1 00:00:01,793 --> 00:00:03,169 [♪] 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.BZ 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.BZ 4 00:00:11,428 --> 00:00:14,681 [♪] 5 00:00:22,647 --> 00:00:24,607 [♪] 6 00:00:39,289 --> 00:00:42,542 {\an8}[quiet, stark instrumental theme plays] 7 00:00:46,379 --> 00:00:50,759 {\an8}[theme grows tender and buoyant] 8 00:00:50,759 --> 00:00:53,178 {\an8}[♪] 9 00:02:11,214 --> 00:02:14,718 [♪] 10 00:02:25,311 --> 00:02:27,772 [birds singing] 11 00:02:30,483 --> 00:02:32,736 [car doors open] 12 00:02:32,736 --> 00:02:33,778 [door closing] 13 00:02:33,778 --> 00:02:34,404 [man] Hoo-whee. 14 00:02:34,404 --> 00:02:36,781 [woman chuckles] 15 00:02:36,781 --> 00:02:37,782 Nice, huh? 16 00:02:37,782 --> 00:02:40,118 - It's huge! - Yeah. -Super nice. 17 00:02:42,704 --> 00:02:46,332 [Connie] This kitchen has a ton of bells and whistles, 18 00:02:46,332 --> 00:02:48,752 but we need to do a serious grocery run tomorrow. 19 00:02:48,752 --> 00:02:50,295 Yeah? 20 00:02:50,295 --> 00:02:53,673 So, do we play rock, paper, scissors? 21 00:02:53,673 --> 00:02:56,217 What are you talking about? 22 00:02:56,342 --> 00:02:57,343 For the biggest room! 23 00:02:57,343 --> 00:02:58,344 [Connie] You take it. 24 00:02:58,344 --> 00:03:01,014 You sure? 25 00:03:01,014 --> 00:03:03,850 I vote our big brother gets first dibs. 26 00:03:04,225 --> 00:03:06,144 I don't know. 27 00:03:06,144 --> 00:03:09,189 [sighs] Aw, take it! 28 00:03:09,189 --> 00:03:10,690 [Anthony] Aw. Thanks, Gwen. 29 00:03:12,275 --> 00:03:14,944 Are we still saying "reunion" 30 00:03:14,944 --> 00:03:17,864 when we are meeting for the first time? 31 00:03:17,989 --> 00:03:20,241 That's what we're calling it, so... 32 00:03:20,241 --> 00:03:22,535 that's what it is. 33 00:03:28,249 --> 00:03:31,127 [door opening] 34 00:03:31,127 --> 00:03:33,338 [door closing] 35 00:03:47,310 --> 00:03:49,813 [shutter snapping] 36 00:03:56,111 --> 00:03:58,405 I brought something from home. 37 00:04:00,031 --> 00:04:01,908 These are from Belgium. 38 00:04:02,033 --> 00:04:03,576 Ooh! Chocolates! 39 00:04:03,702 --> 00:04:05,078 Mm. 40 00:04:05,203 --> 00:04:06,121 Thank you, Marianne. 41 00:04:06,246 --> 00:04:08,373 This is really thoughtful. 42 00:04:08,373 --> 00:04:11,418 I have also a very special bottle of wine 43 00:04:11,543 --> 00:04:13,253 for our first dinner together. 44 00:04:13,253 --> 00:04:15,130 [Anthony] Oh, that's great. 45 00:04:15,255 --> 00:04:16,881 [under her breath] Shit. 46 00:04:17,340 --> 00:04:19,801 So the thing is, I don't drink, 47 00:04:19,926 --> 00:04:23,054 and-and I choose not to be around alcohol... 48 00:04:23,054 --> 00:04:25,098 for many reasons. 49 00:04:25,265 --> 00:04:27,851 Um... 50 00:04:33,398 --> 00:04:35,859 I have something you're all gonna love. 51 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,407 Oh... 52 00:04:46,119 --> 00:04:48,121 They are so very young! 53 00:04:48,246 --> 00:04:52,167 Margaret and John Wasepescan. 54 00:04:52,292 --> 00:04:55,295 It means "meadowlark." 55 00:04:56,963 --> 00:04:58,673 Was... pees... 56 00:04:58,798 --> 00:04:59,966 Wasepescan. 57 00:04:59,966 --> 00:05:01,176 Wasepes... 58 00:05:01,176 --> 00:05:04,471 - Scan. - ...scan. 59 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,975 Our mother looked like Connie, yeah? 60 00:05:09,350 --> 00:05:12,729 No, I look like her. 61 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,913 Hey, this is really fancy. 62 00:05:33,083 --> 00:05:34,751 This one's my favourite. 63 00:05:35,627 --> 00:05:36,670 Hmm! 64 00:05:40,006 --> 00:05:41,216 Hi. 65 00:05:41,216 --> 00:05:43,593 Can I ask a favour? 66 00:05:43,593 --> 00:05:44,803 Sure. 67 00:05:44,803 --> 00:05:47,639 Could you put the seat down when you're done? 68 00:05:47,639 --> 00:05:48,598 Sure. 69 00:05:49,265 --> 00:05:51,309 I have two brothers. 70 00:05:53,228 --> 00:05:54,604 - I get it. - Yeah. 71 00:05:56,982 --> 00:05:58,942 [door closing] 72 00:06:04,572 --> 00:06:06,074 [sound of urination in the bathroom] 73 00:06:06,366 --> 00:06:09,494 Sorry. I meant... 74 00:06:09,494 --> 00:06:13,081 I-I should have said I have three brothers, 75 00:06:13,206 --> 00:06:14,874 and you, four. 76 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:16,876 I have four. 77 00:06:18,294 --> 00:06:20,171 [Anthony] We're good. 78 00:06:20,171 --> 00:06:22,716 [toilet flushing] 79 00:06:22,716 --> 00:06:23,216 [sighing] 80 00:06:23,341 --> 00:06:26,136 [dishes clattering] 81 00:06:26,136 --> 00:06:28,847 [Anthony] Mm. 82 00:06:28,847 --> 00:06:31,391 [Gwen] That was a wicked salad dressing, Connie. 83 00:06:31,516 --> 00:06:34,144 Oh, well, the secret is tons of lime and garlic. 84 00:06:34,144 --> 00:06:35,228 You can send me the recipe, yeah? 85 00:06:35,228 --> 00:06:37,355 [Connie] Yeah, sure. 86 00:06:37,355 --> 00:06:39,190 Wouldn't mind Charlene getting a copy. 87 00:06:39,190 --> 00:06:41,192 Whoa! Wait, pause. 88 00:06:41,192 --> 00:06:42,235 A-Are you telling me 89 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,405 that you can't make it yourself? 90 00:06:45,405 --> 00:06:46,406 - I... - Wait, wait. 91 00:06:46,406 --> 00:06:48,158 Just repeat after me. 92 00:06:48,158 --> 00:06:51,494 "I sure can." 93 00:06:52,996 --> 00:06:55,999 I sure can. 94 00:06:55,999 --> 00:06:56,416 There you go. 95 00:06:56,416 --> 00:06:59,085 [laughter] 96 00:06:59,377 --> 00:07:02,630 I got us all another little something. 97 00:07:02,630 --> 00:07:03,298 [gasping] 98 00:07:03,423 --> 00:07:06,760 [Anthony] Aw, thank you. 99 00:07:12,098 --> 00:07:14,434 Wow. 100 00:07:16,978 --> 00:07:18,772 And one for George. 101 00:07:21,274 --> 00:07:24,069 I don't know how to play hockey. 102 00:07:25,779 --> 00:07:26,613 Neither do I, 103 00:07:26,613 --> 00:07:29,991 but we're all in this together, right? 104 00:07:30,283 --> 00:07:32,202 You know what? 105 00:07:32,327 --> 00:07:34,621 Um, I think I'll just try mine on later. 106 00:07:34,621 --> 00:07:36,289 It's... 107 00:07:36,289 --> 00:07:38,291 It's been a really long day, 108 00:07:38,291 --> 00:07:40,919 and I'm a little bit bushed, 109 00:07:40,919 --> 00:07:43,755 and... but thanks. 110 00:07:46,299 --> 00:07:48,885 [exhaling deeply] 111 00:07:51,346 --> 00:07:55,016 [Marianne] Yeah. Thank you. 112 00:07:55,016 --> 00:07:56,810 [Anthony] I really like it. 113 00:08:02,357 --> 00:08:04,776 {\an8}[Marianne speaking in French] 114 00:08:16,413 --> 00:08:18,957 {\an8}[man speaking in French] 115 00:08:35,223 --> 00:08:37,600 {\an8}[he sighs] 116 00:08:47,318 --> 00:08:51,156 [♪] 117 00:09:14,846 --> 00:09:17,057 [sighing] 118 00:09:55,887 --> 00:09:58,682 [sighing] 119 00:10:01,267 --> 00:10:04,729 [birds singing] 120 00:10:08,316 --> 00:10:11,111 [singing a dance] 121 00:10:32,716 --> 00:10:34,968 [he stops singing] 122 00:10:35,093 --> 00:10:35,468 Hey there. 123 00:10:35,593 --> 00:10:37,512 Good morning. 124 00:10:37,637 --> 00:10:39,305 Morning. 125 00:10:40,432 --> 00:10:43,184 Listening to a Cree round dance song. 126 00:10:43,435 --> 00:10:46,938 Um, I'm trying to learn it. 127 00:10:48,732 --> 00:10:51,818 My first grandkid is coming in January. 128 00:10:51,818 --> 00:10:54,154 Oh, yeah. I remember. 129 00:10:54,279 --> 00:10:57,657 Congratulations. 130 00:10:57,782 --> 00:11:00,076 Yeah, it's good. 131 00:11:01,327 --> 00:11:04,122 Don't let me hold you up. 132 00:11:06,166 --> 00:11:07,834 I wanted to stop. 133 00:11:15,383 --> 00:11:18,678 Sorry, I don't have much to say. 134 00:11:20,388 --> 00:11:22,182 I don't mind. 135 00:11:22,307 --> 00:11:25,268 I enjoy the silence. 136 00:11:29,856 --> 00:11:32,108 We can share the silence. 137 00:11:37,155 --> 00:11:38,948 [humming softly] 138 00:11:50,502 --> 00:11:52,796 Hey, is that "Lost Together"? 139 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:54,547 You know, Blue Rodeo? 140 00:11:54,547 --> 00:11:56,257 Yeah, it's my favourite. 141 00:11:56,257 --> 00:11:58,885 Me too! 142 00:12:00,345 --> 00:12:03,306 Um, do you want any help here? 143 00:12:03,306 --> 00:12:07,018 No, I've got it. Thanks. 144 00:12:08,561 --> 00:12:09,813 Okay. 145 00:12:10,188 --> 00:12:13,149 Cheers. 146 00:12:18,154 --> 00:12:19,948 Well, I don't know about you guys, 147 00:12:20,073 --> 00:12:21,616 but I'm hanging with the Merman 148 00:12:21,741 --> 00:12:23,535 at the Banff Indian Trading Post. 149 00:12:23,660 --> 00:12:24,869 "Merman"? 150 00:12:25,995 --> 00:12:28,581 Kind of looks like a guy I once dated. 151 00:12:28,581 --> 00:12:30,583 [chuckling] 152 00:12:30,709 --> 00:12:32,669 Mm. 153 00:12:33,962 --> 00:12:36,464 "Bankhead was a small coal-mining town 154 00:12:36,589 --> 00:12:38,091 in the early 20th century. 155 00:12:38,091 --> 00:12:41,094 Now the town is an abandoned cluster of buildings 156 00:12:41,219 --> 00:12:42,345 right on the outskirts of Banff. 