> 00:56:00,458
You don't have to do
anything right now,
1451
00:56:00,542 --> 00:56:01,417
except be here.
1452
00:56:01,417 --> 00:56:02,500
With me.
1453
00:56:05,834 --> 00:56:07,166
Okay.
1454
00:56:17,291 --> 00:56:18,625
Welcome to week five.
1455
00:56:20,208 --> 00:56:22,667
Trust. Ben?
1456
00:56:22,667 --> 00:56:24,959
So, I was 24 years-old,
1457
00:56:25,041 --> 00:56:27,083
and I'm shaking, I'm so nervous.
1458
00:56:28,375 --> 00:56:30,458
And I take the ring box
out of my jacket,
1459
00:56:30,542 --> 00:56:31,583
and I get on one knee,
1460
00:56:31,667 --> 00:56:33,667
and I open the box,
1461
00:56:33,667 --> 00:56:34,709
she tells me to get up.
1462
00:56:34,709 --> 00:56:36,208
Says she can't marry me.
1463
00:56:37,333 --> 00:56:38,583
Which, I understand,
1464
00:56:38,667 --> 00:56:40,667
is sort of not how
these things are supposed to go.
1465
00:56:40,667 --> 00:56:41,875
Anyways,
1466
00:56:41,959 --> 00:56:43,250
within three days,
she's packed up,
1467
00:56:43,250 --> 00:56:44,375
moving to Chicago,
1468
00:56:44,375 --> 00:56:46,000
with Dave Friedman,
her first love.
1469
00:56:48,583 --> 00:56:50,875
Totally derailed my life.
1470
00:56:50,959 --> 00:56:51,834
It was bad.
1471
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:54,250
I'd never seen him
like that before.
1472
00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:57,041
Or since.
1473
00:56:58,709 --> 00:57:00,333
Well, the past
isn't prologue.
1474
00:57:01,750 --> 00:57:03,625
You can put your trust
in the next person,
1475
00:57:03,709 --> 00:57:05,291
that they won't let you fall.
1476
00:57:08,166 --> 00:57:09,041
You ready?
1477
00:57:12,375 --> 00:57:13,375
Okay. Three.
1478
00:57:13,375 --> 00:57:14,542
Two.
1479
00:57:14,542 --> 00:57:15,959
One.
1480
00:57:16,041 --> 00:57:16,959
Go.
1481
00:57:33,959 --> 00:57:35,000
Hi, Dex.
1482
00:57:36,041 --> 00:57:37,375
Yeah, sorry.
I've been busy.
1483
00:57:40,542 --> 00:57:41,417
What time?
1484
00:57:42,709 --> 00:57:44,041
Yeah.
I'll meet you there.
1485
00:57:54,250 --> 00:57:55,667
I'm glad
you agreed to meet.
1486
00:57:57,208 --> 00:57:58,375
I was starting to think
you weren't going to.
1487
00:57:59,834 --> 00:58:01,291
To be honest, I wasn't,
1488
00:58:01,375 --> 00:58:04,542
but I think it's finally time
for you and I to talk.
1489
00:58:04,542 --> 00:58:05,625
I agree.
1490
00:58:07,166 --> 00:58:09,625
And I...
1491
00:58:09,709 --> 00:58:11,542
I didn't want you to hear
this news from anyone else.
1492
00:58:12,959 --> 00:58:13,834
I'm getting married.
1493
00:58:15,125 --> 00:58:16,208
In June.
1494
00:58:16,208 --> 00:58:18,166
I'm sorry if that's hard
for you to hear.
1495
00:58:26,542 --> 00:58:28,792
Actually, I'm...
1496
00:58:28,792 --> 00:58:29,917
I'm happy for you.
1497
00:58:32,041 --> 00:58:33,000
Really?
1498
00:58:34,834 --> 00:58:35,917
You have no idea
1499
00:58:35,917 --> 00:58:38,375
how much I appreciate you
saying that.
1500
00:58:38,375 --> 00:58:39,709
Yeah. I--
1501
00:58:39,709 --> 00:58:42,333
You know, I was so mad
for so long.
1502
00:58:42,417 --> 00:58:44,208
I mean, you left
without saying anything,
1503
00:58:44,208 --> 00:58:47,041
but I was dreading this moment,
1504
00:58:47,125 --> 00:58:49,458
and now I don't...
1505
00:58:49,542 --> 00:58:51,083
I don't understand why.
1506
00:58:51,083 --> 00:58:53,667
I mean, I know
why I was dreading it.
1507
00:58:53,667 --> 00:58:55,917
But this...
1508
00:58:55,917 --> 00:58:57,417
This is not the reaction
I thought I was going to get.
1509
00:58:59,583 --> 00:59:00,542
You're not mad?
1510
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:05,792
I wasn't expecting it either,
but no, I'm not mad at all.
1511
00:59:08,417 --> 00:59:09,667
I just see very clearly now
1512
00:59:09,667 --> 00:59:11,625
that you and I
were not right for each other.
1513
00:59:11,709 --> 00:59:12,667
Wow...
1514
00:59:12,667 --> 00:59:14,834
I'm...
1515
00:59:14,834 --> 00:59:18,542
I'm kind of speechless.
1516
00:59:18,542 --> 00:59:19,625
Yeah, it's crazy.
1517
00:59:19,709 --> 00:59:20,792
I talk about it all the time,
1518
00:59:20,792 --> 00:59:22,125
that we...
1519
00:59:22,125 --> 00:59:23,583
we create these scenarios
in our head,
1520
00:59:23,667 --> 00:59:25,291
we build this whole world
around it,
1521
00:59:25,375 --> 00:59:26,834
and...
1522
00:59:26,834 --> 00:59:28,750
it doesn't...
1523
00:59:28,834 --> 00:59:30,709
You know, I just--
I feel lighter.
1524
00:59:33,375 --> 00:59:34,750
Yeah.
1525
00:59:34,834 --> 00:59:36,083
Me too.
1526
00:59:37,709 --> 00:59:38,750
Congratulations.
1527
00:59:49,041 --> 00:59:49,959
Hi.
1528
00:59:51,583 --> 00:59:53,250
Hey, hi.
