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When we are
told all of our lives

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that there are only two
possibilities, either, or,

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it can be hard to
look beyond that.

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Some of us think
outside the box.

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But for many of us,

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the box becomes our world.

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There is no outside the box.

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If someone had told me

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I'd play myself in a
movie about my life,

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I'd have laughed.

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Thank god I did.

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I'd been off into the world.

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I have become more
open to myself.

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Watch your step.
♪ Feeling change in the wind ♪

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♪ Golden fields, tall grass ♪

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♪ Find the sun here ♪

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Watch out for the wall.

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Right here, Miss Birdsall?

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Yeah, right there
in the middle.

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Okay.

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Have I transformed?

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Not really.

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I carry too much
of my past with me.

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Am I free to be who I am?

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Yes.

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And with that,

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perhaps transformation isn't
the central issue after all.

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♪ Reimagine living this time ♪

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♪ Looking back on
where we've been ♪

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♪ We'll leave them all behind ♪

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♪ No one has a name
for what we'll find ♪

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You know, this
is a transition thing

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for both of us, actually.

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Are you
liking it there?

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Yes, it's beautiful here.

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It's really beautiful.

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I think this is a good move.

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If you need anything,

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let me know.

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Well, I really don't even
think about that, you know.

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Between my age
and my background.

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I'll be living alone
the rest of my life,

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and that's okay, you know.

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That's, this is nice.

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I can learn to be me.

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Excuse me.

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Hi there.

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- Oh hi.
- My name is Zoey,

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and I live right down here.

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I wonder if I could
ask you for a favor.

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Uh, okay.

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What kind of favor?

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Well, I have this problem.

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I can't reach the top shelf
of my kitchen cabinets.

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And for some reason,
best known to himself,

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when my son comes over,

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he puts everything up there,

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and he doesn't seem to realize

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that they're empty for a reason.

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He's got a tall wife,

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and he seems to forget
that he has a short mom.

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So I was wondering if you
could reach some stuff for me.

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Please.

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Okay, I'm Kate, by the way.

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It's nice to meet you.

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And this is my partner Max.

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- My best friend.
- Hi Max.

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Okay let's go down here.

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Okay.

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I gotta tell you,

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I really admire
that you're tall.

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As a matter of fact,
I envy your height.

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It's very challenging
to be this short.

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Oh, I would think so.

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Absolutely.

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But I don't think I'm
gonna grow at this point.

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- I think.
- Oh probably not.

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This is a great place to live.

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I think you're
gonna like it here.

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Everybody cares
about everyone else.

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It's like we're living
among old people,

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but we don't realize we're old.

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Who are all these old people?

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It's right over there.

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This cabinet on the top shelf.

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So didn't I see you at
First Unitarian last week?

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No, I just moved in.

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Oh, where'd you come from?

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Laramie, Wyoming.

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Wow, Wyoming.

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Does everyone dress
like that in Wyoming?

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No, most people wear jeans.

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Well, that's pretty
unique, I'll say that.

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- Okay.
- Thanks a lot, you know?

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I keep meaning to get a stool,

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and I keep forgetting.

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But now with neighbors like you,

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who needs a stool, right?

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Right, well, I'm glad to help.

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Well how about sticking around

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and having a cup of tea?

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- I have, I have...
- Oh come on, come on come on.

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Just say yes.

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It's just a cup of
tea, no commitment.

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Okay, yeah, sure.

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Okay, let me get some.

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How about some cheese
and crackers with that?

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Oh, alright.

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Mm, now that I think of it,

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how about some wine instead?

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Sure, why not?

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You know, one of the good
things about getting old

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is that we can drink
whenever we want.

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We don't have to ask
anyone's permissions.

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Oh that's plenty.

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Thank you.

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- Cheers.
- Cheers.

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So did you come
here alone, Kate?

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I did.

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My partner died four years ago.

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I'm really sorry to hear that.

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Well yeah, thanks.

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But you know,

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just in case you
might be interested,

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I know a lot of single people.

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Oh, I don't need that.

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Thank you very much.

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Well, amen to that.

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Have some more wine, Kate.

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It's good for you.

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Cheers.

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Cheers.

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♪ Riding 'round roads I know ♪

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♪ Feeling change in the wind ♪

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♪ Golden fields, tall grass ♪

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I had become friends
with Albert in fourth grade.

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He was my age,

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and lived in a brown brick house

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on the other end
of the next block.

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This was the 1950s,

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a time when people didn't
talk about their bodies.

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And my family certainly didn't.

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♪ Imagine me, imagine you ♪

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Hey Danny, here it is.

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Said you liked 'em.

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That's real neat.

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My uncle has one.

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♪ Without your love ♪

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Hey.

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What are you doing?

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Why did you take that?

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Think it's pretty?

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Mm-hmm.

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What do you like about it?

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I like the color, patterns.

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It's beautiful.

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That's why I like
playing down here so much.

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There's more.

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It's okay.

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What's the name?

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Thank you for inviting
me to this, Zoey.

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Any time, Kate.

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♪ As I went down to
the river to pray ♪

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♪ Studying about
that good old way ♪

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♪ And who shall wear
the starry crown ♪

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♪ Good lord, show me the way ♪

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♪ O sisters, let's go down ♪

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♪ Let's go down, come on down ♪

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♪ O sisters, let's go down ♪

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♪ Down to the river to pray ♪

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♪ As I went down to
the river to pray ♪

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♪ Studying about
that good old way ♪

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Thanks for coming.

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- That was so nice.
- Yeah.

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- Thank you.
- That music

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was just wonderful.

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I saw Sue this morning.

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They're back from their trip.

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Oh, where'd they go this time?

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I forget.

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Montana, doesn't matter.

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I have to tell you something.

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Well, before they
went on their trip,

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John and I got together,

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and we went hiking.

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It was wonderful.

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We had this fabulous trip,

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and we stopped at
this perfect spot.

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And well, it proceeded
and let me tell you,

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John has a lot of stamina.

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There we were, you know.

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Really going at it.

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Good grief, woman.

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Don't you know
you're not supposed

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to put your paws on some
other woman's husband?

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No, he's not married.

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Well, then have at it.

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You will, anyway.

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Oh, Andrea.

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Hi.

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- That was gorgeous.
- Oh thank you.

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- Just gorgeous.
- Thank you,

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thanks very much.

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We have some new people.

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Yeah, I thought I saw
some new faces over here.

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Do you know Zoey?

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No, no, hi Zoey.

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Hi, nice to meet you.

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Nice to meet you, too.

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And this is Kate.

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Hi Kate.

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Hi Andrea.

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Nice to meet you.

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Oh, my pleasure.

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- Please stay, have a seat.
- Come on, have a seat.

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- Join us.
- Oh we want to see you.

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- Alright.
- Have a seat, have a seat.

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Meet Kate.

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Your public wants you.

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Really nice evening, huh?

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Yeah, yeah,

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it's been a really
great evening.

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So, I
haven't seen you

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at one of our concerts before.

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Oh yeah, I just
moved to Portland.

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You were great, by the way.

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Oh, thanks.

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Maybe you'd like to
join us sometime.

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Oh no, I ruined
my voice years ago.

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You don't want to hear me sing.

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Oh well, if you
ever change your mind,

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come on over.

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Okay.

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So, I noticed you.

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I've been admiring your
earrings and your necklace.

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It's very pretty.

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Thank you.

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I was afraid maybe I'd dressed
too loud for the occasion.

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No, no.

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Anything goes around here.

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So, no problem.

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Have you
lived in Portland long?

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Yeah, I have.

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How many years has it been now?

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42 years.

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Oh wow.

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Yeah.

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Almost a native.

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So what are those
guys talking about?

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I really don't know them.

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You don't know them?

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- My favorite subject.
- Yeah.

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They seem to
be enjoying themselves.

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They do seem to be
enjoying themselves.

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I am too.

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Oh yeah, me too.

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Feeling a little shy, though.

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Oh, yeah, me too.

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Is Lilly always that way?

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- Yeah.
- Oh.

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When we met the other day,

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I thought to myself, what
an interesting person.

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I'd really like to
get to know her.

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Oh.

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Well, I don't know
how interesting I am.

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So, Lilly told me
you'd been in the Coast Guard.

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I was.

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- 21 years.
- Wow.

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I was in the Army, too.

272
00:15:41,275 --> 00:15:44,440
But I liked the
Coast Guard, better.

273
00:15:44,482 --> 00:15:46,233
Must have been
interesting to be out there

274
00:15:46,275 --> 00:15:48,275
on a ship with all those guys.

275
00:15:48,316 --> 00:15:49,650
Ha, well.

276
00:15:50,733 --> 00:15:53,733
Most of my stations
were on shore.

277
00:15:53,775 --> 00:15:56,440
So what
brought you to Portland?

278
00:15:56,482 --> 00:15:58,440
Well, I wanted to be
closer to my daughter.

279
00:15:58,482 --> 00:16:00,316
She's up in Olympia.

280
00:16:01,482 --> 00:16:02,274
I wanted to be able to see her

281
00:16:02,316 --> 00:16:04,150
more than once a year.

282
00:16:05,441 --> 00:16:09,274
I think I also wanted
to be in a bigger place.

283
00:16:10,524 --> 00:16:12,274
So you're starting over.

284
00:16:12,316 --> 00:16:15,357
Yep, 68 years old.

285
00:16:15,399 --> 00:16:18,316
It took me a long
time to get here.

286
00:16:22,608 --> 00:16:24,691
Oh gosh, after my divorce,

287
00:16:24,733 --> 00:16:26,608
I moved to Portland.

288
00:16:27,482 --> 00:16:29,816
And I worked as a librarian,

289
00:16:29,858 --> 00:16:32,315
for 15, maybe 20 years.

290
00:16:32,357 --> 00:16:34,315
And then I started
my own business.

291
00:16:34,357 --> 00:16:35,524
And here I am.

292
00:16:37,108 --> 00:16:39,482
Well, it seems
funny that we can

293
00:16:39,524 --> 00:16:42,608
sum up our lives in
just a few sentences.

294
00:16:42,650 --> 00:16:44,025
Yeah.

295
00:16:44,067 --> 00:16:45,691
We all know that there's
more to it than that,

296
00:16:45,733 --> 00:16:48,150
- but, yeah.
- Yeah.

297
00:16:48,192 --> 00:16:50,566
We've lived long lives, Kate.

298
00:16:50,608 --> 00:16:51,441
Yep.

299
00:16:54,357 --> 00:16:56,399
This is a nice
place you got here.

300
00:16:56,441 --> 00:16:57,315
Well thanks.

301
00:16:57,357 --> 00:16:59,191
Do you have
it all to yourself?

302
00:16:59,232 --> 00:17:00,274
Yeah, I do.

303
00:17:01,150 --> 00:17:02,525
I don't have any roommates,

304
00:17:02,567 --> 00:17:04,483
and I don't have a boyfriend.

305
00:17:04,525 --> 00:17:07,357
Just some good girlfriends
and my business.

306
00:17:07,399 --> 00:17:12,066
Yeah, sometimes relationships
can get so complicated.

307
00:17:12,108 --> 00:17:13,315
You want to live life.

308
00:17:13,357 --> 00:17:15,691
I want to live life.

309
00:17:15,733 --> 00:17:18,399
Well, I hope you do.

310
00:17:20,733 --> 00:17:25,441
You're so cute.

311
00:17:25,483 --> 00:17:26,775
You're
pretty cute yourself.

312
00:17:26,817 --> 00:17:30,274
Oh thanks.

313
00:17:47,232 --> 00:17:48,399
Hello?

314
00:17:48,441 --> 00:17:51,190
Oh hi,
Kate, this is Andrea.

315
00:17:51,232 --> 00:17:52,691
Oh, Andrea.

316
00:17:52,733 --> 00:17:54,190
Good morning.

317
00:17:54,232 --> 00:17:55,691
Hi.

318
00:17:55,733 --> 00:17:58,525
I hope I didn't wake you up.

319
00:17:58,567 --> 00:17:59,775
Oh, no. I'm up.

