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- [static]
- [explosion]
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[wind rustling through trees]
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[gentle music]
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[children playing in background]
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[thunder roaring]
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[man] Out of all the
commands that Christ gives,
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there's... none that
he's telling you to go
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to the synagogue.
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Among this hedonistic world,
I'll build my church.
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In the depths of what
people think is impossible,
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I'll bring the Spirit.
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[indistinct chatter]
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[playful children in background]
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[indistinct chatter continues]
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[people laughing]
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There's always a plan, but,
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the plan is the
first casualty of war.
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We killed everybody that
was trying to kill us, and...
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yeah, the guy's trying to
kill you, you're trying
to kill them.
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[inaudible]
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[indistinct chatter
and laughter]
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One, two, three, four, five--
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[indistinct chatter]
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[man] I follow Christ's model,
which is, "Deny yourself."
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"Take up your
cross and follow me."
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[explosions and loud sirens]
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[gunfire]
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I had a very real sense
that this might be it.
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I'm probably--
this could be it.
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I'm probably gonna
fucking die today.
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[sirens fade into
ear-piercing tone]
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[electronic whirring]
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[tense music]
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[overlapping dialogues]
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[man] Inside of all
of us is two people.
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[man 2] ...to the right.
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There is the spirit of
who you are,
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and there is your anti-self.
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Your anti-self wants to be
comfortable, it wants to find
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the easiest way out.
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You're gonna feel...
like this is too hard.
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It's not.
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[grunts of exertion]
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- [man 3] Let's go!
- [man 4] Oh!
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[man 5] Let's go!
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- [man 6] ...so hurry up,
they're waiting on you!
- [man 7] Let's go!
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- [man 8] Let's go,
let's go, let's go.
- [indistinct chatter]
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[man] It's not gonna
be a problem.
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You guys are gonna
fucking get through this.
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And just in case, it's
not called the "If we quit"
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it's the fucking "Never quit,"
that's all there is to it.
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You guys understand who we are?
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- [men] Yeah!
- [man] Let's do it.
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Let's go, let's go.
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Let's go, double time,
let's get going.
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Stay professional to the end,
you guys understand, hooyah?
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[men] Hooyah!
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[indistinct command]
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[man] Hurry up, hurry up.
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[chatting and shouting
in the background]
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One more is the right answer,
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- let's go, start
loading up, hurry up.
- [man 9] Sir.
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[clock ticking]
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[man] Standard grade
spelling here.
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Alright, so first off, we--
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in order to take
a look at a belief,
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'cause this is still
based upon a belief,
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what's going on there, right?
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What-- What is impostor syndrome
in your thought process
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or in your terms?
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Is it... somebody...
that thinks like,
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they're... not a part
of the crew?
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Not a part of a crew? Okay.
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And so if that's your
thought process,
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well then what happens is...
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if I'm just purely random,
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and there was no hard work
or grace or rather even...
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nothing that... led to the
creation of the situation I'm in
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- Mm-hmm.
- or, well then that means
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- it can easily go just as well.
- Mm.
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- Does that make sense? Okay,
- Yeah.
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so, like, in your terms,
what does that mean?
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[boy] They're there
for, like, no reason,
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and so they can just like
maybe... die for no reason.
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[man] Yeah, your brain's
gonna wanna say to do it.
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Now, whether you do or not is
irrelevant to the outcome,
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but that thought, that you have
something in opposition to
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your value set...
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...people
start to believe that they're
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the only ones that are
struggling with doing...
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what their values are.
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- Whe-- you got any
questions or thoughts?
- No.
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'Cause you guys do gotta
get out of here f-- shortly.
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I... don't think so.
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So my name is
Jordon Bowen. Um...
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Attributes that describe me,
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I think for me... everything
comes down to...
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responsibility, integrity...
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Um... I believe I'm hardworking,
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relentless, persistent.
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And... um... I think
I'm decently intelligent,
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but where I'm not...
I'll just go back to persistent.
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[lightly chuckles] Yeah.
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[clears throat]
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- When-- you good?
- [mumbles indistinctly]
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So when you're looking at, um...
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on this... "Struggle to do
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- what you believe" piece,
- Yeah
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- if what you believe... is
not rooted in any truth,
- [boy] Yeah
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then that struggle you feel is
probably a healthy thing.
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My name is Jesse Bowen,
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and I would describe
myself as a mother,
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a business owner,
an entrepreneur,
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a free-spirited soul. [chuckles]
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My name is Slade Bowen.
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What I can tell you about my
family is that we're all great
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because we all hang
around as a family.
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My name is Brodie, and...
my mom and dad,
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like, they're always
trying to help people.
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Like, some people could
look at us as role models,
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and I think that's great.
I think it's awesome.
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The only one I could say
that I get tired about...
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is probably just Brodie.
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- Yeah
- Hurry up and eat your food.
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- You guys gotta get out of here.
- [indistinct]
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I-- I'll go do that first.
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- So... I'll see you
back here at nine?
- Yes.
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- [overlapping dialogues]
- Have fun, guys.
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Because, you know, for us...
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A friend of mine has said
this to me years past.
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And he said, like, "Hey man,
if your children leave
your house
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at 18 years old, and... they
don't know what you know
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from character and
application standpoint,
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then you f-- you fucked up."
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Either you're gonna take
responsibility for that outcome,
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- or...
- [Jesse chuckles]
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you're gonna farm that
out to somebody else.
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And so like, as we just,
you know, Jess and I
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dissect-- cause he started
in public school.
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Alright? So he was in public
school for what?
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- Two yea-- Three years?
- [Jesse] Three years.
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You have this perception of
what you think a homeschooler
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or home-school kid
is gonna be like.
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And so... we kind of had
that in the back of our mind.
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And Slade was in...
I believe, second grade.
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And he came home,
and he... said something,
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and we don't-- I don't
remember exactly what it was,
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but it was not what we...
would've said.
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Something maybe...
he believed in,
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or I-- it was something weird.
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And we're like, "Where did
you hear that, buddy?"
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And he heard it
from his teacher.
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And it was like, so...
drastically different than,
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not just our belief system,
but what I believe is just a--
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a logical outcome when you--
when you just assess
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the facts in front of you.
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I was like, "Oh man..."
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Jordon's like, "Okay,
let's do this.
Let's take a year.
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You home-school em', and
we'll see what happens.
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If the year is not good, we'll
put 'em right back into school."
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I'm like, "Okay, I can handle
that. I can do that."
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And so we, uh-- we did a
year, and we were like,
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"Oh my gosh, we're so
thankful we did this."
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You, know, It wasn't
easy by any means.
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It's not easy at
first because...
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you're used to your kid
being at school all day.
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No, I've never gone to regular
school, and, I don't want to
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'cause I-- I don't like to
be in one spot for too long.
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Like... I have to go.
I have to be on it.
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So... I've never
gone to real school,
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and I don't really want to.
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[Jesse] You know, our kids...
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can go run around, and... they
can do whatever they want.
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And then we have just a couple
hours to sit down with them,
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and you get used to-- you--
just like I'm used to
Jordon every day.
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Like, you get-- you all
become a unit together,
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and you learn to be with
your kid every day, and--
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and I can't imagine not...
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spending that time with
my kid every day, you know?
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[Jordon]
What do we got for food here?
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- Ready for your liver?
- [excited] Yeah.
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Let's go.
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[soft laughter]
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Do we ever eat fast food?
Not normally.
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- [Brodie] I love [indistinct]
- For all the inquisitive
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people of the world,
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it won't kill you
to eat raw liver.
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Well, that's not true.
It definitely could kill you.
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You're up.
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[indistinct chatter]
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- [laughing]
- It's-- It's better for you
than how it looks.
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[both laugh]
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Without a doubt, the food system
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is the most detrimental
thing that we have.
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Awesome! So first I wanna
say thank you to Ms. Jean
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for letting us come here and
give this nutrition seminar.
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Um, a little backstory, my name
is Jessie. This is Jordon.
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Uh, we're Brodie's parents. And
we have been training people
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and teaching them about
nutrition for over 14 years now.
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[Jordon] Curious for you kiddos.
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So... do you think about
what you eat currently
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when it comes to your training?
Raise your hands--
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show your hands if this
even crosses your mind.
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The question is... if the
chemicals aren't bad for you,
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if it's not a big deal,
why are we using 'em?
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Why don't we just... use normal
food? Why are we using 'em'?
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Okay, well, because
it's cheaper to make,
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and they wanna get people
addicted to taste, right?
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Real quick, can you give me what
you think is a good food, right?
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We use the words
good and bad a lot.
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- What's a good food?
- [kid] Carrot?
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Carrot. All right, what else?
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- [kid 2] Strawberries
- [Jordon] Strawberries.
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- [kid 3] Watermelon.
- [Jordon] Watermelon.
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- Peppers.
- [Jordon] Peppers.
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Yeah, so we talked a lot about a
bunch of fruits now,
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a couple vegetables
snuck in there.
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What about... meat?
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Mr. Jordon and I have done
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every diet you can
imagine in the world.
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We try it all because we
want to see what works the best
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for ourselves, and for all the
people that we train.
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So what we have found,
because we work out a lot,
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we're athletes, is that protein
is so important to recover,
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to build strong muscles,
to just feel good.
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Like if you don't eat well,
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you're not gonna
feel like doing anything.
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If you don't feel like doing
anything, you're gonna end up
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having much higher levels
of depression and anxiety.
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You're gonna get heavier.
You're gonna feel
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less secure about yourself.
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If you feel less secure about
yourself,
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you're gonna have harder times
in your relationships.
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Your confidence
is gonna be less.
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You won't go for the
job you should have went for.
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You're gonna feel inadequate.
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It is just such a
snowball that happens,
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and it all starts with food.
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[Jesse] And we'll just end it
with this so you guys
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can get back to practice.
But what I would suggest,
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it's what I did, and what's--
Brodie and I started at the
same time.
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We did a 30-day, you can
call it a "challenge,"
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or we did a "30-day experiment."
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For one month, I'm gonna
see if I can really focus on
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my macronutrients, my
proteins, my fats, and my carbs.
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[Jordon] See how good
my gymnastics is--
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[Jessie] See how much
better you feel.
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The best
drug dealers on the planet
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are the people that make food.
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Alight, Slade, did you know
there's a tornado
watch out right now?
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- [Slade] No.
- Yeah.
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[Brodie] So we're going to the
pavilion [indistinct]
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So... let's go to the beach.
258
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All right,
so we are heading to...
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the Destin Lifeguard
Junior Program.
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[waves crashing]
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So it's a junior lifeguard
program that the kids do
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every year, and it's, uh,
three-week-long program,
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um, in hopes when they turn
16, they can become lifeguards,
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and, uh... that's Slade's path.
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So... in two years, he'll be a
lifeguard on the beach,
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so it's pretty awesome.
267
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[waves crashing]
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[Jordon] A strict father?
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I guess that depends.
It's not a loaded question,
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but it could be a loaded answer.
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Yeah, I think I'm...
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ultra-strict to principles.
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[man] That's one of the
biggest challenges
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that you're gonna face today,
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To the beach!
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[indistinct chatter]
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One of those principles
is having a good time, right?
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So... not in the
traditional sense.
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I am... big on principles.
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I'm big on character.
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[waves crashing]
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We have-- we take what works
for us, and we use it.
283
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We're not... set on
a certain way to parent.
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[chuckling]
285
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We have standards, right?
and expectations,
286
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but we have that
on ourselves, too.
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And we have failed, and
our kids have seen us fail.
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But...
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we try to show them that...
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through modeling and
role modeling, that...
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that is life,
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and... it's gonna happen, right?
293
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You are gonna fail in life,
but it's how you...
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take w-- your failures,
and you look for growth,
295
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and you continue on.
296
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There's a difference
between failing and quitting.
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Absolutely, we don't quit,
but failure is gonna happen.
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[Jordon mumbles]
Stay tight!
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Christ says, "To all who would
come after me, deny yourself,
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take up your cross,
and follow me."
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We give our kids tons of freedom
to make choices and errors
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and faults and failures.
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Three minutes.
I'd like to get my ankles down.
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I won't feel my
feet for a little bit.
305
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What we don't give
them freedom to do
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is to live negligently,
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be disrespectful, to have
bad character, to live with
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a lack of integrity.
Those are non-negotiables.
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Your bones get straighter,
and your leverage, right,
like the ability to lift.
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It's one of the reasons we
constantly set up structured
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challenges for our kids.
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I think people have a lot of
misconceptions about
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kids lifting weights
because it's so foreign to them.
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On three, two, one, go ahead.
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- [clanking]
- [indistinct chatter]
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I was pretty young when I
did my first clean, so--
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I started maybe doing like s--
like Olympic lifts and stuff.
318
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It's like, when I was like three
or four... that age.
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[Jesse] You see Brodie or Slade
do a-- a dead lift.
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People are like,
"Oh, my gosh, her back."
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"I can't believe you would do
that," or, "She must hate that.
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You must make her do that."
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You know, they have all these
misconceptions about
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strength training, but yet they
don't-- they don't realize
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a child can't dead lift like
Brodie did, right away.
326
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There's no way they could walk
up and even move the barbell.
327
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So there's no really
risk of injury because...
328
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they couldn't even pick it up.
329
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I want my children to
know life has challenges.
330
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It's going to be hard.
331
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You're gonna gain
perspective. It's okay.
332
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And it is probably the singular
333
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best reason to let
your kids work out.
334
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It's why we let our kids
work out, 'cause every
single day
335
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the weights can win.
336
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[high-energy music]
337
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[suspenseful music]
338
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[men counting] Twelve, 13...
339
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- [man] Do not give up!
- 14,
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15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20.
341
00:17:44,846 --> 00:17:48,154
21, 22, 23,
342
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24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30.
343
00:17:55,552 --> 00:17:56,814
[man] Let's go!
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[indistinct shouting]
345
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[man] Three, two, one!
346
00:18:02,646 --> 00:18:06,259
[indistinct commands]
347
00:18:15,094 --> 00:18:16,530
[man] First off, speak up.
348
00:18:16,704 --> 00:18:19,446
Second, what are you,
fucking home-schooled?
349
00:18:19,620 --> 00:18:21,752
Can't you count to eight?
Let's go.
350
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[man 2] Always one more. Ten!
Let's go, Hutch.
351
00:18:30,848 --> 00:18:32,285
It's always one more, baby!
352
00:18:32,459 --> 00:18:34,200
One more.
Who's gonna carry the boats?
353
00:18:34,374 --> 00:18:36,593
- [man 3] Let's go!
- [man 4] One, two...
354
00:18:36,767 --> 00:18:38,465
- Oh!
- [man 5] We're done!
355
00:18:43,426 --> 00:18:44,427
[men] Hurry up!
356
00:18:44,601 --> 00:18:46,037
[music intensifies]
357
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[man] Be respectful.
358
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[man 6] You should do it quick.
Quickly.
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[music fades]
360
00:19:05,970 --> 00:19:08,277
[Jesse] So I grew up
in a very small,
361
00:19:08,451 --> 00:19:10,758
what they would say
village, um, in Illinois.
362
00:19:12,629 --> 00:19:14,022
I grew up on a farm,
363
00:19:14,196 --> 00:19:15,893
but not the typical farm
most people think of.
364
00:19:16,067 --> 00:19:18,026
I grew up on a
soybean and corn farm.
365
00:19:19,897 --> 00:19:22,987
Um, I grew up with my family,
my mother and my father,
366
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and my brother who is
five years younger.
367
00:19:25,686 --> 00:19:28,210
- Where?
- No, it-- it comes out
of its skin.
368
00:19:28,384 --> 00:19:30,647
- [Brodie] Exactly, that's what
it did. It was like--
- [Jesse] It was outside.
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00:19:30,821 --> 00:19:34,695
Uh... but when I was, I believe,
13, my parents divorced.
370
00:19:34,869 --> 00:19:36,697
And so that was...
pretty hard on me
371
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because I didn't see it coming.
372
00:19:39,003 --> 00:19:41,571
It was hard when you're so used
to your family together,
373
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and then they tell you,
374
00:19:43,356 --> 00:19:45,009
"Oh, no, we're-- like,
we're-- we're done."