1529
00:59:53,250 --> 00:59:56,166
Sorry, they said
I could just come back here.
1530
00:59:56,250 --> 00:59:58,166
Yeah. Yeah, please.
Come in.
1531
01:00:02,792 --> 01:00:03,875
So, what's up?
1532
01:00:05,291 --> 01:00:06,667
Let me guess.
1533
01:00:06,667 --> 01:00:08,041
You haven't seen me in 48 hours,
you kind of missed me?
1534
01:00:08,125 --> 01:00:09,834
Smooth.
1535
01:00:09,834 --> 01:00:11,166
You don't have to
say it out loud.
1536
01:00:11,250 --> 01:00:12,208
I can tell these things.
1537
01:00:13,291 --> 01:00:14,917
- Can you?
- Mm-hmm.
1538
01:00:14,917 --> 01:00:17,291
Interesting, because what
I was actually going to say
1539
01:00:17,375 --> 01:00:18,458
was that I wanted to thank you
1540
01:00:18,542 --> 01:00:20,208
for your friendship
the other night.
1541
01:00:21,583 --> 01:00:22,583
My friendship?
1542
01:00:22,667 --> 01:00:23,625
I'm friend zoned.
1543
01:00:23,709 --> 01:00:25,834
You are my client,
1544
01:00:25,834 --> 01:00:28,417
and you just got out
of a relationship.
1545
01:00:28,417 --> 01:00:29,917
How's that article coming?
1546
01:00:29,917 --> 01:00:31,166
Hey. Hi.
1547
01:00:31,250 --> 01:00:32,542
It's...
1548
01:00:32,542 --> 01:00:33,667
coming along.
1549
01:00:33,667 --> 01:00:34,667
I'm working on it right now.
1550
01:00:36,125 --> 01:00:37,041
I know you.
1551
01:00:37,125 --> 01:00:38,208
Sorry?
1552
01:00:38,208 --> 01:00:39,250
Ahem.
1553
01:00:41,458 --> 01:00:43,041
Oh, I'm sorry.
1554
01:00:43,125 --> 01:00:44,291
I thought you were someone else.
1555
01:00:44,375 --> 01:00:45,542
My mistake.
1556
01:00:47,208 --> 01:00:49,792
I need a first draft
by tomorrow for the print copy.
1557
01:00:49,792 --> 01:00:51,333
And we'll send
the online version
1558
01:00:51,417 --> 01:00:52,792
to the web team later?
1559
01:00:52,792 --> 01:00:54,125
Yup, mm-hmm.
1560
01:00:55,375 --> 01:00:56,417
- I'm working on away.
- Good deal.
1561
01:00:56,417 --> 01:00:57,667
Mm-hmm.
1562
01:01:00,583 --> 01:01:01,792
You want to get out of here?
Grab a bite?
1563
01:01:03,542 --> 01:01:04,834
I only have an hour
before my next class,
1564
01:01:04,834 --> 01:01:09,291
but if it's a quick,
friendly bite, sure.
1565
01:01:09,375 --> 01:01:10,583
Excellent.
I know just the place.
1566
01:01:10,667 --> 01:01:11,875
Okay.
1567
01:01:16,166 --> 01:01:17,583
Street meat?
1568
01:01:17,667 --> 01:01:18,792
What's wrong with street meat?
1569
01:01:18,792 --> 01:01:19,875
This guy's an institution.
1570
01:01:19,959 --> 01:01:21,250
He's been on this corner
for decades.
1571
01:01:21,250 --> 01:01:22,333
No, nothing.
1572
01:01:22,417 --> 01:01:23,458
It's just not
what I was expecting.
1573
01:01:23,542 --> 01:01:24,417
Come on, don't be a snob.
1574
01:01:24,417 --> 01:01:26,041
I'm not being a snob.
1575
01:01:26,125 --> 01:01:27,250
You said you had an hour.
1576
01:01:27,250 --> 01:01:28,500
I had to do the best I could
with what I had.
1577
01:01:28,500 --> 01:01:29,458
Beef with mustard, please.
1578
01:01:29,542 --> 01:01:31,542
The usual for me.
1579
01:01:31,542 --> 01:01:32,458
Thank you.
1580
01:01:32,542 --> 01:01:34,000
So...
1581
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:35,291
don't knock it
till you try it.
1582
01:01:35,375 --> 01:01:36,542
Oh, you're one to talk.
1583
01:01:37,792 --> 01:01:39,834
Okay, I'll admit,
I was off to a rocky start,
1584
01:01:39,834 --> 01:01:41,417
but you can't say
that I'm not embracing it.
1585
01:01:41,417 --> 01:01:42,750
This is so good.
1586
01:01:42,834 --> 01:01:44,208
Right?
1587
01:01:44,208 --> 01:01:47,083
No, you have actually
been doing very well--
1588
01:01:47,083 --> 01:01:48,709
and so have I,
1589
01:01:48,709 --> 01:01:50,208
especially with Dex
this morning.
1590
01:01:51,667 --> 01:01:52,875
You saw Dex?
1591
01:01:52,959 --> 01:01:53,959
I did.
1592
01:01:54,041 --> 01:01:56,166
And I...
1593
01:01:56,250 --> 01:01:57,333
I closed the book.
1594
01:01:58,709 --> 01:01:59,750
I don't know why I wanted
to tell you that, but...
1595
01:01:59,834 --> 01:02:02,041
after the other night,
I just did.
1596
01:02:02,125 --> 01:02:04,417
This is progress.
1597
01:02:04,417 --> 01:02:06,709
I could tell you were
holding on to something.
1598
01:02:06,709 --> 01:02:07,458
Did you learn anything
in week one?
1599
01:02:07,542 --> 01:02:08,542
That was--
1600
01:02:08,542 --> 01:02:10,417
that was release week,
by the way.
1601
01:02:10,417 --> 01:02:12,709
Well, we go at our own pace,
1602
01:02:12,709 --> 01:02:13,959
and I just took
1603
01:02:14,041 --> 01:02:15,625
a few years longer
than everyone else, so.
1604
01:02:15,709 --> 01:02:17,875
I would maybe not put that
in the brochure.