320
00:18:01,942 --> 00:18:03,315
I was thinking about

321
00:18:03,357 --> 00:18:06,650
going shopping today
for some clothes,

322
00:18:06,692 --> 00:18:09,608
and I wondered if you'd
like to go with me.

323
00:18:09,650 --> 00:18:11,274
Oh, yeah, sure.

324
00:18:13,483 --> 00:18:15,691
Okay.

325
00:18:15,733 --> 00:18:16,650
I could get some things too.

326
00:18:16,692 --> 00:18:19,232
Well don't sound too excited.

327
00:18:19,274 --> 00:18:21,566
Oh no, I'd
like to go with you.

328
00:18:21,608 --> 00:18:23,775
It sounds like fun.

329
00:18:23,817 --> 00:18:25,566
Well you
get your breakfast,

330
00:18:25,608 --> 00:18:28,400
and I'll pick you up
a little after noon.

331
00:18:28,442 --> 00:18:29,733
Okay, okay, bye.

332
00:18:31,650 --> 00:18:32,858
Bye.

333
00:18:44,232 --> 00:18:45,650
How do you think that works?

334
00:18:45,692 --> 00:18:47,900
It's nice, I like it.

335
00:18:47,942 --> 00:18:48,775
Alright.

336
00:18:50,942 --> 00:18:52,650
I liked it, too.

337
00:18:58,316 --> 00:19:00,274
Well here's one I think

338
00:19:00,316 --> 00:19:01,733
really delivers your message.

339
00:19:05,357 --> 00:19:07,608
Wow, classy and feminine.

340
00:19:29,692 --> 00:19:33,692
Well, I always thought
clothes made the woman.

341
00:19:39,817 --> 00:19:42,274
Puberty can be tough.

342
00:19:42,316 --> 00:19:45,775
Getting the wrong puberty
can be even worse.

343
00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:50,608
And if you don't have people
around you who understand,

344
00:19:50,650 --> 00:19:52,483
it can be devastating.

345
00:20:00,442 --> 00:20:01,775
I made dinner.

346
00:20:02,692 --> 00:20:04,358
Looks nice.

347
00:20:12,274 --> 00:20:13,358
How is it?

348
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:14,567
Really good.

349
00:20:15,733 --> 00:20:16,817
It's perfect.

350
00:20:19,692 --> 00:20:20,567
No, let me.

351
00:20:35,775 --> 00:20:36,775
Thank you.

352
00:21:27,900 --> 00:21:29,317
Are you okay?

353
00:21:30,817 --> 00:21:31,733
I'm fine.

354
00:21:37,149 --> 00:21:37,982
No.

355
00:21:38,817 --> 00:21:40,525
Something's wrong.

356
00:21:43,107 --> 00:21:44,358
Not really.

357
00:21:48,358 --> 00:21:48,982
Sorry.

358
00:21:53,941 --> 00:21:55,567
Give me some more.

359
00:22:24,525 --> 00:22:25,358
Al?

360
00:22:56,817 --> 00:22:57,608
Al.

361
00:23:00,567 --> 00:23:02,899
Your father's on his way home.

362
00:23:02,941 --> 00:23:05,899
So you two should
get cleaned up.

363
00:23:40,899 --> 00:23:43,024
Why didn't you tell me?

364
00:23:43,066 --> 00:23:44,442
You're moving?

365
00:23:46,857 --> 00:23:49,441
My dad told me you're moving.

366
00:23:49,483 --> 00:23:51,192
Why didn't you tell me?

367
00:23:52,150 --> 00:23:54,150
I didn't know, either.

368
00:23:55,525 --> 00:23:58,941
Not until my mother
told me like a week ago.

369
00:24:02,941 --> 00:24:05,692
But, my dad got
a job in Indiana.

370
00:24:07,108 --> 00:24:08,941
So we have to go, too.

371
00:24:11,024 --> 00:24:12,066
I'm sorry.

372
00:24:16,108 --> 00:24:20,483
I'm never gonna have a
friend like you again, am I?

373
00:24:35,899 --> 00:24:36,733
Listen.

374
00:24:40,733 --> 00:24:43,982
They're gonna tear
the house down.

375
00:24:44,024 --> 00:24:45,067
So...

376
00:24:49,067 --> 00:24:51,774
Let's go downstairs
one more time.

377
00:24:51,816 --> 00:24:54,650
Okay.

378
00:25:39,108 --> 00:25:40,732
Albert was leaving.

379
00:25:40,774 --> 00:25:44,025
His house was getting
torn down for the freeway.

380
00:25:44,067 --> 00:25:48,025
Our secret haven was
being taken away.

381
00:25:48,067 --> 00:25:49,732
It's just so unfair.

382
00:26:38,108 --> 00:26:42,067
♪ I think myself a lucky man ♪

383
00:26:54,108 --> 00:26:57,108
I never
saw Albert again.

384
00:26:57,150 --> 00:26:59,400
And it would be
more than 50 years

385
00:26:59,442 --> 00:27:01,108
before I told anyone

386
00:27:01,150 --> 00:27:03,275
about playing in his basement.

387
00:27:08,317 --> 00:27:10,191
Over the winter of 1983,

388
00:27:10,233 --> 00:27:12,941
I was an engineer
in the Coast Guard.

389
00:27:12,983 --> 00:27:14,233
I was divorced,

390
00:27:14,275 --> 00:27:16,150
and my daughter Casey was nine,

391
00:27:16,192 --> 00:27:17,815
living with her mother.

392
00:27:17,857 --> 00:27:19,400
I was alone and lonely,

393
00:27:19,442 --> 00:27:20,774
and I had begun to dress

394
00:27:20,816 --> 00:27:22,441
in women's clothes in private

395
00:27:22,483 --> 00:27:24,150
to comfort myself.

396
00:28:57,858 --> 00:29:01,816
♪ Happy birthday to you ♪

397
00:29:01,858 --> 00:29:05,983
♪ Happy birthday to you ♪

398
00:29:06,025 --> 00:29:11,025
♪ Happy birthday dear Andrea ♪

399
00:29:12,150 --> 00:29:17,150
♪ Happy birthday to you ♪

400
00:29:18,275 --> 00:29:21,441
♪ And many more ♪

401
00:29:23,150 --> 00:29:25,025
Make a wish!

402
00:29:26,358 --> 00:29:28,858
Oh yes!

403
00:29:28,900 --> 00:29:30,191
Happy birthday!

404
00:29:30,233 --> 00:29:33,233
♪ Father and child ♪

405
00:29:33,275 --> 00:29:38,275
♪ Holy infant so
tender and mild ♪

406
00:29:39,942 --> 00:29:44,942
♪ Sleep in heavenly peace ♪

407
00:29:45,482 --> 00:29:47,983
♪ Sleep in heavenly ♪

408
00:29:48,025 --> 00:29:49,316
When I met Linda,

409
00:29:49,358 --> 00:29:51,233
I saw that she liked her wine,

410
00:29:51,275 --> 00:29:53,275
but didn't think much about it.

411
00:29:53,317 --> 00:29:57,191
Her father and older
brother were alcoholics.

412
00:29:57,233 --> 00:30:00,191
And Linda was okay
with my cross-dressing.

413
00:30:00,233 --> 00:30:01,358
At least at first.

414
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,316
How are the potatoes?

415
00:30:03,358 --> 00:30:05,150
- They're good.
- Yeah?

416
00:30:05,192 --> 00:30:06,400
Just right.

417
00:30:06,441 --> 00:30:08,275
I made 'em the
way you like 'em.

418
00:30:08,317 --> 00:30:11,191
She was jealous
of the other woman.

419
00:30:11,233 --> 00:30:13,941
Even though that was me.

420
00:30:13,983 --> 00:30:16,482
Oh, you're probably
really tired, huh?

421
00:30:16,524 --> 00:30:18,233
I don't really get that.

422
00:30:18,275 --> 00:30:21,316
When people are tired
after traveling.

423
00:30:21,358 --> 00:30:23,607
All I did was sit on a train.

424
00:30:27,317 --> 00:30:31,316
Well, you must be looking
forward to Christmas.

425
00:30:31,358 --> 00:30:32,275
Excited about it?

426
00:30:32,317 --> 00:30:33,399
Not really.

427
00:30:33,441 --> 00:30:36,440
I can't fit my presents
in my suitcase.

428
00:30:36,482 --> 00:30:38,607
So I can't take them home.

429
00:30:40,275 --> 00:30:42,565
Well, maybe that's okay.

430
00:30:42,607 --> 00:30:45,150
Maybe they'll just
be here for you

431
00:30:45,192 --> 00:30:47,650
when you come to visit.

432
00:30:47,692 --> 00:30:49,316
What do you mean?

433
00:30:49,358 --> 00:30:50,983
Well, we were thinking that

434
00:30:51,025 --> 00:30:52,150
if you had your own room

435
00:30:52,192 --> 00:30:53,482
and some of your own things,

436
00:30:53,524 --> 00:30:57,233
that maybe you'd feel more
comfortable to come visit,

437
00:30:57,275 --> 00:30:59,358
maybe a little more often.

438
00:30:59,399 --> 00:31:00,358
Oh.

439
00:31:02,275 --> 00:31:03,607
You know, your father
wanted to get you something

440
00:31:03,649 --> 00:31:05,399
really special,

441
00:31:05,441 --> 00:31:08,316
and we thought you'd like it.

442
00:31:08,357 --> 00:31:09,524
You know, when I was little,

443
00:31:09,566 --> 00:31:13,482
I was lucky to get a good job
from my parents once a year,

444
00:31:13,524 --> 00:31:15,524
much less a new bicycle.

445
00:31:17,399 --> 00:31:19,317
You should be grateful.

446
00:31:23,399 --> 00:31:24,399
Casey.

447
00:31:26,233 --> 00:31:28,066
Oh, just let her
cool down, Dan.

448
00:31:28,108 --> 00:31:31,942
She's just tired.

449
00:31:33,607 --> 00:31:36,233
What are you doing?

450
00:31:36,275 --> 00:31:38,357
You said yourself that
divorce is hard on children.

451
00:31:38,399 --> 00:31:42,900
But she doesn't need
to punish you for it.

452
00:31:42,942 --> 00:31:46,357
You just, you let
me handle this, okay?

453
00:31:50,357 --> 00:31:54,524
♪ Merry merry merry Christmas ♪

454
00:31:55,441 --> 00:31:57,608
Casey, this is
hard on both of us.

455
00:31:57,650 --> 00:32:00,608
Can we just try to
not make it worse?

456
00:32:01,983 --> 00:32:03,566
I came
here to see you,

457
00:32:03,608 --> 00:32:05,942
not your wino girlfriend!

458
00:32:38,775 --> 00:32:40,399
Fly like an eagle.

459
00:32:40,441 --> 00:32:42,108
Just
like an eagle.

460
00:32:42,150 --> 00:32:44,566
What are you watching?

461
00:32:44,608 --> 00:32:47,357
Oh it's just
this old cop show.

462
00:32:49,482 --> 00:32:50,482
I like these.

463
00:32:52,150 --> 00:32:53,150
Justice,
loyal, and German soldiers.

464
00:32:53,192 --> 00:32:54,399
Any prisoner here is-

465
00:32:54,441 --> 00:32:56,066
- You want to watch
something else?

466
00:32:56,108 --> 00:32:57,441
No, this is fine.

467
00:33:06,482 --> 00:33:07,608
Why'd you leave?

468
00:33:15,274 --> 00:33:16,108
Well,

469
00:33:18,692 --> 00:33:19,524
sweetie.

470
00:33:22,482 --> 00:33:23,650
Your mother and I,

471
00:33:23,692 --> 00:33:26,483
we decided that we would,

472
00:33:26,525 --> 00:33:29,232
well, it'd be better for you,

473
00:33:29,274 --> 00:33:31,191
and it'd be better for her,

474
00:33:31,232 --> 00:33:32,566
if you stayed.

475
00:33:32,608 --> 00:33:36,192
Well you know, your
school, your friends.

