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<i>- Welcome to the wonderful</i>
<i>city of Paris,</i>

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<i>where we will meet</i>
<i>ten inspiring</i>

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<i>and extraordinary women.</i>

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<i>Women who overcame</i>
<i>adversity and trauma,</i>

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<i>turning their lives around</i>
<i>to make a positive impact.</i>

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- I'm going to help girls
like me when we get older.

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- Now as an adult,

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I can help children understand
their worth.

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- He'd give me a high five

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and say, "You go, Mom.
You got this."

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<i>- They didn't turn away.</i>

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- If you ignore the problem,
it doesn't mean it goes away.

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- Why are people doing this?

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And why isn't anyone doing
anything about it?

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<i>- These women provide</i>
<i>solutions, work tirelessly,</i>

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<i>and selflessly serving</i>
<i>their communities.</i>

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- Kindness
is at the root of it all.

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- It has funded
a lot of smiles.

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- Turning heartbreak into hope.

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<i>- Tonight,</i>
<i>they share their stories</i>

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<i>with incredible</i>
<i>humanitarian stars</i>

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<i>keen to promote their causes.</i>

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<i>They are L'Oréal Paris'</i>
<i>Women of Worth.</i>

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- Selected from thousands
of nominations

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across the country,

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we brought our Women of Worth
2021 honorees

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to the glorious city of Paris.

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<i>* *</i>

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<i>Paris is</i>
<i>a truly inspiring city.</i>

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<i>So it's a fitting place</i>
<i>to honor ten women</i>

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<i>who are also truly inspiring</i>

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<i>with their extraordinary</i>
<i>stories of support,</i>

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<i>service, and sacrifice.</i>

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<i>We'll meet them all.</i>

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Let's get to know the 2021
Women of Worth honorees.

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<i>* *</i>

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<i>Amanda Munz</i>
<i>with the Fashion Foundation.</i>

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<i>Ashley Rhodes-Courter</i>

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<i>with the Foundation</i>
<i>for Sustainable Families.</i>

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<i>Briana Daniels</i>
<i>with Street Team Movement Inc.</i>

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<i>Lara MacGregor</i>
<i>with Hope Scarves.</i>

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<i>Marian McCord with CHADS</i>
<i>Coalition for Mental Health.</i>

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<i>Michelle Tran</i>
<i>with Soar Over Hate.</i>

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<i>Natalie Jia Guo</i>
<i>with Off Their Plate.</i>

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<i>Natalie Wilson with</i>
<i>Black and Missing Foundation.</i>

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<i>Pooja Chandrashekar</i>
<i>with ProjectCSGIRLS.</i>

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<i>Starr Davis</i>
<i>with the Starr Institute Inc.</i>

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For their final day in Paris,

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this year's Women of Worth
honorees are gathered

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to share their inspirational
and heartwarming stories

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with each other...

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and some other fabulous
worthy women you may recognize.

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<i>[upbeat music]</i>

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- Hey, Starr.

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So when did this journey
of Starr Institute start?

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- I actually founded
the organization in 2017.

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And so by profession,
I'm an attorney.

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And by purpose, I'm a founder
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of the Starr Institute.

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<i>[soft music]</i>

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<i>- With more than</i>
<i>42 million victims</i>

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<i>of sex abuse in America today,</i>

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<i>Starr Davis has spent</i>
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<i>supporting child survivors.</i>

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<i>* *</i>

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<i>- One in ten children will be</i>
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<i>by their 18th birthday.</i>

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Abuse is going on
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but people don't want
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They want to say this is
too hard of a conversation

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and makes
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Well, I will no longer
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so that society can be
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Not gonna do it.

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<i>- Starr grew up</i>
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<i>but her world fell apart</i>

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<i>when her family structure</i>
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<i>and she was</i>
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- At seven, that's when
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It just was, you know, kind
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<i>I only told my best friend.</i>

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<i>And I distinctly remember</i>
<i>that night</i>

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<i>that I made that vow to her.</i>

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And I said, "I'm going to help
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when we get older."

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<i>- Starr's circumstances</i>
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<i>when she was 12 years old</i>

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<i>and moved in</i>
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<i>This move spelt the end</i>
<i>of years of abuse.</i>

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- She was
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[exhales]

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I lost her last year.

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So it's hard because...

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when I was growing up,
I needed her, right?

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And so she was
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And so... that is what kids
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They want to know
that they have someone.

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They want to know that someone
is gonna show up for them.

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<i>- Five years ago, Starr</i>
<i>launched the Starr Institute,</i>

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<i>whose purpose is to educate,</i>
<i>engage, and empower</i>

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<i>young people and those</i>
<i>who have experienced abuse.</i>

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- Let's talk about, like, have
you heard about this challenge?

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- Mm-hmm.
- Have you participated in it?

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- Okay, okay.
I like that, I like that.

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Starr really cares
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And they can connect
with that 'cause they want

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to know that there's hope,
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There is someone
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<i>some of what</i>
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and have been able
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- Ooh,
this is making me excited.

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- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
<i>- Some people will never talk</i>

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Some people, it's too painful.

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But for me, I feel like
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<i>and it helps me to help</i>
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<i>so that they can know</i>
<i>"It's not just me."</i>

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It's just--it's my purpose.

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It's what I was purposed to do.

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And now I know that that's why
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- How do you feel like
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like, considering
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that you went through?

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- It's been healing, right?
- Mm.

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And I speak for other women
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who can't speak,

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right?
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- There's never been a time

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that I've shared my story

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that someone else
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It only affects you, like,

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psychologically,
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- It affects
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- It is.
- Thank you so much, Starr.

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Thank you for...
- Thank you.

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- Sharing your story with us

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and thank you for
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that you're doing.
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<i>- Join us after the break,</i>
<i>when Katherine Langford</i>

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<i>meets a woman whose childhood</i>
<i>experience fueled her mission</i>

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to help other families going
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<i>[Lizzo's "Good as Hell" cover]</i>

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- Welcome back.

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We are here in Paris,
where we are celebrating

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our 2021 Women of Worth
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We are about to hear
from a woman who,

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against all odds,
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and is now dedicated
to helping others

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who have lived through
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in the foster care system.

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- Here at the Foundation,

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we serve all families
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or high-conflict situations,

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<i>be it families who are</i>
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<i>families who have adopted</i>

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who need
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or just families
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<i>- Ashley's desire</i>
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<i>stems from her own childhood</i>
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<i>- I was placed</i>
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<i>when I was</i>
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<i>And I spent almost</i>
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I later learned that more
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were or became
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forced to swallow hot sauce.

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<i>I didn't understand</i>
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<i>- After years of neglect,</i>

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<i>12-year-old Ashley was finally</i>
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<i>by court-appointed guardian</i>
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- Mary believed me when
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<i>She was the one person</i>
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<i>to take care of me,</i>

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and yet she did the most to get
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and ultimately changed
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<i>- Being proud of Ashley,</i>

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that's not even the word
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I'm not even sure what it is.

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<i>I can remember</i>
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<i>when she was</i>
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with her life, she said,

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"I wanna make sure
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has to go
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So she's always known
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- I was just like you.

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And I was adopted too.

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<i>- Just as she was helped,</i>

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<i>Ashley now supports</i>
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<i>among them Janna,</i>
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<i>of adopting eight-year-old</i>
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<i>- I am her sixth placement.</i>

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She's faced significant trauma,
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<i>Things got really,</i>
<i>really hard at home.</i>

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<i>We were introduced to Ashley,</i>

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<i>told about</i>
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And truly,
the clouds started to part.

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<i>- When I was a kid growing</i>
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I thought there was something
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<i>that I was broken,</i>
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Now as an adult,

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I can help children
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and their power
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<i>And when you're able</i>
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<i>that kind of power and</i>
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unbelievable things can happen.

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- It's such
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- Likewise.

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- What's the most important
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that's helped you
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- I want my story
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that no matter what
your past experiences are,

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no matter what
your family of origin,

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no matter what
your life circumstance is,

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resiliency can come
at any age, any stage.

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So you, if you're struggling,

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have opportunity
to turn things around,

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and there will be
better days ahead.

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- Well, you're definitely
a Woman of Worth,

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as are all of you.

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And thank you so much

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for sharing your story with us.
- My pleasure.

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<i>* *</i>

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- Sadly, not all of this year's
Women of Worth honorees

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were able to make it
to Paris this evening.

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Lara was unable due
to ill health.

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But I'm very happy
she's able to join me

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for a chat right now.

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How does it feel to be
one of the honorees this year?

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- It was such an honor.

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It really came
at such a wonderful time

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because I was facing

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progressing metastatic
breast cancer

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and getting a lot of bad news

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and just feeling
really terrible physically.

