1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 3 00:00:34,620 --> 00:00:36,277 Oh, there you are. 4 00:00:37,727 --> 00:00:42,042 Honey, you're gonna have to stop doing this to yourself. 5 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:46,770 We're going to get through this, Janice, I promise. 6 00:01:46,382 --> 00:01:48,901 Calvin, you seem a little distant. 7 00:01:48,936 --> 00:01:50,317 Is everything okay? 8 00:01:52,491 --> 00:01:55,322 You know, I've been thinking, 9 00:01:55,356 --> 00:01:57,876 I've been thinking a lot about our situation. 10 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,812 We both know that we can't have kids of our own. 11 00:02:05,194 --> 00:02:10,233 No, we tried everything. 12 00:02:13,409 --> 00:02:14,617 Not quite everything. 13 00:02:16,274 --> 00:02:20,450 It didn't breaks my heart, just thinking about it. 14 00:02:23,039 --> 00:02:24,351 What can we do? 15 00:02:27,181 --> 00:02:28,596 There's one option left. 16 00:02:29,390 --> 00:02:31,392 We can consider adoption. 17 00:02:33,774 --> 00:02:37,571 Janice, there are so many kids out there who are in need 18 00:02:37,605 --> 00:02:41,678 of a loving home, and I believe our home can offer that. 19 00:02:44,267 --> 00:02:46,959 Are you saying we can adopt a child? 20 00:02:46,994 --> 00:02:50,342 Yes, any age you want. 21 00:02:51,101 --> 00:02:54,139 We've built a strong foundation 22 00:02:54,174 --> 00:02:56,348 and I believe we can provide a secure 23 00:02:56,383 --> 00:02:58,799 and a nurturing environment. 24 00:02:58,833 --> 00:03:01,491 Plus, we have the space. 25 00:03:03,631 --> 00:03:06,255 You are right. 26 00:03:06,289 --> 00:03:09,499 We can definitely make a difference in a child's life. 27 00:03:09,534 --> 00:03:12,847 I mean, since we can't have our own children, 28 00:03:12,882 --> 00:03:14,746 I'm sure God would want us to be a blessing 29 00:03:14,780 --> 00:03:16,851 to another child who's in need of a home. 30 00:03:18,128 --> 00:03:20,372 So is that a yes? 31 00:03:22,132 --> 00:03:24,480 Yes! Yes! 32 00:03:24,514 --> 00:03:26,309 Let's reach out to Lita's Adoption Center 33 00:03:26,344 --> 00:03:28,346 and get this ball rolling. 34 00:03:43,982 --> 00:03:46,087 Yes, come in. 35 00:03:46,122 --> 00:03:46,985 Hi, Ms. Bennett. 36 00:03:47,019 --> 00:03:47,986 Hi. 37 00:03:48,020 --> 00:03:49,021 Here's Joy's file. 38 00:03:49,056 --> 00:03:50,402 Thank you so much. 39 00:03:50,437 --> 00:03:52,439 Waiting on this... 40 00:03:53,233 --> 00:03:54,441 Excellent. 41 00:03:56,753 --> 00:03:58,030 New beginnings for Joy. 42 00:04:06,867 --> 00:04:10,008 All right, Calvin and Janice Nelson. 43 00:04:13,356 --> 00:04:14,978 - Hey. - What's going on? 44 00:04:16,532 --> 00:04:18,913 - Like your flowers? - I do. Thank you. 45 00:04:18,948 --> 00:04:19,845 You are welcome. 46 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:20,881 You deserve 'em. 47 00:04:20,915 --> 00:04:21,916 Thank you. 48 00:04:23,332 --> 00:04:24,643 - Pretty, ain't they? - Yeah. 49 00:04:29,199 --> 00:04:32,858 - Hello? - Hi, this is Dolores Bennett. 50 00:04:32,893 --> 00:04:34,066 I'm calling from LAC. 51 00:04:35,585 --> 00:04:40,107 May I please speak with Calvin or Janice Nelson? 52 00:04:40,141 --> 00:04:41,281 This is Calvin. 53 00:04:42,523 --> 00:04:45,146 You say you're calling from where again? 54 00:04:45,181 --> 00:04:47,148 LAC, Lita's Adoption Center. 55 00:04:47,183 --> 00:04:48,771 Janice, come quickly. 56 00:04:51,221 --> 00:04:54,224 Yes, Ms. Bennett, both my wife and I are here right now. 57 00:04:54,259 --> 00:04:55,398 Awesome. 58 00:04:56,468 --> 00:04:59,368 Well, I am thrilled to inform you 59 00:04:59,402 --> 00:05:02,612 that everything on your application was approved. 60 00:05:02,647 --> 00:05:04,407 Am I hearing you correctly? 61 00:05:05,270 --> 00:05:06,858 Joy is our daughter now? 62 00:05:07,962 --> 00:05:11,587 Yes, ma'am. She is. 63 00:05:12,450 --> 00:05:14,555 When can we come get her? 64 00:05:14,590 --> 00:05:17,213 Gimme a few days to finalize some paperwork 65 00:05:17,247 --> 00:05:19,284 and I will call you to schedule a day 66 00:05:19,319 --> 00:05:21,113 to pick up your daughter. 67 00:05:21,148 --> 00:05:22,252 Thank you. 68 00:05:22,287 --> 00:05:24,289 Thank you so much, Ms. Bennett. 69 00:05:24,324 --> 00:05:26,533 Yes, thank you, Ms. Bennett. 70 00:05:26,567 --> 00:05:29,018 We hope to see you in a few days. 71 00:05:29,052 --> 00:05:30,813 Okay, bye. 72 00:05:30,847 --> 00:05:32,884 Bye-bye, see you soon. 73 00:05:37,026 --> 00:05:38,199 My goodness. 74 00:05:38,234 --> 00:05:39,408 I cannot believe it. 75 00:05:39,442 --> 00:05:42,238 We are about to be parents. 76 00:05:42,272 --> 00:05:44,102 Wow, this is amazing, babe. 77 00:05:44,136 --> 00:05:47,347 This is so wonderful, thank you so much. 78 00:05:47,381 --> 00:05:48,831 We deserve it. 79 00:05:48,865 --> 00:05:50,280 Yes, we do. 80 00:07:47,156 --> 00:07:49,503 It is so nice to see you again, Mr. and Mrs. Nelson. 81 00:07:49,538 --> 00:07:50,608 It's a pleasure. 82 00:07:50,642 --> 00:07:52,644 - Good to see you. - Thank you. 83 00:07:52,679 --> 00:07:57,718 You know, Joy is truly a special little girl. 84 00:07:58,754 --> 00:08:00,341 All God's children are special. 85 00:08:00,376 --> 00:08:04,138 But what makes Joy so special? 86 00:08:04,173 --> 00:08:09,212 Hmm, well, her situation is different from the other kids 87 00:08:10,110 --> 00:08:10,904 that are brought here. 88 00:08:14,424 --> 00:08:16,979 Both of her parents were killed in an accident. 89 00:08:17,013 --> 00:08:18,601 Oh, no. 90 00:08:20,948 --> 00:08:25,988 Yeah, but she has such an incredible spirit. 91 00:08:27,092 --> 00:08:29,129 It just shines through every moment. 92 00:08:29,163 --> 00:08:30,544 You will see. 93 00:08:31,683 --> 00:08:34,065 Also your home will be the first home 94 00:08:34,099 --> 00:08:37,447 that she'll be moving into since she's been here. 95 00:08:37,482 --> 00:08:40,002 So what makes her special 96 00:08:41,382 --> 00:08:43,902 is her resilience. 97 00:08:45,145 --> 00:08:47,665 It's simply remarkable. 98 00:08:48,804 --> 00:08:51,531 And her imagination knows no limits. 99 00:08:52,877 --> 00:08:55,017 Her story has touched our hearts deeply. 100 00:09:00,022 --> 00:09:03,750 We look forward to showering her with lots of love 101 00:09:03,784 --> 00:09:06,684 And welcoming her into our family. 102 00:09:06,718 --> 00:09:09,687 We promise to provide a nurturing 103 00:09:09,721 --> 00:09:13,760 and supportive environment for her to grow and blossom. 104 00:09:13,794 --> 00:09:14,726 Yes. 105 00:09:14,761 --> 00:09:16,901 Well, if you are ready for her, 106 00:09:16,935 --> 00:09:19,386 I'll call and have them bring her down. 107 00:09:19,420 --> 00:09:20,318 Yes. 108 00:09:21,457 --> 00:09:23,321 Alright, let's do it. 109 00:09:29,292 --> 00:09:32,986 Yes, can you bring Joy down to my office right away, please? 110 00:09:33,020 --> 00:09:33,952 Thank you so much. 111 00:09:35,678 --> 00:09:36,852 She's on the way. 112 00:09:38,163 --> 00:09:40,200 I can't believe we're waiting on our daughter, 113 00:09:40,234 --> 00:09:44,653 Janice, we're going home today with our daughter. 114 00:09:49,865 --> 00:09:50,762 Oh. 115 00:10:03,568 --> 00:10:05,294 Hi. 116 00:10:05,328 --> 00:10:06,226 Thank you so much. 117 00:10:06,260 --> 00:10:06,951 Baby. 118 00:10:09,574 --> 00:10:14,234 Well, Joy, meet your new mom and dad. 119 00:10:15,994 --> 00:10:17,996 Hi, I'm Joy. 120 00:10:18,031 --> 00:10:20,792 I'm your mom and that's your dad. 121 00:10:22,483 --> 00:10:25,625 Can I call you mommy and daddy? 122 00:10:25,659 --> 00:10:28,075 Yes, sweetheart, of course. 123 00:10:36,014 --> 00:10:39,880 Thank you for believing in us 124 00:10:39,915 --> 00:10:42,193 and entrusting us with Joy's future. 125 00:10:43,608 --> 00:10:45,610 We will cherish her 126 00:10:45,645 --> 00:10:48,682 and give her all the love that she deserves. 127 00:10:48,717 --> 00:10:50,684 I knew from the very beginning 128 00:10:50,719 --> 00:10:54,170 that Joy was a perfect match for your family, 129 00:10:55,309 --> 00:10:57,277 and I have no doubt 130 00:10:57,311 --> 00:11:00,314 that you all would take excellent care of her. 131 00:11:01,350 --> 00:11:03,628 Congratulations again. 132 00:11:03,663 --> 00:11:04,698 Thank you. 133 00:11:04,733 --> 00:11:06,217 Thank you, 134 00:11:06,251 --> 00:11:07,287 Joy, you ready? 135 00:11:07,321 --> 00:11:08,322 Yeah. 136 00:11:08,357 --> 00:11:09,323 All right. 137 00:11:15,364 --> 00:11:16,261 All right, let's go. 138 00:11:16,296 --> 00:11:17,573 It's been a pleasure. 139 00:11:17,607 --> 00:11:18,678 Thank you, 140 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:40,769 Honey, how was school today? 141 00:11:40,803 --> 00:11:42,011 It was okay. 142 00:11:43,150 --> 00:11:45,221 The look on your face says otherwise. 143 00:11:47,396 --> 00:11:49,985 Joy, did something happen? 144 00:11:51,055 --> 00:11:53,782 It was fine until they started teasing me. 145 00:11:54,748 --> 00:11:58,062 Who was teasing you, and about what? 146 00:11:58,096 --> 00:12:01,272 The girls in my class keep saying, I don't have any hair, 147 00:12:01,306 --> 00:12:03,861 and that's why I get hair extensions. 148 00:12:04,758 --> 00:12:06,518 You know there's no truth to that 149 00:12:06,553 --> 00:12:08,348 so you shouldn't let that bother you. 150 00:12:10,419 --> 00:12:12,041 Sweetie? 151 00:12:12,076 --> 00:12:13,249 I'll try. 152 00:12:14,457 --> 00:12:17,115 Oh, don't forget my birthday invitations. 153 00:12:18,703 --> 00:12:20,118 They're right here. 154 00:12:20,153 --> 00:12:22,189 Can I fill them out when we get home? 155 00:12:23,190 --> 00:12:25,503 Why don't you do that tomorrow? 156 00:12:25,537 --> 00:12:27,608 That'll give you something to do. 157 00:12:27,643 --> 00:12:28,540 - Okay. - Okay. 158 00:12:39,413 --> 00:12:40,483 I made it. 159 00:12:41,588 --> 00:12:42,796 What did you make, honey? 160 00:12:42,831 --> 00:12:44,315 Oh, nothing. 161 00:12:52,357 --> 00:12:53,980 Hey, good morning, babe. 162 00:12:54,014 --> 00:12:54,635 Hey. 163 00:12:54,670 --> 00:12:55,567 Hey. 164 00:12:57,155 --> 00:13:00,572 Mommy, Daddy, I finished all my birthday invitations. 165 00:13:00,607 --> 00:13:01,988 Great job, sweetheart. 166 00:13:03,161 --> 00:13:07,131 So how many kids are you inviting? 167 00:13:07,165 --> 00:13:10,237 I used all the invitations mommy gave me. 168 00:13:10,272 --> 00:13:11,342 Huh. 169 00:13:11,376 --> 00:13:14,069 Janice, how many invitations did you buy? 170 00:13:14,103 --> 00:13:18,280 Oh, I just bought two packs of 24 in each. 171 00:13:18,314 --> 00:13:20,454 She's inviting 48 little people. 