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[folk music playing in the distance]

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[man pants then chuckles]

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How are you?

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Are you okay?

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So I… I took the test.

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[upbeat guitar music playing]

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-[man] Good morning.
-[woman] Morning!

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[man] Yes?

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-[woman] Er, madam is expecting me.
-[in Pidgin] Really? What is your name?

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[woman] Sista.

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-[man giggles][in Pidgin] Sista what?
-Just say "Sista," the cleaner.

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[man] Okay.

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-Morning.
-Welcome, ma'am.

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[man in Pidgin] My madam is not around.

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But she said I should
give you the house key.

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-What did she say?
-She said I should give you the key.

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[in Pidgin]
So am I supposed to just go in to clean

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and nobody will be there to watch me?

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She said you should call her
when you get here.

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So maybe she will tell you
what to do when you call her.

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-Really?
-Yes ma'am.

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Hello, ma.

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-[Madam] Ah Sista, you are in my house?
-[Sista] Yes.

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Then uh.. they say you say that

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I should just enter
the house like that and start cleaning.

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That nobody will watch me.
I say, "Ah, no."

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Dabike and Mrs. Fisher
spoke glowingly about you

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so I absolutely trust you.

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Madam, no.

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What of inventorying?

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You know I'm not used
to just going to people's houses, clean,

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then when I leave they tell me,
"Oh, something is now missing."

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You know I don't do it.

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Even at that, I will never accuse you.

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Ma, is there camera?

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-Why? Why do you ask?
-So that something is seeing me.

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Sista, don't worry. There is nothing
to even steal in the house.

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Just go in and do what you have to do.

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Okay, ma. Will you come
back before I will finish?

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-Yes. I will. I will be back.
-Good.

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Just tell my security to give you
the key, and make sure you eat something.

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-There's food in the fridge.
-[chuckles] Okay, ma.

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Okay.

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-She say you should give me the key.
-Okay.

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[man in terse tone]
So what are you going to do about it?

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-[girl] Me?
-Yes, you.

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[spluttering] Your WAEC is in a few weeks
and I'm leaving for school next week.

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[in Yoruba] My sister… she knows.

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She said she's coming to see
your mum at the shop tomorrow.

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[boy] Ah!

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I don't know what to do.

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[rattling of gate]

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-[in Pidgin] Yeah, who's that?
-[Madam] Open, open, open!

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Erm, please tell Nonso
to go to the vulcanizer

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-at the junction and pick up my car.
-Yes, ma.

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-You're still here?
-Yes. Welcome, ma.

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-Why? You didn't get my alert?
-I got the alert, ma.

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[in Yoruba] I'm inventorying.

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Sista, you need to leave all that, please.

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I'm really pressed.

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-I need to use the restroom.
-I will wait, ma.

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-You can go.
-I will wait, ma. [chuckles] I will wait.

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Inventorying, inventorying, inventorying.

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I will wait. I'll wait.

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[soft guitar music playing]

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-[Sista] How was lesson?
-[girl] It was fine, ma.

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Yes. Right.

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-Mummy, guess what happened today?
-What happened?

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Hmm. Risi's mummy
came to look for her today.

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Apparently, Risi has been lying to her
mum that she has been coming for lesson.

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[hisses] I was just shocked.

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-[gasps] Look…
-Anu.

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-Ma?
-Anu.

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-Ma?
-Remember the daughter of whom you are!

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Especially now that
you're going to the university.

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Don't do these kind
of things. Don't do anything

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that will make me sorrow over you.

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Hmm! It is four eyes that born a child.

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-But now it is only two eyes that--
-Eyes that is nurturing. Argh!

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-Be calming down!
-[scoffs]

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This is why I don't like to give you gist.

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Small gist I gave you,
you've turned it into a lecture.

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I wish, above all things,

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-that you shall prosper.
-Yes!

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Have I given you reason to doubt it?

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-Still--
-Oh Mummy, come on!

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[knocking]

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-Who?
-[man] Your son!

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Anu, go and open the door for him.

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[Sista] Wow, really?

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Hope no problem?

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-We're on strike.
-Again?

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I'm tired of that school.
Any small conflict, a strike starts.

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Anu, go look for something for him to eat.

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[in Yoruba] But you could have waited
till tomorrow morning before coming.

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You should have waited till morning.

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How long is this strike for now?

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Hopefully not too long. But… [sighs]

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at least we will spend time together.

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Did you wear a belt?

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[Sista] Three days.

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Anu. Anu said I should tell you
that she has started the small chops.

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Really?

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She said that you should send a sample.

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Yes. [scoffs]

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He even showed up yesterday.

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He said that UNILAG
has sent them back due to a strike.

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Oh okay, ma.

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Okay. See you. Thank you.

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-Mummy, good morning.
-Good morning.

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[in Yoruba] Have you swept?
Have you swept the compound?

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Yes, ma.

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-You have swept the compound?
-Yes, ma.

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[in Yoruba] After taking your bath,

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go and buy something…
something we can cook for soup.

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Because this evening,
maybe I won't come back.

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That my customer, the one in Ikoyi…

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The one with the baby, she has come back.

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She has brought her baby back.

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-So I'm going there for three days.
-Mummy, I want to follow you.

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-Hmm?
-[in Pidgin] To go and do wetin?

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-Sista. "What," not "wetin."
-[chuckles]

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[in Yoruba] Okay.
[in English] To go and do what?

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To go and enjoy AC.

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[mimics her] To go and enjoy AC.

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When you have money,
you will buy AC for us.

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For now, go and be watching television.

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[in Yoruba] Alright, alright.
Go on with you!

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I want to read the book
of Proverbs in the bible.

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[scoffs]

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-So…
-Ah, no "so"!

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-[in Yoruba] There's nothing like "so."
-What is the decision?

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Eh she can't stay with me.

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She should just follow her husband.

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[in Yoruba] They should start living
as a couple and that's all.

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-Neither can she stay here.
-Indeed!

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[in Yoruba] Look, it's not possible.
Fola, it cannot work.

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Since you decided to taste
what married people are eating…

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[in Yoruba] What's left? You should
go and live together as man and wife.

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But it cannot happen under my roof.

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-[in Yoruba] No way. No.
-[hesitating] Mummy, please…

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[spluttering in Yoruba] Fola, so you knew
that but went ahead and slept with her!

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Don't provoke me! Eh?

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You are now saying, "Mummy, please."

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-[in Yoruba] You see? Tell them.
-Right?

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-You know how we are.
-Of course.

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[in Yoruba] What I gathered
from my meager earnings

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that I managed and I suffered

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to send you to school…

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[in Pidgin] you then went
and got someone pregnant?

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Is this my reward? Eh, Fola?

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[in Yoruba] Do I deserve this?

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-Mummy, please.
-[in Yoruba] Shut your mouth!

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[in Yoruba] Which Mummy
are you asking "Please"? Argh!

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Victoria!

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He did all sort of things
to your body while enjoying himself.

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My sister will be rolling in her grave!

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-Uncle, please. Please, sir.
-Erm…

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-Fola?
-Sir.

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Victoria… You both have heard your mums.

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-Please, sir.
-The ball now is in your court.

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-Ah, it's not, sir.
-Both of you need to make a decision.

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-Uncle.
-Hmm?

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Why are you talking like this?

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-They've already made the decision.
-That's right!

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They've chosen the right path
[in Yoruba] that they prefer.

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Don't let us waste our time on them.

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Fola. [chuckles]

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Since you believe in yourself

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that you are man enough
to become a father,

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I cannot be feeding you,
feeding your wife and this unborn child.

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-[in Yoruba] That's not possible.
-Come on! Do you want to kill me?

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I have your siblings
that I want to take care of.

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So let me take care of them.

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[in Yoruba] Don't kill me, okay?

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-[Fola] If I stopped school now…
-I'm not asking you to stop school now.

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Then what about you?

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Eh, after this exam we will have a break.

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I can use that break to look for work.

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Who would give you work
in your pregnant condition?

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[girl hisses]

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-Where will you live?
-Can't I live with you?

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[scoffs] Live with me, [in Yoruba] how?

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Didn't you hear what my mother said?

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[hisses] Oh,
I'm not staying in your house.

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You said you live off campus, right?
I can live with you there.

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How will you feed?
I can barely fend for myself.

