1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 3 00:00:11,528 --> 00:00:14,117 [gentle dramatic music] 4 00:00:22,746 --> 00:00:26,302 [melancholic piano music] 5 00:00:34,620 --> 00:00:36,277 Oh, there you are. 6 00:00:37,727 --> 00:00:42,042 Honey, you're gonna have to stop doing this to yourself. 7 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:46,770 We're going to get through this, Janice, I promise. 8 00:00:50,705 --> 00:00:54,502 [melancholic music continues] 9 00:01:10,139 --> 00:01:14,246 [melancholic music continues] 10 00:01:30,331 --> 00:01:34,370 [melancholic music continues] 11 00:01:34,404 --> 00:01:37,925 [indistinct television chatter] 12 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:41,170 [television clicking] 13 00:01:46,382 --> 00:01:48,901 - Calvin, you seem a little distant. 14 00:01:48,936 --> 00:01:50,317 Is everything okay? 15 00:01:52,491 --> 00:01:55,322 You know, I've been thinking, 16 00:01:55,356 --> 00:01:57,876 I've been thinking a lot about our situation. 17 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,812 We both know that we can't have kids of our own. 18 00:02:05,194 --> 00:02:10,233 No, we tried everything. 19 00:02:13,409 --> 00:02:14,617 Not quite everything. 20 00:02:16,274 --> 00:02:20,450 - It didn't breaks my heart, just thinking about it. 21 00:02:23,039 --> 00:02:24,351 What can we do? 22 00:02:27,181 --> 00:02:28,596 There's one option left. 23 00:02:29,390 --> 00:02:31,392 We can consider adoption. 24 00:02:33,774 --> 00:02:37,571 Janice, there are so many kids out there who are in need 25 00:02:37,605 --> 00:02:41,678 of a loving home, and I believe our home can offer that. 26 00:02:44,267 --> 00:02:46,959 - Are you saying we can adopt a child? 27 00:02:46,994 --> 00:02:50,342 Yes, any age you want. 28 00:02:51,101 --> 00:02:54,139 We've built a strong foundation 29 00:02:54,174 --> 00:02:56,348 and I believe we can provide a secure 30 00:02:56,383 --> 00:02:58,799 and a nurturing environment. 31 00:02:58,833 --> 00:03:01,491 Plus, we have the space. 32 00:03:03,631 --> 00:03:06,255 You are right. 33 00:03:06,289 --> 00:03:09,499 We can definitely make a difference in a child's life. 34 00:03:09,534 --> 00:03:12,847 I mean, since we can't have our own children, 35 00:03:12,882 --> 00:03:14,746 I'm sure God would want us to be a blessing 36 00:03:14,780 --> 00:03:16,851 to another child who's in need of a home. 37 00:03:18,128 --> 00:03:20,372 So is that a yes? 38 00:03:22,132 --> 00:03:24,480 Yes! Yes! [laughing] 39 00:03:24,514 --> 00:03:26,309 - Let's reach out to Lita's Adoption Center 40 00:03:26,344 --> 00:03:28,346 and get this ball rolling. 41 00:03:28,380 --> 00:03:31,452 [Janice laughing] 42 00:03:36,802 --> 00:03:39,736 [gentle piano music] 43 00:03:42,946 --> 00:03:43,947 [knocking on door] 44 00:03:43,982 --> 00:03:46,087 Yes, come in. 45 00:03:46,122 --> 00:03:46,985 Hi, Ms. Bennett. 46 00:03:47,019 --> 00:03:47,986 [Delores] Hi. 47 00:03:48,020 --> 00:03:49,021 Here's Joy's file. 48 00:03:49,056 --> 00:03:50,402 Thank you so much. 49 00:03:50,437 --> 00:03:52,439 Waiting on this... 50 00:03:53,233 --> 00:03:54,441 Excellent. 51 00:03:54,475 --> 00:03:56,719 [uplifting piano music] 52 00:03:56,753 --> 00:03:58,030 New beginnings for Joy. 53 00:04:06,867 --> 00:04:10,008 All right, Calvin and Janice Nelson. 54 00:04:11,941 --> 00:04:13,322 [dialing phone] 55 00:04:13,356 --> 00:04:14,978 - Hey. - What's going on? 56 00:04:16,532 --> 00:04:18,913 - Like your flowers? - I do. Thank you. 57 00:04:18,948 --> 00:04:19,845 You are welcome. 58 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:20,881 You deserve 'em. 59 00:04:20,915 --> 00:04:21,916 Thank you. 60 00:04:21,951 --> 00:04:23,297 [phone ringing] 61 00:04:23,332 --> 00:04:24,643 - Pretty, ain't they? - Yeah. 62 00:04:25,748 --> 00:04:29,165 [Janice chuckling] 63 00:04:29,199 --> 00:04:32,858 - Hello? - Hi, this is Dolores Bennett. 64 00:04:32,893 --> 00:04:34,066 I'm calling from LAC. 65 00:04:35,585 --> 00:04:40,107 May I please speak with Calvin or Janice Nelson? 66 00:04:40,141 --> 00:04:41,281 This is Calvin. 67 00:04:42,523 --> 00:04:45,146 You say you're calling from where again? 68 00:04:45,181 --> 00:04:47,148 LAC, Lita's Adoption Center. 69 00:04:47,183 --> 00:04:48,771 Janice, come quickly. 70 00:04:51,221 --> 00:04:54,224 Yes, Ms. Bennett, both my wife and I are here right now. 71 00:04:54,259 --> 00:04:55,398 Awesome. 72 00:04:56,468 --> 00:04:59,368 Well, I am thrilled to inform you 73 00:04:59,402 --> 00:05:02,612 that everything on your application was approved. 74 00:05:02,647 --> 00:05:04,407 Am I hearing you correctly? 75 00:05:05,270 --> 00:05:06,858 Joy is our daughter now? 76 00:05:07,962 --> 00:05:11,587 Yes, ma'am. She is. 77 00:05:12,450 --> 00:05:14,555 When can we come get her? 78 00:05:14,590 --> 00:05:17,213 - Gimme a few days to finalize some paperwork 79 00:05:17,247 --> 00:05:19,284 and I will call you to schedule a day 80 00:05:19,319 --> 00:05:21,113 to pick up your daughter. 81 00:05:21,148 --> 00:05:22,252 Thank you. 82 00:05:22,287 --> 00:05:24,289 Thank you so much, Ms. Bennett. 83 00:05:24,324 --> 00:05:26,533 Yes, thank you, Ms. Bennett. 84 00:05:26,567 --> 00:05:29,018 We hope to see you in a few days. 85 00:05:29,052 --> 00:05:30,813 Okay, bye. 86 00:05:30,847 --> 00:05:32,884 - Bye-bye, see you soon. 87 00:05:32,918 --> 00:05:35,438 [uplifting music] 88 00:05:35,473 --> 00:05:36,991 [both laughing] 89 00:05:37,026 --> 00:05:38,199 My goodness. 90 00:05:38,234 --> 00:05:39,408 I cannot believe it. 91 00:05:39,442 --> 00:05:42,238 We are about to be parents. 92 00:05:42,272 --> 00:05:44,102 Wow, this is amazing, babe. 93 00:05:44,136 --> 00:05:47,347 - [Janice] This is so wonderful, thank you so much. 94 00:05:47,381 --> 00:05:48,831 [Calvin] We deserve it. 95 00:05:48,865 --> 00:05:50,280 [Janice] Yes, we do. 96 00:05:50,315 --> 00:05:53,387 [uplifting music] 97 00:06:10,266 --> 00:06:13,096 [uplifting music] 98 00:06:30,113 --> 00:06:33,013 [uplifting music] 99 00:06:50,340 --> 00:06:53,792 [uplifting dramatic music] 100 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,191 [uplifting music] 101 00:07:30,208 --> 00:07:33,176 [uplifting music] 102 00:07:47,156 --> 00:07:49,503 - It is so nice to see you again, Mr. and Mrs. Nelson. 103 00:07:49,538 --> 00:07:50,608 It's a pleasure. 104 00:07:50,642 --> 00:07:52,644 - Good to see you. - Thank you. 105 00:07:52,679 --> 00:07:57,718 You know, Joy is truly a special little girl. 106 00:07:58,754 --> 00:08:00,341 - All God's children are special. 107 00:08:00,376 --> 00:08:04,138 But what makes Joy so special? 108 00:08:04,173 --> 00:08:09,212 - Hmm, well, her situation is different from the other kids 109 00:08:10,110 --> 00:08:10,904 that are brought here. 110 00:08:14,424 --> 00:08:16,979 Both of her parents were killed in an accident. 111 00:08:17,013 --> 00:08:18,601 Oh, no. 112 00:08:20,948 --> 00:08:25,988 - Yeah, but she has such an incredible spirit. 113 00:08:27,092 --> 00:08:29,129 It just shines through every moment. 114 00:08:29,163 --> 00:08:30,544 You will see. 115 00:08:31,683 --> 00:08:34,065 Also your home will be the first home 116 00:08:34,099 --> 00:08:37,447 that she'll be moving into since she's been here. 117 00:08:37,482 --> 00:08:40,002 So what makes her special 118 00:08:41,382 --> 00:08:43,902 is her resilience. 119 00:08:45,145 --> 00:08:47,665 It's simply remarkable. 120 00:08:48,804 --> 00:08:51,531 And her imagination knows no limits. 121 00:08:52,877 --> 00:08:55,017 - Her story has touched our hearts deeply. 122 00:09:00,022 --> 00:09:03,750 We look forward to showering her with lots of love 123 00:09:03,784 --> 00:09:06,684 - And welcoming her into our family. 124 00:09:06,718 --> 00:09:09,687 We promise to provide a nurturing 125 00:09:09,721 --> 00:09:13,760 and supportive environment for her to grow and blossom. 126 00:09:13,794 --> 00:09:14,726 Yes. 127 00:09:14,761 --> 00:09:16,901 - Well, if you are ready for her, 128 00:09:16,935 --> 00:09:19,386 I'll call and have them bring her down. 129 00:09:19,420 --> 00:09:20,318 Yes. 130 00:09:21,457 --> 00:09:23,321 Alright, let's do it. 131 00:09:23,355 --> 00:09:25,875 [dialing phone] 132 00:09:29,292 --> 00:09:32,986 Yes, can you bring Joy down to my office right away, please? 133 00:09:33,020 --> 00:09:33,952 Thank you so much. 134 00:09:35,678 --> 00:09:36,852 She's on the way. 135 00:09:38,163 --> 00:09:40,200 - I can't believe we're waiting on our daughter, 136 00:09:40,234 --> 00:09:44,653 - Janice, we're going home today with our daughter. 137 00:09:48,553 --> 00:09:49,830 [chuckling] 138 00:09:49,865 --> 00:09:50,762 Oh. 139 00:10:03,568 --> 00:10:05,294 Hi. 140 00:10:05,328 --> 00:10:06,226 Thank you so much. 141 00:10:06,260 --> 00:10:06,951 Baby. 142 00:10:09,574 --> 00:10:14,234 Well, Joy, meet your new mom and dad. 143 00:10:15,994 --> 00:10:17,996 Hi, I'm Joy. 144 00:10:18,031 --> 00:10:20,792 - I'm your mom and that's your dad. 145 00:10:22,483 --> 00:10:25,625 - Can I call you mommy and daddy? 146 00:10:25,659 --> 00:10:28,075 Yes, sweetheart, of course. 147 00:10:36,014 --> 00:10:39,880 Thank you for believing in us 148 00:10:39,915 --> 00:10:42,193 and entrusting us with Joy's future. 149 00:10:43,608 --> 00:10:45,610 We will cherish her 150 00:10:45,645 --> 00:10:48,682 and give her all the love that she deserves. 151 00:10:48,717 --> 00:10:50,684 I knew from the very beginning 152 00:10:50,719 --> 00:10:54,170 that Joy was a perfect match for your family, 153 00:10:55,309 --> 00:10:57,277 and I have no doubt 154 00:10:57,311 --> 00:11:00,314 that you all would take excellent care of her. 155 00:11:01,350 --> 00:11:03,628 Congratulations again. 156 00:11:03,663 --> 00:11:04,698 Thank you. 157 00:11:04,733 --> 00:11:06,217 Thank you, 158 00:11:06,251 --> 00:11:07,287 Joy, you ready? 159 00:11:07,321 --> 00:11:08,322 Yeah. 160 00:11:08,357 --> 00:11:09,323 All right. 161 00:11:15,364 --> 00:11:16,261 All right, let's go. 162 00:11:16,296 --> 00:11:17,573 It's been a pleasure. 163 00:11:17,607 --> 00:11:18,678 Thank you, 164 00:11:23,303 --> 00:11:27,203 [footsteps pattering] 165 00:11:27,238 --> 00:11:29,827 [birds chirping] 166 00:11:30,862 --> 00:11:33,762 [door clicking] 167 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:40,769 Honey, how was school today? 168 00:11:40,803 --> 00:11:42,011 It was okay. 169 00:11:43,150 --> 00:11:45,221 - The look on your face says otherwise. 170 00:11:47,396 --> 00:11:49,985 Joy, did something happen? 171 00:11:51,055 --> 00:11:53,782 - It was fine until they started teasing me. 172 00:11:54,748 --> 00:11:58,062 - Who was teasing you, and about what? 173 00:11:58,096 --> 00:12:01,272 - The girls in my class keep saying, I don't have any hair, 174 00:12:01,306 --> 00:12:03,861 and that's why I get hair extensions. 175 00:12:04,758 --> 00:12:06,518 - You know there's no truth to that 176 00:12:06,553 --> 00:12:08,348 so you shouldn't let that bother you. 177 00:12:10,419 --> 00:12:12,041 Sweetie? 178 00:12:12,076 --> 00:12:13,249 I'll try. 179 00:12:14,457 --> 00:12:17,115 Oh, don't forget my birthday invitations. 180 00:12:18,703 --> 00:12:20,118 They're right here. 181 00:12:20,153 --> 00:12:22,189 - Can I fill them out when we get home? 182 00:12:23,190 --> 00:12:25,503 - Why don't you do that tomorrow? 183 00:12:25,537 --> 00:12:27,608 That'll give you something to do. 184 00:12:27,643 --> 00:12:28,540 - Okay. - Okay. 185 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:32,510 [engine turning over] 186 00:12:32,544 --> 00:12:35,444 [asphalt crunching] 187 00:12:35,478 --> 00:12:37,101 [door clicking] 188 00:12:37,135 --> 00:12:39,379 [Joy panting] 189 00:12:39,413 --> 00:12:40,483 I made it. 190 00:12:41,588 --> 00:12:42,796 What did you make, honey? 191 00:12:42,831 --> 00:12:44,315 Oh, nothing. 192 00:12:52,357 --> 00:12:53,980 Hey, good morning, babe. 193 00:12:54,014 --> 00:12:54,635 Hey. 194 00:12:54,670 --> 00:12:55,567 Hey. 195 00:12:57,155 --> 00:13:00,572 - Mommy, Daddy, I finished all my birthday invitations. 