1605
01:02:20,250 --> 01:02:21,750
So, later on,
1606
01:02:21,834 --> 01:02:24,041
do you want to go
sit in silence again?
1607
01:02:24,125 --> 01:02:25,959
See what else that drums up?
1608
01:02:27,792 --> 01:02:29,542
Sorry.
1609
01:02:29,542 --> 01:02:31,000
We just agreed to be friends.
1610
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:32,000
Did we?
1611
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:33,500
Mm-hmm.
1612
01:02:33,500 --> 01:02:35,250
I said you are my client,
and how you're on the rebound,
1613
01:02:35,250 --> 01:02:38,792
and I'm kind of
on the rebound, so.
1614
01:02:38,792 --> 01:02:40,458
Yeah, this would be
a terrible idea.
1615
01:02:40,542 --> 01:02:41,917
I won't tell anybody
if you won't.
1616
01:02:43,583 --> 01:02:44,458
I got to go.
1617
01:02:46,041 --> 01:02:46,917
Oh, come on.
1618
01:02:48,291 --> 01:02:49,250
Friends?
1619
01:02:49,250 --> 01:02:50,750
- Friends.
- Friends.
1620
01:02:55,333 --> 01:02:57,750
Ben! That was a close one.
1621
01:02:57,834 --> 01:02:59,458
Next time, let me know
when she's coming by the office.
1622
01:02:59,542 --> 01:03:02,000
I didn't know.
She just stopped by.
1623
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:03,000
Well, anyways...
1624
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:04,291
rest assured
1625
01:03:04,375 --> 01:03:06,208
that extra dedication
is not going unnoticed.
1626
01:03:13,166 --> 01:03:15,083
When I first started
at Harvard,
1627
01:03:15,083 --> 01:03:16,417
I thought I wanted
to be pre-med.
1628
01:03:16,417 --> 01:03:18,333
- Really?
- Yeah.
1629
01:03:18,417 --> 01:03:20,709
Until they took us
to an operating suite,
1630
01:03:20,709 --> 01:03:24,166
and I took one look
at the surgery and I fainted.
1631
01:03:25,458 --> 01:03:27,125
- Stop.
- Oh, it gets worse.
1632
01:03:28,667 --> 01:03:31,750
There was a girl in this class
that I really wanted to impress,
1633
01:03:31,834 --> 01:03:33,875
and I fainted on her...
1634
01:03:35,125 --> 01:03:36,375
and I broke her tibia.
1635
01:03:36,375 --> 01:03:39,000
Oh...
That's embarrassing.
1636
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:41,500
Yeah, it is. It is.
1637
01:03:41,500 --> 01:03:43,917
So I shifted my focus
to journalism,
1638
01:03:43,917 --> 01:03:46,083
and I found my calling there
pretty quick.
1639
01:03:47,333 --> 01:03:48,542
- Happy accident.
- Yeah.
1640
01:03:50,125 --> 01:03:52,250
I liked that my words could...
1641
01:03:52,250 --> 01:03:55,083
educate and inspire...
1642
01:03:55,083 --> 01:03:56,542
protect.
1643
01:03:56,542 --> 01:03:58,291
Very happy accident.
1644
01:04:00,208 --> 01:04:03,500
Kind of like stumbling across
this crazy boot camp
1645
01:04:03,500 --> 01:04:04,625
and meeting this instructor
1646
01:04:04,709 --> 01:04:07,000
who just will not let you
avoid your stuff.
1647
01:04:08,333 --> 01:04:09,709
Well, sometimes,
1648
01:04:09,709 --> 01:04:11,375
that instructor
comes across a student,
1649
01:04:11,375 --> 01:04:14,375
who calls her out
on her stuff, too.
1650
01:04:17,667 --> 01:04:18,667
I love my job...
1651
01:04:20,166 --> 01:04:21,250
and I'm on track
for this promotion...
1652
01:04:22,875 --> 01:04:23,917
and I've been thinking
1653
01:04:23,917 --> 01:04:26,250
that I never really figured out
1654
01:04:26,250 --> 01:04:28,625
that whole
work/life balance thing.
1655
01:04:28,709 --> 01:04:30,250
Mm.
1656
01:04:30,250 --> 01:04:31,667
Me either, really--
1657
01:04:31,667 --> 01:04:33,208
which is awful,
1658
01:04:33,208 --> 01:04:35,000
because I talk about it
in class all the time.
1659
01:04:36,834 --> 01:04:37,834
I was thinking about
1660
01:04:37,834 --> 01:04:38,709
something else
you said in class.
1661
01:04:41,458 --> 01:04:43,166
Maybe not all rebounds are bad?
1662
01:04:47,417 --> 01:04:48,792
Like...
1663
01:04:48,792 --> 01:04:52,959
maybe they lead you
away from the wrong thing,
1664
01:04:53,041 --> 01:04:56,208
so you can go towards
the right one?
1665
01:04:56,208 --> 01:04:58,000
Exactly.
1666
01:05:00,834 --> 01:05:02,250
I felt it that first night,
1667
01:05:02,250 --> 01:05:03,750
and I think you did, too.
1668
01:05:06,583 --> 01:05:09,375
Maybe rebounds show us
how we really feel.
1669
01:05:26,417 --> 01:05:27,333
And then...
1670
01:05:27,417 --> 01:05:28,583
he kissed me.
1671
01:05:28,667 --> 01:05:32,166
Like, he kissed me.
1672
01:05:32,250 --> 01:05:33,709
Well, you certainly had a day,
didn't you?
1673
01:05:33,709 --> 01:05:34,667
Yes, I did.
1674
01:05:35,792 --> 01:05:36,834
I am speechless!
1675
01:05:36,834 --> 01:05:39,125
And you know me,
I am never speechless.
1676
01:05:39,125 --> 01:05:41,333
But it was a mistake.
He's a client.
1677
01:05:41,417 --> 01:05:42,500
I just--
I got caught up in the moment.
1678
01:05:42,500 --> 01:05:43,458
That's a good thing.
1679
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:46,375
That is a great thing.
1680
01:05:46,375 --> 01:05:48,333
I haven't seen you like this
in a long time.
1681
01:05:50,166 --> 01:05:51,166
I really like her.
1682
01:05:51,250 --> 01:05:52,125
You like him.