375
00:19:45,184 --> 00:19:47,055
So... that was really
hard. You know?
376
00:19:47,229 --> 00:19:49,971
That was-- was a-- probably the
hardest time of my childhood.
377
00:19:50,319 --> 00:19:52,626
- [laughter]
- I'm like... [indistinct]
378
00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,802
I'm like,
I know it's Greek yogurt.
379
00:19:54,976 --> 00:19:56,717
- [Jesse] You can taste it.
- See, we're tracking you down.
Slade.
380
00:19:56,891 --> 00:19:59,023
[overlapping dialogues]
381
00:19:59,589 --> 00:20:01,939
I ended up working for a state
farm and realized
382
00:20:02,113 --> 00:20:03,550
I hated sitting at a desk.
383
00:20:04,028 --> 00:20:05,639
I, like, racked my
brain on what I could do,
384
00:20:05,813 --> 00:20:08,337
and I don't even know
how I thought of the military.
385
00:20:08,511 --> 00:20:10,339
But I drove-- I found the
recruiter's office.
386
00:20:10,513 --> 00:20:12,863
I drove there by myself,
and I just walked in.
387
00:20:13,647 --> 00:20:16,258
But the Air Force was there, and
I chatted with them, and, um,
388
00:20:16,737 --> 00:20:18,913
it was a great chat, and
I thought, "Okay, let's do it."
389
00:20:19,087 --> 00:20:20,349
I had no idea what
I was signing up for.
390
00:20:20,523 --> 00:20:22,830
I had no idea,
like, basic training.
391
00:20:23,004 --> 00:20:25,354
I... just was like,
"Sign me up, let's do this."
392
00:20:25,528 --> 00:20:27,313
- [loud clinking]
- Hey! Ah!
393
00:20:27,487 --> 00:20:30,185
Wait. Eyes.
394
00:20:31,055 --> 00:20:33,623
Up, up, up. [indistinct]
395
00:20:33,797 --> 00:20:36,235
I was born here in
Florida, in North Florida.
396
00:20:36,757 --> 00:20:40,239
My upbringing, um, kind of
socioeconomically,
397
00:20:40,413 --> 00:20:43,111
was a little bit of everything,
which was super wild,
398
00:20:43,285 --> 00:20:44,591
but it was a ton
of fun, to be honest.
399
00:20:44,765 --> 00:20:46,941
Like, so... definitely...
400
00:20:47,158 --> 00:20:48,943
got into a lot of fights,
really, just...
401
00:20:49,291 --> 00:20:51,511
due to
being different sometimes.
You know what I mean?
402
00:20:51,685 --> 00:20:53,121
[man on computer]
You have the burden to prove
403
00:20:53,426 --> 00:20:54,383
- Hmm.
- formation,
404
00:20:54,557 --> 00:20:56,472
reach, and damages.
405
00:20:56,646 --> 00:20:59,736
I've always felt as, like,
a strong protector of people,
406
00:20:59,910 --> 00:21:04,001
but I don't... remember, like,
an aspiration for a certain job.
407
00:21:04,524 --> 00:21:06,961
First, I was thinking--
I graduated high school,
408
00:21:07,135 --> 00:21:10,051
and, like, especially being
of the millennial age,
409
00:21:10,225 --> 00:21:11,487
it's like, "Well, what
are you supposed to do?"
410
00:21:11,661 --> 00:21:12,706
You're supposed
to go to college, right?
411
00:21:13,054 --> 00:21:15,099
At the end of my
10th grade year,
412
00:21:15,274 --> 00:21:17,972
I had, like, a... .9 GPA,
413
00:21:18,146 --> 00:21:20,061
and it's because I...
414
00:21:21,018 --> 00:21:23,020
didn't really-- I didn't care.
Like, I was...
415
00:21:23,194 --> 00:21:25,458
un-stimulated,
it was very boring, and across,
416
00:21:25,632 --> 00:21:28,025
like, junior-- senior year,
I went from, like, a .9
417
00:21:28,199 --> 00:21:31,028
till I graduated with a 3.3.
My family, at this point, had
418
00:21:31,202 --> 00:21:33,379
started to be able to
actually make enough money
419
00:21:33,553 --> 00:21:36,469
to send me to college, and kind
of everything came, I would say,
420
00:21:36,643 --> 00:21:38,645
like, into line where
it wouldn't be an issue.
421
00:21:38,819 --> 00:21:40,777
By this time in high school,
I was thinking
422
00:21:40,951 --> 00:21:43,258
I'd be an engineer, and so I
went and did, like,
a little tour
423
00:21:43,432 --> 00:21:45,782
at Georgia Tech and stuff, and
I walked around, I was like...
424
00:21:45,956 --> 00:21:47,393
[inhales deeply]
425
00:21:47,871 --> 00:21:50,134
"I don't think I'm responsible
enough for this situation."
426
00:21:50,309 --> 00:21:53,007
Like, this... just looks,
A, mad boring, and B...
427
00:21:53,181 --> 00:21:55,836
it looks like a-- [chuckles]
it looks like there's just a--
428
00:21:56,010 --> 00:21:58,099
a host of opportunities
for me to make poor choices
429
00:21:58,273 --> 00:21:59,535
as opposed to, like,
430
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:01,581
advance what
I should be doing in life.
431
00:22:01,755 --> 00:22:03,583
So I was like... "I think
I'm gonna join the Army."
432
00:22:11,547 --> 00:22:14,289
- [man] Here's everyone... guys.
- Jesse, the mag is in your...
433
00:22:14,463 --> 00:22:16,291
- [indistinct]
- [Jesse] I gave it...
434
00:22:16,465 --> 00:22:18,337
So after serving
a year in Korea,
435
00:22:19,076 --> 00:22:21,644
I started at the leadership
school the next week, and...
436
00:22:22,079 --> 00:22:24,908
all of us airmen are in this,
like, big banquet hall.
437
00:22:25,605 --> 00:22:28,042
Jordon was in front of me.
I saw him walk in, and, like,
438
00:22:28,216 --> 00:22:30,349
his whole posse walks in.
And I'm like, "Who are
these people?"
439
00:22:30,523 --> 00:22:33,395
After selection, it's about a
two-year program, all in all.
440
00:22:33,569 --> 00:22:35,789
You got six months of what they
call the apprentice course,
441
00:22:35,963 --> 00:22:37,878
six months of just
paramedic alone.
442
00:22:38,357 --> 00:22:41,011
After I got out of that
training, I got stationed at the
443
00:22:41,185 --> 00:22:44,014
23rd Special Tactics Squadron,
uh, in Herbertville, Florida.
444
00:22:44,275 --> 00:22:48,279
In that place, what happened is
I was doing some training there,
445
00:22:48,454 --> 00:22:50,586
right? And that's when I...
snapped my leg,
446
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,850
spun my leg on a
jump, spin, snap,
447
00:22:54,024 --> 00:22:55,852
like, foot turned
into a golf club.
448
00:22:56,766 --> 00:22:58,202
[man] Finger outside
the trigger well.
449
00:22:58,377 --> 00:23:00,335
I'm gonna check left,
check right,
450
00:23:00,509 --> 00:23:01,902
and then we're
going to the next one.
451
00:23:02,468 --> 00:23:03,556
[gunshot]
452
00:23:04,513 --> 00:23:06,167
I was able to study a whole lot.
453
00:23:06,341 --> 00:23:09,039
I made sergeant, went to the
sergeant school, walked in
454
00:23:09,213 --> 00:23:12,434
and saw the most beautiful woman
I've ever seen in my life, yeah.
455
00:23:16,220 --> 00:23:18,135
She was smart. She didn't want
anything to do with me, right?
456
00:23:18,309 --> 00:23:21,312
but I was clever and
charming and patient, um...
457
00:23:21,487 --> 00:23:22,923
I'm gonna put this in here.
458
00:23:23,619 --> 00:23:25,404
Alright, perfect.
You getting [indistinct]
459
00:23:25,578 --> 00:23:27,318
- Well, the kids are
better than me.
- Yeah.
460
00:23:27,623 --> 00:23:29,669
[chuckling]
And so we went from...
461
00:23:29,843 --> 00:23:31,584
just friends going
through training
462
00:23:31,758 --> 00:23:33,629
to over the course
of a deployment,
463
00:23:33,803 --> 00:23:35,718
like building a
friendship, relationship.
464
00:23:36,023 --> 00:23:38,852
I got home, I wanna say...
either right in the beginning
465
00:23:39,026 --> 00:23:41,507
of... November, somewhere
in there the same year,
466
00:23:41,681 --> 00:23:44,814
and, uh, we got pregnant with
our son, Slade, that December.
467
00:23:46,686 --> 00:23:49,776
[gunshots]
468
00:23:55,651 --> 00:23:56,652
[man] Nice.
469
00:24:00,961 --> 00:24:02,310
[rain falling]
470
00:24:11,754 --> 00:24:13,190
Yep, you're good?
471
00:24:13,408 --> 00:24:15,149
[interviewer] Did you have close
moments in combat?
472
00:24:15,323 --> 00:24:16,585
- [Jordon] Yeah, for sure.
- [indistinct]
473
00:24:16,759 --> 00:24:18,282
- ...you were under.
- [Jordon] Mm-hmm.
474
00:24:18,457 --> 00:24:23,592
So like 9/11, 2001,
I enlisted in 2003, right?
475
00:24:23,766 --> 00:24:27,553
Like, we watched 9/11 happen,
sitting in homeroom,
476
00:24:27,727 --> 00:24:30,469
and so for us it was very...
very much like...
477
00:24:30,817 --> 00:24:34,168
"I'm definitely going to wanna
make an impact if I can."
478
00:24:34,690 --> 00:24:37,824
So I remember... the
first time I got shot at,
479
00:24:38,477 --> 00:24:42,524
the first time I shot somebody
as well... on the ground,
480
00:24:42,698 --> 00:24:44,961
we had five different
teams of guys,
481
00:24:45,135 --> 00:24:47,964
and we had went in and secured
like this really big compound.
482
00:24:48,138 --> 00:24:50,053
We're there to do a
counter-terrorism job,
483
00:24:50,227 --> 00:24:52,012
they're trying to kill us,
we're trying to kill them,
it's--
484
00:24:52,186 --> 00:24:54,144
it's pretty simple, right?
I understand why they hate us,
485
00:24:54,318 --> 00:24:56,930
that stuff all makes sense
to me. It's not lost on me,
486
00:24:57,104 --> 00:24:59,280
but I'm called to do the
job I'm supposed to do.
487
00:24:59,715 --> 00:25:01,978
And so... we're getting
ready to walk through,
488
00:25:02,501 --> 00:25:04,633
and one of the guys that was
more senior than me was like,
489
00:25:04,807 --> 00:25:07,114
"Hey, we're gonna get shot at
when we get out of here."
490
00:25:07,288 --> 00:25:08,811
And I was like,
"All right, sounds good."
491
00:25:08,985 --> 00:25:09,986
And... he was right.
492
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:13,947
- [gunshot]
- Reset trigger, we're good.
493
00:25:15,470 --> 00:25:17,124
- [Brodie speaks indistinctly]
- So...
494
00:25:17,298 --> 00:25:18,560
I hear 'em...
[imitates tapping sounds]
495
00:25:18,734 --> 00:25:19,822
coming off, and I'm like--
496
00:25:19,996 --> 00:25:21,345
so I remember I dropped down,
497
00:25:21,781 --> 00:25:23,826
and I look and I'm like,
"Oh, this is surprising."
498
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,569
And then I can hear...
[imitates bullets whizzing
past and gunshots]
499
00:25:27,787 --> 00:25:29,397
And I'm like,
"Shit, that's bullets
500
00:25:29,571 --> 00:25:31,225
coming by my ears, right?"
501
00:25:31,486 --> 00:25:33,619
I'm, like, looking,
and I'm like, "Okay."
502
00:25:33,967 --> 00:25:35,882
I identify one of the guys
that's shooting at us.
503
00:25:36,056 --> 00:25:38,232
And, uh, I remember
I pulled him up in sight,
504
00:25:38,537 --> 00:25:40,582
and I just remember thinking
I put my finger on the trigger,
505
00:25:40,756 --> 00:25:43,716
and I'm like...
"Alright... like, this is it.
506
00:25:43,890 --> 00:25:45,108
I'm gonna
take this dude's life."
507
00:25:45,761 --> 00:25:47,458
And it wasn't overly
difficult for me,
508
00:25:47,633 --> 00:25:49,983
because... I literally could
hear the rounds coming by me.
509
00:25:50,157 --> 00:25:52,246
He's there to do a job.
I'm there to do a job.
510
00:25:52,420 --> 00:25:55,162
My job at the time was
to kill this guy.
He's trying to kill us.
511
00:25:55,379 --> 00:25:58,208
It was pretty simple,
and, uh... I shot the first one.
512
00:25:58,382 --> 00:26:00,776
I definitely missed. It was
a cold-bore shot. I missed.
513
00:26:01,211 --> 00:26:03,039
And then, uh, the second
round, I shot him.
514
00:26:03,213 --> 00:26:04,171
It was clear I killed him.
515
00:26:04,345 --> 00:26:06,956
And then, um... hmm...
516
00:26:09,698 --> 00:26:13,615
...it's a weird sense of initial
hesitation to shoot-- you know,
517
00:26:13,789 --> 00:26:16,009
to shoot somebody. [chuckles]
Um...
518
00:26:17,750 --> 00:26:19,273
There's just like a...
519
00:26:20,491 --> 00:26:22,711
...there's a-- a small
risk analysis
520
00:26:22,885 --> 00:26:24,104
that's running
through your head.
521
00:26:24,365 --> 00:26:26,019
That was the first
time, and then, uh,
522
00:26:26,193 --> 00:26:28,412
subsequent to that... yeah,
plenty of times.
523
00:26:28,587 --> 00:26:31,764
That was the easiest to
remember, but... yeah, yeah,
524
00:26:31,938 --> 00:26:34,157
guys trying to kill you, and
you're trying to kill them.
525
00:26:34,375 --> 00:26:35,985
[thunder roaring]
526
00:26:45,255 --> 00:26:47,257
[overlapping indistinct
dialogues]
527
00:26:48,868 --> 00:26:50,826
[indistinct laughter
and chatter]
528
00:26:53,437 --> 00:26:55,962
I live in Douglasville...
and I lived in...
529
00:26:56,136 --> 00:26:58,138
like, not section--
specifically section housing,
530
00:26:58,312 --> 00:26:59,748
just low-income housing, right?
531
00:26:59,922 --> 00:27:01,489
Commercialized projects,
if you will.
532
00:27:01,794 --> 00:27:02,882
[gentle music]
533
00:27:03,447 --> 00:27:04,971
Everybody is broke, you know?
534
00:27:05,145 --> 00:27:06,929
You had to go in at
nighttime pretty much, 'cause...
535
00:27:07,103 --> 00:27:09,279
there was a high--
high likelihood of crime
536
00:27:09,453 --> 00:27:11,151
and those types
of things. But, uh...
537
00:27:11,325 --> 00:27:12,500
[inaudible]
538
00:27:13,153 --> 00:27:15,851
I don't have any memory
of this, but... my parents,
539
00:27:16,025 --> 00:27:17,026
my biological parents
540
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:18,898
split up when I was real young.
541
00:27:19,072 --> 00:27:20,160
And then from there
what happened is
542
00:27:20,334 --> 00:27:21,640
my mom met somebody else.
543
00:27:21,814 --> 00:27:23,772
I'm not gonna ever
weigh more than 115.
544
00:27:23,946 --> 00:27:25,818
[laughter]
545
00:27:26,035 --> 00:27:27,080
No!
546
00:27:28,647 --> 00:27:31,475
I'm super grateful for the man
that my mom married, right?
547
00:27:31,650 --> 00:27:33,129
So that's who I call "Dad."
548
00:27:33,303 --> 00:27:35,958
It's... I-- I was adopted by him
when I was 16 years old,
549
00:27:36,219 --> 00:27:38,134
um, so my last
name changed and...