196 00:13:00,607 --> 00:13:01,988 Great job, sweetheart. 197 00:13:03,161 --> 00:13:07,131 So how many kids are you inviting? 198 00:13:07,165 --> 00:13:10,237 - I used all the invitations mommy gave me. 199 00:13:10,272 --> 00:13:11,342 Huh. 200 00:13:11,376 --> 00:13:14,069 Janice, how many invitations did you buy? 201 00:13:14,103 --> 00:13:18,280 - Oh, I just bought two packs of 24 in each. 202 00:13:18,314 --> 00:13:20,454 - She's inviting 48 little people. 203 00:13:20,489 --> 00:13:21,697 [Joy laughing] 204 00:13:21,731 --> 00:13:23,009 Not funny, Joy. 205 00:13:23,043 --> 00:13:25,287 48 isn't a lot, babe. 206 00:13:25,321 --> 00:13:28,842 That's why it's called a party with a lot of guests. 207 00:13:28,877 --> 00:13:31,155 - Honey, that's like a field trip 208 00:13:31,189 --> 00:13:35,228 with a whole class of second graders running around. 209 00:13:35,262 --> 00:13:38,990 - Daddy, you can run around and play with us too. 210 00:13:39,025 --> 00:13:40,820 - Run around and play with y'all? 211 00:13:40,854 --> 00:13:42,373 Lemme tell you something: 212 00:13:42,407 --> 00:13:44,651 If dad starts running, it's gonna be right out of that door 213 00:13:44,685 --> 00:13:46,618 until the party is over. 214 00:13:46,653 --> 00:13:47,447 [Joy giggling] 215 00:13:47,481 --> 00:13:49,449 [Janice laughing] 216 00:13:49,483 --> 00:13:51,071 Daddy? No. 217 00:13:51,106 --> 00:13:54,143 Then you'd miss all the noise and all the fun? 218 00:13:54,178 --> 00:13:57,215 - Joy, the noise would be dad's reason for running out 219 00:13:57,250 --> 00:14:00,322 of that door in the first place, okay? [laughing] 220 00:14:00,356 --> 00:14:02,842 Listen, you're gonna have to take some 221 00:14:02,876 --> 00:14:05,120 of those names off the list, okay? 222 00:14:05,154 --> 00:14:05,948 Okay. 223 00:14:08,364 --> 00:14:09,434 I removed two. 224 00:14:10,504 --> 00:14:12,161 Honey... 225 00:14:12,196 --> 00:14:15,337 Here, you can't invite your whole class. 226 00:14:16,925 --> 00:14:20,238 Take 10 of these invitations, okay, 227 00:14:20,273 --> 00:14:23,034 who you really want to celebrate with, okay? 228 00:14:24,104 --> 00:14:25,312 Okay. 229 00:14:25,347 --> 00:14:26,555 - Take those invitations, give 'em to your mom. 230 00:14:26,589 --> 00:14:27,936 Alright. 231 00:14:32,492 --> 00:14:33,803 Here you go. 232 00:14:33,838 --> 00:14:34,977 Thank you, baby. 233 00:14:35,012 --> 00:14:37,911 [cards tapping] 234 00:14:41,121 --> 00:14:42,571 [indistinct TV chatter] 235 00:14:42,605 --> 00:14:44,159 - [Newscaster] A potential of some shallow landslides 236 00:14:44,193 --> 00:14:45,885 and the potential of some severe thunderstorms. 237 00:14:45,919 --> 00:14:48,404 So get out the door right now before noon, 238 00:14:48,439 --> 00:14:50,510 especially if you live in the North Bay. 239 00:14:50,544 --> 00:14:53,306 We're gonna be watching some severe thunderstorm potential-- 240 00:14:53,340 --> 00:14:56,896 - Why are you trying to make Joy reduce her guest list? 241 00:14:56,930 --> 00:14:59,174 That's way too many kids 242 00:14:59,208 --> 00:15:01,486 for a seven year old's party. 243 00:15:01,521 --> 00:15:04,524 If Joy wanted her whole class to be at this celebration, 244 00:15:04,558 --> 00:15:06,836 then why don't we just move a party to a classroom? 245 00:15:06,871 --> 00:15:08,321 - Because they will only allow them 246 00:15:08,355 --> 00:15:10,840 to have a 20 minute cupcake break, 247 00:15:10,875 --> 00:15:12,359 and then back to school work. 248 00:15:13,533 --> 00:15:14,637 Okay, and? 249 00:15:14,672 --> 00:15:17,088 The problem with that is? 250 00:15:17,123 --> 00:15:19,090 She's turning seven, not 70. 251 00:15:19,125 --> 00:15:21,368 Are you serious right now? 252 00:15:21,403 --> 00:15:23,025 You got it twisted. 253 00:15:23,060 --> 00:15:27,616 A 70-year-old should have a 20 minute cupcake party, 254 00:15:27,650 --> 00:15:29,342 not a 7-year-old. 255 00:15:29,376 --> 00:15:31,758 They want to run around and have fun 256 00:15:31,792 --> 00:15:33,449 and be loud for hours. 257 00:15:33,484 --> 00:15:38,523 - Exactly, and that's what I don't want here in our house. 258 00:15:39,317 --> 00:15:41,216 Honey, look, do the math. 259 00:15:41,250 --> 00:15:43,632 What comes with 48 kids? 260 00:15:43,666 --> 00:15:45,841 I don't know, gifts? 261 00:15:45,875 --> 00:15:48,982 - 48 parents will arrive with these kids. 262 00:15:49,017 --> 00:15:50,984 That's 96 guests. 263 00:15:51,019 --> 00:15:54,194 And that's not even including our family members. 264 00:15:54,229 --> 00:15:57,025 - I really don't see the problem. 265 00:15:57,059 --> 00:15:58,233 It's a party. 266 00:15:58,267 --> 00:16:00,304 Where is your party spirit? 267 00:16:00,338 --> 00:16:02,202 It won't be here on that day 268 00:16:02,237 --> 00:16:04,894 because I'll be the one left behind having to clean up 269 00:16:04,929 --> 00:16:07,621 after darn near 100 people. 270 00:16:09,002 --> 00:16:12,281 So Joy won't be using nowhere near the amount 271 00:16:12,316 --> 00:16:14,732 of invitations that you've bought. 272 00:16:14,766 --> 00:16:15,836 Whatever. 273 00:16:15,871 --> 00:16:17,321 I'm serious, Janice, 274 00:16:17,355 --> 00:16:20,496 - You and Joy can go to church tomorrow. 275 00:16:21,532 --> 00:16:22,636 [sighing] Really? 276 00:16:22,671 --> 00:16:25,122 Another Sunday you won't be attending church. 277 00:16:25,156 --> 00:16:28,021 - You and I both know they could care less about them people 278 00:16:28,056 --> 00:16:30,058 up in that church. 279 00:16:30,092 --> 00:16:31,852 All they care about is they tithes, 280 00:16:31,887 --> 00:16:34,372 and that's all that matters. 281 00:16:34,407 --> 00:16:37,375 - Don't worry, I'll ask God to forgive you for that comment. 282 00:16:37,410 --> 00:16:39,653 - And while you at it, don't forget to tell God 283 00:16:39,688 --> 00:16:42,691 how controlling you trying to be about Joy's party. 284 00:16:42,725 --> 00:16:44,037 Goodnight. 285 00:16:49,663 --> 00:16:51,251 Is mom coming later? 286 00:16:52,563 --> 00:16:55,186 No, I don't think so. 287 00:16:55,221 --> 00:17:00,295 - Ephesians, chapter four, verse 32. 288 00:17:02,780 --> 00:17:06,335 God says, "Be kind to one another. 289 00:17:06,370 --> 00:17:08,820 [audience murmuring in agreement] 290 00:17:08,855 --> 00:17:10,167 "Forgive one another..." 291 00:17:11,823 --> 00:17:13,515 The same way God forgave you. 292 00:17:13,549 --> 00:17:14,964 [audience murmuring in agreement] 293 00:17:14,999 --> 00:17:17,450 Because we know that when the kindness 294 00:17:17,484 --> 00:17:20,522 and the love of God, our savior, when He appeared, 295 00:17:21,661 --> 00:17:22,696 He saved us. 296 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:27,046 And not because of some righteous thing that we had done, 297 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:29,979 but because of His mercy. 298 00:17:30,014 --> 00:17:31,188 [Congregant] Preach. 299 00:17:32,361 --> 00:17:35,433 - So always remember to pray first 300 00:17:36,331 --> 00:17:38,712 and to think before reacting 301 00:17:38,747 --> 00:17:42,406 because God is always watching. 302 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:43,062 Amen. 303 00:17:43,096 --> 00:17:45,547 [audience applauding] 304 00:17:45,581 --> 00:17:46,341 You too. 305 00:17:46,375 --> 00:17:48,481 You guys have a blessed weekend 306 00:17:48,515 --> 00:17:50,931 and I will see you next Sunday. 307 00:17:50,966 --> 00:17:51,967 Amen. 308 00:17:52,001 --> 00:17:55,315 [audience applauding] 309 00:17:56,730 --> 00:17:58,594 That was good, ready to go? 310 00:17:58,629 --> 00:17:59,699 Yep. 311 00:17:59,733 --> 00:18:02,426 - Hey, Brother Calvin, you have a minute? 312 00:18:02,460 --> 00:18:03,358 Sure. 313 00:18:04,048 --> 00:18:05,981 How's everything going? 314 00:18:06,015 --> 00:18:07,914 Everything's fine. 315 00:18:07,948 --> 00:18:09,709 And Sister Janice? 316 00:18:09,743 --> 00:18:11,262 She's fine. 317 00:18:11,297 --> 00:18:13,471 Is there something particularly you're trying to ask about? 318 00:18:13,506 --> 00:18:15,301 - Well, it's just, I haven't seen her 319 00:18:15,335 --> 00:18:17,889 over the past few weeks, and you know, 320 00:18:17,924 --> 00:18:19,305 church attendance is everything. 321 00:18:19,339 --> 00:18:20,582 Well, she's fine. 322 00:18:20,616 --> 00:18:22,860 I guess she just wanted to take a little break. 323 00:18:22,894 --> 00:18:24,172 A break from church? 324 00:18:24,206 --> 00:18:25,414 [Calvin] Yeah. 325 00:18:25,449 --> 00:18:26,312 - Well, now you know God don't want us 326 00:18:26,346 --> 00:18:27,968 taking breaks from church. 327 00:18:28,003 --> 00:18:30,454 Well, you know Janice. 328 00:18:30,488 --> 00:18:34,906 Janice does what she wants when she wants. 329 00:18:34,941 --> 00:18:36,701 At least Joy and I here every Sunday. 330 00:18:36,736 --> 00:18:37,909 Daddy, daddy. 331 00:18:37,944 --> 00:18:39,773 Church is like school? 332 00:18:39,808 --> 00:18:42,638 They take attendance too? 333 00:18:42,673 --> 00:18:47,160 - Well look at Joy, asking about church attendance already. 334 00:18:47,195 --> 00:18:49,576 You gotta catch 'em while they're young. 335 00:18:49,611 --> 00:18:53,062 And yes, attendance in church is very important. 336 00:18:53,097 --> 00:18:56,894 - Why? - Well, when you miss church, 337 00:18:56,928 --> 00:18:58,930 you're missing valuable lessons 338 00:18:58,965 --> 00:19:01,278 directly from God's teaching. 339 00:19:01,312 --> 00:19:05,627 - I have two teachers, Ms. Anderson in school, 340 00:19:05,661 --> 00:19:07,111 and one at church. 341 00:19:07,146 --> 00:19:09,078 You have four teachers, 342 00:19:09,113 --> 00:19:11,736 your teacher at school, your pastor, 343 00:19:11,771 --> 00:19:13,117 your mom and I. 344 00:19:13,152 --> 00:19:14,567 Oh, speaking of your mom, 345 00:19:14,601 --> 00:19:17,915 I think we better be heading that way pretty soon. 346 00:19:17,949 --> 00:19:19,088 Pastor, have a great week. 347 00:19:19,123 --> 00:19:20,400 See you next Sunday. 348 00:19:20,435 --> 00:19:22,091 - Alright, and make sure you bring the Missus. 349 00:19:22,126 --> 00:19:23,714 I won't forget to invite her. 350 00:19:23,748 --> 00:19:26,510 Now whether she comes or not, that's totally up to her. 351 00:19:27,856 --> 00:19:28,822 Have a blessed day, Pastor. 352 00:19:28,857 --> 00:19:29,651 Alright, you too. 353 00:19:29,685 --> 00:19:30,445 Stay blessed, brother. 354 00:19:30,479 --> 00:19:31,377 Yes sir. 355 00:19:32,585 --> 00:19:33,206 Praise God. 356 00:19:33,241 --> 00:19:35,381 Great service, right? 357 00:19:36,830 --> 00:19:38,246 Great work. 358 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:39,212 - [Pastor] I'm so glad you enjoyed it. 359 00:19:39,247 --> 00:19:40,420 This is my grand-baby, Summer. 360 00:19:40,455 --> 00:19:42,215 - [Pastor] How're you doing, Summer? 361 00:19:42,250 --> 00:19:45,977 [children singing faintly] 362 00:19:53,295 --> 00:19:55,297 Is that your real hair? 363 00:19:55,332 --> 00:19:57,403 No, it's extensions. 364 00:19:57,437 --> 00:19:59,957 - Why do you wear extensions every day? 365 00:19:59,991 --> 00:20:01,441 Because I like them. 366 00:20:01,476 --> 00:20:04,237 I don't ask you why do you wear your hair like that? 367 00:20:04,272 --> 00:20:05,445 I know why. 368 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:06,860 She doesn't have any hair. 369 00:20:06,895 --> 00:20:09,069 [girls laughing] 370 00:20:09,104 --> 00:20:13,212 - Is that the reason, Joy-with-no-hair? 371 00:20:13,246 --> 00:20:14,903 [girls laughing] 372 00:20:14,937 --> 00:20:17,595 God says we shouldn't judge. 373 00:20:17,630 --> 00:20:20,633 - God says, say it with me-- 374 00:20:20,667 --> 00:20:23,981 - [Both] God says we shouldn't judge. 375 00:20:24,015 --> 00:20:25,948 But we're not judging. 376 00:20:25,983 --> 00:20:27,364 We're stating facts. 377 00:20:27,398 --> 00:20:29,435 You don't have hair. 378 00:20:29,469 --> 00:20:31,230 Just because I have braids doesn't mean 379 00:20:31,264 --> 00:20:32,955 I don't have hair, Sarah. 