1683
01:05:54,458 --> 01:05:55,542
Why couldn't he
have just stayed
1684
01:05:55,542 --> 01:05:57,417
a random stranger
outside of a restaurant?
1685
01:05:57,417 --> 01:05:59,291
Why did he have to join
my class?
1686
01:06:01,750 --> 01:06:03,125
Kim, I got
to tell you something.
1687
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:09,125
You were right.
1688
01:06:09,125 --> 01:06:10,500
I really needed this class.
1689
01:06:11,500 --> 01:06:12,667
See!
1690
01:06:12,667 --> 01:06:14,208
You should take my advice
more often.
1691
01:06:14,208 --> 01:06:15,500
I'm very smart.
1692
01:06:15,500 --> 01:06:16,583
I know.
1693
01:06:16,667 --> 01:06:18,166
Oh, I crossed a line.
1694
01:06:19,792 --> 01:06:21,875
Whatever you decide,
1695
01:06:21,959 --> 01:06:23,667
at least you're finally
over Dex,
1696
01:06:23,667 --> 01:06:25,709
and I don't think
that would've happened,
1697
01:06:25,709 --> 01:06:27,250
if it weren't for Ben.
1698
01:06:28,417 --> 01:06:30,125
My job is to help my clients.
1699
01:06:30,125 --> 01:06:31,458
Not confuse them.
1700
01:06:31,542 --> 01:06:32,500
I can't make this about me.
1701
01:06:32,500 --> 01:06:34,542
I get that,
1702
01:06:34,542 --> 01:06:35,709
but you get to be
happy again, too.
1703
01:06:35,709 --> 01:06:37,583
Remember that?
1704
01:06:39,709 --> 01:06:40,875
Oh, there you are.
1705
01:06:40,959 --> 01:06:42,625
What's going on with you, Ben?
1706
01:06:42,709 --> 01:06:44,083
What are you talking about?
1707
01:06:44,083 --> 01:06:45,083
I just read your first draft.
1708
01:06:45,083 --> 01:06:46,625
It's all over the place.
1709
01:06:46,709 --> 01:06:48,542
There's no point of view.
1710
01:06:48,542 --> 01:06:50,458
You're straddling the line.
1711
01:06:50,542 --> 01:06:51,500
I don't understand
1712
01:06:51,500 --> 01:06:52,792
what this boot camp
is all about.
1713
01:06:52,792 --> 01:06:55,583
Where's the conviction?
1714
01:06:55,667 --> 01:06:57,166
Like, take a stand.
1715
01:06:58,542 --> 01:07:00,125
It's just a first draft.
1716
01:07:00,125 --> 01:07:01,500
Good.
1717
01:07:01,500 --> 01:07:02,625
Because I don't think
1718
01:07:02,709 --> 01:07:03,625
you even believe
what you're writing here.
1719
01:07:03,709 --> 01:07:04,834
This is not you.
1720
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:26,458
I don't know
what to say to him.
1721
01:07:26,542 --> 01:07:28,458
You're going to have to talk
to Ben sometime.
1722
01:07:28,542 --> 01:07:30,500
I'll see him
in class tomorrow.
1723
01:07:30,500 --> 01:07:31,917
What are you waiting for?
1724
01:07:31,917 --> 01:07:33,458
Why don't you just
kick him out of class
1725
01:07:33,542 --> 01:07:35,667
and ask him out
on a date, already.
1726
01:07:35,667 --> 01:07:37,500
Or better yet, just wait.
The session's almost over.
1727
01:07:39,125 --> 01:07:41,083
Okay, say we do
give it a shot...
1728
01:07:41,083 --> 01:07:43,667
we'd be doing the exact thing
I tell my clients not to do.
1729
01:07:43,667 --> 01:07:45,000
What's that?
1730
01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:47,083
Transfer your feelings
from one person to the next.
1731
01:07:47,083 --> 01:07:48,667
Wait, you still
have feelings for Dex?
1732
01:07:48,667 --> 01:07:49,834
No, no,
1733
01:07:49,834 --> 01:07:51,291
but what if I'm just
a band-aid for Ben?
1734
01:07:51,375 --> 01:07:53,792
And what if
a sinkhole opens up
1735
01:07:53,792 --> 01:07:55,166
and swallows the studio whole?
1736
01:07:55,250 --> 01:07:56,166
"What ifs" are pointless.
1737
01:07:56,250 --> 01:07:58,208
No. They are preparation.
1738
01:07:58,208 --> 01:07:59,417
For a sinkhole?
1739
01:07:59,417 --> 01:08:00,792
No. You know what I mean.
1740
01:08:00,792 --> 01:08:03,000
People change their minds
all the time.
1741
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:04,583
Love is a risk,
1742
01:08:04,667 --> 01:08:06,041
and you're just going
to have to consider...
1743
01:08:06,125 --> 01:08:07,834
is Ben worth the risk?
1744
01:08:09,709 --> 01:08:10,709
You sound like someone.
1745
01:08:10,709 --> 01:08:12,166
Oh, what is it?
1746
01:08:12,250 --> 01:08:14,375
A teacher!
1747
01:08:14,375 --> 01:08:15,458
Man, I knew--
1748
01:08:15,542 --> 01:08:16,750
it just sounded so natural.
1749
01:08:16,834 --> 01:08:18,333
You're good at it.
1750
01:08:18,417 --> 01:08:19,417
No...
1751
01:08:19,417 --> 01:08:21,083
On how to handle love,
and breakups,
1752
01:08:21,083 --> 01:08:22,750
and the heart,
and all of those things.
1753
01:08:22,834 --> 01:08:24,083
You could get paid for it!
1754
01:08:29,291 --> 01:08:30,542
Hey, Miranda,
1755
01:08:30,542 --> 01:08:32,041
for the bonfire,
1756
01:08:32,125 --> 01:08:33,583
do we only burn our letters?
1757
01:08:33,667 --> 01:08:36,583
Because Darren left
this sweatshirt at my place,
1758
01:08:36,667 --> 01:08:38,542
and I'm sick of looking at it,
1759
01:08:38,542 --> 01:08:39,583
and I'm definitely
1760
01:08:39,667 --> 01:08:40,834
not going back there
to return it.