172 00:13:21,731 --> 00:13:23,009 Not funny, Joy. 173 00:13:23,043 --> 00:13:25,287 48 isn't a lot, babe. 174 00:13:25,321 --> 00:13:28,842 That's why it's called a party with a lot of guests. 175 00:13:28,877 --> 00:13:31,155 Honey, that's like a field trip 176 00:13:31,189 --> 00:13:35,228 with a whole class of second graders running around. 177 00:13:35,262 --> 00:13:38,990 Daddy, you can run around and play with us too. 178 00:13:39,025 --> 00:13:40,820 Run around and play with y'all? 179 00:13:40,854 --> 00:13:42,373 Lemme tell you something: 180 00:13:42,407 --> 00:13:44,651 If dad starts running, it's gonna be right out of that door 181 00:13:44,685 --> 00:13:46,618 until the party is over. 182 00:13:49,483 --> 00:13:51,071 Daddy? No. 183 00:13:51,106 --> 00:13:54,143 Then you'd miss all the noise and all the fun? 184 00:13:54,178 --> 00:13:57,215 Joy, the noise would be dad's reason for running out 185 00:13:57,250 --> 00:14:00,322 of that door in the first place, okay? 186 00:14:00,356 --> 00:14:02,842 Listen, you're gonna have to take some 187 00:14:02,876 --> 00:14:05,120 of those names off the list, okay? 188 00:14:05,154 --> 00:14:05,948 Okay. 189 00:14:08,364 --> 00:14:09,434 I removed two. 190 00:14:10,504 --> 00:14:12,161 Honey... 191 00:14:12,196 --> 00:14:15,337 Here, you can't invite your whole class. 192 00:14:16,925 --> 00:14:20,238 Take 10 of these invitations, okay, 193 00:14:20,273 --> 00:14:23,034 who you really want to celebrate with, okay? 194 00:14:24,104 --> 00:14:25,312 Okay. 195 00:14:25,347 --> 00:14:26,555 Take those invitations, give 'em to your mom. 196 00:14:26,589 --> 00:14:27,936 Alright. 197 00:14:32,492 --> 00:14:33,803 Here you go. 198 00:14:33,838 --> 00:14:34,977 Thank you, baby. 199 00:14:42,605 --> 00:14:44,159 A potential of some shallow landslides 200 00:14:44,193 --> 00:14:45,885 and the potential of some severe thunderstorms. 201 00:14:45,919 --> 00:14:48,404 So get out the door right now before noon, 202 00:14:48,439 --> 00:14:50,510 especially if you live in the North Bay. 203 00:14:50,544 --> 00:14:53,306 We're gonna be watching some severe thunderstorm potential-- 204 00:14:53,340 --> 00:14:56,896 Why are you trying to make Joy reduce her guest list? 205 00:14:56,930 --> 00:14:59,174 That's way too many kids 206 00:14:59,208 --> 00:15:01,486 for a seven year old's party. 207 00:15:01,521 --> 00:15:04,524 If Joy wanted her whole class to be at this celebration, 208 00:15:04,558 --> 00:15:06,836 then why don't we just move a party to a classroom? 209 00:15:06,871 --> 00:15:08,321 Because they will only allow them 210 00:15:08,355 --> 00:15:10,840 to have a 20 minute cupcake break, 211 00:15:10,875 --> 00:15:12,359 and then back to school work. 212 00:15:13,533 --> 00:15:14,637 Okay, and? 213 00:15:14,672 --> 00:15:17,088 The problem with that is? 214 00:15:17,123 --> 00:15:19,090 She's turning seven, not 70. 215 00:15:19,125 --> 00:15:21,368 Are you serious right now? 216 00:15:21,403 --> 00:15:23,025 You got it twisted. 217 00:15:23,060 --> 00:15:27,616 A 70-year-old should have a 20 minute cupcake party, 218 00:15:27,650 --> 00:15:29,342 not a 7-year-old. 219 00:15:29,376 --> 00:15:31,758 They want to run around and have fun 220 00:15:31,792 --> 00:15:33,449 and be loud for hours. 221 00:15:33,484 --> 00:15:38,523 Exactly, and that's what I don't want here in our house. 222 00:15:39,317 --> 00:15:41,216 Honey, look, do the math. 223 00:15:41,250 --> 00:15:43,632 What comes with 48 kids? 224 00:15:43,666 --> 00:15:45,841 I don't know, gifts? 225 00:15:45,875 --> 00:15:48,982 48 parents will arrive with these kids. 226 00:15:49,017 --> 00:15:50,984 That's 96 guests. 227 00:15:51,019 --> 00:15:54,194 And that's not even including our family members. 228 00:15:54,229 --> 00:15:57,025 I really don't see the problem. 229 00:15:57,059 --> 00:15:58,233 It's a party. 230 00:15:58,267 --> 00:16:00,304 Where is your party spirit? 231 00:16:00,338 --> 00:16:02,202 It won't be here on that day 232 00:16:02,237 --> 00:16:04,894 because I'll be the one left behind having to clean up 233 00:16:04,929 --> 00:16:07,621 after darn near 100 people. 234 00:16:09,002 --> 00:16:12,281 So Joy won't be using nowhere near the amount 235 00:16:12,316 --> 00:16:14,732 of invitations that you've bought. 236 00:16:14,766 --> 00:16:15,836 Whatever. 237 00:16:15,871 --> 00:16:17,321 I'm serious, Janice, 238 00:16:17,355 --> 00:16:20,496 You and Joy can go to church tomorrow. 239 00:16:21,532 --> 00:16:22,636 Really? 240 00:16:22,671 --> 00:16:25,122 Another Sunday you won't be attending church. 241 00:16:25,156 --> 00:16:28,021 You and I both know they could care less about them people 242 00:16:28,056 --> 00:16:30,058 up in that church. 243 00:16:30,092 --> 00:16:31,852 All they care about is they tithes, 244 00:16:31,887 --> 00:16:34,372 and that's all that matters. 245 00:16:34,407 --> 00:16:37,375 Don't worry, I'll ask God to forgive you for that comment. 246 00:16:37,410 --> 00:16:39,653 And while you at it, don't forget to tell God 247 00:16:39,688 --> 00:16:42,691 how controlling you trying to be about Joy's party. 248 00:16:42,725 --> 00:16:44,037 Goodnight. 249 00:16:49,663 --> 00:16:51,251 Is mom coming later? 250 00:16:52,563 --> 00:16:55,186 No, I don't think so. 251 00:16:55,221 --> 00:17:00,295 Ephesians, chapter four, verse 32. 252 00:17:02,780 --> 00:17:06,335 God says, "Be kind to one another. 253 00:17:08,855 --> 00:17:10,167 "Forgive one another..." 254 00:17:11,823 --> 00:17:13,515 The same way God forgave you. 255 00:17:14,999 --> 00:17:17,450 Because we know that when the kindness 256 00:17:17,484 --> 00:17:20,522 and the love of God, our savior, when He appeared, 257 00:17:21,661 --> 00:17:22,696 He saved us. 258 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:27,046 And not because of some righteous thing that we had done, 259 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:29,979 but because of His mercy. 260 00:17:30,014 --> 00:17:31,188 Preach. 261 00:17:32,361 --> 00:17:35,433 So always remember to pray first 262 00:17:36,331 --> 00:17:38,712 and to think before reacting 263 00:17:38,747 --> 00:17:42,406 because God is always watching. 264 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:43,062 Amen. 265 00:17:45,581 --> 00:17:46,341 You too. 266 00:17:46,375 --> 00:17:48,481 You guys have a blessed weekend 267 00:17:48,515 --> 00:17:50,931 and I will see you next Sunday. 268 00:17:50,966 --> 00:17:51,967 Amen. 269 00:17:56,730 --> 00:17:58,594 That was good, ready to go? 270 00:17:58,629 --> 00:17:59,699 Yep. 271 00:17:59,733 --> 00:18:02,426 Hey, Brother Calvin, you have a minute? 272 00:18:02,460 --> 00:18:03,358 Sure. 273 00:18:04,048 --> 00:18:05,981 How's everything going? 274 00:18:06,015 --> 00:18:07,914 Everything's fine. 275 00:18:07,948 --> 00:18:09,709 And Sister Janice? 276 00:18:09,743 --> 00:18:11,262 She's fine. 277 00:18:11,297 --> 00:18:13,471 Is there something particularly you're trying to ask about? 278 00:18:13,506 --> 00:18:15,301 Well, it's just, I haven't seen her 279 00:18:15,335 --> 00:18:17,889 over the past few weeks, and you know, 280 00:18:17,924 --> 00:18:19,305 church attendance is everything. 281 00:18:19,339 --> 00:18:20,582 Well, she's fine. 282 00:18:20,616 --> 00:18:22,860 I guess she just wanted to take a little break. 283 00:18:22,894 --> 00:18:24,172 A break from church? 284 00:18:24,206 --> 00:18:25,414 Yeah. 285 00:18:25,449 --> 00:18:26,312 Well, now you know God don't want us 286 00:18:26,346 --> 00:18:27,968 taking breaks from church. 287 00:18:28,003 --> 00:18:30,454 Well, you know Janice. 288 00:18:30,488 --> 00:18:34,906 Janice does what she wants when she wants. 289 00:18:34,941 --> 00:18:36,701 At least Joy and I here every Sunday. 290 00:18:36,736 --> 00:18:37,909 Daddy, daddy. 291 00:18:37,944 --> 00:18:39,773 Church is like school? 292 00:18:39,808 --> 00:18:42,638 They take attendance too? 293 00:18:42,673 --> 00:18:47,160 Well look at Joy, asking about church attendance already. 294 00:18:47,195 --> 00:18:49,576 You gotta catch 'em while they're young. 295 00:18:49,611 --> 00:18:53,062 And yes, attendance in church is very important. 296 00:18:53,097 --> 00:18:56,894 - Why? - Well, when you miss church, 297 00:18:56,928 --> 00:18:58,930 you're missing valuable lessons 298 00:18:58,965 --> 00:19:01,278 directly from God's teaching. 299 00:19:01,312 --> 00:19:05,627 I have two teachers, Ms. Anderson in school, 300 00:19:05,661 --> 00:19:07,111 and one at church. 301 00:19:07,146 --> 00:19:09,078 You have four teachers, 302 00:19:09,113 --> 00:19:11,736 your teacher at school, your pastor, 303 00:19:11,771 --> 00:19:13,117 your mom and I. 304 00:19:13,152 --> 00:19:14,567 Oh, speaking of your mom, 305 00:19:14,601 --> 00:19:17,915 I think we better be heading that way pretty soon. 306 00:19:17,949 --> 00:19:19,088 Pastor, have a great week. 307 00:19:19,123 --> 00:19:20,400 See you next Sunday. 308 00:19:20,435 --> 00:19:22,091 Alright, and make sure you bring the Missus. 309 00:19:22,126 --> 00:19:23,714 I won't forget to invite her. 310 00:19:23,748 --> 00:19:26,510 Now whether she comes or not, that's totally up to her. 311 00:19:27,856 --> 00:19:28,822 Have a blessed day, Pastor. 312 00:19:28,857 --> 00:19:29,651 Alright, you too. 313 00:19:29,685 --> 00:19:30,445 Stay blessed, brother. 314 00:19:30,479 --> 00:19:31,377 Yes sir. 315 00:19:32,585 --> 00:19:33,206 Praise God. 316 00:19:33,241 --> 00:19:35,381 Great service, right? 317 00:19:36,830 --> 00:19:38,246 Great work. 318 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:39,212 I'm so glad you enjoyed it. 319 00:19:39,247 --> 00:19:40,420 This is my grand-baby, Summer. 320 00:19:40,455 --> 00:19:42,215 How're you doing, Summer? 321 00:19:53,295 --> 00:19:55,297 Is that your real hair? 322 00:19:55,332 --> 00:19:57,403 No, it's extensions. 323 00:19:57,437 --> 00:19:59,957 Why do you wear extensions every day? 324 00:19:59,991 --> 00:20:01,441 Because I like them. 325 00:20:01,476 --> 00:20:04,237 I don't ask you why do you wear your hair like that? 326 00:20:04,272 --> 00:20:05,445 I know why. 327 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:06,860 She doesn't have any hair. 328 00:20:09,104 --> 00:20:13,212 Is that the reason, Joy-with-no-hair? 329 00:20:14,937 --> 00:20:17,595 God says we shouldn't judge. 330 00:20:17,630 --> 00:20:20,633 God says, say it with me-- 331 00:20:20,667 --> 00:20:23,981 God says we shouldn't judge. 332 00:20:24,015 --> 00:20:25,948 But we're not judging. 333 00:20:25,983 --> 00:20:27,364 We're stating facts. 334 00:20:27,398 --> 00:20:29,435 You don't have hair. 335 00:20:29,469 --> 00:20:31,230 Just because I have braids doesn't mean 336 00:20:31,264 --> 00:20:32,955 I don't have hair, Sarah. 