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Isn't it at school?
There'll be plenty students in school and

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I’m sure there will be different types
of businesses I can do in school.

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I'll… work on that.

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["Stand in the rain"
by Inioluwa Gem playing]

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-Wow, Super Noodles Maker! [chuckles]
-[hisses] Leave me alone.

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Everyone is talking about your noodles.

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Me, I'm just happy.

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At least by Saturday
we can get new baby stuff.

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-Wow.
-I saved up some money already.

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-The baby is due anytime soon.
-Hmm.

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-So this one is for the House Seven boys.
-Right.

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Quadri and his friends asked me
to make saari food for them.

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I'll make it, but you have
to help me deliver by five a.m.

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No problem.

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Erm, let me go with this one then
I'll tell Victor to come and pick me.

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[bustling sounds]

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Thank you.
Thank you for everything. [sighs]

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Petrol.

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Don't turn it on by…
in fact, eight thirty.

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Don't turn it on before eight thirty p.m.
I know there won't be light,

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but eight thirty. [in Yoruba] There it is.

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Ah-ah. [chuckles]

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-Leave the way for me please!
-Mummy, you are not going anywhere.

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Fola, tell her.

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[chuckles] [in Yoruba] Really?

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If not that I have these

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many mouths to feed, you think
I will go to work everyday like this?

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-"Ee rees wharree rees." Alright.
-Sista, you say, "It is what it is."

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[laughs]

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It is… [hesitates] what it is.

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-Mummy, "it is what it is."
-Oh, idea is need, you these children.

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I need to go to work.
Come on, leave the way.

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-Let's follow you. Let me follow you.
-To where?

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This one is an office.

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But I want to help.
And Fola can help too. Fola, tell her.

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Yes, Mummy. You are tired. And remember we
still had to rub your body the other day.

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if you don't go for this one,
will the earth stop?

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Really? Will it stop?

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All these payments of this,
payments for that. Won't it stop?

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Right.

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I have to go to work. I know
you children are trying to help.

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But this is new customer is an office, eh?

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If anything goes missing there,
how will I buy it?

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Stay at home. Let me go and work the work.

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All this stress I'm going through
is for you children to have a better life.

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And to have all
these things that I did not have.

236
00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:45,480
And I am praying for both of you,
that you will succeed.

237
00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,280
And then, save me out
of this trouble I'm going through. Right?

238
00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:52,760
You think I don't want the good life?
Rolling my buttocks on a ship?

239
00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:57,240
-Or a motorboat?
-You better not do it in a thong!

240
00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:01,160
-What is thong?
-[giggling] G-string.

241
00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,240
Ah! [chuckles] Catapult? [in Yoruba] No.

242
00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:07,720
Lace. You'll buy me lace. Two of you.
[in Yoruba] I'll be dancing like this.

243
00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:12,240
I hope that with these few points of mine,

244
00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:16,640
I have been able to convince
and not confuse you that…

245
00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:19,760
I need to go to work
for the betterment of all. Did I get it?

246
00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,800
Now, move or I move you.
Oh, these children!

247
00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,360
Come on, come on. I have to leave now.

248
00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:31,920
-I love you so much, Mummy.
-I love you too, hmm?

249
00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:34,480
I love you.

250
00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:37,720
Argh! [in Yoruba] Allow me
go to work. Don't forget…

251
00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:41,400
Don't put it on until eight thirty,
in fact nine thirty.

252
00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:44,480
-Okay, Mummy. Bye.
-Okay, bye-bye.

253
00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:47,320
[teasing in Yoruba] Rolling your buttocks…

254
00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:53,320
[knocking on gate]

255
00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:58,160
[birds chirping]

256
00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:00,880
Wow, Auntie Jay?

257
00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,800
-[In Yoruba] I hope there's no problem?
-Erm…

258
00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:08,720
-Ah. Hope no problem?
-[Aunty Jay chuckles] No problem.

259
00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,280
Um, Mrs. Uzo…

260
00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:16,280
Erm, [in Hausa] actually,
[hesitating in English] she accused you…

261
00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,160
No, she insisted that we

262
00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:20,840
-come here [spluttering] that there's--
-[Mrs. Uzo] Um, so

263
00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:24,440
my set of gold is missing. A whole set.

264
00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:28,600
And seeing that you were the last
person to my home before I traveled,

265
00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:30,880
we need to search your house.

266
00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:36,760
Ahn-ahn. Aunty Jay, I don't understand
what she is saying?

267
00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:42,760
[hesitating] She insisted
that um, we come here

268
00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:47,920
-so that she can check…
-Why is she accusing me?

269
00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:49,480
No, she's not accusing… ahn-ahn.

270
00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:51,320
No, she's not accusing you,
[in Hausa] I swear by Allah.

271
00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,760
[in Hausa] I've told her that I trust you.

272
00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,480
I told her that I trust you so we should
come so that she will see for herself--

273
00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,400
I don't have all day.

274
00:16:59,920 --> 00:17:03,440
-Guys. Nonso, [in Igbo] come check here.
-Wait! Wait.

275
00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,880
-My children are inside. Just wait for me.
-I don't understand.

276
00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:13,880
So you will go
and have them hide my stuff?

277
00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:15,240
[in Hausa] Come on, Mrs. Uzo!

278
00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,400
-Oh please.
-Mrs. Uzo, I beg you in God's Name,

279
00:17:18,079 --> 00:17:20,119
Stop doing that. Be easy here.

280
00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,400
[in Pidgin] In my 11 years
of doing this job,

281
00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:31,640
nobody has ever accused me of stealing!

282
00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:33,400
Nobody!

283
00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,640
No problem.

284
00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:40,240
Hmm, Anu! Fola! Come outside!

285
00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:50,800
-What's happening?
-[in Pidgin] She said I stole her gold.

286
00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:56,240
-Ma'am, I think--
-Hey Fola! Come. [in Yoruba] Come here.

287
00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:00,720
[in Yoruba] This is part of the stigma
experienced in this job. Just come here.

288
00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,560
[In Yoruba] Alright, go in. [in English]
You can go search everywhere.

289
00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:07,480
-[in Igbo] Ifeanyi, quickly.
-Search the house everywhere, no problem.

290
00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,560
Please search everywhere.
All the nooks and crannies.

291
00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:11,680
[phone ringing]

292
00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,600
You, Aunty? [in Yoruba] In my house?

293
00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:20,480
Ah, no problem, Aunty Jay.
[in Yoruba] There's no problem.

294
00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:22,560
[in Igbo] Um, come. Ifeanyi.

295
00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:24,600
Nonso!

296
00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:28,640
Let's go [In Igbo] Come. Let's leave here.

297
00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,360
Go? You are not searching again?

298
00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:36,040
Erm, [hesitating]
I just found out who took it.

299
00:18:36,120 --> 00:18:37,440
[Aunty Jay] Huh?

300
00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:38,920
[Aunty Jay in Hausa] What did just say?

301
00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:43,760
-Erm, Sista, I am so sorry, I--
-[hisses] Aunty…

302
00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,040
-Please go.
-[Aunty Jay in Hausa] Oh my God.

303
00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:50,120
-Sista, I will give them money---
-Madam I say, come and go!

304
00:18:55,360 --> 00:18:58,440
[hisses] Aunty Jay…

305
00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:05,440
You are back. How did it go?

306
00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:16,160
I'm pregnant.

307
00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:21,280
Ah-ah?

308
00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,120
How, how come?

309
00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,040
What do you mean, how come?

310
00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,240
I don't mean it that way.

311
00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:37,760
So what do you mean?

312
00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:41,920
I have been pulling out, have I not been?

313
00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:50,280
So, who says pulling out
means 100 percent guarantee?

314
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,280
Vicky, I've been pulling out.
This pregnancy cannot be mine.

315
00:19:55,360 --> 00:19:57,640
I don't understand.

316
00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:02,400
Maybe you should go and help me
to do erm, a newspaper advert or…

317
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:03,840
yes, a publication.

318
00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:08,000
To know who the real owner is.
[in Yoruba] Because I don't understand.

319
00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,600
[spluttering] What do you
want me to say? Huh? What?

320
00:20:13,360 --> 00:20:16,080
What do I want you to say?
To say that everything will be okay.