157 00:12:42,345 --> 00:12:44,389 Step onto the old train 158 00:12:44,389 --> 00:12:48,768 and soak in history here." 159 00:12:48,768 --> 00:12:50,603 Yeah. Okay, I get it. 160 00:12:50,603 --> 00:12:53,440 We don't need too much excitement in one day. 161 00:12:53,565 --> 00:12:56,943 We don't have to choose now, do we? 162 00:12:57,068 --> 00:12:59,154 We can head into town, maybe get a feel for things. 163 00:12:59,279 --> 00:13:01,865 Yeah. I would like to see the Banff town. 164 00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:04,284 I mean, we don't need to "decide" decide. 165 00:13:04,409 --> 00:13:07,495 I just, I thought we'd start by making a shortlist. 166 00:13:07,495 --> 00:13:10,957 Why don't we just take these with us 167 00:13:10,957 --> 00:13:12,417 in case we need 'em in town? 168 00:13:12,417 --> 00:13:14,294 Sure. 169 00:13:14,419 --> 00:13:15,211 Anyone for more coffee? 170 00:13:15,211 --> 00:13:18,131 I won't say no. 171 00:13:19,883 --> 00:13:22,052 Uh, no, thank you. 172 00:13:24,387 --> 00:13:26,890 [♪] 173 00:13:31,311 --> 00:13:32,395 Ah, thank you. 174 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:33,813 [woman] You're welcome. 175 00:13:36,399 --> 00:13:37,317 [man] Say "cheese." 176 00:13:37,317 --> 00:13:39,361 [♪] 177 00:13:39,361 --> 00:13:40,403 [shutter snapping] 178 00:13:46,743 --> 00:13:49,245 [shutter snapping] 179 00:13:51,915 --> 00:13:53,249 I would like very much 180 00:13:53,249 --> 00:13:55,168 to take pictures of this view from the Skybridge. 181 00:13:55,293 --> 00:13:57,087 Oh! 182 00:13:57,087 --> 00:13:59,631 Hey, hey, I'll get tickets for all of us. 183 00:13:59,631 --> 00:14:00,715 - Oh, no. - Yeah! 184 00:14:00,715 --> 00:14:02,092 No, it's too much. 185 00:14:02,092 --> 00:14:04,302 No, it's my first chance to treat my Belgian sister, 186 00:14:04,302 --> 00:14:07,013 and I'm grabbing it! 187 00:14:07,138 --> 00:14:07,347 Thank you. 188 00:14:07,347 --> 00:14:10,725 Yeah. 189 00:14:10,850 --> 00:14:12,185 Uh, I promised my wife 190 00:14:12,310 --> 00:14:13,311 I'd get a selfie with each of you. 191 00:14:13,311 --> 00:14:15,814 Oh, wait. Here. 192 00:14:17,357 --> 00:14:19,943 Yeah. 193 00:14:28,451 --> 00:14:31,871 And then it extends. 194 00:14:33,123 --> 00:14:34,874 And when you are ready, you just press the button here. 195 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:37,335 [both chuckling] 196 00:14:37,335 --> 00:14:38,294 [shutter clicking] 197 00:14:38,294 --> 00:14:40,547 Ah, it's so nice! 198 00:14:44,426 --> 00:14:45,677 [shutter snaps] 199 00:14:45,677 --> 00:14:47,220 Nice. 200 00:14:48,346 --> 00:14:51,057 Done. 10:00 a.m. tomorrow morning. 201 00:14:52,267 --> 00:14:55,103 Uh, Anthony promised his wife a selfie with each of us. 202 00:14:55,228 --> 00:14:55,729 All righty. 203 00:14:55,729 --> 00:14:57,355 [Anthony] Come on, Gwen. 204 00:15:02,402 --> 00:15:03,570 [shutter snaps] 205 00:15:03,695 --> 00:15:05,405 - [Gwen laughs] - Where to now? 206 00:15:06,448 --> 00:15:07,824 I need to buy some gifts. 207 00:15:07,824 --> 00:15:09,034 [Connie] Okay. 208 00:15:09,034 --> 00:15:10,952 I'm allergic to tourist traps, 209 00:15:11,077 --> 00:15:13,079 so I think I'm just gonna head over to the drugstore, 210 00:15:13,079 --> 00:15:14,039 and then I'm gonna go check out 211 00:15:14,039 --> 00:15:15,790 that thrift store we saw driving in. 212 00:15:15,915 --> 00:15:17,459 I sort of thought we'd all do something together. 213 00:15:17,459 --> 00:15:19,336 Well, we will. We'll-we'll grab a late lunch. 214 00:15:19,336 --> 00:15:21,129 Where and when? 215 00:15:21,254 --> 00:15:23,381 I'll find a place, book a table, 216 00:15:23,381 --> 00:15:25,091 send you all a text? 217 00:15:26,259 --> 00:15:27,260 Okay. 218 00:15:30,388 --> 00:15:33,350 Are you allergic to tourist traps too? 219 00:15:33,350 --> 00:15:35,310 No. 220 00:15:50,158 --> 00:15:55,205 Wow! Oh, they are super. 221 00:15:55,330 --> 00:15:56,498 [chuckling] 222 00:15:57,707 --> 00:16:01,002 My husband says my daughters are too old for toy buffalo, 223 00:16:01,127 --> 00:16:03,254 but it is what they want. 224 00:16:03,380 --> 00:16:05,215 I still have the stuffed koala I got when I was six. 225 00:16:05,215 --> 00:16:07,092 - Yeah? - Mm-hmm. 226 00:16:07,217 --> 00:16:09,219 Kiki got me through a lot. 227 00:16:09,219 --> 00:16:12,681 She's the only one who ever really listened. 228 00:16:12,681 --> 00:16:13,723 She's missing an ear 229 00:16:13,723 --> 00:16:16,142 because I talked the other one off. 230 00:16:17,936 --> 00:16:19,771 Oh, talking someone's ear off 231 00:16:19,771 --> 00:16:22,857 just means you've talked too much. 232 00:16:23,358 --> 00:16:25,527 [chuckling] 233 00:16:25,527 --> 00:16:26,194 Oh, yeah! 234 00:16:26,194 --> 00:16:28,321 [laughing] 235 00:16:28,446 --> 00:16:29,656 I can hold onto these 236 00:16:29,656 --> 00:16:32,117 if you wanna look around some more. 237 00:16:40,875 --> 00:16:43,211 [♪] 238 00:17:00,895 --> 00:17:02,480 [Gwen groans] 239 00:17:08,278 --> 00:17:10,113 Seriously? 240 00:17:10,113 --> 00:17:12,657 I'm gonna get you some Velcro shoes 241 00:17:12,657 --> 00:17:13,700 for your birthday. 242 00:17:13,825 --> 00:17:14,451 [he laughs] 243 00:17:14,451 --> 00:17:16,202 [Marianne] A big smile. 244 00:17:16,327 --> 00:17:17,829 [chuckling] 245 00:17:17,954 --> 00:17:20,040 [shutter snaps] 246 00:17:20,373 --> 00:17:23,585 [sighing] Thank you for helping me. 247 00:17:23,710 --> 00:17:25,587 It was fun. 248 00:17:25,587 --> 00:17:28,173 I wish my nieces didn't live across the ocean. 249 00:17:28,173 --> 00:17:30,383 Well, then you must come visit us. 250 00:17:30,508 --> 00:17:33,094 - I'd like that. - They would like it too. 251 00:17:34,637 --> 00:17:36,014 And me. 252 00:17:36,139 --> 00:17:37,891 My husband too. 253 00:17:38,016 --> 00:17:39,225 [laughing] Anybody else? 254 00:17:39,351 --> 00:17:41,269 Uh, Babette. 255 00:17:41,269 --> 00:17:43,438 My dog. 256 00:17:43,563 --> 00:17:44,939 - Okay. - [both laughing] 257 00:17:46,858 --> 00:17:49,361 And one day I will meet your brothers? 258 00:17:51,196 --> 00:17:53,948 Andrea, my brother Davie's daughter, 259 00:17:54,074 --> 00:17:55,116 she's lovely. 260 00:17:55,116 --> 00:17:58,036 I think you'd get along really well. 261 00:18:14,678 --> 00:18:16,888 I always wanted one of these when I was a kid. 262 00:18:17,013 --> 00:18:17,931 [Gwen chuckles] 263 00:18:18,056 --> 00:18:19,933 Looks like you still do. 264 00:18:20,141 --> 00:18:22,936 I wanted Charlie's Angels. 265 00:18:22,936 --> 00:18:25,397 Those chicks kicked ass, man. 266 00:18:25,397 --> 00:18:27,232 Yeah! 267 00:18:27,232 --> 00:18:31,111 Yeah, brown foster kids like us, 268 00:18:31,236 --> 00:18:33,571 we never got shit like that, did we? 269 00:18:34,948 --> 00:18:37,158 [Anthony] Yeah. 270 00:18:37,283 --> 00:18:40,036 You know, I think you should treat yourself 271 00:18:40,161 --> 00:18:41,037 and just get it. 272 00:18:41,037 --> 00:18:43,581 Nah, that's okay. 273 00:18:43,707 --> 00:18:46,668 [laughing] Hmm. 274 00:18:49,796 --> 00:18:52,298 How many cheese-and-baloney sandwiches did you eat 275 00:18:52,424 --> 00:18:53,758 growing up? 276 00:18:53,758 --> 00:18:54,968 Too many. 277 00:18:54,968 --> 00:18:56,136 [laughing] And what do I do? 278 00:18:56,261 --> 00:18:58,430 Force feed 'em to my own kid. 279 00:18:58,430 --> 00:19:00,807 Some habits are hard to break. 280 00:19:00,932 --> 00:19:02,767 Charlene won't let me near the stuff. 281 00:19:05,395 --> 00:19:08,898 You ever wonder if she thought about 282 00:19:09,024 --> 00:19:10,775 how many cheese-and-baloney sandwiches 283 00:19:10,775 --> 00:19:12,360 she didn't get to make? 284 00:19:12,485 --> 00:19:13,737 Who? 285 00:19:13,737 --> 00:19:15,363 Our mother. 286 00:19:18,992 --> 00:19:19,951 Can I tell you something? 287 00:19:19,951 --> 00:19:21,369 I'm listening. 288 00:19:22,871 --> 00:19:26,124 I haven't thought of her very much. 289 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:39,512 Oh, hey. 290 00:19:39,637 --> 00:19:41,139 - Hey. - Look what the elf dragged in. 291 00:19:41,139 --> 00:19:43,975 - [chuckling] - Fudge? 292 00:19:43,975 --> 00:19:46,561 Oh, no, I'm trying to, you know, 293 00:19:48,063 --> 00:19:49,439 Listen up, girl, 294 00:19:49,439 --> 00:19:50,148 'cause I'm only gonna tell you this once. 295 00:19:50,148 --> 00:19:53,109 You're beautiful. 296 00:19:53,109 --> 00:19:54,778 [Connie chuckles] 297 00:19:54,778 --> 00:19:55,945 So no more talk 298 00:19:55,945 --> 00:19:58,865 about this "love handle" or any other shit. 299 00:19:58,865 --> 00:20:00,659 - Oh, I get it, just... - Eh-eh-eh-eh! 300 00:20:01,242 --> 00:20:03,203 Where's Marianne? 301 00:20:03,203 --> 00:20:07,791 Oh, she wanted to wander by herself. 302 00:20:07,791 --> 00:20:09,334 Oh, well, hey, join us! 303 00:20:09,334 --> 00:20:12,003 Come on, have a seat. We're people-watchin'. 304 00:20:12,128 --> 00:20:14,339 I think I will. 305 00:20:17,509 --> 00:20:22,263 [♪] 306 00:21:16,985 --> 00:21:18,486 Those are moose hide. 307 00:21:18,611 --> 00:21:20,280 Ah. 308 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,907 They are very nice. 309 00:21:24,159 --> 00:21:26,661 I will take five, please. 