550
00:27:38,874 --> 00:27:39,875
Alright.
551
00:27:42,878 --> 00:27:45,925
Aww! I love it!
552
00:27:46,099 --> 00:27:48,101
[Jordon] He's the most
impressive man I've ever met--
553
00:27:48,275 --> 00:27:49,493
- But--
- [interviewer] Your stepfather?
554
00:27:49,668 --> 00:27:51,234
Yeah, that's right,
that's right.
555
00:27:51,408 --> 00:27:53,019
And so, uh...
556
00:27:53,193 --> 00:27:55,108
I-- it's just not even
close. He's-- he's incredible.
557
00:27:55,630 --> 00:27:58,415
Heavenly Father, we thank you
so much for this time together,
558
00:27:58,589 --> 00:28:01,288
all the father's in the room,
it's so special,
559
00:28:01,462 --> 00:28:03,116
we're just so grateful that...
560
00:28:03,638 --> 00:28:05,858
[Jordon]
He was always very loving, and
would definitely always, like...
561
00:28:06,249 --> 00:28:08,687
help to let me think
through these processes,
562
00:28:08,861 --> 00:28:11,167
but he also didn't have a
low standard either. You know?
563
00:28:11,341 --> 00:28:14,388
And so, I'm super grateful for
that, and my mom as well.
564
00:28:14,867 --> 00:28:17,521
You know? She, uh, had a pretty
rough upbringing.
565
00:28:19,741 --> 00:28:20,742
[dog barks]
566
00:28:21,525 --> 00:28:23,136
[woman] Come on.
567
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,965
Both of them, I thought they did
a... exceptional job as parents,
568
00:28:26,139 --> 00:28:28,489
and, um...
I'm super grateful for it.
569
00:28:30,143 --> 00:28:31,971
[chatter in background]
570
00:28:36,497 --> 00:28:39,065
My father, Jeff, was...
uh, a lot different,
571
00:28:39,239 --> 00:28:41,023
kinda in what he wh--
what did and what--
572
00:28:41,197 --> 00:28:42,721
what that looked
like day to day.
573
00:28:43,199 --> 00:28:46,072
So, like... for me...
it would have been
574
00:28:46,246 --> 00:28:48,683
a greater injustice
for me to not give credit
575
00:28:48,857 --> 00:28:50,424
to who it was that was
there and taught me
576
00:28:50,598 --> 00:28:52,208
to ride a bike and
all those things.
577
00:28:52,382 --> 00:28:55,734
But that didn't mean that
I hated my biological father.
578
00:28:55,908 --> 00:28:58,258
It didn't mean that I
disliked my biological father.
579
00:28:58,432 --> 00:29:00,869
[indistinct chatter]
580
00:29:03,306 --> 00:29:05,308
- [woman] Um... Where?
- That right there.
581
00:29:05,526 --> 00:29:06,919
That's not poison ivy.
582
00:29:07,093 --> 00:29:09,269
[indistinct chatter]
583
00:29:11,053 --> 00:29:12,489
- Yeah, pretty neat, huh?
- [man] Very nice.
584
00:29:12,663 --> 00:29:13,708
I've been saying so.
585
00:29:14,665 --> 00:29:16,624
- See, it may be rain.
- [Jesse] What is that?
586
00:29:16,972 --> 00:29:19,018
[Jordon] I know what it feels
like to have a dad, right?
587
00:29:19,192 --> 00:29:22,412
And that was Jeff, who's
raised me since I was a child.
588
00:29:22,586 --> 00:29:24,284
The same thing that
my children feel with me,
589
00:29:24,458 --> 00:29:26,721
I-- I know what that
is supposed to feel like.
590
00:29:27,330 --> 00:29:30,464
So... what do I call...
you know, the relationship
591
00:29:30,638 --> 00:29:32,509
that I have with
my biological father?
592
00:29:33,249 --> 00:29:35,469
I think the closest thing
that makes the most sense
593
00:29:35,643 --> 00:29:38,820
is like... an uncle? You know
what I mean? Like, somebody
594
00:29:38,994 --> 00:29:41,605
that you have a great affinity
for, that you care about.
595
00:29:42,084 --> 00:29:43,651
- Yeah, come on,
let's head inside.
- Yeah.
596
00:29:43,825 --> 00:29:45,914
[indistinct chatter]
597
00:29:46,393 --> 00:29:48,264
- Listen listen
- [thunder roaring]
598
00:29:48,656 --> 00:29:51,659
He was just young. He was just
young and made a bad decision,
599
00:29:51,833 --> 00:29:54,096
and I think... it's a
decision most people make,
600
00:29:54,270 --> 00:29:57,143
which is... tomorrow
won't be here, right?
601
00:29:57,317 --> 00:29:58,840
It's-- there's always
a little more time
602
00:29:59,014 --> 00:30:00,973
I'll get to... trying
to make sure I invest
603
00:30:01,147 --> 00:30:02,844
in this relationship
down the road.
604
00:30:03,018 --> 00:30:05,194
But there is no
tomorrow. You know?
605
00:30:05,368 --> 00:30:06,761
[rain falling]
606
00:30:07,370 --> 00:30:08,676
[thunder claps]
607
00:30:10,547 --> 00:30:13,724
[indistinct chatter
in background]
608
00:30:17,380 --> 00:30:19,252
My dad worked really
hard to be a great dad,
609
00:30:19,426 --> 00:30:22,603
and at the same time, he
worked about 16 hours a day,
610
00:30:22,908 --> 00:30:24,344
five or six days a week.
611
00:30:24,735 --> 00:30:28,087
And I remember thinking,
as a child... "I love him,
612
00:30:28,261 --> 00:30:29,828
I'm so grateful for him,
he teaches me,"
613
00:30:30,002 --> 00:30:31,612
and I also wish I saw him more.
614
00:30:32,961 --> 00:30:35,311
I will call an ambulance if you
need one before [indistinct]
615
00:30:35,485 --> 00:30:37,923
- You'll call a ambulance? Okay.
- If you need one.
616
00:30:38,097 --> 00:30:40,316
And so when I got older,
it's just-- by proxy,
617
00:30:40,490 --> 00:30:41,491
I always thought...
618
00:30:42,841 --> 00:30:44,755
"I wanna be successful as
much as the next guy,
619
00:30:44,930 --> 00:30:46,801
but...
620
00:30:47,628 --> 00:30:49,325
18 years isn't that long."
621
00:30:49,848 --> 00:30:52,067
So... Slade's gonna be 16.
622
00:30:52,807 --> 00:30:55,766
I... think I could have
made a lot more money
623
00:30:55,941 --> 00:30:57,507
over the last 16 years,
624
00:30:57,681 --> 00:30:59,770
for sure, as Jess
could have too,
625
00:30:59,988 --> 00:31:02,034
but I wouldn't have
him the way he is.
626
00:31:02,512 --> 00:31:04,775
Public school, they probably
need it for their [indistinct]
627
00:31:05,472 --> 00:31:07,169
They pulled it all out of
schools, but yeah, it's crazy.
628
00:31:07,343 --> 00:31:09,128
[interviewer] Jordon, what's
the real reason why you, um...
629
00:31:09,302 --> 00:31:10,520
decided to go to law school?
630
00:31:11,130 --> 00:31:12,566
[birds chirping]
631
00:31:16,396 --> 00:31:21,618
Biggest thing for me... was...
COVID, more than anything.
632
00:31:22,010 --> 00:31:24,752
They shut us down during COVID,
as they did everywhere else,
633
00:31:24,926 --> 00:31:27,189
you know?
And we... understood...
634
00:31:27,755 --> 00:31:29,409
why they shut us down
635
00:31:29,583 --> 00:31:32,629
in the very beginning, you know?
But then as it progressed,
636
00:31:32,803 --> 00:31:35,937
it was pretty-- pretty
interesting and pretty difficult
637
00:31:36,111 --> 00:31:38,157
to see, like, why certain
businesses were open
638
00:31:38,331 --> 00:31:41,073
and why others weren't,
and then we came to a point,
639
00:31:41,247 --> 00:31:43,118
we had prayed about it,
and we were like...
640
00:31:43,466 --> 00:31:45,991
we're opening back up. Like...
641
00:31:46,165 --> 00:31:48,558
if you wanna come down
here and arrest me, you come on.
642
00:31:48,994 --> 00:31:51,083
[indistinct classroom chatter]
643
00:31:51,997 --> 00:31:53,868
Looking at [indistinct]
available material
644
00:31:54,042 --> 00:31:55,565
we found all of this,
645
00:31:55,739 --> 00:31:58,220
you know, and yet we still
read through discovery...
646
00:31:58,394 --> 00:32:01,615
America has the best
of the broken systems.
647
00:32:01,789 --> 00:32:03,312
That's what I think, right?
So...
648
00:32:04,052 --> 00:32:06,837
we're not perfect, but the
American legal system
649
00:32:07,012 --> 00:32:09,231
is better than everybody else's.
650
00:32:09,536 --> 00:32:11,712
I was fine with whatever
outcome that happened.
651
00:32:11,886 --> 00:32:13,496
Like... I don't care.
652
00:32:13,670 --> 00:32:15,324
I mean... whate-- If I had to
sit in jail for a year
653
00:32:15,498 --> 00:32:17,370
to do what's right,
that's-- it is what it is.
654
00:32:18,458 --> 00:32:20,895
At that point, it was
like, "This is so crazy.
655
00:32:21,113 --> 00:32:24,768
There's enough people that will
eventually become intolerant.
656
00:32:24,943 --> 00:32:26,901
They're going to either
pick up a sword or a pen."
657
00:32:27,858 --> 00:32:31,166
And so for us, we felt like...
"I'm gonna get a law degree,
658
00:32:31,340 --> 00:32:33,255
and then... we can, A,
659
00:32:33,429 --> 00:32:36,693
stand up for people that
otherwise couldn't, and B...
660
00:32:36,955 --> 00:32:40,349
I now have the ability to
not have to pick up a sword.
661
00:32:40,610 --> 00:32:42,830
I can now pick up
a pen and stand before."
662
00:32:43,091 --> 00:32:44,963
Now to Jordon
for the application.
663
00:32:45,398 --> 00:32:47,139
Yeah, as Catherine
stated already,
664
00:32:47,313 --> 00:32:50,620
a company of the magnitude of
Bayer should have known,
665
00:32:50,881 --> 00:32:54,233
therefore they have intended
to... introduce to the consumer
666
00:32:54,407 --> 00:32:56,235
that these statements
were reliable.
667
00:32:56,539 --> 00:32:58,150
[interviewer] Do you think
the law is logical?
668
00:32:58,541 --> 00:33:02,067
I think parts of it are...
very logical, and I think...
669
00:33:02,328 --> 00:33:06,158
parts of it are just proof that
humans are humans, and...
670
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:08,421
no matter what,
people are flawed.
671
00:33:08,987 --> 00:33:11,380
And... until you have a
culture where everybody's
672
00:33:11,554 --> 00:33:13,992
willing to be selfless
and serve each other,
673
00:33:14,166 --> 00:33:16,255
and at that point the
law's not even needed,
674
00:33:16,820 --> 00:33:19,388
then the best you can hope
for is a good logical system.
675
00:33:22,609 --> 00:33:23,566
That's a wrap.
676
00:33:24,524 --> 00:33:25,916
How do you make it perfect?
677
00:33:26,091 --> 00:33:28,702
How do you... get to this
kind of Utopian outcome?
678
00:33:30,269 --> 00:33:31,792
I don't think
you do on this life.
679
00:33:34,403 --> 00:33:36,623
[underwater deep rumble]
680
00:33:46,633 --> 00:33:48,852
[muffled underwater sounds]
681
00:33:54,336 --> 00:33:56,469
- [heavy breathing]
- It's like 2 a.m.
682
00:33:56,817 --> 00:33:59,124
It's the coldest day
in Texas in five years.
683
00:34:00,168 --> 00:34:01,996
[heavy breathing]
684
00:34:03,084 --> 00:34:05,782
And the pool is where...
you smash everybody.
685
00:34:06,218 --> 00:34:08,133
[heavy breathing]
686
00:34:09,656 --> 00:34:11,266
Every time you're getting
smashed...
687
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,660
they're... holding you under,
guys are passing out,
688
00:34:13,834 --> 00:34:15,140
pull 'em out,
put them on the deck.
689
00:34:17,272 --> 00:34:19,057
'Cause everybody's tough
until you can't breathe.
690
00:34:21,146 --> 00:34:23,322
[heavy breathing]
691
00:34:24,366 --> 00:34:27,587
I remember I was diving in.
I'm like going under...
692
00:34:28,327 --> 00:34:30,633
and it was just a transcended
moment for me.
693
00:34:30,807 --> 00:34:32,766
[heavy breathing]
694
00:34:33,201 --> 00:34:36,248
I'm swimming...
I'm combing, I'm popping up,
695
00:34:36,422 --> 00:34:38,293
and it's like
it just landed on me.
696
00:34:39,555 --> 00:34:41,775
[heavy breathing]
697
00:34:43,777 --> 00:34:45,170
I'm fucking unbreakable.
698
00:34:48,782 --> 00:34:50,827
[water running]
699
00:34:56,442 --> 00:34:58,400
Once I had Slade there was
no way I was gonna go--
700
00:34:58,574 --> 00:35:00,881
[chuckles]
go back to the military. Um...
701
00:35:01,055 --> 00:35:02,839
Even when I first enlisted, I...
702
00:35:03,013 --> 00:35:05,451
did not have aspirations
to be a 20-year soldier.
703
00:35:05,929 --> 00:35:09,237
And so for, uh, Jess and I,
it was-- it was-- it was simple.
704
00:35:09,411 --> 00:35:11,805
I had served my country
honorably, and now
705
00:35:11,979 --> 00:35:14,460
it was time to make sure
that I... give all that I can
706
00:35:14,634 --> 00:35:16,418
to help prepare this
young man for the world.
707
00:35:16,897 --> 00:35:19,465
[Jesse] We kind of made a
list of all different jobs
708
00:35:20,030 --> 00:35:21,162
when he was about to get out.
709
00:35:21,858 --> 00:35:23,382
We had like a
whiteboard, we had like--
710
00:35:23,556 --> 00:35:24,992
kind of like what we have--
you see all around here.
711
00:35:25,166 --> 00:35:26,298
We had a whiteboard,
and on the whiteboard
712
00:35:26,472 --> 00:35:27,908
we were like, "Okay, cool."
713
00:35:28,169 --> 00:35:29,910
Like, "What jobs could we do
where we're together
714
00:35:30,084 --> 00:35:31,390
and we could raise kids?"
715
00:35:31,564 --> 00:35:32,521
And like, we wrote down
crazy options.
716
00:35:32,695 --> 00:35:34,132
We had bail bondsmen,
717
00:35:34,306 --> 00:35:36,264
[chuckles]
we had like... own a gym.
718
00:35:37,178 --> 00:35:39,180
- I'm Jessie,
if I haven't met you yet.
- [indistinct]
719
00:35:40,225 --> 00:35:42,227
The route that we ended
up choosing was probably
720
00:35:42,401 --> 00:35:44,229
the sketchiest route in 2009,
721
00:35:44,403 --> 00:35:46,709
but... it offered the
most amount of time
722
00:35:46,883 --> 00:35:48,146
to actually be my wife and son.
723
00:35:48,711 --> 00:35:52,019
So right back here is where
Jess, um, Miss Katie-Kate,
724
00:35:52,193 --> 00:35:53,673
and Kristen are going
to be going over some
725
00:35:53,847 --> 00:35:56,371
mind-muscle connection,
some glute growth...
726
00:35:56,545 --> 00:35:59,722
And so we had this vision...
of like a playground,
727
00:35:59,896 --> 00:36:01,333
literally like an
adult playground.
728
00:36:01,507 --> 00:36:02,551
We're like, "Let's create
an environment
729
00:36:02,725 --> 00:36:04,466
that people want to come to".
730
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,207
[woman] Get the most out of
your core exercises
731
00:36:06,381 --> 00:36:07,556
and... grow your glutes.
732
00:36:07,730 --> 00:36:08,949
You're in charge of that shit.