321
00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:20,240
And that everything will be fine.
You don't have to deny the baby.

322
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:24,160
Ah! That's a very
big insult on my character.

323
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:28,440
That is a very, very big
insult on my character, Fola!

324
00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:30,760
Sorry, okay? Sorry.

325
00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:35,720
-Sorry for yourself.
-But I don't need this now.

326
00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,320
We don't need this now.

327
00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,560
I have a professional
exam I'm preparing for.

328
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:44,240
I go for service in one month. A baby
doesn't fit into this picture at all.

329
00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:46,720
We already have one
that we're struggling to take--

330
00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:48,080
No, no, no. Fola, wait.

331
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:53,840
You mean that I, Fola,
that I am struggling to take care of.

332
00:20:54,360 --> 00:20:57,080
Feeding you, the baby and me.

333
00:20:57,360 --> 00:20:59,160
-Paying for your school fees.
-Wait, wait!

334
00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:00,360
So I've not been doing anything?

335
00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:02,440
I've not been doing anything, right?
So I'm useless now?

336
00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,400
Eh? I don't help you? Don't I help you?

337
00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,520
Don't I clean the baby's bum when he poos?

338
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,920
Even in the night
when he cannot sleep, I help you!

339
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,880
I do something in this house!
Don't tell me that I don't do anything.

340
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:14,360
Don't say that!

341
00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:18,040
Alright, sorry. I am sorry, eh?

342
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,320
[in Yoruba] Sorry, don't be angry.
See, I don't want us to fight.

343
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:26,240
Tomorrow, I’ll go and see
the doctor and I'll do… maybe an abortion.

344
00:21:26,360 --> 00:21:28,280
And, we will see how it is.

345
00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:31,560
I think I'm 16 weeks pregnant.

346
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,120
I can still…

347
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:37,000
-I'll have to abort it.
-Sixteen weeks?

348
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:42,360
You've been 16 weeks pregnant
and I didn't know?

349
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:44,480
Fola, I’ve not seen
my period since I had Junior.

350
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:45,680
Where did you keep it?

351
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,080
Oh God!

352
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,800
-Vicky, why? Why?
-[chuckles]

353
00:21:51,120 --> 00:21:55,680
Shit, shit, shit!

354
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,120
Which one is all this
"shit, shit" you are saying?

355
00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,000
I said tomorrow, I'll go and see Doctor.

356
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,120
Sixteen weeks… they should be able
to remove it. What's all the "shit"?

357
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:06,160
I said I do abortion,
you're saying "shit, shit." Ah!

358
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,600
Look, that's all I can say.
I will see you later.

359
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,520
-[in Yoruba] I can't do more than this.
-What?

360
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:18,840
-Am I happy being pregnant?
-At every little touch, you get pregnant.

361
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,520
[in Hausa] She doesn't listen.
[in English] She just does not listen.

362
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,880
How do you live your life
just to please a man?

363
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,320
There is more to a woman
than just pleasing a man.

364
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:28,880
Hmm, true.

365
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:30,320
-Truth, Aunty Jay.
-Mm-hmm.

366
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:35,480
But this thing… Hmm.
It's not straight like that.

367
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:37,120
Anyway…

368
00:22:39,120 --> 00:22:40,640
You miss him, right?

369
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:43,480
Who?

370
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,880
Ah-ah? You late husband, of course.

371
00:22:49,360 --> 00:22:52,840
-[chuckles]
-How many years has it been now?

372
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:59,080
[sighs] I stopped keeping track
when it was ten years.

373
00:23:00,360 --> 00:23:05,440
[sighs] So you mean that none of
your in-laws came to look for you?

374
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:12,880
It's better this way, Aunty Jay.
It's better this way.

375
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,640
-Hmm, Aunty Jay.
-What is it?

376
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:19,800
This man. This your lover…
When are you going to…

377
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,160
When are you going to let him marry you?

378
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,240
[in Pidgin] If you are a bit
submissive, he will put a ring on it.

379
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:30,280
Me I should "put body for ground"?
Or he should put his body on the ground?

380
00:23:30,360 --> 00:23:32,360
Or even, he should put
his head on the ground.

381
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:34,920
Because that is the problem.
The woman is putting her body…

382
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,200
-All the time. What about the man?
-[giggles]

383
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:41,280
If he put his head on the ground,
me I will put my head on the ground.

384
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:45,280
-Two of us we will marry. Until then…
-Aunty Jay!

385
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:48,360
-I like your fire! [chuckles]
-[chuckles]

386
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:53,000
Aunty Jay, thank you for this food.
So it means today no more cleaning?

387
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:57,440
-Have we not finished talking about that?
-Aunty Jay!

388
00:23:58,480 --> 00:23:59,600
[sighs]

389
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:03,760
-Let me hurry fast and start going home.
-Um, before you go…

390
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,560
[grunts] There's something
I need to give you.

391
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,200
-Again?
-Hmm.

392
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,240
-Ah-ah! Aunty Jay…
-Hmm?

393
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,920
Hope it's not from that erm, Mrs… [hisses]

394
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:17,560
-Mrs. Uzo?
-Mrs. Uzo.

395
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:22,000
-[chuckles] It is not from her.
-Aunty Jay, I don't want problem.

396
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,200
Already, I have promised myself
that after what happened yesterday,

397
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:30,800
there is no business
joining you and her together again.

398
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,040
[in Hausa] Did you see
what happened yesterday?

399
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,480
What happened yesterday
can never repeat itself.

400
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,920
I did not like it at all.

401
00:24:39,360 --> 00:24:42,240
Aunty Jay. And that day

402
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:48,520
[in Pidgin] when I was heading there,
I was double-minded about working there.

403
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:53,440
I even called her, so she can
take an inventory. She said no.

404
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,840
[in Yoruba] Not knowing
she had plans to put me in trouble.

405
00:24:57,120 --> 00:25:01,360
That thing she did in front
of my children, Aunty Jay?

406
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:03,680
[in Hausa] I'm sorry. Please.

407
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,240
Just forgive her and let it go.
[in Hausa] I beg you in God's name.

408
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:08,800
I use God to beg you.

409
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,280
But should I tell you who was
the person who took the jewelry?

410
00:25:12,360 --> 00:25:13,400
Who?

411
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:16,400
Hmm! You will not believe.
It was her husband.

412
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:17,520
Ah!

413
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,600
-Shocking!
-[in Hausa] They said he has uh…

414
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:24,560
a gambling problem. So, he used her
gold, her full set to go and pay for it.

415
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:29,520
Oh! Now, I'm feeling sorry for her.

416
00:25:30,120 --> 00:25:33,200
Ah, I forgive her. I forgive her.

417
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,160
Anu, so you take all these for school.

418
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,760
Ha! Sista, no.

419
00:25:40,120 --> 00:25:42,840
This is you trying to say
you will not take me for shopping.

420
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,480
-Promise is a death.
-"Debt," ma.

421
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:50,720
"A promise is a debt."
Nobody is dying here, please.

422
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,120
So, it's the person
that will take you for shopping

423
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:54,520
that you are talking to like that?

424
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,560
-[delighted squeal] Thank you.
-Hmm.

425
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:03,040
-Mummy, I want to go back to school.
-[in Pidgin] Have you resumed?

426
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,840
English, ma.

427
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,360
-Have you resume?
-Has school resumed?

428
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,000
Argh, Fola, just answer.

429
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:17,520
No. But I got a tutoring offer for some
carryover students. And they're paying.

430
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:21,320
Fola?

431
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,680
Did you ask me for money and I say no?

432
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,840
No, but it's just that
this cleaning stress is too much.

433
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,040
And if I can make
some small money on the side,

434
00:26:32,120 --> 00:26:33,920
maybe you'll stop working
on Sunday, at least.

435
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,800
So Sunday is the problem. I will stop.

436
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:47,520
Mummy, it's not that. It's not that.
I’m already an adult now.

437
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,080
And besides, you said you
and daddy had me around this age.

438
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,880
So why can't you allow me to help?

439
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,760
Fola, you see that school?

440
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,560
I want you to go there, focused like this.

441
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,320
No distraction.

442
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,880
I want you to focus.

443
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:15,680
This stress you are complaining about,
in two years' time now, you will forget.

444
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,640
Then you will face me. Me too,
I will now relax and be taken care of.