380 00:20:32,990 --> 00:20:33,991 Yes it does. 381 00:20:34,025 --> 00:20:35,372 No it doesn't. 382 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,593 - Hey, Mr. Nelson. - Hey Ms. Brown. 383 00:20:53,079 --> 00:20:54,977 [bell ringing] 384 00:20:55,012 --> 00:20:57,808 [ambient chatter] 385 00:21:06,334 --> 00:21:07,611 [door clicking] 386 00:21:07,645 --> 00:21:09,026 Hey Joy. 387 00:21:09,060 --> 00:21:11,753 - Hi Dad. - Where's the joy today? 388 00:21:11,787 --> 00:21:16,136 - It was okay until Sarah and Annie started teasing me again 389 00:21:16,171 --> 00:21:18,035 about my braids. 390 00:21:18,069 --> 00:21:20,106 - Maybe they like your hairstyle, 391 00:21:20,140 --> 00:21:21,728 but just don't know how to show it. 392 00:21:22,591 --> 00:21:24,317 They don't like it, dad. 393 00:21:24,352 --> 00:21:25,836 They were making fun of me 394 00:21:25,870 --> 00:21:28,045 of wearing my braids all the time. 395 00:21:28,079 --> 00:21:30,530 - Well, they don't need to come to your party then. 396 00:21:30,565 --> 00:21:33,084 We want friendly, happy kids at your party. 397 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,327 Not troublemakers. 398 00:21:34,362 --> 00:21:35,742 [Joy laughing] 399 00:21:35,777 --> 00:21:37,226 What's funny? 400 00:21:37,261 --> 00:21:39,436 - They are troublemakers in school. 401 00:21:39,470 --> 00:21:41,817 How did you know that, dad? 402 00:21:41,852 --> 00:21:45,165 - Oh, I've had my fair share of troublemakers in life. 403 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,720 Unfortunately, it won't be your last. 404 00:21:47,754 --> 00:21:50,861 So are you inviting them to your party? 405 00:21:50,895 --> 00:21:52,000 No. 406 00:21:52,034 --> 00:21:55,590 I didn't invite Sarah or Annie to my birthday party. 407 00:21:59,352 --> 00:22:01,458 - Hey, don't forget your backpack, honey. 408 00:22:01,492 --> 00:22:03,598 - Can we stay in the car a little longer? 409 00:22:03,632 --> 00:22:05,496 - Why? - I'm scared. 410 00:22:05,531 --> 00:22:07,256 Scared, of what? 411 00:22:07,291 --> 00:22:09,431 The dog next door. 412 00:22:09,466 --> 00:22:11,813 Oh, she's harmless. 413 00:22:11,847 --> 00:22:14,988 - She chases me every time I get out of the car. 414 00:22:15,023 --> 00:22:16,404 Like she's on a mission. 415 00:22:16,438 --> 00:22:19,061 - She doesn't want to attack you. 416 00:22:19,096 --> 00:22:20,580 She's a friendly dog. 417 00:22:30,832 --> 00:22:33,869 Joy, will you get out of the car? 418 00:22:34,939 --> 00:22:36,424 Okay. 419 00:22:36,458 --> 00:22:39,358 [door clicking] 420 00:22:42,878 --> 00:22:44,915 [yapping] 421 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:53,993 [Joy panting] 422 00:22:54,027 --> 00:22:55,719 Did you see that Dad? 423 00:22:55,753 --> 00:22:58,411 She's trying to attack me. 424 00:22:58,446 --> 00:23:01,138 Why can't she stay in her yard? 425 00:23:01,172 --> 00:23:03,485 - She's not trying to attack you. 426 00:23:04,452 --> 00:23:05,798 Get in there. 427 00:23:05,832 --> 00:23:08,248 Okay. 428 00:23:08,283 --> 00:23:10,941 [upbeat music] 429 00:23:10,975 --> 00:23:13,806 [children laughing] 430 00:23:22,055 --> 00:23:25,887 ♪ Even if I'm far away, I think about you every day ♪ 431 00:23:25,921 --> 00:23:28,476 ♪ And now I just wish you could stay ♪ 432 00:23:28,510 --> 00:23:29,753 ♪ For another week or two ♪ 433 00:23:29,787 --> 00:23:33,066 ♪ I'd take you wherever you want, girl ♪ 434 00:23:33,101 --> 00:23:35,552 [door chiming] 435 00:23:37,174 --> 00:23:38,589 I'll get it. 436 00:23:39,866 --> 00:23:41,212 - Thanks for managing the door, Brittany. 437 00:23:41,247 --> 00:23:42,421 You're welcome. 438 00:23:49,428 --> 00:23:50,498 Hi. 439 00:23:54,778 --> 00:23:56,469 Oh, Joy, let's play a game. 440 00:23:56,504 --> 00:23:57,712 What game, Brittany? 441 00:23:57,746 --> 00:23:59,023 The game we always play 442 00:24:00,059 --> 00:24:00,956 This... 443 00:24:02,130 --> 00:24:04,753 [upbeat music] 444 00:24:16,075 --> 00:24:19,112 [children chattering] 445 00:24:30,641 --> 00:24:33,541 [upbeat music] 446 00:24:41,928 --> 00:24:44,828 - Honey, I told you I didn't want a lot of guests showing up 447 00:24:44,862 --> 00:24:49,142 to Joy's party, but more and more are showing up. 448 00:24:49,177 --> 00:24:50,385 Can you not? 449 00:24:50,419 --> 00:24:51,697 It's Joy's party. 450 00:24:51,731 --> 00:24:53,353 That's why more people are coming. 451 00:24:53,388 --> 00:24:55,494 [indistinct chatter] 452 00:24:55,528 --> 00:24:57,496 - I hear a certain little one's celebrating 453 00:24:57,530 --> 00:24:59,567 their seventh birthday. 454 00:24:59,601 --> 00:25:00,844 Auntie Kay. 455 00:25:00,878 --> 00:25:03,502 Hey Joy. Happy birthday. 456 00:25:03,536 --> 00:25:05,952 Here, I have something for you. 457 00:25:07,402 --> 00:25:10,163 What is it, Auntie Kay? 458 00:25:10,198 --> 00:25:12,752 - Do you wants your Auntie Kay to tell you what it is? 459 00:25:12,787 --> 00:25:15,721 - You go put that gift with the other gifts and go play. 460 00:25:16,687 --> 00:25:18,240 Thanks Auntie Kay. 461 00:25:18,275 --> 00:25:19,345 I love you. 462 00:25:19,379 --> 00:25:20,933 Oh, I love you too, Joy. 463 00:25:23,142 --> 00:25:25,558 Hey big bro. Hey Janice. 464 00:25:25,593 --> 00:25:26,835 - Hey sis. - Hey, Kay. 465 00:25:26,870 --> 00:25:28,354 I didn't think you were gonna make it. 466 00:25:28,388 --> 00:25:31,391 - I wouldn't have missed my niece's party for nothing. 467 00:25:31,426 --> 00:25:32,945 You're such a spoiler. 468 00:25:32,979 --> 00:25:35,568 - Now, the rest of y'all's birthdays, [laughing] 469 00:25:35,603 --> 00:25:37,052 that's a different story. 470 00:25:38,675 --> 00:25:42,541 Whoa, she had a really nice turnout. 471 00:25:43,645 --> 00:25:45,302 Too many people. 472 00:25:45,336 --> 00:25:49,133 I specifically told Janice not to invite a lot of people. 473 00:25:50,928 --> 00:25:54,207 But you completely disregarded what I said. 474 00:25:55,864 --> 00:25:59,592 - Well, I mean, I didn't mean to start anything, but... 475 00:25:59,627 --> 00:26:02,491 - Look, Calvin, I'm not having this conversation 476 00:26:02,526 --> 00:26:04,804 with you now or later. 477 00:26:04,839 --> 00:26:07,669 This party will go as I plan. 478 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,191 - Sweetie, are you having fun? - Yes. 479 00:26:13,192 --> 00:26:15,021 But are you my mom happy? 480 00:26:15,056 --> 00:26:16,540 Of course. 481 00:26:16,575 --> 00:26:17,783 Mommy and daddy are just having 482 00:26:17,817 --> 00:26:19,647 a little conversation right now. 483 00:26:20,475 --> 00:26:22,960 About my party isn't it? 484 00:26:22,995 --> 00:26:25,169 - Now you go finish playing with your guests. 485 00:26:25,204 --> 00:26:26,067 Yeah, go have fun. 486 00:26:26,101 --> 00:26:26,792 We're fine. 487 00:26:28,966 --> 00:26:29,864 Okay. 488 00:26:30,968 --> 00:26:34,213 Mommy, are you excited like I am? 489 00:26:34,247 --> 00:26:35,801 Of course she is. 490 00:26:35,835 --> 00:26:39,390 The party's going just as she planned. 491 00:26:39,425 --> 00:26:40,702 It's your special day. 492 00:26:40,737 --> 00:26:41,910 Now go have some fun. 493 00:26:42,773 --> 00:26:45,983 [indistinct chatter] 494 00:26:50,332 --> 00:26:52,265 Are you happy now, Calvin. 495 00:26:52,300 --> 00:26:54,060 Thanks to you, Joy's upset now. 496 00:27:01,136 --> 00:27:02,586 - Who's ready to sing "Happy Birthday?" 497 00:27:02,621 --> 00:27:04,553 [children cheering] 498 00:27:04,588 --> 00:27:07,798 [gentle piano music] 499 00:27:19,361 --> 00:27:22,882 ♪ May God bless you ♪ 500 00:27:22,917 --> 00:27:26,437 ♪ in whatever you do ♪ 501 00:27:26,472 --> 00:27:29,924 ♪ May God bless you ♪ 502 00:27:29,958 --> 00:27:33,548 ♪ May on your dreams come true ♪ 503 00:27:33,582 --> 00:27:37,586 [cheering and applauding] 504 00:27:37,621 --> 00:27:40,348 Which one do you wanna open? 505 00:27:40,382 --> 00:27:41,176 That one? 506 00:27:41,211 --> 00:27:41,901 Okay. 507 00:27:48,218 --> 00:27:49,115 A phone. 508 00:27:50,496 --> 00:27:52,671 Oh wait, who am I gonna call? 509 00:27:52,705 --> 00:27:55,087 I don't have anyone's number. 510 00:27:55,121 --> 00:27:56,951 - I'm sure you'll find someone to talk to. 511 00:27:56,985 --> 00:27:59,539 - How about you open up your next gift. 512 00:27:59,574 --> 00:28:01,990 - This is the best gift ever, Auntie Kay. 513 00:28:03,992 --> 00:28:05,511 You really like that phone? 514 00:28:05,545 --> 00:28:07,616 Now, I don't know who you gonna call, 515 00:28:07,651 --> 00:28:10,274 but how about you open up your other gifts. 516 00:28:10,309 --> 00:28:13,450 - Can I open my gifts later and go play? 517 00:28:13,484 --> 00:28:14,382 Sure you can. 518 00:28:15,452 --> 00:28:16,902 Alright! 519 00:28:16,936 --> 00:28:20,491 [gentle uplifting music] 520 00:28:34,609 --> 00:28:35,714 Calvin. 521 00:28:36,645 --> 00:28:37,785 - Hey. - Hey. 522 00:28:37,819 --> 00:28:38,889 Thanks for inviting us out. 523 00:28:38,924 --> 00:28:40,132 We really had a good time. 524 00:28:40,166 --> 00:28:42,306 - Absolutely, have a great night. 525 00:28:42,341 --> 00:28:43,307 - Thank you. - Yep. 526 00:28:44,723 --> 00:28:48,209 [gentle uplifting music] 527 00:28:48,243 --> 00:28:51,350 [plastic bag rustling] 528 00:28:53,835 --> 00:28:56,079 Hi, God, it's me, Joy. 529 00:28:57,252 --> 00:29:00,842 Thank you for making this the best birthday. 530 00:29:02,119 --> 00:29:06,330 Please bless my dad, my mom, and me. 531 00:29:07,711 --> 00:29:10,610 Oh, and my auntie Kay for giving me this phone 532 00:29:10,645 --> 00:29:11,784 so I can talk to you. 533 00:29:13,061 --> 00:29:13,959 Amen. 534 00:29:18,170 --> 00:29:20,828 And don't forget to wake us up tomorrow morning. 535 00:29:22,001 --> 00:29:23,382 Amen. 536 00:29:23,416 --> 00:29:25,625 [phone clicking in cradle] 537 00:29:25,660 --> 00:29:28,836 [uplifting music] 538 00:29:42,332 --> 00:29:43,782 Just like I thought. 539 00:29:45,335 --> 00:29:47,924 - Just like you thought, what, Calvin? 540 00:29:47,958 --> 00:29:49,339 I can't believe you still running 541 00:29:49,373 --> 00:29:51,962 around here fussing about your daughter's party, 542 00:29:51,997 --> 00:29:54,827 which was a success, if I may add. 543 00:29:54,862 --> 00:29:57,554 - We had way too many guests, Janice. 544 00:29:57,588 --> 00:29:59,038 But you won't admit it 545 00:30:00,108 --> 00:30:01,972 because that's exactly what you wanted. 546 00:30:02,007 --> 00:30:04,837 - It's not about the number of guests. 547 00:30:04,872 --> 00:30:07,978 It's about Joy's happiness. 548 00:30:08,013 --> 00:30:10,809 - Why did a 7-year-old need to invite 549 00:30:10,843 --> 00:30:13,052 so many kids to a party? 550 00:30:13,087 --> 00:30:15,365 We will not be throwing enormous parties 551 00:30:15,399 --> 00:30:17,608 like that every year 552 00:30:17,643 --> 00:30:20,163 Until Joy is 18, 553 00:30:20,197 --> 00:30:23,269 her parties will always be planned my way. 554 00:30:23,304 --> 00:30:25,547 And the sooner you get that through your head, 555 00:30:25,582 --> 00:30:27,549 the better off we'll be. 556 00:30:27,584 --> 00:30:31,001 [arguing indistinct] 557 00:30:41,529 --> 00:30:43,807 - [Calvin] You want to throw these extravagant parties, 558 00:30:43,842 --> 00:30:45,809 then you handle the aftermath. 559 00:30:45,844 --> 00:30:49,364 I am done for having a clean up after everyone. 560 00:30:49,399 --> 00:30:54,438 And you've got the nerve to be laying in bed, relaxing. 561 00:30:54,473 --> 00:30:55,543 Hi God. 562 00:30:55,577 --> 00:30:57,717 It's me, Joy. 563 00:30:57,752 --> 00:31:02,067 I don't think Dad was happy about my birthday party today. 564 00:31:02,101 --> 00:31:04,828 They argued a lot. 565 00:31:04,863 --> 00:31:06,243 A whole lot. 566 00:31:06,278 --> 00:31:10,696 Please make them stop fussing and be kind to each other. 