310 00:21:26,661 --> 00:21:28,621 Oh. Delia? 311 00:21:28,621 --> 00:21:29,664 [laughing] 312 00:21:29,664 --> 00:21:33,251 This lady is buying five of your keychains. 313 00:21:39,966 --> 00:21:41,926 Are you First Nation? 314 00:21:41,926 --> 00:21:43,636 I am from Belgium. 315 00:21:44,262 --> 00:21:47,599 I am visiting family. 316 00:21:48,183 --> 00:21:49,225 I was born here, 317 00:21:49,225 --> 00:21:53,521 but then I was taken away. 318 00:21:55,648 --> 00:21:58,693 Here, you call it "the '60s Scoop." 319 00:21:58,693 --> 00:22:02,864 Oh, mm. 320 00:22:02,864 --> 00:22:04,866 So who is your family here? 321 00:22:06,242 --> 00:22:09,454 A brother and two sisters. 322 00:22:10,288 --> 00:22:13,124 And there is one more brother, 323 00:22:13,124 --> 00:22:15,960 but he refused to come. 324 00:22:27,305 --> 00:22:28,807 [woman] Are these for them? 325 00:22:32,852 --> 00:22:34,979 I met them for the first time yesterday. 326 00:22:35,105 --> 00:22:37,899 Mm. [chuckling] 327 00:22:47,158 --> 00:22:48,785 Try them on. 328 00:22:48,785 --> 00:22:51,413 They're a gift. 329 00:22:59,504 --> 00:23:03,008 Ooh! Those look perfect on you. 330 00:23:33,121 --> 00:23:35,623 I'm Alma. 331 00:23:36,374 --> 00:23:39,044 My name is Marianne. 332 00:23:39,044 --> 00:23:41,463 I want you to come back Sunday. 333 00:23:41,463 --> 00:23:44,591 Bring your sisters and your brother. 334 00:23:44,591 --> 00:23:46,134 I want you to meet my husband, Simon, 335 00:23:46,134 --> 00:23:49,471 and, um, dress warm. 336 00:23:56,061 --> 00:23:57,979 Thank you. 337 00:23:58,104 --> 00:23:59,898 Mm. 338 00:24:07,739 --> 00:24:11,493 [Marianne] I have very many memories of happiness. 339 00:24:12,494 --> 00:24:15,747 And did that feeling of happiness last? 340 00:24:15,872 --> 00:24:17,499 I would say yeah. 341 00:24:18,291 --> 00:24:19,834 I had friends... 342 00:24:21,294 --> 00:24:22,712 good friends. 343 00:24:22,712 --> 00:24:27,801 They were, how can you say, uh, stand up for me? 344 00:24:27,801 --> 00:24:28,968 They protected me. 345 00:24:29,094 --> 00:24:31,680 Everybody needs that. 346 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,224 Not too many children care where you come from 347 00:24:34,349 --> 00:24:36,267 when you are the fastest in your school... 348 00:24:36,267 --> 00:24:38,853 in all of Antwerp. 349 00:24:38,853 --> 00:24:39,729 [Anthony] Oh, shit, 350 00:24:39,729 --> 00:24:42,816 you were the fastest kid in your city? 351 00:24:42,941 --> 00:24:44,859 The fastest 12-year-old. 352 00:24:44,859 --> 00:24:47,946 So you never really felt like you didn't fit in? 353 00:24:49,364 --> 00:24:52,867 Mm, because of all the medals and the trophies 354 00:24:52,867 --> 00:24:54,619 and the attention, 355 00:24:54,619 --> 00:24:57,914 it was like I fit into my school. 356 00:24:58,039 --> 00:24:59,499 My neighbourhood too. 357 00:24:59,499 --> 00:25:02,210 But your parents must have told you where you came from. 358 00:25:02,210 --> 00:25:06,297 Oh, yeah, but Canada felt so far away. 359 00:25:06,297 --> 00:25:08,466 Everything I learned about Indians 360 00:25:08,591 --> 00:25:10,468 I learned by watching the films with them. 361 00:25:10,468 --> 00:25:14,264 You mean, like, "Hi-ho, Silver" and all that crap? 362 00:25:14,264 --> 00:25:16,683 Yeah. 363 00:25:19,269 --> 00:25:22,272 My father, 364 00:25:22,272 --> 00:25:25,567 he is passing away when I was 20, 365 00:25:25,567 --> 00:25:28,862 and then my mother before I am 30. 366 00:25:31,156 --> 00:25:32,866 When you are an only child, 367 00:25:32,866 --> 00:25:34,534 it's very difficult 368 00:25:34,534 --> 00:25:37,996 to feel so much grief all by yourself. 369 00:25:39,289 --> 00:25:44,085 I remember always wishing very much 370 00:25:44,085 --> 00:25:45,587 that I had siblings. 371 00:25:56,139 --> 00:25:57,891 [smoke alarm beeps] 372 00:25:57,891 --> 00:25:59,309 [gasps] My cookies! 373 00:25:59,434 --> 00:26:02,103 Oh! Can we continue this in here? 374 00:26:09,653 --> 00:26:11,738 This is all of them? 375 00:26:17,285 --> 00:26:20,121 How many homes did you live in? 376 00:26:20,246 --> 00:26:22,248 I lived in a few places. 377 00:26:22,248 --> 00:26:25,126 One was a temporary foster home. 378 00:26:27,379 --> 00:26:29,130 Then the Adopt Indian-Métis Program 379 00:26:29,130 --> 00:26:32,592 put my picture in the paper. 380 00:26:36,971 --> 00:26:39,474 My wife found this in the archives. 381 00:26:47,399 --> 00:26:51,152 [Marianne] What is Adopt Indian-Métis? 382 00:26:51,152 --> 00:26:53,321 Well, Anthony and George would've been labeled 383 00:26:53,321 --> 00:26:56,533 "hard to place," because they were older, 384 00:26:56,533 --> 00:26:59,577 so the government came up with a program 385 00:26:59,577 --> 00:27:01,830 that advertised kids in newspapers, 386 00:27:01,955 --> 00:27:02,706 so, that way, 387 00:27:02,706 --> 00:27:03,248 people could pick and choose them, 388 00:27:03,248 --> 00:27:06,501 like puppies. 389 00:27:10,547 --> 00:27:13,258 [Anthony] After I was scooped, 390 00:27:13,258 --> 00:27:15,969 I went to live with the Bradshaws. 391 00:27:18,346 --> 00:27:20,849 I thought I'd be with them forever. 392 00:27:22,267 --> 00:27:25,687 They seemed really nice. 393 00:27:27,230 --> 00:27:28,982 But then they got pregnant, 394 00:27:29,107 --> 00:27:33,111 stuffed everything I had in a garbage bag. 395 00:27:36,740 --> 00:27:38,199 Wasn't half full. 396 00:27:39,367 --> 00:27:42,370 I stood in the driveway 397 00:27:42,370 --> 00:27:45,915 waiting for a social worker. 398 00:27:46,499 --> 00:27:50,128 It was the day before my seventh birthday. 399 00:27:54,424 --> 00:27:58,303 Then I was back in a home until the Klassens picked me up 400 00:27:58,303 --> 00:28:00,305 and took me to their farm... 401 00:28:02,557 --> 00:28:06,728 because I was, uh, big for my age. 402 00:28:09,064 --> 00:28:10,607 Then, at 18, 403 00:28:10,607 --> 00:28:13,151 I was on my own, 404 00:28:13,276 --> 00:28:17,155 had a baby girl I barely knew when I was in my 20s. 405 00:28:19,908 --> 00:28:22,035 Janine. 406 00:28:24,913 --> 00:28:28,041 Spent a stretch on my own... 407 00:28:28,291 --> 00:28:31,169 even when I was with someone. 408 00:28:33,838 --> 00:28:35,590 Then I met Charlene. 409 00:28:37,008 --> 00:28:38,843 Let me see. 410 00:28:43,890 --> 00:28:45,934 [Connie] She's beautiful. 411 00:28:49,980 --> 00:28:50,980 Kyle. 412 00:28:50,980 --> 00:28:53,858 He's studying to be a mechanical engineer. 413 00:28:55,443 --> 00:28:59,280 Janine... teaches kindergarten. 414 00:29:10,625 --> 00:29:12,752 And you, Connie? 415 00:29:20,510 --> 00:29:21,720 Um... 416 00:29:21,845 --> 00:29:23,805 [phone buzzing] 417 00:29:23,930 --> 00:29:27,517 Oh, um, I-I gotta take this. 418 00:29:27,517 --> 00:29:29,144 You guys just go on without me. 419 00:29:29,144 --> 00:29:30,145 We'll wait for you. 420 00:29:30,145 --> 00:29:33,273 It's George. I don't know how long I'll be. 421 00:29:33,273 --> 00:29:36,317 - [buzzing] - Just go ahead. 422 00:29:36,317 --> 00:29:39,070 [sighing] I'm here. 423 00:29:42,115 --> 00:29:44,409 [door opening] 424 00:29:44,534 --> 00:29:46,828 You know, you could still come... 425 00:29:49,247 --> 00:29:51,416 if you wanna be here. 426 00:29:57,213 --> 00:29:59,132 [Connie] I was with the same family 427 00:29:59,132 --> 00:30:00,425 since I was a baby. 428 00:30:00,425 --> 00:30:03,345 You were a very cute baby. 429 00:30:06,681 --> 00:30:08,725 These are your two big brothers? 430 00:30:08,850 --> 00:30:12,187 Yeah, that's me with Dougie and Davie. 431 00:30:15,648 --> 00:30:18,193 I always got an Indian doll at Christmas. 432 00:30:19,486 --> 00:30:22,697 When I was five, I got one, I called her "Shirley." 433 00:30:22,822 --> 00:30:24,032 [she chuckles softly] 434 00:30:24,032 --> 00:30:27,160 So I'm in my room and combing her hair 435 00:30:27,285 --> 00:30:28,328 and singing to her, 436 00:30:28,328 --> 00:30:32,207 and Dougie walks in, 437 00:30:32,332 --> 00:30:34,959 and he grabs her, and whispers in my ear... 438 00:30:36,961 --> 00:30:39,130 "You better be a good girl, 439 00:30:39,130 --> 00:30:41,424 or you'll be sent back to live on the Reserve 440 00:30:41,424 --> 00:30:43,385 with those dirty Indians." 441 00:30:44,844 --> 00:30:47,222 Then he flung Shirley out the window. 442 00:30:50,225 --> 00:30:54,938 I was terrified that if I ever... 443 00:30:54,938 --> 00:30:56,272 complained or said the wrong thing, 444 00:30:56,398 --> 00:30:58,483 that I'd be sent away. 445 00:31:00,402 --> 00:31:03,655 Now I keep thinking that 446 00:31:03,655 --> 00:31:05,031 I was taken away 447 00:31:05,031 --> 00:31:07,325 before our mother heard me speak my first word. 448 00:31:10,829 --> 00:31:14,165 Kai's was "puppy." 449 00:31:17,252 --> 00:31:20,005 Good night. 450 00:31:21,464 --> 00:31:23,174 Night. 