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And so to get
this really exciting award

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and this recognition
for my life's work...

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brought this spark of joy
into my life

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that was really needed.

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- Tell me a little bit more
about Hope Scarves.

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- Absolutely.
So I was originally diagnosed

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with breast cancer when
I was 30 years old

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<i>and seven months pregnant.</i>

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And a friend of a friend,
who I had never met,

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named Kelly sent me
a box of scarves

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with a note that said,
"You can do this."

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<i>After I had received</i>
<i>these scarves and worn them,</i>

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<i>I realized how much they</i>
<i>could help another person.</i>

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- Yes!

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That's a good one.

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- And I realized the power
of storytelling

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and passing the scarves on.

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<i>[soft music]</i>

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<i>Hope Scarves started</i>
<i>with two or three scarves</i>

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<i>in my spare bedroom,</i>
<i>and now today,</i>

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we've sent nearly 20,000
Hope Scarves

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<i>to 27 different countries.</i>

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<i>The oldest recipient is 97.</i>

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<i>The youngest</i>
<i>is just six months old.</i>

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- We are positive.
- Good!

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- See, that's always
a good thing.

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- That's all you want.
- [laughs]

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Here, you want to celebrate!

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<i>- What began</i>
<i>as a global community</i>

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<i>to connect those going</i>
<i>through similar ordeals</i>

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<i>has now grown</i>
<i>into a fundraising body</i>

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<i>for vital research</i>
<i>into metastatic breast cancer.</i>

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- The average life expectancy
is still 2 to 3 years.

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<i>114 people die every day</i>
<i>of metastatic breast cancer.</i>

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<i>We've invested</i>
<i>almost $1.5 million</i>

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<i>in metastatic</i>
<i>breast cancer research,</i>

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which really got to the heart
of what I feel is so important,

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which is about turning
heartbreak into hope.

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It is just like,
"Okay, now how do we--how do

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build on that
and keep growing," you know?

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The idea of... dying

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and not being here
to see Hope Scarves

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grow into all it can be
is really sad and scary.

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It's not that you have
to fill my shoes.

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It's that we're gonna
find you

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your own amazing set of shoes.

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- Knowing Hope Scarves is
going to continue,

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passing on the baton
to somebody else

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to lead the organization,

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it brings her such peace
knowing that we've got this.

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<i>* *</i>

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- The idea that my children
will watch it grow,

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and that my friends
will see it,

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and that people will remember
me...

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not only for who I was
as an individual,

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but what I created here,

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it brings me so much joy
and gratitude.

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<i>* *</i>

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<i>- Tell me about the grant.</i>

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How are you gonna use it?

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<i>- We've created</i>
<i>a strategic plan</i>

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for the future of Hope Scarves
and what looks like beyond me.

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And though that's
a really hard conversation,

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it's something
that is so powerful

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because it's really amazing
to know

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that I've created
an organization

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that is bigger than me
and that will be my legacy.

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- Thank you so much, Lara,
for, you know, joining us.

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You have touched so many lives

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and you're doing
incredible work.

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<i>I thank you</i>
<i>from the bottom of my heart</i>

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for all of the women
that still have yet

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to be affected
by your legacy.

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- Thank you so much.
It's an honor to be recognized

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for something
I'm so passionate about.

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<i>- Join us after the break,</i>
<i>when Gemma Chan talks</i>

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<i>to a woman who is giving</i>
<i>self-worth to the homeless.</i>

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.

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<i>[upbeat music]</i>

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- Welcome back
to our Women of Worth special.

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<i>[soft music]</i>

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In a world
where we need more empathy,

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it often helps to put ourselves
in other people's shoes.

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And, Briana, I know that's
exactly how you got started,

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so can you please tell
us a bit about that?

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- Absolutely.
I thought

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the best way in order
to help the homeless

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is to become like a homeless.

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<i>I lived on the streets</i>
<i>for 32 days.</i>

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<i>You're sweating.</i>
<i>It's raining.</i>

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Like, I need to shower,
and I can't do that.

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I need to use the restroom,
and I can't do that.

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<i>You know, I got a bug bite.</i>

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<i>Like, I'm outside.</i>

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I'm like, "What now?"

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That's when I created
Street Team Movement.

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<i>- Street Team Movement</i>
<i>partners</i>

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<i>with local laundromats,</i>
<i>who open their doors</i>

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<i>to the homeless community.</i>

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<i>For many, it's life-changing.</i>

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<i>- There was two brothers,</i>
<i>the Anderson brothers.</i>

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<i>They came in.</i>

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<i>They had job interviews</i>
<i>the next day</i>

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<i>as welders and they needed</i>
<i>these jobs.</i>

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<i>So we did their laundry</i>
<i>for them.</i>

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And they called the next day,
and they said,

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"The hiring manager said
no one looks clean

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in welding interviews."

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And they both walked out
with jobs that day.

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<i>And they said,</i>
<i>"We didn't feel homeless.</i>

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We felt normal for once."

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<i>- As well as helping</i>
<i>the homeless with laundry,</i>

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<i>they offer hygiene essentials</i>

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<i>and a safe place to hang out.</i>

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- We have a whole coffee bar
set up

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with, like, actual glass mugs.

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And I remember one
of our homeless friends,

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Eugene, he sat there
the first time he had his mug,

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and--and he cried.

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Yeah.

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He hadn't drank
from a regular cup

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in a long time.

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And it's something
that was so little

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that we didn't even
think about.

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It meant everything to him.

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<i>- Since its inception,</i>
<i>Street Team has done</i>

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<i>over 20,000 loads of laundry</i>

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<i>and handed out over a million</i>
<i>hygiene items.</i>

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- What we're gonna be doing
is we're gonna

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pack our feminine hygiene kits.

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- Briana is the girl
who knows what she wants to do.

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And she's going to do it.

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<i>To be around her is to know</i>

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that we are going
to get it done.

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- She's the real deal.
She is making a direct impact

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in Orlando, where there is

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<i>a huge need for services</i>
<i>like this.</i>

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<i>And you can just see</i>
<i>the difference that she makes.</i>

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<i>- The mission</i>
<i>of Street Team Movement</i>

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is to restore hope
to homeless individuals.

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<i>* *</i>

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<i>Everyone deserves to be clean,</i>

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<i>because if you feel clean,</i>

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you begin to feel fragments
of the person

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that you were coming back.

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- Homelessness is a global
problem, and it's something

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we all need to take seriously,
and I feel that especially

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because of the last couple
of years and the pandemic,

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so many more families will
have been pushed to the brink

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and probably over
that poverty line

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and potentially
into homelessness.

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So what do you think
that the people watching

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should be focusing on,

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or what is something small
that they could do?

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- If you see a homeless person,
look them in the eyes.

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Something I experienced
on the street was,

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nobody will look you in the
eyes.

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It's something so small,

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but you start
to not feel like a human.

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And people start to look
at you differently

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or they ignore you
completely altogether.

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And if you ignore the problem,
it doesn't mean it goes away.

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- Yeah.
- And I want everyone to know

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that they're seen.

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And just by being seen,

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that really does change
somebody's life.

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Just to let them know
that you see them.

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- I think
that's brilliant advice.

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- Thank you.

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<i>* *</i>

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- The brains and the talent
in this room

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is so impressive,
to say the least.

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And their stories are
so very empowering.

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As we know,
Paris is the fashion capital.

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And here's a woman giving
a new meaning to fashion.

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Amanda,

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<i>it sounds as if your nonprofit</i>

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<i>has really been the focus</i>
<i>of your time</i>

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for the last few
years.

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So tell us all about it.

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- I started
the Fashion Foundation.

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It's a nonprofit where
I get designers

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<i>from around the world</i>
<i>to donate product</i>

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<i>that they no longer need.</i>

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<i>[upbeat music]</i>

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<i>We sell that product</i>
<i>to consumers on our website</i>

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<i>for a fraction</i>
<i>of the retail cost,</i>

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<i>and we use</i>
<i>the proceeds to help</i>

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local underprivileged kids
throughout New York.

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<i>* *</i>

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<i>I was</i>
<i>in the fashion industry</i>

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<i>and just saw</i>
<i>that we had a problem.</i>

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<i>We were overproducing samples.</i>

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<i>And I just kind of thought,</i>
<i>as a 23-year-old,</i>

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like, let me figure
out how to get designers

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to donate product to me.

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<i>* *</i>

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<i>- The donated goods go on sale</i>

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<i>on the Fashion Foundation</i>
<i>website,</i>

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<i>and the money raised is used</i>
<i>to provide</i>

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<i>much-needed supplies</i>
<i>in the local community.</i>

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<i>- October 2020,</i>

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that's our first work together.