567 00:31:10,730 --> 00:31:12,042 Amen. 568 00:31:12,077 --> 00:31:15,287 [gentle piano music] 569 00:31:25,090 --> 00:31:29,163 - No help from you whatsoever. - Are you done? 570 00:31:40,450 --> 00:31:41,313 Good morning, Joy. 571 00:31:49,666 --> 00:31:51,185 [kiss smacking] 572 00:31:51,219 --> 00:31:55,154 - Who is that 7-year-old big girl in my kitchen? 573 00:31:57,674 --> 00:32:00,919 Joy, what's wrong? 574 00:32:00,953 --> 00:32:04,819 - I thought my birthday party would be special. 575 00:32:04,853 --> 00:32:09,134 - It was special. - No it wasn't. 576 00:32:09,168 --> 00:32:11,308 - Why do you feel that it wasn't special? 577 00:32:11,343 --> 00:32:13,724 You had a lot of people that came out 578 00:32:13,759 --> 00:32:15,243 to your party to celebrate you. 579 00:32:16,382 --> 00:32:18,522 - 'Cause I heard you and Dad arguing 580 00:32:18,557 --> 00:32:21,940 about too many people being here the whole time. 581 00:32:23,182 --> 00:32:26,530 - Your dad just has some things to get used to, 582 00:32:26,565 --> 00:32:27,635 don't you, dad? 583 00:32:29,223 --> 00:32:32,812 - Joy, you know your dad has never lied to you before, 584 00:32:32,847 --> 00:32:34,504 and I'm not about to start now. 585 00:32:35,746 --> 00:32:36,575 Dad felt like-- 586 00:32:36,609 --> 00:32:37,507 Calvin don't. 587 00:32:39,129 --> 00:32:42,305 - There were way too many people at your party yesterday 588 00:32:42,339 --> 00:32:45,101 and that was a discussion between mom and dad. 589 00:32:45,135 --> 00:32:46,723 We didn't mean to upset you. 590 00:32:46,757 --> 00:32:49,105 - If you hadn't made such a big deal about it, 591 00:32:49,139 --> 00:32:50,865 she be sad this morning. 592 00:32:50,899 --> 00:32:53,143 This is all your fault. 593 00:32:53,178 --> 00:32:55,594 - Let's go, Joy, so you won't be late. 594 00:32:55,628 --> 00:32:58,631 Grab your backpack, your lunchbox, and let's go. 595 00:33:01,117 --> 00:33:04,120 [gentle music] 596 00:33:04,154 --> 00:33:05,742 - Learn something new today, baby, 597 00:33:05,776 --> 00:33:07,502 and have a great day. 598 00:33:07,537 --> 00:33:09,056 Okay, I will. 599 00:33:09,090 --> 00:33:10,574 Bye, mommy. 600 00:33:10,609 --> 00:33:13,232 Especially if Sarah and Annie don't come to school today. 601 00:33:13,888 --> 00:33:15,200 [girls giggling] 602 00:33:15,234 --> 00:33:16,304 [Girl] I know, right? 603 00:33:16,339 --> 00:33:17,719 Reading that was super-cool. 604 00:33:17,754 --> 00:33:19,480 That story was awesome. 605 00:33:19,514 --> 00:33:21,482 - Look, Annie, her hair's in the same style. 606 00:33:21,516 --> 00:33:24,864 - Are you surprised that's the only style she wear? 607 00:33:24,899 --> 00:33:27,729 - Don't you guys have something better to talk about? 608 00:33:27,764 --> 00:33:29,593 Yeah, a new hairstyle for you. 609 00:33:29,628 --> 00:33:32,734 - God, please make them stop teasing me. 610 00:33:32,769 --> 00:33:33,770 Let's go. 611 00:33:35,565 --> 00:33:38,292 [upbeat music] 612 00:33:53,376 --> 00:33:56,689 - Today we'll be talking about exploring change. 613 00:33:56,724 --> 00:33:59,727 Change means when something becomes different 614 00:33:59,761 --> 00:34:01,591 or something new happens. 615 00:34:01,625 --> 00:34:04,594 For example, has anyone seen a caterpillar 616 00:34:04,628 --> 00:34:06,182 change into a butterfly? 617 00:34:07,010 --> 00:34:08,667 Yes. 618 00:34:08,701 --> 00:34:11,532 Can anyone else give me an example of a change? 619 00:34:12,533 --> 00:34:13,430 Caleb? 620 00:34:13,465 --> 00:34:14,949 - We used to live in an apartment. 621 00:34:14,983 --> 00:34:16,709 Now we live in a house. 622 00:34:16,744 --> 00:34:17,986 Yes. Very good. 623 00:34:18,021 --> 00:34:19,643 That is a form of change. 624 00:34:19,678 --> 00:34:21,369 Anyone else? 625 00:34:21,404 --> 00:34:22,750 Sarah? 626 00:34:22,784 --> 00:34:25,960 - If Joy changes her hair from braids to another style, 627 00:34:25,994 --> 00:34:27,582 would that be a form of change? 628 00:34:27,617 --> 00:34:30,378 [class laughing] 629 00:34:30,413 --> 00:34:34,141 Yes, that would be a change. 630 00:34:34,175 --> 00:34:36,004 But Sarah, that's not the form of change 631 00:34:36,039 --> 00:34:37,454 that we're exploring today. 632 00:34:38,593 --> 00:34:41,217 Okay, who wants to help pass out homework? 633 00:34:42,839 --> 00:34:44,185 Thanks, Joy. 634 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,396 Tonight, your homework is on critical thinking. 635 00:34:48,431 --> 00:34:50,605 I want you guys to use your imaginations 636 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:54,540 and write out two ways in which it can change. 637 00:34:54,575 --> 00:34:57,681 You can even draw pictures to make it more fun. 638 00:34:57,716 --> 00:35:00,201 Now you guys are dismissed. 639 00:35:00,236 --> 00:35:03,618 [bell ringing] 640 00:35:03,653 --> 00:35:06,380 [door clicking] 641 00:35:16,010 --> 00:35:18,978 [barking] 642 00:35:19,013 --> 00:35:21,498 [Joy screaming] 643 00:35:21,533 --> 00:35:23,569 [barking] 644 00:35:25,192 --> 00:35:28,367 [Joy panting] 645 00:35:28,402 --> 00:35:33,131 - What's wrong? - That dog. She's so mean. 646 00:35:33,959 --> 00:35:36,237 She's always chasing me. 647 00:35:36,272 --> 00:35:38,929 - That dog is not mean. [laughing] 648 00:35:38,964 --> 00:35:40,414 - I have to run back to the office 649 00:35:40,448 --> 00:35:42,105 to grab a file I've been working on. 650 00:35:42,140 --> 00:35:43,555 I'll be back shortly, okay? 651 00:35:43,589 --> 00:35:44,625 Okay. 652 00:35:44,659 --> 00:35:46,040 - Well, Joy, don't get too comfortable. 653 00:35:46,074 --> 00:35:47,386 I need to run to the store. 654 00:35:47,421 --> 00:35:50,665 Can I stay here, please? 655 00:35:50,700 --> 00:35:53,910 - No, you're too young to stay home by yourself. 656 00:35:53,944 --> 00:35:55,325 I promise. 657 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,327 I'll go in my room and lock the door. 658 00:35:57,362 --> 00:35:59,295 I won't come out until you return. 659 00:36:00,399 --> 00:36:02,850 - Don't be silly. The answer is no. 660 00:36:02,884 --> 00:36:03,816 So let's go. 661 00:36:04,645 --> 00:36:06,405 Okay. 662 00:36:10,927 --> 00:36:12,860 [barking] 663 00:36:12,894 --> 00:36:14,413 Unlock the car, mom. 664 00:36:15,138 --> 00:36:17,347 [barking] 665 00:36:20,971 --> 00:36:23,871 [phone ringing] 666 00:36:23,905 --> 00:36:24,906 Hello? 667 00:36:24,941 --> 00:36:25,907 Hello, Calvin? 668 00:36:25,942 --> 00:36:27,461 This is the Pastor. 669 00:36:27,495 --> 00:36:30,947 I was calling to check in with Sister Janice. 670 00:36:30,981 --> 00:36:33,052 - She's not here right now, Pastor. 671 00:36:33,087 --> 00:36:35,917 Okay, well let her know 672 00:36:35,952 --> 00:36:39,058 we miss seeing her at church. 673 00:36:39,093 --> 00:36:41,095 [Joy] Daddy, we're back. 674 00:36:41,129 --> 00:36:45,962 - Oh wait, Pastor, you are in luck, she just walked in. 675 00:36:45,996 --> 00:36:46,687 Hold on a second. 676 00:36:48,102 --> 00:36:48,999 It's for you. 677 00:36:56,835 --> 00:36:58,181 Hello? 678 00:36:58,216 --> 00:37:01,219 - Hello, Janice, it's the Pastor. 679 00:37:03,186 --> 00:37:04,256 How are you? 680 00:37:05,188 --> 00:37:06,983 I'm well, and you? 681 00:37:07,949 --> 00:37:08,881 God is good. 682 00:37:12,057 --> 00:37:13,300 Is everything okay? 683 00:37:15,267 --> 00:37:16,544 I'm fine. 684 00:37:18,477 --> 00:37:20,445 Did you need to speak back to Calvin? 685 00:37:20,479 --> 00:37:22,585 - Actually, I wanted to chat with you. 686 00:37:24,656 --> 00:37:28,176 I haven't seen you in church over the past several weeks. 687 00:37:28,211 --> 00:37:29,592 I can't be missed, Pastor. 688 00:37:29,626 --> 00:37:32,629 You have a whole congregation to keep you busy. 689 00:37:32,664 --> 00:37:34,390 That's true. 690 00:37:34,424 --> 00:37:38,497 But when members' attendance start going off course, 691 00:37:38,532 --> 00:37:40,534 I need to find out why. 692 00:37:42,639 --> 00:37:46,298 Is there a reason why you haven't attended church? 693 00:37:48,162 --> 00:37:50,371 - I appreciate your concern, Pastor, 694 00:37:51,648 --> 00:37:54,272 but I'm just not in the mood for church right now. 695 00:37:55,100 --> 00:37:59,277 Oh, I see. 696 00:38:01,865 --> 00:38:04,489 That's more reason for you to join us every week. 697 00:38:05,731 --> 00:38:08,251 You know, church can be a source of comfort 698 00:38:08,286 --> 00:38:11,737 and strength during challenging times. 699 00:38:11,772 --> 00:38:15,293 - I never said I was facing anything challenging. 700 00:38:15,327 --> 00:38:18,882 You know, okay, thank you for calling, Pastor. 701 00:38:20,367 --> 00:38:22,092 - Well, our doors are always open 702 00:38:22,127 --> 00:38:22,990 if you need to talk. 703 00:38:24,474 --> 00:38:26,787 Will we see you Sunday? 704 00:38:26,821 --> 00:38:28,513 I'll try. 705 00:38:29,755 --> 00:38:31,067 Alright. Bye-bye. 706 00:38:31,101 --> 00:38:33,656 [phone beeps] 707 00:38:36,175 --> 00:38:37,763 Hi God. 708 00:38:37,798 --> 00:38:39,524 It's me, Joy. 709 00:38:39,558 --> 00:38:42,043 My mom talked to the pastor today 710 00:38:42,078 --> 00:38:45,771 and I can tell she wasn't very happy with him 711 00:38:45,806 --> 00:38:48,326 or my dad for giving her the phone. 712 00:38:49,327 --> 00:38:51,363 Do you know what's wrong with her? 713 00:38:51,398 --> 00:38:53,469 Please touch her with kindness. 714 00:38:54,159 --> 00:38:55,540 Amen. 715 00:39:12,315 --> 00:39:15,076 - Why did you put me on a spot like that the other day? 716 00:39:15,111 --> 00:39:17,631 - Like what? - With our pastor? 717 00:39:18,425 --> 00:39:20,634 Well, he is our pastor. 718 00:39:20,668 --> 00:39:23,913 - Exactly, at church, not in my kitchen. 719 00:39:25,604 --> 00:39:27,503 - Do you even hear yourself right now? 720 00:39:28,504 --> 00:39:31,955 - The question is, do you hear me? 721 00:39:31,990 --> 00:39:33,163 Don't do that again. 722 00:39:33,198 --> 00:39:37,858 If I wanna speak with the pastor, I'll contact him 723 00:39:37,892 --> 00:39:42,690 until then, all his future calls are for your ears only. 724 00:39:43,622 --> 00:39:46,280 What has gotten into you? 725 00:39:46,314 --> 00:39:48,351 You're short-tempered with me. 726 00:39:48,386 --> 00:39:50,388 You're not attending church, 727 00:39:50,422 --> 00:39:53,183 and now you are rude towards the pastor. 728 00:39:54,461 --> 00:39:57,256 We used to be a team, Janice. 729 00:39:57,291 --> 00:39:59,327 If I don't wanna sit here 730 00:39:59,362 --> 00:40:01,744 and listen to his lectures, 731 00:40:01,778 --> 00:40:04,712 what makes you think I wanna sit here and listen to yours? 732 00:40:05,506 --> 00:40:08,406 [gentle music] 733 00:40:13,031 --> 00:40:13,928 God. 734 00:40:17,656 --> 00:40:21,695 God, I know prayer unlocks the door of patience. 735 00:40:24,801 --> 00:40:25,802 So I'm praying. 736 00:40:26,941 --> 00:40:29,288 I'm praying that you unlock those doors 737 00:40:29,323 --> 00:40:31,877 of patience right now, Dear God. 738 00:40:33,396 --> 00:40:37,227 Please, unlock those doors of patience. 739 00:40:48,307 --> 00:40:51,379 Daddy, you pray by yourself. 740 00:40:51,414 --> 00:40:52,139 I do. 741 00:40:53,485 --> 00:40:56,523 We all should pray to God, whether we're by ourselves 742 00:40:56,557 --> 00:40:57,938 or in a group. 743 00:40:59,111 --> 00:41:02,460 - Can I tell you a secret? - Sure you can, sweetie. 744 00:41:02,494 --> 00:41:03,771 I pray to God too. 745 00:41:03,806 --> 00:41:07,810 - Aw, that's nothing to be ashamed about, sweetheart, 746 00:41:07,844 --> 00:41:10,882 and I know God is very happy with you, 747 00:41:10,916 --> 00:41:14,230 - But he doesn't tell me he's happy. 748 00:41:14,264 --> 00:41:16,025 Does God only talk to adults? 749 00:41:16,991 --> 00:41:17,992 Oh no, sweetie. 750 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:21,858 God is here for everyone 751 00:41:21,893 --> 00:41:25,483 and he talks to us in his own unique way. 752 00:41:25,517 --> 00:41:27,692 He has the whole world to listen to. 753 00:41:28,796 --> 00:41:30,798 He'll get to your prayer soon. 754 00:41:30,833 --> 00:41:35,872 But remember, you must keep the faith. 