1761
01:08:40,834 --> 01:08:42,291
No, you can burn
whatever you like.
1762
01:08:42,375 --> 01:08:44,291
It's anything
to help you let go.
1763
01:08:44,375 --> 01:08:45,458
This ceremony is about you.
1764
01:08:45,542 --> 01:08:46,709
Thanks.
1765
01:08:46,709 --> 01:08:48,333
Good to know.
1766
01:08:48,417 --> 01:08:51,542
Miranda, I'd love
to have you back on the show.
1767
01:08:51,542 --> 01:08:53,041
I could talk about
my experience,
1768
01:08:53,125 --> 01:08:55,625
we could delve
a bit deeper than last time.
1769
01:08:55,709 --> 01:08:57,792
I know you're thinking about
expanding locally,
1770
01:08:57,792 --> 01:08:59,625
but you have the potential
to go national.
1771
01:09:00,917 --> 01:09:02,125
Books, merchandising...
1772
01:09:03,583 --> 01:09:05,375
Let's get you
some real exposure.
1773
01:09:06,500 --> 01:09:07,834
I would love that.
Thank you.
1774
01:09:09,834 --> 01:09:10,750
Ben...
1775
01:09:10,834 --> 01:09:11,834
Bink...
1776
01:09:14,083 --> 01:09:15,083
I think he's coming around.
1777
01:09:18,792 --> 01:09:20,458
Look, I really need
to talk to you about something.
1778
01:09:21,583 --> 01:09:22,542
After class?
1779
01:09:23,959 --> 01:09:24,959
Yeah.
1780
01:09:25,041 --> 01:09:26,333
Street meat for dinner?
It's on me.
1781
01:09:27,792 --> 01:09:29,417
Sounds good.
I'll meet you there.
1782
01:09:32,166 --> 01:09:35,166
Welcome to week six.
Closure.
1783
01:09:35,250 --> 01:09:36,625
You are not the same person
1784
01:09:36,709 --> 01:09:39,917
who signed up for this class
a month and a half ago.
1785
01:09:39,917 --> 01:09:41,166
You have grown.
1786
01:09:41,250 --> 01:09:42,709
You have changed.
1787
01:09:42,709 --> 01:09:45,208
You have overcome obstacles.
1788
01:09:46,333 --> 01:09:47,291
This letter
1789
01:09:47,375 --> 01:09:48,667
is your chance to say it all
1790
01:09:48,667 --> 01:09:50,166
to the person
who broke your heart--
1791
01:09:50,250 --> 01:09:51,667
the person who put you here.
1792
01:09:51,667 --> 01:09:53,875
It's only two minutes,
so don't hold back.
1793
01:09:53,959 --> 01:09:55,667
This is about you now.
1794
01:09:57,583 --> 01:09:59,834
Three, two, one...
1795
01:09:59,834 --> 01:10:00,834
pens down.
1796
01:10:02,250 --> 01:10:03,458
How are we feeling?
1797
01:10:03,542 --> 01:10:05,667
This letter is way better
than the last one.
1798
01:10:05,667 --> 01:10:07,375
Good.
1799
01:10:07,375 --> 01:10:08,875
And tomorrow night
at the bonfire,
1800
01:10:08,959 --> 01:10:10,166
you will make the decision--
1801
01:10:10,250 --> 01:10:11,625
do you send it...
1802
01:10:15,583 --> 01:10:16,875
or do you burn it?
1803
01:10:21,875 --> 01:10:22,917
I'm heading home.
1804
01:10:22,917 --> 01:10:25,375
Here's some stuff
they left at the studio.
1805
01:10:25,375 --> 01:10:26,583
I don't know whose this is.
1806
01:10:26,667 --> 01:10:28,959
That's Ben's.
I'll give it to him later.
1807
01:10:29,041 --> 01:10:29,875
Cool.
1808
01:10:29,959 --> 01:10:31,333
See you tomorrow.
1809
01:10:31,417 --> 01:10:33,000
Bye.
1810
01:10:38,500 --> 01:10:39,875
"Fad or phenomenon?"
1811
01:10:58,500 --> 01:10:59,959
There you are.
I got you a chili dog.
1812
01:11:00,041 --> 01:11:01,750
You left these at the studio.
1813
01:11:03,667 --> 01:11:04,750
- I can explain.
- Can you?
1814
01:11:04,834 --> 01:11:06,792
Because you've had
plenty of opportunities
1815
01:11:06,792 --> 01:11:08,041
and you never mentioned
any article.
1816
01:11:08,125 --> 01:11:09,667
Look, I--
1817
01:11:09,667 --> 01:11:10,875
It's not like I wasn't willing
to do press, Ben.
1818
01:11:10,959 --> 01:11:12,041
You could've just asked me
for an interview.
1819
01:11:12,125 --> 01:11:13,500
Miranda--
1820
01:11:13,500 --> 01:11:14,542
This whole thing
1821
01:11:14,542 --> 01:11:16,083
has been a lie.
1822
01:11:16,083 --> 01:11:17,083
Was there even a Jen?
1823
01:11:17,083 --> 01:11:18,125
Or a Serena?
1824
01:11:18,125 --> 01:11:19,291
Was Kim in on this?
1825
01:11:19,375 --> 01:11:20,959
No. Kim didn't know
anything about this.
1826
01:11:21,041 --> 01:11:22,000
Look, I didn't even know
I was writing it
1827
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:23,166
when I joined the group.
1828
01:11:23,250 --> 01:11:25,250
But you saw an opportunity
to bring me down
1829
01:11:25,250 --> 01:11:26,709
and you seized it.
1830
01:11:26,709 --> 01:11:27,834
No. Miranda,
everything that I've told you
1831
01:11:27,834 --> 01:11:28,750
from the beginning
has been the truth.
1832
01:11:28,834 --> 01:11:29,875
Except for the part
1833
01:11:29,959 --> 01:11:31,583
about writing
an expose on my business.
1834
01:11:31,667 --> 01:11:32,750
It's not what you think.
1835
01:11:32,834 --> 01:11:34,709
What I think
1836
01:11:34,709 --> 01:11:36,583
is that maybe journalism
wasn't your calling.