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Amanda went ahead,
and she supplied over 500 bags

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<i>of school supplies</i>
<i>for children</i>

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<i>in family shelters</i>
<i>all across Brooklyn.</i>

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- We did school uniforms
for 455 children.

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- We have had a elementary
school in Brooklyn

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<i>that we helped to create</i>
<i>a school library for them.</i>

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<i>We've helped create</i>
<i>a school playground in Harlem.</i>

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- Christmas.

464
00:19:16,031 --> 00:19:18,992
Girl, Christmas was crazy.
- Hello.

465
00:19:19,034 --> 00:19:20,535
- Was Christmas crazy?
- Hello.

466
00:19:20,577 --> 00:19:21,786
She did blankets.

467
00:19:21,828 --> 00:19:22,704
She did hats.
- Hats.

468
00:19:22,746 --> 00:19:24,080
- Gloves, scarves,

469
00:19:24,122 --> 00:19:26,332
activity books, crayons...

470
00:19:26,374 --> 00:19:27,334
- And the shelters.
- We were like

471
00:19:27,375 --> 00:19:28,585
real-life Santa Clauses.
- Yeah.

472
00:19:28,626 --> 00:19:31,212
<i>[soft music]</i>

473
00:19:31,254 --> 00:19:33,548
<i>- As well as art</i>
<i>and school supplies,</i>

474
00:19:33,590 --> 00:19:37,093
<i>the foundation runs</i>
<i>the Let's Get Artsy program</i>

475
00:19:37,135 --> 00:19:39,346
<i>every Sunday,</i>
<i>a chance for local kids</i>

476
00:19:39,387 --> 00:19:42,766
<i>to have fun</i>
<i>and explore their creativity.</i>

477
00:19:42,807 --> 00:19:45,518
<i>- She's really big</i>
<i>into arts and culture</i>

478
00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:47,062
because that's something
that really lacks

479
00:19:47,103 --> 00:19:48,688
in schools of color.

480
00:19:48,730 --> 00:19:51,941
Amanda saw that and said,
"What? This is all you have?"

481
00:19:51,983 --> 00:19:53,193
And the next day,

482
00:19:53,234 --> 00:19:55,862
it was like $5,000 worth
of equipment came.

483
00:19:55,904 --> 00:19:58,406
- One, two, three. Oh!

484
00:19:58,448 --> 00:20:00,784
- I'm like,
"Yo, who does that?"

485
00:20:00,825 --> 00:20:02,702
- Amanda.
- The Fashion Foundation.

486
00:20:02,744 --> 00:20:04,371
- They do it.
- Yeah.

487
00:20:04,412 --> 00:20:07,457
<i>- Still running the company</i>
<i>virtually single-handed,</i>

488
00:20:07,499 --> 00:20:10,210
<i>Amanda now works</i>
<i>with over 20 schools</i>

489
00:20:10,251 --> 00:20:13,421
<i>and has helped</i>
<i>16,000 local children.</i>

490
00:20:13,463 --> 00:20:14,631
- I saw a problem,

491
00:20:14,673 --> 00:20:16,132
and I'm addressing
that problem every day.

492
00:20:16,174 --> 00:20:18,551
<i>So I feel, like, a great sense</i>
<i>of pride in what I do.</i>

493
00:20:18,593 --> 00:20:20,762
<i>- She's truly</i>
<i>an extraordinary human being.</i>

494
00:20:20,804 --> 00:20:21,971
She doesn't look at color.

495
00:20:22,013 --> 00:20:23,348
She doesn't think about race.

496
00:20:23,390 --> 00:20:25,934
She just serves
because there is a need,

497
00:20:25,975 --> 00:20:28,061
and that's what sets her apart.

498
00:20:28,103 --> 00:20:30,689
That's what sets
the Fashion Foundation apart.

499
00:20:30,730 --> 00:20:32,232
<i>- 'Cause it's really hard</i>
<i>to actually track</i>

500
00:20:32,273 --> 00:20:33,983
<i>where your impact is going,</i>

501
00:20:34,025 --> 00:20:36,653
but it has funded
a lot of smiles.

502
00:20:36,695 --> 00:20:38,196
<i>People say, they're like,</i>
<i>"How do you measure</i>

503
00:20:38,238 --> 00:20:39,322
<i>your impact?"</i>
<i>and I honestly say,</i>

504
00:20:39,364 --> 00:20:40,990
<i>"We measure it in smiles."</i>

505
00:20:41,032 --> 00:20:44,953
<i>* *</i>

506
00:20:44,994 --> 00:20:47,038
- I think that's such
a good message

507
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,082
I think you're giving us all.

508
00:20:49,124 --> 00:20:51,668
And obviously, here,
we have many women

509
00:20:51,710 --> 00:20:54,671
who have done extraordinary
things for communities.

510
00:20:54,713 --> 00:20:57,465
It's a great story.
It's a great idea.

511
00:20:57,507 --> 00:20:59,426
And the best thing
will be to know

512
00:20:59,467 --> 00:21:01,386
that our money
that we're spending

513
00:21:01,428 --> 00:21:06,850
is going towards such a great
service as you are providing.

514
00:21:06,891 --> 00:21:08,184
- Thank you so much.

515
00:21:10,020 --> 00:21:11,521
<i>- Join us after the break,</i>

516
00:21:11,563 --> 00:21:13,732
<i>when Aja Naomi King</i>
<i>meets a woman</i>

517
00:21:13,773 --> 00:21:15,817
<i>who's given a voice</i>
<i>to marginalized families</i>

518
00:21:24,451 --> 00:21:24,617
.

519
00:21:24,659 --> 00:21:25,118
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

520
00:21:27,662 --> 00:21:28,955
- Welcome back.

521
00:21:28,997 --> 00:21:31,583
We're in the beautiful,
romantic city of Paris,

522
00:21:31,624 --> 00:21:34,419
where our ten compassionate
and committed honorees

523
00:21:34,461 --> 00:21:35,795
are sharing their stories.

524
00:21:35,837 --> 00:21:38,965
<i>[soft music]</i>

525
00:21:39,007 --> 00:21:41,885
I'm joined by a Woman
of Worth who is shining

526
00:21:41,926 --> 00:21:44,929
a very important light
on a heartbreaking issue

527
00:21:44,971 --> 00:21:47,640
that doesn't get the prominence
it deserves.

528
00:21:47,682 --> 00:21:48,516
Welcome, Natalie.

529
00:21:48,558 --> 00:21:49,851
- Thank you for having me.

530
00:21:49,893 --> 00:21:51,269
- I would really love
it if you could tell us

531
00:21:51,311 --> 00:21:53,480
all about the Black
and Missing Foundation.

532
00:21:53,521 --> 00:21:56,441
- Sure, so the Black
and Missing Foundation--

533
00:21:56,483 --> 00:21:58,943
we are a nonprofit
organization,

534
00:21:58,985 --> 00:22:03,448
and we focus on missing people
of color across the country.

535
00:22:03,490 --> 00:22:07,285
When we first started
the organization,

536
00:22:07,327 --> 00:22:11,206
we had no idea
of the magnitude of the issue.

537
00:22:11,247 --> 00:22:12,957
<i>Right now, today,</i>

538
00:22:12,999 --> 00:22:16,670
<i>close to 40% of all persons</i>
<i>missing are of color.</i>

539
00:22:16,711 --> 00:22:20,674
<i>But we definitely don't see</i>
<i>ourselves on the news cycle.</i>

540
00:22:20,715 --> 00:22:23,968
And that's why we were
created as an organization,

541
00:22:24,010 --> 00:22:27,806
to be that advocate
or to be that liaison

542
00:22:27,847 --> 00:22:31,559
between families and media
to get the word out.

543
00:22:31,601 --> 00:22:33,853
<i>- Despite</i>
<i>having full-time careers,</i>

544
00:22:33,895 --> 00:22:37,107
<i>Natalie and her sister-in-law,</i>
<i>Derrica, work tirelessly</i>

545
00:22:37,148 --> 00:22:38,650
<i>to make a change.</i>

546
00:22:38,692 --> 00:22:41,319
- When it comes
to missing persons of color,

547
00:22:41,361 --> 00:22:43,530
our lives are just not valued.

548
00:22:43,571 --> 00:22:47,617
And it's really giving
opportunities to predators

549
00:22:47,659 --> 00:22:50,245
to prey on us because,
in their mind,

550
00:22:50,286 --> 00:22:52,831
they know no one is gonna
come looking for us.