337 00:20:32,990 --> 00:20:33,991 Yes it does. 338 00:20:34,025 --> 00:20:35,372 No it doesn't. 339 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,593 - Hey, Mr. Nelson. - Hey Ms. Brown. 340 00:21:07,645 --> 00:21:09,026 Hey Joy. 341 00:21:09,060 --> 00:21:11,753 - Hi Dad. - Where's the joy today? 342 00:21:11,787 --> 00:21:16,136 It was okay until Sarah and Annie started teasing me again 343 00:21:16,171 --> 00:21:18,035 about my braids. 344 00:21:18,069 --> 00:21:20,106 Maybe they like your hairstyle, 345 00:21:20,140 --> 00:21:21,728 but just don't know how to show it. 346 00:21:22,591 --> 00:21:24,317 They don't like it, dad. 347 00:21:24,352 --> 00:21:25,836 They were making fun of me 348 00:21:25,870 --> 00:21:28,045 of wearing my braids all the time. 349 00:21:28,079 --> 00:21:30,530 Well, they don't need to come to your party then. 350 00:21:30,565 --> 00:21:33,084 We want friendly, happy kids at your party. 351 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,327 Not troublemakers. 352 00:21:35,777 --> 00:21:37,226 What's funny? 353 00:21:37,261 --> 00:21:39,436 They are troublemakers in school. 354 00:21:39,470 --> 00:21:41,817 How did you know that, dad? 355 00:21:41,852 --> 00:21:45,165 Oh, I've had my fair share of troublemakers in life. 356 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,720 Unfortunately, it won't be your last. 357 00:21:47,754 --> 00:21:50,861 So are you inviting them to your party? 358 00:21:50,895 --> 00:21:52,000 No. 359 00:21:52,034 --> 00:21:55,590 I didn't invite Sarah or Annie to my birthday party. 360 00:21:59,352 --> 00:22:01,458 Hey, don't forget your backpack, honey. 361 00:22:01,492 --> 00:22:03,598 Can we stay in the car a little longer? 362 00:22:03,632 --> 00:22:05,496 - Why? - I'm scared. 363 00:22:05,531 --> 00:22:07,256 Scared, of what? 364 00:22:07,291 --> 00:22:09,431 The dog next door. 365 00:22:09,466 --> 00:22:11,813 Oh, she's harmless. 366 00:22:11,847 --> 00:22:14,988 She chases me every time I get out of the car. 367 00:22:15,023 --> 00:22:16,404 Like she's on a mission. 368 00:22:16,438 --> 00:22:19,061 She doesn't want to attack you. 369 00:22:19,096 --> 00:22:20,580 She's a friendly dog. 370 00:22:30,832 --> 00:22:33,869 Joy, will you get out of the car? 371 00:22:34,939 --> 00:22:36,424 Okay. 372 00:22:54,027 --> 00:22:55,719 Did you see that Dad? 373 00:22:55,753 --> 00:22:58,411 She's trying to attack me. 374 00:22:58,446 --> 00:23:01,138 Why can't she stay in her yard? 375 00:23:01,172 --> 00:23:03,485 She's not trying to attack you. 376 00:23:04,452 --> 00:23:05,798 Get in there. 377 00:23:05,832 --> 00:23:08,248 Okay. 378 00:23:22,055 --> 00:23:25,887 ♪ Even if I'm far away, I think about you every day ♪ 379 00:23:25,921 --> 00:23:28,476 ♪ And now I just wish you could stay ♪ 380 00:23:28,510 --> 00:23:29,753 ♪ For another week or two ♪ 381 00:23:29,787 --> 00:23:33,066 ♪ I'd take you wherever you want, girl ♪ 382 00:23:37,174 --> 00:23:38,589 I'll get it. 383 00:23:39,866 --> 00:23:41,212 Thanks for managing the door, Brittany. 384 00:23:41,247 --> 00:23:42,421 You're welcome. 385 00:23:49,428 --> 00:23:50,498 Hi. 386 00:23:54,778 --> 00:23:56,469 Oh, Joy, let's play a game. 387 00:23:56,504 --> 00:23:57,712 What game, Brittany? 388 00:23:57,746 --> 00:23:59,023 The game we always play 389 00:24:00,059 --> 00:24:00,956 This... 390 00:24:41,928 --> 00:24:44,828 Honey, I told you I didn't want a lot of guests showing up 391 00:24:44,862 --> 00:24:49,142 to Joy's party, but more and more are showing up. 392 00:24:49,177 --> 00:24:50,385 Can you not? 393 00:24:50,419 --> 00:24:51,697 It's Joy's party. 394 00:24:51,731 --> 00:24:53,353 That's why more people are coming. 395 00:24:55,528 --> 00:24:57,496 I hear a certain little one's celebrating 396 00:24:57,530 --> 00:24:59,567 their seventh birthday. 397 00:24:59,601 --> 00:25:00,844 Auntie Kay. 398 00:25:00,878 --> 00:25:03,502 Hey Joy. Happy birthday. 399 00:25:03,536 --> 00:25:05,952 Here, I have something for you. 400 00:25:07,402 --> 00:25:10,163 What is it, Auntie Kay? 401 00:25:10,198 --> 00:25:12,752 Do you wants your Auntie Kay to tell you what it is? 402 00:25:12,787 --> 00:25:15,721 You go put that gift with the other gifts and go play. 403 00:25:16,687 --> 00:25:18,240 Thanks Auntie Kay. 404 00:25:18,275 --> 00:25:19,345 I love you. 405 00:25:19,379 --> 00:25:20,933 Oh, I love you too, Joy. 406 00:25:23,142 --> 00:25:25,558 Hey big bro. Hey Janice. 407 00:25:25,593 --> 00:25:26,835 - Hey sis. - Hey, Kay. 408 00:25:26,870 --> 00:25:28,354 I didn't think you were gonna make it. 409 00:25:28,388 --> 00:25:31,391 I wouldn't have missed my niece's party for nothing. 410 00:25:31,426 --> 00:25:32,945 You're such a spoiler. 411 00:25:32,979 --> 00:25:35,568 Now, the rest of y'all's birthdays, 412 00:25:35,603 --> 00:25:37,052 that's a different story. 413 00:25:38,675 --> 00:25:42,541 Whoa, she had a really nice turnout. 414 00:25:43,645 --> 00:25:45,302 Too many people. 415 00:25:45,336 --> 00:25:49,133 I specifically told Janice not to invite a lot of people. 416 00:25:50,928 --> 00:25:54,207 But you completely disregarded what I said. 417 00:25:55,864 --> 00:25:59,592 Well, I mean, I didn't mean to start anything, but... 418 00:25:59,627 --> 00:26:02,491 Look, Calvin, I'm not having this conversation 419 00:26:02,526 --> 00:26:04,804 with you now or later. 420 00:26:04,839 --> 00:26:07,669 This party will go as I plan. 421 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,191 - Sweetie, are you having fun? - Yes. 422 00:26:13,192 --> 00:26:15,021 But are you my mom happy? 423 00:26:15,056 --> 00:26:16,540 Of course. 424 00:26:16,575 --> 00:26:17,783 Mommy and daddy are just having 425 00:26:17,817 --> 00:26:19,647 a little conversation right now. 426 00:26:20,475 --> 00:26:22,960 About my party isn't it? 427 00:26:22,995 --> 00:26:25,169 Now you go finish playing with your guests. 428 00:26:25,204 --> 00:26:26,067 Yeah, go have fun. 429 00:26:26,101 --> 00:26:26,792 We're fine. 430 00:26:28,966 --> 00:26:29,864 Okay. 431 00:26:30,968 --> 00:26:34,213 Mommy, are you excited like I am? 432 00:26:34,247 --> 00:26:35,801 Of course she is. 433 00:26:35,835 --> 00:26:39,390 The party's going just as she planned. 434 00:26:39,425 --> 00:26:40,702 It's your special day. 435 00:26:40,737 --> 00:26:41,910 Now go have some fun. 436 00:26:50,332 --> 00:26:52,265 Are you happy now, Calvin. 437 00:26:52,300 --> 00:26:54,060 Thanks to you, Joy's upset now. 438 00:27:01,136 --> 00:27:02,586 Who's ready to sing "Happy Birthday?" 439 00:27:19,361 --> 00:27:22,882 ♪ May God bless you ♪ 440 00:27:22,917 --> 00:27:26,437 ♪ in whatever you do ♪ 441 00:27:26,472 --> 00:27:29,924 ♪ May God bless you ♪ 442 00:27:29,958 --> 00:27:33,548 ♪ May on your dreams come true ♪ 443 00:27:37,621 --> 00:27:40,348 Which one do you wanna open? 444 00:27:40,382 --> 00:27:41,176 That one? 445 00:27:41,211 --> 00:27:41,901 Okay. 446 00:27:48,218 --> 00:27:49,115 A phone. 447 00:27:50,496 --> 00:27:52,671 Oh wait, who am I gonna call? 448 00:27:52,705 --> 00:27:55,087 I don't have anyone's number. 449 00:27:55,121 --> 00:27:56,951 I'm sure you'll find someone to talk to. 450 00:27:56,985 --> 00:27:59,539 How about you open up your next gift. 451 00:27:59,574 --> 00:28:01,990 This is the best gift ever, Auntie Kay. 452 00:28:03,992 --> 00:28:05,511 You really like that phone? 453 00:28:05,545 --> 00:28:07,616 Now, I don't know who you gonna call, 454 00:28:07,651 --> 00:28:10,274 but how about you open up your other gifts. 455 00:28:10,309 --> 00:28:13,450 Can I open my gifts later and go play? 456 00:28:13,484 --> 00:28:14,382 Sure you can. 457 00:28:15,452 --> 00:28:16,902 Alright! 458 00:28:34,609 --> 00:28:35,714 Calvin. 459 00:28:36,645 --> 00:28:37,785 - Hey. - Hey. 460 00:28:37,819 --> 00:28:38,889 Thanks for inviting us out. 461 00:28:38,924 --> 00:28:40,132 We really had a good time. 462 00:28:40,166 --> 00:28:42,306 Absolutely, have a great night. 463 00:28:42,341 --> 00:28:43,307 - Thank you. - Yep. 464 00:28:53,835 --> 00:28:56,079 Hi, God, it's me, Joy. 465 00:28:57,252 --> 00:29:00,842 Thank you for making this the best birthday. 466 00:29:02,119 --> 00:29:06,330 Please bless my dad, my mom, and me. 467 00:29:07,711 --> 00:29:10,610 Oh, and my auntie Kay for giving me this phone 468 00:29:10,645 --> 00:29:11,784 so I can talk to you. 469 00:29:13,061 --> 00:29:13,959 Amen. 470 00:29:18,170 --> 00:29:20,828 And don't forget to wake us up tomorrow morning. 471 00:29:22,001 --> 00:29:23,382 Amen. 472 00:29:42,332 --> 00:29:43,782 Just like I thought. 473 00:29:45,335 --> 00:29:47,924 Just like you thought, what, Calvin? 474 00:29:47,958 --> 00:29:49,339 I can't believe you still running 475 00:29:49,373 --> 00:29:51,962 around here fussing about your daughter's party, 476 00:29:51,997 --> 00:29:54,827 which was a success, if I may add. 477 00:29:54,862 --> 00:29:57,554 We had way too many guests, Janice. 478 00:29:57,588 --> 00:29:59,038 But you won't admit it 479 00:30:00,108 --> 00:30:01,972 because that's exactly what you wanted. 480 00:30:02,007 --> 00:30:04,837 It's not about the number of guests. 481 00:30:04,872 --> 00:30:07,978 It's about Joy's happiness. 482 00:30:08,013 --> 00:30:10,809 Why did a 7-year-old need to invite 483 00:30:10,843 --> 00:30:13,052 so many kids to a party? 484 00:30:13,087 --> 00:30:15,365 We will not be throwing enormous parties 485 00:30:15,399 --> 00:30:17,608 like that every year 486 00:30:17,643 --> 00:30:20,163 Until Joy is 18, 487 00:30:20,197 --> 00:30:23,269 her parties will always be planned my way. 488 00:30:23,304 --> 00:30:25,547 And the sooner you get that through your head, 489 00:30:25,582 --> 00:30:27,549 the better off we'll be. 490 00:30:41,529 --> 00:30:43,807 You want to throw these extravagant parties, 491 00:30:43,842 --> 00:30:45,809 then you handle the aftermath. 492 00:30:45,844 --> 00:30:49,364 I am done for having a clean up after everyone. 493 00:30:49,399 --> 00:30:54,438 And you've got the nerve to be laying in bed, relaxing. 494 00:30:54,473 --> 00:30:55,543 Hi God. 495 00:30:55,577 --> 00:30:57,717 It's me, Joy. 496 00:30:57,752 --> 00:31:02,067 I don't think Dad was happy about my birthday party today. 497 00:31:02,101 --> 00:31:04,828 They argued a lot. 498 00:31:04,863 --> 00:31:06,243 A whole lot. 499 00:31:06,278 --> 00:31:10,696 Please make them stop fussing and be kind to each other. 500 00:31:10,730 --> 00:31:12,042 Amen. 501 00:31:25,090 --> 00:31:29,163 - No help from you whatsoever. - Are you done? 502 00:31:40,450 --> 00:31:41,313 Good morning, Joy. 503 00:31:51,219 --> 00:31:55,154 Who is that 7-year-old big girl in my kitchen? 504 00:31:57,674 --> 00:32:00,919 Joy, what's wrong? 505 00:32:00,953 --> 00:32:04,819 I thought my birthday party would be special. 