1837
01:11:37,750 --> 01:11:38,709
You should've been an actor,
1838
01:11:38,709 --> 01:11:40,500
because that was
a killer performance.
1839
01:12:37,583 --> 01:12:39,375
You've really done it
this time, haven't you?
1840
01:12:39,375 --> 01:12:40,834
Come on.
Let's open this.
1841
01:12:54,458 --> 01:12:55,375
Hey.
1842
01:12:55,375 --> 01:12:56,375
You okay?
1843
01:12:56,375 --> 01:12:57,834
I'm fine.
1844
01:13:00,041 --> 01:13:01,208
No, you're not fine.
1845
01:13:02,417 --> 01:13:04,000
And that's okay, Miranda.
1846
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:06,250
Why don't you go home,
take the rest of the day off?
1847
01:13:07,959 --> 01:13:09,041
I can't.
1848
01:13:09,125 --> 01:13:10,500
It's kickstart day
for this class.
1849
01:13:10,500 --> 01:13:11,500
We're partners.
1850
01:13:11,500 --> 01:13:12,709
I've got this.
1851
01:13:14,125 --> 01:13:16,333
Plus, if we're going
to buy that yoga studio,
1852
01:13:16,417 --> 01:13:17,875
I should really
work on my teaching skills.
1853
01:13:19,041 --> 01:13:19,917
Are you sure?
1854
01:13:19,917 --> 01:13:21,458
I'm sure.
1855
01:13:21,542 --> 01:13:22,834
Go home.
1856
01:13:22,834 --> 01:13:23,959
Clear your head.
1857
01:13:24,041 --> 01:13:24,875
See you at the bonfire tonight.
1858
01:13:26,375 --> 01:13:27,834
Okay.
1859
01:13:27,834 --> 01:13:30,709
Look, I know things with Ben
didn't go the way you wanted,
1860
01:13:30,709 --> 01:13:31,875
but it was a big step.
1861
01:13:31,959 --> 01:13:34,959
You inspire everyone
to be better.
1862
01:13:35,041 --> 01:13:36,375
To believe in their own power.
1863
01:13:36,375 --> 01:13:38,959
And that's
what I'm going to do.
1864
01:13:39,041 --> 01:13:41,375
We are going to expand
this business together.
1865
01:13:41,375 --> 01:13:42,667
Yeah, we are.
1866
01:13:42,667 --> 01:13:44,667
We're going to need,
like, 10 more instructors,
1867
01:13:44,667 --> 01:13:45,750
but I'll do for now.
1868
01:13:47,250 --> 01:13:48,458
I'll see you
at the bonfire tonight.
1869
01:13:48,542 --> 01:13:50,125
- Thank you.
- Mm-hmm.
1870
01:14:02,166 --> 01:14:04,250
Hey, Miranda,
can I talk to you for a second?
1871
01:14:04,250 --> 01:14:05,542
Sure.
1872
01:14:05,542 --> 01:14:07,375
I swear I didn't know
about the article,
1873
01:14:07,375 --> 01:14:09,375
and I'm furious with him.
1874
01:14:09,375 --> 01:14:10,792
I know you didn't, Kim,
1875
01:14:10,792 --> 01:14:12,333
and I don't hold any of it
against you.
1876
01:14:12,417 --> 01:14:13,875
Thank you.
1877
01:14:13,959 --> 01:14:15,834
But I will say this, Miranda...
1878
01:14:15,834 --> 01:14:17,208
I know he joined the group
for the wrong reason,
1879
01:14:17,208 --> 01:14:18,959
and he can be combative
and annoying,
1880
01:14:19,041 --> 01:14:20,417
but you really did change him.
1881
01:14:21,583 --> 01:14:22,542
I don't know about that.
1882
01:14:22,542 --> 01:14:23,417
Hey...
1883
01:14:24,917 --> 01:14:26,709
...he's a different person,
1884
01:14:26,709 --> 01:14:28,500
and it's 100% because of you.
1885
01:14:32,458 --> 01:14:33,667
I would love
to believe that, but...
1886
01:14:38,250 --> 01:14:39,375
We should go join the group.
1887
01:14:42,041 --> 01:14:44,417
And while we had
three good years together
1888
01:14:44,417 --> 01:14:48,041
and two not so good years,
1889
01:14:48,125 --> 01:14:49,291
I set you free.
1890
01:14:50,500 --> 01:14:52,542
And I set myself free.
1891
01:14:54,792 --> 01:14:55,959
So, that's everyone.
1892
01:14:56,041 --> 01:14:57,875
Actually, there is one more.
1893
01:15:01,500 --> 01:15:03,834
Sometimes, the teacher
learns a thing or two.
1894
01:15:03,834 --> 01:15:04,959
I'm not going
to read it out loud,
1895
01:15:05,041 --> 01:15:07,542
but I will say
to this person,
1896
01:15:07,542 --> 01:15:10,166
thank you for your lessons...
1897
01:15:10,250 --> 01:15:11,709
and I release you.
1898
01:15:16,667 --> 01:15:18,667
Now...
1899
01:15:18,667 --> 01:15:20,000
it's time for the big decision.
1900
01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:21,291
Do you burn your letters--
1901
01:15:21,375 --> 01:15:22,667
And this.
1902
01:15:22,667 --> 01:15:23,750
Right.
1903
01:15:23,834 --> 01:15:25,208
Or do we send them?
1904
01:15:27,041 --> 01:15:28,166
Kim?
1905
01:15:28,250 --> 01:15:30,500
I gave Darren
his letter in person,
1906
01:15:30,500 --> 01:15:31,959
but this will do.
1907
01:15:35,250 --> 01:15:36,583
Bethany,
1908
01:15:36,667 --> 01:15:40,000
I wish all the best for you
and your new girlfriend.
1909
01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:42,375
And I am comforted by the fact
1910
01:15:42,375 --> 01:15:43,834
that Ruth will always love me
more than her.
1911
01:15:49,458 --> 01:15:50,375
The first time around,
1912
01:15:50,375 --> 01:15:52,500
I burned my letter.
1913
01:15:52,500 --> 01:15:54,500
But this time...