451 00:31:24,259 --> 00:31:25,176 Sleep well. 452 00:31:25,176 --> 00:31:28,930 [footsteps recede] 453 00:31:52,579 --> 00:31:54,414 [sniffling] 454 00:31:57,208 --> 00:32:00,587 [in Dutch] ♪ Slaap, kindje, slaap ♪ 455 00:32:00,587 --> 00:32:05,008 ♪ Daar buiten loopt een schaap ♪ 456 00:32:05,133 --> 00:32:09,095 ♪ Een schaap met witte voetjes ♪ 457 00:32:09,095 --> 00:32:13,391 ♪ Dat drinkt zijn melk zo zoetjes ♪ 458 00:32:13,391 --> 00:32:16,603 ♪ Slaap, kindje, slaap ♪ 459 00:32:16,603 --> 00:32:21,232 ♪ Daar buiten loopt een schaap ♪ 460 00:32:21,232 --> 00:32:24,319 It's Flemish. 461 00:32:26,071 --> 00:32:29,449 It means, "Sleep, baby, sleep." 462 00:32:31,159 --> 00:32:35,121 My oma, my grandmother, 463 00:32:35,246 --> 00:32:39,042 sang it to my mother when she was a baby, 464 00:32:39,042 --> 00:32:42,337 and then my mother to me. 465 00:32:47,258 --> 00:32:50,428 What? Can't a mother miss her kid? 466 00:32:50,428 --> 00:32:52,931 [Kai] I thought you'd be too busy to call. 467 00:32:52,931 --> 00:32:55,016 What's it been like, meeting them all? 468 00:32:55,141 --> 00:32:59,354 Ah, too much to cram into a quick call. 469 00:32:59,354 --> 00:33:01,064 Well, make it a long call. 470 00:33:01,189 --> 00:33:03,483 Don't get mouthy with me, Kai. 471 00:33:03,483 --> 00:33:04,192 Mouthy? 472 00:33:04,192 --> 00:33:06,987 I'm sorry, babe. I-I'm tired. 473 00:33:07,112 --> 00:33:10,115 But tell me how your day went. 474 00:33:10,115 --> 00:33:13,201 What did you make for supper tonight? 475 00:33:13,326 --> 00:33:15,453 Pop Tarts. 476 00:33:15,578 --> 00:33:18,415 [laughing] - Seriously? 477 00:33:18,415 --> 00:33:20,291 Some days are like that. 478 00:33:20,291 --> 00:33:22,794 Some evenings, too. 479 00:33:22,794 --> 00:33:24,295 What do you mean? 480 00:33:24,295 --> 00:33:26,172 Are you okay? 481 00:33:27,632 --> 00:33:28,299 [sighing] 482 00:33:28,299 --> 00:33:30,844 Blueberry? 483 00:33:30,844 --> 00:33:31,553 What? 484 00:33:31,553 --> 00:33:33,722 Blueberry Pop Tarts? 485 00:33:33,847 --> 00:33:35,724 Oh. [laughing] 486 00:33:35,724 --> 00:33:37,392 Like you even had to ask. 487 00:33:40,645 --> 00:33:43,022 [birdsong] 488 00:33:48,695 --> 00:33:51,364 [exhaling deeply] 489 00:34:00,915 --> 00:34:01,249 You're done? 490 00:34:01,249 --> 00:34:03,626 Uh, yeah. 491 00:34:04,794 --> 00:34:08,006 Uh, we were supposed to run together? 492 00:34:08,006 --> 00:34:11,676 We never made it official or anything like that. 493 00:34:11,676 --> 00:34:14,763 I could never keep up with you anyway. 494 00:34:14,888 --> 00:34:18,725 Oh, I'm so very sorry. 495 00:34:18,725 --> 00:34:21,061 That's okay. 496 00:34:23,938 --> 00:34:26,900 Gonna go for a short walk. 497 00:34:28,735 --> 00:34:30,445 Wait! 498 00:34:31,863 --> 00:34:34,616 I like to run with music. 499 00:34:34,741 --> 00:34:36,201 Same. 500 00:34:36,201 --> 00:34:38,995 I like to walk with music too. 501 00:34:40,246 --> 00:34:41,331 I want to walk with your music. 502 00:34:41,331 --> 00:34:44,292 My playlist? 503 00:34:45,251 --> 00:34:47,379 The song you were listening to yesterday, 504 00:34:47,379 --> 00:34:49,297 for your grandchild. 505 00:34:51,257 --> 00:34:53,176 Can you play it for me, please? 506 00:34:55,220 --> 00:34:56,930 I would like my daughters to hear it. 507 00:34:57,055 --> 00:34:58,932 [playing dance song on phone] 508 00:34:58,932 --> 00:35:00,141 [singing and drumming] 509 00:35:00,266 --> 00:35:02,769 [audio recorder initiates] 510 00:35:02,769 --> 00:35:06,022 [♪] 511 00:35:13,738 --> 00:35:16,199 [♪] 512 00:35:19,828 --> 00:35:20,620 [silence falls] 513 00:35:23,456 --> 00:35:25,709 Let's get this show on the road! 514 00:35:25,834 --> 00:35:27,127 [door closing] 515 00:35:29,671 --> 00:35:30,672 [door closing] 516 00:35:31,423 --> 00:35:34,134 [belts clicking] 517 00:35:39,472 --> 00:35:42,267 She says she's having a very bad headache. 518 00:35:42,267 --> 00:35:44,644 Oh, Jesus. 519 00:35:44,644 --> 00:35:46,980 [sighing] 520 00:35:47,355 --> 00:35:49,691 [rustling] 521 00:35:49,816 --> 00:35:51,401 Hold tight. 522 00:35:53,653 --> 00:35:54,696 Hmm. 523 00:35:54,696 --> 00:35:56,156 [sighing] 524 00:35:58,783 --> 00:36:00,243 [rustling] 525 00:36:02,620 --> 00:36:04,122 Are these prescription? 526 00:36:04,122 --> 00:36:06,207 Hell, no. You'd never find this shit in a pharmacy. 527 00:36:06,207 --> 00:36:09,377 You know, I'll get through this. I always do. 528 00:36:09,502 --> 00:36:12,005 You just go on ahead without me. 529 00:36:12,005 --> 00:36:13,923 I'll have a meal waiting for you when you get back. 530 00:36:13,923 --> 00:36:15,133 You're gonna take two of these, 531 00:36:15,133 --> 00:36:16,009 and you're gonna meet us in the car in five minutes. 532 00:36:16,134 --> 00:36:17,010 I don't think that I should-- 533 00:36:17,135 --> 00:36:21,181 We're not leaving without you. 534 00:36:22,974 --> 00:36:26,603 [sighing] 535 00:36:29,689 --> 00:36:30,106 [raven calls] 536 00:36:30,231 --> 00:36:34,194 [♪] 537 00:36:58,718 --> 00:36:59,803 Wait! 538 00:37:02,263 --> 00:37:04,099 I ca-- I can't do it. I-I can't. 539 00:37:04,099 --> 00:37:07,060 I wish I could, but I can't. 540 00:37:07,060 --> 00:37:09,562 I'm afraid of heights. 541 00:37:09,688 --> 00:37:12,565 Why didn't you tell us this before I bought the tickets? 542 00:37:13,441 --> 00:37:15,026 You were nice enough to buy them. 543 00:37:15,026 --> 00:37:17,070 You could have said no. 544 00:37:17,070 --> 00:37:19,072 I don't want to ruin things. 545 00:37:19,072 --> 00:37:21,074 I will stay. 546 00:37:21,074 --> 00:37:23,702 You travelled all this way! 547 00:37:23,702 --> 00:37:25,996 Fuck, no. I'll stay. 548 00:37:25,996 --> 00:37:27,664 No, I don't want anyone to stay. 549 00:37:27,664 --> 00:37:30,208 Please, go. I... 550 00:37:30,208 --> 00:37:31,126 Just go. I'm sorry. I... look! 551 00:37:31,251 --> 00:37:34,337 I'll play Animal Crackers. 552 00:37:37,048 --> 00:37:38,341 Go! 553 00:37:45,306 --> 00:37:47,267 I love Animal Crackers. 554 00:37:47,267 --> 00:37:49,728 [laughing] It's fine! 555 00:37:49,728 --> 00:37:50,812 I do! 556 00:37:50,937 --> 00:37:51,813 - It's fine. - I do! 557 00:37:51,813 --> 00:37:54,107 Go. Go. 558 00:37:58,528 --> 00:38:00,363 [sighing] 559 00:38:04,576 --> 00:38:07,120 [sighing] 560 00:38:08,913 --> 00:38:11,624 [♪] 561 00:38:17,881 --> 00:38:18,798 Oh, boy. 562 00:38:21,968 --> 00:38:23,636 [chuckling] 563 00:38:26,514 --> 00:38:28,308 Come on. 564 00:38:30,852 --> 00:38:32,687 Ooh. [chuckling] 565 00:38:32,687 --> 00:38:35,398 [♪] 566 00:38:37,108 --> 00:38:38,234 Hello, hello? 567 00:38:39,069 --> 00:38:42,155 [♪] 568 00:38:43,031 --> 00:38:44,199 [snapping] 569 00:38:44,199 --> 00:38:46,910 [chuckling warmly] 570 00:38:52,791 --> 00:38:54,584 Mm. 571 00:39:21,486 --> 00:39:23,822 Do you think Connie feels abandoned? 572 00:39:23,947 --> 00:39:25,240 Uh... 573 00:39:25,240 --> 00:39:28,576 I don't know! I-I wouldn't put it that way! 574 00:39:28,702 --> 00:39:31,705 [Marianne] I'm concerned about her. 575 00:39:36,292 --> 00:39:39,796 Yeah, she'll be okay. 576 00:39:42,257 --> 00:39:44,384 Keep going? 577 00:39:44,384 --> 00:39:46,219 - Yeah. - Okay. [chuckling] 578 00:39:49,264 --> 00:39:52,225 You snatched Shirley out of my hands 579 00:39:52,350 --> 00:39:53,226 and threw her out the window. 580 00:39:53,351 --> 00:39:56,229 [Dougie] Who the hell is Shirley? 581 00:39:56,354 --> 00:39:58,523 I told you, my doll. 582 00:39:58,523 --> 00:40:00,358 You expect me to remember something 583 00:40:00,358 --> 00:40:01,192 that happened 50 years ago? 584 00:40:01,192 --> 00:40:04,112 More like 45 years ago. 585 00:40:04,237 --> 00:40:05,697 Right, thanks. 586 00:40:05,822 --> 00:40:09,451 50 years is a fucking blur, but 45 is crystal clear. 587 00:40:09,576 --> 00:40:11,745 It's coming back to me like it was yesterday. 588 00:40:11,745 --> 00:40:12,746 Oh, whatever, Dougie. 589 00:40:13,163 --> 00:40:16,916 [hanging up] 590 00:40:33,141 --> 00:40:36,436 If I say to you 591 00:40:36,561 --> 00:40:38,480 zero means you are not scared at all, 592 00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,608 and ten means you are very scared, 593 00:40:41,733 --> 00:40:45,570 what number are you when you think of the bridge? 594 00:40:45,570 --> 00:40:47,405 20. 595 00:40:47,405 --> 00:40:50,700 Can you just go part of the way? 596 00:40:50,700 --> 00:40:52,285 Why? 597 00:40:52,285 --> 00:40:55,622 We are four here today, not three. 598 00:40:57,374 --> 00:41:00,043 I would like you near to me. 599 00:41:06,424 --> 00:41:07,175 We can try together. 600 00:41:07,300 --> 00:41:10,345 Yeah? 601 00:41:17,811 --> 00:41:19,104 [raven calls] 602 00:41:19,104 --> 00:41:20,063 [whimpering] No. 603 00:41:20,063 --> 00:41:22,399 [whispering] It's okay. 604 00:41:28,321 --> 00:41:30,198 [Connie breathing shakily] 605 00:41:30,323 --> 00:41:31,282 - [whimpering] - Ready? 