755 00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:38,634 - I love you daddy, and I love mommy too. 756 00:41:38,668 --> 00:41:40,187 And how much do we love you 757 00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:42,983 This much. 758 00:41:46,193 --> 00:41:48,989 [Calvin laughing] 759 00:41:51,543 --> 00:41:52,820 [Group] Amen. 760 00:41:58,136 --> 00:41:58,930 Mom. 761 00:41:58,964 --> 00:42:00,172 [Janice] Yes. 762 00:42:00,207 --> 00:42:02,589 - Did kids ever tease you when you were in school? 763 00:42:03,624 --> 00:42:07,525 - I faced my fair share of teasing back then. 764 00:42:07,559 --> 00:42:08,836 You're so strong. 765 00:42:08,871 --> 00:42:10,562 How did you deal with it? 766 00:42:10,597 --> 00:42:11,943 I didn't. 767 00:42:11,977 --> 00:42:14,566 That's why I'm not taking any crap off anyone. 768 00:42:14,601 --> 00:42:16,844 - Honey, do you have to use that word? 769 00:42:18,018 --> 00:42:18,812 What word? 770 00:42:18,846 --> 00:42:19,916 Crap. 771 00:42:19,951 --> 00:42:21,849 - Joy's already dealing with problems in school. 772 00:42:21,884 --> 00:42:24,162 Now it's the time to toughen her up. 773 00:42:24,196 --> 00:42:26,889 She's going to hear and see more than that in the streets. 774 00:42:26,923 --> 00:42:29,408 - Then let her hear it in the streets. 775 00:42:29,443 --> 00:42:31,583 If Joy having issues at school, 776 00:42:31,618 --> 00:42:34,172 our home should be a positive place for her. 777 00:42:35,967 --> 00:42:38,556 - Over the years, I have learned that standing up 778 00:42:38,590 --> 00:42:40,972 for yourself is vital. 779 00:42:41,006 --> 00:42:43,940 - I wanna be just like mommy when I grow up. 780 00:42:47,737 --> 00:42:50,775 - You should want to be like Joy when you grow up. 781 00:42:50,809 --> 00:42:52,742 God wants us to be like ourselves. 782 00:42:54,088 --> 00:42:58,127 - Dad, I don't think God would mind if I'm like mommy. 783 00:42:58,161 --> 00:42:59,577 That's my girl. 784 00:43:02,476 --> 00:43:04,098 Hurry up and eat your food, okay? 785 00:43:05,513 --> 00:43:06,963 Alright. 786 00:43:06,998 --> 00:43:07,792 You done? 787 00:43:07,826 --> 00:43:08,896 Yeah. 788 00:43:08,931 --> 00:43:11,209 - Okay, go ahead and get ready for bed. 789 00:43:11,243 --> 00:43:12,348 [Joy] Alright? 790 00:43:12,382 --> 00:43:13,038 All right. 791 00:43:19,942 --> 00:43:22,565 - You and I both know that child doesn't need 792 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:25,154 to be following in your footsteps. 793 00:43:25,188 --> 00:43:26,880 What's the problem now. 794 00:43:26,914 --> 00:43:28,985 You wanna argue because she wants to be like me? 795 00:43:29,020 --> 00:43:32,023 - No, Janice, what bothered me is that you couldn't handle 796 00:43:32,057 --> 00:43:34,922 this conversation in a more positive manner. 797 00:43:36,959 --> 00:43:41,791 - We are having a dinner conversation in our home, 798 00:43:42,965 --> 00:43:45,070 not in our office group counseling session. 799 00:43:52,422 --> 00:43:55,494 Hi God, it's me, Joy. 800 00:43:55,529 --> 00:43:57,911 Can you get between mommy and daddy 801 00:43:57,945 --> 00:44:01,708 and stop them from fussing right now? 802 00:44:01,742 --> 00:44:04,711 I really want them to be happy. 803 00:44:04,745 --> 00:44:06,333 Goodnight, God. 804 00:44:07,955 --> 00:44:08,715 Amen. 805 00:44:08,749 --> 00:44:10,475 [gentle melancholic music] 806 00:44:10,509 --> 00:44:14,099 [phone clicking in cradle] 807 00:44:15,445 --> 00:44:18,276 [birds chirping] 808 00:44:23,591 --> 00:44:26,940 [door thumping shut] 809 00:44:29,943 --> 00:44:31,289 Ahh. 810 00:44:31,323 --> 00:44:33,740 [barking] 811 00:44:36,190 --> 00:44:37,088 Good morning. 812 00:44:37,122 --> 00:44:38,952 Good morning, how's it going? 813 00:44:38,986 --> 00:44:40,263 Good to see you, man. 814 00:44:40,298 --> 00:44:41,748 Hi God. 815 00:44:41,782 --> 00:44:45,752 How come I'm the only one my neighbor's dog chases? 816 00:44:52,379 --> 00:44:54,070 [gentle music] 817 00:44:54,105 --> 00:44:56,176 - Hey honey, are you ready to go? 818 00:44:56,210 --> 00:44:57,833 Yep. 819 00:44:57,867 --> 00:45:01,526 - I don't wanna go to school. - Are you feeling okay? 820 00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,045 Yeah. 821 00:45:03,079 --> 00:45:04,702 - Then why don't you want to go to school? 822 00:45:04,736 --> 00:45:06,255 'Cause of Annie and Sarah. 823 00:45:06,289 --> 00:45:09,016 - Honey, you're going to have to learn to ignore them. 824 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,851 [engine turning over] 825 00:45:24,963 --> 00:45:25,861 - Listen, I need to ask a question. 826 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,864 How many of you have ever prayed to God 827 00:45:30,175 --> 00:45:32,246 and you felt like you didn't get an answer? 828 00:45:32,281 --> 00:45:34,317 [congregation clapping] 829 00:45:34,352 --> 00:45:38,183 That doesn't mean that God doesn't hear your prayers. 830 00:45:38,218 --> 00:45:42,015 Listen, the same way he enjoys us coming into the house 831 00:45:42,049 --> 00:45:45,466 of the Lord, he also enjoys seeing us come 832 00:45:45,501 --> 00:45:47,330 together in prayers. 833 00:45:47,365 --> 00:45:48,849 [audience applauding] 834 00:45:48,884 --> 00:45:50,506 Listen, I need you to get this. 835 00:45:51,990 --> 00:45:56,754 In Matthews, the 18th chapter, the 20th verse-- 836 00:45:57,927 --> 00:45:59,687 - Is Mommy coming to church with us anymore? 837 00:45:59,722 --> 00:46:01,206 Of course she will, sweetie. 838 00:46:01,241 --> 00:46:03,105 Just pay attention yo the pastor so we don't miss anything. 839 00:46:03,139 --> 00:46:06,211 I'm there among them, meaning, 840 00:46:06,246 --> 00:46:09,663 when two or more come together in agreement, 841 00:46:09,697 --> 00:46:11,941 whatever they ask will be done. 842 00:46:11,976 --> 00:46:16,359 [audience cheering and applauding] 843 00:46:16,394 --> 00:46:17,602 Listen, I'm your pastor, 844 00:46:17,636 --> 00:46:21,537 so listen, sometimes we got to think outside the box 845 00:46:21,571 --> 00:46:26,784 and think of a more creative approach to discovering God. 846 00:46:28,233 --> 00:46:32,237 I mean, God made it very clear in Matthews 18, didn't he? 847 00:46:32,272 --> 00:46:33,342 Are you okay? 848 00:46:33,376 --> 00:46:34,170 - [Pastor] So listen, I'm your pastor-- 849 00:46:34,205 --> 00:46:35,413 Yes. 850 00:46:35,447 --> 00:46:36,724 - [Pastor] So what I'm encouraging you to do is-- 851 00:46:36,759 --> 00:46:38,416 - Are we going straight home after this? 852 00:46:38,450 --> 00:46:41,177 - Unless there's somewhere else you would like to go. 853 00:46:41,212 --> 00:46:42,351 No. 854 00:46:42,385 --> 00:46:44,698 - Circle and see what it does in your life. 855 00:46:44,732 --> 00:46:45,595 Amen? 856 00:46:45,630 --> 00:46:46,734 [Congregation] Amen. 857 00:46:46,769 --> 00:46:48,564 [audience applauding] 858 00:46:48,598 --> 00:46:51,153 Mommy, can we play dress up? 859 00:46:51,187 --> 00:46:53,017 Not now, Joy. I'm busy. 860 00:46:54,225 --> 00:46:56,848 - Oh, daddy always plays with me. 861 00:46:56,883 --> 00:46:59,540 You never play with me. 862 00:46:59,575 --> 00:47:03,821 - That's what daddies are supposed to do, okay? 863 00:47:03,855 --> 00:47:07,100 [disgruntled groan] 864 00:47:08,032 --> 00:47:10,068 Joy, I'll play with you. 865 00:47:10,103 --> 00:47:11,207 Yay. 866 00:47:11,242 --> 00:47:13,796 So what do you wanna play? 867 00:47:13,831 --> 00:47:16,730 Hmm, dress up. 868 00:47:16,764 --> 00:47:18,318 Dress up. 869 00:47:18,352 --> 00:47:22,909 Okay, that sounds like a lot of fun and easy to do. 870 00:47:22,943 --> 00:47:24,255 I tell you what, why don't you go 871 00:47:24,289 --> 00:47:25,981 to your room and get dressed. 872 00:47:26,015 --> 00:47:27,568 I'll go to my room and get dressed. 873 00:47:27,603 --> 00:47:28,880 Okay. 874 00:47:28,915 --> 00:47:29,536 - And we'll meet up in the hallway. 875 00:47:29,570 --> 00:47:31,262 [Joy] Alright. 876 00:47:31,296 --> 00:47:31,987 Alright. 877 00:47:33,954 --> 00:47:37,785 - Daddy, are you almost ready? - Almost. 878 00:47:37,820 --> 00:47:38,890 Okay. 879 00:47:41,686 --> 00:47:43,239 On the count of three. 880 00:47:43,274 --> 00:47:45,552 One, two, three. 881 00:47:47,899 --> 00:47:49,487 We did it, Joy, we look good. 882 00:47:50,902 --> 00:47:54,147 - No, no, daddy, you put on the wrong outfit. 883 00:47:54,181 --> 00:47:56,908 - What do you mean I put on the wrong outfit? 884 00:47:56,943 --> 00:47:58,945 This is my dress up outfit. 885 00:48:01,085 --> 00:48:02,465 Church, not in the house. 886 00:48:03,604 --> 00:48:05,606 I have to dress you now. 887 00:48:05,641 --> 00:48:07,643 Okay, go pick out my outfit. 888 00:48:07,677 --> 00:48:09,714 [Joy giggling] 889 00:48:09,748 --> 00:48:12,337 [gentle music] 890 00:48:14,512 --> 00:48:17,446 [funky upbeat music] 891 00:48:19,137 --> 00:48:20,898 Huh, that feels awkward 892 00:48:22,865 --> 00:48:27,559 [funky upbeat music continues] 893 00:48:27,594 --> 00:48:29,492 Are you finished yet? 894 00:48:29,527 --> 00:48:32,323 One second. No. Peaking. 895 00:48:32,357 --> 00:48:33,186 Okay. 896 00:48:34,083 --> 00:48:37,052 ♪ Take a holiday ♪ 897 00:48:37,086 --> 00:48:38,639 ♪ Where you hide away ♪ 898 00:48:38,674 --> 00:48:40,434 [phone camera clicking] 899 00:48:40,469 --> 00:48:41,539 Three, two, one. 900 00:48:44,749 --> 00:48:46,164 Tada! 901 00:48:46,199 --> 00:48:48,132 Joy, what did you do? 902 00:48:50,030 --> 00:48:51,583 Dress up, daddy. 903 00:48:53,344 --> 00:48:54,172 Come here. 904 00:48:54,207 --> 00:48:55,898 [funky upbeat music] 905 00:48:55,933 --> 00:48:58,142 [Janice] Dinner's ready. 906 00:49:02,732 --> 00:49:04,389 [Joy giggling] 907 00:49:04,424 --> 00:49:08,462 - [Calvin] Get back here. [Calvin laughing] 908 00:49:10,188 --> 00:49:12,363 Joy, go wash your hands. 909 00:49:12,397 --> 00:49:13,847 Okay. 910 00:49:13,881 --> 00:49:15,228 I'm gonna get you later. 911 00:49:16,884 --> 00:49:19,715 Calvin, you look crazy. 912 00:49:19,749 --> 00:49:23,098 Change your clothes before you sit at the table with us. 913 00:49:24,927 --> 00:49:27,067 It's called playing. 914 00:49:29,207 --> 00:49:32,383 If you spent more time with Joy, you would understand 915 00:49:32,417 --> 00:49:35,282 what parents would do for the sake of that kid's happiness. 916 00:49:35,317 --> 00:49:37,905 Happiness, looking like that? 917 00:49:37,940 --> 00:49:39,321 What is wrong with you? 918 00:49:43,049 --> 00:49:44,982 We'll finish this conversation later. 919 00:50:09,730 --> 00:50:12,561 [Calvin sighing] 920 00:50:17,324 --> 00:50:19,326 So now you're tired from running 921 00:50:19,361 --> 00:50:21,777 around here earlier looking crazy. 922 00:50:21,811 --> 00:50:23,158 Let it go, Janice. 923 00:50:23,192 --> 00:50:24,883 I'm trying to go to sleep. 924 00:50:24,918 --> 00:50:26,816 I will not. 925 00:50:26,851 --> 00:50:31,166 Did you think it was cute to let our 7-year-old daughter 926 00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,340 put a robe on you, 927 00:50:34,514 --> 00:50:38,276 a wig on your head, and lip gloss on your lips? 928 00:50:40,899 --> 00:50:43,109 Do you know how to parent? 929 00:50:43,143 --> 00:50:46,595 - Don't you ever question my parenting skills. 930 00:50:46,629 --> 00:50:49,080 You need to be asking yourself that. 931 00:50:49,115 --> 00:50:50,840 Or maybe you are the one who needs 932 00:50:50,875 --> 00:50:52,532 to be taking parenting classes. 933 00:50:52,566 --> 00:50:55,155 Look, all she wanted to do was play dress up 934 00:50:55,190 --> 00:50:56,156 with her mom. 935 00:50:56,191 --> 00:50:57,951 As in you, Janice. 936 00:50:57,985 --> 00:50:59,297 You turned her down. 937 00:50:59,332 --> 00:51:01,230 What was I supposed to do? 938 00:51:01,265 --> 00:51:04,751 What were you supposed to do? 939 00:51:04,785 --> 00:51:07,650 I can tell you what you weren't supposed to do, 940 00:51:07,685 --> 00:51:12,138 and that was to not let a 7-year-old put a wig on your head 941 00:51:12,172 --> 00:51:14,312 and lip gloss on your lips. 942 00:51:16,142 --> 00:51:18,627 - Maybe if you learn to set aside some time 943 00:51:18,661 --> 00:51:21,147 to be more involved in Joy's life, then maybe I wouldn't 944 00:51:21,181 --> 00:51:23,632 have to play both Daddy and mommy. 