506 00:32:04,853 --> 00:32:09,134 - It was special. - No it wasn't. 507 00:32:09,168 --> 00:32:11,308 Why do you feel that it wasn't special? 508 00:32:11,343 --> 00:32:13,724 You had a lot of people that came out 509 00:32:13,759 --> 00:32:15,243 to your party to celebrate you. 510 00:32:16,382 --> 00:32:18,522 'Cause I heard you and Dad arguing 511 00:32:18,557 --> 00:32:21,940 about too many people being here the whole time. 512 00:32:23,182 --> 00:32:26,530 Your dad just has some things to get used to, 513 00:32:26,565 --> 00:32:27,635 don't you, dad? 514 00:32:29,223 --> 00:32:32,812 Joy, you know your dad has never lied to you before, 515 00:32:32,847 --> 00:32:34,504 and I'm not about to start now. 516 00:32:35,746 --> 00:32:36,575 Dad felt like-- 517 00:32:36,609 --> 00:32:37,507 Calvin don't. 518 00:32:39,129 --> 00:32:42,305 There were way too many people at your party yesterday 519 00:32:42,339 --> 00:32:45,101 and that was a discussion between mom and dad. 520 00:32:45,135 --> 00:32:46,723 We didn't mean to upset you. 521 00:32:46,757 --> 00:32:49,105 If you hadn't made such a big deal about it, 522 00:32:49,139 --> 00:32:50,865 she be sad this morning. 523 00:32:50,899 --> 00:32:53,143 This is all your fault. 524 00:32:53,178 --> 00:32:55,594 Let's go, Joy, so you won't be late. 525 00:32:55,628 --> 00:32:58,631 Grab your backpack, your lunchbox, and let's go. 526 00:33:04,154 --> 00:33:05,742 Learn something new today, baby, 527 00:33:05,776 --> 00:33:07,502 and have a great day. 528 00:33:07,537 --> 00:33:09,056 Okay, I will. 529 00:33:09,090 --> 00:33:10,574 Bye, mommy. 530 00:33:10,609 --> 00:33:13,232 Especially if Sarah and Annie don't come to school today. 531 00:33:15,234 --> 00:33:16,304 I know, right? 532 00:33:16,339 --> 00:33:17,719 Reading that was super-cool. 533 00:33:17,754 --> 00:33:19,480 That story was awesome. 534 00:33:19,514 --> 00:33:21,482 Look, Annie, her hair's in the same style. 535 00:33:21,516 --> 00:33:24,864 Are you surprised that's the only style she wear? 536 00:33:24,899 --> 00:33:27,729 Don't you guys have something better to talk about? 537 00:33:27,764 --> 00:33:29,593 Yeah, a new hairstyle for you. 538 00:33:29,628 --> 00:33:32,734 God, please make them stop teasing me. 539 00:33:32,769 --> 00:33:33,770 Let's go. 540 00:33:53,376 --> 00:33:56,689 Today we'll be talking about exploring change. 541 00:33:56,724 --> 00:33:59,727 Change means when something becomes different 542 00:33:59,761 --> 00:34:01,591 or something new happens. 543 00:34:01,625 --> 00:34:04,594 For example, has anyone seen a caterpillar 544 00:34:04,628 --> 00:34:06,182 change into a butterfly? 545 00:34:07,010 --> 00:34:08,667 Yes. 546 00:34:08,701 --> 00:34:11,532 Can anyone else give me an example of a change? 547 00:34:12,533 --> 00:34:13,430 Caleb? 548 00:34:13,465 --> 00:34:14,949 We used to live in an apartment. 549 00:34:14,983 --> 00:34:16,709 Now we live in a house. 550 00:34:16,744 --> 00:34:17,986 Yes. Very good. 551 00:34:18,021 --> 00:34:19,643 That is a form of change. 552 00:34:19,678 --> 00:34:21,369 Anyone else? 553 00:34:21,404 --> 00:34:22,750 Sarah? 554 00:34:22,784 --> 00:34:25,960 If Joy changes her hair from braids to another style, 555 00:34:25,994 --> 00:34:27,582 would that be a form of change? 556 00:34:30,413 --> 00:34:34,141 Yes, that would be a change. 557 00:34:34,175 --> 00:34:36,004 But Sarah, that's not the form of change 558 00:34:36,039 --> 00:34:37,454 that we're exploring today. 559 00:34:38,593 --> 00:34:41,217 Okay, who wants to help pass out homework? 560 00:34:42,839 --> 00:34:44,185 Thanks, Joy. 561 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,396 Tonight, your homework is on critical thinking. 562 00:34:48,431 --> 00:34:50,605 I want you guys to use your imaginations 563 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:54,540 and write out two ways in which it can change. 564 00:34:54,575 --> 00:34:57,681 You can even draw pictures to make it more fun. 565 00:34:57,716 --> 00:35:00,201 Now you guys are dismissed. 566 00:35:28,402 --> 00:35:33,131 - What's wrong? - That dog. She's so mean. 567 00:35:33,959 --> 00:35:36,237 She's always chasing me. 568 00:35:36,272 --> 00:35:38,929 That dog is not mean. 569 00:35:38,964 --> 00:35:40,414 I have to run back to the office 570 00:35:40,448 --> 00:35:42,105 to grab a file I've been working on. 571 00:35:42,140 --> 00:35:43,555 I'll be back shortly, okay? 572 00:35:43,589 --> 00:35:44,625 Okay. 573 00:35:44,659 --> 00:35:46,040 Well, Joy, don't get too comfortable. 574 00:35:46,074 --> 00:35:47,386 I need to run to the store. 575 00:35:47,421 --> 00:35:50,665 Can I stay here, please? 576 00:35:50,700 --> 00:35:53,910 No, you're too young to stay home by yourself. 577 00:35:53,944 --> 00:35:55,325 I promise. 578 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,327 I'll go in my room and lock the door. 579 00:35:57,362 --> 00:35:59,295 I won't come out until you return. 580 00:36:00,399 --> 00:36:02,850 Don't be silly. The answer is no. 581 00:36:02,884 --> 00:36:03,816 So let's go. 582 00:36:04,645 --> 00:36:06,405 Okay. 583 00:36:12,894 --> 00:36:14,413 Unlock the car, mom. 584 00:36:23,905 --> 00:36:24,906 Hello? 585 00:36:24,941 --> 00:36:25,907 Hello, Calvin? 586 00:36:25,942 --> 00:36:27,461 This is the Pastor. 587 00:36:27,495 --> 00:36:30,947 I was calling to check in with Sister Janice. 588 00:36:30,981 --> 00:36:33,052 She's not here right now, Pastor. 589 00:36:33,087 --> 00:36:35,917 Okay, well let her know 590 00:36:35,952 --> 00:36:39,058 we miss seeing her at church. 591 00:36:39,093 --> 00:36:41,095 Daddy, we're back. 592 00:36:41,129 --> 00:36:45,962 Oh wait, Pastor, you are in luck, she just walked in. 593 00:36:45,996 --> 00:36:46,687 Hold on a second. 594 00:36:48,102 --> 00:36:48,999 It's for you. 595 00:36:56,835 --> 00:36:58,181 Hello? 596 00:36:58,216 --> 00:37:01,219 Hello, Janice, it's the Pastor. 597 00:37:03,186 --> 00:37:04,256 How are you? 598 00:37:05,188 --> 00:37:06,983 I'm well, and you? 599 00:37:07,949 --> 00:37:08,881 God is good. 600 00:37:12,057 --> 00:37:13,300 Is everything okay? 601 00:37:15,267 --> 00:37:16,544 I'm fine. 602 00:37:18,477 --> 00:37:20,445 Did you need to speak back to Calvin? 603 00:37:20,479 --> 00:37:22,585 Actually, I wanted to chat with you. 604 00:37:24,656 --> 00:37:28,176 I haven't seen you in church over the past several weeks. 605 00:37:28,211 --> 00:37:29,592 I can't be missed, Pastor. 606 00:37:29,626 --> 00:37:32,629 You have a whole congregation to keep you busy. 607 00:37:32,664 --> 00:37:34,390 That's true. 608 00:37:34,424 --> 00:37:38,497 But when members' attendance start going off course, 609 00:37:38,532 --> 00:37:40,534 I need to find out why. 610 00:37:42,639 --> 00:37:46,298 Is there a reason why you haven't attended church? 611 00:37:48,162 --> 00:37:50,371 I appreciate your concern, Pastor, 612 00:37:51,648 --> 00:37:54,272 but I'm just not in the mood for church right now. 613 00:37:55,100 --> 00:37:59,277 Oh, I see. 614 00:38:01,865 --> 00:38:04,489 That's more reason for you to join us every week. 615 00:38:05,731 --> 00:38:08,251 You know, church can be a source of comfort 616 00:38:08,286 --> 00:38:11,737 and strength during challenging times. 617 00:38:11,772 --> 00:38:15,293 I never said I was facing anything challenging. 618 00:38:15,327 --> 00:38:18,882 You know, okay, thank you for calling, Pastor. 619 00:38:20,367 --> 00:38:22,092 Well, our doors are always open 620 00:38:22,127 --> 00:38:22,990 if you need to talk. 621 00:38:24,474 --> 00:38:26,787 Will we see you Sunday? 622 00:38:26,821 --> 00:38:28,513 I'll try. 623 00:38:29,755 --> 00:38:31,067 Alright. Bye-bye. 624 00:38:36,175 --> 00:38:37,763 Hi God. 625 00:38:37,798 --> 00:38:39,524 It's me, Joy. 626 00:38:39,558 --> 00:38:42,043 My mom talked to the pastor today 627 00:38:42,078 --> 00:38:45,771 and I can tell she wasn't very happy with him 628 00:38:45,806 --> 00:38:48,326 or my dad for giving her the phone. 629 00:38:49,327 --> 00:38:51,363 Do you know what's wrong with her? 630 00:38:51,398 --> 00:38:53,469 Please touch her with kindness. 631 00:38:54,159 --> 00:38:55,540 Amen. 632 00:39:12,315 --> 00:39:15,076 Why did you put me on a spot like that the other day? 633 00:39:15,111 --> 00:39:17,631 - Like what? - With our pastor? 634 00:39:18,425 --> 00:39:20,634 Well, he is our pastor. 635 00:39:20,668 --> 00:39:23,913 Exactly, at church, not in my kitchen. 636 00:39:25,604 --> 00:39:27,503 Do you even hear yourself right now? 637 00:39:28,504 --> 00:39:31,955 The question is, do you hear me? 638 00:39:31,990 --> 00:39:33,163 Don't do that again. 639 00:39:33,198 --> 00:39:37,858 If I wanna speak with the pastor, I'll contact him 640 00:39:37,892 --> 00:39:42,690 until then, all his future calls are for your ears only. 641 00:39:43,622 --> 00:39:46,280 What has gotten into you? 642 00:39:46,314 --> 00:39:48,351 You're short-tempered with me. 643 00:39:48,386 --> 00:39:50,388 You're not attending church, 644 00:39:50,422 --> 00:39:53,183 and now you are rude towards the pastor. 645 00:39:54,461 --> 00:39:57,256 We used to be a team, Janice. 646 00:39:57,291 --> 00:39:59,327 If I don't wanna sit here 647 00:39:59,362 --> 00:40:01,744 and listen to his lectures, 648 00:40:01,778 --> 00:40:04,712 what makes you think I wanna sit here and listen to yours? 649 00:40:13,031 --> 00:40:13,928 God. 650 00:40:17,656 --> 00:40:21,695 God, I know prayer unlocks the door of patience. 651 00:40:24,801 --> 00:40:25,802 So I'm praying. 652 00:40:26,941 --> 00:40:29,288 I'm praying that you unlock those doors 653 00:40:29,323 --> 00:40:31,877 of patience right now, Dear God. 654 00:40:33,396 --> 00:40:37,227 Please, unlock those doors of patience. 655 00:40:48,307 --> 00:40:51,379 Daddy, you pray by yourself. 656 00:40:51,414 --> 00:40:52,139 I do. 657 00:40:53,485 --> 00:40:56,523 We all should pray to God, whether we're by ourselves 658 00:40:56,557 --> 00:40:57,938 or in a group. 659 00:40:59,111 --> 00:41:02,460 - Can I tell you a secret? - Sure you can, sweetie. 660 00:41:02,494 --> 00:41:03,771 I pray to God too. 661 00:41:03,806 --> 00:41:07,810 Aw, that's nothing to be ashamed about, sweetheart, 662 00:41:07,844 --> 00:41:10,882 and I know God is very happy with you, 663 00:41:10,916 --> 00:41:14,230 But he doesn't tell me he's happy. 664 00:41:14,264 --> 00:41:16,025 Does God only talk to adults? 665 00:41:16,991 --> 00:41:17,992 Oh no, sweetie. 666 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:21,858 God is here for everyone 667 00:41:21,893 --> 00:41:25,483 and he talks to us in his own unique way. 668 00:41:25,517 --> 00:41:27,692 He has the whole world to listen to. 669 00:41:28,796 --> 00:41:30,798 He'll get to your prayer soon. 670 00:41:30,833 --> 00:41:35,872 But remember, you must keep the faith. 