606 00:41:31,282 --> 00:41:32,242 Just look at me. - I can't. 607 00:41:32,242 --> 00:41:34,369 Look at me. Look at me. 608 00:41:34,369 --> 00:41:36,121 I know. I don't think I can. 609 00:41:36,121 --> 00:41:37,914 Hang onto me. 610 00:41:42,669 --> 00:41:45,964 Okay. We go slow, we go slow, okay? 611 00:41:46,089 --> 00:41:46,631 Mm-hmm. 612 00:41:46,631 --> 00:41:48,758 [bridge creaking faintly] 613 00:41:54,931 --> 00:41:57,350 Ooh... 614 00:41:57,350 --> 00:41:58,184 Just look at me. Look in my eyes. 615 00:41:58,309 --> 00:42:01,187 Look into my eyes. Okay? Look. 616 00:42:01,313 --> 00:42:03,315 [Connie's breath shaking] 617 00:42:03,315 --> 00:42:05,066 [Marianne] Do you want to keep going? 618 00:42:05,191 --> 00:42:07,819 [whimpering] Mm-hmm-hmm. 619 00:42:07,819 --> 00:42:10,905 - Okay. - Okay. 620 00:42:12,198 --> 00:42:16,036 Look at my sister Connie. 621 00:42:16,036 --> 00:42:17,203 She's such a brave girl. 622 00:42:17,203 --> 00:42:19,539 [chuckling] 623 00:42:26,087 --> 00:42:28,423 ♪ Slaap, kindje, slaap ♪ 624 00:42:28,548 --> 00:42:32,302 ♪ Daar buiten loopt een schaap ♪ 625 00:42:32,427 --> 00:42:35,096 ♪ Slaap, kindje, slaap ♪ 626 00:42:35,221 --> 00:42:39,142 ♪ Daar buiten loopt een schaap ♪ 627 00:42:39,267 --> 00:42:43,271 ♪ Een schaap met witte voetjes ♪ 628 00:42:43,396 --> 00:42:46,983 ♪ Dat drinkt zijn melk zo zoetjes ♪ 629 00:42:47,108 --> 00:42:49,444 ♪ Slaap, kindje, slaap ♪ 630 00:42:49,569 --> 00:42:53,782 ♪ Daar buiten loopt een schaap ♪ 631 00:42:54,240 --> 00:42:57,077 [Connie's breath shakes] 632 00:43:04,042 --> 00:43:05,168 [laughing] 633 00:43:06,586 --> 00:43:08,713 [Anthony] You're almost there. 634 00:43:08,838 --> 00:43:11,508 Come on. 635 00:43:13,301 --> 00:43:16,179 [Connie giggling] 636 00:43:16,304 --> 00:43:19,099 [she laughs and sobs] 637 00:43:19,099 --> 00:43:22,102 [♪] 638 00:43:25,230 --> 00:43:27,023 - Oh! - [laughing] 639 00:43:27,148 --> 00:43:29,234 [♪] 640 00:43:29,234 --> 00:43:30,235 [Anthony] You did it, Connie. 641 00:43:30,235 --> 00:43:33,154 [Connie crying] 642 00:43:33,154 --> 00:43:36,116 [♪] 643 00:43:41,246 --> 00:43:43,123 Thank you. 644 00:43:43,248 --> 00:43:45,583 [siblings laughing] 645 00:43:45,583 --> 00:43:48,920 That got me thinking about when I was on a canoe trip 646 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:50,839 at this Bible camp. 647 00:43:50,839 --> 00:43:54,384 One of the canoes flipped, drenching every kid inside. 648 00:43:54,509 --> 00:43:57,262 This one girl, I still remember her name, 649 00:43:57,387 --> 00:43:59,097 Trish, 650 00:43:59,097 --> 00:44:02,308 she offers to dry the soaked pants over a bonfire. 651 00:44:02,308 --> 00:44:04,227 Oh, no! 652 00:44:05,186 --> 00:44:06,146 The first pair of jeans goes up in flames. 653 00:44:06,271 --> 00:44:09,065 [laughing] 654 00:44:09,190 --> 00:44:09,941 Trish flings them... 655 00:44:09,941 --> 00:44:11,318 - Yeah? - ...and they land on a tent. 656 00:44:11,443 --> 00:44:13,945 [laughter] 657 00:44:13,945 --> 00:44:15,822 Two kids grab pots to fill up with lake water. 658 00:44:15,822 --> 00:44:16,865 [Gwen] Yeah? 659 00:44:16,865 --> 00:44:19,159 When they come back, one of 'em is drenched, 660 00:44:19,284 --> 00:44:20,452 because he tumbled in the lake. 661 00:44:20,452 --> 00:44:22,704 Trish takes one look at him and says, 662 00:44:22,829 --> 00:44:24,539 "Do you want me to dry that for you?" 663 00:44:24,664 --> 00:44:27,000 [all cracking up] 664 00:44:28,335 --> 00:44:31,212 [all sighing] 665 00:44:31,338 --> 00:44:33,006 [Gwen] Here we are... 666 00:44:34,174 --> 00:44:35,008 sharing family stories 667 00:44:35,008 --> 00:44:37,594 that we've never even heard before, eh? 668 00:44:40,805 --> 00:44:42,932 She told me some stories. 669 00:44:43,058 --> 00:44:44,768 Who's that? 670 00:44:45,935 --> 00:44:48,229 Our mother. I met her once. 671 00:44:52,067 --> 00:44:54,611 What the hell? 672 00:44:55,695 --> 00:44:58,281 I had to tell you. Now you know. 673 00:45:03,495 --> 00:45:05,246 [sighing] 674 00:45:17,175 --> 00:45:25,016 [♪] 675 00:46:09,894 --> 00:46:14,816 What do you think of going to this place next year? 676 00:46:19,863 --> 00:46:21,239 Um... 677 00:46:22,991 --> 00:46:25,160 It's very beautiful, Connie, 678 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,955 but for me, for next year, 679 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,416 I would like to see the place where I come from. 680 00:46:31,416 --> 00:46:34,169 This is where you come from. It's Canada. 681 00:46:34,169 --> 00:46:35,170 [Marianne] No. No. 682 00:46:35,170 --> 00:46:38,173 I mean, our, uh... 683 00:46:38,173 --> 00:46:40,967 [Gwen] Our reserve. 684 00:46:41,092 --> 00:46:43,094 Kakihewapiw? 685 00:46:43,219 --> 00:46:46,014 Yeah. 686 00:46:46,014 --> 00:46:47,015 [Gwen] Our people, 687 00:46:47,140 --> 00:46:52,145 not some fancy house with six bathrooms. 688 00:46:52,270 --> 00:46:54,064 I spent a week online trying to find this place. 689 00:46:54,064 --> 00:46:56,107 Nobody complained when I booked it. 690 00:46:58,985 --> 00:47:00,862 Now? 691 00:47:03,698 --> 00:47:05,950 [Connie] I thought we'd start with a warmup 692 00:47:05,950 --> 00:47:08,620 before we break into teams. 693 00:47:08,745 --> 00:47:11,122 What, do you got cheerleaders lined up too, or what? 694 00:47:11,122 --> 00:47:15,293 "What is the most widely eaten fruit in America?" 695 00:47:17,629 --> 00:47:19,881 I'm not timing you or anything. 696 00:47:20,965 --> 00:47:21,216 Apples? 697 00:47:21,216 --> 00:47:24,052 Mm-mm. 698 00:47:24,177 --> 00:47:25,053 Uh, an orange? 699 00:47:25,178 --> 00:47:28,848 No. 700 00:47:30,058 --> 00:47:30,975 Bananas? 701 00:47:30,975 --> 00:47:32,644 If you're not gonna play properly, 702 00:47:32,644 --> 00:47:33,812 don't play at all. 703 00:47:35,230 --> 00:47:38,650 "How many golf balls are there on the moon?" 704 00:47:38,775 --> 00:47:41,653 Why didn't you tell us you met our mother? 705 00:47:41,653 --> 00:47:42,153 I have my reasons. 706 00:47:42,153 --> 00:47:44,072 Oh, yeah? 707 00:47:44,197 --> 00:47:46,074 We're listening. 708 00:47:47,534 --> 00:47:48,451 What are they? 709 00:47:48,451 --> 00:47:49,994 "Three." 710 00:47:49,994 --> 00:47:50,954 What? 711 00:47:51,079 --> 00:47:53,248 There are three golf balls on the moon. 712 00:47:56,376 --> 00:47:59,838 How long were you gonna sit on this little secret of yours? 713 00:47:59,838 --> 00:48:02,340 How many feet in a fathom? 714 00:48:02,340 --> 00:48:04,509 Fuck you. 715 00:48:04,509 --> 00:48:06,761 I'm outta here. 716 00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:11,266 Gwen... 717 00:48:11,266 --> 00:48:13,143 you don't mean that. 718 00:48:13,143 --> 00:48:14,269 Yeah, I do. 719 00:48:14,269 --> 00:48:17,105 [slaps cards down] 720 00:48:18,189 --> 00:48:20,775 [footsteps receding] 721 00:48:36,750 --> 00:48:39,044 [closing boxes] 722 00:48:48,470 --> 00:48:52,849 [Gwen] I'm not waiting for the sun to rise, George. 723 00:48:52,974 --> 00:48:55,226 [George] I can't open it up. 724 00:48:56,269 --> 00:48:57,854 Can't do it. 725 00:48:57,979 --> 00:49:02,317 [tearfully] No one's asking you to pick at a scab. 726 00:49:03,193 --> 00:49:06,571 I don't have it in me. The... 727 00:49:06,571 --> 00:49:08,782 The what? 728 00:49:14,329 --> 00:49:16,956 I'm not brave like you. 729 00:49:16,956 --> 00:49:20,460 The hell you're not. 730 00:49:20,460 --> 00:49:22,754 Listen up. 731 00:49:22,754 --> 00:49:25,590 You need to get your shit together 732 00:49:25,715 --> 00:49:27,175 in the next year, 733 00:49:27,175 --> 00:49:28,968 for the next time. 734 00:49:31,679 --> 00:49:33,807 You hear me? 735 00:49:39,604 --> 00:49:41,856 [♪] 736 00:49:44,442 --> 00:49:45,694 [knocking] 737 00:49:45,694 --> 00:49:47,278 Connie? 738 00:49:51,908 --> 00:49:53,743 [door creaks open] 739 00:49:53,868 --> 00:49:55,453 Hey, Connie? 740 00:50:06,339 --> 00:50:08,007 [light clicks on] 741 00:50:08,007 --> 00:50:10,343 [quietly] Marianne. 742 00:50:10,343 --> 00:50:12,971 Marianne, wake up! 743 00:50:12,971 --> 00:50:13,471 Hey! 744 00:50:13,471 --> 00:50:14,889 Connie is gone. 745 00:50:15,014 --> 00:50:17,600 What time is it? 746 00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:18,977 [Gwen] It's late. 747 00:50:19,102 --> 00:50:20,937 Oh, God. 748 00:50:20,937 --> 00:50:22,981 Should we tell Anthony? 749 00:50:23,106 --> 00:50:25,233 No. No need to spread the worry, 750 00:50:25,233 --> 00:50:27,318 plus he takes forever to get ready. 751 00:50:27,444 --> 00:50:29,487 Where the fuck can she be? 752 00:50:29,487 --> 00:50:30,905 [Marianne sighs] 753 00:50:35,243 --> 00:50:36,244 [Gwen] Connie? 754 00:50:36,244 --> 00:50:38,580 Connie! 755 00:50:38,580 --> 00:50:40,874 Oh, my God. I know. 756 00:50:40,999 --> 00:50:42,292 I know I was too hard on her. 757 00:50:42,292 --> 00:50:44,044 I think so, yeah. 758 00:50:44,169 --> 00:50:47,338 But isn't that what sisters do? 759 00:50:47,338 --> 00:50:49,174 They call each other out. 760 00:50:49,174 --> 00:50:51,342 [sighing] Maybe, 761 00:50:51,468 --> 00:50:55,347 but have we even been sisters long enough for that? 762 00:50:57,307 --> 00:50:58,183 [river rushing] 763 00:50:58,183 --> 00:51:00,518 Connie! 764 00:51:01,853 --> 00:51:03,271 [Marianne] There she is. 765 00:51:06,441 --> 00:51:08,068 Connie. 