551
00:22:52,872 --> 00:22:56,543
They know that law enforcement
is gonna classify us

552
00:22:56,584 --> 00:22:59,796
<i>as runaways or associate</i>
<i>our disappearance</i>

553
00:22:59,838 --> 00:23:01,506
<i>with some sort</i>
<i>of criminal activity.</i>

554
00:23:01,548 --> 00:23:06,511
<i>It all breaks down</i>
<i>to the color of our skin.</i>

555
00:23:06,553 --> 00:23:10,682
- Ten years ago,
my goddaughter was kidnapped.

556
00:23:10,724 --> 00:23:14,310
At first, her mother went
in to the police station,

557
00:23:14,352 --> 00:23:15,687
and they just
kept blowing her off.

558
00:23:15,729 --> 00:23:17,022
<i>They just didn't believe</i>
<i>she was missing.</i>

559
00:23:17,063 --> 00:23:19,733
<i>I wrote about it</i>
<i>and put it on my blog.</i>

560
00:23:19,774 --> 00:23:22,944
<i>Natalie found me</i>
<i>from my blog the same day,</i>

561
00:23:22,986 --> 00:23:25,363
and by Monday,
Natalie made the national news.

562
00:23:25,405 --> 00:23:27,365
- Once you receive
media coverage,

563
00:23:27,407 --> 00:23:31,036
it alerts the community
that someone is missing.

564
00:23:31,077 --> 00:23:32,412
And they can be vigilant,

565
00:23:32,454 --> 00:23:35,582
which will increase
the chance of a recovery.

566
00:23:35,623 --> 00:23:38,460
But it also puts pressure
on law enforcement

567
00:23:38,501 --> 00:23:41,296
to add resources to the case.

568
00:23:41,338 --> 00:23:42,714
<i>- Tragically,</i>

569
00:23:42,756 --> 00:23:45,300
<i>the body of Ni'cola's</i>
<i>goddaughter, Jade,</i>

570
00:23:45,342 --> 00:23:47,886
<i>was found four days later.</i>

571
00:23:47,927 --> 00:23:49,804
- At least we got
some type of comfort

572
00:23:49,846 --> 00:23:52,140
'cause we know exactly
where she is.

573
00:23:52,182 --> 00:23:53,975
I think, for any mother,

574
00:23:54,017 --> 00:23:56,394
they'd rather know
where their baby is

575
00:23:56,436 --> 00:23:59,522
than if that child
up the street could be mine.

576
00:23:59,564 --> 00:24:01,358
<i>If we did not have Natalie...</i>

577
00:24:01,399 --> 00:24:02,901
<i>[soft music]</i>

578
00:24:02,942 --> 00:24:05,737
<i>Jade would probably still</i>
<i>be missing.</i>

579
00:24:05,779 --> 00:24:06,863
<i>* *</i>

580
00:24:06,905 --> 00:24:11,076
<i>- Our fight</i>
<i>is for the voiceless.</i>

581
00:24:11,117 --> 00:24:12,243
<i>* *</i>

582
00:24:12,285 --> 00:24:14,412
These families are desperate.

583
00:24:14,454 --> 00:24:16,581
<i>* *</i>

584
00:24:16,623 --> 00:24:18,208
- For you personally,

585
00:24:18,249 --> 00:24:23,338
what does that do to be able
to give voice to the voiceless?

586
00:24:23,380 --> 00:24:24,923
- It means a lot.

587
00:24:24,964 --> 00:24:27,425
We've come a long way
as an organization,

588
00:24:27,467 --> 00:24:30,637
but we have much more work
to do.

589
00:24:30,679 --> 00:24:35,100
We're still knocking on doors,
being turned away,

590
00:24:35,141 --> 00:24:36,768
asking for media coverage.

591
00:24:36,810 --> 00:24:38,770
We're not picking on the media

592
00:24:38,812 --> 00:24:41,147
because it takes
law enforcement, the media,

593
00:24:41,189 --> 00:24:43,274
and our community
to get involved.

594
00:24:43,316 --> 00:24:45,652
We all play a role in this.

595
00:24:45,694 --> 00:24:47,362
- In those really harsh
moments...

596
00:24:47,404 --> 00:24:48,488
- Mm-hmm.

597
00:24:48,530 --> 00:24:51,366
- How do you keep
the hope going?

598
00:24:51,408 --> 00:24:52,575
- You can't give up.

599
00:24:52,617 --> 00:24:57,539
Again, these are mothers
and fathers.

600
00:24:57,580 --> 00:25:00,041
<i>There's Akia Eggleston,</i>

601
00:25:00,083 --> 00:25:02,127
<i>Relisha Rudd,</i>

602
00:25:02,168 --> 00:25:03,962
<i>Jonathan Bandabaila,</i>

603
00:25:04,004 --> 00:25:05,588
<i>Keeshae Jacobs.</i>

604
00:25:05,630 --> 00:25:07,549
Those are just a few.

605
00:25:07,590 --> 00:25:10,385
There are thousands.

606
00:25:10,427 --> 00:25:11,886
- Thank you so much.

607
00:25:11,928 --> 00:25:15,807
Thank you for sharing
your story with us.

608
00:25:15,849 --> 00:25:17,851
We are with you.

609
00:25:17,892 --> 00:25:18,810
God bless you.

610
00:25:18,852 --> 00:25:20,979
So just thank you
for all of it.

611
00:25:21,021 --> 00:25:22,022
- Thank you.

612
00:25:22,063 --> 00:25:23,148
- Thank you so much.

613
00:25:23,189 --> 00:25:26,860
<i>* *</i>

614
00:25:26,901 --> 00:25:31,031
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

615
00:25:31,072 --> 00:25:34,159
- The pandemic has been
tough on all of us.

616
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,119
We've all had to adapt

617
00:25:36,161 --> 00:25:40,040
and dig deep for the strength
to get through it.

618
00:25:40,081 --> 00:25:44,336
Hearing inspiring stories
of people going above

619
00:25:44,377 --> 00:25:49,090
and beyond in their communities
has given us all hope.

620
00:25:49,132 --> 00:25:50,967
I am so happy to be joined

621
00:25:51,009 --> 00:25:53,511
by a woman
on the medical front line

622
00:25:53,553 --> 00:25:56,014
who saw an immediate problem

623
00:25:56,056 --> 00:26:00,769
and came up
with a brilliant solution.

624
00:26:00,810 --> 00:26:04,731
Natalie, it's a great honor
to get to speak with you.

625
00:26:04,773 --> 00:26:06,024
So--
<i>- You too.</i>

626
00:26:06,066 --> 00:26:07,859
- When the pandemic hit,

627
00:26:07,901 --> 00:26:10,653
tell me a little bit about what
was happening in your life.

628
00:26:10,695 --> 00:26:11,946
- Everything changed.

629
00:26:11,988 --> 00:26:14,074
I mean, we really went
into crisis mode.

630
00:26:14,115 --> 00:26:15,825
<i>[soft music]</i>

631
00:26:15,867 --> 00:26:18,995
<i>That night, I saw the news</i>
<i>and it was talking about,</i>

632
00:26:19,037 --> 00:26:20,413
<i>you know,</i>
<i>millions of restaurant workers</i>

633
00:26:20,455 --> 00:26:21,873
<i>who were getting laid off.</i>

634
00:26:21,915 --> 00:26:26,461
And hospital workers
were working crazy shifts

635
00:26:26,503 --> 00:26:28,672
and eating out
of vending machines.

636
00:26:28,713 --> 00:26:31,174
And so that's sort
of where the idea started.

637
00:26:31,216 --> 00:26:33,551
<i>- That night, she began</i>
<i>recruiting volunteers,</i>

638
00:26:33,593 --> 00:26:35,303
<i>and Off Their Plate was born.</i>

639
00:26:35,345 --> 00:26:36,513
<i>Within a couple of weeks,</i>

640
00:26:36,554 --> 00:26:38,640
<i>over $1 million</i>
<i>had been raised,</i>

641
00:26:38,682 --> 00:26:40,392
<i>allowing her to fund</i>
<i>this project</i>

642
00:26:40,433 --> 00:26:42,268
<i>in cities across America.</i>

643
00:26:42,310 --> 00:26:44,187
<i>- When COVID started,</i>
<i>I went crazy.</i>

644
00:26:44,229 --> 00:26:45,647
<i>I didn't know what to do</i>

645
00:26:45,689 --> 00:26:49,275
because I have my staff
that depend on the business.