445
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,000
-[in Yoruba] What's making her laugh?
-[giggling] Mummy, don't worry.

446
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:25,760
I promise.

447
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,360
I will work hard, and
I will spoil you with plenty money.

448
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:33,000
Don't spoil me.
You will repair me with money.

449
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,120
Fola, do we have a deal?

450
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,360
-Do we have a deal?
-Yes, Mummy.

451
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,640
Uh, who is that? Come in.

452
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:59,200
-Ta-da! [chuckling]
-[squeals] Tiwa!

453
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:02,880
-[Tiwa laughs]
-[squeals] Tiwa!

454
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:08,640
-Look at you! I cannot believe this.
-[chuckling]

455
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,480
[in British accent]
Yeah, we came in a couple of weeks ago.

456
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:16,360
-A what?! A what?!
-Couple of weeks. [chuckling] Relax!

457
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,000
-Come on, Tiwa!
-We were in Abuja. FA had some work to do

458
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:23,120
So we had to stop by the office.
I couldn't get a phone number

459
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,200
because it's like,
you literally have to draw blood

460
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,800
-to get a phone number in Naija, honestly.
-Hmm.

461
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,840
-Hmm?!
-I'm serious! Come on.

462
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,680
-Nothing beats a good surprise though.
-Nothing beats a good surprise.

463
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,560
You know, I thought it was my client.
I was already working on her designs.

464
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,040
-Although I could be your client.
-[squeals]

465
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,120
-Cheers!
-Cheers! [delighted chuckle]

466
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,720
-Hmm. This is really good.
-It is, right?

467
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,840
Yeah. So, the kids are now
in boarding school in England.

468
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,120
And we're going
to be here for a year and a half.

469
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,680
Yes, to start the company's
Africa-side of things.

470
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:57,200
That is amazing!

471
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,400
-Um, so have you found anything yet?
-Er, the company got us some space,

472
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:03,320
but I really need your expertise.
I need you to do it up.

473
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,880
-[chuckles]
-Look, I cannot wait to do it.

474
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,280
[in Hausa] I hope you know
you are going to pay me in euros.

475
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,920
Because there's no way I am going
to collect naira currency from you.

476
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,560
[chuckling] Please don't just charge me
too much, [in Hausa] I beg you by God.

477
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,680
-What did you say, "Danallah"?
-Oh stop! [laughing]

478
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,160
I am guessing that you haven't had
anyone to speak Hausa with in ages.

479
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,600
-Nobody at all. Nobody.
-Ah, that is why. I can only imagine.

480
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:29,800
But for the space, we have to set up
an appointment so that I can see it.

481
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,240
And then we can know what we
are renovating, how you want it to look.

482
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,000
And then run ideas by you,
whatever it is that you want us to do.

483
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,480
-That's totally fine. Is tomorrow okay?
-Oh, tomorrow is perfect.

484
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:44,080
Make sure you text me the address and…
Ooh! The food is here!

485
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:45,920
-It is?
-It is.

486
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,720
-OMG!
-Thank you so much.

487
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,040
I promise you, Tiwa,

488
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,160
-you will love this ofada.
-Thank you.

489
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,560
-The sauce is amazing.
-I need to take a picture.

490
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,920
-Take a picture.
-Oh my gosh.

491
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:04,480
[melancholic music plays]

492
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:06,480
Did I offend you?

493
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:09,280
No.

494
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,560
So why are you not talking to me?

495
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:20,080
You didn't do anything.
I'm… I'm just nervous.

496
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,680
Nervous about what?

497
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:26,840
Is it about me?

498
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,080
Or the baby? Or Youth Corper?

499
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:34,560
Youth Service.
It's Youth Service, not Youth Corper.

500
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,280
[exhales audibly]

501
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,200
Sorry.

502
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,080
So…

503
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,360
When are you coming back?

504
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,400
-After service.
-That's like one year, right?

505
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:55,520
-[melancholic music continues]
-[sighs deeply]

506
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:57,800
[sighs deeply]

507
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,600
At least, before they pay salary,

508
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:20,000
you will have something small to use
[in Pidgin] to fend for yourself.

509
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,240
No. You need this more than I do.

510
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,440
I'm okay. [hesitating]
Me and the baby will be fine.

511
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,680
-I have shop.
-No.

512
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,680
-Ah-ah..
-Please just take it.

513
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,920
[melancholic music continues]

514
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,360
I’m sorry if I offended you.

515
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:02,760
Sister erm, my cousin's husband
just uh, he works in Amsterdam.

516
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:08,200
But they have like
a new branch of the office here.

517
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:09,360
Really?

518
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,440
-What of her?
-Hmm.

519
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,600
She is a full time housewife.

520
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:15,760
But I'm thinking, now that she said that

521
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,640
the children are in boarding school,

522
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,680
maybe, she might decide to get a job.

523
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,840
[in Pidgin] Having a job is good.
Look at you now, Aunty Jay.

524
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:28,600
-Hmm, I don't have a husband.
-[chuckles]

525
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,880
Aunty Jay, have you
chased um, that brother away?

526
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:35,080
[hisses] I did not chase him but
he has not asked me to marry him.

527
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,720
For a while now,
we've been doing "relationship."

528
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:43,800
-A good man will ask you.
-Amen. The right man has to come.

529
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:48,280
[in Hausa] You hear me,
all you right men out there?! [laughs]

530
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:51,320
But Sista, there is
something I want to tell you.

531
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:52,440
Okay.

532
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:56,440
This house that we are going to,
you will clean it very well.

533
00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:00,320
I know that you clean well
but you know this is a first time client.

534
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:04,000
So I want them to retain you.
So I want you to clean it very well

535
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,320
so that when they see it,
they will know that, "Ah!

536
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,520
-This one, we are keeping her."
-[claps hand in supplication]

537
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,600
-[in Hausa] Do you understand?
-Yes.

538
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:15,240
[happy music playing]

539
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,200
[Tiwa] Hello!

540
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:27,840
-[Aunty Jay] Sista?
-Ah, Aunty Jay!

541
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,040
-I've finished!
-You have finished?

542
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,720
This extra one is just dusting.

543
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,400
-[Tiwa chuckles]
-Sorry I take long.

544
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:37,320
-It is okay. This is my cousin, Tiwatope.
-Good afternoon, ma.

545
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,440
-Nice to meet you. You did this yourself?
-Ah, yes. Yes.

546
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,520
When I clean people's house and
office, I don't use to take anybody.

547
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,120
I always go alone.

548
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:50,120
So that if something miss
or break, I can only know my own heart.

549
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:52,320
I can't know for the other person.

550
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,200
-[car honks]
-That's FA.

551
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,640
-Oh, he's coming?
-Yes, I asked him to come see the house.

552
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,320
-Oh, okay.
-Yes.

553
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,760
FA, my guy! Ah-ah, come on.

554
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:04,800
-[FA] Hello. It's good to see you again.
-Good to see you. How are you?

555
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:09,400
-[Tiwa] Hello, darling. [kisses]
-Oppress us. [chuckling]

556
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,400
-Erm Sista, this is my husband.
-Good afternoon, sir.

557
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,080
-FA, this is the cleaning lady.
-Good to meet you, madam.

558
00:34:16,159 --> 00:34:17,639
-Yes, sir.
-Good to meet you.

559
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,560
So are you ready
to see what the house looks like?

560
00:34:19,639 --> 00:34:20,800
Sure.

561
00:34:21,199 --> 00:34:24,120
Alright baby, let's go.
Let's go check it out. [chuckling]

562
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,880
Sista, [in Hausa] I hope
you are well. Are you okay?

563
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:30,560
-Are you sure you're okay?
-Yes. Please help me do transfer.

564
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:35,480
Because after I finish
just mopping the step, I will be going.

565
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,040
[in Hausa] No, just wait.
I will drop you off.

566
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:39,560
-Let me just enter quickly.
-No, I'm going to market.

567
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:41,600
Oh okay, [in Hausa] no problem.

568
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:44,679
But you know the phones
you said that I should help you get… ah.

569
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:48,880
-They are in the car.
-Am I owing you something?

570
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:53,239
So if you are owing me, [in Hausa]
you think I'll collect the money from you?