766 00:51:17,285 --> 00:51:19,287 I was a shit for lacing into you like that. 767 00:51:19,287 --> 00:51:22,624 It's just, you know, 768 00:51:22,624 --> 00:51:25,335 dropping that bomb about our mother? 769 00:51:25,460 --> 00:51:27,462 [mocks explosion] Pshew! 770 00:51:31,132 --> 00:51:33,968 I came here to talk to her. 771 00:51:35,178 --> 00:51:38,973 I wanted her permission to tell her story. 772 00:51:45,188 --> 00:51:47,983 I was with her for about an hour. 773 00:51:47,983 --> 00:51:52,237 Not yet. Not here. 774 00:51:52,362 --> 00:51:55,240 Besides... bears. 775 00:51:55,365 --> 00:51:58,243 [river rushing] 776 00:52:05,375 --> 00:52:09,295 I brought biscuits and we sipped tea, 777 00:52:09,421 --> 00:52:13,133 and she told me some stories... 778 00:52:13,258 --> 00:52:15,010 about growing up on the reserve 779 00:52:15,010 --> 00:52:18,012 with all her cousins and siblings... 780 00:52:20,306 --> 00:52:23,435 about meeting our dad when she was 15... 781 00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:28,481 and how hard it was when he died. 782 00:52:31,192 --> 00:52:35,655 She didn't want to talk about us being taken away, 783 00:52:35,655 --> 00:52:39,534 but she told me she'd been sick for a really long time... 784 00:52:42,787 --> 00:52:44,956 and she told me I needed to go home, 785 00:52:44,956 --> 00:52:47,125 our home, 786 00:52:47,250 --> 00:52:47,917 Kakia... 787 00:52:48,043 --> 00:52:50,170 Kakihewa... 788 00:52:50,295 --> 00:52:52,756 [slowly] Kakihewapiw. 789 00:52:52,881 --> 00:52:53,965 [Connie] Kakihewapiw. 790 00:52:54,090 --> 00:52:56,176 [quietly] Yeah. 791 00:52:58,261 --> 00:53:03,016 I went... before I found all of you. 792 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,564 I didn't belong. [chuckling sadly] 793 00:53:11,149 --> 00:53:15,779 They were warm and welcoming, but it felt so... 794 00:53:15,779 --> 00:53:16,905 foreign. 795 00:53:16,905 --> 00:53:18,948 [sighing] 796 00:53:18,948 --> 00:53:20,700 I planned to stay for three days. 797 00:53:20,700 --> 00:53:22,661 I barely lasted one. 798 00:53:26,623 --> 00:53:28,541 I felt... 799 00:53:29,459 --> 00:53:35,173 so... ashamed at being an outsider, 800 00:53:35,173 --> 00:53:38,176 for not being the me that they deserved. 801 00:53:42,722 --> 00:53:44,974 I kept wanting to apologize to all of them 802 00:53:45,100 --> 00:53:47,394 and to our mother for... 803 00:53:49,104 --> 00:53:51,398 because I-I'd let her down. 804 00:53:54,859 --> 00:53:57,112 That's where we're from. 805 00:53:57,237 --> 00:54:01,700 That's our home, no matter what. 806 00:54:04,077 --> 00:54:06,371 Then why... 807 00:54:07,288 --> 00:54:10,125 why did I feel so small? 808 00:54:11,334 --> 00:54:14,212 [Gwen] Because when that's all you've ever been told, 809 00:54:14,212 --> 00:54:17,716 it doesn't take long to believe it. 810 00:54:21,302 --> 00:54:23,388 She told me about George... 811 00:54:24,472 --> 00:54:27,392 how he tried to be the man of the house. 812 00:54:28,309 --> 00:54:30,061 He once attacked two social workers. 813 00:54:30,061 --> 00:54:32,731 It took three cops to hold him down. 814 00:54:35,984 --> 00:54:36,901 He had it the hardest, 815 00:54:36,901 --> 00:54:40,322 'cause, I mean, he was the oldest. 816 00:54:40,322 --> 00:54:43,450 Nobody wanted to adopt him, 817 00:54:43,450 --> 00:54:45,618 and all those foster families, 818 00:54:45,744 --> 00:54:47,829 they just... 819 00:54:47,829 --> 00:54:50,874 they just beat everything out of him. 820 00:54:50,999 --> 00:54:54,335 [♪] 821 00:55:02,052 --> 00:55:03,762 [songbirds chirping] 822 00:55:06,639 --> 00:55:07,307 [door opening] 823 00:55:07,307 --> 00:55:09,809 [Marianne takes a deep breath] 824 00:55:09,934 --> 00:55:11,936 [door latches shut] 825 00:55:11,936 --> 00:55:13,688 I am ready when you are ready. 826 00:55:14,147 --> 00:55:16,524 You are ready? 827 00:55:18,526 --> 00:55:19,235 No. 828 00:55:19,235 --> 00:55:22,614 [laughing] Come on, let's go. 829 00:55:23,198 --> 00:55:26,368 [♪] 830 00:55:53,686 --> 00:55:55,563 Come on, Anthony! 831 00:55:55,689 --> 00:55:57,190 You can do it! 832 00:56:02,862 --> 00:56:04,572 I should've done more! 833 00:56:10,996 --> 00:56:12,163 I should've stepped in 834 00:56:12,163 --> 00:56:13,957 when Connie and Gwen were going at each other 835 00:56:14,082 --> 00:56:16,376 last night. 836 00:56:17,752 --> 00:56:20,672 I should've gone back for Connie at the Skybridge. 837 00:56:23,007 --> 00:56:25,385 That's a big brother's job! 838 00:56:26,553 --> 00:56:30,557 George isn't here to step in, so I should. 839 00:56:37,814 --> 00:56:41,067 You want to stay safe, you keep your mouth shut. 840 00:56:41,192 --> 00:56:43,862 That's what I learned as a kid. 841 00:56:46,114 --> 00:56:49,326 Don't step in. 842 00:56:49,451 --> 00:56:52,871 Don't step up. Don't speak out. 843 00:56:55,123 --> 00:56:57,625 I kept to myself to save myself. 844 00:56:59,627 --> 00:57:04,424 [Marianne] I am realizing there are many moments I missed. 845 00:57:06,426 --> 00:57:11,890 I did not hear Anthony when he is seven years old... 846 00:57:13,933 --> 00:57:17,145 crying in the driveway, 847 00:57:17,270 --> 00:57:20,982 all his clothes in garbage bags. 848 00:57:24,194 --> 00:57:27,238 I never said I was crying. 849 00:57:29,741 --> 00:57:32,410 [sobbing] 850 00:57:40,502 --> 00:57:42,879 Mm. 851 00:57:42,879 --> 00:57:44,589 How much pavement 852 00:57:44,589 --> 00:57:46,633 do you have to pound before you feel better? 853 00:57:48,510 --> 00:57:50,512 [tearfully, muffled] Five kilometres. 854 00:57:52,055 --> 00:57:53,098 I didn't catch that. 855 00:57:53,098 --> 00:57:56,476 Five kilometres. 856 00:57:58,311 --> 00:58:00,522 Shit. 857 00:58:00,522 --> 00:58:02,857 [sighing] 858 00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:09,072 You were the finish line. 859 00:58:09,072 --> 00:58:10,990 At the Skybridge. 860 00:58:12,450 --> 00:58:14,703 You were Connie's finish line. 861 00:58:17,539 --> 00:58:22,335 You were exactly where she needed you to be. 862 00:58:25,714 --> 00:58:28,883 Don't tell me I need to be your finish line too. 863 00:58:35,974 --> 00:58:38,768 [tender theme plays] 864 00:58:38,893 --> 00:58:41,021 [♪] 865 00:58:44,816 --> 00:58:45,734 [Gwen] So? 866 00:58:45,734 --> 00:58:46,985 Who's gonna offer the tobacco to the elders? 867 00:58:47,110 --> 00:58:48,153 [Anthony] I will. 868 00:58:48,278 --> 00:58:50,196 [Connie] Oh, no! I forgot the tins. 869 00:58:50,322 --> 00:58:52,490 [Marianne] Can you use your cigarettes? 870 00:58:52,490 --> 00:58:54,326 [Gwen] Well, guess we'll have to. 871 00:58:54,326 --> 00:58:56,327 [Connie] Do you think the elders will mind? 872 00:58:56,327 --> 00:58:59,414 [Gwen] Tobacco is tobacco. 873 00:58:59,414 --> 00:59:01,541 [♪] 874 00:59:03,084 --> 00:59:05,628 [scraping] 875 00:59:16,139 --> 00:59:17,057 [viewfinder beeps] 876 00:59:29,361 --> 00:59:31,571 What kind of animal is this? 877 00:59:31,696 --> 00:59:35,742 This is an elk, but we call it a wapiti. 878 00:59:37,118 --> 00:59:38,953 One second. 879 00:59:38,953 --> 00:59:42,332 [♪] 880 00:59:49,005 --> 00:59:50,090 Guys! 881 00:59:50,090 --> 00:59:52,509 [Connie chuckles] Marianne? 882 01:00:01,434 --> 01:00:03,436 [Alma] Marianne? 883 01:00:03,436 --> 01:00:04,062 [chuckling] 884 01:00:04,062 --> 01:00:06,231 Hello! 885 01:00:06,231 --> 01:00:10,068 It's so nice to see you again. 886 01:00:10,068 --> 01:00:13,154 You have to meet my husband, Simon. 887 01:00:13,279 --> 01:00:16,157 - It's very nice to meet you. - Marianne. 888 01:00:16,157 --> 01:00:18,868 This is my brother, Anthony. 889 01:00:18,994 --> 01:00:19,911 [Simon] Anthony. 890 01:00:19,911 --> 01:00:20,912 Hello. 891 01:00:20,912 --> 01:00:22,956 Hi. 892 01:00:23,081 --> 01:00:23,998 My sister, Gwen. 893 01:00:24,124 --> 01:00:25,375 - Gwen. - Gwen? 894 01:00:25,375 --> 01:00:27,001 Yeah. Gwen. 895 01:00:27,127 --> 01:00:29,421 And my sister Connie. 896 01:00:29,421 --> 01:00:30,088 - Connie. - It's nice to meet you. 897 01:00:30,213 --> 01:00:33,049 Nice to meet you. 898 01:00:35,719 --> 01:00:37,971 Oh. Yeah. 899 01:00:39,723 --> 01:00:42,142 Uh, this is for both of you. 900 01:00:43,435 --> 01:00:45,854 Oh, geez. 901 01:00:45,854 --> 01:00:47,731 Tobacco is tobacco. 902 01:00:51,026 --> 01:00:51,484 [Alma] Thank you. 903 01:00:51,484 --> 01:00:53,486 [Simon] Thank you. 904 01:00:56,531 --> 01:00:59,326 Marianne was, uh, telling me that you were scooped? 905 01:00:59,451 --> 01:01:02,495 Did you know your mother and your father? 906 01:01:03,413 --> 01:01:07,333 Our father was sick for a really long time. 907 01:01:07,459 --> 01:01:08,626 [Alma] Mm. 908 01:01:08,752 --> 01:01:11,004 She had her hands full taking care of him, 909 01:01:11,004 --> 01:01:12,464 and one day, 910 01:01:12,464 --> 01:01:13,840 she forgot to pick George and Anthony up from school, 911 01:01:13,965 --> 01:01:16,134 so they called the social workers in. 912 01:01:16,134 --> 01:01:19,179 Gwen was next. 913 01:01:19,304 --> 01:01:21,014 Then they had Marianne, and then me, 914 01:01:21,139 --> 01:01:23,892 and once he passed, 915 01:01:24,017 --> 01:01:26,102 they took us too. 916 01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:29,564 Let's go outside. 