671 00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:38,634 I love you daddy, and I love mommy too. 672 00:41:38,668 --> 00:41:40,187 And how much do we love you 673 00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:42,983 This much. 674 00:41:51,543 --> 00:41:52,820 Amen. 675 00:41:58,136 --> 00:41:58,930 Mom. 676 00:41:58,964 --> 00:42:00,172 Yes. 677 00:42:00,207 --> 00:42:02,589 Did kids ever tease you when you were in school? 678 00:42:03,624 --> 00:42:07,525 I faced my fair share of teasing back then. 679 00:42:07,559 --> 00:42:08,836 You're so strong. 680 00:42:08,871 --> 00:42:10,562 How did you deal with it? 681 00:42:10,597 --> 00:42:11,943 I didn't. 682 00:42:11,977 --> 00:42:14,566 That's why I'm not taking any crap off anyone. 683 00:42:14,601 --> 00:42:16,844 Honey, do you have to use that word? 684 00:42:18,018 --> 00:42:18,812 What word? 685 00:42:18,846 --> 00:42:19,916 Crap. 686 00:42:19,951 --> 00:42:21,849 Joy's already dealing with problems in school. 687 00:42:21,884 --> 00:42:24,162 Now it's the time to toughen her up. 688 00:42:24,196 --> 00:42:26,889 She's going to hear and see more than that in the streets. 689 00:42:26,923 --> 00:42:29,408 Then let her hear it in the streets. 690 00:42:29,443 --> 00:42:31,583 If Joy having issues at school, 691 00:42:31,618 --> 00:42:34,172 our home should be a positive place for her. 692 00:42:35,967 --> 00:42:38,556 Over the years, I have learned that standing up 693 00:42:38,590 --> 00:42:40,972 for yourself is vital. 694 00:42:41,006 --> 00:42:43,940 I wanna be just like mommy when I grow up. 695 00:42:47,737 --> 00:42:50,775 You should want to be like Joy when you grow up. 696 00:42:50,809 --> 00:42:52,742 God wants us to be like ourselves. 697 00:42:54,088 --> 00:42:58,127 Dad, I don't think God would mind if I'm like mommy. 698 00:42:58,161 --> 00:42:59,577 That's my girl. 699 00:43:02,476 --> 00:43:04,098 Hurry up and eat your food, okay? 700 00:43:05,513 --> 00:43:06,963 Alright. 701 00:43:06,998 --> 00:43:07,792 You done? 702 00:43:07,826 --> 00:43:08,896 Yeah. 703 00:43:08,931 --> 00:43:11,209 Okay, go ahead and get ready for bed. 704 00:43:11,243 --> 00:43:12,348 Alright? 705 00:43:12,382 --> 00:43:13,038 All right. 706 00:43:19,942 --> 00:43:22,565 You and I both know that child doesn't need 707 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:25,154 to be following in your footsteps. 708 00:43:25,188 --> 00:43:26,880 What's the problem now. 709 00:43:26,914 --> 00:43:28,985 You wanna argue because she wants to be like me? 710 00:43:29,020 --> 00:43:32,023 No, Janice, what bothered me is that you couldn't handle 711 00:43:32,057 --> 00:43:34,922 this conversation in a more positive manner. 712 00:43:36,959 --> 00:43:41,791 We are having a dinner conversation in our home, 713 00:43:42,965 --> 00:43:45,070 not in our office group counseling session. 714 00:43:52,422 --> 00:43:55,494 Hi God, it's me, Joy. 715 00:43:55,529 --> 00:43:57,911 Can you get between mommy and daddy 716 00:43:57,945 --> 00:44:01,708 and stop them from fussing right now? 717 00:44:01,742 --> 00:44:04,711 I really want them to be happy. 718 00:44:04,745 --> 00:44:06,333 Goodnight, God. 719 00:44:07,955 --> 00:44:08,715 Amen. 720 00:44:29,943 --> 00:44:31,289 Ahh. 721 00:44:36,190 --> 00:44:37,088 Good morning. 722 00:44:37,122 --> 00:44:38,952 Good morning, how's it going? 723 00:44:38,986 --> 00:44:40,263 Good to see you, man. 724 00:44:40,298 --> 00:44:41,748 Hi God. 725 00:44:41,782 --> 00:44:45,752 How come I'm the only one my neighbor's dog chases? 726 00:44:54,105 --> 00:44:56,176 Hey honey, are you ready to go? 727 00:44:56,210 --> 00:44:57,833 Yep. 728 00:44:57,867 --> 00:45:01,526 - I don't wanna go to school. - Are you feeling okay? 729 00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,045 Yeah. 730 00:45:03,079 --> 00:45:04,702 Then why don't you want to go to school? 731 00:45:04,736 --> 00:45:06,255 'Cause of Annie and Sarah. 732 00:45:06,289 --> 00:45:09,016 Honey, you're going to have to learn to ignore them. 733 00:45:24,963 --> 00:45:25,861 Listen, I need to ask a question. 734 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,864 How many of you have ever prayed to God 735 00:45:30,175 --> 00:45:32,246 and you felt like you didn't get an answer? 736 00:45:34,352 --> 00:45:38,183 That doesn't mean that God doesn't hear your prayers. 737 00:45:38,218 --> 00:45:42,015 Listen, the same way he enjoys us coming into the house 738 00:45:42,049 --> 00:45:45,466 of the Lord, he also enjoys seeing us come 739 00:45:45,501 --> 00:45:47,330 together in prayers. 740 00:45:48,884 --> 00:45:50,506 Listen, I need you to get this. 741 00:45:51,990 --> 00:45:56,754 In Matthews, the 18th chapter, the 20th verse-- 742 00:45:57,927 --> 00:45:59,687 Is Mommy coming to church with us anymore? 743 00:45:59,722 --> 00:46:01,206 Of course she will, sweetie. 744 00:46:01,241 --> 00:46:03,105 Just pay attention yo the pastor so we don't miss anything. 745 00:46:03,139 --> 00:46:06,211 I'm there among them, meaning, 746 00:46:06,246 --> 00:46:09,663 when two or more come together in agreement, 747 00:46:09,697 --> 00:46:11,941 whatever they ask will be done. 748 00:46:16,394 --> 00:46:17,602 Listen, I'm your pastor, 749 00:46:17,636 --> 00:46:21,537 so listen, sometimes we got to think outside the box 750 00:46:21,571 --> 00:46:26,784 and think of a more creative approach to discovering God. 751 00:46:28,233 --> 00:46:32,237 I mean, God made it very clear in Matthews 18, didn't he? 752 00:46:32,272 --> 00:46:33,342 Are you okay? 753 00:46:33,376 --> 00:46:34,170 So listen, I'm your pastor-- 754 00:46:34,205 --> 00:46:35,413 Yes. 755 00:46:35,447 --> 00:46:36,724 So what I'm encouraging you to do is-- 756 00:46:36,759 --> 00:46:38,416 Are we going straight home after this? 757 00:46:38,450 --> 00:46:41,177 Unless there's somewhere else you would like to go. 758 00:46:41,212 --> 00:46:42,351 No. 759 00:46:42,385 --> 00:46:44,698 Circle and see what it does in your life. 760 00:46:44,732 --> 00:46:45,595 Amen? 761 00:46:45,630 --> 00:46:46,734 Amen. 762 00:46:48,598 --> 00:46:51,153 Mommy, can we play dress up? 763 00:46:51,187 --> 00:46:53,017 Not now, Joy. I'm busy. 764 00:46:54,225 --> 00:46:56,848 Oh, daddy always plays with me. 765 00:46:56,883 --> 00:46:59,540 You never play with me. 766 00:46:59,575 --> 00:47:03,821 That's what daddies are supposed to do, okay? 767 00:47:08,032 --> 00:47:10,068 Joy, I'll play with you. 768 00:47:10,103 --> 00:47:11,207 Yay. 769 00:47:11,242 --> 00:47:13,796 So what do you wanna play? 770 00:47:13,831 --> 00:47:16,730 Hmm, dress up. 771 00:47:16,764 --> 00:47:18,318 Dress up. 772 00:47:18,352 --> 00:47:22,909 Okay, that sounds like a lot of fun and easy to do. 773 00:47:22,943 --> 00:47:24,255 I tell you what, why don't you go 774 00:47:24,289 --> 00:47:25,981 to your room and get dressed. 775 00:47:26,015 --> 00:47:27,568 I'll go to my room and get dressed. 776 00:47:27,603 --> 00:47:28,880 Okay. 777 00:47:28,915 --> 00:47:29,536 And we'll meet up in the hallway. 778 00:47:29,570 --> 00:47:31,262 Alright. 779 00:47:31,296 --> 00:47:31,987 Alright. 780 00:47:33,954 --> 00:47:37,785 - Daddy, are you almost ready? - Almost. 781 00:47:37,820 --> 00:47:38,890 Okay. 782 00:47:41,686 --> 00:47:43,239 On the count of three. 783 00:47:43,274 --> 00:47:45,552 One, two, three. 784 00:47:47,899 --> 00:47:49,487 We did it, Joy, we look good. 785 00:47:50,902 --> 00:47:54,147 No, no, daddy, you put on the wrong outfit. 786 00:47:54,181 --> 00:47:56,908 What do you mean I put on the wrong outfit? 787 00:47:56,943 --> 00:47:58,945 This is my dress up outfit. 788 00:48:01,085 --> 00:48:02,465 Church, not in the house. 789 00:48:03,604 --> 00:48:05,606 I have to dress you now. 790 00:48:05,641 --> 00:48:07,643 Okay, go pick out my outfit. 791 00:48:19,137 --> 00:48:20,898 Huh, that feels awkward 792 00:48:27,594 --> 00:48:29,492 Are you finished yet? 793 00:48:29,527 --> 00:48:32,323 One second. No. Peaking. 794 00:48:32,357 --> 00:48:33,186 Okay. 795 00:48:34,083 --> 00:48:37,052 ♪ Take a holiday ♪ 796 00:48:37,086 --> 00:48:38,639 ♪ Where you hide away ♪ 797 00:48:40,469 --> 00:48:41,539 Three, two, one. 798 00:48:44,749 --> 00:48:46,164 Tada! 799 00:48:46,199 --> 00:48:48,132 Joy, what did you do? 800 00:48:50,030 --> 00:48:51,583 Dress up, daddy. 801 00:48:53,344 --> 00:48:54,172 Come here. 802 00:48:55,933 --> 00:48:58,142 Dinner's ready. 803 00:49:04,424 --> 00:49:08,462 Get back here. 804 00:49:10,188 --> 00:49:12,363 Joy, go wash your hands. 805 00:49:12,397 --> 00:49:13,847 Okay. 806 00:49:13,881 --> 00:49:15,228 I'm gonna get you later. 807 00:49:16,884 --> 00:49:19,715 Calvin, you look crazy. 808 00:49:19,749 --> 00:49:23,098 Change your clothes before you sit at the table with us. 809 00:49:24,927 --> 00:49:27,067 It's called playing. 810 00:49:29,207 --> 00:49:32,383 If you spent more time with Joy, you would understand 811 00:49:32,417 --> 00:49:35,282 what parents would do for the sake of that kid's happiness. 812 00:49:35,317 --> 00:49:37,905 Happiness, looking like that? 813 00:49:37,940 --> 00:49:39,321 What is wrong with you? 814 00:49:43,049 --> 00:49:44,982 We'll finish this conversation later. 815 00:50:17,324 --> 00:50:19,326 So now you're tired from running 816 00:50:19,361 --> 00:50:21,777 around here earlier looking crazy. 817 00:50:21,811 --> 00:50:23,158 Let it go, Janice. 818 00:50:23,192 --> 00:50:24,883 I'm trying to go to sleep. 819 00:50:24,918 --> 00:50:26,816 I will not. 820 00:50:26,851 --> 00:50:31,166 Did you think it was cute to let our 7-year-old daughter 821 00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,340 put a robe on you, 822 00:50:34,514 --> 00:50:38,276 a wig on your head, and lip gloss on your lips? 823 00:50:40,899 --> 00:50:43,109 Do you know how to parent? 824 00:50:43,143 --> 00:50:46,595 Don't you ever question my parenting skills. 825 00:50:46,629 --> 00:50:49,080 You need to be asking yourself that. 826 00:50:49,115 --> 00:50:50,840 Or maybe you are the one who needs 827 00:50:50,875 --> 00:50:52,532 to be taking parenting classes. 828 00:50:52,566 --> 00:50:55,155 Look, all she wanted to do was play dress up 829 00:50:55,190 --> 00:50:56,156 with her mom. 830 00:50:56,191 --> 00:50:57,951 As in you, Janice. 831 00:50:57,985 --> 00:50:59,297 You turned her down. 832 00:50:59,332 --> 00:51:01,230 What was I supposed to do? 833 00:51:01,265 --> 00:51:04,751 What were you supposed to do? 834 00:51:04,785 --> 00:51:07,650 I can tell you what you weren't supposed to do, 835 00:51:07,685 --> 00:51:12,138 and that was to not let a 7-year-old put a wig on your head 836 00:51:12,172 --> 00:51:14,312 and lip gloss on your lips. 837 00:51:16,142 --> 00:51:18,627 Maybe if you learn to set aside some time 838 00:51:18,661 --> 00:51:21,147 to be more involved in Joy's life, then maybe I wouldn't 839 00:51:21,181 --> 00:51:23,632 have to play both Daddy and mommy. 