571
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:58,240
["The Mother Song"
by "Inioluwa Gem" playing]

572
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,560
[ominous music playing]

573
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,320
[groans]

574
00:36:13,720 --> 00:36:15,360
[phone beeps]

575
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:22,200
[laughs]

576
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:24,800
[in Yoruba] Lord, thank you.

577
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,800
-[sighs]
-[phone beeps]

578
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:47,120
[melancholic music plays]

579
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:08,160
Ah! [in Yoruba] Fola has ruined me.
Someone help me!

580
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:12,320
[screams in shock] Fola.

581
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,240
[hisses]

582
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:20,840
[screams in shock][in Yoruba] I'm dead!

583
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:27,600
No. No, Fola! No!

584
00:37:29,720 --> 00:37:32,560
Ah! Fola!

585
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,720
Ah! Yeh!

586
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:39,720
[shouts in pain]

587
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,440
[shouts in pain]

588
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:51,080
[sobbing bitterly]
[singing in Yoruba] Oh my Defender!

589
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,400
[knock on door]

590
00:37:54,720 --> 00:37:56,160
[hoarsely] Come in.

591
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,800
-[in Yoruba] Good morning, Mummy.
-Fola.

592
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:06,800
[in Yoruba] My mother.

593
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:08,920
My rock.

594
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,240
My everything.

595
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:18,360
-Thank you for all you do for us.
-[sobbing loudly]

596
00:38:21,720 --> 00:38:24,920
-Mummy, is everything okay?
-[sobbing] It is fine.

597
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:29,480
Everything is fine, Fola.
Everything is fine.

598
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,160
I’m just thinking.

599
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,200
About what? About us?

600
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,520
[in Pidgin] You are also part
of what I'm thinking about.

601
00:38:40,240 --> 00:38:43,680
Mummy, you know we try not to stress you.

602
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:49,440
-Are we putting you under any pressure?
-[in Yoruba] God forbids it.

603
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:52,520
[sobbing] God forbids it.

604
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,520
[in Yoruba] Sit down.

605
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,040
[sniffles]

606
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:06,800
You are my children.
You [In Yoruba] and Anu.

607
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:11,840
And it is you, the two of you,
that gives me the strength

608
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:16,320
and the power to smile.

609
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,880
You are not a problem to me.
[in Yoruba] Have you heard?

610
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,120
-[in Yoruba] Yes.
-Have you heard?

611
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:23,480
Yes.

612
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,320
But are you sure?

613
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:28,000
You know I'm your stand-in husband.

614
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,000
So you can always tell me
if anything is wrong?

615
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:36,520
Olu… [hoarsely] Olufolarin. Olufolarin.

616
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:42,600
[singing Fola's panegyrics]

617
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:44,480
[in Yoruba] There is no problem.

618
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:48,200
-So you will talk to me?
-[sobbing] I will talk to you.

619
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,760
Anu is making custard and akara.
And we are watching Rofia Tailor Loran.

620
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,640
Sista will go now.
[in Yoruba] Sista will brush her teeth.

621
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:03,160
I will wash my teeth,
white, white, shining.

622
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,440
I will come and drink ogi
with you, and akara.

623
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,000
[in Yoruba] Have you heard, my dear?

624
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,720
[in Yoruba] I will come
and join you soon. I'll take the ogi.

625
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:14,320
Fola, you make me happy.
[in Yoruba] You and Anu, okay.

626
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:15,840
-I'm coming.
-Okay, Mum.

627
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,720
[melancholic music continues]

628
00:40:23,720 --> 00:40:30,680
[sobbing and sniffling]

629
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:36,760
[phone ringing]

630
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:39,040
Hello, Iya Iyabo?

631
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:40,480
[in Yoruba] What happened?

632
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,600
Town council? [shouts]

633
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,560
I'm in trouble! Hello?

634
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:52,760
-[keeps shouting]
-[melancholic music continues]

635
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:54,760
Okay.

636
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,400
Hello, Aunty Jay. [chuckles]

637
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:05,840
[in Pidgin] Do you have
something good for me?

638
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,680
Really, Sunday?

639
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,680
Oka… ah. [hisses]

640
00:41:15,720 --> 00:41:19,280
I promised Fola
that I will not work on Sunday again.

641
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:25,640
Ah, Anu small chop?

642
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:28,680
Are you sure, Aunty Jay?

643
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:32,560
-[in Pidgin] She is not much of an expert.
-Aunty, I am a pro. Don’t mind Sista.

644
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,680
[sighs] She wants to talk to you.

645
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,840
Hello, Aunty Jay.

646
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:46,160
-[party music playing]
-[indistinct chatter]

647
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,200
Hi. Can I get a drink?

648
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:02,520
Oiza, this is
really amazing, I swear. [chuckles]

649
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:04,160
Yeah, thank you…

650
00:44:04,240 --> 00:44:06,680
-for the house. It's beautiful.
-It is, right?

651
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:11,840
I love to do amazing interiors
for houses that I am well paid for.

652
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:17,040
Judging by the dent in my bank account,
yes, you were well paid. [chuckles]

653
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:20,080
Thank you.

654
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:25,760
-Er, the cleaner…
-Hmm.

655
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:29,320
-How long has she worked with you for?
-Oh, Sista?

656
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,760
Hmm. Many years now.

657
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:36,160
And she's so good at what she does, right?

658
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:38,640
Why do you ask?

659
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:42,160
Oh, [hesitating] it seems
like she's a very hardworking person.

660
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,720
Oh, she's
very hardworking, [in Hausa] truly.

661
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,760
I'd like to know
if she can come clean the office.

662
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:51,880
Sista is a full definition of,
um, booked and busy.

663
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,520
But, I think I can help you talk to her.

664
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:57,720
And see if she can fit you
into her schedule.

665
00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:59,080
Cool.

666
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,680
-Have you seen Tiwa around?
-Hmm…

667
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:07,560
-I think she is in the kitchen.
-Okay.

668
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,160
♪ Angels bow before him ♪

669
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:19,240
♪ What a mighty God we serve ♪
♪ What a mighty… ♪

670
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,200
Any problem, sir?

671
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,400
-I’m looking for the small chops lady.
-Oh, my daughter.

672
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:31,280
Ah-ah, she's in the parlor.
I left her outside, sir.

673
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:35,320
-Your daughter?
-Yes. Do you need anything, sir?

674
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:38,240
-No, no.
-My son, he will, he can do it.

675
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,840
-[hesitates] That's your son?
-Um, okay.

676
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:44,760
-What do you need, sir?
-It's just, um,

677
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,320
some new guests just arrived and I was…

678
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,160
I wanted them to be served so…

679
00:45:49,240 --> 00:45:51,840
Ah, new guests. I'd do it, sir.

680
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,840
-I'll follow you now, sir.
-Okay.

681
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,720
So, basically just trying to manage
the whole work-life balance,

682
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:05,280
family, business and all.
Yeah, it's really important

683
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:07,720
-Thank you.
-Sir?

684
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,040
Thank you, Vicky.

685
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:16,680
-[ominous tone plays]
-[melancholic music begins]

686
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,640
-Yeah, enjoy.
-And you too.

687
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:31,520
[FA chuckles] What year
did you say you are in again?

688
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,040
-Two hundred level, sir.
-Two hundred level?

689
00:46:35,240 --> 00:46:37,800
You sound a lot more mature
than a 200-level student.

690
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,800
-I get it from my mom.
-Fola, go on. Go and help your sister.

691
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:45,120
Okay, Mom. Sorry excuse me, sir.

692
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:52,280
[chuckling] Totally ridiculous
but it was such a great one, Jems.

693
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:57,720
-[Aunty Jay chuckles]
-Hey, baby. [kisses]

694
00:46:58,240 --> 00:47:01,160
-FA, my guy. [chuckles]
-Hey. [chuckles]

695
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:06,000
-That was exactly what happened that day.
-Yeah.

696
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,040
[Tiwa] We're just going to
make it work. My schedule…

697
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:11,400
[FA] Hey, um…

698
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,120
You should come visit me
sometime soon, okay? Here's my card.

699
00:47:14,240 --> 00:47:16,720
Oh okay, thank you very much, sir.
I also enjoyed our conversation.

700
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,680
[in Yoruba] Fola, it is time.
[in English] Ma'am, we have finished.

