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"Grandson." 646 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:50,960 "Can you get me 2,000 euros?" 647 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,400 She was having problems getting money 648 00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:00,120 because of COVID and transferring the accounts, and this and that. 649 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,160 I said, "Sure, yeah, no problem." 650 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:04,760 Put back. Here. 651 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,400 - Thank you very much. - You tell the lady... 652 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,440 She was gonna be our investor. 653 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,480 And in Asian cultures, 654 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:17,120 there is definitely this tradition of gifting. 655 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:22,360 There is this obligation that whenever you receive something, you give something. 656 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:27,560 She just said, "Let's go outside and go shopping." 657 00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,640 We bought her warm boots. 658 00:40:31,720 --> 00:40:32,600 Hats. 659 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:36,040 Handbags. 660 00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:39,040 Dresses. 661 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,840 She was trying on a coat. 662 00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,440 I think it was 8,000 or something. 663 00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,080 And she said, "Oh! Oh, how I love that coat." 664 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,320 And then I ended up paying for it. 665 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:54,920 We bought her champagnes. A lot of champagnes. 666 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:59,800 Oh my God, our champagne bill must be, alone, 10,000. 667 00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:04,720 She said, "Don't you tell Graham." 668 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:10,960 I was not allowed to tell Graham because she didn't want her son to know 669 00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:14,240 that his wealthy mum that finally rekindled with him 670 00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:17,600 maybe had problems getting enough money in the moment. 671 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:24,400 So I had promised her by my heart that I would not tell Graham anything. 672 00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,400 I'm becoming increasingly concerned 673 00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:31,520 about what is happening over there. 674 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:35,840 The contracts that Dionne talks about, the money that Dionne talks about... 675 00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,680 None of it is actually happening. 676 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,000 It's all just talked about. 677 00:41:42,720 --> 00:41:44,640 And the more I was questioning Dionne, 678 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:47,280 the more 679 00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:52,480 Dionne was trying to push me out and try to get me out of the picture. 680 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:55,560 {\an8} 681 00:42:09,240 --> 00:42:12,120 She would speak to you with just this intensity 682 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:14,400 that you've never felt from anyone. 683 00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,080 She was exposing this fun, happy, 684 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:21,160 "Let's go party, let's have a good time" persona to Graham. 685 00:42:21,240 --> 00:42:24,480 And then there's this really deep, nasty undercurrent 686 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:28,360 which is coming in underneath towards me. 687 00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:32,440 And Graham doesn't see that. 688 00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,760 If I go upstairs and you fall, smack your head and never wake up, 689 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:37,960 I'm in big trouble. 690 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:42,120 I was starting to get very worried 691 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:46,080 because, some days, she just lies on the sofa and does not move. 692 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,840 Gaunt and, uh, white, 693 00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:51,920 with all the life sucked out of her. 694 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,240 I would ask, "Are you feeling okay?" 695 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:55,840 "Let's go and see a doctor." 696 00:42:55,920 --> 00:43:00,400 "What type of medication do you need?" She has a big bag of medication. 697 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:10,520 {\an8}She goes, "You know what?" 698 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:12,920 "I've just had it. Let's just finish it now." 699 00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:17,560 And she'll get up on the balcony, and you have to physically drag her down. 700 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,240 This can be one, two o'clock in the morning, 701 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,480 and then you're just sitting there, anxious. 702 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,080 "Am I gonna come home and find her dead somewhere?" 703 00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:29,360 "Or is she gonna do something during the middle of the night?" 704 00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:38,640 As it got closer and closer to Christmas, 705 00:43:38,720 --> 00:43:41,040 Graham was telling me that she 706 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,680 effectively was refusing to let him come home. 707 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:49,560 It was the first Christmas with our son, and he was three months old. 708 00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:53,200 And for me, that was so important that Graham was there. 709 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:59,040 I'm gonna be back for Christmas. I had to fight to get back for Christmas. 710 00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,840 I've made a promise to Heather that I'll be back. 711 00:44:05,240 --> 00:44:08,840 Graham got back in the evening of Christmas Eve. 712 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:14,840 And he called me up that morning and said, "I'm coming home today." 713 00:44:15,720 --> 00:44:17,640 Which I was very relieved about. 714 00:44:18,720 --> 00:44:23,040 And on the night that I left, I received a load of messages. 715 00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,800 Images of how she's devastated, 716 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:29,600 of a lady destroyed that her son had left her. 717 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,400 And she's full of tears. 718 00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:34,200 But at the same time, I'm back. 719 00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:39,360 I was ecstatic, obviously, to see my son and Heather. 720 00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:41,480 He'd grown so much in the two months. 721 00:44:42,240 --> 00:44:43,360 I made Christmas lunch. 722 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,040 I thought it was a pretty, pretty good time, you know? 723 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:51,400 I had-- You know, good time with them. Christmas Day and everything. 724 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,640 Christmas was the worst Christmas I ever had in my life 725 00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:56,760 because we had 726 00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:00,640 a huge argument at 4:00 a.m. about Dionne. 727 00:45:03,240 --> 00:45:05,800 And it was me saying to Graham, "This is not okay." 728 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,000 "You've disappeared for two months." 