945 00:51:24,874 --> 00:51:25,841 [phone clicking] 946 00:51:25,875 --> 00:51:27,291 [gentle music] 947 00:51:27,325 --> 00:51:31,191 - Hi God, it's me, Joy, and my dolls. 948 00:51:31,226 --> 00:51:34,401 We're asking for miracles. 949 00:51:34,436 --> 00:51:38,129 There are things going on in my life that need to change. 950 00:51:39,234 --> 00:51:41,167 Daddy and I played a fun game today, 951 00:51:41,201 --> 00:51:44,239 but mommy is so upset with him. 952 00:51:44,273 --> 00:51:46,448 Please make mommy's heart nicer. 953 00:51:47,725 --> 00:51:51,073 God, I know you can hear them all the way in heaven 954 00:51:51,108 --> 00:51:53,282 because there's so loud right now. 955 00:51:54,076 --> 00:51:56,492 Fix them, God, please. 956 00:51:57,942 --> 00:51:59,392 Goodnight God. 957 00:51:59,426 --> 00:52:00,427 Amen. 958 00:52:03,810 --> 00:52:06,053 Years ago, men used to not be 959 00:52:06,088 --> 00:52:07,917 as engaged in their children's lives 960 00:52:07,952 --> 00:52:10,851 and they would leave everything to the mother to do. 961 00:52:12,198 --> 00:52:13,682 And I'm making sure that you're involved 962 00:52:13,716 --> 00:52:16,892 in our daughter's life and not leaving everything 963 00:52:16,926 --> 00:52:18,514 on me to do. 964 00:52:18,549 --> 00:52:20,620 - I could say the same thing, Janice. 965 00:52:21,828 --> 00:52:25,452 Years ago, moms used to be extremely involved 966 00:52:25,487 --> 00:52:28,524 in their little girl's lives, no matter what. 967 00:52:28,559 --> 00:52:33,150 I love Joy and I would do anything for her, 968 00:52:33,184 --> 00:52:35,186 such as you should. 969 00:52:35,221 --> 00:52:37,775 But you wanna blame me and punish me 970 00:52:37,809 --> 00:52:40,847 for other dad's lack of doing. 971 00:52:40,881 --> 00:52:44,678 That is not my situation here and it'll never be. 972 00:52:44,713 --> 00:52:47,336 - I know it won't because I'm making sure of it. 973 00:52:49,304 --> 00:52:52,099 - I am not tired of doing everything for Joy. 974 00:52:52,134 --> 00:52:55,102 But what I am tired of is having to watch her 975 00:52:55,137 --> 00:52:59,072 go through life as if she only has one parent. 976 00:52:59,106 --> 00:53:00,660 Look, Janice, you're here, 977 00:53:00,694 --> 00:53:03,421 but you're not here when it comes to Joy 978 00:53:03,456 --> 00:53:06,907 and that stops right here and right now. 979 00:53:06,942 --> 00:53:08,357 Can't take this anymore. 980 00:53:11,153 --> 00:53:13,431 Where are you going? 981 00:53:14,432 --> 00:53:16,745 Calvin, what are you doing? 982 00:53:17,953 --> 00:53:19,437 Calvin. 983 00:53:19,472 --> 00:53:22,406 Calvin, why are you packing your clothes? 984 00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,649 Calvin, what are you doing, what are you doing? 985 00:53:25,823 --> 00:53:28,481 Calvin, what are you doing? 986 00:53:29,689 --> 00:53:32,243 [gentle music] 987 00:53:32,278 --> 00:53:34,556 Calvin, what are you doing? 988 00:53:35,453 --> 00:53:37,110 Where are you going? 989 00:53:37,144 --> 00:53:38,318 What are you doing? 990 00:53:38,353 --> 00:53:40,700 What are you doing? 991 00:53:40,734 --> 00:53:44,911 - I love you, Janice, more than anything, 992 00:53:44,945 --> 00:53:46,775 and I love Joy too. 993 00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:53,022 That little girl's been through so much prior 994 00:53:53,057 --> 00:53:54,369 to us adopting her. 995 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,165 I can't continue to have her watch us fuss 996 00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,306 and fight every day. 997 00:54:01,099 --> 00:54:02,308 So I'm leaving. 998 00:54:03,343 --> 00:54:05,483 I'll be back for my things later. 999 00:54:06,864 --> 00:54:10,488 God, God blessed us, babe. 1000 00:54:10,523 --> 00:54:14,251 He blessed us with a opportunity to raise that little girl, 1001 00:54:14,285 --> 00:54:15,838 our only child. 1002 00:54:16,874 --> 00:54:19,463 We will not fail Joy, 1003 00:54:20,740 --> 00:54:24,571 and most importantly, disappoint God. 1004 00:54:29,404 --> 00:54:32,890 - Calvin, please, please don't go. 1005 00:54:32,924 --> 00:54:35,272 I need you. 1006 00:54:35,306 --> 00:54:37,895 We need you. 1007 00:54:37,929 --> 00:54:39,103 Calvin, I'm sorry. 1008 00:54:39,137 --> 00:54:40,138 [melancholic music] 1009 00:54:40,173 --> 00:54:43,314 [door thumping open] 1010 00:54:45,178 --> 00:54:47,284 [gentle piano music] 1011 00:54:47,318 --> 00:54:50,908 [door clicking shut] 1012 00:54:50,942 --> 00:54:53,842 [Janice sobbing] 1013 00:54:55,084 --> 00:54:56,534 What have I done? 1014 00:54:58,571 --> 00:55:01,677 God, bring Calvin back to us, please. 1015 00:55:03,230 --> 00:55:06,061 [Janice sobbing] 1016 00:55:15,898 --> 00:55:16,899 Joy. 1017 00:55:16,934 --> 00:55:17,866 Yeah. 1018 00:55:17,900 --> 00:55:18,867 - You wanna help Mommy bake cookies. 1019 00:55:18,901 --> 00:55:20,938 [Joy] Ooh, cookies. 1020 00:55:20,972 --> 00:55:21,939 Yes, mommy. 1021 00:55:21,973 --> 00:55:22,871 Come on. 1022 00:55:27,082 --> 00:55:28,083 You wanna put 'em in? 1023 00:55:28,117 --> 00:55:28,911 [Joy] Yep. 1024 00:55:28,946 --> 00:55:30,534 [Janice] Okay. 1025 00:55:33,157 --> 00:55:35,401 [tray clunking gently] 1026 00:55:35,435 --> 00:55:36,505 Good job. 1027 00:55:37,403 --> 00:55:38,196 Let's see if it's done. 1028 00:55:38,231 --> 00:55:40,026 [Joy] Yep. 1029 00:55:40,060 --> 00:55:43,132 Ooh, they smell delicious. 1030 00:55:43,167 --> 00:55:44,824 Be careful, mommy. It's hot. 1031 00:55:44,858 --> 00:55:46,412 Okay. Okay. 1032 00:55:46,446 --> 00:55:47,516 All right. 1033 00:55:51,969 --> 00:55:53,453 Daddy. 1034 00:55:53,488 --> 00:55:56,283 - Hey sweetie. - Do you want a cookie? 1035 00:55:56,318 --> 00:55:57,802 I would love one. 1036 00:55:57,837 --> 00:56:02,531 I'll take one cookie from you and a cookie from mommy. 1037 00:56:03,083 --> 00:56:03,636 Alrighty. 1038 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,121 Here you go. 1039 00:56:06,155 --> 00:56:07,398 Thank you. 1040 00:56:09,020 --> 00:56:09,883 I'm sorry. 1041 00:56:14,888 --> 00:56:15,855 Joy. 1042 00:56:15,889 --> 00:56:16,856 [Joy] Yes. 1043 00:56:16,890 --> 00:56:17,822 Hurry up, sweetie. 1044 00:56:17,857 --> 00:56:19,479 We don't want to be late for church. 1045 00:56:19,514 --> 00:56:20,653 [Joy] Okay. 1046 00:56:21,619 --> 00:56:24,553 [uplifting music] 1047 00:56:25,554 --> 00:56:26,935 You look nice. 1048 00:56:26,969 --> 00:56:27,901 Thanks. 1049 00:56:27,936 --> 00:56:29,489 - Calvin, if you gimme a few moments, 1050 00:56:29,524 --> 00:56:31,733 I can get dressed in, attend church with you and Joy. 1051 00:56:31,767 --> 00:56:34,494 - Mommy, you're coming to church with us too. 1052 00:56:34,529 --> 00:56:35,322 Yes, baby. 1053 00:56:35,357 --> 00:56:36,289 Yay. 1054 00:56:36,323 --> 00:56:38,947 Take all the minutes you need, 1055 00:56:38,981 --> 00:56:39,844 But hurry up. 1056 00:56:41,363 --> 00:56:42,606 All right. [chuckling] 1057 00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:45,712 [uplifting music] 1058 00:56:46,575 --> 00:56:49,544 [ambient chatter] 1059 00:56:52,305 --> 00:56:55,170 [uplifting music] 1060 00:57:12,221 --> 00:57:14,914 [uplifting music] 1061 00:57:21,955 --> 00:57:22,818 Joy? 1062 00:57:22,853 --> 00:57:24,130 Hmm? 1063 00:57:24,164 --> 00:57:26,443 - You wanna give your hair a break from these braids? 1064 00:57:26,477 --> 00:57:30,136 Yeah, but how would I wear it? 1065 00:57:30,170 --> 00:57:32,483 You have beautiful long hair. 1066 00:57:32,518 --> 00:57:34,381 You can wear it out if you want to. 1067 00:57:34,416 --> 00:57:36,591 - Okay. - All right. 1068 00:57:36,625 --> 00:57:37,971 Well, find something on TV 1069 00:57:38,006 --> 00:57:39,939 'cause we're gonna be here all night. 1070 00:57:39,973 --> 00:57:40,629 Okay. 1071 00:57:41,458 --> 00:57:43,632 [uplifting music] 1072 00:57:43,667 --> 00:57:45,634 Now we're all ready to pray. 1073 00:57:48,292 --> 00:57:49,535 It's time to pray now. 1074 00:57:49,569 --> 00:57:53,159 I need you right here 1075 00:57:53,193 --> 00:57:55,541 and I'm gonna pray with you too. 1076 00:57:59,372 --> 00:58:02,168 [phone clicking] 1077 00:58:02,202 --> 00:58:03,100 Hi God. 1078 00:58:04,308 --> 00:58:05,861 It's me, Joy. 1079 00:58:05,896 --> 00:58:08,036 I'm going to school tomorrow with my hair out. 1080 00:58:09,658 --> 00:58:13,179 Please don't let Sarah and Annie tease me about my hair. 1081 00:58:14,594 --> 00:58:17,632 Oh, God, guess what? 1082 00:58:17,666 --> 00:58:19,910 Mom is much nicer now, 1083 00:58:19,944 --> 00:58:22,015 just like she was when I first moved here. 1084 00:58:24,328 --> 00:58:25,225 Amen. 1085 00:58:26,744 --> 00:58:30,058 [traffic whooshing] 1086 00:58:30,092 --> 00:58:32,129 Glorify, to give honor, 1087 00:58:32,163 --> 00:58:34,580 to exalt or admire. 1088 00:58:34,614 --> 00:58:36,996 Praise, to express gratitude. 1089 00:58:37,030 --> 00:58:41,552 To express how great someone or something is. 1090 00:58:41,587 --> 00:58:43,934 What's all the excitement about, class? 1091 00:58:43,968 --> 00:58:47,109 - Ms. Anderson, look at Joy's hair. 1092 00:58:47,144 --> 00:58:48,421 It's so long and pretty. 1093 00:58:48,455 --> 00:58:50,181 Yes, it is. 1094 00:58:50,216 --> 00:58:52,114 You kids don't miss a beat. 1095 00:58:52,149 --> 00:58:54,772 - Sarah and Annie, I see y'all are not teasing Joy today. 1096 00:58:54,807 --> 00:58:57,016 Her hair is longer than the both of y'all's. 1097 00:58:57,050 --> 00:58:58,776 - What do you mean by that comment, Tania? 1098 00:58:58,811 --> 00:59:01,676 - Sarah and Annie tease Joy every day 1099 00:59:01,710 --> 00:59:03,988 about her wearing braids and not having hair, 1100 00:59:04,023 --> 00:59:06,439 but they're not saying anything today 1101 00:59:06,473 --> 00:59:08,545 As they shouldn't. 1102 00:59:08,579 --> 00:59:09,891 Let this be a lesson to each of you. 1103 00:59:09,925 --> 00:59:13,619 I don't wanna hear anyone teasing anyone anymore. 1104 00:59:13,653 --> 00:59:16,276 Joy, you have beautiful hair. 1105 00:59:16,311 --> 00:59:19,417 Sarah and Annie, apologize to her right now. 1106 00:59:19,452 --> 00:59:21,143 Sorry. 1107 00:59:21,178 --> 00:59:22,489 I'm sorry. 1108 00:59:22,524 --> 00:59:23,905 It's okay. 1109 00:59:25,009 --> 00:59:26,873 As long as it doesn't happen again. 1110 00:59:27,978 --> 00:59:29,635 It better not. 1111 00:59:29,669 --> 00:59:32,258 And if it does, you come talk to me. 1112 00:59:33,259 --> 00:59:35,572 [bell ringing] 1113 00:59:35,606 --> 00:59:39,196 [desks clattering] 1114 00:59:39,230 --> 00:59:42,509 [ambient chatter] 1115 00:59:42,544 --> 00:59:46,652 [uplifting music continues] 1116 00:59:46,686 --> 00:59:48,343 - I am sorry we teased you earlier. 1117 00:59:48,377 --> 00:59:50,000 Will you be my friend? 1118 00:59:50,034 --> 00:59:52,312 - Yeah, can you be my friend too? 1119 00:59:52,347 --> 00:59:54,487 We didn't know you had hair. 1120 00:59:54,521 --> 00:59:56,144 Sure we can be friends. 1121 00:59:56,178 --> 00:59:57,835 I've always had long hair. 1122 00:59:57,870 --> 01:00:00,942 Just promise not to tease me or anyone else again. 1123 01:00:00,976 --> 01:00:01,563 We won't. 1124 01:00:01,598 --> 01:00:02,737 I learned my lesson. 1125 01:00:02,771 --> 01:00:04,014 Yeah, me too. 1126 01:00:08,225 --> 01:00:10,917 [uplifting music] 1127 01:00:19,512 --> 01:00:21,997 Hey, Ms. Anderson. 1128 01:00:22,032 --> 01:00:23,827 - [Ms. Anderson] Joy, you're dismissed. 1129 01:00:28,901 --> 01:00:30,696 Have a good day, guys. 1130 01:00:30,730 --> 01:00:32,076 Oh, you too, 1131 01:00:33,837 --> 01:00:36,115 Mom, mom, guess what? 1132 01:00:36,149 --> 01:00:37,288 What is it, sweetie? 1133 01:00:37,323 --> 01:00:38,945 You got an A on your test? 1134 01:00:38,980 --> 01:00:42,397 - No, everyone loved my hair today, 1135 01:00:42,431 --> 01:00:44,848 including Sarah and Annie. 