733
00:36:09,123 --> 00:36:10,820
It is not in charge
of you, ever.
734
00:36:11,038 --> 00:36:12,344
[indistinct chatter]
735
00:36:14,737 --> 00:36:17,262
If he tries to go
into a squad...
736
00:36:17,697 --> 00:36:19,568
He got home, and we were
open like two weeks later.
737
00:36:19,742 --> 00:36:21,918
I mean, we were like...
literally working night and day.
738
00:36:22,615 --> 00:36:24,269
But during this whole
time, we lived in the gym,
739
00:36:24,530 --> 00:36:26,967
so... we cut costs...
on everything.
740
00:36:27,141 --> 00:36:29,143
We sold our-- we went
down to one vehicle,
741
00:36:29,317 --> 00:36:31,189
but we didn't want to tell
anybody we lived in the gym.
742
00:36:31,363 --> 00:36:33,495
So... it was kind of
like a secret to like,
743
00:36:33,669 --> 00:36:35,410
"Oh, this is our office. Like...
744
00:36:35,584 --> 00:36:37,064
is our office."
But we lived there.
745
00:36:37,238 --> 00:36:40,110
We lived in the gym for...
two years, I believe.
746
00:36:40,894 --> 00:36:42,374
[Jordon] Jess is...
747
00:36:43,070 --> 00:36:44,637
uh, absolutely instrumental
748
00:36:44,811 --> 00:36:46,595
to our success, period.
I don't think-- [chuckles]
749
00:36:46,769 --> 00:36:48,118
I don't think it would have
happened for me alone.
750
00:36:48,293 --> 00:36:49,642
I'd have probably
been contracting, but...
751
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:51,121
- Perfect.
- Woo!
752
00:36:51,296 --> 00:36:52,819
So I was the seller. I was
753
00:36:52,993 --> 00:36:54,386
the one that would
sell it, 'cause Jordon's like,
754
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:55,909
"I'm not doing that."
I would coach, too,
755
00:36:56,083 --> 00:36:57,389
but he would
be more of the coach,
756
00:36:57,563 --> 00:36:58,694
and I would be the seller.
757
00:36:58,912 --> 00:37:01,784
- Ready, set, go.
- [audience applause]
758
00:37:03,090 --> 00:37:05,701
Um, I wouldn't say she was an
introvert, but if you had to
759
00:37:05,875 --> 00:37:08,313
put her... as a classification,
she was an introvert.
760
00:37:08,791 --> 00:37:11,577
But the minute we opened
the gym, she's like,
761
00:37:11,751 --> 00:37:12,969
"There's a job
to get done here."
762
00:37:13,143 --> 00:37:15,320
And... she did fantastic.
763
00:37:16,103 --> 00:37:19,628
Three, two, one, go!
764
00:37:19,976 --> 00:37:22,457
- [indistinct shouting]
- [clapping]
765
00:37:23,328 --> 00:37:25,460
[Jesse] Back then in 2009,
it was like...
766
00:37:25,808 --> 00:37:27,723
"Make them puke,
and they'll sign up."
767
00:37:28,028 --> 00:37:29,072
[upbeat music]
768
00:37:29,377 --> 00:37:30,422
This was before CrossFit.
769
00:37:30,596 --> 00:37:31,901
I mean, CrossFit
had just started.
770
00:37:32,337 --> 00:37:34,600
But this was before
any type of workout like that.
771
00:37:37,690 --> 00:37:40,258
The workout was, like,
kettle-bell swings, pull-ups,
772
00:37:40,432 --> 00:37:41,911
um... some sit-ups,
773
00:37:42,085 --> 00:37:43,652
maybe a run if they
were really in shape.
774
00:37:45,175 --> 00:37:46,568
[music continues]
775
00:37:48,353 --> 00:37:50,964
We'd have them all come in
one by one, and uh,
776
00:37:51,138 --> 00:37:53,271
they'd try it out, they'd puke,
they'd sign up like that.
777
00:37:53,445 --> 00:37:54,881
And then they'd go tell, like,
five more friends, like,
778
00:37:55,055 --> 00:37:56,448
"You have got to
do this workout."
779
00:37:56,665 --> 00:37:58,058
"You've gotta do this
workout. It's crazy."
780
00:37:58,232 --> 00:37:59,407
And so, like, the next
day, we'd have, like,
781
00:37:59,581 --> 00:38:00,669
five more people
that would come in.
782
00:38:01,931 --> 00:38:03,106
We'd give them the workout.
783
00:38:03,629 --> 00:38:05,544
[chuckles] They'd all throw up.
They'd sign up.
784
00:38:05,718 --> 00:38:09,939
And we had so-- I mean...
we grew so fast.
785
00:38:10,113 --> 00:38:11,854
And we did not think we
were gonna grow fast.
786
00:38:12,028 --> 00:38:14,204
We had a budget,
and the budget was--
787
00:38:14,422 --> 00:38:15,684
I think it was like we
had three months.
788
00:38:16,076 --> 00:38:17,556
If we didn't get 60 people
in three months,
789
00:38:17,730 --> 00:38:19,079
we couldn't pay our bills.
790
00:38:19,253 --> 00:38:21,995
And so... we...
just grinned, I mean...
791
00:38:22,343 --> 00:38:24,258
And then slowly but
surely, word of mouth,
792
00:38:24,432 --> 00:38:25,825
just grew and just grew.
793
00:38:25,999 --> 00:38:28,523
And we reached 100
members, like, so fast.
794
00:38:29,916 --> 00:38:33,093
For us... the parts of the
military that we loved...
795
00:38:33,311 --> 00:38:35,356
we wanted to implement
that in our business.
796
00:38:36,183 --> 00:38:39,578
Okay, one, it has to make a
difference in people's lives.
797
00:38:39,926 --> 00:38:42,015
And then number two is,
this place needs to be a place
798
00:38:42,189 --> 00:38:44,147
that when you get off work,
and you're wiped out,
799
00:38:44,322 --> 00:38:45,975
and you're tired,
and you go like...
800
00:38:46,585 --> 00:38:48,804
"Man, I can't wait...
801
00:38:49,065 --> 00:38:52,286
to go to the gym... where
I'm going to feel uplifted."
802
00:38:52,460 --> 00:38:54,157
Not, "I have to go to the gym."
803
00:38:54,332 --> 00:38:55,724
"I want to go to this place."
804
00:38:55,898 --> 00:38:57,291
"I want to be uplifted."
805
00:38:57,596 --> 00:38:59,728
[energetic shouting]
806
00:39:09,695 --> 00:39:11,044
[upbeat music fades]
807
00:39:18,486 --> 00:39:21,228
[Jordon] Mmm, real quick Brodie,
go, "Test, test, test."
808
00:39:21,402 --> 00:39:23,839
- [Brodie] Test, test, test.
- [indistinct chatter]
809
00:39:24,013 --> 00:39:25,580
[Jesse] Sure, what
do you need, chair?
810
00:39:25,754 --> 00:39:28,061
[Jordon] You know, it's, uh--
it's caught, not taught.
811
00:39:28,627 --> 00:39:32,761
For our kids... we
didn't even say, "Do this."
812
00:39:32,935 --> 00:39:35,242
We're just doing it, and they
start squatting with you.
813
00:39:35,416 --> 00:39:37,070
[Brodie] ...do is, for...
814
00:39:37,462 --> 00:39:38,898
[Jordon] You know, it's--
You already know this stuff,
so...
815
00:39:39,072 --> 00:39:41,291
just have fun, right?
Presentation...
816
00:39:41,466 --> 00:39:43,206
They see Mommy squatting,
they wanna squat.
817
00:39:43,381 --> 00:39:45,513
They see Daddy doing push-ups,
they drop down to do push-ups.
818
00:39:45,687 --> 00:39:47,559
...staying straight
and we're staying very neutral.
819
00:39:47,733 --> 00:39:49,169
For Slade,
it was definitely natural.
820
00:39:49,343 --> 00:39:50,910
Um... You know...
821
00:39:51,476 --> 00:39:53,216
it was more modeling.
822
00:39:53,391 --> 00:39:55,871
He-- he was with us all the
time, and so we'd-- you know,
823
00:39:56,045 --> 00:39:58,700
when we were living in
the gym, a lot of times... I--
824
00:39:58,874 --> 00:40:00,963
we'd finish class, so I'd go out
and I'd be working on stuff,
825
00:40:01,137 --> 00:40:02,661
and Slade would follow me,
and I would have him
826
00:40:02,835 --> 00:40:04,358
hold on the rings, he would
hang on the rings...
827
00:40:04,663 --> 00:40:07,361
and we would just play,
like, literally just play.
828
00:40:08,014 --> 00:40:10,756
And I thought, "Wow,
like, kids can learn this.
829
00:40:10,930 --> 00:40:13,541
Like... they're picking it
up faster than adults."
830
00:40:13,715 --> 00:40:16,022
What if you go--
What if you go like this,
three...
831
00:40:16,979 --> 00:40:18,111
...squish your arm.
832
00:40:18,285 --> 00:40:19,591
I would go lighter than that.
833
00:40:19,895 --> 00:40:21,506
- [Slade indistinct]
- [Jordon] Oh, okay.
834
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,203
- [Slade indistinct]
- [Jordon] Oh, I got it, got it.
835
00:40:23,377 --> 00:40:24,944
[Jesse] So "Savage Patch Kids"
is our fitness app,
836
00:40:25,118 --> 00:40:26,206
our kids' fitness app.
837
00:40:27,076 --> 00:40:30,079
I've had this dream for
a kids' fitness app
838
00:40:30,471 --> 00:40:32,908
for... probably eight years now.
839
00:40:33,343 --> 00:40:36,129
I... have seen what it
has done for my kids
840
00:40:36,303 --> 00:40:38,174
and what strength training
has done and how...
841
00:40:38,653 --> 00:40:43,223
it has just... changed their
lives in so many different ways.
842
00:40:43,397 --> 00:40:46,792
And I feel for kids that
don't have that...
843
00:40:46,966 --> 00:40:49,621
you know, avenue. They don't--
they don't even know.
844
00:40:49,838 --> 00:40:51,449
And I feel like that
was kind of me as a kid.
845
00:40:51,623 --> 00:40:54,147
I loved fitness. I l--
I would've loved
846
00:40:54,364 --> 00:40:55,670
Savage Patch Kids app.
847
00:40:56,715 --> 00:40:58,194
- Nice!
- Oh, wow. Look at that form.
848
00:40:58,368 --> 00:40:59,805
That's perfect knees over toes.
849
00:40:59,979 --> 00:41:01,502
That is beautiful.
850
00:41:01,676 --> 00:41:03,373
[Jessie] And so I thought,
"How cool would it be
851
00:41:03,548 --> 00:41:06,507
if we could create an app and we
could teach kids from all over
852
00:41:06,681 --> 00:41:08,683
the world how we
taught our kids."
853
00:41:09,031 --> 00:41:10,772
And... we did it, and
we did it in a way
854
00:41:10,946 --> 00:41:12,513
where... y-- like,
maybe you're at home
855
00:41:12,687 --> 00:41:14,123
and all you have is, like, a
kettlebell or a dumbbell.
856
00:41:14,297 --> 00:41:15,777
Well, that's fine.
We can teach you.
857
00:41:15,995 --> 00:41:17,866
We can build a
strong foundation for you.
858
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:19,520
[Jordon] Two would be
like, what?
859
00:41:19,694 --> 00:41:20,608
[Slade] Like a...
860
00:41:20,782 --> 00:41:21,783
Back?
861
00:41:21,957 --> 00:41:23,524
And the elbow's four?
862
00:41:23,698 --> 00:41:25,265
What I've seen
is only positives.
863
00:41:25,613 --> 00:41:27,136
[indistinct chatter]
864
00:41:27,310 --> 00:41:29,399
Their confidence is... insane.
865
00:41:29,791 --> 00:41:31,706
You know, I think th--
for Brodie too,
866
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,187
especially being a--
a girl, she feels strong,
867
00:41:34,361 --> 00:41:35,754
you know? she feels confident.
868
00:41:35,928 --> 00:41:38,452
She feels like... "Okay,
like, I got this in life.
869
00:41:38,713 --> 00:41:40,672
I can-- I can go over there
and pick up that barbell."
870
00:41:40,846 --> 00:41:43,631
That gives her so much
confidence, and I can see that.
871
00:41:43,805 --> 00:41:45,415
And I see that in women
in the gym every day.
872
00:41:45,633 --> 00:41:47,287
So it's not about
what you look like.
873
00:41:47,461 --> 00:41:48,810
We've never done
that with our kids.
874
00:41:48,984 --> 00:41:50,333
It's never about...
what they look like.
875
00:41:50,508 --> 00:41:52,379
It's how they feel...
about themselves.
876
00:41:52,553 --> 00:41:54,599
Do they feel strong?
Do they feel good?
877
00:41:54,773 --> 00:41:56,992
[cheering and clapping]
878
00:41:57,166 --> 00:41:59,168
[overlapping dialogues]
879
00:42:00,039 --> 00:42:02,171
So there are challenges
with the app, for sure.
880
00:42:02,345 --> 00:42:05,697
Um, one, I feel like is--
when we started our gyms,
881
00:42:05,871 --> 00:42:07,176
we could go
talk to people, right?
882
00:42:07,350 --> 00:42:08,613
We could go and say, "Hey,
883
00:42:08,787 --> 00:42:10,310
come to this gym,
you're gonna love it."
884
00:42:10,484 --> 00:42:12,834
Just for the next 12 weeks,
the focus is going...
885
00:42:13,008 --> 00:42:14,662
[Jesse] But with the
internet, it's harder.
886
00:42:14,836 --> 00:42:16,534
You only have--
people's attention spans
are like...
887
00:42:16,708 --> 00:42:17,883
[finger snaps] that.
888
00:42:18,057 --> 00:42:19,885
So to, like,
explain something...
889
00:42:20,146 --> 00:42:21,800
and only have a
short amount of time
890
00:42:21,974 --> 00:42:24,324
that people aren't gonna
swipe... is a big challenge.
891
00:42:24,498 --> 00:42:26,021
[Jordon indistinct]
892
00:42:26,195 --> 00:42:27,501
- Oh!
- [Jordon] No, no, you
can go ahead.
893
00:42:27,675 --> 00:42:30,417
Number two... is getting
parents to invest.
894
00:42:30,591 --> 00:42:31,897
I mean, truthfully, it is.
895
00:42:32,419 --> 00:42:35,248
A lot of parents wanna just...
go take them somewhere.
896
00:42:36,162 --> 00:42:37,816
And even if a parent
doesn't know how to...
897
00:42:38,381 --> 00:42:40,732
do a perfect dead-lift
or a perfect squat,
898
00:42:41,167 --> 00:42:43,082
you still... you
still can learn,
899
00:42:43,256 --> 00:42:44,692
and you still can grow, right?
900
00:42:44,866 --> 00:42:45,867
You can do it with your kiddo.
901
00:42:46,564 --> 00:42:49,349
Small instructionals...
will yield results.
902
00:42:49,523 --> 00:42:51,656
Because now I see Brodie and
Slade, but I'm telling you,
903
00:42:51,830 --> 00:42:53,527
at three and four, they did
not move like that.
904
00:42:55,224 --> 00:42:57,705
And I think pe-- people
have a perception that,
905
00:42:58,140 --> 00:43:00,534
"Okay, well... yeah, of course
Brodie can do that cause she--
906
00:43:00,708 --> 00:43:03,319
her parents own a gym and
tha-- she moves like that."
907
00:43:03,493 --> 00:43:06,584
Well, that's not true because...
Brodie didn't move like that.
908
00:43:06,758 --> 00:43:08,281
And it took us a lot of years
909
00:43:08,455 --> 00:43:09,761
and a lot of
patience, of course.
910
00:43:10,979 --> 00:43:12,285
People are always
going to say something.
911
00:43:12,459 --> 00:43:14,504
And you might read
100 positive comments,
912
00:43:14,679 --> 00:43:16,028
and you read one
negative comment,
913
00:43:16,202 --> 00:43:17,203
and it will ruin your day.