646
00:26:49,317 --> 00:26:50,527
<i>I just cried, I'm like,</i>

647
00:26:50,568 --> 00:26:51,986
<i>"I have no idea</i>
<i>what I'm gonna do."</i>

648
00:26:52,028 --> 00:26:55,156
<i>And then I came across</i>
<i>Off Their Plate, basically,</i>

649
00:26:55,198 --> 00:26:56,491
<i>trying to save restaurants</i>

650
00:26:56,533 --> 00:26:59,035
by giving us, like,
at least $10 per plate

651
00:26:59,077 --> 00:27:01,705
to produce food
to bring it to the hospital.

652
00:27:01,746 --> 00:27:03,248
So I'm like, "Where do I sign?"

653
00:27:03,289 --> 00:27:04,416
<i>* *</i>

654
00:27:04,457 --> 00:27:06,793
- We started out serving
hospital workers,

655
00:27:06,835 --> 00:27:09,421
people that the community
wanted to just, like, wrap up

656
00:27:09,462 --> 00:27:12,507
in their arms and say thank you
for what you do every day.

657
00:27:12,549 --> 00:27:14,217
<i>* *</i>

658
00:27:14,259 --> 00:27:17,178
I knew we were headed somewhere
really interesting

659
00:27:17,220 --> 00:27:21,349
<i>when Barack Obama posted</i>
<i>on Instagram about us.</i>

660
00:27:21,391 --> 00:27:24,269
That is probably the most
surreal moment of my life.

661
00:27:24,310 --> 00:27:28,064
I think we can just grab some
meals and just hand them out.

662
00:27:28,106 --> 00:27:30,275
<i>- As hospitals began</i>
<i>to turn a corner,</i>

663
00:27:30,316 --> 00:27:33,570
<i>it became clear to Natalie</i>
<i>the Off-Their-Plate model</i>

664
00:27:33,611 --> 00:27:34,863
<i>could work equally well</i>

665
00:27:34,904 --> 00:27:36,740
<i>in providing</i>
<i>hot, nourishing meals</i>

666
00:27:36,781 --> 00:27:40,618
<i>to food-insecure families</i>
<i>throughout the country.</i>

667
00:27:40,660 --> 00:27:41,911
- Here you go.
So this is chicken.

668
00:27:41,953 --> 00:27:43,204
- Yeah.
- And that's vegetarian.

669
00:27:43,246 --> 00:27:46,666
- We work with mostly
women of color chefs

670
00:27:46,708 --> 00:27:49,294
around the country
to tackle hunger

671
00:27:49,336 --> 00:27:51,963
<i>exactly where they are</i>
<i>in their communities.</i>

672
00:27:52,005 --> 00:27:53,590
<i>And they do it doing</i>
<i>what they do best,</i>

673
00:27:53,631 --> 00:27:56,468
which is cook amazing food.

674
00:27:56,509 --> 00:27:57,802
- Chicken or vegetarian?

675
00:27:57,844 --> 00:27:59,888
- Chicken.
- Chicken right there.

676
00:27:59,929 --> 00:28:02,974
- What she did during
the pandemic, it's amazing.

677
00:28:03,016 --> 00:28:05,894
She has done a lot
to help so many of us.

678
00:28:05,935 --> 00:28:07,979
- By providing
restaurant wages,

679
00:28:08,021 --> 00:28:09,731
by supporting restaurants,

680
00:28:09,773 --> 00:28:13,318
we're hoping to rebuild
communities in that way.

681
00:28:13,360 --> 00:28:16,321
- You've created this
amazing network of volunteers.

682
00:28:16,363 --> 00:28:17,822
Can you tell me

683
00:28:17,864 --> 00:28:20,825
what a simple act of kindness
can do?

684
00:28:20,867 --> 00:28:22,786
- Our generation
cares so deeply

685
00:28:22,827 --> 00:28:25,580
about where we head
in our decisions.

686
00:28:25,622 --> 00:28:28,083
And kindness is
at the root of it all.

687
00:28:28,124 --> 00:28:29,876
- Mm-hmm.
<i>- And you can start small.</i>

688
00:28:29,918 --> 00:28:31,836
You asked, you know,
simple act of kindness,

689
00:28:31,878 --> 00:28:33,922
what can that mean?

690
00:28:33,963 --> 00:28:36,841
It is glue, it is the glue
that sticks us to one another.

691
00:28:36,883 --> 00:28:38,218
One of the easiest ways,
I think,

692
00:28:38,259 --> 00:28:40,053
to build a friendship,
I've now realized,

693
00:28:40,095 --> 00:28:42,389
is to work
on something together

694
00:28:42,430 --> 00:28:44,099
that's about somebody else.

695
00:28:44,140 --> 00:28:45,433
<i>- Yes.</i>
- I think that joins you

696
00:28:45,475 --> 00:28:47,352
in a way
that is really special.

697
00:28:47,394 --> 00:28:48,687
- Yes, that's beautiful.

698
00:28:48,728 --> 00:28:50,105
And finally, Natalie,

699
00:28:50,146 --> 00:28:51,690
what would you say
to people at home

700
00:28:51,731 --> 00:28:53,900
who have been inspired
by your story?

701
00:28:53,942 --> 00:28:57,529
- To care about something
that's bigger than yourself

702
00:28:57,570 --> 00:28:59,906
and to go
and find other people

703
00:28:59,948 --> 00:29:03,368
who care about it as well
because whatever that is,

704
00:29:03,410 --> 00:29:04,536
it's waiting for you,

705
00:29:04,577 --> 00:29:07,122
and it's waiting
for your craft.

706
00:29:07,163 --> 00:29:08,998
And if you go looking
for the team

707
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,793
that's passionate about it
and you don't find that team,

708
00:29:11,835 --> 00:29:13,503
then you should go
start it yourself.

709
00:29:13,545 --> 00:29:14,546
<i>* *</i>

710
00:29:14,587 --> 00:29:16,715
- Wow.
And that's what you did.

711
00:29:16,756 --> 00:29:19,300
<i>Congratulations.</i>

712
00:29:19,342 --> 00:29:21,428
<i>- Join us after the break,</i>

713
00:29:21,469 --> 00:29:23,722
<i>when Camila Cabello meets</i>
<i>a woman whose own grief</i>

714
00:29:23,763 --> 00:29:26,266
<i>inspired her to help others.</i>

715
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:33,648
.

716
00:29:33,690 --> 00:29:34,149
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

717
00:29:36,651 --> 00:29:38,069
- Welcome back.

718
00:29:38,111 --> 00:29:40,530
I've been so touched and amazed
by the stories

719
00:29:40,572 --> 00:29:42,115
I've heard so far.

720
00:29:42,157 --> 00:29:44,242
Stories of women
who go above and beyond

721
00:29:44,284 --> 00:29:45,702
to serve their communities.

722
00:29:45,744 --> 00:29:48,788
That's what L'Oréal Paris
Women of Worth is all about.

723
00:29:48,830 --> 00:29:50,957
<i>[soft music]</i>

724
00:29:50,999 --> 00:29:52,625
<i>I'm joined by Marian.</i>

725
00:29:52,667 --> 00:29:54,336
I'm so sorry for your loss.

726
00:29:54,377 --> 00:29:55,545
- Thank you.

727
00:29:55,587 --> 00:29:58,381
- And if it's not too
triggering for you,

728
00:29:58,423 --> 00:30:01,843
is it okay if I ask
what your son was like?

729
00:30:01,885 --> 00:30:03,803
- Yes.

730
00:30:03,845 --> 00:30:06,806
Chad was just
an incredible child.

731
00:30:06,848 --> 00:30:09,059
It was in--when he was
in high school

732
00:30:09,100 --> 00:30:11,686
that he had shared
with his girlfriend

733
00:30:11,728 --> 00:30:13,021
that he wanted
to take his life.

734
00:30:13,063 --> 00:30:15,982
And at that time,
Chad was the poster child

735
00:30:16,024 --> 00:30:17,942
of success on the outside.
- Wow, wow.

736
00:30:17,984 --> 00:30:18,985
- He was smart.

737
00:30:19,027 --> 00:30:20,612
He had a ton of friends.

738
00:30:20,653 --> 00:30:22,364
<i>And I know if he were here,</i>
<i>he would say,</i>

739
00:30:22,405 --> 00:30:24,491
<i>"Mom, make sure you tell</i>
<i>them I was a Scout."</i>

740
00:30:24,532 --> 00:30:26,242
I think of all the things
he enjoyed the most--

741
00:30:26,284 --> 00:30:27,452
<i>- Yeah.</i>
<i>- Was his time</i>

742
00:30:27,494 --> 00:30:28,661
<i>spent as a Scout.</i>

743
00:30:28,703 --> 00:30:30,997
<i>* *</i>

744
00:30:31,039 --> 00:30:33,625
- He loved his camping.

745
00:30:33,667 --> 00:30:35,168
Didn't he, Larry?
- He did.