476
00:33:40,192 --> 00:33:42,441
But why did you leave me?

477
00:33:45,150 --> 00:33:45,775
Sweetie,

478
00:33:48,733 --> 00:33:51,357
I wish it had been different.

479
00:33:56,191 --> 00:33:57,650
I don't know, hon.

480
00:33:59,525 --> 00:34:01,150
It's just, I'm sorry.

481
00:34:02,733 --> 00:34:04,483
I am Major Hoffman.

482
00:34:04,525 --> 00:34:06,357
Of the funeral staff.

483
00:34:06,399 --> 00:34:07,608
Oh you are?

484
00:34:07,650 --> 00:34:10,525
And why didn't you bring
your funeral with you?

485
00:34:14,232 --> 00:34:15,525
Were my
relationships difficult

486
00:34:15,567 --> 00:34:18,190
because I didn't know who I was?

487
00:34:18,232 --> 00:34:20,067
Couldn't be who I was.

488
00:34:21,232 --> 00:34:24,190
Or did I just not know
how to love another?

489
00:34:24,232 --> 00:34:27,399
When I didn't know
how to love myself.

490
00:34:29,525 --> 00:34:32,232
It was fun spending
time with your friends.

491
00:34:32,274 --> 00:34:33,566
Thanks for including me.

492
00:34:33,608 --> 00:34:34,691
Oh, you're welcome.

493
00:34:34,733 --> 00:34:36,357
I'm glad you could come over.

494
00:34:36,399 --> 00:34:37,274
They're fun.

495
00:34:37,316 --> 00:34:38,733
Yeah, they are.

496
00:34:42,692 --> 00:34:44,608
So this is on me.

497
00:34:44,650 --> 00:34:45,691
- Yeah?
- Yeah.

498
00:34:45,733 --> 00:34:47,232
You don't have to do that.

499
00:34:47,274 --> 00:34:48,525
I want to.

500
00:34:48,567 --> 00:34:51,232
Okay, well I'll
get the next time.

501
00:34:51,274 --> 00:34:51,942
Okay.

502
00:34:54,274 --> 00:34:57,274
So what sounds good to you?

503
00:34:57,316 --> 00:35:01,108
If I get the dead guy
wings, will you share with me?

504
00:35:01,149 --> 00:35:02,650
No.

505
00:35:02,692 --> 00:35:04,733
No, that's entirely too messy.

506
00:35:04,775 --> 00:35:06,400
Oh, yeah.

507
00:35:06,442 --> 00:35:07,566
You could get 'em.

508
00:35:07,608 --> 00:35:10,232
Yeah, but you're
probably right.

509
00:35:10,274 --> 00:35:11,692
Maybe I'll get the,

510
00:35:12,983 --> 00:35:14,775
well, I don't know.

511
00:35:19,399 --> 00:35:20,441
Casey's coming soon.

512
00:35:20,483 --> 00:35:23,650
I'd love for you to meet her.

513
00:35:23,692 --> 00:35:26,608
I would very much
like to meet her, too.

514
00:35:26,650 --> 00:35:28,149
She sounds like
a wonderful girl.

515
00:35:28,191 --> 00:35:29,608
Oh, I think so.

516
00:35:29,650 --> 00:35:31,733
I'm very lucky.

517
00:35:31,775 --> 00:35:34,900
Are you still in
touch with Casey's...

518
00:35:40,692 --> 00:35:41,525
I...

519
00:35:45,191 --> 00:35:46,483
Not very often.

520
00:35:47,733 --> 00:35:51,232
They were with me
through the tough times.

521
00:35:54,817 --> 00:35:56,191
We're friends.

522
00:35:57,442 --> 00:35:58,608
That's nice.

523
00:36:02,525 --> 00:36:05,650
So, since we're telling
each other stories

524
00:36:05,692 --> 00:36:08,775
about our past relationships,

525
00:36:08,817 --> 00:36:11,858
I'll tell you about
my first marriage.

526
00:36:11,900 --> 00:36:14,274
It was really quite awful.

527
00:36:18,733 --> 00:36:19,650
A couple years into it,

528
00:36:19,692 --> 00:36:21,358
I met another teacher,

529
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:22,942
and we had an affair.

530
00:36:24,650 --> 00:36:25,941
Turned out to be seven
of the nine years

531
00:36:25,983 --> 00:36:27,775
that I was married.

532
00:36:29,650 --> 00:36:30,691
When I was 29,

533
00:36:30,733 --> 00:36:33,650
I realized that I couldn't
stay married to two guys

534
00:36:33,692 --> 00:36:35,692
for the rest of my life.

535
00:36:36,942 --> 00:36:41,650
And so, I divorced 'em
both and moved to Oregon.

536
00:36:41,692 --> 00:36:43,442
Oh, good for you.

537
00:36:44,942 --> 00:36:47,316
Well, that was a long time ago.

538
00:36:47,358 --> 00:36:48,608
Yeah, it was.

539
00:36:50,817 --> 00:36:53,816
You know, I think we make

540
00:36:53,858 --> 00:36:56,358
the best decisions that
we can at the time.

541
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:57,691
Yeah.

542
00:36:57,733 --> 00:37:00,858
And they end up
being our stories.

543
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:03,691
And without them,

544
00:37:03,733 --> 00:37:06,483
we wouldn't be where we are now.

545
00:37:06,525 --> 00:37:07,692
That's true.

546
00:37:08,858 --> 00:37:11,733
I like where we are today.

547
00:37:12,942 --> 00:37:14,567
Yeah, I do too.

548
00:37:16,567 --> 00:37:19,400
I'll just get my keys.

549
00:37:19,442 --> 00:37:20,900
After we'd
lived in Laramie

550
00:37:20,942 --> 00:37:22,775
for a couple of years,

551
00:37:22,817 --> 00:37:24,733
Linda got sick.

552
00:37:24,775 --> 00:37:26,858
Now, I'll be right back.

553
00:37:26,900 --> 00:37:30,900
The diagnosis
was that it was terminal.

554
00:37:31,858 --> 00:37:34,441
Unless she could stop drinking.

555
00:37:34,483 --> 00:37:37,024
After several
tries, she gave up,

556
00:37:37,066 --> 00:37:38,817
resigned to her fate.

557
00:37:51,775 --> 00:37:52,608
Oh...

558
00:38:01,817 --> 00:38:02,650
Where is it, where is it,

559
00:38:02,692 --> 00:38:04,024
where is it, where
is it, where is it?

560
00:38:04,066 --> 00:38:08,608
God damn it!

561
00:38:09,858 --> 00:38:12,900
No no, no no, no no
no no no no no, no no.

562
00:38:16,567 --> 00:38:18,024
Where is the opener?

563
00:38:18,982 --> 00:38:20,400
I threw it away.

564
00:38:20,442 --> 00:38:21,775
Well then I'll just
push the cork down.

565
00:38:21,817 --> 00:38:22,816
I've done it plenty!

566
00:38:22,858 --> 00:38:24,858
That's pathetic!

567
00:38:24,900 --> 00:38:26,608
You're pathetic!

568
00:38:28,483 --> 00:38:31,733
What would Casey think
if she knew about you?

569
00:38:31,775 --> 00:38:34,940
If she knew you liked
to wear women's clothes!

570
00:38:34,982 --> 00:38:36,566
- You're killing yourself!
- I bet she'd love

571
00:38:36,608 --> 00:38:37,775
to know that!

572
00:38:37,817 --> 00:38:40,858
Linda, you are
killing yourself.

573
00:38:42,107 --> 00:38:42,941
You are.

574
00:39:45,192 --> 00:39:46,940
As she became sicker,

575
00:39:46,982 --> 00:39:50,525
I had to spend more and more
time taking care of her.

576
00:39:50,567 --> 00:39:51,899
She resented that.

577
00:40:08,982 --> 00:40:09,899
Is it too hot?

578
00:40:09,941 --> 00:40:11,024
Well it's, a little bit.

579
00:40:11,066 --> 00:40:12,982
- It'll be okay.
- Okay.

580
00:41:03,233 --> 00:41:04,233
Thank you.

581
00:41:15,692 --> 00:41:18,650
After
Linda died in '07,

582
00:41:18,692 --> 00:41:21,774
I worked to put my
life back together.

583
00:41:21,816 --> 00:41:23,940
She and I had been
good together,

584
00:41:23,982 --> 00:41:28,857
but her decline had stretched
me all too close to breaking.

585
00:41:28,899 --> 00:41:30,316
I blamed her and her drinking

586
00:41:30,358 --> 00:41:33,608
for the misery of
the last few years.

587
00:41:33,650 --> 00:41:38,024
And I blamed myself for my
inadequacies in helping her.

588
00:41:57,692 --> 00:41:59,899
Your succulents are fake.

589
00:42:08,150 --> 00:42:10,150
I'm sorry for your loss.

590
00:42:14,150 --> 00:42:17,316
I don't know what to
say at these things.

591
00:42:17,358 --> 00:42:19,150
It's okay, Bruce.

592
00:42:22,650 --> 00:42:24,108
She was too young.

593
00:42:26,233 --> 00:42:28,899
But, you're gonna feel better.

594
00:42:31,941 --> 00:42:33,691
You're gonna be okay.

595
00:42:36,025 --> 00:42:38,191
Thank you, it's nice
of you to say that.

596
00:42:38,233 --> 00:42:40,067
I needed to hear it.

597
00:42:44,067 --> 00:42:47,108
Oh, and thank you for
all of your help today.

598
00:42:47,150 --> 00:42:49,650
And if you need
anything else, you know,

599
00:42:49,691 --> 00:42:51,067
I'll do whatever.

600
00:42:52,067 --> 00:42:53,816
Right, thank you.

601
00:42:55,941 --> 00:42:57,400
Thanks for coming.

602
00:42:57,442 --> 00:42:58,608
Of course.

603
00:43:00,983 --> 00:43:01,816
Okay.

604
00:43:08,899 --> 00:43:10,191
Let us know if you
need anything, okay?

605
00:43:10,233 --> 00:43:11,066
I will, thank you for coming.

606
00:43:11,108 --> 00:43:12,108
No problem.

607
00:43:12,150 --> 00:43:12,941
See you in church, okay?

608
00:43:12,983 --> 00:43:14,108
Okay, alright.

609
00:43:27,025 --> 00:43:28,108
Doing okay?

610
00:43:29,108 --> 00:43:30,108
Yeah.

611
00:43:35,317 --> 00:43:38,857
Did you at least
get something to eat?

612
00:43:40,150 --> 00:43:42,108
I'm just glad it's over.

613
00:43:47,983 --> 00:43:49,066
Well, it was a
beautiful service.

614
00:43:49,108 --> 00:43:51,233
You did a great job.

615
00:43:51,275 --> 00:43:52,067
Thank you.

616
00:43:54,816 --> 00:43:58,066
I'm glad you could
come up for this.

617
00:43:58,108 --> 00:43:59,774
Me too.

618
00:43:59,816 --> 00:44:01,233
I wanted to be here.

619
00:44:04,317 --> 00:44:06,150
Is that your old bike?

620
00:44:08,983 --> 00:44:09,816
Yeah.

621
00:44:10,732 --> 00:44:12,191
Yeah.

622
00:44:12,233 --> 00:44:13,067
The...

623
00:44:14,983 --> 00:44:17,691
Brings back
memories, doesn't it?

624
00:44:19,358 --> 00:44:21,857
Linda and I rode everywhere.

625
00:44:23,192 --> 00:44:25,275
That's how we found Laramie.

626
00:44:25,317 --> 00:44:26,150
We went out to the
Rocky Mountains,

627
00:44:26,192 --> 00:44:29,858
and just started
thinking of moving West.

628
00:44:32,275 --> 00:44:33,317
Dad.

629
00:44:36,317 --> 00:44:40,192
I'm sorry that Linda and
I were never that close.

630
00:44:44,108 --> 00:44:46,316
Look, I know that was
a difficult relationship

631
00:44:46,358 --> 00:44:47,691
for you both.

632
00:44:49,067 --> 00:44:51,316
I wanted to like her.