914
00:43:17,377 --> 00:43:19,335
[overlapping dialogues]
915
00:43:21,337 --> 00:43:24,253
[Jordon] People, uh are always
gonna think what they think.
916
00:43:24,819 --> 00:43:26,429
I think the people that
think kids shouldn't
917
00:43:26,604 --> 00:43:27,822
work out are one of two things.
918
00:43:27,996 --> 00:43:30,346
Either one, they
genuinely believe that.
919
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:32,218
They think that there's like
an epiphyseal plate issue
920
00:43:32,392 --> 00:43:33,872
or growth plate issue,
and kids working out
921
00:43:34,046 --> 00:43:35,395
is gonna stunt their growth.
922
00:43:35,569 --> 00:43:37,702
And the other people...
are people that
923
00:43:37,876 --> 00:43:40,574
either are not working
in their kid's lives
924
00:43:40,922 --> 00:43:43,316
or they feel inadequate
about their own actions,
925
00:43:43,490 --> 00:43:44,839
and it's a projection.
926
00:43:46,188 --> 00:43:48,451
"You shouldn't do that," because
they're unwilling to do it.
927
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,803
And... unfortunately, I think
that that's the vast majority
928
00:43:51,977 --> 00:43:54,632
that will often hide behind the,
"That's bad for your kids."
929
00:43:57,199 --> 00:44:00,072
Just-- Just, you know what?
just relax... and keep it there.
930
00:44:00,289 --> 00:44:01,334
Ready? Big jump.
931
00:44:03,466 --> 00:44:04,511
[chuckling]
932
00:44:11,039 --> 00:44:13,563
[birds chirping]
933
00:44:16,131 --> 00:44:17,872
We gave you just
a ton of pointers
934
00:44:18,046 --> 00:44:20,222
and advice and stuff, so we
kinda put it into application.
935
00:44:20,396 --> 00:44:21,876
It was super helpful.
936
00:44:22,050 --> 00:44:23,878
All right, cool.
So... what does this look like?
937
00:44:24,052 --> 00:44:26,098
So let's take... just from...
938
00:44:26,272 --> 00:44:28,317
what we were talking about
on that high crush.
939
00:44:28,491 --> 00:44:31,756
So everything is about... me
being able to stand next to him.
940
00:44:39,720 --> 00:44:41,809
[indistinct chatter]
941
00:44:46,205 --> 00:44:47,554
[soft dramatic music]
942
00:44:48,511 --> 00:44:50,339
As far back as the
kids can remember,
943
00:44:50,513 --> 00:44:54,126
they don't have a memory of not
being... in the gym or active.
944
00:44:54,909 --> 00:44:56,519
And I look at it more like...
945
00:44:57,390 --> 00:44:59,348
when did you teach
your kids to speak?
946
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:05,746
That's really the same thing.
947
00:45:06,051 --> 00:45:07,226
We taught our kids to work out
948
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:08,836
the same way you
teach them to speak.
949
00:45:10,620 --> 00:45:12,274
Basic words, basic movements.
950
00:45:12,448 --> 00:45:14,886
More complex words,
more complex movements.
951
00:45:17,932 --> 00:45:19,281
[Jesse]
Two hours of jiu-jitsu training.
952
00:45:19,455 --> 00:45:20,979
So the kiddos are
gonna train no-gi,
953
00:45:21,153 --> 00:45:22,894
so they'll train
without their gis on,
954
00:45:23,068 --> 00:45:24,591
and then they're gonna
switch over to their gis,
955
00:45:24,765 --> 00:45:26,332
and they'll do an hour of gi.
956
00:45:26,593 --> 00:45:28,073
And then Jordon and I are gonna
do an open mat session,
957
00:45:28,247 --> 00:45:30,075
so, there'll be
other adults there.
958
00:45:30,292 --> 00:45:31,903
While the kids are
competing in gis,
959
00:45:32,077 --> 00:45:34,253
we'll be doing open
mat jiu-jitsu in our gis, so...
960
00:45:35,167 --> 00:45:37,343
[man] Good? One, two.
961
00:45:37,517 --> 00:45:39,824
- [group clap]
- That was [indistinct]
962
00:45:39,998 --> 00:45:42,696
[Jesse] They're getting ready
for the world competition
for jiu-jitsu,
963
00:45:42,870 --> 00:45:44,263
which is coming up in July.
964
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,918
So kids from all over the
world come to compete
965
00:45:47,092 --> 00:45:48,746
in Orlando in July,
966
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,705
and they battle for the
number one in their age group,
967
00:45:51,879 --> 00:45:53,141
their weight, and their belt.
968
00:45:53,968 --> 00:45:55,883
[engine rumbling]
969
00:46:04,022 --> 00:46:06,502
[suspenseful music]
970
00:46:06,851 --> 00:46:09,418
[faint clapping and chatter]
971
00:46:13,814 --> 00:46:16,077
We have taught our
kids to have grit, right?
972
00:46:16,251 --> 00:46:17,949
Like, we don't want
our kids to be soft,
973
00:46:18,123 --> 00:46:19,472
because the world is-- is tough.
974
00:46:19,646 --> 00:46:21,126
[woman] Come on, Brodie!
975
00:46:21,300 --> 00:46:23,606
[Slade] Let's go! [indistinct]
Get up, get up!
976
00:46:23,868 --> 00:46:25,870
[cheering and clapping
in background]
977
00:46:26,827 --> 00:46:29,743
[Jesse] So we are so thankful
when our kids lose at this age,
978
00:46:29,917 --> 00:46:31,876
because we teach them
it's not about losing.
979
00:46:32,050 --> 00:46:33,051
It's not about losing.
980
00:46:33,965 --> 00:46:36,750
- [cheering]
- We have kept zero medals.
981
00:46:36,924 --> 00:46:38,708
Of anything they've competed in,
982
00:46:38,883 --> 00:46:41,668
we've thrown every medal away,
because it doesn't matter.
983
00:46:45,063 --> 00:46:46,673
Because we don't
care about that.
984
00:46:46,847 --> 00:46:48,849
We're building their character,
and they gotta know that
985
00:46:49,023 --> 00:46:51,025
there's always gonna
be another competition,
986
00:46:51,199 --> 00:46:53,158
and they can't have that
fear of the unknown,
987
00:46:53,332 --> 00:46:55,421
because... that is what
cripples people.
988
00:46:57,510 --> 00:46:58,903
[dramatic music]
989
00:46:59,077 --> 00:47:00,774
[man] Hurry up, let's go!
990
00:47:07,433 --> 00:47:09,914
[men] Left, right, left, left.
991
00:47:13,265 --> 00:47:14,832
[indistinct command
over megaphone]
992
00:47:16,616 --> 00:47:18,836
[Jordon] My job is to help
take care of you.
993
00:47:19,401 --> 00:47:21,229
[all] One!
994
00:47:21,403 --> 00:47:22,752
[Jordon]
And there's some shit going on
in your environment
995
00:47:22,927 --> 00:47:24,624
right now that I want you
to pay attention to.
996
00:47:24,798 --> 00:47:26,408
- Down.
- [men] Six!
997
00:47:26,582 --> 00:47:28,802
[Jordon] If you don't pay
attention to it long enough,
998
00:47:28,976 --> 00:47:30,195
you're going to fucking die.
999
00:47:30,369 --> 00:47:31,631
[all] Nine!
1000
00:47:37,724 --> 00:47:39,857
[men grunting]
1001
00:47:41,206 --> 00:47:42,555
Let's go, let's go!
1002
00:47:46,167 --> 00:47:48,474
[music continues]
1003
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,261
Close your eyes. 30 seconds.
1004
00:47:53,435 --> 00:47:56,961
I want you to figure out, remind
yourself, as the sun rises,
1005
00:47:59,093 --> 00:48:00,921
why is it that you are here?
1006
00:48:01,966 --> 00:48:05,839
[faint commands over megaphone]
1007
00:48:07,319 --> 00:48:09,538
- One, two, three, up!
- Come on!
1008
00:48:10,496 --> 00:48:12,411
[soft claps]
1009
00:48:13,020 --> 00:48:14,630
[waves crashing]
1010
00:48:17,764 --> 00:48:19,113
[helicopter approaching]
1011
00:48:23,074 --> 00:48:25,990
So the military needs
special operators, right?
1012
00:48:26,164 --> 00:48:29,471
And so special operators,
by nature, "are special."
1013
00:48:30,168 --> 00:48:32,648
They're gonna go do
something that is unique.
1014
00:48:32,822 --> 00:48:34,302
And... you just basically
need people that have
1015
00:48:34,476 --> 00:48:36,217
super high risk
tolerance, right?
1016
00:48:38,741 --> 00:48:41,266
A week before Slade was born,
I thought I was gonna die.
1017
00:48:43,050 --> 00:48:44,399
They launched us off
on a hurricane
1018
00:48:44,573 --> 00:48:46,619
rescue mission off the
coast of-- of Texas.
1019
00:48:46,793 --> 00:48:48,882
There was this 564-foot boat
1020
00:48:49,317 --> 00:48:51,102
that was listing--
it was taking on water.
1021
00:48:51,537 --> 00:48:53,191
And it's got these eight
Chinese sailors
1022
00:48:53,365 --> 00:48:55,584
on board this boat, and they
call for the Coast Guard.
1023
00:48:55,758 --> 00:48:57,891
Coast Guard's not gonna go.
They call us. We're gonna go.
1024
00:48:58,370 --> 00:49:00,067
And... I remember
they called me.
1025
00:49:00,546 --> 00:49:02,896
I'm at home, like, in pajamas,
hanging out with Jess.
1026
00:49:03,070 --> 00:49:04,898
And like, "Hey, we need a--
a fixed-wing team leader.
1027
00:49:05,072 --> 00:49:06,117
Can you come in?"
1028
00:49:06,987 --> 00:49:10,338
I kiss Jess goodbye...
and we get on the bird.
1029
00:49:10,512 --> 00:49:12,427
We're getting
ready to go, and...
1030
00:49:13,298 --> 00:49:14,821
I, like, stop for a second,
1031
00:49:14,995 --> 00:49:17,563
and I'm, like... "I'm about
to fly into a hurricane.
1032
00:49:18,303 --> 00:49:20,435
- [thunder rumbling]
- Once again, I'm staring at
death, right?
1033
00:49:20,609 --> 00:49:23,961
I'm, like, looking at death,
and I'm like... "Let's go."
1034
00:49:24,962 --> 00:49:27,529
Get on the-- get on the
airplane. We fly out to Texas.
1035
00:49:27,921 --> 00:49:32,230
We get out over the water, and,
dude, the view of it was nuts.
1036
00:49:32,404 --> 00:49:33,971
[wind howling]
1037
00:49:34,145 --> 00:49:36,799
So we're looking out
the back of the C-130,
1038
00:49:36,974 --> 00:49:39,106
and I remember I pull in the
three guys that are with me.
1039
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:40,847
I'm like, "Hey, guys...
1040
00:49:41,021 --> 00:49:43,241
chance of survival is not great.
1041
00:49:43,893 --> 00:49:45,373
You guys got families?
1042
00:49:45,547 --> 00:49:48,333
Anybody doesn't
wanna go? I get it.
1043
00:49:48,594 --> 00:49:49,856
No-- you don't have to go."
1044
00:49:50,596 --> 00:49:52,728
And they're like...
"Nah, we're going, dude."
1045
00:49:53,164 --> 00:49:55,644
[helicopter whirring]
1046
00:49:59,474 --> 00:50:01,259
I... hoped that my son is okay.
1047
00:50:01,433 --> 00:50:02,782
That was my thought, you know?
1048
00:50:04,653 --> 00:50:05,828
I'm never gonna see him.
1049
00:50:07,830 --> 00:50:10,137
I'm good with it. Let's go.
And so I made the decision.
1050
00:50:10,311 --> 00:50:12,487
I was ready to go, and here's
what happened. Praise God.
1051
00:50:14,489 --> 00:50:16,752
We're coming in on
kind of the last little leg.
1052
00:50:17,188 --> 00:50:19,668
The storm's so bad
that it ends up ripping
1053
00:50:19,842 --> 00:50:22,280
the windshield wipers
off of the helicopters.
1054
00:50:22,541 --> 00:50:25,935
So they can't come in and
hold a hover. They can't see.
1055
00:50:26,414 --> 00:50:28,634
So the mission ended up
getting canceled at the like,
1056
00:50:28,808 --> 00:50:31,593
11th hour where we're looking
at this, and it's like...
1057
00:50:31,767 --> 00:50:33,987
yeah, if we can't get off,
there's no reason to go in.
1058
00:50:36,555 --> 00:50:38,948
In hindsight, now I get to
look back, and I go, "Man,
1059
00:50:39,123 --> 00:50:43,301
God was so kind to me
because... he let me just...
1060
00:50:43,475 --> 00:50:44,998
conquer all these
things that, like,
1061
00:50:45,172 --> 00:50:47,305
I think plagued people
for a lot of their lives.
1062
00:50:48,262 --> 00:50:49,350
I know I'm willing to die."
1063
00:50:51,091 --> 00:50:52,223
[melancholic music]
1064
00:50:54,529 --> 00:50:56,966
So I was gone about
300 days out of the year...
1065
00:50:57,141 --> 00:50:58,185
right? um...
1066
00:50:59,491 --> 00:51:02,189
But when I would come home,
Jess was still the same adult.
1067
00:51:02,494 --> 00:51:05,279
She was-- we were-- we worked,
we talked through things.
1068
00:51:05,758 --> 00:51:07,760
Then we had Slade, right?
1069
00:51:08,587 --> 00:51:09,588
And...
1070
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:12,634
...he would drastically
be a new person
1071
00:51:12,808 --> 00:51:14,506
every time I came home, right?
1072
00:51:14,767 --> 00:51:16,986
I watched him crawl
from Afghanistan.
1073
00:51:17,596 --> 00:51:20,903
I watched him, you know,
learn to walk from TDY...
1074
00:51:21,426 --> 00:51:24,168
and, uh, you know, being
on different training things,
1075
00:51:24,342 --> 00:51:25,343
and...
1076
00:51:27,171 --> 00:51:29,912
...I did not feel it was
responsible to bring...
1077
00:51:30,304 --> 00:51:31,740
a man into the world...
1078
00:51:32,393 --> 00:51:35,744
and leave him... to help
sort through it himself.
1079
00:51:40,923 --> 00:51:43,622
[birds chirping]
1080
00:51:46,494 --> 00:51:47,887
[Brodie indistinct]
1081
00:51:48,061 --> 00:51:50,411
- [Jordon] NASB.
- [Brodie] Wait, say again?
1082
00:51:50,759 --> 00:51:53,806
- [Jesse] Where are we
starting, Jay?
- [Jordon] Uh, John 14.
1083
00:51:54,111 --> 00:51:55,590
What is a church?
I guess it's a--
1084
00:51:55,764 --> 00:51:57,679
if you look at it from
a legal standpoint,
1085
00:51:57,853 --> 00:52:00,334
well, in Christian America, it
might seem-- mean something,
1086
00:52:00,508 --> 00:52:04,077
but... under the laws of what
God's calling a church is,
1087
00:52:04,251 --> 00:52:07,211
me and you talking about
Jesus is a church, you know?
1088
00:52:07,472 --> 00:52:09,561
And so John 14's
a pretty interesting chapter.
1089
00:52:09,735 --> 00:52:13,173
So... to give the backstory
to that, right? Before this...
1090
00:52:13,782 --> 00:52:15,871
in John 13, Jesus sits...
1091
00:52:16,045 --> 00:52:18,352
I've known since
I was pretty young that
1092
00:52:18,526 --> 00:52:20,659
I had a unique,
kind of personality.
1093
00:52:20,876 --> 00:52:24,228
So I didn't have like much...
of an affinity for the church
1094
00:52:24,402 --> 00:52:25,794
or... any of those things.
1095
00:52:27,056 --> 00:52:29,537
Both my parents, I think,
called themselves Christians,
1096
00:52:29,711 --> 00:52:33,062
and they definitely are now,
but, um, we didn't go to church
1097
00:52:33,237 --> 00:52:36,283
probably for a couple reasons,
but like... we were really poor.