729 00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:12,040 "And now you rock up last minute like nothing's happened." 730 00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:19,120 Heather tried to point out that there was a wedge being driven between us. 731 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:21,560 And I said... "You're mad." 732 00:45:22,720 --> 00:45:23,920 I needed to just 733 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:26,520 allow them to love each other. 734 00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:29,280 You miss your mum? 735 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:34,760 Good. 736 00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:38,640 Graham and I had wanted to come back to New Zealand, 737 00:45:38,720 --> 00:45:42,360 to introduce the baby to my family and my parents. 738 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,560 So I'm trying to book us tickets, and... 739 00:45:46,720 --> 00:45:50,920 Dionne is trying to convince Graham that he can't go 740 00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,600 because she's gonna die in this period. 741 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,600 The trip to New Zealand was for six weeks, 742 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:17,280 end of January, which is six months after my mother told me 743 00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,720 that she had this diagnosis. 744 00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,320 Effectively, time was up for her. 745 00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:24,160 And she made it very clear 746 00:46:24,240 --> 00:46:28,200 that the doctors had now given her weeks or days to live. 747 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,320 Graham was really upset. 748 00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:48,040 Emotionally all over the place at this point 749 00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:52,320 because he's convinced that she's going to die. 750 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,880 It's a moral dilemma, isn't it? Do what's right and true 751 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,520 and be by your partner and your child, 752 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,040 or what's right and true, 753 00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:07,400 and to see your mum enjoy the rest of her last days 754 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,160 after a 45-year absence. 755 00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:12,760 Which way do you go? 756 00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:16,560 Which way? 757 00:47:26,720 --> 00:47:29,920 He doesn't want to not be there for her. 758 00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:35,640 And so he decides that he won't come to New Zealand. 759 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:41,760 Could I really go to New Zealand and run the risk that I didn't get back 760 00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:44,960 to see the passing of my mother? 761 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,120 I was absolutely 762 00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:51,960 distraught 763 00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:56,640 because I needed to get out of there, I needed space. And-- and I was so... 764 00:47:58,240 --> 00:48:00,120 I just-- I needed to see my family 765 00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,360 and to be around people that loved me at that point. 766 00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,240 Good morning, my darling. 767 00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,160 I'm fine. I know whose voice is that. 768 00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:19,360 I came back from a short trip with Junyan, 769 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:22,240 and then suddenly, there was this guy. 770 00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,200 Chinese guy, Peng. 771 00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,760 She said, "Oh, grandson, granddaughter, 772 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,800 I have to discuss a business with this Peng." 773 00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:36,920 I'm Peng. 774 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:38,720 I'm from China. 775 00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:41,160 I'm living in Germany for many years. 776 00:48:41,240 --> 00:48:45,440 Peng had a business associate that connected him with Dionne, 777 00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:48,720 with the idea that Dionne could invest in her business. 778 00:48:49,720 --> 00:48:53,920 She will give my business associate 60 million 779 00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:57,800 for the total investment to expand her business. 780 00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:02,280 But in Southeast Asian countries, you don't only take. 781 00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,520 Peng was a middleman representing a medical company 782 00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:10,360 that specialize in treating cancers. 783 00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,640 He could help her get treated 784 00:49:12,720 --> 00:49:16,200 and also help get the company financed. 785 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,640 So my business associate offered Dionne 786 00:49:20,720 --> 00:49:23,840 a free cutting-edge cancer treatment, 787 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:27,520 which is only available in Switzerland. 788 00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,160 This treatment will be completely free. 789 00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:49,400 Dionne said, "I don't want that treatment. I'm dying." 790 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,000 "There's no point for me." 791 00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:54,320 "But he could give some money." 792 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:59,240 She spoke about how she will redistribute that money 793 00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:00,960 to people in need, 794 00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:05,040 that this flow of money would actually benefit someone. 795 00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,000 We gave, total, 796 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,480 um, 50,000 US dollars. 797 00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,360 She wanted it delivered by cash. 798 00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,640 Thank you, darling! 799 00:50:26,240 --> 00:50:28,480 She comes back to the UK, 800 00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:31,680 and she takes an apartment right on the river. 801 00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:35,120 Floor-to-ceiling aspect of Tower Bridge. 802 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:42,720 When she came back to London, 803 00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:44,760 Mother was paying for everything. 804 00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,120 Every day, she has a call with the banker, 805 00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,000 and every day, she has a call with the lawyer, 806 00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:55,240 making sure that she got what she needed to get done. 807 00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,440 - What's record on this? - You just follow. 808 00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:00,520 - Is that it? All record? - That's it. 809 00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,680 Okay, we're out. We're out, we're out. 810 00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:07,080 Whilst we were living in this apartment, I had a couple of friends over. 811 00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:09,520 Old friends from my childhood. 812 00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:11,560 The River Thames. 813 00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:13,920 Tower of London. 814 00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:15,840 Look through there. 815 00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:17,800 The most amazing apartment. 816 00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:21,240 Thank you, sweetheart! 