746
00:30:35,210 --> 00:30:37,003
Oh, and there's the running.

747
00:30:37,045 --> 00:30:38,838
That's his other love.

748
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,549
<i>Chad was recognized</i>
<i>as one of the top runners</i>

749
00:30:41,591 --> 00:30:43,051
in the United States.

750
00:30:43,093 --> 00:30:44,886
And then he had a knee injury.

751
00:30:44,928 --> 00:30:46,221
And his orthopedist said,

752
00:30:46,262 --> 00:30:48,598
"Chad, your running career
is over."

753
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,934
<i>That was really</i>
<i>the turning point for Chad.</i>

754
00:30:50,975 --> 00:30:52,227
<i>* *</i>

755
00:30:52,268 --> 00:30:54,187
<i>Over the course</i>
<i>of the next six months,</i>

756
00:30:54,229 --> 00:30:57,023
he had tried to kill himself
six different times.

757
00:30:57,065 --> 00:30:58,566
<i>* *</i>

758
00:30:58,608 --> 00:30:59,943
<i>And those six months</i>

759
00:30:59,984 --> 00:31:01,903
<i>I would not wish</i>
<i>on my worst enemy.</i>

760
00:31:01,945 --> 00:31:05,407
And it drives me to do
what I do.

761
00:31:05,448 --> 00:31:08,410
<i>- Marian's daughter, Jess,</i>
<i>and husband Larry</i>

762
00:31:08,451 --> 00:31:10,203
<i>have joined her</i>
<i>in her mission</i>

763
00:31:10,245 --> 00:31:12,330
<i>to educate</i>
<i>and support young people</i>

764
00:31:12,372 --> 00:31:14,124
<i>dealing</i>
<i>with suicidal thoughts,</i>

765
00:31:14,165 --> 00:31:16,584
<i>anxiety, and depression.</i>

766
00:31:16,626 --> 00:31:18,420
<i>- Chad would have been</i>
<i>so proud of you</i>

767
00:31:18,461 --> 00:31:22,382
for driving this organization
from kitchen table

768
00:31:22,424 --> 00:31:27,095
to probably one of the top 5%
nonprofits in the state.

769
00:31:27,137 --> 00:31:30,724
<i>* *</i>

770
00:31:30,765 --> 00:31:33,101
<i>- It has grown through</i>
<i>the years to the point where,</i>

771
00:31:33,143 --> 00:31:37,480
today,
we have about 45 employees.

772
00:31:37,522 --> 00:31:40,066
<i>And we are</i>
<i>in almost every school</i>

773
00:31:40,108 --> 00:31:41,985
<i>in the St. Louis</i>
<i>metropolitan area.</i>

774
00:31:42,027 --> 00:31:44,112
- This is the first year
we're gonna have CHADS

775
00:31:44,154 --> 00:31:46,114
in our entire school.

776
00:31:46,156 --> 00:31:48,825
- Gosh.
- We have students dying daily

777
00:31:48,867 --> 00:31:50,326
of suicide.

778
00:31:50,368 --> 00:31:53,288
<i>She trained our staff</i>
<i>by telling her story</i>

779
00:31:53,329 --> 00:31:56,916
and knew that her mission
was to save lives.

780
00:31:56,958 --> 00:31:59,252
<i>* *</i>

781
00:31:59,294 --> 00:32:01,880
<i>- Yet to see other kids</i>
<i>come through it</i>

782
00:32:01,921 --> 00:32:05,050
<i>and to find that joy again...</i>

783
00:32:05,091 --> 00:32:07,552
it just melts my heart.

784
00:32:07,594 --> 00:32:12,432
- She is pouring her heart
and her pain

785
00:32:12,474 --> 00:32:15,268
into other children,
other students,

786
00:32:15,310 --> 00:32:17,645
<i>other people, other families,</i>

787
00:32:17,687 --> 00:32:20,065
<i>and saying, "I don't want</i>
<i>anyone else to go through</i>

788
00:32:20,106 --> 00:32:21,024
<i>what I've gone through."</i>

789
00:32:21,066 --> 00:32:22,817
She is remarkable.

790
00:32:22,859 --> 00:32:24,819
- Aw, man, the memories.

791
00:32:24,861 --> 00:32:25,987
Look at Chad.

792
00:32:26,029 --> 00:32:28,114
<i>I know he would be proud.</i>

793
00:32:28,156 --> 00:32:30,450
[laughter]
And I know he would...

794
00:32:30,492 --> 00:32:34,788
he'd give me a high five
and say, "You go, Mom.

795
00:32:34,829 --> 00:32:36,164
You got this."

796
00:32:36,206 --> 00:32:37,791
<i>* *</i>

797
00:32:37,832 --> 00:32:42,879
- How does your coalition
help with that awareness?

798
00:32:42,921 --> 00:32:44,756
How do you help these kids?

799
00:32:44,798 --> 00:32:48,635
- So many kids like Chad
are masters of disguise.

800
00:32:48,677 --> 00:32:50,637
They put their mask on,
and they pretend

801
00:32:50,679 --> 00:32:54,599
everything is just fine
when they are so broken inside.

802
00:32:54,641 --> 00:32:57,477
One out of eight children
have depression.

803
00:32:57,519 --> 00:33:01,356
So being able to try
to find those kids like Chad

804
00:33:01,398 --> 00:33:06,820
and to be able to have
that entire classroom know

805
00:33:06,861 --> 00:33:10,490
what to do when their friend
shares that with them.

806
00:33:10,532 --> 00:33:15,078
So just empowering kids
to know what to do is huge

807
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,872
'cause this is something
we don't talk about.

808
00:33:17,914 --> 00:33:21,001
So just fulfilling that dream,
like Chad said,

809
00:33:21,042 --> 00:33:25,630
giving kids the tools
what to say and to teach them

810
00:33:25,672 --> 00:33:27,298
that it's not your fault

811
00:33:27,340 --> 00:33:29,509
and it's nothing
to be ashamed of.

812
00:33:29,551 --> 00:33:32,387
- When you're a kid,
all you wanna do is fit in

813
00:33:32,429 --> 00:33:33,555
and look like you're having
a great time

814
00:33:33,596 --> 00:33:35,015
and look like you're cool...
- Yes, yes.

815
00:33:35,056 --> 00:33:36,474
- And have it
all together.

816
00:33:36,516 --> 00:33:38,184
- Yeah.
-I've spoken a lot about

817
00:33:38,226 --> 00:33:41,021
my mental health in the past
and, you know,

818
00:33:41,062 --> 00:33:43,606
suffering with anxiety
and not anymore,

819
00:33:43,648 --> 00:33:45,775
but when I was young,
it was like--

820
00:33:45,817 --> 00:33:49,154
it felt like it was the thing
that was wrong with me

821
00:33:49,195 --> 00:33:50,280
that I couldn't--
- Yes.

822
00:33:50,321 --> 00:33:51,489
- That I couldn't talk about,

823
00:33:51,531 --> 00:33:53,366
which obviously
only makes it worse.

824
00:33:53,408 --> 00:33:56,327
- Yes, this conversation

825
00:33:56,369 --> 00:33:58,747
at a young age is so critical.

826
00:33:58,788 --> 00:34:00,832
- Thank you so much
for sharing your story with us.

827
00:34:00,874 --> 00:34:03,752
And thank you for the important
work that you're doing.

828
00:34:03,793 --> 00:34:05,170
- Thank you.

829
00:34:05,211 --> 00:34:12,344
<i>* *</i>

830
00:34:12,385 --> 00:34:16,348
- Now I was delighted
to be given the opportunity

831
00:34:16,389 --> 00:34:18,725
to talk to a very special
young woman

832
00:34:18,767 --> 00:34:21,728
who has focused her energy
on encouraging more women

833
00:34:21,770 --> 00:34:23,605
towards STEM careers.

834
00:34:23,646 --> 00:34:25,732
And for those who don't know
what that stands for,

835
00:34:25,774 --> 00:34:29,277
it is science, technology,
engineering, and mathematics.

836
00:34:29,319 --> 00:34:30,737
<i>* *</i>

837
00:34:30,779 --> 00:34:34,407
Pooja, it is so wonderful
to meet you

838
00:34:34,449 --> 00:34:38,411
and to see your beautiful face
there.

839
00:34:38,453 --> 00:34:39,704
- It's such an honor
to meet you, Kate.

840
00:34:39,746 --> 00:34:41,873
And I'm obviously
such a big fan.

841
00:34:41,915 --> 00:34:43,333
<i>- Thank you so much.</i>

842
00:34:43,375 --> 00:34:45,669
How did you come
to be in this place

843
00:34:45,710 --> 00:34:49,589
where you felt so passionate
and so motivated?