1914
01:15:54,500 --> 01:15:55,750
I'm sending it.
1915
01:15:55,834 --> 01:15:58,250
Roger is getting
a piece of my mind.
1916
01:15:59,375 --> 01:16:00,625
Thatta girl.
1917
01:16:00,709 --> 01:16:01,667
Bink?
1918
01:16:03,208 --> 01:16:04,083
One second.
1919
01:16:06,250 --> 01:16:07,208
I thought he brought that
1920
01:16:07,208 --> 01:16:08,667
so he'd have
something to sit on.
1921
01:16:08,667 --> 01:16:09,834
Celebrities, you know?
1922
01:16:11,500 --> 01:16:12,709
This...
1923
01:16:12,709 --> 01:16:13,792
this was
Catherine's favorite chair
1924
01:16:13,792 --> 01:16:15,125
at my house.
1925
01:16:15,125 --> 01:16:17,083
I can't look at it
without seeing her mean face.
1926
01:16:22,583 --> 01:16:23,667
Good riddance, Catherine.
1927
01:16:24,875 --> 01:16:26,083
And stop shouting at waiters.
1928
01:16:28,792 --> 01:16:29,792
Someone else will get me.
1929
01:16:42,250 --> 01:16:44,166
Burning the midnight oil,
are we?
1930
01:16:44,250 --> 01:16:45,208
Yeah.
1931
01:16:45,208 --> 01:16:46,291
You asked for conviction.
1932
01:16:46,375 --> 01:16:47,000
That's what
I'm going to give you.
1933
01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:48,250
Great.
1934
01:16:48,250 --> 01:16:49,709
It'll be on your desk
in the morning.
1935
01:16:49,709 --> 01:16:51,166
Can't wait to read it.
1936
01:17:02,500 --> 01:17:04,375
I've seen army cadets
do this course
1937
01:17:04,375 --> 01:17:06,250
and you are blowing them
out of the water.
1938
01:17:06,250 --> 01:17:07,417
Now keep going!
1939
01:17:08,583 --> 01:17:09,667
Three weeks in
1940
01:17:09,667 --> 01:17:10,875
and your class loves you
1941
01:17:10,959 --> 01:17:12,250
more than any of my classes
have loved me.
1942
01:17:13,834 --> 01:17:16,375
Margaret is turning a color
I've never seen before.
1943
01:17:16,375 --> 01:17:18,917
Yeah, maybe give her a break
before the next one,
1944
01:17:18,917 --> 01:17:21,458
but keep with
the inspiring words to the rest.
1945
01:17:21,542 --> 01:17:23,417
Look what you are accomplishing.
1946
01:17:23,417 --> 01:17:26,709
After this, a broken heart
will feel like a hangnail.
1947
01:17:31,709 --> 01:17:33,208
Whoa, nine missed calls.
1948
01:17:33,208 --> 01:17:34,583
Yeah, I've got five.
1949
01:17:34,667 --> 01:17:36,625
It's the office.
I hope everything's okay.
1950
01:17:36,709 --> 01:17:38,125
I'll call them.
1951
01:17:40,250 --> 01:17:41,959
Hi, it's Chloe.
What's going on?
1952
01:17:43,709 --> 01:17:45,125
No, I don't know
anything about it.
1953
01:17:45,125 --> 01:17:46,917
We didn't give any interview.
1954
01:17:46,917 --> 01:17:48,458
Is it online?
1955
01:17:48,542 --> 01:17:51,041
No? Okay.
We'll pick one up.
1956
01:17:52,667 --> 01:17:53,583
Ben's article.
1957
01:17:53,667 --> 01:17:55,083
Yeah.
1958
01:18:07,959 --> 01:18:09,667
We live in a cynical world.
1959
01:18:09,667 --> 01:18:11,000
It's easy to assume
1960
01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:12,375
that everyone has
ulterior motives
1961
01:18:12,375 --> 01:18:14,542
because negativity sells.
1962
01:18:14,542 --> 01:18:16,250
Bad news
takes the superhighway
1963
01:18:16,250 --> 01:18:18,917
and good news
rides the pony express.
1964
01:18:18,917 --> 01:18:21,125
So, when I joined
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp,
1965
01:18:21,125 --> 01:18:22,291
little did I know
1966
01:18:22,375 --> 01:18:23,959
that, in six short weeks,
1967
01:18:24,041 --> 01:18:26,125
I would be
a completely different man.
1968
01:18:26,125 --> 01:18:28,375
Each carefully-crafted step
of boot camp
1969
01:18:28,375 --> 01:18:31,291
brought me back
to the man I used to be
1970
01:18:31,375 --> 01:18:32,625
before I had my heart broken
1971
01:18:32,709 --> 01:18:35,166
by the woman
I once thought I'd marry.
1972
01:18:35,250 --> 01:18:37,875
The man, who once believed
in possibility.
1973
01:18:37,959 --> 01:18:39,125
In goodness.
1974
01:18:39,125 --> 01:18:40,417
In love.
1975
01:18:41,583 --> 01:18:42,709
As this article
1976
01:18:42,709 --> 01:18:43,875
walks you through
the steps I took
1977
01:18:43,959 --> 01:18:46,333
to find my way back to myself,
1978
01:18:46,417 --> 01:18:48,834
I invite the reader
to give this program a shot.
1979
01:18:48,834 --> 01:18:50,625
Or two.
1980
01:18:50,709 --> 01:18:52,917
...because healing
is yours for the taking.
1981
01:18:55,250 --> 01:18:56,583
And Dr. Miranda Faraday
1982
01:18:56,667 --> 01:18:58,250
has found
the step-by-step guide
1983
01:18:58,250 --> 01:18:59,583
to get you there.
1984
01:19:01,500 --> 01:19:04,041
You want me
to hold down the fort?
1985
01:19:04,125 --> 01:19:05,291
Yes, please.
1986
01:19:10,333 --> 01:19:12,875
That's good.
1987
01:19:12,959 --> 01:19:14,291
Looks good to me.
1988
01:19:16,458 --> 01:19:17,792
Back again?
1989
01:19:17,792 --> 01:19:18,917
Do you know
where I can find Ben?
1990
01:19:18,917 --> 01:19:20,875
Upstairs.