840 00:51:27,325 --> 00:51:31,191 Hi God, it's me, Joy, and my dolls. 841 00:51:31,226 --> 00:51:34,401 We're asking for miracles. 842 00:51:34,436 --> 00:51:38,129 There are things going on in my life that need to change. 843 00:51:39,234 --> 00:51:41,167 Daddy and I played a fun game today, 844 00:51:41,201 --> 00:51:44,239 but mommy is so upset with him. 845 00:51:44,273 --> 00:51:46,448 Please make mommy's heart nicer. 846 00:51:47,725 --> 00:51:51,073 God, I know you can hear them all the way in heaven 847 00:51:51,108 --> 00:51:53,282 because there's so loud right now. 848 00:51:54,076 --> 00:51:56,492 Fix them, God, please. 849 00:51:57,942 --> 00:51:59,392 Goodnight God. 850 00:51:59,426 --> 00:52:00,427 Amen. 851 00:52:03,810 --> 00:52:06,053 Years ago, men used to not be 852 00:52:06,088 --> 00:52:07,917 as engaged in their children's lives 853 00:52:07,952 --> 00:52:10,851 and they would leave everything to the mother to do. 854 00:52:12,198 --> 00:52:13,682 And I'm making sure that you're involved 855 00:52:13,716 --> 00:52:16,892 in our daughter's life and not leaving everything 856 00:52:16,926 --> 00:52:18,514 on me to do. 857 00:52:18,549 --> 00:52:20,620 I could say the same thing, Janice. 858 00:52:21,828 --> 00:52:25,452 Years ago, moms used to be extremely involved 859 00:52:25,487 --> 00:52:28,524 in their little girl's lives, no matter what. 860 00:52:28,559 --> 00:52:33,150 I love Joy and I would do anything for her, 861 00:52:33,184 --> 00:52:35,186 such as you should. 862 00:52:35,221 --> 00:52:37,775 But you wanna blame me and punish me 863 00:52:37,809 --> 00:52:40,847 for other dad's lack of doing. 864 00:52:40,881 --> 00:52:44,678 That is not my situation here and it'll never be. 865 00:52:44,713 --> 00:52:47,336 I know it won't because I'm making sure of it. 866 00:52:49,304 --> 00:52:52,099 I am not tired of doing everything for Joy. 867 00:52:52,134 --> 00:52:55,102 But what I am tired of is having to watch her 868 00:52:55,137 --> 00:52:59,072 go through life as if she only has one parent. 869 00:52:59,106 --> 00:53:00,660 Look, Janice, you're here, 870 00:53:00,694 --> 00:53:03,421 but you're not here when it comes to Joy 871 00:53:03,456 --> 00:53:06,907 and that stops right here and right now. 872 00:53:06,942 --> 00:53:08,357 Can't take this anymore. 873 00:53:11,153 --> 00:53:13,431 Where are you going? 874 00:53:14,432 --> 00:53:16,745 Calvin, what are you doing? 875 00:53:17,953 --> 00:53:19,437 Calvin. 876 00:53:19,472 --> 00:53:22,406 Calvin, why are you packing your clothes? 877 00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,649 Calvin, what are you doing, what are you doing? 878 00:53:25,823 --> 00:53:28,481 Calvin, what are you doing? 879 00:53:32,278 --> 00:53:34,556 Calvin, what are you doing? 880 00:53:35,453 --> 00:53:37,110 Where are you going? 881 00:53:37,144 --> 00:53:38,318 What are you doing? 882 00:53:38,353 --> 00:53:40,700 What are you doing? 883 00:53:40,734 --> 00:53:44,911 I love you, Janice, more than anything, 884 00:53:44,945 --> 00:53:46,775 and I love Joy too. 885 00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:53,022 That little girl's been through so much prior 886 00:53:53,057 --> 00:53:54,369 to us adopting her. 887 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,165 I can't continue to have her watch us fuss 888 00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,306 and fight every day. 889 00:54:01,099 --> 00:54:02,308 So I'm leaving. 890 00:54:03,343 --> 00:54:05,483 I'll be back for my things later. 891 00:54:06,864 --> 00:54:10,488 God, God blessed us, babe. 892 00:54:10,523 --> 00:54:14,251 He blessed us with a opportunity to raise that little girl, 893 00:54:14,285 --> 00:54:15,838 our only child. 894 00:54:16,874 --> 00:54:19,463 We will not fail Joy, 895 00:54:20,740 --> 00:54:24,571 and most importantly, disappoint God. 896 00:54:29,404 --> 00:54:32,890 Calvin, please, please don't go. 897 00:54:32,924 --> 00:54:35,272 I need you. 898 00:54:35,306 --> 00:54:37,895 We need you. 899 00:54:37,929 --> 00:54:39,103 Calvin, I'm sorry. 900 00:54:55,084 --> 00:54:56,534 What have I done? 901 00:54:58,571 --> 00:55:01,677 God, bring Calvin back to us, please. 902 00:55:15,898 --> 00:55:16,899 Joy. 903 00:55:16,934 --> 00:55:17,866 Yeah. 904 00:55:17,900 --> 00:55:18,867 You wanna help Mommy bake cookies. 905 00:55:18,901 --> 00:55:20,938 Ooh, cookies. 906 00:55:20,972 --> 00:55:21,939 Yes, mommy. 907 00:55:21,973 --> 00:55:22,871 Come on. 908 00:55:27,082 --> 00:55:28,083 You wanna put 'em in? 909 00:55:28,117 --> 00:55:28,911 Yep. 910 00:55:28,946 --> 00:55:30,534 Okay. 911 00:55:35,435 --> 00:55:36,505 Good job. 912 00:55:37,403 --> 00:55:38,196 Let's see if it's done. 913 00:55:38,231 --> 00:55:40,026 Yep. 914 00:55:40,060 --> 00:55:43,132 Ooh, they smell delicious. 915 00:55:43,167 --> 00:55:44,824 Be careful, mommy. It's hot. 916 00:55:44,858 --> 00:55:46,412 Okay. Okay. 917 00:55:46,446 --> 00:55:47,516 All right. 918 00:55:51,969 --> 00:55:53,453 Daddy. 919 00:55:53,488 --> 00:55:56,283 - Hey sweetie. - Do you want a cookie? 920 00:55:56,318 --> 00:55:57,802 I would love one. 921 00:55:57,837 --> 00:56:02,531 I'll take one cookie from you and a cookie from mommy. 922 00:56:03,083 --> 00:56:03,636 Alrighty. 923 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,121 Here you go. 924 00:56:06,155 --> 00:56:07,398 Thank you. 925 00:56:09,020 --> 00:56:09,883 I'm sorry. 926 00:56:14,888 --> 00:56:15,855 Joy. 927 00:56:15,889 --> 00:56:16,856 Yes. 928 00:56:16,890 --> 00:56:17,822 Hurry up, sweetie. 929 00:56:17,857 --> 00:56:19,479 We don't want to be late for church. 930 00:56:19,514 --> 00:56:20,653 Okay. 931 00:56:25,554 --> 00:56:26,935 You look nice. 932 00:56:26,969 --> 00:56:27,901 Thanks. 933 00:56:27,936 --> 00:56:29,489 Calvin, if you gimme a few moments, 934 00:56:29,524 --> 00:56:31,733 I can get dressed in, attend church with you and Joy. 935 00:56:31,767 --> 00:56:34,494 Mommy, you're coming to church with us too. 936 00:56:34,529 --> 00:56:35,322 Yes, baby. 937 00:56:35,357 --> 00:56:36,289 Yay. 938 00:56:36,323 --> 00:56:38,947 Take all the minutes you need, 939 00:56:38,981 --> 00:56:39,844 But hurry up. 940 00:56:41,363 --> 00:56:42,606 All right. 941 00:57:21,955 --> 00:57:22,818 Joy? 942 00:57:22,853 --> 00:57:24,130 Hmm? 943 00:57:24,164 --> 00:57:26,443 You wanna give your hair a break from these braids? 944 00:57:26,477 --> 00:57:30,136 Yeah, but how would I wear it? 945 00:57:30,170 --> 00:57:32,483 You have beautiful long hair. 946 00:57:32,518 --> 00:57:34,381 You can wear it out if you want to. 947 00:57:34,416 --> 00:57:36,591 - Okay. - All right. 948 00:57:36,625 --> 00:57:37,971 Well, find something on TV 949 00:57:38,006 --> 00:57:39,939 'cause we're gonna be here all night. 950 00:57:39,973 --> 00:57:40,629 Okay. 951 00:57:43,667 --> 00:57:45,634 Now we're all ready to pray. 952 00:57:48,292 --> 00:57:49,535 It's time to pray now. 953 00:57:49,569 --> 00:57:53,159 I need you right here 954 00:57:53,193 --> 00:57:55,541 and I'm gonna pray with you too. 955 00:58:02,202 --> 00:58:03,100 Hi God. 956 00:58:04,308 --> 00:58:05,861 It's me, Joy. 957 00:58:05,896 --> 00:58:08,036 I'm going to school tomorrow with my hair out. 958 00:58:09,658 --> 00:58:13,179 Please don't let Sarah and Annie tease me about my hair. 959 00:58:14,594 --> 00:58:17,632 Oh, God, guess what? 960 00:58:17,666 --> 00:58:19,910 Mom is much nicer now, 961 00:58:19,944 --> 00:58:22,015 just like she was when I first moved here. 962 00:58:24,328 --> 00:58:25,225 Amen. 963 00:58:30,092 --> 00:58:32,129 Glorify, to give honor, 964 00:58:32,163 --> 00:58:34,580 to exalt or admire. 965 00:58:34,614 --> 00:58:36,996 Praise, to express gratitude. 966 00:58:37,030 --> 00:58:41,552 To express how great someone or something is. 967 00:58:41,587 --> 00:58:43,934 What's all the excitement about, class? 968 00:58:43,968 --> 00:58:47,109 Ms. Anderson, look at Joy's hair. 969 00:58:47,144 --> 00:58:48,421 It's so long and pretty. 970 00:58:48,455 --> 00:58:50,181 Yes, it is. 971 00:58:50,216 --> 00:58:52,114 You kids don't miss a beat. 972 00:58:52,149 --> 00:58:54,772 Sarah and Annie, I see y'all are not teasing Joy today. 973 00:58:54,807 --> 00:58:57,016 Her hair is longer than the both of y'all's. 974 00:58:57,050 --> 00:58:58,776 What do you mean by that comment, Tania? 975 00:58:58,811 --> 00:59:01,676 Sarah and Annie tease Joy every day 976 00:59:01,710 --> 00:59:03,988 about her wearing braids and not having hair, 977 00:59:04,023 --> 00:59:06,439 but they're not saying anything today 978 00:59:06,473 --> 00:59:08,545 As they shouldn't. 979 00:59:08,579 --> 00:59:09,891 Let this be a lesson to each of you. 980 00:59:09,925 --> 00:59:13,619 I don't wanna hear anyone teasing anyone anymore. 981 00:59:13,653 --> 00:59:16,276 Joy, you have beautiful hair. 982 00:59:16,311 --> 00:59:19,417 Sarah and Annie, apologize to her right now. 983 00:59:19,452 --> 00:59:21,143 Sorry. 984 00:59:21,178 --> 00:59:22,489 I'm sorry. 985 00:59:22,524 --> 00:59:23,905 It's okay. 986 00:59:25,009 --> 00:59:26,873 As long as it doesn't happen again. 987 00:59:27,978 --> 00:59:29,635 It better not. 988 00:59:29,669 --> 00:59:32,258 And if it does, you come talk to me. 989 00:59:46,686 --> 00:59:48,343 I am sorry we teased you earlier. 990 00:59:48,377 --> 00:59:50,000 Will you be my friend? 991 00:59:50,034 --> 00:59:52,312 Yeah, can you be my friend too? 992 00:59:52,347 --> 00:59:54,487 We didn't know you had hair. 993 00:59:54,521 --> 00:59:56,144 Sure we can be friends. 994 00:59:56,178 --> 00:59:57,835 I've always had long hair. 995 00:59:57,870 --> 01:00:00,942 Just promise not to tease me or anyone else again. 996 01:00:00,976 --> 01:00:01,563 We won't. 997 01:00:01,598 --> 01:00:02,737 I learned my lesson. 998 01:00:02,771 --> 01:00:04,014 Yeah, me too. 999 01:00:19,512 --> 01:00:21,997 Hey, Ms. Anderson. 1000 01:00:22,032 --> 01:00:23,827 Joy, you're dismissed. 1001 01:00:28,901 --> 01:00:30,696 Have a good day, guys. 1002 01:00:30,730 --> 01:00:32,076 Oh, you too, 1003 01:00:33,837 --> 01:00:36,115 Mom, mom, guess what? 1004 01:00:36,149 --> 01:00:37,288 What is it, sweetie? 1005 01:00:37,323 --> 01:00:38,945 You got an A on your test? 1006 01:00:38,980 --> 01:00:42,397 No, everyone loved my hair today, 1007 01:00:42,431 --> 01:00:44,848 including Sarah and Annie. 