1136 01:00:44,882 --> 01:00:47,782 They were surprised to see how long it was, 1137 01:00:47,816 --> 01:00:51,924 and Ms. Anderson made them apologize for teasing me. 1138 01:00:51,958 --> 01:00:53,857 I'm so happy for you, Joy. 1139 01:00:53,891 --> 01:00:58,516 - I prayed and asked God not to let them tease me. 1140 01:00:58,551 --> 01:01:00,208 God is awesome, isn't he? 1141 01:01:00,242 --> 01:01:03,625 He used Ms. Anderson to help resolve all 1142 01:01:03,660 --> 01:01:05,938 of your problems all through your prayers. 1143 01:01:07,422 --> 01:01:09,010 All right, baby, let's go. 1144 01:01:11,322 --> 01:01:14,084 [uplifting music] 1145 01:01:24,059 --> 01:01:24,681 Calvin. 1146 01:01:24,715 --> 01:01:25,923 Hey babe. 1147 01:01:25,958 --> 01:01:27,787 - You won't believe the fantastic day 1148 01:01:27,822 --> 01:01:30,100 our little girl headed school today. 1149 01:01:30,134 --> 01:01:32,205 I'm all ears. What happened? 1150 01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:36,209 - Well, when I picked her up, she was a live wire. 1151 01:01:36,244 --> 01:01:40,904 She was happy, excited, wouldn't stop talking about her day. 1152 01:01:40,938 --> 01:01:45,978 She said that everyone was shocked that she had hair. 1153 01:01:46,979 --> 01:01:48,670 I gathered they assumed she didn't 1154 01:01:48,705 --> 01:01:50,189 have hair under those braids. 1155 01:01:50,223 --> 01:01:54,814 - Oh, our baby girl has hair. [laughing] 1156 01:01:54,849 --> 01:01:57,748 I'm so glad we adopted her. 1157 01:01:58,784 --> 01:02:02,028 That's one of the best decisions we ever made. 1158 01:02:03,858 --> 01:02:05,031 Me too, daddy. 1159 01:02:05,066 --> 01:02:05,791 [laughing] 1160 01:02:05,825 --> 01:02:07,137 Me three. 1161 01:02:08,207 --> 01:02:12,383 And so the teacher made the girls apologize. 1162 01:02:12,418 --> 01:02:13,971 Hmm. 1163 01:02:14,006 --> 01:02:16,215 - I'm so glad that's over. - They're all cool now. 1164 01:02:16,249 --> 01:02:17,941 - Nice. - Yes. 1165 01:02:20,046 --> 01:02:25,086 Calvin, I am so sorry 1166 01:02:26,294 --> 01:02:28,296 for how I've treated you these last few months. 1167 01:02:31,023 --> 01:02:33,784 You've been spending so much time with Joy, 1168 01:02:33,819 --> 01:02:37,926 I just felt like I was not important. 1169 01:02:38,685 --> 01:02:41,965 Like I was neglected. 1170 01:02:45,900 --> 01:02:50,939 And I responded to you terribly, with no respect, 1171 01:02:51,768 --> 01:02:52,941 and no regards to your feelings. 1172 01:02:57,463 --> 01:02:59,603 I'm truly sorry. 1173 01:02:59,637 --> 01:03:01,053 Can you ever forgive me? 1174 01:03:02,433 --> 01:03:07,404 - Babe, I wouldn't be a man of God if I didn't forgive you. 1175 01:03:09,406 --> 01:03:13,168 You are the best thing that ever happened to me. 1176 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:18,242 Even when you withdrew from us, nothing changed. 1177 01:03:19,174 --> 01:03:22,453 Joy increased our family size. 1178 01:03:22,488 --> 01:03:23,385 She didn't replace. 1179 01:03:24,421 --> 01:03:27,182 You are my wife. 1180 01:03:27,217 --> 01:03:31,186 I vowed to love you for better or for worse. 1181 01:03:33,154 --> 01:03:36,329 That was your worst. [laughing] 1182 01:03:37,330 --> 01:03:39,194 I love you, Janice. 1183 01:03:39,229 --> 01:03:40,126 Love you too. 1184 01:03:41,541 --> 01:03:42,784 [kiss smacking] 1185 01:03:42,819 --> 01:03:43,647 Ew! 1186 01:03:43,681 --> 01:03:45,131 [Calvin laughing] 1187 01:03:45,166 --> 01:03:47,030 - Let me show you what's Ew, young lady. 1188 01:03:49,308 --> 01:03:49,964 Now that is Ew. 1189 01:03:51,137 --> 01:03:53,450 I bet you won't do that again. 1190 01:03:53,484 --> 01:03:55,003 Oh, you're right about that, 1191 01:03:55,038 --> 01:03:57,764 'cause from this day forth, that is mom's job. 1192 01:03:57,799 --> 01:03:59,663 Do y'all hear me, ladies? 1193 01:03:59,697 --> 01:04:01,734 [Joy and Janice] We hear you. 1194 01:04:01,768 --> 01:04:04,047 [group laughing] 1195 01:04:04,081 --> 01:04:07,119 [asphalt crunching] 1196 01:04:25,447 --> 01:04:28,071 - I am not gonna be scared. I'm not gonna be scared. 1197 01:04:30,107 --> 01:04:33,421 God, please make that dog stop chasing me. 1198 01:04:38,012 --> 01:04:40,911 [door thumping] 1199 01:04:51,335 --> 01:04:52,026 Okay. Okay. 1200 01:04:56,582 --> 01:04:58,135 [gentle music] 1201 01:04:58,170 --> 01:05:00,551 Aw, she just wants to play. 1202 01:05:02,795 --> 01:05:03,692 So cute. 1203 01:05:05,108 --> 01:05:05,971 Aw. 1204 01:05:08,732 --> 01:05:11,079 I'm so glad you guys can make it. 1205 01:05:11,114 --> 01:05:14,358 This is gonna be so much fun. 1206 01:05:14,393 --> 01:05:15,290 I know, right? 1207 01:05:15,325 --> 01:05:17,914 I can't believe Savannah came too. 1208 01:05:17,948 --> 01:05:19,501 I wouldn't miss this for the world. 1209 01:05:19,536 --> 01:05:22,159 [girls giggling] 1210 01:05:30,478 --> 01:05:33,239 [doorbell chiming] 1211 01:05:35,759 --> 01:05:36,933 [Calvin] It's Rae. 1212 01:05:38,658 --> 01:05:40,143 That's UM to you. 1213 01:05:40,902 --> 01:05:44,043 Hey girl, hey, what is up? 1214 01:05:44,078 --> 01:05:45,320 Where are you on your way to? 1215 01:05:45,355 --> 01:05:46,701 - Remember, I told you I was gonna start 1216 01:05:46,735 --> 01:05:47,805 doing private lessons. 1217 01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:49,048 Oh. [laughing] 1218 01:05:49,083 --> 01:05:50,705 Seven times already. 1219 01:05:50,739 --> 01:05:53,535 [Janice laughing] 1220 01:05:54,951 --> 01:05:58,955 My first is what he get-o. 1221 01:06:02,027 --> 01:06:05,237 My first one is right here in y'all's neighborhood. 1222 01:06:05,271 --> 01:06:08,481 Hi, UM. 1223 01:06:08,516 --> 01:06:10,138 You forgot her name? 1224 01:06:10,173 --> 01:06:13,038 - No, that's what everyone calls her. 1225 01:06:13,072 --> 01:06:13,970 I'm a dancer. 1226 01:06:14,004 --> 01:06:16,041 My street name is UM. 1227 01:06:16,075 --> 01:06:17,387 [Child] What does it mean? 1228 01:06:17,421 --> 01:06:20,252 It stands for Unique Moves. 1229 01:06:20,286 --> 01:06:22,461 - Can you show us some of your moves? 1230 01:06:22,495 --> 01:06:24,739 - Now you know that's right up UM's alley, 1231 01:06:24,773 --> 01:06:26,568 to whip out some dance moves. 1232 01:06:28,122 --> 01:06:29,778 Don't be throwing no shake. 1233 01:06:29,813 --> 01:06:31,056 Girl, whatever. 1234 01:06:35,474 --> 01:06:36,509 My wife knows you. 1235 01:06:39,374 --> 01:06:40,237 Oh. 1236 01:06:43,206 --> 01:06:45,346 - Joy, I would love to show you and your friends 1237 01:06:45,380 --> 01:06:48,383 some dance moves and I'll do it for free. 1238 01:06:48,418 --> 01:06:50,937 - How else were they gonna pay you? 1239 01:06:50,972 --> 01:06:52,318 They don't have any money. 1240 01:06:53,250 --> 01:06:54,872 Girl, get on outta here. 1241 01:06:54,907 --> 01:06:57,323 She's good. You'll see. 1242 01:06:57,358 --> 01:06:58,083 Ready? 1243 01:06:58,117 --> 01:06:59,808 Five, six, seven, and one, two. 1244 01:06:59,843 --> 01:07:01,224 [funky upbeat music] 1245 01:07:01,258 --> 01:07:04,158 Hit the back and dig, dig. 1246 01:07:04,192 --> 01:07:07,023 [upbeat music] 1247 01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:12,545 Shake it. 1248 01:07:12,580 --> 01:07:13,270 Shake. 1249 01:07:14,513 --> 01:07:16,929 Whew, okay, I'm done for the night. 1250 01:07:16,963 --> 01:07:18,620 Watch out for that invoice, 1251 01:07:18,655 --> 01:07:21,140 because if they can't pay me, you gotta pay me. 1252 01:07:21,175 --> 01:07:22,590 Watch out for that invoice. 1253 01:07:22,624 --> 01:07:24,626 - Time for my other lesson, y'all. 1254 01:07:24,661 --> 01:07:26,525 Sayonara. 1255 01:07:26,559 --> 01:07:28,044 See you later, UM. 1256 01:07:28,078 --> 01:07:29,114 Bye, UM. 1257 01:07:32,048 --> 01:07:35,085 Oh boy. That was cute. 1258 01:07:38,261 --> 01:07:41,436 - Mercedes, what's that on your arm? 1259 01:07:43,714 --> 01:07:45,026 It looks like a bump. 1260 01:07:45,061 --> 01:07:46,924 Oh, that, I'm not sure. 1261 01:07:46,959 --> 01:07:48,409 It doesn't hurt or anything. 1262 01:07:48,443 --> 01:07:50,963 One day it wasn't there, but the next day it was. 1263 01:07:50,997 --> 01:07:52,309 This was recent too. 1264 01:07:53,414 --> 01:07:56,210 Mom, Mercedes has a lump on her arm. 1265 01:07:57,107 --> 01:07:59,109 - Where? - Right there? 1266 01:08:01,387 --> 01:08:05,357 - Hmm, I don't know what this is. 1267 01:08:06,358 --> 01:08:07,531 Has your mom seen this? 1268 01:08:07,566 --> 01:08:08,912 Yes. 1269 01:08:08,946 --> 01:08:11,328 - Since your mom is monitoring, I'm sure she's aware of it. 1270 01:08:12,605 --> 01:08:13,917 You see? 1271 01:08:13,951 --> 01:08:16,885 Hmm. It'll be okay. 1272 01:08:19,785 --> 01:08:21,614 Let's finish playing. 1273 01:08:21,649 --> 01:08:26,481 - Okay, but first, let's pray for your lump to go away. 1274 01:08:27,862 --> 01:08:29,829 God can do miracles if we pray and believe together. 1275 01:08:29,864 --> 01:08:30,934 Sure. 1276 01:08:30,968 --> 01:08:32,384 I'll be right back. 1277 01:08:32,418 --> 01:08:33,316 Okay. 1278 01:08:37,941 --> 01:08:40,909 [gentle piano music] 1279 01:08:48,193 --> 01:08:50,436 [phone clicking] 1280 01:08:50,471 --> 01:08:51,506 Hi God. 1281 01:08:51,541 --> 01:08:55,372 It's me, Joy, and my friend, Mercedes. 1282 01:08:55,407 --> 01:08:57,443 I have a favor to ask you. 1283 01:08:59,100 --> 01:09:02,241 God, your Word says, "For where two or three 1284 01:09:02,276 --> 01:09:04,278 "are gathered together in my name, 1285 01:09:04,312 --> 01:09:07,453 "there am I in the midst of them." 1286 01:09:08,903 --> 01:09:12,493 Well, Mercedes has a lump on our arm that needs healing. 1287 01:09:13,942 --> 01:09:17,877 She doesn't know what it is, but we want it to disappear 1288 01:09:17,912 --> 01:09:19,327 before it gets worse. 1289 01:09:20,121 --> 01:09:22,365 In Jesus' name. Amen. 1290 01:09:23,607 --> 01:09:24,712 Thank you Joy. 1291 01:09:24,746 --> 01:09:28,785 No one has ever prayed for me or my arm before. 1292 01:09:28,819 --> 01:09:30,580 Thank you very much. 1293 01:09:30,614 --> 01:09:31,305 You are welcome. 1294 01:09:34,687 --> 01:09:37,311 [gentle music] 1295 01:09:42,108 --> 01:09:45,284 [doorbell chiming] 1296 01:09:45,940 --> 01:09:47,148 Hi, Mrs. Nelson. 1297 01:09:47,183 --> 01:09:48,977 Hi Mercedes. 1298 01:09:49,012 --> 01:09:51,014 Hi Janice. 1299 01:09:51,048 --> 01:09:52,257 Hi Sharon. 1300 01:09:52,291 --> 01:09:53,879 [Sharon] Is Joy around? 1301 01:09:53,913 --> 01:09:55,260 Yes. Joy? 1302 01:09:55,294 --> 01:09:56,916 [Joy] Coming, mom. 1303 01:09:56,951 --> 01:09:58,711 Mercedes! 1304 01:09:58,746 --> 01:10:00,299 [Mercedes] Hi Joy. 1305 01:10:00,334 --> 01:10:01,714 What are you doing here? 1306 01:10:01,749 --> 01:10:05,442 - Joy, we couldn't wait to rush over here 1307 01:10:05,477 --> 01:10:09,584 and thank you for praying over Mercedes arm. 1308 01:10:09,619 --> 01:10:13,001 God heard your prayers and healed that lump. 1309 01:10:14,279 --> 01:10:16,695 Look, it's gone. 1310 01:10:17,799 --> 01:10:18,490 Wow. 1311 01:10:20,043 --> 01:10:21,355 [Sharon] Thank you Joy. 1312 01:10:21,976 --> 01:10:22,977 I told you, Mercedes. 1313 01:10:23,011 --> 01:10:25,290 Yeah, thanks, BFF. 1314 01:10:25,324 --> 01:10:29,984 - Wait, Joy prayed over your arm. 1315 01:10:32,228 --> 01:10:33,470 She's very good at it too. 1316 01:10:35,058 --> 01:10:38,648 We were so thrilled about her lump disappearing 1317 01:10:38,682 --> 01:10:42,238 that we wanted to come and show you in person. 1318 01:10:42,272 --> 01:10:47,035 - That's a miracle because I saw it with my own eyes. 1319 01:10:47,070 --> 01:10:48,899 Oh wow. 1320 01:10:48,934 --> 01:10:51,281 Our prayers were answered. 1321 01:10:52,317 --> 01:10:54,595 - Yes, so we have to run some errands. 1322 01:10:54,629 --> 01:10:56,182 We gotta go. 1323 01:10:56,217 --> 01:10:57,080 [Joy] Bye, Mercedes. 