701
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,320
Ah. Thank you so much for today.

702
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:26,440
You have really amazing children.
They're very well behaved.

703
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:27,920
-[Fola] Thank you very much, ma.
-[Tiwa chuckles]

704
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:29,640
Is Aunty Jay dropping us?

705
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:33,560
[in Hausa] You see,
Tiwa hasn't released me yet.

706
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:38,720
-I… I can drop you off.
-Our house is a very far, sir. Thank you.

707
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:43,600
Look, these two are still gossiping.
You better just let me drop you.

708
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:49,120
Erm, my daughter already call taxi.
[in Yoruba] Let's go.

709
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,040
[in Yoruba] Anu, head that way.

710
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:56,040
-Thank you, sir.
-Goodnight, sir.

711
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:57,520
Fola, come on.

712
00:47:57,640 --> 00:47:59,240
-[Aunty Jay] Goodnight.
-[Tiwa] Goodnight. Thank you so much.

713
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,360
-[Sista] Aunty Jay, Jay, Jay!
-[Aunty Jay] Goodnight, Sista.

714
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:05,040
-[Tiwa] And the small chops was amazing!
-[Anu] Goodnight, Aunty Jay.

715
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:10,720
[melancholic music continues]

716
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:03,520
Is it the office?

717
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:09,440
You've been pensive all week.
Did something happen at work?

718
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:19,200
-Can you forgive me?
-What for?

719
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:23,440
What have you done, my darling? [laughs]

720
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:26,800
There's something I need to tell you.

721
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:31,600
Okay.

722
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:36,080
I made a mistake.

723
00:49:38,720 --> 00:49:40,800
[tense music plays]

724
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:44,840
Okay.

725
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,120
-[audible exhale]
-[melancholic music plays]

726
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,560
[Tiwa sighs]

727
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:05,800
[sighs]

728
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:09,160
Who is she and how far gone?

729
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,480
No. No, I’m not cheating.

730
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:21,160
I cheated but not on you.

731
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,920
Someone else. I don't know how to fix it.

732
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,000
Who is it that you cheated on?
What are you talking about?

733
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:32,200
-What, who with? I don't know.
-Oh my God.

734
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,600
God forgive me.

735
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,400
Tiwa, I…

736
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:46,520
Tiwatope.

737
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:49,880
There is no better way to say this.

738
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:55,240
I umm…

739
00:50:56,240 --> 00:50:59,480
I… I have… I had…

740
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:03,240
a family.

741
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:10,080
Folarin, I'm so… [exasperated exhale]
A family. I don't get it.

742
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,120
I was 19.

743
00:51:14,720 --> 00:51:17,080
She was 17.

744
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:20,400
We had a baby.

745
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:24,760
Two and half years later, she had another.

746
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:28,440
She was pregnant again and…

747
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:32,040
I was just 21.

748
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,240
Just graduated. I…

749
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:38,760
It was too much. So…

750
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:42,040
So I left.

751
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,120
I left her and the kids.

752
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:50,720
[melancholic music continues]

753
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,400
Tiwa, say something.

754
00:52:04,240 --> 00:52:07,320
[tense music plays]

755
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:12,440
[laughs] Are you having a laugh?

756
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:15,800
Folarin. Oh my gosh, you're joking, right?

757
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:19,720
[laughter continues]

758
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,120
[coughs] You're not joking?

759
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:33,840
-You have a wife and children?
-No. We were never married.

760
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:39,120
We dated as kids. She got pregnant.
We both got got kicked out of our homes.

761
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:41,360
So she moved into school with me.

762
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:44,920
While I was schooling,
she was trading to support us and…

763
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:48,120
-And…
-And err…

764
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:51,520
And you what? You abandoned them?

765
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:54,760
You left!

766
00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:00,160
Left the mother
of your children. You left!

767
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:06,720
-A 19 year old woman.
-Tiwa, I…

768
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:11,800
I what? You what, Folarin?

769
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:18,360
Oh my God, this is a bit too much.
Wait, hold a second. So…

770
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:20,720
[sighs]

771
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:24,400
If you had a child, at 19,

772
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:32,320
-that child is probably 21 now.
-Almost 21. Just a few months.

773
00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:34,240
Are you bleeping stupid?!

774
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:39,200
Is this supposed to be
some sort of age contest?

775
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:45,160
Oh. Hold on.

776
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:53,200
So that means when we met [sighs] at camp,

777
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,840
you had just walked away from your family.

778
00:53:58,720 --> 00:54:03,680
You had just walked away from
that woman and your children.

779
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:07,120
Who are you? What sort of man does that?

780
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,560
Tiwa, please.

781
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:17,400
Folarin!

782
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:20,320
Folarin no, no. This is a lie.

783
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:21,760
No.

784
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:26,400
-My life is a lie. You are a lie.
-No.

785
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:29,640
Me, you, us, everything is a lie, Folarin!

786
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:35,720
[sighs]

787
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:37,200
Tiwa, please--

788
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,120
Don't touch me!
[in Yoruba] Don't touch me.

789
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:41,680
-[silently] I'm sorry.
-[Tiwa] Don't touch me.

790
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:45,520
[gasping, panting]

791
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:47,600
So [in Yoruba]
why are you telling me this now?

792
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:48,680
Huh?

793
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:50,400
Why are you telling me this now?

794
00:54:54,240 --> 00:54:57,120
It's the cleaner. Sista.

795
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:00,160
Her real name is Vicky.

796
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:03,480
Who?

797
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,840
-[Aunty Jay] No way!
-Yes way, Jems!

798
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:10,480
Yes way. Yes, freaking way.

799
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,800
[hesitating] I don't understand.

800
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:16,920
[in Hausa] I know she told me
that her husband is late.

801
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:21,840
-For like ten years plus now.
-What would you have her say?

802
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:24,600
Better dead than abandoned.

803
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:30,000
-Ah, Tiwa, I don't understand this.
-Neither do I.

804
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:34,560
-How are you feeling?
-[scoffs]

805
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:38,440
I feel like I've been lied to.

806
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:44,720
Twelve years, and I married a stranger.

807
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:49,080
He abandoned his kids, Jems.

808
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:52,880
Like, he didn't look back. He didn't say
anything. He didn't talk about them.

809
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:56,280
He just boom! Like they never existed.

810
00:55:57,720 --> 00:56:01,400
So, what does he want to do about it now?

811
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:04,360
What does he want to do
or what do I want to do?

812
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:07,160
What do you want to do?

813
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:10,480
He is going to have
a conversation with that woman

814
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:12,800
and he is going to try to make amends.

815
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,760
While we lived in the lap of luxury,

816
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:23,840
that woman was busy washing toilets to
provide a barely good life for her kids.

817
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:28,720
Actually she lives slightly above average.

818
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,480
Jems, you cant compare it to what we had.

819
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:33,520
Or what we have.

820
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:38,560
After he got that offer at Finland,
we've been touring Europe.

821
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:42,720
Our kids have attended
the best private schools.

822
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:49,400
But she was washing toilets.
[whimpering] Washing toilets.

823
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:53,840
-Actually, she was washing houses.
-Oh stop, Jems. You know what I mean.

824
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:55,800
Don't piss me off.

825
00:56:56,840 --> 00:57:00,400
-Sorry.
-What if she was my sister.

826
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,920
I saw how she worked
tirelessly cleaning our home.

827
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:10,000
What if she knows?

828
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:14,520
Look, that is not the kind of conversation

829
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:16,680
-I want you to have.
-What do you mean?

830
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:20,320
I mean that, this is not the reaction
I am expecting from you.

831
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:23,800
-You are supposed to be angry.
-I'm angry. I'm livid!

832
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:25,760
Then why do you want him to…

833
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:28,480
To what? Take amends? To do right by her?

834
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:34,600
Jems. I am a secure woman.

835
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:40,000
And another lady, another girl,
another woman taking FA away from me

836
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,360
is the least of my worries.

837
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:47,840
He committed a grave offense
and I feel responsible.

838
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:54,360
-Responsible for what?
-[inhales] Come on, Jems, for everything.

839
00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:56,680
It has nothing to do with you.

840
00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:59,520
It has everything
to do with me. I met FA at camp.

841
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:02,040
I made him accept the offer.