1008 01:00:44,882 --> 01:00:47,782 They were surprised to see how long it was, 1009 01:00:47,816 --> 01:00:51,924 and Ms. Anderson made them apologize for teasing me. 1010 01:00:51,958 --> 01:00:53,857 I'm so happy for you, Joy. 1011 01:00:53,891 --> 01:00:58,516 I prayed and asked God not to let them tease me. 1012 01:00:58,551 --> 01:01:00,208 God is awesome, isn't he? 1013 01:01:00,242 --> 01:01:03,625 He used Ms. Anderson to help resolve all 1014 01:01:03,660 --> 01:01:05,938 of your problems all through your prayers. 1015 01:01:07,422 --> 01:01:09,010 All right, baby, let's go. 1016 01:01:24,059 --> 01:01:24,681 Calvin. 1017 01:01:24,715 --> 01:01:25,923 Hey babe. 1018 01:01:25,958 --> 01:01:27,787 You won't believe the fantastic day 1019 01:01:27,822 --> 01:01:30,100 our little girl headed school today. 1020 01:01:30,134 --> 01:01:32,205 I'm all ears. What happened? 1021 01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:36,209 Well, when I picked her up, she was a live wire. 1022 01:01:36,244 --> 01:01:40,904 She was happy, excited, wouldn't stop talking about her day. 1023 01:01:40,938 --> 01:01:45,978 She said that everyone was shocked that she had hair. 1024 01:01:46,979 --> 01:01:48,670 I gathered they assumed she didn't 1025 01:01:48,705 --> 01:01:50,189 have hair under those braids. 1026 01:01:50,223 --> 01:01:54,814 Oh, our baby girl has hair. 1027 01:01:54,849 --> 01:01:57,748 I'm so glad we adopted her. 1028 01:01:58,784 --> 01:02:02,028 That's one of the best decisions we ever made. 1029 01:02:03,858 --> 01:02:05,031 Me too, daddy. 1030 01:02:05,825 --> 01:02:07,137 Me three. 1031 01:02:08,207 --> 01:02:12,383 And so the teacher made the girls apologize. 1032 01:02:12,418 --> 01:02:13,971 Hmm. 1033 01:02:14,006 --> 01:02:16,215 - I'm so glad that's over. - They're all cool now. 1034 01:02:16,249 --> 01:02:17,941 - Nice. - Yes. 1035 01:02:20,046 --> 01:02:25,086 Calvin, I am so sorry 1036 01:02:26,294 --> 01:02:28,296 for how I've treated you these last few months. 1037 01:02:31,023 --> 01:02:33,784 You've been spending so much time with Joy, 1038 01:02:33,819 --> 01:02:37,926 I just felt like I was not important. 1039 01:02:38,685 --> 01:02:41,965 Like I was neglected. 1040 01:02:45,900 --> 01:02:50,939 And I responded to you terribly, with no respect, 1041 01:02:51,768 --> 01:02:52,941 and no regards to your feelings. 1042 01:02:57,463 --> 01:02:59,603 I'm truly sorry. 1043 01:02:59,637 --> 01:03:01,053 Can you ever forgive me? 1044 01:03:02,433 --> 01:03:07,404 Babe, I wouldn't be a man of God if I didn't forgive you. 1045 01:03:09,406 --> 01:03:13,168 You are the best thing that ever happened to me. 1046 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:18,242 Even when you withdrew from us, nothing changed. 1047 01:03:19,174 --> 01:03:22,453 Joy increased our family size. 1048 01:03:22,488 --> 01:03:23,385 She didn't replace. 1049 01:03:24,421 --> 01:03:27,182 You are my wife. 1050 01:03:27,217 --> 01:03:31,186 I vowed to love you for better or for worse. 1051 01:03:33,154 --> 01:03:36,329 That was your worst. 1052 01:03:37,330 --> 01:03:39,194 I love you, Janice. 1053 01:03:39,229 --> 01:03:40,126 Love you too. 1054 01:03:42,819 --> 01:03:43,647 Ew! 1055 01:03:45,166 --> 01:03:47,030 Let me show you what's Ew, young lady. 1056 01:03:49,308 --> 01:03:49,964 Now that is Ew. 1057 01:03:51,137 --> 01:03:53,450 I bet you won't do that again. 1058 01:03:53,484 --> 01:03:55,003 Oh, you're right about that, 1059 01:03:55,038 --> 01:03:57,764 'cause from this day forth, that is mom's job. 1060 01:03:57,799 --> 01:03:59,663 Do y'all hear me, ladies? 1061 01:03:59,697 --> 01:04:01,734 We hear you. 1062 01:04:25,447 --> 01:04:28,071 I am not gonna be scared. I'm not gonna be scared. 1063 01:04:30,107 --> 01:04:33,421 God, please make that dog stop chasing me. 1064 01:04:51,335 --> 01:04:52,026 Okay. Okay. 1065 01:04:58,170 --> 01:05:00,551 Aw, she just wants to play. 1066 01:05:02,795 --> 01:05:03,692 So cute. 1067 01:05:05,108 --> 01:05:05,971 Aw. 1068 01:05:08,732 --> 01:05:11,079 I'm so glad you guys can make it. 1069 01:05:11,114 --> 01:05:14,358 This is gonna be so much fun. 1070 01:05:14,393 --> 01:05:15,290 I know, right? 1071 01:05:15,325 --> 01:05:17,914 I can't believe Savannah came too. 1072 01:05:17,948 --> 01:05:19,501 I wouldn't miss this for the world. 1073 01:05:35,759 --> 01:05:36,933 It's Rae. 1074 01:05:38,658 --> 01:05:40,143 That's UM to you. 1075 01:05:40,902 --> 01:05:44,043 Hey girl, hey, what is up? 1076 01:05:44,078 --> 01:05:45,320 Where are you on your way to? 1077 01:05:45,355 --> 01:05:46,701 Remember, I told you I was gonna start 1078 01:05:46,735 --> 01:05:47,805 doing private lessons. 1079 01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:49,048 Oh. 1080 01:05:49,083 --> 01:05:50,705 Seven times already. 1081 01:05:54,951 --> 01:05:58,955 My first is what he get-o. 1082 01:06:02,027 --> 01:06:05,237 My first one is right here in y'all's neighborhood. 1083 01:06:05,271 --> 01:06:08,481 Hi, UM. 1084 01:06:08,516 --> 01:06:10,138 You forgot her name? 1085 01:06:10,173 --> 01:06:13,038 No, that's what everyone calls her. 1086 01:06:13,072 --> 01:06:13,970 I'm a dancer. 1087 01:06:14,004 --> 01:06:16,041 My street name is UM. 1088 01:06:16,075 --> 01:06:17,387 What does it mean? 1089 01:06:17,421 --> 01:06:20,252 It stands for Unique Moves. 1090 01:06:20,286 --> 01:06:22,461 Can you show us some of your moves? 1091 01:06:22,495 --> 01:06:24,739 Now you know that's right up UM's alley, 1092 01:06:24,773 --> 01:06:26,568 to whip out some dance moves. 1093 01:06:28,122 --> 01:06:29,778 Don't be throwing no shake. 1094 01:06:29,813 --> 01:06:31,056 Girl, whatever. 1095 01:06:35,474 --> 01:06:36,509 My wife knows you. 1096 01:06:39,374 --> 01:06:40,237 Oh. 1097 01:06:43,206 --> 01:06:45,346 Joy, I would love to show you and your friends 1098 01:06:45,380 --> 01:06:48,383 some dance moves and I'll do it for free. 1099 01:06:48,418 --> 01:06:50,937 How else were they gonna pay you? 1100 01:06:50,972 --> 01:06:52,318 They don't have any money. 1101 01:06:53,250 --> 01:06:54,872 Girl, get on outta here. 1102 01:06:54,907 --> 01:06:57,323 She's good. You'll see. 1103 01:06:57,358 --> 01:06:58,083 Ready? 1104 01:06:58,117 --> 01:06:59,808 Five, six, seven, and one, two. 1105 01:07:01,258 --> 01:07:04,158 Hit the back and dig, dig. 1106 01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:12,545 Shake it. 1107 01:07:12,580 --> 01:07:13,270 Shake. 1108 01:07:14,513 --> 01:07:16,929 Whew, okay, I'm done for the night. 1109 01:07:16,963 --> 01:07:18,620 Watch out for that invoice, 1110 01:07:18,655 --> 01:07:21,140 because if they can't pay me, you gotta pay me. 1111 01:07:21,175 --> 01:07:22,590 Watch out for that invoice. 1112 01:07:22,624 --> 01:07:24,626 Time for my other lesson, y'all. 1113 01:07:24,661 --> 01:07:26,525 Sayonara. 1114 01:07:26,559 --> 01:07:28,044 See you later, UM. 1115 01:07:28,078 --> 01:07:29,114 Bye, UM. 1116 01:07:32,048 --> 01:07:35,085 Oh boy. That was cute. 1117 01:07:38,261 --> 01:07:41,436 Mercedes, what's that on your arm? 1118 01:07:43,714 --> 01:07:45,026 It looks like a bump. 1119 01:07:45,061 --> 01:07:46,924 Oh, that, I'm not sure. 1120 01:07:46,959 --> 01:07:48,409 It doesn't hurt or anything. 1121 01:07:48,443 --> 01:07:50,963 One day it wasn't there, but the next day it was. 1122 01:07:50,997 --> 01:07:52,309 This was recent too. 1123 01:07:53,414 --> 01:07:56,210 Mom, Mercedes has a lump on her arm. 1124 01:07:57,107 --> 01:07:59,109 - Where? - Right there? 1125 01:08:01,387 --> 01:08:05,357 Hmm, I don't know what this is. 1126 01:08:06,358 --> 01:08:07,531 Has your mom seen this? 1127 01:08:07,566 --> 01:08:08,912 Yes. 1128 01:08:08,946 --> 01:08:11,328 Since your mom is monitoring, I'm sure she's aware of it. 1129 01:08:12,605 --> 01:08:13,917 You see? 1130 01:08:13,951 --> 01:08:16,885 Hmm. It'll be okay. 1131 01:08:19,785 --> 01:08:21,614 Let's finish playing. 1132 01:08:21,649 --> 01:08:26,481 Okay, but first, let's pray for your lump to go away. 1133 01:08:27,862 --> 01:08:29,829 God can do miracles if we pray and believe together. 1134 01:08:29,864 --> 01:08:30,934 Sure. 1135 01:08:30,968 --> 01:08:32,384 I'll be right back. 1136 01:08:32,418 --> 01:08:33,316 Okay. 1137 01:08:50,471 --> 01:08:51,506 Hi God. 1138 01:08:51,541 --> 01:08:55,372 It's me, Joy, and my friend, Mercedes. 1139 01:08:55,407 --> 01:08:57,443 I have a favor to ask you. 1140 01:08:59,100 --> 01:09:02,241 God, your Word says, "For where two or three 1141 01:09:02,276 --> 01:09:04,278 "are gathered together in my name, 1142 01:09:04,312 --> 01:09:07,453 "there am I in the midst of them." 1143 01:09:08,903 --> 01:09:12,493 Well, Mercedes has a lump on our arm that needs healing. 1144 01:09:13,942 --> 01:09:17,877 She doesn't know what it is, but we want it to disappear 1145 01:09:17,912 --> 01:09:19,327 before it gets worse. 1146 01:09:20,121 --> 01:09:22,365 In Jesus' name. Amen. 1147 01:09:23,607 --> 01:09:24,712 Thank you Joy. 1148 01:09:24,746 --> 01:09:28,785 No one has ever prayed for me or my arm before. 1149 01:09:28,819 --> 01:09:30,580 Thank you very much. 1150 01:09:30,614 --> 01:09:31,305 You are welcome. 1151 01:09:45,940 --> 01:09:47,148 Hi, Mrs. Nelson. 1152 01:09:47,183 --> 01:09:48,977 Hi Mercedes. 1153 01:09:49,012 --> 01:09:51,014 Hi Janice. 1154 01:09:51,048 --> 01:09:52,257 Hi Sharon. 1155 01:09:52,291 --> 01:09:53,879 Is Joy around? 1156 01:09:53,913 --> 01:09:55,260 Yes. Joy? 1157 01:09:55,294 --> 01:09:56,916 Coming, mom. 1158 01:09:56,951 --> 01:09:58,711 Mercedes! 1159 01:09:58,746 --> 01:10:00,299 Hi Joy. 1160 01:10:00,334 --> 01:10:01,714 What are you doing here? 1161 01:10:01,749 --> 01:10:05,442 Joy, we couldn't wait to rush over here 1162 01:10:05,477 --> 01:10:09,584 and thank you for praying over Mercedes arm. 1163 01:10:09,619 --> 01:10:13,001 God heard your prayers and healed that lump. 1164 01:10:14,279 --> 01:10:16,695 Look, it's gone. 1165 01:10:17,799 --> 01:10:18,490 Wow. 1166 01:10:20,043 --> 01:10:21,355 Thank you Joy. 1167 01:10:21,976 --> 01:10:22,977 I told you, Mercedes. 1168 01:10:23,011 --> 01:10:25,290 Yeah, thanks, BFF. 1169 01:10:25,324 --> 01:10:29,984 Wait, Joy prayed over your arm. 1170 01:10:32,228 --> 01:10:33,470 She's very good at it too. 1171 01:10:35,058 --> 01:10:38,648 We were so thrilled about her lump disappearing 1172 01:10:38,682 --> 01:10:42,238 that we wanted to come and show you in person. 1173 01:10:42,272 --> 01:10:47,035 That's a miracle because I saw it with my own eyes. 1174 01:10:47,070 --> 01:10:48,899 Oh wow. 1175 01:10:48,934 --> 01:10:51,281 Our prayers were answered. 1176 01:10:52,317 --> 01:10:54,595 Yes, so we have to run some errands. 1177 01:10:54,629 --> 01:10:56,182 We gotta go. 1178 01:10:56,217 --> 01:10:57,080 Bye, Mercedes. 