817 00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,120 I adore you. 818 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:26,800 Very, very, very, very... 819 00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:28,840 Dionne was great fun, you know? 820 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:33,680 She was very, very, very friendly. Quite charismatic, actually. She was-- 821 00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,120 Similar characteristics of Graham, really. 822 00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:38,560 Just very easy, very warm, and a big smile. 823 00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,160 I met Graham when I was in my teenage years, 824 00:51:49,240 --> 00:51:51,360 probably around 14, 15 years old. 825 00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:56,000 Busted. 826 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,040 He enjoyed being out, and I know why he enjoyed being out. 827 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:00,800 Because it was no fun being at home. 828 00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:04,560 I never met his dad, but I knew he drunk a lot. 829 00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,160 He had a difficult upbringing. 830 00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:12,480 His dad was very abusive. 831 00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,040 His key driver for becoming a chef 832 00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:17,400 was to sort of get out of that environment. 833 00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:20,440 Being a chef was a place where he had a roof over his head, 834 00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,560 it was warm, and he had access to food. 835 00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:30,440 My childhood was a little problematic at times. 836 00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:35,040 Um, there was a lot of alcohol 837 00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:37,640 from one of the family members, 838 00:52:37,720 --> 00:52:39,880 and I still carry the scars today. 839 00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:41,560 It's there. 840 00:52:43,240 --> 00:52:45,160 I was seven years old, and I dropped a cup of tea, 841 00:52:45,240 --> 00:52:47,080 so I had my head stamped on. 842 00:52:56,720 --> 00:52:58,960 Look, my father 843 00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:01,680 wasn't a nice man. 844 00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:05,440 I don't really think about him. 845 00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,000 The last time I saw him, 846 00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:10,880 I was 18 years old, and I was knocking him down. 847 00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,840 That's what it says about what I think about him. 848 00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:23,360 I think Graham had a lot of unprocessed trauma. 849 00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:29,200 One of the things I tend to do is instantly love. 850 00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:31,920 I leave myself too open. 851 00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,760 He was trying to kind of make up for all that trauma 852 00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:40,200 that he'd been through. 853 00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:44,880 And Graham very much fell into that trap of 854 00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:47,320 wanting his mother's love 855 00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,680 and doing anything to get that love back. 856 00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,960 While I'm in New Zealand, it becomes very apparent 857 00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:04,520 that it's a lot worse than I thought it was. 858 00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:08,520 I found out that he'd set up 859 00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,680 other credit cards in his own name 860 00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:14,040 that his mother had requested him to set up, 861 00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,080 and had been accruing debts 862 00:54:18,240 --> 00:54:19,400 that I didn't know about. 863 00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:26,280 This is the point that I realized that Graham has been fully manipulated. 864 00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:34,720 When I was in Zurich before Christmas, 865 00:54:35,240 --> 00:54:38,400 we were staying in this suite in a five-star hotel. 866 00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,080 They presented her with a bill, and I... 867 00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:42,160 I nearly fell off my chair 868 00:54:42,240 --> 00:54:46,240 because it was like £25,000-£30,000, and I was like, "Bloody hell." 869 00:54:48,720 --> 00:54:51,440 And she said, "I'm just having trouble getting my funds." 870 00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:53,000 "I'll get some funds." 871 00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:56,000 Um... so I thought, "Okay, fine." 872 00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:59,200 But then they kept asking. I said, "Look, I can lend you some money." 873 00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:03,320 In Zurich, I'd spent, um, 15 to 20,000. 874 00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:05,520 {\an8} 875 00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:09,160 {\an8}In London, I'd spent £20,000 on hotel bills. 876 00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,040 {\an8}When she came back to London, 877 00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:17,800 {\an8}we did another £10-15,000 on entertainment and bills for her. 878 00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:23,640 {\an8}Total amounts on credit cards? About 20, 25. 879 00:55:25,240 --> 00:55:28,080 {\an8}At that point, I'm about £80,000 or £100,000 down. 880 00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:33,280 The next month, 881 00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:35,160 I see 882 00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:40,880 two large transactions coming out of Graham and mine joint account 883 00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:43,480 as payments for these cars. 884 00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:45,680 And I confront Graham, 885 00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:48,160 and I'm like, "What the hell is this?" 886 00:55:48,240 --> 00:55:50,760 "Why are there car payments coming out for these cars 887 00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:54,320 that you've told me have been bought outright?" 888 00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:56,920 Dionne presented that these cars were a gift. 889 00:55:57,000 --> 00:56:00,160 And clearly, Graham's been completely fooled by this. 890 00:56:00,240 --> 00:56:04,200 "I'm gonna buy you a present. I'm gonna take away 45 years of pain." 891 00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:06,200 Those were her exact words. 892 00:56:06,720 --> 00:56:08,560 Why would I not believe her? 893 00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:12,800 If I was just coming into a family, 894 00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,480 I wouldn't want to pay outright to somebody I'd just met, 895 00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,160 in case they turn into a bit of a douche. 896 00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:22,320 She paid the deposit to get the contract. 897 00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:25,200 {\an8}I'll put it in my name, and she'll pay. And that's what she was doing. 898 00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,800 She was paying for that car. 899 00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:30,000 She was paying for that car. 900 00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:32,480 I didn't pay for that car. She was paying for that car. 901 00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:36,520 But then, all of a sudden, she stops paying for the cars. 902 00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:40,040 I realize that the cars haven't been purchased, 903 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:43,040 and I realize that there's now this agreement in place 904 00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:46,280 that he's liable for these cars. 905 00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,360 How much for, do you think? 