842
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,440
I first made him
apply for it, and then [sighs]

843
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:08,760
I insisted that he left with me.

844
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:11,880
But that is not your fault.

845
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:17,520
It was his decision to accept the offer.
It was his decision to abandon his family.

846
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:22,560
What you should be thinking now is,
what are you going to tell your children?

847
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:25,880
And what is she going
to tell her children?

848
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:27,800
Oh my God.

849
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:32,880
Maybe they already know. She saw him.

850
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:40,240
I don't think she knows.

851
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:42,640
She knows.

852
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:47,640
How are you so sure?

853
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:51,800
I called her by her name.

854
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:54,920
Vicky.

855
00:58:57,200 --> 00:59:00,160
She looked at me. Deadpan.

856
00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:03,800
And walked away.

857
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:09,160
So those are your kids?

858
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:17,880
Will you forgive me?

859
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:25,760
Forgiving you
is a different kettle of fish.

860
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:30,080
Will Vicky forgive you?

861
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:36,640
[melancholic music plays]

862
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:38,120
Please help.

863
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:44,680
Folarin Anuoluwa Abrahams.

864
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:52,280
You are a cold, soul-less man.

865
00:59:58,280 --> 00:59:59,480
[exhales]

866
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:03,440
[sighs]

867
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:13,760
Aunty Jay, my children's father is dead.

868
01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:16,840
-Sista.
-He is dead.

869
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:19,240
It's better this way.

870
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:23,240
Sista… I am a woman.

871
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:28,240
I totally understand
your plight right now.

872
01:00:29,240 --> 01:00:30,920
I know how hurt you are.

873
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,880
Hurt? Hurt.

874
01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:45,560
This man left me.
He left me eight months pregnant!

875
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:51,400
He didn't even tell me
anything the night before he left.

876
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:55,160
[in Yoruba] He wrote me
an ordinary letter.

877
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:56,720
[in Yoruba] He wrote me an letter.

878
01:00:57,720 --> 01:00:59,360
One letter.

879
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:02,920
Then he sent me text message.

880
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,000
[in Yoruba] Me. Me.

881
01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:08,520
[in Pidgin] I left school
so that he can finish his education.

882
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:12,840
Yes. I left school so that
he can finish his education

883
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,480
[in Yoruba] Yes. Ah,
Aunty Jay, I suffered!

884
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:18,840
I suffered!

885
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:20,320
[in Pidgin] After he left,

886
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:23,040
I was pregnant with Anu.

887
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:25,520
[in Pidgin] Then the State
task force came to my shop,

888
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:30,480
broke everything, scattered everything,
including what I collected on credit.

889
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,440
University was on strike.

890
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:39,000
So I didn't have a job. No work.

891
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:41,920
No money, no food, nothing.

892
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:47,680
Then I started selling
sachet water inside a primary school.

893
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,720
And my water was always cold.

894
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:55,240
That's where the headmistress saw me
and asked me to come and clean her house.

895
01:01:56,160 --> 01:02:01,120
Then she referred me to a friend that
in turn referred me to another and so on.

896
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:04,520
I will go and be cleaning
their houses, until I met you, Aunty Jay.

897
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:05,800
Aunty Jay…

898
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:10,360
since I met you,
my children have never suffered!

899
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:14,520
Aunty Jay, my children
never suffered since I met you.

900
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:18,080
And so I will continue to work hard!

901
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:23,120
I will work hard, so that my children
will not serve them like I am serving.

902
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:26,920
So that when my children
see their dead father, yes,

903
01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:29,440
they will not be below their mates.

904
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:33,200
Oh yes. And if
they see the other children,

905
01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:35,240
they will not be below them.

906
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:38,560
Aunty, I'm not
saying anything against you.

907
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:44,080
No. [in Yoruba] But… their father is dead!

908
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:48,360
So I cannot go back to them
and tell them that he has resurrected.

909
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:52,000
No, I cannot do that. He is dead!

910
01:02:55,800 --> 01:03:00,840
[laughter and indistinct conversation]

911
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:02,880
[woman] And about the rod…

912
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,720
the rod doesn't actually mean cane
or you should beat your children.

913
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:09,200
-Does Mummy beat you?
-Well…

914
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:13,360
-Well, what? She doesn't beat you.
-But she's always saying she wants to.

915
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:15,880
Oh, good evening, sir.

916
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:17,680
I didn't think you'd come.

917
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:20,120
-You invited him.
-Yes, Mummy.

918
01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:22,480
He said he was going to be around
the area and I just thought maybe--

919
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:25,000
Anu, go and open the gate.

920
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:26,920
I'm sure you
and your visitor can talk outside.

921
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:29,480
-Go on.
-Good evening, sir.

922
01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:31,880
Vicky, please.

923
01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:36,560
Anu, open that gate.

924
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,440
Do you know each other?

925
01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:43,200
-Yes.
-No

926
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:48,920
[ominous music plays]

927
01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:59,000
So, you are our dad?

928
01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:01,280
Father.

929
01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:06,160
There is a difference
between the two. I am your dad.

930
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,400
Please.

931
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:14,080
Vicky. Please.

932
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:16,520
Please, [in Yoruba] what?

933
01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:20,880
Folarin, please, what exactly?

934
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:26,160
[in Pidgin] You left me with
an eight months old pregnancy.

935
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:31,400
And a two-year old baby boy,
without looking back.

936
01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:35,000
[in Yoruba] You are such a wicked man.

937
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:39,640
Ah! We are not lost.

938
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,240
[in Yoruba] Except
you're the one who is lost.

939
01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:47,840
Vicky,

940
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:51,440
-you have every right to be angry.
-[scoffs]

941
01:04:52,760 --> 01:04:54,080
[in Yoruba] So you can say that, Fola?

942
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:58,240
You, you want to tell me when I should
be angry and when I should not be angry.

943
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:01,720
[in Yoruba] Just listen
to the rubbish you are saying!

944
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,160
Why did you leave?

945
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:11,240
-Did she do something wrong?
-No.

946
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,400
Nothing.

947
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,480
I was 21 years old.

948
01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:20,360
I felt choked.

949
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:23,360
I felt like I was sinking.

950
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:32,920
-And so I ran… like a coward.
-[Sista hisses]

951
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:40,880
Did you ever think about us?

952
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:44,200
Every time.

953
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:48,040
[Sista scoffs, hisses, laughs] Rubbish.

954
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:52,800
But you couldn't be bothered
to come search for us? To come see us?

955
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:58,680
[emotionally] There's nothing I can…

956
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:02,240
Fola.

957
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:05,840
I’m here now.

958
01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:09,160
Please let me make this right.

959
01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:12,400
Let me make it up to you.

960
01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:15,560
All of you.

961
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:20,000
[melancholic music plays]

962
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:26,760
[chuckles]

963
01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:30,880
You are not my husband.

964
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:33,320
I am not your wife.

965
01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:39,240
These ones, they are
your children. It is up to them.

966
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:44,320
Let them decide. [grunts] Alright.

967
01:06:46,480 --> 01:06:50,320
[melancholic music continues]

968
01:06:56,560 --> 01:07:01,280
-[happy music playing]
-[silent conversation]

969
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:04,520
["The Mother Song"
By "Inioluwa Gem" Playing]

970
01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:26,200
-[silent conversation]
-[music continues]

971
01:08:59,639 --> 01:09:01,840
-[silent conversation]
-[music continues]

972
01:10:20,440 --> 01:10:23,639
-[Anu] Sista!
-[Sista] Eh?

973
01:10:23,719 --> 01:10:25,800
-Sista!
-[Sista] Yes?

974
01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:29,240
Mummy, guess what? Guess what?

975
01:10:29,559 --> 01:10:32,320
-Folarin bought you something else.
-No!

976
01:10:32,440 --> 01:10:37,200
Mummy, I just got admission
into SSP Academy.

977
01:10:37,719 --> 01:10:42,639
See, see, see! Mummy, take it.
Open it, Mummy. Oh!

978
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:47,680
-What happened to your admission now?
-Nothing, nothing.

979
01:10:48,480 --> 01:10:50,680
Dad wants us to school in Europe.

980
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:56,600
So I have to do some exams.
A-levels, and some exams, anyway.

981
01:10:57,160 --> 01:11:00,320
Mummy, he is also transferring Fola
to another private university.