1324 01:10:57,114 --> 01:10:58,461 [Mercedes] Bye, Joy. 1325 01:10:58,495 --> 01:11:00,808 - [Sharon] Bye-Bye. 1326 01:11:00,842 --> 01:11:01,636 Alright. 1327 01:11:02,603 --> 01:11:03,880 Bye guys. 1328 01:11:03,914 --> 01:11:05,191 [Mercedes] Bye. 1329 01:11:05,226 --> 01:11:06,883 [door creaking shut] 1330 01:11:06,917 --> 01:11:09,403 [leaf blower whirring] 1331 01:11:09,437 --> 01:11:11,128 What is going on in here? 1332 01:11:11,163 --> 01:11:14,097 Room is a mess. 1333 01:11:14,131 --> 01:11:17,411 [leaf blower whirring] 1334 01:11:34,220 --> 01:11:37,534 [leaf blower whirring] 1335 01:11:38,811 --> 01:11:40,088 Oh my goodness. 1336 01:11:49,546 --> 01:11:51,030 You messed them up. 1337 01:11:51,065 --> 01:11:52,618 Messed who up? 1338 01:11:52,653 --> 01:11:54,931 Your room was already a mess, sweetie. 1339 01:11:54,965 --> 01:11:58,279 - My dolls, they're supposed to be right there. 1340 01:11:58,314 --> 01:11:59,487 Where's my phone? 1341 01:11:59,522 --> 01:12:02,732 - Hey, hey, hey, what's going on here? 1342 01:12:02,766 --> 01:12:06,114 - Joy's upset about me moving her dolls. 1343 01:12:06,149 --> 01:12:07,530 And my phone. 1344 01:12:07,564 --> 01:12:10,533 - Sweetie, I'm sure Mommy was just trying to be helpful. 1345 01:12:11,741 --> 01:12:15,365 - I know, but-- - I'll put them back for you. 1346 01:12:15,400 --> 01:12:16,677 No, I'll do it 1347 01:12:16,711 --> 01:12:19,921 - Honey, just let Joy rearrange her dolls back 1348 01:12:19,956 --> 01:12:20,819 the way she had 'em. 1349 01:12:21,854 --> 01:12:23,511 Okay. 1350 01:12:25,168 --> 01:12:26,583 And here's your phone. 1351 01:12:37,663 --> 01:12:40,597 - [Newscaster] In the North Bay... 1352 01:12:43,911 --> 01:12:48,571 - Mom, dad, can I ask you a question? 1353 01:12:48,605 --> 01:12:52,402 - Of course, sweetheart, you can ask us anything. 1354 01:12:52,437 --> 01:12:54,542 Why did you choose me? 1355 01:12:54,577 --> 01:12:56,613 I mean, there were so many other kids 1356 01:12:56,648 --> 01:12:58,960 who needed to be adopted. 1357 01:12:58,995 --> 01:12:59,754 Why me? 1358 01:13:05,622 --> 01:13:08,660 Joy, we need you 1359 01:13:08,694 --> 01:13:12,077 to understand the decision to adopt, 1360 01:13:12,111 --> 01:13:15,425 it's never about choosing one child over another. 1361 01:13:16,875 --> 01:13:21,604 It's about finding that special bond, a connection that goes 1362 01:13:22,328 --> 01:13:24,710 beyond anything else. 1363 01:13:24,745 --> 01:13:27,299 - But how did you make a connection with me, 1364 01:13:27,333 --> 01:13:28,921 and we never met before. 1365 01:13:30,647 --> 01:13:32,684 - When we first saw your picture, 1366 01:13:34,686 --> 01:13:36,515 we couldn't explain it, 1367 01:13:36,550 --> 01:13:41,244 but we felt an instant connection with you 1368 01:13:41,278 --> 01:13:42,556 through your picture. 1369 01:13:43,798 --> 01:13:47,492 - And at that point, we knew in our spirit 1370 01:13:47,526 --> 01:13:51,254 that God wanted us three to become a family. 1371 01:13:51,288 --> 01:13:54,533 - But there were so many other kids who needed families. 1372 01:13:54,568 --> 01:13:56,086 They would've been great too. 1373 01:13:58,364 --> 01:13:59,504 You are right, Joy. 1374 01:14:00,505 --> 01:14:03,680 There are so many incredible kids 1375 01:14:03,715 --> 01:14:07,028 that's deserving of loving families just like you. 1376 01:14:07,063 --> 01:14:11,274 But the truth is, we can't save every child. 1377 01:14:11,308 --> 01:14:16,521 All we knew is that we wanted to give a child a home, 1378 01:14:17,073 --> 01:14:18,661 a loving family. 1379 01:14:18,695 --> 01:14:22,388 And when we saw your picture, we knew immediately 1380 01:14:22,423 --> 01:14:25,150 that you were that child. 1381 01:14:26,772 --> 01:14:31,190 - Joy, we didn't adopt you because we felt sorry for you 1382 01:14:32,468 --> 01:14:35,056 or because we thought you needed us. 1383 01:14:35,091 --> 01:14:38,957 We adopted you because we wanted you, Joy. 1384 01:14:40,406 --> 01:14:44,756 We wanted to be your parents and to share our lives with you 1385 01:14:46,171 --> 01:14:50,037 and to give you the love and support that you deserve. 1386 01:14:55,180 --> 01:14:56,388 My baby. 1387 01:14:56,422 --> 01:14:57,562 Where you going? 1388 01:14:57,596 --> 01:15:01,600 [Calvin and Janice laughing] 1389 01:15:03,844 --> 01:15:06,122 Joy is truly a blessing from God. 1390 01:15:09,470 --> 01:15:12,162 Her presence reminds us of how family 1391 01:15:12,197 --> 01:15:16,926 and life should be, full of love and laughter. 1392 01:15:18,652 --> 01:15:21,344 I'm eternally grateful unto God 1393 01:15:21,378 --> 01:15:23,380 for the gift of our daughter. 1394 01:15:23,415 --> 01:15:25,106 I agree. 1395 01:15:25,141 --> 01:15:28,627 And to think, she could have been placed somewhere else 1396 01:15:29,973 --> 01:15:33,321 - Or waiting for a family to adopt her. 1397 01:15:34,391 --> 01:15:37,118 It was God's plan. 1398 01:15:37,153 --> 01:15:38,257 It was her time. 1399 01:15:40,536 --> 01:15:41,847 Thank you God. 1400 01:15:43,262 --> 01:15:45,299 - I'm so glad you thought about adoption when you did. 1401 01:15:45,333 --> 01:15:46,749 It was the Holy Spirit. 1402 01:15:48,164 --> 01:15:51,443 - Was that the same Holy Spirit that told you to marry me? 1403 01:15:51,477 --> 01:15:56,344 Yes it was. [laughing] 1404 01:15:59,244 --> 01:16:01,626 - Mom. - Yes baby. 1405 01:16:01,660 --> 01:16:03,662 Can we play dress up? 1406 01:16:03,697 --> 01:16:06,389 - Sure we can, but I don't know what to wear. 1407 01:16:06,423 --> 01:16:07,424 Can I dress you? 1408 01:16:07,459 --> 01:16:09,875 I'm not liking this already. 1409 01:16:09,910 --> 01:16:11,946 I'll get everything for you. 1410 01:16:11,981 --> 01:16:14,880 - Well, in that case, I'm ready now. 1411 01:16:18,366 --> 01:16:22,232 But me, no, I'd be walking 1412 01:16:22,267 --> 01:16:24,131 around here looking all crazy. 1413 01:16:24,165 --> 01:16:25,270 Calvin. 1414 01:16:25,304 --> 01:16:26,305 [Calvin] Yeah? 1415 01:16:26,340 --> 01:16:27,686 I can hear you. 1416 01:16:27,721 --> 01:16:29,377 [Calvin] Love you honey. 1417 01:16:35,073 --> 01:16:36,695 - [Joy] Mom, I'll be in there shortly. 1418 01:16:36,730 --> 01:16:38,835 Okay sweetie. 1419 01:16:39,491 --> 01:16:41,597 Wait til Calvin sees me. 1420 01:16:41,631 --> 01:16:44,013 - [Joy] Okay, mom, are you ready? 1421 01:16:44,047 --> 01:16:46,153 - Joy's gonna dress me up all pretty. 1422 01:16:48,604 --> 01:16:50,675 Ooh, don't you look pretty. 1423 01:16:50,709 --> 01:16:52,504 Is that my dress? 1424 01:16:52,538 --> 01:16:55,127 - Yeah, it's called dress up, mommy. 1425 01:16:55,162 --> 01:16:56,301 Oh well you look cute. 1426 01:16:56,335 --> 01:16:57,026 Thanks. 1427 01:16:57,854 --> 01:16:58,648 You're welcome. 1428 01:16:58,683 --> 01:17:00,408 Now cover your eyes. 1429 01:17:00,443 --> 01:17:02,169 Close my eyes? 1430 01:17:02,203 --> 01:17:03,653 Yeah. 1431 01:17:03,688 --> 01:17:06,380 - Sweetie, I promise my eyes will not get 1432 01:17:06,414 --> 01:17:08,796 in the way of you dressing me. 1433 01:17:08,831 --> 01:17:12,904 - Okay, but you have to close them. 1434 01:17:12,938 --> 01:17:15,423 I don't wanna close my eyes. 1435 01:17:15,458 --> 01:17:16,735 It's too late. 1436 01:17:16,770 --> 01:17:18,564 I'll have to cover them now. 1437 01:17:18,599 --> 01:17:20,325 Okay. 1438 01:17:20,359 --> 01:17:23,086 [upbeat music] 1439 01:17:24,260 --> 01:17:27,021 - Mommy, you're gonna look so beautiful. 1440 01:17:27,056 --> 01:17:29,852 But first I have to do your makeup. 1441 01:17:29,886 --> 01:17:33,372 - Alright, but promise not to make me look crazy. 1442 01:17:33,407 --> 01:17:34,304 Okay. 1443 01:17:35,512 --> 01:17:37,929 [upbeat music] 1444 01:17:37,963 --> 01:17:40,586 ♪ Going to fly away ♪ 1445 01:17:40,621 --> 01:17:42,658 - [laughing] Is that the foundation? 1446 01:17:42,692 --> 01:17:44,314 - [Joy] Mm-hmm. 1447 01:17:44,349 --> 01:17:46,592 Okay. [laughing] 1448 01:17:46,627 --> 01:17:49,147 ♪ Where I can hide away ♪ 1449 01:17:49,181 --> 01:17:51,597 Now time for lipstick. 1450 01:17:51,632 --> 01:17:53,323 Okay, wait a minute. 1451 01:17:54,566 --> 01:17:57,673 Wait a minute, what is on my lips? 1452 01:17:57,707 --> 01:17:58,501 Joy, you promised. 1453 01:17:58,535 --> 01:18:00,468 [Joy giggling] 1454 01:18:00,503 --> 01:18:01,469 You're fired. 1455 01:18:02,574 --> 01:18:04,472 ♪ Life like summer ♪ 1456 01:18:04,507 --> 01:18:06,336 [phone camera clicking] 1457 01:18:06,371 --> 01:18:07,821 Daddy, come here. 1458 01:18:09,650 --> 01:18:10,927 ♪ Where the sun shines like ♪ 1459 01:18:10,962 --> 01:18:13,827 - Whoa-ho, great job, Joy. 1460 01:18:15,138 --> 01:18:18,279 Now I must say, you made mommy look way better 1461 01:18:18,314 --> 01:18:19,695 than you did daddy. 1462 01:18:19,729 --> 01:18:21,282 [Joy and Calvin laughing] 1463 01:18:21,317 --> 01:18:24,769 And I said to myself, watch Joy make mommy look so pretty. 1464 01:18:24,803 --> 01:18:26,909 Like she's going out on a date. 1465 01:18:26,943 --> 01:18:29,739 Huh, you know what, it's a great idea. 1466 01:18:29,774 --> 01:18:31,707 Let's go ladies. 1467 01:18:31,741 --> 01:18:33,674 I say let's go right now, 1468 01:18:33,709 --> 01:18:35,607 but I need to see what I look like. 1469 01:18:35,641 --> 01:18:37,195 Good point. 1470 01:18:37,229 --> 01:18:37,920 Joy? 1471 01:18:39,231 --> 01:18:39,887 Alright. 1472 01:18:39,922 --> 01:18:41,993 Okay, hold the mirror. 1473 01:18:44,512 --> 01:18:45,410 Three, two, one. 1474 01:18:51,381 --> 01:18:53,487 - Oh my-- 1475 01:18:54,488 --> 01:18:56,386 [Joy] You like it? 1476 01:18:56,421 --> 01:18:57,629 Yes. 1477 01:18:57,663 --> 01:18:59,493 You promised to make me look beautiful. 1478 01:18:59,527 --> 01:19:00,425 [Joy] You are beautiful. 1479 01:19:00,459 --> 01:19:01,840 I look beautiful? 1480 01:19:01,875 --> 01:19:04,601 Aw, you know I'm gonna get you back, right? 1481 01:19:04,636 --> 01:19:06,051 I am going to get you back. 1482 01:19:06,776 --> 01:19:08,019 Oh my goodness. 1483 01:19:08,053 --> 01:19:11,850 - Well, well, well, who's looking crazy now? 1484 01:19:11,885 --> 01:19:12,678 We going out? 1485 01:19:12,713 --> 01:19:14,025 What are we gonna do? 1486 01:19:14,059 --> 01:19:15,129 What are we gonna do? What are we gonna do? 1487 01:19:15,164 --> 01:19:16,579 - [Joy] Mom, can I have your hand? 1488 01:19:16,613 --> 01:19:17,787 Yes. 1489 01:19:17,822 --> 01:19:19,133 [Joy] Can I have your hand? 1490 01:19:19,168 --> 01:19:20,445 [Calvin] Yes. 1491 01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:21,273 [Joy] Mom and dad, hold hands. 1492 01:19:21,308 --> 01:19:22,550 Okay. 1493 01:19:22,585 --> 01:19:25,001 Hi, God, it's me, Joy. 1494 01:19:25,036 --> 01:19:29,419 This time I have my mom and dad praying with me today. 1495 01:19:29,454 --> 01:19:32,871 Thank you for making me a part of their family 1496 01:19:32,906 --> 01:19:35,598 and for making our home happy again. 1497 01:19:35,632 --> 01:19:38,325 We love you so much. 1498 01:19:38,359 --> 01:19:39,153 In Jesus' name. 1499 01:19:39,188 --> 01:19:40,430 [All] Amen. 1500 01:19:40,465 --> 01:19:42,950 [applauding] 1501 01:19:47,506 --> 01:19:49,163 - All right, let's go. - I'm hungry, let's go eat. 1502 01:19:49,198 --> 01:19:50,924 [Janice] All right, come on. 1503 01:19:52,373 --> 01:19:55,066 [uplifting music] 1504 01:20:11,668 --> 01:20:13,567 [phone clicking] 1505 01:20:13,601 --> 01:20:15,914 Hi, God, it's me, Joy. 1506 01:20:15,949 --> 01:20:17,226 Guess what? 1507 01:20:17,260 --> 01:20:19,918 Sarah and Annie don't tease me anymore 1508 01:20:19,953 --> 01:20:22,334 and Mommy's heart is much nicer now, 1509 01:20:22,369 --> 01:20:25,027 and I'm not scared of the neighbor's dog next door. 1510 01:20:26,649 --> 01:20:29,341 [uplifting music] 1511 01:20:46,462 --> 01:20:49,154 [uplifting music] 1512 01:21:06,344 --> 01:21:09,140 [uplifting music] 1513 01:21:26,502 --> 01:21:29,194 [uplifting music] 1514 01:21:46,522 --> 01:21:49,214 [uplifting music] 1515 01:22:12,548 --> 01:22:15,551 [music ending] 1516 01:22:15,585 --> 01:22:19,037 [gentle dramatic music]