906 00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:54,760 I would say upwards of... 907 00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:57,720 180k. 908 00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:59,960 {\an8}Nearly £300,000 of card debt. 909 00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:01,160 {\an8} 910 00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:08,960 I'm so fucking angry. 911 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:12,000 Um... I'm feeling very 912 00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:13,640 scared. 913 00:57:13,720 --> 00:57:17,760 You start to become very, very afraid of who this woman is 914 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:22,600 and how deeply entrenched she is in your partner, 915 00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:26,280 and how much control that she now has over him. 916 00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,000 I think I was 917 00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:31,920 realizing that I was 918 00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:34,680 essentially on a train heading for a train wreck, 919 00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:37,480 and I need to save Graham. 920 00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:41,400 {\an8} 921 00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:54,560 {\an8}I realized that I'm not enough to save Graham. 922 00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:57,720 And I felt like 923 00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:00,960 Juan would be supportive 924 00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,080 and could potentially see what I was seeing. 925 00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:05,840 This is a scam. 926 00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:15,560 She told me that 927 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,440 she didn't trust Dionne at all. 928 00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:23,920 That she think that she's actually a scammer. 929 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:29,840 And I told her, "I think... I think that too." 930 00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:31,400 "I really don't trust her." 931 00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:36,240 He was so desperate to have his mother next to him. 932 00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:38,960 Dionne knew that, and she took advantage of that. 933 00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,800 {\an8} 934 00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:47,720 Once she stopped paying for the cars, it's incredibly stressful. 935 00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:50,680 We're talking thousands of pounds a month 936 00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:52,240 on these vehicles. 937 00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:55,120 But she's there telling me that I don't need to worry. 938 00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:56,680 They were gifts. 939 00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:58,160 They would be paid. 940 00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:03,240 I was reassured by the fact that she's always on the phone 941 00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:06,840 having conversations with her banker and with the lawyer. 942 00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:09,400 And that's literally all I ever see her do. 943 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:12,720 {\an8} 944 00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:28,000 {\an8}There was concern about the situation. 945 00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:30,320 He will lose all his money 946 00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,680 and lose his friends, family. 947 00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:34,680 Everyone. 948 00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:36,360 Lose everything. 949 00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:40,760 I knew it was gonna be catastrophic. 950 00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:43,560 And I felt very powerless. 951 00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:49,440 It's almost like a form of hypnotism, 952 00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:54,000 where he's not seeing things in a rational, clear way anymore. 953 01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:04,600 She calls me up and says, "You know Graham, 954 01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:06,200 he doesn't take care of me." 955 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:07,880 "He just wants my money." 956 01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:10,400 "If I die, he doesn't care." 957 01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,840 At one point, she started to become, 958 01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:22,440 I would say, quite nasty about Graham 959 01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:24,880 and accusing him a lot of things. 960 01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:42,520 Dionne claimed that Graham had emptied her bank account 961 01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:44,240 and spent all of her money 962 01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:48,480 as other accounts was already handed over to the lawyers. 963 01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:57,600 I feel terribly sorry for Dionne. 964 01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:59,960 She's an old lady in wheelchair. 965 01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:02,200 Eighty-five years old. 966 01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:05,400 Suffering from three different kinds of cancer. 967 01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:07,600 {\an8} 968 01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:20,360 {\an8}So I gave another 10,000 969 01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:22,800 to Grandma. 970 01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:26,000 I-- I do call her Grandma. 971 01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:29,440 Thank you, sweetheart. Bye-bye! 972 01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:38,240 Emotionally, I realize I need to try to get my partner back, 973 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:39,600 and I need to convince him, 974 01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:42,640 and I need concrete evidence to present to him 975 01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:45,400 to make him realize what's going on. 976 01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:49,800 I need to fight back against Dionne and not allow her to get away with it, 977 01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:51,160 'cause she needs to be stopped. 978 01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:55,840 So I start researching Dionne. 979 01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:59,200 I want to know more about who she is 980 01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:02,200 and perhaps find out what her real motives are 981 01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:04,040 and what her intentions are. 982 01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:05,440 And it became pretty apparent 983 01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:08,040 that she'd used so many different names over the years, 984 01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:10,800 that it was really hard to actually track her 985 01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:12,360 or find evidence. 986 01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:15,760 But I eventually came across her marriage records. 987 01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:19,880 So the first being in 1970. 988 01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:22,160 The second in 1984. 