1098
00:52:36,718 --> 00:52:41,462
And I remember... like,
early... we went to a church
1099
00:52:41,636 --> 00:52:43,725
and... somebody had
something to say to my dad
1100
00:52:43,899 --> 00:52:45,901
about the way he
was dressed, right?
1101
00:52:46,119 --> 00:52:48,208
Calling him to account for,
like, "Hey, don't you think you
1102
00:52:48,382 --> 00:52:50,776
oughta dress a little...
nicer or whatever?"
1103
00:52:51,733 --> 00:52:54,301
And so... like, I--have
always been super observant.
1104
00:52:54,475 --> 00:52:57,652
I even remember then, I'm like,
"What a bunch of phonies.
[chuckles]
1105
00:52:58,175 --> 00:52:59,350
What a bunch of hypocrites."
1106
00:52:59,524 --> 00:53:01,047
And so we actually
didn't continue
1107
00:53:01,221 --> 00:53:03,049
to visit churches very much.
1108
00:53:03,223 --> 00:53:05,486
And so what God
says in Romans is that...
1109
00:53:06,052 --> 00:53:08,141
the revelation of God and
the creation of the world
1110
00:53:08,315 --> 00:53:10,099
is apparent to all
men around you.
1111
00:53:11,100 --> 00:53:12,624
[water flowing]
1112
00:53:14,060 --> 00:53:16,280
[soft music]
1113
00:53:20,109 --> 00:53:21,807
[laughter and chatter]
1114
00:53:22,286 --> 00:53:26,638
It would took probably about...
two years, um, once he was out
1115
00:53:26,812 --> 00:53:28,335
and then he...
became a believer.
1116
00:53:28,509 --> 00:53:30,294
And it's like-- I think
that really helped him
1117
00:53:30,859 --> 00:53:32,426
to, you know, believe in God
and understand that
1118
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,080
there is a reason
why things happen.
1119
00:53:36,517 --> 00:53:38,563
And so, you know,
I was just praying
1120
00:53:38,737 --> 00:53:41,435
that something would happen. And
then at the gym, which is funny,
1121
00:53:41,740 --> 00:53:43,916
a guy joined, and this
guy was a believer.
1122
00:53:44,351 --> 00:53:48,181
And he was not like what...
Jordon saw at church.
He was different.
1123
00:53:49,748 --> 00:53:52,403
Jordon was like... "I'm gonna
read the whole Bible." He goes,
1124
00:53:52,577 --> 00:53:54,492
"I'm gonna read the
whole Bible 'cause I
don't believe it's true."
1125
00:53:54,709 --> 00:53:56,537
"I'm gonna read this Bible
to teach him a lesson."
1126
00:53:57,277 --> 00:53:58,757
And the other side of me,
'cause I think there's
1127
00:53:58,931 --> 00:54:00,019
a dichotomy in all of us,
1128
00:54:00,193 --> 00:54:01,760
the other side of me is like...
1129
00:54:02,108 --> 00:54:03,631
"Maybe I'm wrong.
Maybe there's...
1130
00:54:03,805 --> 00:54:05,198
something that's gonna
change my life here.
1131
00:54:05,633 --> 00:54:06,591
Who knows?"
1132
00:54:06,765 --> 00:54:08,201
And she has made a commitment
1133
00:54:08,375 --> 00:54:10,334
to follow Christ and be
baptized, is that right?
1134
00:54:10,508 --> 00:54:11,683
- Yes.
- Awesome.
1135
00:54:11,857 --> 00:54:13,293
And so... I thought
what we would...
1136
00:54:13,467 --> 00:54:14,294
[Jordon] So I started
reading the book of John.
1137
00:54:14,468 --> 00:54:15,600
I read John 1.
1138
00:54:15,774 --> 00:54:18,603
And then in John 2... it's wild.
1139
00:54:18,777 --> 00:54:20,300
...in Jesus' name we pray, amen.
1140
00:54:20,474 --> 00:54:21,823
It was the first time
for me, I was like, "Whoa!
1141
00:54:22,868 --> 00:54:24,217
That don't look like soft Jesus.
1142
00:54:24,391 --> 00:54:26,088
I could get down
with that Jesus." [chuckles]
1143
00:54:26,654 --> 00:54:28,395
Yeah, I mean, we're
two chapters in, and he's--
1144
00:54:28,569 --> 00:54:30,136
he-- he stands for something.
1145
00:54:30,963 --> 00:54:32,965
[Jesse]
He read the entire Bible, and
that's when he believed.
1146
00:54:33,139 --> 00:54:34,140
He's like, "No, I believe.
1147
00:54:34,314 --> 00:54:36,708
Like, it's-- it's true.
1148
00:54:36,882 --> 00:54:37,970
Like, I-- I see it."
1149
00:54:43,192 --> 00:54:46,544
Growing up in the streets of
Atlanta gave me a short temper.
1150
00:54:46,718 --> 00:54:49,895
And so... as I, like, grew up,
I had a very short temper
1151
00:54:50,069 --> 00:54:52,680
because I didn't have a
tolerance built up to be able to
1152
00:54:52,854 --> 00:54:55,553
deal with those things, right?
So I had to learn some of that.
1153
00:54:55,727 --> 00:54:58,338
And really what happened
for me was... as I started
1154
00:54:58,512 --> 00:55:01,123
actually reading the Bible,
and I made a commitment
1155
00:55:01,298 --> 00:55:04,823
shortly thereafter that I'd read
the Bible, every single day.
1156
00:55:04,997 --> 00:55:07,216
And I have now
for like 12, 13 years.
1157
00:55:07,956 --> 00:55:10,045
And the v--
the hole, the void...
1158
00:55:10,263 --> 00:55:14,267
that roller coaster
happiness... closed. Right?
1159
00:55:14,702 --> 00:55:17,923
So I... feel a sense of peace
and contentment
1160
00:55:18,097 --> 00:55:20,099
that materialism
just can't fulfill.
1161
00:55:20,273 --> 00:55:23,537
Like... I can be in
anything in life,
1162
00:55:23,711 --> 00:55:25,278
and it's perfectly okay with me.
1163
00:55:26,061 --> 00:55:28,063
[crowd cheering]
1164
00:55:31,284 --> 00:55:32,416
And I feel complete.
1165
00:55:35,419 --> 00:55:37,682
[music continues]
1166
00:55:41,599 --> 00:55:42,600
[music fades]
1167
00:55:50,085 --> 00:55:52,044
[Jesse exhales] The last year
of our life, it was a
1168
00:55:52,218 --> 00:55:54,873
pretty... interesting year,
I would say. Um...
1169
00:55:56,918 --> 00:55:59,791
After COVID, we kind
of... changed our life,
1170
00:55:59,965 --> 00:56:03,142
sold our house, lived
in an RV for an entire year.
1171
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:06,537
[ominous blues rock music]
1172
00:56:11,542 --> 00:56:14,849
Living in an RV full-time
is... not like going
1173
00:56:15,023 --> 00:56:16,851
on vacation in an RV.
1174
00:56:17,199 --> 00:56:19,114
[Slade] It was scary
[indistinct]
1175
00:56:23,641 --> 00:56:25,120
"Are you not entertained?"
1176
00:56:25,425 --> 00:56:27,296
- [Brodie] No, I'm not.
- Brodie!
1177
00:56:27,471 --> 00:56:28,907
It's supposed to be fun.
When we bought the RV,
1178
00:56:29,081 --> 00:56:31,649
we definitely... still
found moments of fun.
1179
00:56:31,823 --> 00:56:33,607
And it was a collective
decision, but like,
1180
00:56:33,781 --> 00:56:35,304
"Hey, I'm gonna
uproot you from your house,
1181
00:56:35,479 --> 00:56:37,524
and we're gonna go travel
around," and kind of like
1182
00:56:37,698 --> 00:56:40,614
the materiality of what that
looks like can change. But...
1183
00:56:42,834 --> 00:56:46,098
I get to live in every
socioeconomic class, and you
know what I learned?
1184
00:56:46,359 --> 00:56:48,187
None of them are the
ones that make you happy.
1185
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:50,842
It's your mindset,
who you're with--
1186
00:56:51,016 --> 00:56:53,018
[interviewer] So you have a lot
of memories as a family.
1187
00:56:53,192 --> 00:56:54,715
[Jordon] Yeah, I knew...
1188
00:56:55,324 --> 00:56:57,326
that this time
was not gonna stop,
1189
00:56:57,501 --> 00:57:00,460
and I had better...
take advantage of
1190
00:57:00,634 --> 00:57:03,202
spending time with them.
And so... that was the goal.
1191
00:57:03,420 --> 00:57:05,900
[Jesse] It was super fun, but it
was challenging, of course, too,
1192
00:57:06,074 --> 00:57:07,902
because, you know, we all kind
of work from home.
1193
00:57:08,076 --> 00:57:10,514
We do school from home.
So... you know,
1194
00:57:10,688 --> 00:57:12,994
a year was-- a year was enough.
A year was awesome.
1195
00:57:13,517 --> 00:57:17,303
- Hey, buddy! Hey, cutie!
- [indistinct radio chatter]
1196
00:57:17,608 --> 00:57:20,611
- Is it super hot?
- Very, very hot.
1197
00:57:20,785 --> 00:57:22,613
It's hotter than
the springs, definitely.
1198
00:57:24,136 --> 00:57:26,878
So when we came back
from our year of RV life,
1199
00:57:27,052 --> 00:57:29,228
we... were trying to
find a spot to live,
1200
00:57:29,402 --> 00:57:30,925
and the economy is pretty
rough right now.
1201
00:57:31,099 --> 00:57:32,971
So we've... you know,
been praying
1202
00:57:33,145 --> 00:57:34,929
for the last
couple years to find...
1203
00:57:35,277 --> 00:57:37,845
the right spot that fits our
family, and we finally found it.
1204
00:57:38,019 --> 00:57:41,283
Alright, so we are gonna go
to see the goats first
1205
00:57:41,458 --> 00:57:43,111
and probably the chickens.
1206
00:57:43,416 --> 00:57:45,679
I would say the last year
was a lot of hard work.
1207
00:57:46,027 --> 00:57:47,986
And patience, a lot
of patience, for sure.
1208
00:57:49,074 --> 00:57:51,468
[Brodie] And I speak goat.
[bleats]
1209
00:57:51,685 --> 00:57:53,644
- [Slade] Then you wanna check
out the chickens, bro?
- [Brodie] Yeah.
1210
00:57:53,861 --> 00:57:56,647
So that's Cock Diesel.
He's our bigger rooster.
1211
00:57:56,821 --> 00:57:57,996
And then I forgot his name.
1212
00:57:58,170 --> 00:57:59,737
- What's his-- He's--
- [Slade] I--
1213
00:57:59,911 --> 00:58:01,086
Is it Russell Crow?
1214
00:58:01,782 --> 00:58:03,784
[birds chirping]
1215
00:58:07,788 --> 00:58:09,834
[ominous music]
1216
00:58:18,364 --> 00:58:20,714
[overlapping indistinct
dialogues]
1217
00:58:23,630 --> 00:58:25,240
[man] Look at that, man.
You gave yourself no option
1218
00:58:25,414 --> 00:58:26,633
and just rocked it.
1219
00:58:26,851 --> 00:58:28,069
[man exhales]
1220
00:58:29,331 --> 00:58:30,550
- [men shout in unison]
- [man] It's our nature!
1221
00:58:30,724 --> 00:58:31,856
[men shout in unison]
1222
00:58:32,030 --> 00:58:33,858
- One last big one!
- [in unison] Ah!
1223
00:58:34,511 --> 00:58:35,860
[man] All right. Warm back in.
1224
00:58:36,034 --> 00:58:37,296
See those three lines.
1225
00:58:38,515 --> 00:58:39,951
Keep breathing on.
1226
00:58:42,954 --> 00:58:44,869
[man 2]
Take all that ice off you.
1227
00:58:46,827 --> 00:58:48,699
[music continues]
1228
00:58:48,873 --> 00:58:51,049
[faint indistinct chatter]
1229
00:58:54,574 --> 00:58:57,795
[man shivering]
1230
00:58:58,709 --> 00:59:01,538
[faint indistinct chatter]
1231
00:59:05,542 --> 00:59:08,849
[man 3] Come on, this is not
gonna change anything
[indistinct]
1232
00:59:12,070 --> 00:59:15,160
[man 4] Keep your head
underneath.
Keep the head underneath!
1233
00:59:19,773 --> 00:59:23,908
[controlled respiration]
1234
00:59:24,125 --> 00:59:25,649
[faint indistinct chatter]
1235
00:59:33,221 --> 00:59:35,441
[man shivering]
1236
00:59:41,839 --> 00:59:43,492
[music fades]
1237
00:59:45,669 --> 00:59:46,713
[birds chirping]
1238
00:59:47,888 --> 00:59:50,325
It was after COVID, right?
We did the RV trip.
1239
00:59:50,717 --> 00:59:51,805
And, um...
1240
00:59:52,545 --> 00:59:55,287
I ended up getting,
like, a weird rash from jujitsu.
1241
00:59:55,461 --> 00:59:57,158
Like, you can get a
lot of, like, different things--
1242
00:59:57,332 --> 00:59:58,638
- [interviewer] Mm-hmm.
- It's jujitsu, right?
1243
00:59:59,117 --> 01:00:01,728
And so I had this weird rash.
I went to the doctor.
1244
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,296
He gave me a pill.
I took it for ten days.
1245
01:00:04,470 --> 01:00:07,125
And I told Jordon...
"I don't feel right."
1246
01:00:07,299 --> 01:00:08,909
You know, I don't feel... right.
1247
01:00:09,083 --> 01:00:10,694
You know, it's like you
drink alcohol or something.
1248
01:00:10,868 --> 01:00:13,392
And you're like, intellectually,
you're still there...
1249
01:00:13,740 --> 01:00:15,829
But, like, chemically, you know
things have changed.
1250
01:00:16,743 --> 01:00:19,224
It's like that in the
exact opposite direction.
1251
01:00:19,616 --> 01:00:21,400
It's so cold!
1252
01:00:22,183 --> 01:00:23,402
Welcome! Come on in!
1253
01:00:24,751 --> 01:00:27,232
My hormones tank.
I've never had an issue.
1254
01:00:27,667 --> 01:00:30,757
I've never been ultra emotional.
I've never been depressed.
1255
01:00:30,931 --> 01:00:33,325
Like, I've never understood--
"What do you mean
you're depressed?"
1256
01:00:33,499 --> 01:00:35,196
- Like, just do something, right?
- [interviewer] Mm-hmm.
1257
01:00:35,370 --> 01:00:39,984
She was just, like... in a
perpetual sense of anxiety.
1258
01:00:42,073 --> 01:00:43,901
She loved me.
She was still great to the kids.
1259
01:00:44,075 --> 01:00:45,729
But I could just
see the pain in her.
1260
01:00:45,903 --> 01:00:47,556
And it was terrible
for me, for sure.
1261
01:00:47,731 --> 01:00:48,949
[melancholic music]
1262
01:01:03,094 --> 01:01:04,922
I felt ultra depressed.
I was like...
1263
01:01:05,749 --> 01:01:07,402
I d-- [chuckles] I don't
know what's going on.
1264
01:01:14,409 --> 01:01:16,890
Jesse's one of the most
stoic people I've ever met.
1265
01:01:18,370 --> 01:01:20,067
That's been her
personality forever.
1266
01:01:21,242 --> 01:01:22,722
I re-- [chuckles]
Dude, I remember...
1267
01:01:23,810 --> 01:01:25,029
we were in Arkansas.
1268
01:01:26,030 --> 01:01:27,814
This is so unlike Jess, but...
[sniffles]
1269
01:01:28,032 --> 01:01:29,033
That...
1270
01:01:30,208 --> 01:01:31,296
- ...and like that.
- Oh!
1271
01:01:31,470 --> 01:01:32,819
- You can eat it.
- [indistinct]
1272
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:34,603
And she's like,
"Hey, I'm just, I-- I just gotta
1273
01:01:34,778 --> 01:01:35,953
go for a walk or something."