917 01:01:35,153 --> 01:01:37,864 [fire crackling] 918 01:01:58,927 --> 01:02:00,553 Well, welcome. 919 01:02:00,679 --> 01:02:02,931 We're gonna have our, um, grandson, Dustin, 920 01:02:02,931 --> 01:02:07,811 do a-a smudging ceremony for us, okay? 921 01:02:09,229 --> 01:02:11,690 How old are you, Dustin? 922 01:02:11,690 --> 01:02:12,983 11. 923 01:02:12,983 --> 01:02:15,235 Oh. 924 01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:17,237 Know what I was doing when I was 11? 925 01:02:17,362 --> 01:02:19,197 No. 926 01:02:19,197 --> 01:02:22,867 Yeah, you don't want to know. 927 01:02:22,867 --> 01:02:24,744 [sighs tensely] 928 01:02:25,620 --> 01:02:27,163 [striking match] 929 01:02:42,012 --> 01:02:43,263 Ahâw. 930 01:03:38,818 --> 01:03:40,528 We'd really like, um, 931 01:03:40,653 --> 01:03:43,865 Dustin to, um, sing an honour song for you. 932 01:03:48,119 --> 01:03:51,581 [begins drumming softly, then louder] 933 01:03:54,834 --> 01:03:58,338 [singing in vocables] 934 01:04:17,023 --> 01:04:20,610 [Dustin continues singing and drumming] 935 01:04:24,698 --> 01:04:27,075 [singing in vocables] 936 01:04:32,998 --> 01:04:37,252 [singing] 937 01:05:57,499 --> 01:06:00,210 [Dustin sings more softly] 938 01:06:09,135 --> 01:06:11,096 [song ends] 939 01:06:11,221 --> 01:06:12,097 [elders chuckling] 940 01:06:12,097 --> 01:06:14,140 [Alma] Meewasin. 941 01:06:14,265 --> 01:06:15,975 [Simon] Yeah. 942 01:06:15,975 --> 01:06:17,811 [grandparents chuckling] 943 01:06:24,359 --> 01:06:25,985 After so many years, 944 01:06:25,985 --> 01:06:28,905 why did you choose to come together? 945 01:06:31,324 --> 01:06:34,869 Well, about 10 years ago, 946 01:06:34,869 --> 01:06:37,372 this woman stops me in a drugstore and says 947 01:06:37,372 --> 01:06:41,376 I'm the spitting image of Brenda P... [sighing] 948 01:06:41,501 --> 01:06:42,168 Piyesis? 949 01:06:42,293 --> 01:06:43,086 Mm. 950 01:06:43,086 --> 01:06:45,338 [Connie] I'd never heard of her. 951 01:06:46,297 --> 01:06:48,925 Brenda was our mother's sister. 952 01:06:51,386 --> 01:06:54,347 By that time, Margaret was in a bad state. 953 01:06:55,515 --> 01:06:57,892 I didn't spend more than an hour with her. 954 01:07:00,145 --> 01:07:03,565 My adoptive parents begged me 955 01:07:03,565 --> 01:07:04,899 to leave it alone, 956 01:07:05,025 --> 01:07:06,901 so I couldn't say or do anything. 957 01:07:06,901 --> 01:07:09,070 For years, my brothers kept saying 958 01:07:09,070 --> 01:07:12,032 that it would kill them if I did. 959 01:07:12,657 --> 01:07:14,951 My parents passed away recently. 960 01:07:17,162 --> 01:07:20,206 After that, I knew it was time to find you. 961 01:07:27,255 --> 01:07:28,798 [chair creaking] 962 01:07:30,050 --> 01:07:31,593 You don't have to stand. 963 01:07:31,593 --> 01:07:33,720 I want to. 964 01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:34,929 [Simon] Mm. 965 01:07:43,813 --> 01:07:46,399 My daughter is gonna have a baby soon. 966 01:07:46,399 --> 01:07:48,068 Meewasin. 967 01:07:48,860 --> 01:07:50,987 Thank you. 968 01:07:53,573 --> 01:07:55,408 The thing is, 969 01:07:55,533 --> 01:07:57,577 I had Janine when I was young. 970 01:08:03,291 --> 01:08:05,460 Didn't have anything to give her, 971 01:08:05,585 --> 01:08:07,212 so I left her with her mother. 972 01:08:07,337 --> 01:08:11,257 My wife, Charlene, 973 01:08:11,383 --> 01:08:15,303 is a person who has always pushed me. 974 01:08:15,428 --> 01:08:16,596 She kept telling me... 975 01:08:18,765 --> 01:08:21,101 I gotta give both my kids 976 01:08:21,226 --> 01:08:23,520 this part of me that... 977 01:08:26,940 --> 01:08:28,858 ...that I don't have. 978 01:08:30,068 --> 01:08:34,114 I started growing my hair a while back... 979 01:08:35,323 --> 01:08:37,659 because I saw photos of Indians, 980 01:08:37,784 --> 01:08:40,453 and I thought that's how I should look. 981 01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:45,333 And I thought it would help me. 982 01:08:46,251 --> 01:08:48,461 56. 983 01:08:51,965 --> 01:08:55,552 What do I even have to give this new baby? 984 01:09:07,022 --> 01:09:10,525 I have a nice life in Antwerp. 985 01:09:10,525 --> 01:09:12,986 [Alma] Mm. 986 01:09:12,986 --> 01:09:20,785 Nice is, nice, yeah, but... 987 01:09:20,785 --> 01:09:22,162 nice is not enough. 988 01:09:26,124 --> 01:09:30,462 My brother and my sisters 989 01:09:30,462 --> 01:09:32,630 are giving to me something 990 01:09:32,630 --> 01:09:35,508 very necessary. 991 01:09:39,596 --> 01:09:41,181 [Alma] Gwen? 992 01:09:42,849 --> 01:09:44,517 Some other time, okay? 993 01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:49,439 Now is a good time. 994 01:09:51,024 --> 01:09:53,109 Not for me. 995 01:09:55,820 --> 01:09:58,156 When I was seven years old, 996 01:09:58,281 --> 01:10:00,867 I was sent to Saint Mary's. 997 01:10:01,159 --> 01:10:04,079 When I came back home at 16... 998 01:10:05,038 --> 01:10:06,956 I was damaged. 999 01:10:06,956 --> 01:10:10,251 They tried to break us. 1000 01:10:12,295 --> 01:10:15,924 You have to find the pieces that belong to you, 1001 01:10:16,049 --> 01:10:19,094 and put yourselves back together. 1002 01:10:19,094 --> 01:10:22,305 You are each other's pieces. 1003 01:10:22,430 --> 01:10:25,475 We know there are many of you out there. 1004 01:10:26,017 --> 01:10:30,063 We never forgot you. 1005 01:10:30,188 --> 01:10:32,315 [Alma] Welcome back. 1006 01:10:34,984 --> 01:10:36,569 [sniffling] 1007 01:10:38,780 --> 01:10:40,407 [exhaling] 1008 01:10:45,745 --> 01:10:46,454 [Simon speaks quietly] 1009 01:10:46,454 --> 01:10:49,165 Real tears. - [Anthony] Thank you. 1010 01:10:56,297 --> 01:10:59,050 [tender piano theme plays] 1011 01:10:59,050 --> 01:11:01,428 [Alma] Come here. 1012 01:11:07,058 --> 01:11:08,977 [Alma] You're good at what you do. 1013 01:11:09,102 --> 01:11:12,021 [sniffling] 1014 01:11:19,988 --> 01:11:21,031 You'll be okay. 1015 01:11:21,031 --> 01:11:22,949 - Thank you. - Everything's gonna be okay. 1016 01:11:23,074 --> 01:11:26,202 [Anthony sniffling] 1017 01:11:31,833 --> 01:11:34,127 [Marianne cries deeply] 1018 01:11:39,924 --> 01:11:41,801 [quietly] Thank you so much. 1019 01:11:44,095 --> 01:11:46,056 [Alma] Oh. Oh... 1020 01:11:46,056 --> 01:11:48,016 [Simon] Do this together. 1021 01:11:48,016 --> 01:11:53,938 [speaking quietly] 1022 01:11:53,938 --> 01:11:56,524 [Alma] In time. Okay? In time. 1023 01:12:00,153 --> 01:12:02,030 It's okay now. 1024 01:12:02,030 --> 01:12:06,534 You found your place together. 1025 01:12:06,659 --> 01:12:07,494 [Alma chuckles] 1026 01:12:07,494 --> 01:12:09,662 [Simon] When you go back to your homelands, 1027 01:12:09,788 --> 01:12:11,831 you will have each other. 1028 01:12:13,124 --> 01:12:14,834 [taking photo] 1029 01:12:17,045 --> 01:12:19,839 [♪] 1030 01:12:40,735 --> 01:12:41,778 [footsteps approach] 1031 01:12:48,785 --> 01:12:50,370 [sniffling deeply] 1032 01:12:52,789 --> 01:12:54,916 Look at us. 1033 01:12:54,916 --> 01:12:58,086 Tourists in our own fuckin' country. 1034 01:12:58,294 --> 01:13:01,423 Please don't do that to yourself. 1035 01:13:01,548 --> 01:13:04,092 [Gwen] You heard what that old man said. 1036 01:13:04,092 --> 01:13:06,553 Gotta keep picking up the pieces 1037 01:13:06,678 --> 01:13:08,096 and gluin' them back together again. 1038 01:13:08,221 --> 01:13:10,890 I thought I was done! 1039 01:13:12,225 --> 01:13:14,811 And then you guys show up. 1040 01:13:18,231 --> 01:13:19,107 You want us to leave? 1041 01:13:19,107 --> 01:13:22,277 Fuck, no, Anthony! 1042 01:13:31,119 --> 01:13:32,912 Can I sit here? 1043 01:13:32,912 --> 01:13:35,665 You just did, didn't ya? 1044 01:13:43,590 --> 01:13:46,801 What were you doing when you were 15, Marianne? 1045 01:13:46,801 --> 01:13:49,179 I was, uh, running in races. 1046 01:13:53,058 --> 01:13:55,477 I had to give up my babies. 1047 01:13:55,477 --> 01:13:57,520 My twins. 1048 01:14:00,106 --> 01:14:03,193 Val and Johnny! 1049 01:14:11,451 --> 01:14:15,080 The social worker drilled it into my head 1050 01:14:15,080 --> 01:14:19,167 that I was gonna ruin their lives. 1051 01:14:19,167 --> 01:14:22,712 That is so awful, Gwen. So unfair. 1052 01:14:29,260 --> 01:14:33,598 [Gwen] The booze was eating me up inside, 1053 01:14:33,598 --> 01:14:38,478 but it was never enough to take away that pain, you know? 1054 01:14:43,650 --> 01:14:45,318 Fuck. 1055 01:14:46,778 --> 01:14:48,988 [she sniffles] 1056 01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:56,413 We want to hear the rest of your story. 1057 01:15:11,845 --> 01:15:13,513 [sniffling] 1058 01:15:16,015 --> 01:15:19,102 Which part? 1059 01:15:19,227 --> 01:15:20,103 The part when I was 22, 1060 01:15:20,103 --> 01:15:24,399 and a woman named Donna 1061 01:15:24,524 --> 01:15:28,361 saved my sorry ass at Pine Grove... 