989 01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:25,560 And then a third in 1994. 990 01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:28,680 So what's really odd here 991 01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:31,240 is that on her first certificate, 992 01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:35,280 she's recorded her date of birth as 1940. 993 01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,720 {\an8}But on her next marriage certificate, 994 01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:44,720 she's recorded herself as being 34 years of age in 1984, 995 01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:47,360 which would make her birth 1950. 996 01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,280 So she's already lost ten years of age 997 01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:53,320 by the time she gets to her second marriage. 998 01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:59,400 Dionne has different fathers recorded on each of these certificates. 999 01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:03,760 In 1970, her father's name is Mahmud. 1000 01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:06,640 And it doesn't give any other details. 1001 01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:08,280 In 1984, 1002 01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:13,720 she's got Antonio Lerres, who's deceased, as her father. 1003 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:15,480 1994, 1004 01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:17,680 her father's name is Ising William. 1005 01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:19,840 And he's also deceased. 1006 01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:23,640 And she's listed his occupation as a violinist. 1007 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:26,640 She's never mentioned having a father that was a violinist. 1008 01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:29,400 Like, it makes you realize, 1009 01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:32,520 if these lies are all over these official documents, 1010 01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:34,760 what other lies is she telling us? 1011 01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:37,440 Her background is a lie. Her family is a lie. 1012 01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:39,400 What else is a lie? 1013 01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:47,440 Graham was so brainwashed 1014 01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:50,400 that he couldn't listen to Heather anymore. 1015 01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:55,720 And she asked me if I can help her to get Graham to see what's going on. 1016 01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:57,880 I said, 1017 01:03:57,960 --> 01:03:59,400 "Count on me, of course." 1018 01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:03,040 They came back to Switzerland, 1019 01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:07,080 and I thought this is the time to really speak with him alone. 1020 01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:09,480 I arrived late. 1021 01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:11,400 Dionne was in the restaurant. 1022 01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:16,920 So we went to the lobby of the hotel, and we drink a bottle of wine. 1023 01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:20,040 And I said, "Give me another bottle of wine." 1024 01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:22,840 "I need him to be relaxed." 1025 01:04:22,920 --> 01:04:24,680 So we had two bottles of wine. 1026 01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:29,120 I didn't mention to Graham that I was in contact with Heather 1027 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:33,040 because he will be upset, and he will not listen to me anymore. 1028 01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:38,840 It was really difficult because he was convinced 100% 1029 01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:41,320 that his mother was legit, 1030 01:04:41,800 --> 01:04:46,720 was a rich person, dying soon, that everything was true. 1031 01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:49,960 For me, was really challenging 1032 01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:54,520 because I had to start to question this to Graham. 1033 01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:57,360 We were having a glass of wine. 1034 01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:01,040 He's like, "You'd better be careful. Your mum is..." 1035 01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,960 "She's lying, and this is what we see as friends." 1036 01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:07,040 Why she keep promising you 1037 01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:10,000 that she will have some money, and the money's not coming? 1038 01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,960 Why she keep saying that she's dying soon? 1039 01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,680 She is better than every one of us. 1040 01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:23,800 And I told him everything I thought about his mother. 1041 01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:28,680 And he told me his need for me to refind myself 1042 01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:33,520 and to "snap out of this almost trance that you're under." 1043 01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:39,680 I was, like, hoping that it's not true. 1044 01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:45,000 It can't be true. It can't be that you came in and... 1045 01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:49,920 after 45 years, and lied about everything. 1046 01:05:55,080 --> 01:06:00,280 You're not ignoring the evidence. You are questioning everything again. 1047 01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:08,840 So, I go back to her suite. 1048 01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:11,880 I snoop around and open up a drawer, 1049 01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:14,840 and there's a little pot of red food coloring. 1050 01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:18,600 I'm like, "Why do you have red food coloring?" 1051 01:06:22,640 --> 01:06:25,000 Takes me back to months before, 1052 01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:27,400 when I received a picture 1053 01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:29,920 of blood in urine. 1054 01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:39,120 I was like, "What..." 1055 01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:41,680 "Why do you have red food coloring?" 1056 01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:56,320 She said it's some Chinese medicine. 1057 01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:58,920 You eat it and do this and that with it. 1058 01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:11,560 We googled the medication that she's on. 1059 01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:16,120 So... but most of those were for hypertension, 1060 01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:18,160 cholesterol, diabetes. 1061 01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:19,800 Everything but... 1062 01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:22,760 Everything but cancer. 1063 01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:27,920 In my mind, there is no cancer. 1064 01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:38,120 She... 1065 01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:40,000 lied. 1066 01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:44,320 And I made life-changing decisions based on that. 1067 01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:48,800 I've made choices which have affected 1068 01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:53,400 my son, my partner. 1069 01:08:01,240 --> 01:08:04,480 And I realized I was drowning in debt. 1070 01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:08,560 Is my grandfather 1071 01:08:09,280 --> 01:08:12,080 really the previous Sultan of Brunei? 