982
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:04,800
[chuckles] Call me, Fola.
Go and call me your brother.

983
01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:09,120
-Fola!
-[angry laughter]

984
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:13,040
-Fola, what happened to your admission?
-Nothing.

985
01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:17,400
Really? Nothing?
So why do you want to change admission?

986
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:20,600
Mummy, you know that
there are a lot of strikes.

987
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:22,639
And besides Dad want me
to finish in record time

988
01:11:22,719 --> 01:11:26,000
so that when he's relocating to Europe,
I can follow him back to do my masters.

989
01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:30,080
-Oh.
-Mummy, we are going together.

990
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:33,360
Good. When are you people going?

991
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:37,840
-Not for another year.
-Another year? That's too long.

992
01:11:40,760 --> 01:11:42,559
You people should go now.

993
01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:47,760
-Sista?
-Hey! You people should go now!

994
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:50,320
[in Yoruba] Folarin should come
and get you out of here!

995
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:53,280
-Folarin should come and just take you!
-Sista!

996
01:11:53,440 --> 01:11:55,760
-[in Yoruba] If you utter another word!
-Mummy?

997
01:11:57,480 --> 01:12:01,280
Go to your father's house.
Both of you, go to your father's house!

998
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:03,120
[in Yoruba] You will hear from me!

999
01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:05,320
Folarin will hear from me!

1000
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:10,800
Folarin, you cannot
take my children away from me.

1001
01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:13,240
You cannot!

1002
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:15,600
-What do you mean?
-You know what I mean.

1003
01:12:15,680 --> 01:12:19,000
You cannot come and
bamboozle my children with money!

1004
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:22,559
No! Eh, you can not do that. We are okay.

1005
01:12:22,840 --> 01:12:25,800
I accept you only because
my children accept you.

1006
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:29,760
[in Pidgin] But all these buying
of iPhone, spending lavishly…

1007
01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:31,840
It has to stop.

1008
01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:34,680
Sista, please calm down. Please.

1009
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:37,559
Aunty ma, help me and beg him.

1010
01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:43,200
Tell him to stop! Was he there
when Anu took her first step?

1011
01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:44,320
[in Yoruba] It was all me.

1012
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:47,680
Was he there
when Anu almost died of jaundice?

1013
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:51,000
Or when Fola fell
from a two-storey building?

1014
01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:53,840
Was he there?
[in Yoruba] It was all still me.

1015
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:59,240
I even lied to my children that
their father died just to protect them.

1016
01:12:59,719 --> 01:13:02,600
So that they will not think
that he abandoned them.

1017
01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:04,040
[in Yoruba] Warn him!

1018
01:13:04,240 --> 01:13:07,800
Because now, you want to come and
take my children away from me suddenly.

1019
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:10,440
[in Yoruba] I won't have it. Never!

1020
01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:13,360
I'm not trying to take the children away.
I'm trying to be their father.

1021
01:13:13,480 --> 01:13:15,680
Well, then be their dad from here!

1022
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:17,240
[in Yoruba] It shouldn't go beyond here!

1023
01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:19,800
[in Yoruba] Fola, it
shouldn't go beyond here.

1024
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:21,000
Nothing is wrong with them.

1025
01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:23,320
Don't fix anything
that is not spoilt in my children!

1026
01:13:23,559 --> 01:13:26,320
Nothing is wrong with their school!
Nothing is wrong with their clothes!

1027
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:29,559
Nothing wrong with their phone!
[in Yoruba] I am telling you.

1028
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:32,400
Leave my children alone!

1029
01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:34,600
You didn't talk to her about all these?

1030
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:37,280
-Well, she said she didn't want--
-No!

1031
01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:42,559
My children, Fola… [in Yoruba]
I repeat, my children go nowhere!

1032
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:48,080
Ahn-ahn. One letter, is
what you wrote for me.

1033
01:13:48,559 --> 01:13:50,760
[in Yoruba] Fola, you
wrote me only a letter.

1034
01:13:51,639 --> 01:13:55,280
I thought we don't fit
into your future plan?

1035
01:13:55,840 --> 01:14:00,040
So now my children look
like they fit your plan, right?

1036
01:14:00,559 --> 01:14:01,600
[in Yoruba] I won't have it.

1037
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:04,080
What did I say? I won't have it.

1038
01:14:06,120 --> 01:14:07,440
-Vicky?
-Hmm?

1039
01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:11,160
They are my children too and
you cannot stop me from seeing them.

1040
01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:16,200
[derisive laughter]

1041
01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:17,880
[in Yoruba] You want to see
madness unleashed, right?

1042
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:19,240
Fola, you will see…

1043
01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:25,160
[in Yoruba] First,
I'll take off my wig and curse you.

1044
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:28,760
First, I'll take off my wig and curse you.

1045
01:14:31,480 --> 01:14:32,680
Be careful.

1046
01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:37,320
What did I just say? Be careful.

1047
01:14:39,719 --> 01:14:40,920
Try it.

1048
01:14:42,559 --> 01:14:45,480
Oh yes. You people should go to him!

1049
01:14:45,719 --> 01:14:49,240
Since I don't know
how to do it anymore. Well, so go!

1050
01:14:49,639 --> 01:14:50,760
-Mummy…
-Hmm.

1051
01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:53,680
That man is just trying
to help. Why are refusing him?

1052
01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:58,559
I don't need his money.
I don't need his money!

1053
01:14:59,880 --> 01:15:02,639
And I’m not cheap like you children. Yes.

1054
01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:04,719
Because if you children considered

1055
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:08,080
all the things I went through
to raise you without a father figure…

1056
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:10,160
[in Pidgin] It's not like he was dead,
he just left you people.

1057
01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:12,480
You will not just
accept him, just like that.

1058
01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:17,480
-Mummy, but you taught us to forgive.
-[in Yoruba] Oh sorry, Minister Anu.

1059
01:15:17,719 --> 01:15:20,280
And have I said now,
that you should not forgive him?

1060
01:15:20,440 --> 01:15:23,000
Have I said that? Hmm?

1061
01:15:23,440 --> 01:15:26,320
Mummy, you really need to chill.

1062
01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:30,360
Yes, what he did was bad.
But let that man do right by his kids.

1063
01:15:30,520 --> 01:15:32,559
That way you don't have to work so much.

1064
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:35,120
You are younger than him,
yet you look much older.

1065
01:15:36,040 --> 01:15:39,160
Please Mummy,
let this man carry your burden.

1066
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:44,920
[melancholic music playing]

1067
01:15:47,440 --> 01:15:51,240
Okay. No problem.

1068
01:15:59,480 --> 01:16:01,719
I have never seen her this angry before.

1069
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:11,240
She has every right to be.

1070
01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:16,040
Even if she takes it a tad bit too far.

1071
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:21,160
[exhales loudly]

1072
01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:26,320
Look, I don't want
to get between you guys.

1073
01:16:29,719 --> 01:16:32,080
She doesn't speak to us anymore.

1074
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:35,760
She just goes for
her cleaning job and she comes back late.

1075
01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:46,040
What do you think I should do?

1076
01:16:53,240 --> 01:16:56,360
[cutlery clattering]

1077
01:16:56,559 --> 01:17:00,680
Her reason is valid. And you need
to see this from her perspective.

1078
01:17:02,480 --> 01:17:04,680
-I am.
-No, you're not.

1079
01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:07,680
You're being selfish.

1080
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:10,040
How?

1081
01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:11,880
[sardonic laughter] How?

1082
01:17:12,120 --> 01:17:14,559
Really? You're asking how?

1083
01:17:14,639 --> 01:17:18,120
[laughs]

1084
01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:22,440
Have you…

1085
01:17:23,440 --> 01:17:26,160
asked me how I feel about all this?

1086
01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:35,080
[hesitates] I… I thought…

1087
01:17:35,440 --> 01:17:38,719
[scoffs] Oh you thought.
[sardonic laughter] You thought.

1088
01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:40,520
You thought I was okay with it?

1089
01:17:43,080 --> 01:17:48,440
So it didn't occur to you to discuss me,

1090
01:17:48,880 --> 01:17:50,520
your wife,

1091
01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:55,360
whom out of the blues, you just spring it
up on me that you've got another family.

1092
01:17:58,639 --> 01:18:01,400
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