1062 01:15:30,780 --> 01:15:34,868 because I was shaking like a wet dog with DTs? 1063 01:15:34,993 --> 01:15:36,786 Hmm? 1064 01:15:38,163 --> 01:15:42,250 We need to know everything. 1065 01:15:42,250 --> 01:15:44,127 I just don't think a long weekend's long enough 1066 01:15:44,252 --> 01:15:48,214 for fuckin' my story. 1067 01:15:48,214 --> 01:15:50,091 [Connie] We have time. 1068 01:15:50,216 --> 01:15:54,846 [Gwen] It's been so hard doing this alone. 1069 01:15:54,971 --> 01:15:58,266 The only thing that's kept me going is Kai. 1070 01:15:58,266 --> 01:16:00,435 [sobbing] 1071 01:16:06,900 --> 01:16:08,818 [sobbing inconsolably] 1072 01:16:20,413 --> 01:16:21,664 [Gwen sobs] 1073 01:16:26,211 --> 01:16:29,089 My shoes are soaked. 1074 01:16:31,716 --> 01:16:33,093 My feet are fuckin' freezing. 1075 01:16:33,093 --> 01:16:36,054 [laughing and crying] 1076 01:16:36,054 --> 01:16:38,848 I love you guys! 1077 01:16:41,226 --> 01:16:42,143 [taking a shaky breath] 1078 01:16:42,268 --> 01:16:46,064 I love you guys. [sobbing] 1079 01:16:46,064 --> 01:16:48,650 [Connie] We love you too. 1080 01:16:48,775 --> 01:16:51,194 [Gwen sobs] 1081 01:16:51,194 --> 01:16:53,530 [Gwen sighs] 1082 01:16:55,740 --> 01:16:57,951 [♪] 1083 01:17:09,212 --> 01:17:12,632 [together] ♪ Happy birthday ♪ 1084 01:17:12,632 --> 01:17:14,467 ♪ To us ♪ 1085 01:17:14,592 --> 01:17:16,136 ♪ Happy birthday ♪ 1086 01:17:16,261 --> 01:17:19,139 ♪ To us ♪ 1087 01:17:19,139 --> 01:17:22,684 ♪ Happy birthday, dear... ♪ 1088 01:17:22,684 --> 01:17:25,645 ♪ Connie, Gwen Marianne, me, and George ♪ 1089 01:17:25,770 --> 01:17:26,479 [laughter] 1090 01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:30,317 [together] ♪ Happy birthday ♪ 1091 01:17:30,442 --> 01:17:32,569 ♪ To us ♪ 1092 01:17:36,114 --> 01:17:39,451 [inhaling] 1093 01:17:43,121 --> 01:17:46,166 Okay, so before we all dig in, 1094 01:17:46,291 --> 01:17:49,169 Marianne and I have a surprise. 1095 01:17:50,253 --> 01:17:52,672 They are all the same. 1096 01:17:52,797 --> 01:17:54,632 One for you. 1097 01:18:13,318 --> 01:18:16,029 Wow. 1098 01:18:16,029 --> 01:18:19,032 That's... that's beautiful. 1099 01:18:21,659 --> 01:18:23,953 Thank you. Both of you. 1100 01:18:26,206 --> 01:18:27,207 [turning pages] 1101 01:18:27,207 --> 01:18:30,085 It's only half-filled. 1102 01:18:30,085 --> 01:18:32,712 That's on purpose. 1103 01:18:32,712 --> 01:18:34,714 I get it. 1104 01:18:35,215 --> 01:18:38,927 Right here? 1105 01:18:39,052 --> 01:18:40,428 Picture of my grandkid. 1106 01:18:40,428 --> 01:18:42,222 Right here 1107 01:18:42,347 --> 01:18:45,975 will be the pictures of you visiting me in Belgium. 1108 01:18:49,771 --> 01:18:52,232 Uh... 1109 01:18:52,232 --> 01:18:53,358 [sighing] 1110 01:18:53,358 --> 01:18:57,779 I just can't seem to shake this hurt. 1111 01:18:57,904 --> 01:18:59,864 I don't know. 1112 01:19:00,240 --> 01:19:01,992 [Anthony] This. 1113 01:19:02,117 --> 01:19:04,869 Us. 1114 01:19:06,621 --> 01:19:07,372 The four of us, 1115 01:19:07,372 --> 01:19:11,084 together for the first time, 1116 01:19:11,209 --> 01:19:13,002 should have been five. 1117 01:19:14,129 --> 01:19:16,715 The thing is... 1118 01:19:17,924 --> 01:19:19,050 we have more now 1119 01:19:19,050 --> 01:19:21,136 than we did four days ago. 1120 01:19:21,261 --> 01:19:24,347 A lot more. 1121 01:19:24,347 --> 01:19:26,099 Yeah. 1122 01:19:26,224 --> 01:19:29,102 Oh! 1123 01:19:29,102 --> 01:19:29,894 [sniffling] 1124 01:19:29,894 --> 01:19:33,940 I'm done with these tears, damn it. 1125 01:19:35,066 --> 01:19:35,442 Let's have some cake. 1126 01:19:35,442 --> 01:19:36,026 [all chuckling] 1127 01:19:36,026 --> 01:19:39,029 Okay. 1128 01:19:45,452 --> 01:19:46,578 What's it called 1129 01:19:46,578 --> 01:19:49,873 when you flip a coin from knuckle to knuckle? 1130 01:19:49,873 --> 01:19:51,666 It's not a trick. 1131 01:19:51,791 --> 01:19:53,543 [Janine] I don't know. 1132 01:19:54,252 --> 01:19:58,173 It doesn't disappear... 1133 01:19:58,173 --> 01:20:00,216 but I think she'll like it. 1134 01:20:01,634 --> 01:20:02,927 Yeah. 1135 01:20:04,179 --> 01:20:06,806 It's late. 1136 01:20:13,104 --> 01:20:14,564 Simon told me 1137 01:20:14,564 --> 01:20:18,818 I can give your baby something that no one else can. 1138 01:20:20,737 --> 01:20:22,739 A piece of me, right? 1139 01:20:23,782 --> 01:20:25,950 Who's Simon? 1140 01:20:27,285 --> 01:20:29,829 An elder. 1141 01:20:30,914 --> 01:20:34,000 You're spending time with an elder? 1142 01:20:37,212 --> 01:20:39,923 I was thinking... 1143 01:20:41,508 --> 01:20:44,928 your baby will have something I never had when I was a kid. 1144 01:20:45,845 --> 01:20:48,181 What, some kind of toy? 1145 01:20:49,557 --> 01:20:51,309 Grandparents. 1146 01:20:59,984 --> 01:21:02,862 I'm really glad you went. 1147 01:21:05,865 --> 01:21:07,200 Yeah? 1148 01:21:08,618 --> 01:21:10,662 Yeah. 1149 01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:14,958 Yeah. 1150 01:21:17,627 --> 01:21:20,714 [peaceful and uplifting music plays] 1151 01:21:48,199 --> 01:21:51,828 [♪] 1152 01:22:01,046 --> 01:22:03,381 [♪] 1153 01:22:25,570 --> 01:22:28,198 [♪] 1154 01:22:37,582 --> 01:22:39,918 [♪] 1155 01:23:03,441 --> 01:23:05,527 - I gotta go. - [Connie laughs] 1156 01:23:05,652 --> 01:23:06,194 I gotta go. 1157 01:23:06,319 --> 01:23:08,488 [chuckling] Yeah. 1158 01:23:16,162 --> 01:23:19,207 Next time, we run a marathon together. 1159 01:23:19,207 --> 01:23:22,335 I don't think so... 1160 01:23:22,335 --> 01:23:24,295 but I'll be your finish line. 1161 01:23:30,135 --> 01:23:32,095 [sniffling] 1162 01:23:35,724 --> 01:23:39,477 [sighing] I must go. 1163 01:23:41,479 --> 01:23:43,440 [kissing] 1164 01:23:56,536 --> 01:23:59,039 [sniffling] 1165 01:24:21,144 --> 01:24:23,897 Thank you. 1166 01:24:27,359 --> 01:24:28,985 [kissing] 1167 01:24:39,079 --> 01:24:39,913 - Okay. - Okay. 1168 01:24:39,913 --> 01:24:42,624 - [chuckling] - Okay. 1169 01:24:42,749 --> 01:24:45,085 - Bye. - Bye. 1170 01:24:48,046 --> 01:24:51,257 [buoyant piano theme begins] 1171 01:24:51,257 --> 01:24:55,011 [♪] 1172 01:25:03,228 --> 01:25:06,940 [♪] 1173 01:25:11,903 --> 01:25:14,364 [♪] 1174 01:25:58,408 --> 01:26:01,328 {\an8}[Blue Rodeo's "Lost Together" plays] 1175 01:26:11,588 --> 01:26:17,927 {\an8}♪ Strange and beautiful are the stars tonight ♪ 1176 01:26:17,927 --> 01:26:21,973 {\an8}♪ That dance around your head ♪ 1177 01:26:23,141 --> 01:26:30,273 {\an8}♪ In your eyes I see that perfect world ♪ 1178 01:26:30,273 --> 01:26:34,444 {\an8}♪ I hope that doesn't sound too weird ♪ 1179 01:26:37,405 --> 01:26:43,870 {\an8}♪ And I want all the world to know ♪ 1180 01:26:43,995 --> 01:26:47,040 {\an8}♪ That your love's all I need ♪ 1181 01:26:47,040 --> 01:26:53,088 {\an8}♪ All that I need ♪ 1182 01:26:53,213 --> 01:26:59,052 {\an8}♪ And if we're lost ♪ 1183 01:26:59,177 --> 01:27:03,390 {\an8}♪ Then we are lost together ♪ 1184 01:27:06,059 --> 01:27:11,981 {\an8}♪ Yeah, if we're lost ♪ 1185 01:27:11,981 --> 01:27:15,527 {\an8}♪ We are lost together ♪ 1186 01:27:20,240 --> 01:27:27,038 {\an8}♪ I stand before this faceless crowd ♪ 1187 01:27:27,038 --> 01:27:31,167 {\an8}♪ I wonder why I bother ♪ 1188 01:27:33,378 --> 01:27:38,466 {\an8}♪ So much controlled by so few ♪ 1189 01:27:38,466 --> 01:27:43,346 {\an8}♪ Stumbling from one disaster to another ♪ 1190 01:27:45,473 --> 01:27:52,814 {\an8}♪ I've heard it all so many times before ♪ 1191 01:27:52,939 --> 01:27:56,609 {\an8}♪ It's all a dream to me now ♪ 1192 01:27:56,735 --> 01:28:01,865 {\an8}♪ A dream to me now ♪ 1193 01:28:01,865 --> 01:28:07,996 {\an8}♪ And if we're lost ♪ 1194 01:28:08,121 --> 01:28:12,208 {\an8}♪ We are lost together ♪ 1195 01:28:15,295 --> 01:28:21,801 {\an8}♪ Yeah, if we're lost ♪ 1196 01:28:21,926 --> 01:28:25,055 {\an8}♪ We are lost together ♪ 1197 01:28:52,666 --> 01:28:58,838 {\an8}♪ In the silence of this whispered night ♪ 1198 01:28:58,963 --> 01:29:03,093 {\an8}♪ I listen only to your breath ♪ 1199 01:29:05,136 --> 01:29:10,058 {\an8}♪ And in that second of a shooting star ♪ 1200 01:29:10,183 --> 01:29:15,188 {\an8}♪ Somehow it all makes sense ♪ 1201 01:29:18,525 --> 01:29:24,364 {\an8}♪ And I want all the world to know ♪ 1202 01:29:24,489 --> 01:29:27,075 {\an8}♪ That your love's all I need ♪ 1203 01:29:27,200 --> 01:29:34,124 {\an8}♪ All that I need ♪ 1204 01:29:34,249 --> 01:29:40,088 {\an8}♪ And if we're lost ♪ 1205 01:29:40,213 --> 01:29:44,134 {\an8}♪ Then we are lost together ♪ 1206 01:29:46,094 --> 01:29:52,976 {\an8}♪ Yeah, if we're lost ♪ 1207 01:29:52,976 --> 01:29:56,479 {\an8}♪ We are lost together ♪ 1208 01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:15,915 {\an8}♪ Oh ♪ 1209 01:30:24,966 --> 01:30:30,930 {\an8}♪ Yeah, if we're lost ♪ 1210 01:30:30,930 --> 01:30:33,850 {\an8}♪ Then we are lost together ♪ 1211 01:30:37,103 --> 01:30:43,443 {\an8}♪ Yeah, if we're lost ♪ 1212 01:30:43,443 --> 01:30:46,654 {\an8}♪ Then we are lost together ♪ 1213 01:30:46,780 --> 01:30:51,534 {\an8}♪ Together, together ♪