1072 01:08:12,640 --> 01:08:14,200 - Yes. - He is? 1073 01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:16,480 - Yes. - And you believe that? 1074 01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:17,840 Yes. 1075 01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:43,440 So my uncle is the current Sultan of Brunei? 1076 01:08:44,120 --> 01:08:45,280 Yes. 1077 01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:47,400 You're the daughter of the Sultan of Brunei 1078 01:08:47,480 --> 01:08:49,400 and one of the richest people in the world? 1079 01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:02,680 I hope it's all true because if it's not, 1080 01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:05,960 and I'm left in this position after meeting with you, Mum, well, then-- 1081 01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:10,840 Okay, Mum. 1082 01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:11,880 Bye. 1083 01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:16,560 The walls are closing in. 1084 01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:19,960 You have no cash. You have no support. 1085 01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:22,360 You have no way out. 1086 01:09:22,440 --> 01:09:25,080 It's a dark, dark place. 1087 01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:28,120 It's all-encompassing. It really is. 1088 01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:31,520 You don't know what to do, honestly. You don't know what to do. 1089 01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:43,160 I contact Action Fraud in the UK 1090 01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:46,880 because I know there's a way that you can register someone 1091 01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:51,080 as a vulnerable person if they're being financially manipulated. 1092 01:09:51,680 --> 01:09:56,120 I also go to the police at that point, and I'm very quickly told that 1093 01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:01,520 it won't be seen as a fraud because she's his mother. 1094 01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:07,280 I was told, "She's an 80-year-old woman." 1095 01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:10,240 "We don't really see these kinds of crimes." 1096 01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:12,320 "Are you sure it's his mother?" 1097 01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:17,360 Dionne doesn't conform to your typical criminal. 1098 01:10:17,440 --> 01:10:20,200 She's wheelchair-bound. She's in her eighties. 1099 01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,160 She supposedly has a terminal illness. 1100 01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:27,040 She is overweight and in ill health. 1101 01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:32,400 And none of these things sort of pointed to her being a criminal. 1102 01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:46,040 Ten months after I gave Dionne the money, 1103 01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:50,040 there is still no progress in the investment. 1104 01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:53,680 My anxiety is to the limit. 1105 01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:57,600 I'm thinking, "Did Dionne trick me?" 1106 01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:01,040 I start to write directly 1107 01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:04,360 to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs in Brunei. 1108 01:11:05,440 --> 01:11:08,400 And they replied, "To Embassy's knowledge, 1109 01:11:08,480 --> 01:11:10,960 there is no person named Dionne Marie Hanna 1110 01:11:11,040 --> 01:11:13,440 or Theresa Haton Mahamud 1111 01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:17,480 as stated in your email who is related to Brunei royal family." 1112 01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:20,080 "We therefore regret to inform 1113 01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:23,800 that we are unable to provide any assistance in this matter." 1114 01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:25,200 Which indicates 1115 01:11:25,720 --> 01:11:27,040 Dionne has 1116 01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:30,920 no connections whatsoever 1117 01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:32,560 to the royal family. 1118 01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:36,800 So all her stories is fake by the officials. 1119 01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:41,000 Everything could turn out to be a scam. 1120 01:11:43,440 --> 01:11:44,920 Worst-case scenario, 1121 01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:47,040 everything is gone, 1122 01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:50,040 and I will never get my money back. 1123 01:11:51,880 --> 01:11:53,840 I'm deeply in debt. 1124 01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:57,440 Felt like being pressed into water. 1125 01:11:58,320 --> 01:11:59,840 And you can't breathe. 1126 01:11:59,920 --> 01:12:03,560 There is a strong hand pushing your head down 1127 01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:07,880 at this-- the moment before you are about to drown. 1128 01:12:09,960 --> 01:12:13,000 I raised the pressure on her. 1129 01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:15,240 I'm asking her directly, 1130 01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:18,680 "When are you giving us the money back?" 1131 01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:23,000 The reply from her, 1132 01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:27,560 "I will not ever forget what you done for me." 1133 01:12:30,480 --> 01:12:35,240 I made up my mind to reach out very first time to Graham. 1134 01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:39,800 "You do know she gets money from me." 1135 01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:42,520 "I have given a huge amount to her." 1136 01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:46,960 Bottom line's 150,000 euros. 1137 01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:50,640 Graham freak out. 1138 01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:52,840 Freak out at that time. 1139 01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:56,800 When Peng told me that he'd actually been lending her money, 1140 01:12:56,880 --> 01:12:58,120 I was like, you know, 1141 01:12:58,200 --> 01:13:03,080 "So essentially, it's your money that we've been using in London." 1142 01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:07,560 Which actually made me feel very sick. 1143 01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:10,480 I-- I feel sick. 1144 01:13:11,440 --> 01:13:15,560 So I said, "Graham, I don't think you're a bad man, 1145 01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:17,760 bad person at all." 1146 01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:22,160 "Why I heard so many negative things about you?" 1147 01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:28,880 "And, uh, why is so many things she talked to me, 1148 01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:31,360 talked to other people and said, 'Don't tell Graham'?" 1149 01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:32,960 {\an8} 1150 01:13:53,480 --> 01:13:54,840 "Don't tell Graham." 1151 01:13:57,040 --> 01:14:00,000 "Don't tell Graham" is a phrase that I've heard a lot. 1152 01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:01,760 The realization kicks in 1153 01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:04,680 that this woman is not who she says she is. 1154 01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:12,440 Because of a cellular-level need for acceptance and for a mother, 1155 01:14:13,520 --> 01:14:14,920 I have been played. 1156 01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,800 She's a master manipulator. 1157 01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:22,920 She's not ill. She doesn't have money. 1158 01:14:23,600 --> 01:14:25,480 She's a con artist. 1159 01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:28,640 His friends were putting more and more pressure on him of, 1160 01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:31,360 "Where's the proof that she is actually your mum?" 1161 01:14:31,440 --> 01:14:33,320 "There's a whole bunch of lies here." 1162 01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:37,880 "You know, where is your concrete evidence that she is your biological mother?" 