1179 01:10:57,114 --> 01:10:58,461 Bye, Joy. 1180 01:10:58,495 --> 01:11:00,808 Bye-Bye. 1181 01:11:00,842 --> 01:11:01,636 Alright. 1182 01:11:02,603 --> 01:11:03,880 Bye guys. 1183 01:11:03,914 --> 01:11:05,191 Bye. 1184 01:11:09,437 --> 01:11:11,128 What is going on in here? 1185 01:11:11,163 --> 01:11:14,097 Room is a mess. 1186 01:11:38,811 --> 01:11:40,088 Oh my goodness. 1187 01:11:49,546 --> 01:11:51,030 You messed them up. 1188 01:11:51,065 --> 01:11:52,618 Messed who up? 1189 01:11:52,653 --> 01:11:54,931 Your room was already a mess, sweetie. 1190 01:11:54,965 --> 01:11:58,279 My dolls, they're supposed to be right there. 1191 01:11:58,314 --> 01:11:59,487 Where's my phone? 1192 01:11:59,522 --> 01:12:02,732 Hey, hey, hey, what's going on here? 1193 01:12:02,766 --> 01:12:06,114 Joy's upset about me moving her dolls. 1194 01:12:06,149 --> 01:12:07,530 And my phone. 1195 01:12:07,564 --> 01:12:10,533 Sweetie, I'm sure Mommy was just trying to be helpful. 1196 01:12:11,741 --> 01:12:15,365 - I know, but-- - I'll put them back for you. 1197 01:12:15,400 --> 01:12:16,677 No, I'll do it 1198 01:12:16,711 --> 01:12:19,921 Honey, just let Joy rearrange her dolls back 1199 01:12:19,956 --> 01:12:20,819 the way she had 'em. 1200 01:12:21,854 --> 01:12:23,511 Okay. 1201 01:12:25,168 --> 01:12:26,583 And here's your phone. 1202 01:12:37,663 --> 01:12:40,597 In the North Bay... 1203 01:12:43,911 --> 01:12:48,571 Mom, dad, can I ask you a question? 1204 01:12:48,605 --> 01:12:52,402 Of course, sweetheart, you can ask us anything. 1205 01:12:52,437 --> 01:12:54,542 Why did you choose me? 1206 01:12:54,577 --> 01:12:56,613 I mean, there were so many other kids 1207 01:12:56,648 --> 01:12:58,960 who needed to be adopted. 1208 01:12:58,995 --> 01:12:59,754 Why me? 1209 01:13:05,622 --> 01:13:08,660 Joy, we need you 1210 01:13:08,694 --> 01:13:12,077 to understand the decision to adopt, 1211 01:13:12,111 --> 01:13:15,425 it's never about choosing one child over another. 1212 01:13:16,875 --> 01:13:21,604 It's about finding that special bond, a connection that goes 1213 01:13:22,328 --> 01:13:24,710 beyond anything else. 1214 01:13:24,745 --> 01:13:27,299 But how did you make a connection with me, 1215 01:13:27,333 --> 01:13:28,921 and we never met before. 1216 01:13:30,647 --> 01:13:32,684 When we first saw your picture, 1217 01:13:34,686 --> 01:13:36,515 we couldn't explain it, 1218 01:13:36,550 --> 01:13:41,244 but we felt an instant connection with you 1219 01:13:41,278 --> 01:13:42,556 through your picture. 1220 01:13:43,798 --> 01:13:47,492 And at that point, we knew in our spirit 1221 01:13:47,526 --> 01:13:51,254 that God wanted us three to become a family. 1222 01:13:51,288 --> 01:13:54,533 But there were so many other kids who needed families. 1223 01:13:54,568 --> 01:13:56,086 They would've been great too. 1224 01:13:58,364 --> 01:13:59,504 You are right, Joy. 1225 01:14:00,505 --> 01:14:03,680 There are so many incredible kids 1226 01:14:03,715 --> 01:14:07,028 that's deserving of loving families just like you. 1227 01:14:07,063 --> 01:14:11,274 But the truth is, we can't save every child. 1228 01:14:11,308 --> 01:14:16,521 All we knew is that we wanted to give a child a home, 1229 01:14:17,073 --> 01:14:18,661 a loving family. 1230 01:14:18,695 --> 01:14:22,388 And when we saw your picture, we knew immediately 1231 01:14:22,423 --> 01:14:25,150 that you were that child. 1232 01:14:26,772 --> 01:14:31,190 Joy, we didn't adopt you because we felt sorry for you 1233 01:14:32,468 --> 01:14:35,056 or because we thought you needed us. 1234 01:14:35,091 --> 01:14:38,957 We adopted you because we wanted you, Joy. 1235 01:14:40,406 --> 01:14:44,756 We wanted to be your parents and to share our lives with you 1236 01:14:46,171 --> 01:14:50,037 and to give you the love and support that you deserve. 1237 01:14:55,180 --> 01:14:56,388 My baby. 1238 01:14:56,422 --> 01:14:57,562 Where you going? 1239 01:15:03,844 --> 01:15:06,122 Joy is truly a blessing from God. 1240 01:15:09,470 --> 01:15:12,162 Her presence reminds us of how family 1241 01:15:12,197 --> 01:15:16,926 and life should be, full of love and laughter. 1242 01:15:18,652 --> 01:15:21,344 I'm eternally grateful unto God 1243 01:15:21,378 --> 01:15:23,380 for the gift of our daughter. 1244 01:15:23,415 --> 01:15:25,106 I agree. 1245 01:15:25,141 --> 01:15:28,627 And to think, she could have been placed somewhere else 1246 01:15:29,973 --> 01:15:33,321 Or waiting for a family to adopt her. 1247 01:15:34,391 --> 01:15:37,118 It was God's plan. 1248 01:15:37,153 --> 01:15:38,257 It was her time. 1249 01:15:40,536 --> 01:15:41,847 Thank you God. 1250 01:15:43,262 --> 01:15:45,299 I'm so glad you thought about adoption when you did. 1251 01:15:45,333 --> 01:15:46,749 It was the Holy Spirit. 1252 01:15:48,164 --> 01:15:51,443 Was that the same Holy Spirit that told you to marry me? 1253 01:15:51,477 --> 01:15:56,344 Yes it was. 1254 01:15:59,244 --> 01:16:01,626 - Mom. - Yes baby. 1255 01:16:01,660 --> 01:16:03,662 Can we play dress up? 1256 01:16:03,697 --> 01:16:06,389 Sure we can, but I don't know what to wear. 1257 01:16:06,423 --> 01:16:07,424 Can I dress you? 1258 01:16:07,459 --> 01:16:09,875 I'm not liking this already. 1259 01:16:09,910 --> 01:16:11,946 I'll get everything for you. 1260 01:16:11,981 --> 01:16:14,880 Well, in that case, I'm ready now. 1261 01:16:18,366 --> 01:16:22,232 But me, no, I'd be walking 1262 01:16:22,267 --> 01:16:24,131 around here looking all crazy. 1263 01:16:24,165 --> 01:16:25,270 Calvin. 1264 01:16:25,304 --> 01:16:26,305 Yeah? 1265 01:16:26,340 --> 01:16:27,686 I can hear you. 1266 01:16:27,721 --> 01:16:29,377 Love you honey. 1267 01:16:35,073 --> 01:16:36,695 Mom, I'll be in there shortly. 1268 01:16:36,730 --> 01:16:38,835 Okay sweetie. 1269 01:16:39,491 --> 01:16:41,597 Wait til Calvin sees me. 1270 01:16:41,631 --> 01:16:44,013 Okay, mom, are you ready? 1271 01:16:44,047 --> 01:16:46,153 Joy's gonna dress me up all pretty. 1272 01:16:48,604 --> 01:16:50,675 Ooh, don't you look pretty. 1273 01:16:50,709 --> 01:16:52,504 Is that my dress? 1274 01:16:52,538 --> 01:16:55,127 Yeah, it's called dress up, mommy. 1275 01:16:55,162 --> 01:16:56,301 Oh well you look cute. 1276 01:16:56,335 --> 01:16:57,026 Thanks. 1277 01:16:57,854 --> 01:16:58,648 You're welcome. 1278 01:16:58,683 --> 01:17:00,408 Now cover your eyes. 1279 01:17:00,443 --> 01:17:02,169 Close my eyes? 1280 01:17:02,203 --> 01:17:03,653 Yeah. 1281 01:17:03,688 --> 01:17:06,380 Sweetie, I promise my eyes will not get 1282 01:17:06,414 --> 01:17:08,796 in the way of you dressing me. 1283 01:17:08,831 --> 01:17:12,904 Okay, but you have to close them. 1284 01:17:12,938 --> 01:17:15,423 I don't wanna close my eyes. 1285 01:17:15,458 --> 01:17:16,735 It's too late. 1286 01:17:16,770 --> 01:17:18,564 I'll have to cover them now. 1287 01:17:18,599 --> 01:17:20,325 Okay. 1288 01:17:24,260 --> 01:17:27,021 Mommy, you're gonna look so beautiful. 1289 01:17:27,056 --> 01:17:29,852 But first I have to do your makeup. 1290 01:17:29,886 --> 01:17:33,372 Alright, but promise not to make me look crazy. 1291 01:17:33,407 --> 01:17:34,304 Okay. 1292 01:17:37,963 --> 01:17:40,586 ♪ Going to fly away ♪ 1293 01:17:40,621 --> 01:17:42,658 Is that the foundation? 1294 01:17:42,692 --> 01:17:44,314 Mm-hmm. 1295 01:17:44,349 --> 01:17:46,592 Okay. 1296 01:17:46,627 --> 01:17:49,147 ♪ Where I can hide away ♪ 1297 01:17:49,181 --> 01:17:51,597 Now time for lipstick. 1298 01:17:51,632 --> 01:17:53,323 Okay, wait a minute. 1299 01:17:54,566 --> 01:17:57,673 Wait a minute, what is on my lips? 1300 01:17:57,707 --> 01:17:58,501 Joy, you promised. 1301 01:18:00,503 --> 01:18:01,469 You're fired. 1302 01:18:02,574 --> 01:18:04,472 ♪ Life like summer ♪ 1303 01:18:06,371 --> 01:18:07,821 Daddy, come here. 1304 01:18:09,650 --> 01:18:10,927 ♪ Where the sun shines like ♪ 1305 01:18:10,962 --> 01:18:13,827 Whoa-ho, great job, Joy. 1306 01:18:15,138 --> 01:18:18,279 Now I must say, you made mommy look way better 1307 01:18:18,314 --> 01:18:19,695 than you did daddy. 1308 01:18:21,317 --> 01:18:24,769 And I said to myself, watch Joy make mommy look so pretty. 1309 01:18:24,803 --> 01:18:26,909 Like she's going out on a date. 1310 01:18:26,943 --> 01:18:29,739 Huh, you know what, it's a great idea. 1311 01:18:29,774 --> 01:18:31,707 Let's go ladies. 1312 01:18:31,741 --> 01:18:33,674 I say let's go right now, 1313 01:18:33,709 --> 01:18:35,607 but I need to see what I look like. 1314 01:18:35,641 --> 01:18:37,195 Good point. 1315 01:18:37,229 --> 01:18:37,920 Joy? 1316 01:18:39,231 --> 01:18:39,887 Alright. 1317 01:18:39,922 --> 01:18:41,993 Okay, hold the mirror. 1318 01:18:44,512 --> 01:18:45,410 Three, two, one. 1319 01:18:51,381 --> 01:18:53,487 Oh my-- 1320 01:18:54,488 --> 01:18:56,386 You like it? 1321 01:18:56,421 --> 01:18:57,629 Yes. 1322 01:18:57,663 --> 01:18:59,493 You promised to make me look beautiful. 1323 01:18:59,527 --> 01:19:00,425 You are beautiful. 1324 01:19:00,459 --> 01:19:01,840 I look beautiful? 1325 01:19:01,875 --> 01:19:04,601 Aw, you know I'm gonna get you back, right? 1326 01:19:04,636 --> 01:19:06,051 I am going to get you back. 1327 01:19:06,776 --> 01:19:08,019 Oh my goodness. 1328 01:19:08,053 --> 01:19:11,850 Well, well, well, who's looking crazy now? 1329 01:19:11,885 --> 01:19:12,678 We going out? 1330 01:19:12,713 --> 01:19:14,025 What are we gonna do? 1331 01:19:14,059 --> 01:19:15,129 What are we gonna do? What are we gonna do? 1332 01:19:15,164 --> 01:19:16,579 Mom, can I have your hand? 1333 01:19:16,613 --> 01:19:17,787 Yes. 1334 01:19:17,822 --> 01:19:19,133 Can I have your hand? 1335 01:19:19,168 --> 01:19:20,445 Yes. 1336 01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:21,273 Mom and dad, hold hands. 1337 01:19:21,308 --> 01:19:22,550 Okay. 1338 01:19:22,585 --> 01:19:25,001 Hi, God, it's me, Joy. 1339 01:19:25,036 --> 01:19:29,419 This time I have my mom and dad praying with me today. 1340 01:19:29,454 --> 01:19:32,871 Thank you for making me a part of their family 1341 01:19:32,906 --> 01:19:35,598 and for making our home happy again. 1342 01:19:35,632 --> 01:19:38,325 We love you so much. 1343 01:19:38,359 --> 01:19:39,153 In Jesus' name. 1344 01:19:39,188 --> 01:19:40,430 Amen. 1345 01:19:47,506 --> 01:19:49,163 - All right, let's go. - I'm hungry, let's go eat. 1346 01:19:49,198 --> 01:19:50,924 All right, come on. 1347 01:20:13,601 --> 01:20:15,914 Hi, God, it's me, Joy. 1348 01:20:15,949 --> 01:20:17,226 Guess what? 1349 01:20:17,260 --> 01:20:19,918 Sarah and Annie don't tease me anymore 1350 01:20:19,953 --> 01:20:22,334 and Mommy's heart is much nicer now, 1351 01:20:22,369 --> 01:20:25,027 and I'm not scared of the neighbor's dog next door.