1274
01:01:36,127 --> 01:01:37,258
And so...
1275
01:01:38,172 --> 01:01:40,348
she's gone for a walk.
She's walking around.
1276
01:01:41,045 --> 01:01:43,308
It's been a little longer than,
like, I expected to see her.
1277
01:01:44,048 --> 01:01:46,877
I find her, and
she's, like... crying.
1278
01:01:47,442 --> 01:01:49,357
[exhales heavily] She goes--
she's like...
1279
01:01:50,358 --> 01:01:52,360
"...I f-- I feel so off."
She goes, "Like I--
1280
01:01:53,448 --> 01:01:56,408
I don't even
care if I live or die right now.
1281
01:01:56,582 --> 01:01:58,105
And I know that's not normal.
That's not right."
1282
01:01:58,279 --> 01:01:59,977
Like she-- intellectually,
she knew it wasn't right.
1283
01:02:00,151 --> 01:02:01,152
But, like, emotionally...
1284
01:02:04,024 --> 01:02:05,983
I think we just started praying.
I started praying with her.
1285
01:02:08,725 --> 01:02:10,988
You know, when your hormones
tank like that, you--
1286
01:02:11,162 --> 01:02:14,295
it's rough for women.
You know, it's really-- it was
really, really hard.
1287
01:02:14,513 --> 01:02:16,820
Like I said, I've never been
depressed. And now I understand
1288
01:02:16,994 --> 01:02:18,822
when people say that
they have depression.
1289
01:02:20,214 --> 01:02:22,739
I never thought, like,
"Oh, I don't wanna... be here."
1290
01:02:22,913 --> 01:02:25,045
But I was like, "Jordon,
I'm having thoughts of, like...
1291
01:02:25,393 --> 01:02:26,612
I don't care."
1292
01:02:30,834 --> 01:02:34,315
[Jordon] I realized that there
was no level of convincing her.
1293
01:02:34,489 --> 01:02:37,405
I just had to be more certain
that she was gonna be okay
1294
01:02:37,579 --> 01:02:39,016
than she was uncertain.
1295
01:02:40,452 --> 01:02:44,282
And so I just... leaned
into the fact that...
1296
01:02:44,630 --> 01:02:48,199
"Jess... I know you're afraid,
I'm not. You're gonna be okay."
1297
01:02:50,201 --> 01:02:53,334
And... 10,000 times later,
her cycle
1298
01:02:53,508 --> 01:02:54,901
ended up kicking back in.
1299
01:02:55,075 --> 01:02:58,165
And, uh... she felt
drastically different,
1300
01:02:58,339 --> 01:02:59,950
you know? And--
and a lot of stuff changed,
1301
01:03:00,124 --> 01:03:01,908
uh... It was definitely
a hard time for her.
1302
01:03:02,082 --> 01:03:03,475
It's hard for... all of us.
1303
01:03:09,263 --> 01:03:11,091
I love her, and...
1304
01:03:13,528 --> 01:03:15,748
...as shitty as it is,
and as shitty as it feels,
1305
01:03:16,401 --> 01:03:18,098
I knew that she was
gonna come out
1306
01:03:18,272 --> 01:03:20,013
a level of stronger
that she's never...
1307
01:03:20,187 --> 01:03:21,798
even experienced herself...
1308
01:03:24,104 --> 01:03:25,105
And she did.
1309
01:03:27,499 --> 01:03:29,675
- [announcements ding]
- [flight attendant] Ladies and
gentlemen...[indistinct]
1310
01:03:32,417 --> 01:03:34,506
[upbeat music]
1311
01:03:40,468 --> 01:03:42,601
Awesome. So today we're
out here with Brent Riviera
1312
01:03:42,775 --> 01:03:44,342
and the AMP World crew.
1313
01:03:44,559 --> 01:03:46,257
They're gonna be going
through a little bit of a day
1314
01:03:46,431 --> 01:03:47,954
in the life of the Bowens.
1315
01:03:50,652 --> 01:03:52,480
- Did I put my hand
in front of your face?
- Yeah, but it's okay.
1316
01:03:53,786 --> 01:03:56,397
- Oh, snap!
- Look at that!
1317
01:03:56,571 --> 01:03:58,138
[woman]
Go up, I'll take a picture.
1318
01:03:58,878 --> 01:03:59,748
[Jordon] That's pretty wild.
1319
01:03:59,923 --> 01:04:00,924
[woman] Alright, close out.
1320
01:04:01,925 --> 01:04:03,187
[indistinct chatter]
1321
01:04:03,361 --> 01:04:04,971
[Brent] Hey guys.
1322
01:04:05,145 --> 01:04:07,017
- [Jordon] What's up?
- How's it going?
Hi, how are you?
1323
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:09,846
[indistinct chatter]
1324
01:04:10,759 --> 01:04:12,326
[Jordon] Yeah, man, we're
having a lot of fun, uh...
1325
01:04:12,500 --> 01:04:13,893
It's obviously a whole lot
different than, like,
1326
01:04:14,067 --> 01:04:15,808
what we're used to on
a day in and day out.
1327
01:04:15,982 --> 01:04:17,592
So, like, so much of
what we do is, like...
1328
01:04:17,766 --> 01:04:19,638
realistically what
you can integrate
1329
01:04:19,812 --> 01:04:21,422
into your life,
what's a lot of fun.
1330
01:04:21,596 --> 01:04:23,076
[chuckles]
1331
01:04:23,511 --> 01:04:26,166
So what we're doing here is just
a giant caricature of that.
1332
01:04:26,340 --> 01:04:27,951
- [woman] There you go!
- [man] Yo!
1333
01:04:28,125 --> 01:04:29,691
- Twelve is actually impressive.
- [woman] Nice, nice!
1334
01:04:30,997 --> 01:04:32,259
- [grunting]
- [man] Two!
1335
01:04:32,433 --> 01:04:34,218
- [woman] Yeah!
- [loud grunt]
1336
01:04:34,871 --> 01:04:37,525
[Brodie] It's, like, so much fun
because we just
get to do, like...
1337
01:04:37,830 --> 01:04:40,137
out of the ordinary-- well, we
do stuff that we do, but, like,
1338
01:04:40,311 --> 01:04:41,486
out of the ordinary,
it's just...
1339
01:04:41,660 --> 01:04:42,966
- So fun.
- So much fun.
1340
01:04:43,357 --> 01:04:46,056
All right, here we go.
Three, two, one.
1341
01:04:46,883 --> 01:04:49,015
[Brent] The Bowen family
has been doing fantastic.
1342
01:04:49,189 --> 01:04:50,756
Um... they've been
absolutely killing it.
1343
01:04:50,930 --> 01:04:52,801
We've been, um, filming a lot
1344
01:04:52,976 --> 01:04:55,369
these last few hours,
and they've been just on it.
1345
01:04:55,543 --> 01:04:57,197
Um, they've been quick with,
like, the jokes
1346
01:04:57,371 --> 01:04:58,329
and things like that.
1347
01:04:58,503 --> 01:05:00,287
[overlapping dialogue]
1348
01:05:00,461 --> 01:05:02,289
[Jordon]
Come on, come on. Come on!
1349
01:05:03,116 --> 01:05:06,772
- Yeah. Come on. Come on!
- [overlapping dialogues]
1350
01:05:06,946 --> 01:05:08,774
[Brent]
They have been literally amazing
1351
01:05:08,948 --> 01:05:10,471
right from the start,
the get-go.
1352
01:05:10,645 --> 01:05:13,213
They've been just...
providing the lines.
1353
01:05:13,387 --> 01:05:15,868
They're so, um, enthusiastic
about being here and...
1354
01:05:16,042 --> 01:05:18,088
be a part of this. So, uh, yeah,
they're doing a great job.
1355
01:05:18,479 --> 01:05:20,046
Never skip leg day!
1356
01:05:20,220 --> 01:05:21,700
- [Brent] Oh...
- Good job!
1357
01:05:22,092 --> 01:05:23,832
- [Jesse] Two!
- [grunting]
1358
01:05:24,007 --> 01:05:25,095
[indistinct shout]
1359
01:05:25,269 --> 01:05:26,661
- I'm trying!
- [Jesse] Three!
1360
01:05:26,835 --> 01:05:28,446
- Didn't it feel great?
- Yeah, I feel great.
1361
01:05:28,620 --> 01:05:31,318
[overlapping dialogues]
1362
01:05:36,584 --> 01:05:38,543
[suspenseful music]
1363
01:05:42,808 --> 01:05:43,852
[Jordon] Come on, hurry up!
1364
01:05:44,505 --> 01:05:46,638
We're gonna miss
our next time-fall, and instead
1365
01:05:46,812 --> 01:05:48,422
we're gonna stay here
through that iteration.
1366
01:05:48,596 --> 01:05:49,684
So hurry the fuck up. Let's go.
1367
01:05:57,649 --> 01:05:58,563
Alright, good.
1368
01:05:58,737 --> 01:06:00,434
- Up.
- [men grunt]
1369
01:06:00,608 --> 01:06:01,653
Down.
1370
01:06:02,262 --> 01:06:03,481
- Let's go.
- [men] Hey!
1371
01:06:03,655 --> 01:06:05,657
- [whistle blows]
- [men] Four!
1372
01:06:05,831 --> 01:06:07,876
- [whistle blows]
- [men] Five!
1373
01:06:08,051 --> 01:06:10,488
- [whistle blows]
- [Jordon] Stop! Hurry it up.
Hurry it up.
1374
01:06:10,662 --> 01:06:11,663
Hurry it up. Hurry it up.
1375
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:13,143
[music intensifies]
1376
01:06:16,668 --> 01:06:18,626
London Bridge is
falling. Let's go!
1377
01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:20,367
Shimmy down. Shimmy down.
1378
01:06:21,064 --> 01:06:24,328
Hey, you either have to
do it or you get to do it.
1379
01:06:24,502 --> 01:06:26,373
Mindset is everything.
Where we at?
1380
01:06:27,592 --> 01:06:28,854
Give me a ruck. Let's go.
Hurry up.
1381
01:06:29,028 --> 01:06:30,508
Let's go. Double time.
Let's get going.
1382
01:06:30,899 --> 01:06:32,684
[indistinct chatter]
1383
01:06:34,207 --> 01:06:35,382
- Let's go. Let's go.
- [indistinct]
1384
01:06:35,556 --> 01:06:36,557
[man] Come on, let's go.
1385
01:06:38,907 --> 01:06:43,042
[men shouting indistinctly]
1386
01:06:45,131 --> 01:06:46,437
[man 2] Let's go!
1387
01:06:47,829 --> 01:06:49,657
[men shouting and cheering]
1388
01:06:50,006 --> 01:06:51,572
- [man 3] Yeah!
- [men] Never quit!
1389
01:06:51,746 --> 01:06:53,357
[indistinct chatter]
1390
01:06:55,228 --> 01:06:57,013
[man 4] I gotta lay down.
I gotta lay down.
1391
01:06:57,187 --> 01:06:59,015
[man 5] Coswell, get up!
You're a medic [indistinct]
1392
01:07:01,539 --> 01:07:04,063
[Jordon] Watch out.
Everybody move, please.
1393
01:07:09,242 --> 01:07:12,898
So after the military, this was
probably a few years after
1394
01:07:13,072 --> 01:07:15,074
he got a call from a
friend that said...
1395
01:07:15,466 --> 01:07:17,250
"Have you heard of
anti-human trafficking?"
1396
01:07:18,382 --> 01:07:20,166
I know the slides they
made us do in the military.
1397
01:07:20,340 --> 01:07:21,559
That's supposed to be a thing.
1398
01:07:23,691 --> 01:07:26,085
So human trafficking,
for, like, lack of a--
1399
01:07:26,259 --> 01:07:27,782
a better definition, is...
1400
01:07:27,956 --> 01:07:31,090
exploiting humans
for monetary gain.
1401
01:07:31,482 --> 01:07:32,918
[soft music]
1402
01:07:33,788 --> 01:07:35,660
In the States,
the American legal system
1403
01:07:35,834 --> 01:07:38,054
is kind of difficult to
even help anybody,
1404
01:07:38,228 --> 01:07:40,143
even people that
are in these situations.
1405
01:07:40,578 --> 01:07:43,146
So where a lot of the
anti-trafficking and stuff
1406
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:45,017
happens is overseas as well.
1407
01:07:45,235 --> 01:07:47,324
overlapping dialogues
speaking in foreign language]
1408
01:07:50,457 --> 01:07:53,547
[Jesse]
Went to Africa. He went to--
we went to Uganda in Africa.
1409
01:07:54,461 --> 01:07:57,986
Uganda... is interesting,
that's for sure.
1410
01:07:58,900 --> 01:08:01,468
Beautiful country.
Beautiful people. Interesting.
1411
01:08:01,990 --> 01:08:05,994
We got called there... because
we were hearing, like, reports
1412
01:08:06,169 --> 01:08:09,128
of child sacrifice...
kind of the witch doctor thing,
1413
01:08:09,868 --> 01:08:12,871
and massive amounts
of young women,
kind of teenage women
1414
01:08:13,045 --> 01:08:14,829
that were getting
shipped to Saudi Arabia.
1415
01:08:17,354 --> 01:08:18,529
[traffic noise]
1416
01:08:21,009 --> 01:08:22,315
So we got into the country.
1417
01:08:22,924 --> 01:08:26,537
We ended up working with some
really local trusted assets,
1418
01:08:26,711 --> 01:08:29,322
and, weirdly enough, we helped
them build some businesses.
1419
01:08:29,670 --> 01:08:33,283
Businesses for good
guys to give the-- the women
1420
01:08:33,457 --> 01:08:36,068
jobs and stuff to
do in-- in Uganda.
1421
01:08:37,243 --> 01:08:39,898
If they don't have some
way to have an economy,
1422
01:08:40,072 --> 01:08:42,466
then they're gonna
let themselves get shipped off.
1423
01:08:42,727 --> 01:08:44,120
[sewing machine whirring]
1424
01:08:45,469 --> 01:08:47,427
So we-- we did a
pretty wild system--
1425
01:08:47,601 --> 01:08:49,125
and that's kind of the soft way.
It's like,
1426
01:08:49,299 --> 01:08:50,561
sometimes you wanna
to just go kick in a door
1427
01:08:50,735 --> 01:08:52,389
and save people,
and sometimes you're like,
1428
01:08:52,606 --> 01:08:54,391
"We gotta figure out how to
solve this problem another way."
1429
01:08:54,565 --> 01:08:56,044
Yeah, say hello.
1430
01:08:56,219 --> 01:08:58,308
- Say hello to Brodie.
- Hello to Brodie.
1431
01:08:58,482 --> 01:08:59,700
Yeah!
1432
01:09:00,136 --> 01:09:02,834
He went to Nepal, um, and
then he went to Ukraine
1433
01:09:03,008 --> 01:09:06,229
with the anti-human trafficking,
and that was... incredible.
1434
01:09:06,403 --> 01:09:07,969
I don't really ask too
much about that because
1435
01:09:08,144 --> 01:09:09,710
I don't want to know the
details because it is pretty...
1436
01:09:09,884 --> 01:09:10,972
rough and sad.
1437
01:09:14,933 --> 01:09:16,326
[city ambiance]
1438
01:09:19,024 --> 01:09:20,765
[Jordon]
Before the war started...
1439
01:09:20,939 --> 01:09:23,246
there's American non-profits
1440
01:09:23,637 --> 01:09:27,337
that were already working
with orphanages in Ukraine
1441
01:09:27,511 --> 01:09:31,863
to try to get kids to,
you know, um, be adopted to...
1442
01:09:32,211 --> 01:09:35,867
different American, uh,
citizens or just to find homes.
1443
01:09:36,084 --> 01:09:38,043
[indistinct chatter
in background]
1444
01:09:40,132 --> 01:09:44,049
When the war started, nobody
cared about them, of course.
1445
01:09:44,397 --> 01:09:46,617
[big explosion and gunfire]
1446
01:09:47,008 --> 01:09:48,401
[melancholic music]
1447
01:09:49,010 --> 01:09:51,361
And so these non-profits
in America were like...