1163 01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:40,760 I'd asked to have a DNA test on meeting her. 1164 01:14:41,800 --> 01:14:42,960 "So let's do a DNA test." 1165 01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:44,960 "Oh no, no, there's no need to do a DNA test." 1166 01:14:45,040 --> 01:14:46,680 "You believe me, or you don't believe me." 1167 01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:53,160 I mean, nothing that she said before has been true. 1168 01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:58,440 So the only way to find out for sure is to have a DNA test. 1169 01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:06,240 The day that we gave the sample, we were sitting in this five-star hotel. 1170 01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:08,160 Two sets of swabs. 1171 01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:12,480 We put those into the vials. 1172 01:15:13,440 --> 01:15:16,960 We were told that it could take weeks to get the results. 1173 01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:21,400 A part of me didn't want to be related, obviously. 1174 01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:25,680 Because why would one of my family members be like this? 1175 01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:36,320 So here we have, uh, my results. 1176 01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:41,680 It says that, 1177 01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:44,680 "I am unequivocally, 1178 01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:47,240 99.9% 1179 01:15:48,840 --> 01:15:49,680 the... 1180 01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:52,960 biological son of one 1181 01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:56,120 Ms. Dionne Marie Hanna." 1182 01:16:04,040 --> 01:16:05,480 She is my mum. 1183 01:16:06,440 --> 01:16:08,440 This is the hardest thing to understand. 1184 01:16:10,480 --> 01:16:12,120 The hardest thing to understand. 1185 01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:16,320 Why'd you do it to your son? 1186 01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:22,120 Around the time of the DNA test 1187 01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:24,680 was the last time that I saw her. 1188 01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:28,960 There is suddenly no messages. 1189 01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:31,200 No calls. 1190 01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:33,640 She cut all her connections. 1191 01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:38,800 A year after signing the contract, I still got no money. 1192 01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:40,920 No commitment. 1193 01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:42,520 No communication. 1194 01:16:43,200 --> 01:16:45,320 Dionne kind of had disappeared. 1195 01:16:46,280 --> 01:16:49,600 I was talking with Junyan and saying, "We've spent a lot of money." 1196 01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:51,080 "More than 100,000." 1197 01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:53,520 "But we write it off as a loss." 1198 01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:58,040 Just, you know, it's a survival mode. You just let go, and you move forward. 1199 01:16:59,440 --> 01:17:02,880 I invested a lot of my energy, 1200 01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:07,080 time, and love, in a way. 1201 01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:09,920 But it has taught me a great lesson. 1202 01:17:10,000 --> 01:17:13,920 To see reality exactly as it is. 1203 01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:15,840 Not wishful thinking. 1204 01:17:19,560 --> 01:17:22,280 Hi, Mum. Just wanted to know you're okay, 1205 01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:24,560 and, you know, I know... 1206 01:17:27,320 --> 01:17:28,800 you've done what you've done. 1207 01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:32,240 It's cost me, it's cost my family, it's cost everybody. 1208 01:17:32,320 --> 01:17:34,440 But what can I do? 1209 01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:35,760 It's done, isn't it? 1210 01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:38,920 I've just got to pick up the pieces. 1211 01:17:39,560 --> 01:17:41,640 And you've gone again, so... 1212 01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:44,280 What can I do? 1213 01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:45,360 Gone... 1214 01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:47,560 again. 1215 01:17:48,840 --> 01:17:50,520 Singapore, Semarang, 1216 01:17:50,600 --> 01:17:53,040 Indonesia, Brunei, wherever you are. 1217 01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:56,720 Maybe one day you can explain to me why. 1218 01:17:57,920 --> 01:17:59,000 Maybe not. 1219 01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:02,520 I'll never really understand, Mum. 1220 01:18:04,440 --> 01:18:06,280 You take care of yourself, Mum. 1221 01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:12,080 I knew her for 1222 01:18:12,840 --> 01:18:13,880 just over a year. 1223 01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:16,960 I call Mum 1224 01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:19,360 "Dionne" now 1225 01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:22,720 because no mum 1226 01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,800 should, uh, come into someone's life and do that. 1227 01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:28,960 So best to, um... 1228 01:18:29,480 --> 01:18:31,040 Best to stop calling her "Mum." 1229 01:18:32,200 --> 01:18:33,960 It goes against everything 1230 01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:36,880 you think a mother should do. 1231 01:18:36,960 --> 01:18:39,760 Caring and loving and protecting a child, and... 1232 01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:43,360 she didn't do any of that. 1233 01:18:43,440 --> 01:18:47,480 And she effectively destroyed her child's life. 1234 01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:50,280 With no remorse. 1235 01:18:52,600 --> 01:18:54,200 Who-- who is this woman? 1236 01:18:55,400 --> 01:18:56,480 I'm on Google 1237 01:18:57,440 --> 01:19:01,960 for hours on end every day, trying to find information about her. 1238 01:19:02,040 --> 01:19:06,120 I was working in this very luxurious five-star hotel in Zurich... 1239 01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:09,280 I started to reach out to other people 1240 01:19:09,360 --> 01:19:12,320 to try and understand the bigger picture as well. 1241 01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:16,480 She actually left a set of diamond rings to the hotel 1242 01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:19,440 because she did not pay for her room, 1243 01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:21,960 to then find out they weren't even real diamonds. 1244 01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:26,080 As I started talking to people, I started to realize that Dionne's scam 1245 01:19:26,160 --> 01:19:29,120 was much bigger than just Graham and myself. 1246 01:19:29,200 --> 01:19:30,520 I think up until that point, 1247 01:19:30,600 --> 01:19:34,360 I just sort of thought her behavior was solely directed at Graham. 1248 01:19:34,440 --> 01:19:36,280 But the more people I spoke to, 1249 01:19:36,360 --> 01:19:40,360 the bigger and bigger this kind of crime started to become. 1250 01:19:41,200 --> 01:19:43,800 Can you tell me how much money you lost to Dionne? 1251 01:19:43,880 --> 01:19:47,640 At least 627 million rupiah. 1252 01:19:47,720 --> 01:19:49,920 - Wow. - Forty-one thousand. 1253 01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:51,840 Forty-one thousand dollars? 1254 01:19:52,680 --> 01:19:53,880 - Yeah. - Wow. 1255 01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:57,200 My wife and I treat her like our mother. 1256 01:19:57,280 --> 01:19:58,440 Our own mother. 1257 01:19:58,520 --> 01:20:01,680 Can you tell me when was this happening? When did you meet Dionne? 1258 01:20:01,760 --> 01:20:04,560 January 2020. 1259 01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:06,200 All right. In Indonesia? 1260 01:20:06,280 --> 01:20:07,640 Indonesia, yeah. 1261 01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:11,160 She was doing the same thing to you right before she met us. 1262 01:20:12,040 --> 01:20:16,080 Initially, she was paying for everything herself. 