633
00:44:51,358 --> 00:44:53,441
I did, I just...

634
00:44:53,483 --> 00:44:55,317
It was a tough time.

635
00:44:58,566 --> 00:44:59,900
There is this.

636
00:45:00,774 --> 00:45:02,025
Well, I hate to even say this,

637
00:45:02,067 --> 00:45:03,358
but there's a small part of me

638
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,233
that's relived that...

639
00:45:07,900 --> 00:45:10,025
I feel guilty for
even thinking that.

640
00:45:10,067 --> 00:45:11,317
I mean, that's...

641
00:45:12,358 --> 00:45:13,358
That's bad, isn't it?

642
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:14,233
No.

643
00:45:16,233 --> 00:45:18,358
You loved her so much.

644
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:21,858
You took care of
her for so long.

645
00:45:21,900 --> 00:45:24,400
Now it's time to live your life.

646
00:45:26,524 --> 00:45:28,983
Can I tell you something?

647
00:45:30,233 --> 00:45:32,858
I need to tell you something.

648
00:45:32,900 --> 00:45:34,192
Yeah, of course.

649
00:45:35,566 --> 00:45:40,025
I wish I had mentioned
it a long time ago.

650
00:45:40,067 --> 00:45:40,900
Okay.

651
00:45:47,358 --> 00:45:51,233
I find comfort in
wearing women's clothes.

652
00:46:09,233 --> 00:46:11,900
Some of this still
doesn't make sense to me,

653
00:46:11,942 --> 00:46:14,275
but I've grown to accept it.

654
00:46:15,275 --> 00:46:18,150
Some things just
don't make sense.

655
00:46:19,025 --> 00:46:19,858
Here.

656
00:46:35,150 --> 00:46:36,441
What do you think?

657
00:46:42,358 --> 00:46:43,400
Well,

658
00:46:45,441 --> 00:46:47,524
it's age appropriate.

659
00:46:53,317 --> 00:46:54,817
I suppose it is.

660
00:47:22,482 --> 00:47:23,317
I'm sorry.

661
00:47:24,192 --> 00:47:25,358
No, it's okay.

662
00:47:26,566 --> 00:47:28,358
I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

663
00:47:30,358 --> 00:47:31,399
Are you okay?

664
00:47:31,441 --> 00:47:33,108
I'm okay, I'm okay.

665
00:47:33,150 --> 00:47:34,565
- Okay.
- Are you okay?

666
00:47:34,607 --> 00:47:36,317
Yeah, I will be.

667
00:47:37,399 --> 00:47:39,025
- Okay.
- Alright.

668
00:47:41,275 --> 00:47:44,399
Come on, let's forget this.

669
00:47:44,441 --> 00:47:46,607
Okay, show me that bike.

670
00:48:05,233 --> 00:48:06,608
Hey Kate.

671
00:48:06,650 --> 00:48:07,942
Are you okay?

672
00:48:09,275 --> 00:48:10,399
Oh yeah.

673
00:48:10,441 --> 00:48:11,399
I'm fine.

674
00:48:11,441 --> 00:48:15,275
I just, I'm a little in
my head this afternoon.

675
00:48:17,441 --> 00:48:21,150
Would you like me to let
you go home to take a nap?

676
00:48:21,192 --> 00:48:22,025
Oh, no.

677
00:48:24,233 --> 00:48:27,733
No, no, I'm having
a wonderful time.

678
00:48:27,775 --> 00:48:28,607
So am I.

679
00:48:29,733 --> 00:48:30,566
So am I.

680
00:48:35,482 --> 00:48:38,233
This is really, really pretty.

681
00:48:38,275 --> 00:48:40,233
It is a pretty place.

682
00:48:55,983 --> 00:48:57,440
Beautiful picture.

683
00:48:57,482 --> 00:48:59,108
Looks like Wyoming.

684
00:48:59,150 --> 00:49:00,357
It is.

685
00:49:00,399 --> 00:49:02,150
I love that painting.

686
00:49:15,150 --> 00:49:17,108
Great, appreciate it.

687
00:49:20,482 --> 00:49:21,733
It's nice to be here.

688
00:49:21,775 --> 00:49:24,399
Well, I'm glad you're here.

689
00:49:34,608 --> 00:49:36,066
This must be Casey.

690
00:49:36,108 --> 00:49:37,482
Yeah, that's her.

691
00:49:38,524 --> 00:49:39,567
Yeah...

692
00:49:40,482 --> 00:49:43,608
I loved her the
moment she appeared.

693
00:49:45,482 --> 00:49:49,650
And I wasn't always there
when she was crying out.

694
00:49:53,650 --> 00:49:56,692
I had a little growing
up to do myself.

695
00:49:58,274 --> 00:50:00,315
Want to see my flutes?

696
00:50:04,650 --> 00:50:05,482
Yeah.

697
00:50:10,608 --> 00:50:12,192
That's beautiful.

698
00:50:46,525 --> 00:50:48,150
So that's what I was saying.

699
00:50:48,191 --> 00:50:51,525
What makes it unusual
is that it's white oak,

700
00:50:51,567 --> 00:50:53,608
almost all the floors
you see are red oak,

701
00:50:53,650 --> 00:50:56,566
and those are white, white oak.

702
00:50:59,692 --> 00:51:00,357
God, did I tell you about

703
00:51:00,399 --> 00:51:02,608
trying to permit my greenhouse?

704
00:51:02,650 --> 00:51:03,816
And you know what,
that's invasive.

705
00:51:03,858 --> 00:51:06,232
You should tear that out.

706
00:51:06,274 --> 00:51:07,399
I don't know plants.

707
00:51:07,441 --> 00:51:08,816
Well, it shouldn't be there.

708
00:51:08,858 --> 00:51:10,399
It looks nice what
you did with it,

709
00:51:10,441 --> 00:51:11,399
but it should go.

710
00:51:11,441 --> 00:51:14,190
So between the setbacks
from the property line,

711
00:51:14,232 --> 00:51:16,483
and the minimum distance
between buildings,

712
00:51:16,525 --> 00:51:19,441
I don't have a greenhouse
big enough to do anything,

713
00:51:19,483 --> 00:51:21,232
and let alone, do
all my research.

714
00:51:21,274 --> 00:51:22,608
But you know,

715
00:51:22,650 --> 00:51:23,733
well what the heck?

716
00:51:23,775 --> 00:51:25,650
Who are they to say?

717
00:51:25,692 --> 00:51:26,566
And the thing is,

718
00:51:26,608 --> 00:51:28,190
you don't even need a permit

719
00:51:28,232 --> 00:51:29,691
for an agricultural
building out in the county.

720
00:51:29,733 --> 00:51:32,441
But in the city, you can't
get an agricultural permit.

721
00:51:32,483 --> 00:51:34,441
- Hey Bruce, Bruce.
- What?

722
00:51:34,483 --> 00:51:35,733
Bruce, can I,

723
00:51:36,692 --> 00:51:39,900
look, can I talk to
you for a second?

724
00:51:39,942 --> 00:51:40,775
Yeah.

725
00:51:42,608 --> 00:51:46,608
I'd like to tell you
something about myself.

726
00:51:47,733 --> 00:51:48,733
Okay.

727
00:51:52,692 --> 00:51:54,357
I'm transgender.

728
00:51:56,900 --> 00:51:59,232
What does that mean?

729
00:51:59,274 --> 00:51:59,817
Well,

730
00:52:01,442 --> 00:52:03,441
when I was little,

731
00:52:03,483 --> 00:52:05,316
I wanted to be a girl.

732
00:52:06,608 --> 00:52:08,608
But I didn't know how it worked.

733
00:52:08,650 --> 00:52:12,316
I just thought my body
would heal itself.

734
00:52:13,608 --> 00:52:14,442
Shut up.

735
00:52:17,733 --> 00:52:21,900
I've dressed in women's
clothes most of my life.

736
00:52:24,733 --> 00:52:27,900
I don't know how far
I'll pursue this,

737
00:52:29,525 --> 00:52:33,357
but it's time for me to
be more open about it.

738
00:53:10,733 --> 00:53:12,983
How much time do you
think you have left?

739
00:53:13,025 --> 00:53:14,483
Maybe 30 years?

740
00:53:16,525 --> 00:53:18,441
- Well...
- 20?

741
00:53:18,483 --> 00:53:20,358
Yeah, yeah I hope so.

742
00:53:21,817 --> 00:53:24,900
That's a long time
to not be happy.

743
00:53:30,358 --> 00:53:31,733
- Yeah.
- Right?

744
00:53:31,775 --> 00:53:33,274
I suppose it is.

745
00:53:35,817 --> 00:53:38,858
You're gonna
stay though, right?

746
00:53:39,775 --> 00:53:42,275
You're not gonna
move off somewhere.

747
00:53:42,317 --> 00:53:46,733
Yeah, I need my home, and
my friends, my community.

748
00:53:49,066 --> 00:53:50,816
Okay, okay.

749
00:53:50,858 --> 00:53:53,525
Those will be
imperative for me

750
00:53:53,567 --> 00:53:56,358
to feel like I can move forward.

751
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:58,858
'Cause I got your back here.

752
00:54:01,942 --> 00:54:03,733
If you go off to...

753
00:54:05,775 --> 00:54:07,775
- Right.
- San Francisco.

754
00:54:09,942 --> 00:54:11,775
I don't know.

755
00:54:11,817 --> 00:54:12,900
Thanks Bruce.

756
00:54:16,942 --> 00:54:17,941
You know, when
you pull that out,

757
00:54:17,982 --> 00:54:20,400
you gotta get the roots, too.

758
00:54:20,442 --> 00:54:22,525
You gotta take it
all the way down,

759
00:54:22,567 --> 00:54:23,566
and you gotta watch it,

760
00:54:23,608 --> 00:54:24,858
and if it comes back,

761
00:54:24,900 --> 00:54:27,358
you gotta pull every bit of it.

762
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:29,941
Maybe you ought to burn it.

763
00:54:29,982 --> 00:54:31,733
- Okay.
- I'll do it.

764
00:54:31,775 --> 00:54:33,858
- Okay.
- I'll do it tonight.

765
00:54:33,900 --> 00:54:35,858
Do it, I'll go make
more cookies right now.

766
00:54:38,900 --> 00:54:39,733
Alright.

767
00:54:42,692 --> 00:54:43,608
It seems like everyone

768
00:54:43,650 --> 00:54:47,441
has always wanted me
to be something else.

769
00:54:47,483 --> 00:54:49,733
Even I have wanted it.

770
00:54:49,775 --> 00:54:53,066
But Andrea seems to
want me to just be me.

771
00:54:56,483 --> 00:54:57,525
There's a bench over here.

772
00:54:57,567 --> 00:54:58,775
Do you mind if we sit down?

773
00:54:58,817 --> 00:55:00,733
No, that'd be fine.

774
00:55:11,692 --> 00:55:13,483
Beautiful here.

775
00:55:13,525 --> 00:55:15,442
Oh, it sure is, Kate.

776
00:55:29,817 --> 00:55:30,858
So, Kate.

777
00:55:41,442 --> 00:55:45,442
I have the sense you were
born into a male body.

778
00:55:55,775 --> 00:55:57,525
Well, you're right.

779
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:05,150
I thought of it as
being out of register.

780
00:56:05,192 --> 00:56:09,899
You know, like when the colors
of an image don't line up.

781
00:56:12,066 --> 00:56:14,899
Somehow, wearing women's clothes

782
00:56:17,192 --> 00:56:20,857
gave me a break from
pretending to be a man.

783
00:56:26,567 --> 00:56:28,733
The pressure kept building

784
00:56:29,733 --> 00:56:30,857
to do something.

785
00:56:46,857 --> 00:56:50,024
When I was finally
able to transition,

786
00:56:52,941 --> 00:56:53,941
it was just,

787
00:56:55,941 --> 00:56:56,941
amazing.

788
00:56:58,692 --> 00:57:00,108
It was so wonderful.

789
00:57:14,816 --> 00:57:16,650
I'm so proud of you.