Executive floor.
1991
01:19:20,959 --> 01:19:21,834
With the other editors.
1992
01:19:21,834 --> 01:19:23,250
He got the promotion?
1993
01:19:23,250 --> 01:19:25,917
He did right by you,
1994
01:19:25,917 --> 01:19:27,125
threatened to quit
1995
01:19:27,125 --> 01:19:28,500
if I didn't print his article
word for word.
1996
01:19:28,500 --> 01:19:29,542
But good or bad,
1997
01:19:29,542 --> 01:19:31,250
all I ask for is the truth.
1998
01:19:31,250 --> 01:19:32,625
Negativity sells a bit better.
1999
01:19:32,709 --> 01:19:34,792
Gets more clicks, but...
2000
01:19:34,792 --> 01:19:36,750
I think this is going to be
pretty good for you.
2001
01:19:36,834 --> 01:19:38,834
8th floor.
Corner office.
2002
01:19:38,834 --> 01:19:39,875
Lots of windows.
2003
01:19:40,875 --> 01:19:41,834
Thank you.
2004
01:19:49,333 --> 01:19:51,125
They'll give the corner office
to anyone these days.
2005
01:19:55,625 --> 01:19:56,500
I liked your article.
2006
01:19:57,834 --> 01:19:59,959
I'm glad.
2007
01:20:00,041 --> 01:20:02,083
Sort of wrote it
for an audience of one.
2008
01:20:02,083 --> 01:20:03,417
Yeah, well, my phone
has been ringing off the hook.
2009
01:20:03,417 --> 01:20:05,291
Now I'm in a real situation
because of you.
2010
01:20:05,375 --> 01:20:06,542
Sorry about that.
2011
01:20:07,917 --> 01:20:09,750
In my defense,
not the worst problem to have.
2012
01:20:10,834 --> 01:20:11,834
It's not so bad.
2013
01:20:14,375 --> 01:20:15,917
I really am sorry, Miranda.
2014
01:20:15,917 --> 01:20:17,750
About everything.
2015
01:20:17,834 --> 01:20:19,291
I know.
2016
01:20:19,375 --> 01:20:23,083
And if there were only a way
for you to make it up to me.
2017
01:20:23,083 --> 01:20:25,000
My article wasn't enough?
2018
01:20:25,000 --> 01:20:27,000
It was
a very good starting point,
2019
01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:28,959
but I was thinking
2020
01:20:29,041 --> 01:20:32,583
something more along the lines
of, you know, maybe...
2021
01:20:32,667 --> 01:20:33,542
being my rebound?
2022
01:20:35,750 --> 01:20:36,834
I was in the market
for one of those
2023
01:20:36,834 --> 01:20:38,667
and then I met
this really smart doctor,
2024
01:20:38,667 --> 01:20:39,875
and she said
those were terrible.
2025
01:20:41,083 --> 01:20:42,041
Oh...
2026
01:20:42,125 --> 01:20:43,750
She's a work in progress.
2027
01:20:45,542 --> 01:20:47,333
Aren't we all?
2028
01:20:53,542 --> 01:20:57,709
♪ I wonder what it's like... ♪
2029
01:20:57,709 --> 01:20:58,792
♪ I wonder... ♪
2030
01:20:58,792 --> 01:21:00,625
And, aside from helping me
2031
01:21:00,709 --> 01:21:03,083
to get over
she who shall remain nameless,
2032
01:21:03,083 --> 01:21:05,750
your program helped you
to find love again, as well,
2033
01:21:05,834 --> 01:21:07,041
with Ben here,
2034
01:21:07,125 --> 01:21:08,542
who wrote what I have to say
2035
01:21:08,542 --> 01:21:11,208
was a fantastic article
in Advantage Monthly Magazine
2036
01:21:11,208 --> 01:21:13,500
about his own experience
at your boot camp.
2037
01:21:13,500 --> 01:21:14,583
She's very good
at what she does.
2038
01:21:15,834 --> 01:21:17,000
Thank you.
2039
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:19,458
It was a job, but...
2040
01:21:19,542 --> 01:21:22,750
once you realize
that you can commit to the work,
2041
01:21:22,834 --> 01:21:25,083
I guess anything's possible.
2042
01:21:26,500 --> 01:21:27,542
You see, Misty.
2043
01:21:27,542 --> 01:21:28,542
The sooner one begins the work,
2044
01:21:28,542 --> 01:21:30,083
the sooner one can get over
2045
01:21:30,083 --> 01:21:32,417
the guy who pretended
to be a pilot
2046
01:21:32,417 --> 01:21:33,417
and catfished her
over the Internet.
2047
01:21:33,417 --> 01:21:34,834
I know, Bink,
2048
01:21:34,834 --> 01:21:35,875
and she will.
2049
01:21:37,041 --> 01:21:38,000
And coming this Fall,
2050
01:21:38,000 --> 01:21:40,583
Dr. Miranda Faraday's new book,
2051
01:21:40,667 --> 01:21:41,667
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp,
2052
01:21:41,667 --> 01:21:42,917
will be available
2053
01:21:42,917 --> 01:21:44,959
in all good bookstores
and online retailers,
2054
01:21:45,041 --> 01:21:46,458
so be on the lookout for that.
2055
01:21:46,542 --> 01:21:48,000
Meanwhile, you can sign up
for her classes
2056
01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:50,250
at her brand-new studio,
downtown.
2057
01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:59,458
♪ I wonder what it's like
to be loved by you ♪
2058
01:21:59,542 --> 01:22:02,250
♪ Yeah... ♪
2059
01:22:02,250 --> 01:22:06,333
♪ I wonder what it's like
to be loved by you... ♪
2060
01:22:06,417 --> 01:22:11,083
♪ I wonder what it's like
to be loved by you ♪
2061
01:22:11,083 --> 01:22:14,500
♪ Right before
I close my eyes ♪
2062
01:22:14,500 --> 01:22:18,125
♪ The only thing
that's on my mind ♪
2063
01:22:18,125 --> 01:22:21,166
♪ Been dreamin'
that you feel it, too ♪
2064
01:22:21,250 --> 01:22:23,917
♪ I wonder what it's like
to be loved by you ♪