844
00:34:49,631 --> 00:34:51,633
- So I started
ProjectCSGIRLS

845
00:34:51,675 --> 00:34:54,761
because of my own experiences
with the tech-gender gap.

846
00:34:54,803 --> 00:34:56,763
I remember
vividly looking around

847
00:34:56,805 --> 00:34:59,224
my computer science class
on my very first day

848
00:34:59,265 --> 00:35:02,310
of high school and realizing
that I was one of three girls

849
00:35:02,352 --> 00:35:04,437
<i>in a class</i>
<i>of over 30 students.</i>

850
00:35:04,479 --> 00:35:06,940
My first reaction was
just a feeling of discomfort

851
00:35:06,981 --> 00:35:08,525
and feeling like
I didn't belong.

852
00:35:08,566 --> 00:35:09,984
<i>- Despite making up</i>

853
00:35:10,026 --> 00:35:12,404
<i>nearly half</i>
<i>of the American workforce,</i>

854
00:35:12,445 --> 00:35:14,781
<i>women are still vastly</i>
<i>underrepresented</i>

855
00:35:14,823 --> 00:35:16,074
<i>in STEM careers.</i>

856
00:35:16,116 --> 00:35:19,953
<i>Science, tech, engineering,</i>
<i>and mathematics.</i>

857
00:35:19,994 --> 00:35:22,455
<i>- When you think about</i>
<i>who a software engineer is,</i>

858
00:35:22,497 --> 00:35:24,124
the images that pop
into your mind

859
00:35:24,165 --> 00:35:26,167
are Mark Zuckerberg,
Bill Gates.

860
00:35:26,209 --> 00:35:28,503
So it's really about us
taking the time

861
00:35:28,545 --> 00:35:31,881
to change that stereotype
to encourage girls

862
00:35:31,923 --> 00:35:33,925
to find female role models.

863
00:35:33,967 --> 00:35:36,177
<i>- To make a change,</i>
<i>Pooja created</i>

864
00:35:36,219 --> 00:35:40,265
<i>an international nonprofit</i>
<i>called ProjectCSGIRLS,</i>

865
00:35:40,306 --> 00:35:43,101
<i>which shows middle-school</i>
<i>girls what they can achieve</i>

866
00:35:43,143 --> 00:35:45,812
<i>if they pursue their interests</i>
<i>in science.</i>

867
00:35:45,854 --> 00:35:47,772
- So you can add people
that you trust.

868
00:35:47,814 --> 00:35:50,233
You can walk in daylight
is the other one.

869
00:35:50,275 --> 00:35:52,318
This program
really encourages girls

870
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,362
to go deeper
into their interests

871
00:35:54,404 --> 00:35:57,407
and see more
of what you can do.

872
00:35:57,449 --> 00:35:59,826
- It's especially important
because it's for girls,

873
00:35:59,868 --> 00:36:02,454
and women and girls
haven't always been

874
00:36:02,495 --> 00:36:05,707
<i>accepted in, like, jobs</i>
<i>where science is involved.</i>

875
00:36:05,749 --> 00:36:10,795
- It's taught me to, like,
not only see problems but also,

876
00:36:10,837 --> 00:36:11,921
like, solutions.

877
00:36:11,963 --> 00:36:13,214
- Can you explain
to us a little bit about

878
00:36:13,256 --> 00:36:14,924
how a satellite phone works?

879
00:36:14,966 --> 00:36:16,176
<i>ProjectCSGIRLS</i>

880
00:36:16,217 --> 00:36:18,178
makes me feel
very, very confident

881
00:36:18,219 --> 00:36:22,057
that girls are gonna contribute
something very awesome

882
00:36:22,098 --> 00:36:23,350
and constructive to society.

883
00:36:23,391 --> 00:36:24,934
The fire's already been lit.

884
00:36:24,976 --> 00:36:27,645
<i>- Girls tend to gravitate</i>
<i>towards careers or projects</i>

885
00:36:27,687 --> 00:36:29,397
where they can
make a difference.

886
00:36:29,439 --> 00:36:31,775
So our goal at ProjectCSGIRLS
is to show them

887
00:36:31,816 --> 00:36:34,027
that technology is
a fantastic way

888
00:36:34,069 --> 00:36:36,488
to accomplish this and
to actually make a difference

889
00:36:36,529 --> 00:36:39,282
in the causes
that you care about.

890
00:36:39,324 --> 00:36:41,201
- Pooja,
your work is so inspiring.

891
00:36:41,242 --> 00:36:43,495
And we are all
so incredibly impressed.

892
00:36:43,536 --> 00:36:45,872
And we need more role models
like you,

893
00:36:45,914 --> 00:36:47,123
especially women of color

894
00:36:47,165 --> 00:36:48,958
<i>and from culturally diverse</i>
<i>background.</i>

895
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,544
So tell us what's next
for ProjectCSGIRLS.

896
00:36:51,586 --> 00:36:54,047
- So for us, it's all about
first expanding

897
00:36:54,089 --> 00:36:55,465
our existing programs.

898
00:36:55,507 --> 00:36:57,676
So adding more workshops
and chapters

899
00:36:57,717 --> 00:36:59,552
and generally increasing
the number of girls

900
00:36:59,594 --> 00:37:01,513
that take part
in our competition.

901
00:37:01,554 --> 00:37:03,264
- I've always said,
"If you speak from the heart,

902
00:37:03,306 --> 00:37:04,557
you can never go wrong."

903
00:37:04,599 --> 00:37:06,393
And you're clearly not
going wrong at all.

904
00:37:06,434 --> 00:37:08,853
Pooja, thank you
so much for taking the time

905
00:37:08,895 --> 00:37:10,397
to talk to us today.

906
00:37:10,438 --> 00:37:13,024
And I hope
that by sharing your story

907
00:37:13,066 --> 00:37:16,486
and highlighting how girls can
be at the heart of STEM,

908
00:37:16,528 --> 00:37:18,446
science, technology,
engineering, and mathematics,

909
00:37:18,488 --> 00:37:21,533
that we can start
to shift the perception

910
00:37:21,574 --> 00:37:24,119
of what women are capable
of in this field

911
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:25,912
and how much women can achieve

912
00:37:25,954 --> 00:37:28,248
in equal measure
to their male counterparts.

913
00:37:28,289 --> 00:37:29,541
You are an inspiration.

914
00:37:29,582 --> 00:37:31,084
Thank you so much.

915
00:37:31,126 --> 00:37:32,335
- Thank you so much, Kate.

916
00:37:32,377 --> 00:37:33,878
It was such an honor
to be here with you

917
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:35,505
and to share this space
with you.

918
00:37:35,547 --> 00:37:36,548
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

919
00:37:36,589 --> 00:37:38,299
<i>- Join us after the break,</i>

920
00:37:38,341 --> 00:37:40,093
<i>when Gemma Chan</i>
<i>speaks to a woman</i>

921
00:37:49,644 --> 00:37:49,853
.

922
00:37:49,894 --> 00:37:50,353
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

923
00:37:52,689 --> 00:37:53,815
- Welcome back to Paris

924
00:37:53,857 --> 00:37:56,192
and the final part
of our program.

925
00:37:56,234 --> 00:37:58,278
<i>[soft music]</i>

926
00:37:58,319 --> 00:38:01,197
I'm so delighted to introduce
our next honoree,

927
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:03,199
a woman whose story
I can relate to

928
00:38:03,241 --> 00:38:05,285
and who I know
will inspire you all.

929
00:38:05,326 --> 00:38:06,661
Welcome, Michelle.

930
00:38:06,703 --> 00:38:08,872
Well, we're here
to talk about your work.

931
00:38:08,913 --> 00:38:11,875
And I know that Asian hate
crimes have been in the news

932
00:38:11,916 --> 00:38:13,209
a lot since the start
of the pandemic.

933
00:38:13,251 --> 00:38:15,754
But it's not something new,
sadly.

934
00:38:15,795 --> 00:38:17,297
- Yes, unfortunately,

935
00:38:17,339 --> 00:38:21,092
with the start
of the COVID-19 pandemic,

936
00:38:21,134 --> 00:38:25,513
it exposed another horrible
pandemic beneath the surface.

937
00:38:25,555 --> 00:38:28,099
- Mm-hmm.
- Pandemic of racism,

938
00:38:28,141 --> 00:38:33,772
xenophobia, and scapegoating
against Asian Americans.

939
00:38:33,813 --> 00:38:36,566
Certain leaders in the country
were blaming China

940
00:38:36,608 --> 00:38:38,568
for starting the virus.