790
00:57:21,483 --> 00:57:22,108
Bless you.

791
00:57:26,608 --> 00:57:28,442
You're just wonderful.

792
00:57:29,774 --> 00:57:30,608
Am I?

793
00:57:57,317 --> 00:58:01,941
Kate, you're such an
interesting and complex person.

794
00:58:03,108 --> 00:58:03,982
Am I?

795
00:58:04,024 --> 00:58:05,567
Yeah, you are.

796
00:58:08,275 --> 00:58:12,191
It's funny, I was always
so forgettable as this guy,

797
00:58:12,233 --> 00:58:15,150
but people seem to
remember me now.

798
00:58:17,192 --> 00:58:18,982
You're wonderful.

799
00:58:20,025 --> 00:58:22,857
Well, I don't know about that.

800
00:58:23,982 --> 00:58:28,025
Well, I
think you're wonderful.

801
00:58:28,067 --> 00:58:29,815
Thank you.

802
00:58:29,857 --> 00:58:34,025
There's something I've
wanted to tell you today.

803
00:58:36,233 --> 00:58:38,691
You remember a couple weeks ago,

804
00:58:38,732 --> 00:58:41,774
we got to sit next to
each other in church

805
00:58:41,816 --> 00:58:43,815
for the first time.

806
00:58:43,857 --> 00:58:46,774
♪ Sing in my heart ♪

807
00:58:48,025 --> 00:58:51,983
Well, we were
singing "Spirit of Life,"

808
00:58:52,025 --> 00:58:53,899
and at some point,

809
00:58:53,941 --> 00:58:58,233
your voice dropped into its
natural baritone register.

810
00:58:59,650 --> 00:59:04,108
♪ Lies in the sea ♪

811
00:59:04,150 --> 00:59:08,899
♪ Move in the hand ♪

812
00:59:08,941 --> 00:59:13,941
♪ Giving life the
shape of justice ♪

813
00:59:14,899 --> 00:59:19,899
♪ Truth hold me close ♪

814
00:59:20,650 --> 00:59:23,067
♪ Grace, set me free ♪

815
00:59:26,150 --> 00:59:30,025
I literally
felt my heart crack open.

816
00:59:30,067 --> 00:59:32,815
It was a physical sensation.

817
00:59:32,857 --> 00:59:36,067
And I looked at you
and I said to myself,

818
00:59:38,691 --> 00:59:42,608
"You have just fallen in
love with this woman."

819
00:59:45,732 --> 00:59:46,983
Really?

820
00:59:47,025 --> 00:59:50,608
Yeah, really.

821
00:59:53,649 --> 00:59:56,066
But you've always
been with men.

822
00:59:56,108 --> 00:59:56,942
I know.

823
00:59:58,983 --> 01:00:02,108
I know. I've been
married to two men.

824
01:00:04,067 --> 01:00:06,774
But now I find that
I have fallen in love

825
01:00:06,816 --> 01:00:08,942
with a transgender woman.

826
01:00:11,108 --> 01:00:13,191
I think I've scared you.

827
01:00:13,233 --> 01:00:15,025
Well, well, I, I,

828
01:00:16,233 --> 01:00:18,316
I didn't expect this, Andrea.

829
01:00:18,358 --> 01:00:20,108
Well, Kate, I didn't
expect it either,

830
01:00:20,150 --> 01:00:21,691
but here we are.

831
01:00:23,816 --> 01:00:26,815
Let's just see where this goes.

832
01:00:26,857 --> 01:00:28,108
Oh, okay, okay.

833
01:00:33,857 --> 01:00:36,400
You don't need
to say anything.

834
01:00:40,108 --> 01:00:41,358
Take care.

835
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:42,275
I love you.

836
01:00:47,108 --> 01:00:48,108
Ah.

837
01:00:51,691 --> 01:00:53,816
See if my knees will work.

838
01:00:57,233 --> 01:00:59,316
It's easy
to love Andrea.

839
01:00:59,358 --> 01:01:03,150
She's just so smart
and kind and confident.

840
01:01:03,192 --> 01:01:07,150
It's harder to accept
that she loves me.

841
01:01:07,192 --> 01:01:09,025
But I need to be free.

842
01:01:10,317 --> 01:01:13,108
Do I dare to try
to love someone,

843
01:01:13,150 --> 01:01:15,900
to make space for
her to love me?

844
01:01:23,275 --> 01:01:26,233
Oh gosh, what's, what's up?

845
01:01:29,858 --> 01:01:30,691
Uh oh.

846
01:01:32,858 --> 01:01:33,691
Hello?

847
01:01:34,942 --> 01:01:37,316
Oh hi Zoey, it's Andrea.

848
01:01:37,358 --> 01:01:39,358
Andrea, hi, what's up?

849
01:01:40,358 --> 01:01:42,983
Well, it's about Kate.

850
01:01:43,025 --> 01:01:43,858
Kate?

851
01:01:45,025 --> 01:01:46,275
What happened to
Kate, what's wrong?

852
01:01:46,317 --> 01:01:48,400
She's fine, she's fine.

853
01:01:53,275 --> 01:01:57,150
It's just that I told her
tonight that I love her.

854
01:01:57,192 --> 01:02:00,025
So wow, do you love her?

855
01:02:00,067 --> 01:02:01,108
Yeah, I do.

856
01:02:03,524 --> 01:02:04,858
Well, that's cool.

857
01:02:04,900 --> 01:02:07,066
So what's the problem?

858
01:02:07,108 --> 01:02:10,316
Well, I'm not supposed to
fall in love with a woman.

859
01:02:10,358 --> 01:02:12,900
Oh baloney, come on.

860
01:02:12,942 --> 01:02:13,858
Man, woman.

861
01:02:14,942 --> 01:02:16,358
You know, it doesn't
really matter.

862
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,150
The big gift is love.

863
01:02:18,192 --> 01:02:20,732
You find love, you
gotta go for it.

864
01:02:23,358 --> 01:02:24,442
Oh my gosh.

865
01:02:27,108 --> 01:02:28,400
But what if I scared her?

866
01:02:28,442 --> 01:02:29,400
Really?

867
01:02:29,442 --> 01:02:31,275
Kate's been in the Army,

868
01:02:31,317 --> 01:02:32,441
she's been in the Coast Guard.

869
01:02:32,482 --> 01:02:34,565
I doubt that she
scares so easily.

870
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,858
Well, she sure didn't
say anything back.

871
01:02:39,900 --> 01:02:42,400
I think she just didn't
know what to say.

872
01:02:42,442 --> 01:02:45,400
She didn't know what
to do with that.

873
01:02:45,442 --> 01:02:48,316
Well, you know
she's more reserved.

874
01:02:48,358 --> 01:02:52,025
But I think she's
got the hots for you.

875
01:02:52,067 --> 01:02:54,108
Do you think so?

876
01:02:54,150 --> 01:02:55,358
It's obvious.

877
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:58,316
You'd have to be blind
not to notice it.

878
01:02:58,358 --> 01:02:59,150
Wow.

879
01:03:00,233 --> 01:03:05,066
Well, it's
sure taken my by surprise.

880
01:03:05,108 --> 01:03:06,316
Well, we gave you some space.

881
01:03:06,358 --> 01:03:08,440
The rest is up to you.

882
01:03:08,482 --> 01:03:10,565
I should let you go to sleep.

883
01:03:10,607 --> 01:03:13,317
I think, I think I'll be fine,

884
01:03:14,482 --> 01:03:16,275
and I think that I'll
get a good night's sleep,

885
01:03:16,317 --> 01:03:17,317
and I think,

886
01:03:18,942 --> 01:03:20,317
I think I love her.

887
01:03:21,649 --> 01:03:23,440
No worries.

888
01:03:23,482 --> 01:03:25,900
I got a really good
feeling about this,

889
01:03:25,942 --> 01:03:28,816
so just want you to know that.

890
01:03:28,858 --> 01:03:30,358
Goodnight, dear.

891
01:03:49,983 --> 01:03:52,441
Now what, Max? These people...

892
01:03:54,524 --> 01:03:56,358
Hello?

893
01:03:56,399 --> 01:03:58,399
Hey Zoey, it's Kate.

894
01:03:58,441 --> 01:04:00,858
Ah Kate, what's up?

895
01:04:00,900 --> 01:04:03,316
I didn't wake you up, did I?

896
01:04:03,358 --> 01:04:04,399
Wake me?

897
01:04:04,441 --> 01:04:05,316
Nah, I was just reading,

898
01:04:05,358 --> 01:04:07,607
like I always do in the
middle of the night.

899
01:04:07,649 --> 01:04:09,025
Oh, oh good.

900
01:04:10,441 --> 01:04:12,150
Well, it's Andrea.

901
01:04:13,150 --> 01:04:14,066
What about Andrea?

902
01:04:14,108 --> 01:04:15,900
Is something wrong?

903
01:04:15,942 --> 01:04:18,358
Oh, everything's fantastic.

904
01:04:19,358 --> 01:04:22,317
She told me she
loved me tonight.

905
01:04:23,524 --> 01:04:24,357
Oh wow.

906
01:04:26,025 --> 01:04:27,150
That's cool.

907
01:04:27,192 --> 01:04:28,440
So what'd you do?

908
01:04:28,482 --> 01:04:30,900
Well I didn't
know what to say.

909
01:04:30,942 --> 01:04:33,357
I was just, I was floored.

910
01:04:33,399 --> 01:04:34,399
I mean, it was,

911
01:04:35,983 --> 01:04:39,067
I didn't know that
was a possibility.

912
01:04:41,692 --> 01:04:43,316
Well, you know,

913
01:04:43,357 --> 01:04:46,440
I hope I didn't
screw anything up.

914
01:04:46,482 --> 01:04:49,191
Oh, I'm sure you
didn't screw up.

915
01:04:49,233 --> 01:04:50,524
Andrea's a smart cookie.

916
01:04:50,566 --> 01:04:52,357
She'll get it.

917
01:04:52,399 --> 01:04:53,399
Yeah, well I,

918
01:04:55,566 --> 01:04:56,941
I'm a woman now.

919
01:04:56,983 --> 01:04:59,357
I thought I'd fall
in love with a man,

920
01:04:59,399 --> 01:05:01,067
but here's Andrea.

921
01:05:01,942 --> 01:05:03,608
She's wonderful.

922
01:05:03,650 --> 01:05:06,357
You know, as you
always tell me,

923
01:05:06,399 --> 01:05:08,191
what's so great about men?

924
01:05:08,233 --> 01:05:09,315
Yeah.

925
01:05:09,357 --> 01:05:11,233
But, just so you know,

926
01:05:11,275 --> 01:05:12,650
I have a really good
feeling about this.

927
01:05:12,692 --> 01:05:14,399
I want you to know that.

928
01:05:14,441 --> 01:05:16,942
Oh, oh thank you. I hope so.

929
01:05:17,733 --> 01:05:20,066
So can I go back to sleep now?

930
01:05:20,108 --> 01:05:21,441
Oh, okay Zoey.

931
01:05:22,441 --> 01:05:23,482
Thanks.

932
01:05:24,441 --> 01:05:25,399
Relax.

933
01:05:25,441 --> 01:05:26,441
Bye.

934
01:05:28,733 --> 01:05:29,608
Geeze, Max.

935
01:05:30,482 --> 01:05:33,566
Really, these
people, they're nuts.

936
01:05:33,608 --> 01:05:35,566
Not like my dog.

937
01:05:35,608 --> 01:05:37,316
You're a wise boy.

938
01:06:08,608 --> 01:06:10,691
These are for you, mom.

939
01:06:10,733 --> 01:06:13,482
I know you don't
like flowers, dad.

940
01:06:13,524 --> 01:06:15,441
I didn't bring you any.

941
01:06:19,067 --> 01:06:20,983
The trees have grown a lot

942
01:06:21,025 --> 01:06:22,650
since I was here last.

943
01:06:25,692 --> 01:06:27,233
I didn't really want to come by.

944
01:06:27,274 --> 01:06:28,733
Not because, well...