1263 01:20:16,160 --> 01:20:17,800 Forty-one thousand dollars. 1264 01:20:17,880 --> 01:20:20,920 Moving from one five-star hotel to another... 1265 01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:24,440 We were like, "Wow, okay, this woman, she's obviously quite wealthy." 1266 01:20:25,960 --> 01:20:27,560 The other victim is 1267 01:20:28,200 --> 01:20:30,800 mostly Muslim in Indonesia 1268 01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:32,400 who want to go for hajj. 1269 01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:36,480 So Dionne is telling people that she's going to offer them 1270 01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:39,960 a cheaper visit to hajj... 1271 01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:42,560 - For the Muslim celebration. - Yeah, yeah. 1272 01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:45,080 It is all bullshit. 1273 01:20:45,840 --> 01:20:49,000 I was one of the people who paid of this trip, 1274 01:20:49,080 --> 01:20:52,040 but she never provided the trip. 1275 01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:56,160 And I'm worried the same thing happened to 1276 01:20:56,240 --> 01:20:58,840 hundreds of people being scammed. 1277 01:20:58,920 --> 01:21:02,520 She-- she really is a piece of work. I mean... 1278 01:21:07,200 --> 01:21:10,560 You have to wonder why? Why did she have to come into our lives? 1279 01:21:12,680 --> 01:21:15,440 When I first met Mum, she had a first-class return ticket. 1280 01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:19,720 It had been used prior to lockdown to come into the UK via Bangkok. 1281 01:21:20,640 --> 01:21:24,080 I didn't realize at the time, but she was due to go back 1282 01:21:24,720 --> 01:21:26,960 {\an8}two weeks after the start of lockdown. 1283 01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:29,520 {\an8}So the only things I can draw from there is, 1284 01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:33,640 if lockdown hadn't have happened, probably would never have met her. 1285 01:21:34,800 --> 01:21:36,120 She was a scammer. 1286 01:21:36,200 --> 01:21:39,160 But there's no transient tourists coming in and out. 1287 01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:43,600 High-net-worth families, whatever. There's no way to make a living. 1288 01:21:43,680 --> 01:21:44,760 So what do you do? 1289 01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:48,640 {\an8}You go on the internet, you find your son. 1290 01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:50,320 Very easy that way. 1291 01:21:51,040 --> 01:21:54,720 She obviously told us that she had six months to live. 1292 01:21:54,800 --> 01:21:56,920 As a result of that, I'm gonna make decisions 1293 01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:58,240 solely based around her. 1294 01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:03,800 Making sure she has the best time that she can have within that six months. 1295 01:22:03,880 --> 01:22:05,600 You have to make fast decisions. 1296 01:22:05,680 --> 01:22:09,920 You want to have as much memory as you can within that short space of time. 1297 01:22:11,320 --> 01:22:13,760 She must have been doing it for years to know 1298 01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:16,800 all of the concierges, the head receptionists, 1299 01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:21,000 and the people within the hotel sectors that-- that she frequented. 1300 01:22:21,080 --> 01:22:24,240 So it's not like it's something that's happened overnight. 1301 01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:27,360 I keep researching. 1302 01:22:27,880 --> 01:22:32,440 Because Graham grew up without his mum, 1303 01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:35,960 we want to know where she actually has been during that period. 1304 01:22:53,560 --> 01:22:55,680 So this is dated 1982. 1305 01:22:56,200 --> 01:23:00,400 "Dionne Hornigold, 41 years of age, of no fixed address, 1306 01:23:00,480 --> 01:23:02,160 pleaded guilty to four charges 1307 01:23:02,240 --> 01:23:04,480 of obtaining cash and jewelry by deception." 1308 01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:09,880 You know, it goes on to say that she presented herself 1309 01:23:09,960 --> 01:23:12,880 as a woman of considerable means and wealth, 1310 01:23:12,960 --> 01:23:16,840 and that she was defrauding people by making promises that she couldn't keep. 1311 01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:19,200 Forty years ago, she's doing the same thing. 1312 01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:22,480 Graham would have been eight years old at this time. 1313 01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:27,360 "The judge jailed Hornigold for two years, 1314 01:23:27,440 --> 01:23:30,080 but suspended eight months of the sentence." 1315 01:23:30,160 --> 01:23:33,280 "The court heard that Hornigold, who was born in Malaysia, 1316 01:23:33,360 --> 01:23:35,760 came to United Kingdom in 1971." 1317 01:23:35,840 --> 01:23:38,440 "She was fined for three shoplifting offenses 1318 01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:40,120 in February 1980, 1319 01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:44,680 and in September that year, she was given an 18-month prison sentence, 1320 01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:47,800 suspended for two years after admitting offenses 1321 01:23:47,880 --> 01:23:50,040 of obtaining property by deception." 1322 01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:53,480 Oof. God, I wish I heard this before. 1323 01:23:56,160 --> 01:23:59,120 I wanted to know who my mum was. 1324 01:24:01,720 --> 01:24:04,800 This is who she is, and who she has been all of her life. 1325 01:24:07,120 --> 01:24:10,000 I've been sideswiped by a seasoned pro. 1326 01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:12,480 Just happens to be my mother. 1327 01:24:21,240 --> 01:24:22,520 {\an8} 1328 01:24:22,600 --> 01:24:24,440 {\an8}What's going on? Where are you? 1329 01:24:24,520 --> 01:24:25,720 {\an8} 1330 01:24:35,600 --> 01:24:36,680 Really? 1331 01:24:41,840 --> 01:24:44,080 Yeah, it was kind of life-changing, Mum. 1332 01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:04,760 You take care, yeah? I need to go. 1333 01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:09,160 No more bullshit. 1334 01:25:10,320 --> 01:25:11,360 Those days are done. 1335 01:25:12,800 --> 01:25:15,080 It's time to move on. 1336 01:25:30,720 --> 01:25:32,840 The year that I had with my mum 1337 01:25:32,920 --> 01:25:36,000 took an enormous toll on my relationship with Heather. 1338 01:25:38,000 --> 01:25:41,480 There was a point where I was hoping to reconcile with Graham. 1339 01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:47,160 But a lot later, when things had sort of settled down, 1340 01:25:48,000 --> 01:25:51,440 Graham and I had come to the conclusion that I wasn't coming back. 1341 01:25:53,200 --> 01:25:55,920 You become a mum, and your child becomes your priority. 1342 01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:59,800 And you've got to give them the best life that you can. 1343 01:26:01,320 --> 01:26:03,280 I miss them every day. 1344 01:26:04,480 --> 01:26:06,320 But he's happy. 1345 01:26:06,400 --> 01:26:08,680 He has stability, and he has family that loves him. 1346 01:26:10,840 --> 01:26:12,560 As painful as it is, 1347 01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:14,520 as stressful as it's been, 1348 01:26:15,360 --> 01:26:17,480 I've put my life back together. 1349 01:26:18,760 --> 01:26:22,520 I've realized that you can recover, 1350 01:26:22,600 --> 01:26:24,840 dust yourself off, and keep going. 1351 01:26:28,440 --> 01:26:30,800 You do have to have the closest of friends around 1352 01:26:30,880 --> 01:26:32,880 which act like your family. 1353 01:26:32,960 --> 01:26:34,920 Gently, gently, gently, gently, gently. 1354 01:26:35,000 --> 01:26:37,200 For me, that happens to be from the kitchen. 1355 01:26:41,920 --> 01:26:44,240 These are the people who helped me 1356 01:26:44,320 --> 01:26:46,480 through the most difficult time of my life. 1357 01:26:47,720 --> 01:26:49,760 Juan, he was such a good friend. 1358 01:26:50,520 --> 01:26:54,240 When it's all been at its ugliest, they were around. 1359 01:26:55,640 --> 01:26:56,960 I knew you could cook. 1360 01:27:00,960 --> 01:27:04,000 And that's what you call family.