941
00:38:38,610 --> 00:38:41,112
And we started seeing
attacks happen

942
00:38:41,154 --> 00:38:44,366
<i>towards people that looked</i>
<i>like me and my family.</i>

943
00:38:44,407 --> 00:38:45,950
<i>As an Asian American woman,</i>

944
00:38:45,992 --> 00:38:48,912
I experienced fears
about the COVID-19 virus

945
00:38:48,953 --> 00:38:51,039
but fears about a racist,
violent attack.

946
00:38:51,081 --> 00:38:54,834
<i>- In 2020, reported</i>
<i>Asian hate crimes in New York</i>

947
00:38:54,876 --> 00:38:58,546
<i>surged up 833%.</i>

948
00:38:58,588 --> 00:39:01,007
<i>- It was scary because people</i>
<i>that I knew and worked with</i>

949
00:39:01,049 --> 00:39:02,425
<i>started getting hurt.</i>

950
00:39:02,467 --> 00:39:06,930
<i>I became scared to go</i>
<i>about my daily life.</i>

951
00:39:06,971 --> 00:39:09,974
Taking the subway
turned into a nightmare.

952
00:39:12,686 --> 00:39:15,397
- On February 3rd,
I take the subway,

953
00:39:15,438 --> 00:39:18,191
<i>and there's a man</i>
<i>who entered the train,</i>

954
00:39:18,233 --> 00:39:21,611
and he came forward
and slashed over my face

955
00:39:21,653 --> 00:39:26,825
from ear to ear and just walked
away as if nothing happened.

956
00:39:26,866 --> 00:39:29,285
<i>- I started feeling</i>
<i>really sad, of course,</i>

957
00:39:29,327 --> 00:39:32,080
and then angry like,
"Why is this happening to us?

958
00:39:32,122 --> 00:39:33,373
"Why are people doing this?

959
00:39:33,415 --> 00:39:35,709
And why isn't anyone
doing anything about it?"

960
00:39:35,750 --> 00:39:39,129
- My faith began to question
because...

961
00:39:39,170 --> 00:39:40,588
[soft music]

962
00:39:40,630 --> 00:39:43,800
<i>I would die...</i>

963
00:39:43,842 --> 00:39:46,803
Because I was praying...

964
00:39:46,845 --> 00:39:48,805
* *

965
00:39:48,847 --> 00:39:54,185
Because I was praying
to have a peaceful death.

966
00:39:54,227 --> 00:39:56,229
<i>- Fueled by her frustration,</i>

967
00:39:56,271 --> 00:39:58,606
<i>Michelle launched</i>
<i>Soar Over Hate,</i>

968
00:39:58,648 --> 00:40:02,527
<i>a nonprofit dedicated</i>
<i>to combating Asian hate crime</i>

969
00:40:02,569 --> 00:40:04,446
<i>through equipping</i>
<i>the most vulnerable</i>

970
00:40:04,487 --> 00:40:06,448
<i>with self-defense devices,</i>

971
00:40:06,489 --> 00:40:10,035
<i>community support,</i>
<i>and Heal from Hate therapy.</i>

972
00:40:10,076 --> 00:40:12,245
<i>- We had, like,</i>
<i>overwhelming response.</i>

973
00:40:12,287 --> 00:40:14,456
People were so thankful
to receive them.

974
00:40:14,497 --> 00:40:17,167
And people wanted more to give
to their friends and family,

975
00:40:17,208 --> 00:40:19,294
<i>to give to their colleagues</i>
<i>at work.</i>

976
00:40:19,336 --> 00:40:22,130
Ni hao.
- Ni hao.

977
00:40:22,172 --> 00:40:25,133
- This is a personal alarm
for you.

978
00:40:25,175 --> 00:40:26,760
- Okay.
- Okay, if you pull it out...

979
00:40:26,801 --> 00:40:28,261
[alarm blares]
it makes a loud noise

980
00:40:28,303 --> 00:40:31,306
to scare people away,
so you stay safe.

981
00:40:31,348 --> 00:40:33,808
- Okay, thank you.
- [laughs]

982
00:40:33,850 --> 00:40:35,477
<i>- With the rates</i>
<i>of Asian hate crime</i>

983
00:40:35,518 --> 00:40:37,645
<i>still at an all-time high,</i>

984
00:40:37,687 --> 00:40:41,149
<i>Soar Over Hate is needed now</i>
<i>more than ever.</i>

985
00:40:41,191 --> 00:40:42,859
- Thank you so much
for this one.

986
00:40:42,901 --> 00:40:45,737
I feel better with them.

987
00:40:45,779 --> 00:40:48,490
- My ultimate goal is
to demonstrate

988
00:40:48,531 --> 00:40:52,202
to all that love is more
powerful than hate

989
00:40:52,243 --> 00:40:55,955
and that we can overcome
anything if we work together.

990
00:40:55,997 --> 00:40:57,707
<i>[soft music]</i>

991
00:40:57,749 --> 00:40:59,292
- We have had a similar uptick

992
00:40:59,334 --> 00:41:01,461
in those kinds
of crimes in the UK,

993
00:41:01,503 --> 00:41:02,796
and it's really worrying.

994
00:41:02,837 --> 00:41:05,382
And I know, personally,
that I was very worried

995
00:41:05,423 --> 00:41:07,717
for my family members.

996
00:41:07,759 --> 00:41:10,345
You know, my mum actually used
to work in a hospital

997
00:41:10,387 --> 00:41:13,014
like yourself and just really
distressing to see,

998
00:41:13,056 --> 00:41:14,099
especially
the older generation

999
00:41:14,140 --> 00:41:16,226
being vulnerable
and being targeted.

1000
00:41:16,267 --> 00:41:18,687
- Thousands of elderly
would line up in the rain

1001
00:41:18,728 --> 00:41:23,108
just to receive a small alarm,
which is just super telling

1002
00:41:23,149 --> 00:41:26,236
of how big of a deal
this was to them,

1003
00:41:26,277 --> 00:41:29,406
how terrified they were going
about their lives

1004
00:41:29,447 --> 00:41:31,825
and just motivated
Soar over Hate

1005
00:41:31,866 --> 00:41:33,118
to keep on growing.

1006
00:41:33,159 --> 00:41:34,452
- Yeah, that's amazing.

1007
00:41:34,494 --> 00:41:37,330
What has Soar over Hate
done for you personally?

1008
00:41:37,372 --> 00:41:41,167
- This whole experience has
made me very proud to be Asian.

1009
00:41:41,209 --> 00:41:43,962
I feel like I'm prouder
than ever

1010
00:41:44,004 --> 00:41:46,756
of my Chinese, Vietnamese,
American heritage.

1011
00:41:46,798 --> 00:41:49,259
- Mm-hmm.
- And I'm really proud

1012
00:41:49,300 --> 00:41:51,928
of all of the Asians
and non-Asians alike

1013
00:41:51,970 --> 00:41:54,472
who have been speaking up
about racism

1014
00:41:54,514 --> 00:41:56,766
that's been affecting
our community

1015
00:41:56,808 --> 00:41:59,102
but other communities
of color as well.

1016
00:41:59,144 --> 00:42:00,562
- Thank you.
You put that so beautifully.

1017
00:42:00,603 --> 00:42:02,439
And I completely agree,
it's all about building

1018
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,315
that cross-community
solidarity.

1019
00:42:04,357 --> 00:42:06,943
And that's how we'll be able
to move forward together.

1020
00:42:06,985 --> 00:42:08,987
So thank you so much, Michelle.
- Thank you.

1021
00:42:09,029 --> 00:42:10,363
- Thanks for talking to me.
- Thank you.

1022
00:42:10,405 --> 00:42:11,406
- Thank you.

1023
00:42:11,448 --> 00:42:14,034
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

1024
00:42:14,075 --> 00:42:16,870
- I want to thank
my friends Camila, Katherine,

1025
00:42:16,911 --> 00:42:20,582
Gemma, Kate, Eva,
Andie, and Aja

1026
00:42:20,623 --> 00:42:24,127
for being a part of celebrating
these incredible women.

1027
00:42:24,169 --> 00:42:27,756
I know they will all join me
in thanking the real stars

1028
00:42:27,797 --> 00:42:29,090
of tonight's show,

1029
00:42:29,132 --> 00:42:32,802
our incredible and inspiring
honorees.

1030
00:42:32,844 --> 00:42:34,721
You always give back,

1031
00:42:34,763 --> 00:42:37,307
and you never, ever give up.

1032
00:42:37,349 --> 00:42:39,351
And that gives us all strength.

1033
00:42:39,392 --> 00:42:41,353
<i>* *</i>