945
01:06:32,482 --> 01:06:33,440
If you could see me,

946
01:06:33,482 --> 01:06:36,232
you would see things are

947
01:06:36,274 --> 01:06:37,650
a little different.

948
01:06:43,482 --> 01:06:45,108
When I was young,

949
01:06:46,482 --> 01:06:48,482
you told me I was a boy.

950
01:06:49,650 --> 01:06:52,650
Though I didn't doubt
that I was male,

951
01:06:52,692 --> 01:06:54,692
I could see that, but...

952
01:06:58,567 --> 01:07:00,608
Somehow I knew that
I should be a girl.

953
01:07:00,650 --> 01:07:03,482
That I would be
happier as a girl.

954
01:07:05,108 --> 01:07:08,525
That I would fit into the
world better as a girl.

955
01:07:12,067 --> 01:07:15,482
I didn't know how bodies
worked, of course.

956
01:07:18,567 --> 01:07:20,232
I remember when I was little,

957
01:07:20,274 --> 01:07:24,399
being always so hopeful each
night when I went to bed.

958
01:07:27,316 --> 01:07:29,108
Before falling
asleep, I would just,

959
01:07:29,150 --> 01:07:31,525
I would think, well,
perhaps tonight is the night

960
01:07:31,567 --> 01:07:34,650
when this extra
stuff just falls off.

961
01:07:38,567 --> 01:07:43,567
Like how a scab falls off when
the skin underneath heals.

962
01:07:44,733 --> 01:07:47,567
Well then everyone would
see that I'm a girl.

963
01:07:51,608 --> 01:07:54,691
But I want to tell
you both now that,

964
01:07:54,733 --> 01:07:57,274
I've finally figured it out.

965
01:07:58,567 --> 01:08:00,149
I'm just sorry that

966
01:08:01,316 --> 01:08:03,441
I wasn't able to
get it all together

967
01:08:03,483 --> 01:08:05,483
soon enough to show you.

968
01:08:07,608 --> 01:08:08,566
'Cause I think your
reaction would be,

969
01:08:08,608 --> 01:08:11,775
"Well, now it all makes sense."

970
01:08:19,733 --> 01:08:22,858
I just want you to know that

971
01:08:22,900 --> 01:08:26,608
your troubled and
troublesome third child,

972
01:08:27,567 --> 01:08:30,858
who could never really
quite find himself,

973
01:08:30,900 --> 01:08:31,733
well,

974
01:08:33,608 --> 01:08:35,858
she has turned out alright.

975
01:08:54,692 --> 01:08:56,733
So I was finally done.

976
01:08:56,775 --> 01:09:00,691
I didn't know if this
day would ever come.

977
01:09:00,733 --> 01:09:04,442
I was ready to move
on to my life as Kate.

978
01:11:24,941 --> 01:11:26,816
Sometimes it's easier if I act

979
01:11:26,858 --> 01:11:28,775
as if you'd never been.

980
01:11:30,483 --> 01:11:33,775
But I wouldn't have gotten
here without you, Danny.

981
01:11:33,817 --> 01:11:34,692
I love you.

982
01:11:40,817 --> 01:11:42,982
Are you feeling okay?

983
01:11:43,024 --> 01:11:44,400
Yeah.

984
01:11:44,442 --> 01:11:45,816
I feel pretty good, actually.

985
01:11:45,858 --> 01:11:48,940
- Yeah?
- All things considered.

986
01:11:48,982 --> 01:11:51,900
I even took a few
steps around the room,

987
01:11:51,941 --> 01:11:52,982
and that's...

988
01:11:54,817 --> 01:11:55,941
That's good.

989
01:11:57,525 --> 01:11:59,900
Well, Dr. Bauer said
that she did a great job,

990
01:11:59,941 --> 01:12:02,816
and that the surgery
was a success.

991
01:12:02,858 --> 01:12:04,400
Yeah.

992
01:12:04,442 --> 01:12:07,858
- Yeah, she told me that too.
- That's good.

993
01:12:09,858 --> 01:12:12,692
Casey, I know this
is hard on you.

994
01:12:15,817 --> 01:12:18,400
But I'll always be your father.

995
01:12:25,024 --> 01:12:25,858
You know,

996
01:12:28,817 --> 01:12:30,358
a few months ago,

997
01:12:30,400 --> 01:12:32,566
I went to visit my
friends down in the South,

998
01:12:32,608 --> 01:12:34,941
and it was just so wonderful

999
01:12:36,692 --> 01:12:39,567
to walk down the
street as a woman.

1000
01:12:41,442 --> 01:12:42,899
No hiding, no shame.

1001
01:12:48,066 --> 01:12:50,525
Sometimes a man would open,

1002
01:12:50,567 --> 01:12:52,733
hold the door open for me.

1003
01:12:54,941 --> 01:12:58,733
And it felt real nice
to be treated as a lady.

1004
01:13:02,066 --> 01:13:04,857
People have been so kind to me.

1005
01:13:06,066 --> 01:13:10,899
And I know, I know that not
everyone's journey is like mine.

1006
01:13:14,107 --> 01:13:16,441
But it just seems like

1007
01:13:16,483 --> 01:13:19,400
this secret that
I held so tightly,

1008
01:13:21,692 --> 01:13:23,775
hid so well for 65 years,

1009
01:13:27,483 --> 01:13:29,150
was far more interesting to me

1010
01:13:29,192 --> 01:13:30,857
than to anyone else.

1011
01:13:39,608 --> 01:13:42,066
It's been two years
since I got to be Kate.

1012
01:13:42,108 --> 01:13:46,525
It's been wonderful,
beyond my wildest dreams.

1013
01:13:46,567 --> 01:13:48,192
Andrea sure is a gift.

1014
01:13:49,608 --> 01:13:50,899
Maybe certain people
come into our lives

1015
01:13:50,941 --> 01:13:53,024
to help us be who we are,

1016
01:13:54,233 --> 01:13:57,692
and to help us get
to be who we can be.

1017
01:14:43,982 --> 01:14:46,774
You're beautiful, Kate.

1018
01:14:46,816 --> 01:14:48,816
I'm glad you think so.

1019
01:14:51,982 --> 01:14:56,275
I wish you could see
yourself as beautiful.

1020
01:14:56,317 --> 01:14:57,192
I'll try.

1021
01:14:59,024 --> 01:15:00,983
You say it.

1022
01:15:01,025 --> 01:15:02,192
I'm beautiful?

1023
01:15:06,732 --> 01:15:08,941
Say it like you mean it.

1024
01:15:11,608 --> 01:15:12,941
I'm beautiful.

1025
01:15:14,067 --> 01:15:15,941
You are beautiful.

1026
01:15:17,067 --> 01:15:19,815
I don't think you would've

1027
01:15:19,857 --> 01:15:21,857
gone through all of this

1028
01:15:23,025 --> 01:15:26,108
if you didn't think
you were beautiful.

1029
01:15:27,108 --> 01:15:27,941
Well,

1030
01:15:30,941 --> 01:15:33,983
it became more a
matter of survival.

1031
01:15:34,025 --> 01:15:36,940
I didn't know how much
longer I'd make it as,

1032
01:15:36,982 --> 01:15:38,525
what's his name.

1033
01:15:40,691 --> 01:15:43,567
I like you just
as you are, Kate.

1034
01:15:47,067 --> 01:15:49,608
Well, I sure didn't expect this.

1035
01:15:49,650 --> 01:15:52,567
Oh, I didn't
expect this, either.

1036
01:16:04,233 --> 01:16:07,192
You want to take
your jacket off?

1037
01:16:23,442 --> 01:16:26,192
I haven't done
this in a while.

1038
01:16:27,233 --> 01:16:28,983
I haven't either.

1039
01:16:30,358 --> 01:16:33,400
You might have questions.

1040
01:16:33,442 --> 01:16:35,608
Whatever is just fine.

1041
01:16:57,067 --> 01:16:58,108
Stuck.

1042
01:17:02,317 --> 01:17:04,025
You have a tattoo.

1043
01:17:23,275 --> 01:17:24,358
Come with me.

1044
01:17:50,067 --> 01:17:54,025
I'm not that heavy.

1045
01:17:59,358 --> 01:18:00,317
Here I come.

1046
01:19:02,275 --> 01:19:03,275
Hi Kate.

1047
01:19:03,317 --> 01:19:04,900
Hi Andrea.

1048
01:19:04,942 --> 01:19:06,816
I have a Yoga class
first thing Monday morning,

1049
01:19:06,858 --> 01:19:08,233
so I just took off.

1050
01:19:09,566 --> 01:19:12,025
Oh, I had wondered
where you'd gone.

1051
01:19:12,067 --> 01:19:14,358
Yeah, I'm sorry to worry you.

1052
01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:15,900
Oh, that's okay.

1053
01:19:18,400 --> 01:19:19,983
Would you like to come in?

1054
01:19:20,025 --> 01:19:21,400
Oh, no thanks.

1055
01:19:21,442 --> 01:19:24,275
I can only stay
for just a second.

1056
01:19:26,067 --> 01:19:27,191
Everything okay?

1057
01:19:27,233 --> 01:19:28,275
Well...

1058
01:19:31,858 --> 01:19:33,275
Yeah, I guess so.

1059
01:19:35,150 --> 01:19:38,983
But, would you be okay
if we took a break here

1060
01:19:39,942 --> 01:19:41,358
for a little bit?

1061
01:19:45,983 --> 01:19:48,191
What kind of break?

1062
01:19:48,233 --> 01:19:50,192
Well, I don't know.

1063
01:19:52,482 --> 01:19:56,316
One of my brothers is in
town for a little while,

1064
01:19:56,358 --> 01:20:00,317
so I'd like to at least
wait until he's gone, and,

1065
01:20:01,983 --> 01:20:03,482
see how I'm feeling.

1066
01:20:04,317 --> 01:20:06,025
Okay.

1067
01:20:06,067 --> 01:20:07,067
I'm sorry.

1068
01:20:08,108 --> 01:20:09,108
It's okay.

1069
01:20:11,317 --> 01:20:12,317
I'm sorry.

1070
01:20:13,317 --> 01:20:15,192
I'll be in touch, okay?

1071
01:20:22,399 --> 01:20:25,150
Actually, that's not it at all.

1072
01:20:29,108 --> 01:20:31,275
I'm struggling here, Kate.

1073
01:20:37,441 --> 01:20:42,441
I'm not supposed to have
fallen in love with a woman.

1074
01:20:43,067 --> 01:20:43,482
But I have.

1075
01:20:47,900 --> 01:20:50,983
And I'm not sure
what to do about it.

1076
01:20:54,108 --> 01:20:57,358
I need some time to
sit with that, and,

1077
01:20:59,275 --> 01:21:00,067
I'm sorry.

1078
01:21:04,399 --> 01:21:05,399
It's okay.

1079
01:21:09,441 --> 01:21:10,941
Thank you.

1080
01:21:10,983 --> 01:21:12,524
I will be in touch.

1081
01:21:12,566 --> 01:21:14,524
I'll call you.

1082
01:21:14,566 --> 01:21:16,317
- Okay.
- Okay, bye.

1083
01:21:39,067 --> 01:21:40,524
Hello,
this is Andrea.

1084
01:21:40,566 --> 01:21:42,191
Please leave a message,

1085
01:21:42,233 --> 01:21:43,025
- and I will call you back.
- Andrea opened

1086
01:21:43,067 --> 01:21:44,524
the door to love.

1087
01:21:44,566 --> 01:21:48,565
Loving me has to be way
outside her comfort zone.

1088
01:21:48,607 --> 01:21:50,399
But whatever happens,

1089
01:21:50,441 --> 01:21:51,650
it was really wonderful

1090
01:21:51,692 --> 01:21:53,399
to have that little glimpse

1091
01:21:53,441 --> 01:21:57,357
of the sweet, powerful
love that she offered.

1092
01:22:17,524 --> 01:22:20,524
Oh Katie, where
did you come from?

1093
01:22:23,524 --> 01:22:25,524
Where did you come from?

1094
01:22:56,441 --> 01:22:58,191
You sure you live here?

1095
01:22:58,233 --> 01:22:59,316
This is it.

1096
01:23:00,524 --> 01:23:01,357
Wow.

1097
01:23:05,150 --> 01:23:05,983
I love it.

1098
01:23:08,192 --> 01:23:12,025
Yeah, it's the first
time I used a designer.

1099
01:23:14,482 --> 01:23:15,316
Alright.

1100
01:23:16,775 --> 01:23:17,733
Can I?

1101
01:23:17,775 --> 01:23:19,399
Sure, go ahead.

1102
01:23:32,482 --> 01:23:34,483
So do you want to go
somewhere tomorrow,

1103
01:23:34,525 --> 01:23:37,274
or do you just want to hang out?

1104
01:23:37,316 --> 01:23:39,357
I'm okay with whatever.

1105
01:23:43,357 --> 01:23:46,525
How are you and Thomas doing?

1106
01:23:46,567 --> 01:23:48,691
He's gone back to school.

1107
01:23:48,733 --> 01:23:50,441
Oh, that's good.

1108
01:23:51,274 --> 01:23:52,274
That's good.

1109
01:24:06,567 --> 01:24:10,150
Mama Kate, you're acting
more like my father today.

1110
01:24:10,191 --> 01:24:14,525
It's weird, but I'm kinda
happy to have him back.

1111
01:24:14,567 --> 01:24:15,525
You said a few months ago

1112
01:24:15,567 --> 01:24:18,232
that I'm pretty much the same.

1113
01:24:18,274 --> 01:24:20,274
Well, Papa had this...

1114
01:24:23,650 --> 01:24:25,608
I don't know, I guess
you'd call it, like,

1115
01:24:25,650 --> 01:24:27,816
an underlying sadness.

1116
01:24:27,858 --> 01:24:29,190
And when you got
to me, Mama Kate,

1117
01:24:29,232 --> 01:24:30,525
I didn't see that anymore,

1118
01:24:30,567 --> 01:24:32,733
but today, I see it again.

1119
01:24:39,316 --> 01:24:40,149
Well,

1120
01:24:43,692 --> 01:24:44,608
these last few weeks,

1121
01:24:44,650 --> 01:24:48,442
I've just been bolling
over with happiness.

1122
01:24:49,650 --> 01:24:53,650
I didn't know one person
could even be that happy.

1123
01:24:56,525 --> 01:24:57,567
I met a friend,

1124
01:24:58,817 --> 01:25:01,775
and she's become
more than a friend.

1125
01:25:04,483 --> 01:25:05,316
And I,

1126
01:25:08,942 --> 01:25:12,149
I'm waiting for her
to come to her senses,

1127
01:25:12,191 --> 01:25:13,274
and leave me.

1128
01:25:15,483 --> 01:25:17,274
Why would you say that?

1129
01:25:19,692 --> 01:25:23,650
Well, I bring a lot
of baggage with me,

1130
01:25:23,692 --> 01:25:27,525
and maybe I'm too old
to start all this again.

1131
01:25:34,775 --> 01:25:36,900
I can be happy living alone.

1132
01:25:47,442 --> 01:25:51,274
Mama Kate, I'm on my
second marriage, right?

1133
01:25:52,775 --> 01:25:55,442
And I'm going to make this work.

1134
01:25:56,650 --> 01:25:59,775
I am going to give
everything I have

1135
01:25:59,817 --> 01:26:01,650
to make this one work.

1136
01:26:05,274 --> 01:26:06,775
And if it doesn't,

1137
01:26:10,442 --> 01:26:12,983
'cause they don't always,

1138
01:26:13,025 --> 01:26:15,733
at least I will
know that I tried,

1139
01:26:15,775 --> 01:26:17,817
and it sounds so dumb,

1140
01:26:18,817 --> 01:26:21,483
but I know that I
would love again.

1141
01:26:21,525 --> 01:26:22,650
We can't help it, you know?

1142
01:26:22,692 --> 01:26:24,692
It's like, how we're built.

1143
01:26:27,817 --> 01:26:29,566
I'm glad
for you, Casey.

1144
01:26:29,608 --> 01:26:31,775
You've been through a lot.

1145
01:26:37,817 --> 01:26:40,358
You know how your
neighbor has a love bird?

1146
01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:41,733
I thought
it was a parrot.

1147
01:26:41,775 --> 01:26:43,566
Mama, that's what
love birds are.

1148
01:26:43,608 --> 01:26:44,483
Oh.

1149
01:26:44,525 --> 01:26:46,441
Anyways, they only
have one of them,

1150
01:26:46,483 --> 01:26:48,900
and they're not
supposed to be alone.

1151
01:26:48,942 --> 01:26:49,858
They don't do well.

1152
01:26:49,900 --> 01:26:53,275
They get erratic in captivity.

1153
01:26:53,317 --> 01:26:56,483
Some people are just
meant to pair up.

1154
01:26:58,066 --> 01:27:00,733
If you really like this person,

1155
01:27:00,775 --> 01:27:03,232
as much as it seems you do,

1156
01:27:03,900 --> 01:27:06,733
then I think that you should try

1157
01:27:07,733 --> 01:27:11,608
and give everything you
can to be with them.

1158
01:27:14,733 --> 01:27:15,608
It's funny, Mama Kate.

1159
01:27:15,650 --> 01:27:16,691
I feel like I can talk to you

1160
01:27:16,733 --> 01:27:19,483
more than I ever
could with Papa.

1161
01:27:21,775 --> 01:27:22,608
Yeah.

1162
01:27:23,650 --> 01:27:24,691
It's nice.

1163
01:27:24,733 --> 01:27:26,232
Yeah.

1164
01:27:27,608 --> 01:27:30,525
Oh Casey and
her talk of love birds.

1165
01:27:30,567 --> 01:27:32,608
Actually, all birds
shed their feathers

1166
01:27:32,650 --> 01:27:34,900
and replace them with new ones.

1167
01:27:34,942 --> 01:27:37,733
Maybe that's what
I've needed to do

1168
01:27:37,775 --> 01:27:39,691
so that I could find love.

1169
01:27:39,733 --> 01:27:41,733
And let myself be loved.

1170
01:27:46,733 --> 01:27:47,775
So Tom.

1171
01:27:49,442 --> 01:27:50,275
Yeah?

1172
01:27:53,400 --> 01:27:55,566
And Tom Flynn, down.

1173
01:27:55,608 --> 01:27:57,024
I've met someone.

1174
01:27:58,650 --> 01:28:01,442
And I believe I've
fallen in love.

1175
01:28:02,608 --> 01:28:03,733
He was 10 for 14.

1176
01:28:03,775 --> 01:28:04,691
Under 10 yards.

1177
01:28:04,733 --> 01:28:06,691
That's the patience
part we talked about.

1178
01:28:06,733 --> 01:28:08,442
Did you hear me?

1179
01:28:09,358 --> 01:28:11,691
Yeah, I heard you.

1180
01:28:11,733 --> 01:28:12,900
You fell in love.

1181
01:28:12,941 --> 01:28:15,483
Yeah, I've fallen in love.

1182
01:28:16,733 --> 01:28:17,941
Her name is Kate.

1183
01:28:20,817 --> 01:28:22,024
Really?

1184
01:28:22,066 --> 01:28:22,900
Yep.

1185
01:28:25,024 --> 01:28:26,691
You know, it seemed like

1186
01:28:26,733 --> 01:28:29,567
you might be happier
with a woman.

1187
01:28:30,692 --> 01:28:33,775
Well Tom, it sure
feels that way.

1188
01:28:33,817 --> 01:28:37,316
I don't think I've
ever been in love.

1189
01:28:37,358 --> 01:28:40,691
Someone knocked it away.

1190
01:28:40,733 --> 01:28:42,733
John Elway, he did
a quarrel on that.

1191
01:28:42,775 --> 01:28:45,024
There's a little
more to the story.

1192
01:28:45,066 --> 01:28:46,899
He's
gonna spin right around.

1193
01:28:46,941 --> 01:28:48,982
She was born transgender.

1194
01:28:50,066 --> 01:28:51,733
- Really?
- Yeah.

1195
01:28:51,775 --> 01:28:53,941
Okay I'm gonna sit down.

1196
01:28:55,941 --> 01:28:58,940
I better sit down
for this, I can see.

1197
01:29:00,899 --> 01:29:01,941
Oh Tom.

1198
01:29:04,858 --> 01:29:06,858
She's just wonderful.

1199
01:29:09,192 --> 01:29:13,858
One
handed catch by Van Johnson.

1200
01:29:13,899 --> 01:29:14,858
You know,

1201
01:29:18,982 --> 01:29:22,982
the message I got from
Dad, I'm sure it was Dad,

1202
01:29:24,608 --> 01:29:27,024
was that I was supposed to
fall in love with a man,

1203
01:29:27,066 --> 01:29:28,941
be married to a man,

1204
01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:32,982
and be taken care of by a man.

1205
01:29:33,024 --> 01:29:34,650
Johnson makes the tackle,

1206
01:29:34,692 --> 01:29:37,108
or the catch when he's down.

1207
01:29:37,150 --> 01:29:40,566
So to fall in
love with a woman

1208
01:29:40,608 --> 01:29:43,066
has presented a challenge to me.

1209
01:29:45,442 --> 01:29:47,775
You know, do I
listen to my heart,

1210
01:29:47,817 --> 01:29:50,400
do I listen to the
message in my head?

1211
01:29:50,442 --> 01:29:52,940
That's
why Dan Reeves was so upset.

1212
01:29:52,982 --> 01:29:55,940
And it's been a struggle,

1213
01:29:55,982 --> 01:29:58,899
but it just comes
down to my heart.

1214
01:30:00,107 --> 01:30:01,483
I, I love her.

1215
01:30:05,150 --> 01:30:06,733
And she loves me.

1216
01:30:12,567 --> 01:30:14,899
What can be wrong with that?

1217
01:30:27,275 --> 01:30:29,024
Would you get that?

1218
01:30:30,816 --> 01:30:31,650
Sure?

1219
01:30:37,899 --> 01:30:39,024
Oh, hi.

1220
01:30:39,066 --> 01:30:40,899
You must be Casey.

1221
01:30:40,941 --> 01:30:41,982
Are you Andrea?

1222
01:30:42,024 --> 01:30:43,024
I am.

1223
01:30:44,024 --> 01:30:45,483
Come in, please.

1224
01:30:49,192 --> 01:30:51,982
Mama Kate's just putting
some things away in the back.

1225
01:30:52,024 --> 01:30:54,233
Let me get her for you.

1226
01:30:54,275 --> 01:30:56,857
Hey Mama Kate, Andrea's here.

1227
01:30:58,067 --> 01:30:59,191
She'll be really
happy to see you.

1228
01:30:59,233 --> 01:31:00,899
I'll be happy to see her, too.

1229
01:31:00,941 --> 01:31:02,525
It's very nice to meet you.

1230
01:31:02,567 --> 01:31:03,192
You too.

1231
01:31:09,192 --> 01:31:10,192
Hi Andrea.

1232
01:31:11,899 --> 01:31:12,733
Hi Kate.

1233
01:31:15,067 --> 01:31:16,067
How are you?

1234
01:31:18,150 --> 01:31:19,067
I'm okay.

1235
01:31:19,982 --> 01:31:20,982
How are you?

1236
01:31:24,650 --> 01:31:27,525
I think I'm gonna go
lay down for a little bit.

1237
01:31:27,567 --> 01:31:28,940
It was really nice to meet you.

1238
01:31:28,982 --> 01:31:30,108
Nice to
meet you too, Casey.

1239
01:31:30,150 --> 01:31:31,108
Love you.

1240
01:31:31,150 --> 01:31:31,982
Good luck.

1241
01:31:35,899 --> 01:31:37,525
Can we sit down?

1242
01:31:37,567 --> 01:31:38,150
Sure.

1243
01:31:54,025 --> 01:31:56,567
Kate, the words to love songs

1244
01:31:58,732 --> 01:32:01,108
have never made any sense to me.

1245
01:32:02,650 --> 01:32:06,608
It was just like a language
I didn't understand.

1246
01:32:07,732 --> 01:32:09,067
Until I met you.

1247
01:32:10,567 --> 01:32:11,982
And now I get it.

1248
01:32:13,025 --> 01:32:14,650
I love you, Kate.

1249
01:32:19,358 --> 01:32:23,066
Well, I feel like my
life has just started,

1250
01:32:23,108 --> 01:32:25,525
and I'm already pushing 70.

1251
01:32:27,983 --> 01:32:32,774
Sometimes, I wonder if I'll
even make it another 10 years.

1252
01:32:34,358 --> 01:32:38,732
I want to make most of
these years that I do have.

1253
01:32:39,732 --> 01:32:41,690
Once I got to be Kate,

1254
01:32:41,732 --> 01:32:44,650
I was living just
the perfect life.

1255
01:32:47,691 --> 01:32:51,233
I didn't think it was
possible to be happier.

1256
01:32:52,774 --> 01:32:54,150
But with you, I am.

1257
01:32:55,941 --> 01:32:57,275
I love you, Andrea.

1258
01:32:59,816 --> 01:33:01,108
I love you, Kate.

1259
01:33:15,150 --> 01:33:18,150
I feel like such
a mess sometimes.

1260
01:33:18,192 --> 01:33:19,732
Oh, we all do.

1261
01:33:22,816 --> 01:33:26,816
And I worry that I might
lose my mind someday.

1262
01:33:29,067 --> 01:33:33,025
If that happened, would
you take care of me?

1263
01:33:33,067 --> 01:33:35,358
I'd take care of you.

1264
01:33:35,400 --> 01:33:38,150
We could take care
of each other.

1265
01:33:44,732 --> 01:33:47,025
Do you wish I
hadn't transitioned?

1266
01:33:47,067 --> 01:33:50,900
That I was still
pretending to be a man?

1267
01:33:50,942 --> 01:33:52,233
Oh Kate.

1268
01:33:52,275 --> 01:33:53,900
I wouldn't have given
you a second look,

1269
01:33:53,942 --> 01:33:55,275
'cause you're too short.

1270
01:33:58,233 --> 01:33:59,067
Well.

1271
01:34:01,816 --> 01:34:04,316
Hey, do you like road trips?

1272
01:34:04,358 --> 01:34:08,108
I think a road trip with
you would be fantastic.

1273
01:34:08,150 --> 01:34:11,108
Do you know that Johnny Cash
song, "I've Been Everywhere."

1274
01:34:11,150 --> 01:34:12,900
♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪

1275
01:34:12,942 --> 01:34:14,316
Yeah, I like Johnny Cash.

1276
01:34:14,358 --> 01:34:15,941
Yeah, how'd you like to go

1277
01:34:15,983 --> 01:34:17,774
to all those places in the song?

1278
01:34:17,816 --> 01:34:20,191
All those places?
How many are there?

1279
01:34:20,233 --> 01:34:21,941
There are 92 of 'em.

1280
01:34:21,983 --> 01:34:25,233
- They're all over the place.
- Oh my gosh.

1281
01:34:25,275 --> 01:34:27,108
Well, what's the closest one?

1282
01:34:27,150 --> 01:34:29,192
I think Crater Lake.

1283
01:34:31,025 --> 01:34:34,066
Well, that's
just down the road.

1284
01:34:34,108 --> 01:34:35,316
Do you want to go?

1285
01:34:35,358 --> 01:34:36,192
I do.

1286
01:34:37,732 --> 01:34:39,358
How about next week?

1287
01:34:40,400 --> 01:34:43,108
Let's go, Katie bird.

1288
01:35:01,025 --> 01:35:02,233
I love you, Andrea.

1289
01:35:02,275 --> 01:35:03,233
I love you, Kate.

1290
01:35:03,275 --> 01:35:06,774
♪ Something inside of
me that had to be said ♪

1291
01:35:06,816 --> 01:35:10,441
♪ Like a sunburn burning
in the back of my head ♪

1292
01:35:10,483 --> 01:35:15,691
♪ Like a needle pulling an
unseen thread all my life ♪

1293
01:35:18,983 --> 01:35:20,983
♪ I can see it coming ♪

1294
01:35:21,025 --> 01:35:22,983
♪ But I just couldn't say ♪

1295
01:35:23,025 --> 01:35:24,858
♪ What tomorrow brought ♪

1296
01:35:24,900 --> 01:35:26,983
♪ 'Cause I was stuck in today ♪

1297
01:35:27,025 --> 01:35:29,108
♪ Was a light so bright ♪

1298
01:35:29,150 --> 01:35:34,150
♪ It would shine my way to you ♪

1299
01:35:35,566 --> 01:35:39,400
♪ It was always there,
it was written that way ♪

1300
01:35:39,442 --> 01:35:43,858
♪ It was always there,
it was written that way ♪

1301
01:35:43,900 --> 01:35:46,108
♪ It was always there ♪

1302
01:35:46,150 --> 01:35:50,317
♪ Just something
that I had to do ♪

1303
01:35:56,400 --> 01:35:58,358
♪ It was always there ♪

1304
01:35:58,400 --> 01:36:00,358
♪ It was written that way ♪

1305
01:36:00,400 --> 01:36:02,400
♪ It was always there ♪

1306
01:36:02,442 --> 01:36:04,775
♪ It was written that way ♪

1307
01:36:04,817 --> 01:36:07,025
♪ It was always there ♪

1308
01:36:07,067 --> 01:36:11,233
♪ Just something
that I had to do ♪

1309
01:36:22,858 --> 01:36:27,858
♪ I was toting my pack along
a dusty Winnemucca road ♪

1310
01:36:30,233 --> 01:36:35,400
♪ When along came a semi with a
high and canvas covered load ♪

1311
01:36:35,441 --> 01:36:38,316
♪ If you're going
to Winnemucca, Mac ♪

1312
01:36:38,358 --> 01:36:40,233
♪ With me you can ride ♪

1313
01:36:40,275 --> 01:36:42,565
♪ And so I climbed
into the cab ♪

1314
01:36:42,607 --> 01:36:45,858
♪ And then I settled
down inside ♪

1315
01:36:45,900 --> 01:36:48,275
♪ He asked me if
I'd seen a road ♪

1316
01:36:48,317 --> 01:36:50,565
♪ With so much dust and sand ♪

1317
01:36:50,607 --> 01:36:53,233
♪ And I said, listen ♪

1318
01:36:53,275 --> 01:36:57,275
♪ I've traveled every
road in this here land ♪

1319
01:37:00,441 --> 01:37:03,233
♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪

1320
01:37:03,275 --> 01:37:06,399
♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪

1321
01:37:06,441 --> 01:37:10,191
♪ I crossed the
deserts bare, man ♪

1322
01:37:10,233 --> 01:37:12,983
♪ I've breathed the
mountain air, man ♪

1323
01:37:13,025 --> 01:37:16,233
♪ I traveled, I
had my share, man ♪

1324
01:37:16,275 --> 01:37:20,983
♪ I've been everywhere ♪

1325
01:37:21,025 --> 01:37:24,440
♪ I've been to Reno,
Chicago, Fargo, Minnesota ♪

1326
01:37:24,482 --> 01:37:27,565
♪ Buffalo, Toronto,
Winslow, Sarasota ♪

1327
01:37:27,607 --> 01:37:30,983
♪ Wichita, Tulsa,
Ottowa, Oklahoma ♪

1328
01:37:31,025 --> 01:37:34,316
♪ Napa, Panama,
Mattawa, La Paloma ♪

1329
01:37:34,358 --> 01:37:37,275
♪ Bangor, Baltimore,
Salvador, Amarillo ♪

1330
01:37:37,317 --> 01:37:40,275
♪ Tocopilla, Barranquilla,
and Padilla ♪

1331
01:37:40,317 --> 01:37:41,358
♪ I'm a killer ♪

1332
01:37:41,399 --> 01:37:43,983
♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪

1333
01:37:44,025 --> 01:37:47,025
♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪

1334
01:37:47,067 --> 01:37:50,357
♪ I crossed the
deserts bare, man ♪

1335
01:37:50,399 --> 01:37:53,482
♪ I breathed the
mountain air, man ♪

1336
01:37:53,524 --> 01:37:56,858
♪ I traveled, I
had my share, man ♪

1337
01:37:56,900 --> 01:38:01,399
♪ I've been everywhere ♪

1338
01:38:01,441 --> 01:38:04,983
♪ I've been to Boston,
Charleston, Dayton, Louisiana ♪

1339
01:38:05,025 --> 01:38:08,482
♪ Washington, Houston,
Kingston, Texarkana ♪

1340
01:38:08,524 --> 01:38:11,524
♪ Monterey, Faraday,
Santa Fe, Tallapoosa ♪

1341
01:38:11,566 --> 01:38:14,983
♪ Glen Rock, Black Rock,
Little Rock, Oskaloosa ♪

1342
01:38:15,025 --> 01:38:18,191
♪ Tennessee to Hennessey
and Chicopee, Spirit Lake ♪

1343
01:38:18,233 --> 01:38:21,357
♪ Grand Lake, Devil's Lake,
Crater Lake, for Pete's sake ♪

1344
01:38:21,399 --> 01:38:24,315
♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪

1345
01:38:24,357 --> 01:38:27,440
♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪

1346
01:38:27,482 --> 01:38:30,941
♪ I crossed the
deserts bare, man ♪

1347
01:38:30,983 --> 01:38:34,191
♪ I breathed the
mountain air, man ♪

1348
01:38:34,233 --> 01:38:37,315
♪ I traveled, I
had my share, man ♪

1349
01:38:37,357 --> 01:38:42,150
♪ I've been everywhere ♪

1350
01:38:42,192 --> 01:38:45,482
♪ I been to Louisville,
Nashville, Knoxville, Ombabika ♪

1351
01:38:45,524 --> 01:38:48,566
♪ Shefferville, Jacksonville,
Waterville, Costa Rica ♪

1352
01:38:48,608 --> 01:38:52,066
♪ Pittsfield, Springfield,
Bakersfield, Shreveport ♪

1353
01:38:52,108 --> 01:38:55,233
♪ Hackensack, Cadillac,
Fond Du Lac, Davenport ♪

1354
01:38:55,275 --> 01:38:59,440
♪ Idaho, Jellicoe, Argentina
Diamontina, Pasadena ♪

1355
01:38:59,482 --> 01:39:01,399
♪ Catalina, see
what I mean, man ♪

1356
01:39:01,441 --> 01:39:04,733
♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪

1357
01:39:04,775 --> 01:39:08,066
♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪

1358
01:39:08,108 --> 01:39:11,233
♪ I crossed the
deserts bare, man ♪

1359
01:39:11,274 --> 01:39:14,482
♪ I breathed the
mountain air, man ♪

1360
01:39:14,524 --> 01:39:17,399
♪ I traveled, I
had my share, man ♪

1361
01:39:17,441 --> 01:39:21,733
♪ I've been everywhere ♪

1362
01:39:21,775 --> 01:39:24,233
♪ I've been to
Pittsburgh, Parkersburg ♪

1363
01:39:24,274 --> 01:39:25,650
♪ Gravellburg, Colorado ♪

1364
01:39:25,692 --> 01:39:29,108
♪ Ellensburg, Rexburg,
Vicksburg, Eldorado ♪

1365
01:39:29,150 --> 01:39:32,566
♪ Larrimore, Atmore,
Haverstraw, Chattanika ♪

1366
01:39:32,608 --> 01:39:35,440
♪ Chaska, Nebraska,
Alaska, Opelika ♪

1367
01:39:35,482 --> 01:39:39,274
♪ Baraboo, Waterloo,
Kalamazoo, Kansas City ♪

1368
01:39:39,316 --> 01:39:42,440
♪ Sioux City, Cedar City,
Dodge City, what a pity ♪

1369
01:39:42,482 --> 01:39:47,399
♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