1448
01:09:52,579 --> 01:09:55,060
"How are we gonna get these
people out of the danger zone?
1449
01:09:55,234 --> 01:09:57,018
'Cause like, all the
way over in the east."
1450
01:09:59,499 --> 01:10:03,155
We got contacted by...
these different non-profits,
1451
01:10:03,329 --> 01:10:05,113
a multitude of them,
and they were like,
1452
01:10:05,288 --> 01:10:08,378
"Hey! can you guys
go in and get them out?"
1453
01:10:08,552 --> 01:10:10,293
[indistinct chatter
in foreign language]
1454
01:10:12,077 --> 01:10:14,906
"We've got, like, hundreds"
and, they had hundreds
1455
01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:17,909
of widows and orphans
that are trapped, and...
1456
01:10:18,083 --> 01:10:19,780
we got the wildest reports.
1457
01:10:19,954 --> 01:10:22,305
Like, you know, all the bad
stuff you kind of hear about
1458
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:26,004
in terms of like... people being
raped, all it-- it's all real.
1459
01:10:26,178 --> 01:10:27,658
It's all happening, right?
1460
01:10:27,919 --> 01:10:31,792
And so... I go tell Jess,
I'm like, "Hey, Jess... [laughs]
1461
01:10:32,184 --> 01:10:35,709
how do you feel about...
me going to Ukraine
1462
01:10:35,970 --> 01:10:38,190
to get in between the floats,"
that's what they're called,
1463
01:10:38,364 --> 01:10:39,626
the forward line of troops.
1464
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:41,106
So you got the Russian
troops coming in,
1465
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:42,499
Ukrainian troops coming in.
1466
01:10:42,673 --> 01:10:44,196
They're trying to
kill each other.
1467
01:10:44,370 --> 01:10:46,546
This is where we're
going in to pull people out.
1468
01:10:46,720 --> 01:10:48,592
Gather these people up,
bring 'em back.
1469
01:10:48,766 --> 01:10:50,115
Gather them up, bring 'em back.
Gather them up, bring 'em back.
1470
01:10:50,289 --> 01:10:52,073
Put them on trains.
Get them to the West.
1471
01:10:52,291 --> 01:10:53,510
I'm like, "Jess, how
do you feel about that?"
1472
01:10:53,684 --> 01:10:54,685
And she's like...
1473
01:10:56,469 --> 01:10:58,254
"Did you pray about it?"
And I did.
1474
01:10:59,124 --> 01:11:00,343
"Yeah, sounds good."
1475
01:11:00,517 --> 01:11:01,953
Oh my God, I'm not gonna die
1476
01:11:02,127 --> 01:11:03,650
'cause God told me to do it.
I'm sure of it.
1477
01:11:04,869 --> 01:11:06,436
[airplane engine
rumbling loudly]
1478
01:11:09,265 --> 01:11:10,831
Traveling towards the capital.
1479
01:11:11,702 --> 01:11:14,139
Current state of
situation is this dark.
1480
01:11:18,186 --> 01:11:19,971
We were in six days
after the war started.
1481
01:11:20,319 --> 01:11:21,973
[thunder rumbling]
1482
01:11:32,853 --> 01:11:34,333
The entire country's
blacked out.
1483
01:11:34,551 --> 01:11:36,074
There's artillery coming down.
1484
01:11:36,248 --> 01:11:37,597
Russian tanks on fire.
1485
01:11:44,343 --> 01:11:46,040
[indistinct clanking]
1486
01:11:46,650 --> 01:11:47,694
Shit's bad.
1487
01:11:47,868 --> 01:11:49,087
Danger left and right.
1488
01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:51,872
Trying not to get shot
by the Ukrainians, right?
1489
01:11:52,133 --> 01:11:53,787
Trying not to get
shot by the Russians.
1490
01:11:54,005 --> 01:11:55,311
And we didn't have
a dog in the fight.
1491
01:11:55,485 --> 01:11:56,573
We were just there
to pull people out.
1492
01:11:57,835 --> 01:11:59,619
All right, Redcon fam,
heading up.
1493
01:11:59,793 --> 01:12:02,187
You can probably hear the...
air raids in the background.
1494
01:12:03,144 --> 01:12:05,277
So they're dropping,
actively dropping right now.
1495
01:12:06,278 --> 01:12:07,671
Too easy.
And we're going' get it in.
1496
01:12:13,372 --> 01:12:15,331
If you wanna know a wild
moment from that one,
1497
01:12:16,723 --> 01:12:18,769
we pull up to this house.
We get out.
1498
01:12:18,943 --> 01:12:20,901
We can hear... on the distance.
[imitates rapid gunfire]
1499
01:12:21,075 --> 01:12:22,250
We can hear what's happening.
We can hear the tanks.
1500
01:12:22,425 --> 01:12:23,469
We can hear stuff happening.
1501
01:12:24,252 --> 01:12:26,646
And we pull up and
we're like, "Hey, come on."
1502
01:12:26,820 --> 01:12:29,867
And... there's a
husband and wife there.
1503
01:12:30,911 --> 01:12:32,348
She has her children.
1504
01:12:32,522 --> 01:12:34,567
And then she has these
orphans with them, right?
1505
01:12:35,089 --> 01:12:38,179
And I'm watching her husband and
her say goodbye to each other.
1506
01:12:39,442 --> 01:12:42,096
And it was unreal,
man, 'cause it was like...
1507
01:12:44,490 --> 01:12:47,101
...for sure this fucking dude's
dead right now, right?
1508
01:12:47,493 --> 01:12:48,842
It's like, how close they were.
1509
01:12:49,539 --> 01:12:51,845
And, like, I got to just--
weirdly enough,
1510
01:12:52,019 --> 01:12:53,847
I watched them,
like, say goodbye...
1511
01:12:54,761 --> 01:12:56,807
...with a certainty, 'cause
the men couldn't leave.
1512
01:12:56,981 --> 01:12:58,504
So-- I mean, war sucks.
1513
01:13:05,859 --> 01:13:08,427
[music increases]
1514
01:13:14,041 --> 01:13:15,086
We get them in the van.
1515
01:13:15,913 --> 01:13:17,305
Uh, We get them back
behind the lines.
1516
01:13:17,480 --> 01:13:18,568
And it was just like...
1517
01:13:19,743 --> 01:13:21,571
...hours of silence. I mean,
there's nothing you can say.
1518
01:13:21,745 --> 01:13:23,616
I mean, you don't even know
what to say, you know?
1519
01:13:29,100 --> 01:13:32,320
Just to watch them say goodbye
was crazy. Yeah...
1520
01:13:35,672 --> 01:13:37,717
[music continues]
1521
01:13:45,116 --> 01:13:48,249
And I remember driving, as--
I mean, I was scared.
1522
01:13:49,425 --> 01:13:51,601
I had a very real sense
that this might be it.
1523
01:13:53,080 --> 01:13:54,995
Guys, so,
it's 5:30 in the morning.
1524
01:13:55,953 --> 01:13:58,085
We're headed towards--
towards Kiev.
1525
01:13:58,259 --> 01:14:00,131
As you see, it is
absolutely pitch-black.
1526
01:14:00,305 --> 01:14:01,611
[indistinct]
1527
01:14:01,785 --> 01:14:03,090
So I wasn't scared.
I was just like
1528
01:14:03,264 --> 01:14:05,136
taking on the magnitude
of like...
1529
01:14:05,789 --> 01:14:08,922
"Dang, all right, Slade's
this old. Brodie's this old.
1530
01:14:09,096 --> 01:14:10,446
If I get killed right now...
1531
01:14:11,142 --> 01:14:12,839
it's probably gonna be
all right. God's got a plan."
1532
01:14:13,013 --> 01:14:14,188
[bomb exploding]
1533
01:14:14,754 --> 01:14:16,887
But it was like,
"I'm probably...
this could be it."
1534
01:14:17,583 --> 01:14:19,324
Because it's-- it was nuts.
1535
01:14:19,498 --> 01:14:21,108
"I'm probably going
to fucking die right now."
1536
01:14:21,413 --> 01:14:23,546
And I remember
asking God, like, "God...
1537
01:14:24,503 --> 01:14:25,983
...I feel like...
1538
01:14:26,244 --> 01:14:28,376
I got more to put into those
kid's life before now,
1539
01:14:28,551 --> 01:14:29,682
so what's gonna happen?"
1540
01:14:30,378 --> 01:14:32,337
Because I don't
want to be foolish either.
1541
01:14:32,511 --> 01:14:34,470
I don't-- I'm not the
guy who goes like...
1542
01:14:35,383 --> 01:14:37,690
"I gotta go save people.
Fuck my family."
1543
01:14:37,864 --> 01:14:38,909
That's not me.
1544
01:14:39,605 --> 01:14:41,215
I'm the guy that goes,
"If God tells me to go,
1545
01:14:41,389 --> 01:14:42,521
I'm gonna go."
1546
01:14:42,956 --> 01:14:45,089
And now we're coming
into the 11th hour where
1547
01:14:45,263 --> 01:14:47,091
the real-- the real
hell's about to start.
1548
01:14:47,265 --> 01:14:50,268
And I just remember going like,
"God, if I'm gonna go in here
1549
01:14:50,442 --> 01:14:52,879
and not serve your will...
I don't wanna do that.
1550
01:14:53,053 --> 01:14:54,315
So do you want me to go?"
1551
01:14:54,881 --> 01:14:55,882
And it was like...
1552
01:14:59,277 --> 01:15:00,670
...the fire of certainty.
1553
01:15:01,148 --> 01:15:02,628
[dramatic music]
1554
01:15:04,064 --> 01:15:06,458
[loud siren]
1555
01:15:08,547 --> 01:15:09,896
Honestly, the biggest
thing I prayed about,
1556
01:15:11,202 --> 01:15:12,682
that I wouldn't have
to kill anybody.
1557
01:15:15,162 --> 01:15:17,904
I'm here to... just save people.
1558
01:15:18,078 --> 01:15:19,602
I don't have a
dog in this fight.
1559
01:15:20,864 --> 01:15:23,475
I hope that nobody puts me in a
position I gotta kill 'em.
1560
01:15:25,869 --> 01:15:27,131
'Cause I would,
I was coming home.
1561
01:15:28,741 --> 01:15:29,699
Like, I'm gonna figure
out how to get back
1562
01:15:29,873 --> 01:15:30,917
to Jess and the kids.
1563
01:15:36,227 --> 01:15:39,186
God won't have His glory
made manifest by cowards.
1564
01:15:39,665 --> 01:15:42,059
[wind rustling through trees]
1565
01:15:44,801 --> 01:15:46,454
[gentle music]
1566
01:15:48,413 --> 01:15:49,501
[Jordon] Life is war.
1567
01:15:50,981 --> 01:15:52,243
It is war.
1568
01:15:53,679 --> 01:15:55,289
There's deception
and evil out there.
1569
01:15:58,728 --> 01:16:00,077
To avoid criticism...
1570
01:16:02,122 --> 01:16:03,210
...say nothing...
1571
01:16:04,647 --> 01:16:05,648
...do nothing...
1572
01:16:08,825 --> 01:16:09,826
...be nothing.
1573
01:16:16,789 --> 01:16:18,661
All pain is temporary.
1574
01:16:20,488 --> 01:16:22,273
It doesn't matter
what's before you.
1575
01:16:24,014 --> 01:16:25,755
Success is the only way.
1576
01:16:28,453 --> 01:16:30,586
You burn the ships
and you take the island.
1577
01:16:33,197 --> 01:16:34,502
[music intensifies]
1578
01:16:35,852 --> 01:16:37,462
You wanna be great?
1579
01:16:37,810 --> 01:16:40,596
You wanna make a name for
yourself from your actions
1580
01:16:40,770 --> 01:16:43,468
and not... the way that
you describe yourself?
1581
01:16:43,642 --> 01:16:45,470
Then that's gonna involve...
1582
01:16:46,471 --> 01:16:47,777
...natural fears.
1583
01:16:49,039 --> 01:16:50,606
That is the path to greatness.
1584
01:16:54,087 --> 01:16:57,090
[men shouting encouragingly]
1585
01:17:02,879 --> 01:17:04,663
- [all] Two!
- [man] Down!
1586
01:17:04,837 --> 01:17:06,360
- [indistinct]
- [all] Three!
1587
01:17:06,534 --> 01:17:08,319
- [man] Down!
- Four!
1588
01:17:08,493 --> 01:17:10,016
- [man 2] On cue! [indistinct]
- [man] Now!
1589
01:17:10,190 --> 01:17:12,323
- [all] Five!
- [man] Down!
1590
01:17:12,628 --> 01:17:14,847
- [all] Six!
- [man 3] On your backs!
Move, kids, let's go!
1591
01:17:15,021 --> 01:17:17,110
[man 4] On your backs, now!
1592
01:17:17,284 --> 01:17:20,244
[indistinct overlapping
shouting]
1593
01:17:20,418 --> 01:17:22,812
Feet at the wall! Let's go!
1594
01:17:23,029 --> 01:17:24,596
[overlapping dialogues]
1595
01:17:24,770 --> 01:17:26,119
[Jordon] We're covered!
1596
01:17:26,293 --> 01:17:28,992
Stand the fuck up!
Let's go! Stand up!
1597
01:17:29,340 --> 01:17:30,341
[man 3] Stand up!
1598
01:17:30,907 --> 01:17:32,691
[indistinct shouting]
1599
01:17:33,518 --> 01:17:34,911
[Jordon]
Turn that fucking music down.
1600
01:17:36,347 --> 01:17:38,175
[man 5] Turn the music down!
1601
01:17:40,046 --> 01:17:41,134
[music fades]
1602
01:17:43,093 --> 01:17:44,224
Team, about-face.
1603
01:17:47,053 --> 01:17:49,665
[clapping and cheering
euphorically]
1604
01:18:05,376 --> 01:18:08,161
Gentlemen...
be a light in the world.
1605
01:18:09,336 --> 01:18:12,426
As you step forward,
you are that motherfucker.
1606
01:18:12,600 --> 01:18:14,211
- Hooyah?
- [all] Hooyah!
1607
01:18:14,907 --> 01:18:16,387
Thank you guys for your time.
1608
01:18:16,561 --> 01:18:18,432
If you guys want
some feedback, hooyah.
1609
01:18:18,606 --> 01:18:20,260
But right now, let's
put our hands together.
1610
01:18:20,434 --> 01:18:21,697
You guys fucking got it done.
1611
01:18:21,871 --> 01:18:22,915
[indistinct]
1612
01:18:23,220 --> 01:18:25,744
[cheering and clapping]
1613
01:18:35,101 --> 01:18:36,320
Bring it in.
1614
01:18:37,147 --> 01:18:38,975
[solemn music]
1615
01:18:44,676 --> 01:18:46,547
[inaudible]
1616
01:18:52,771 --> 01:18:55,121
[music fades]
1617
01:19:00,648 --> 01:19:02,781
[indistinct chatter
in background]
1618
01:19:08,308 --> 01:19:10,484
[Jordon] You are a dog
on a different level.
1619
01:19:13,618 --> 01:19:16,534
I have seen you in
dog fights with people.
1620
01:19:18,449 --> 01:19:21,800
You have an uncommon
level of being comfortable
1621
01:19:21,974 --> 01:19:23,367
with the uncomfortable.
1622
01:19:24,542 --> 01:19:27,763
I just encourage you
to stay in that setting.
1623
01:19:28,720 --> 01:19:32,855
What... I want to do after
I graduate is go be a PJ
1624
01:19:33,029 --> 01:19:36,510
like my dad
because... I like that job
1625
01:19:36,684 --> 01:19:38,164
where it's like helping people.
1626
01:19:38,774 --> 01:19:41,777
And then probably after the
military, I wanna go become like
1627
01:19:41,951 --> 01:19:44,736
a lawyer like my dad so
I can help people there too.
1628
01:19:45,606 --> 01:19:48,261
Yeah, I am definitely gonna
be sad when he leaves,
1629
01:19:48,435 --> 01:19:50,960
but I know that he
will be having fun.
1630
01:19:51,221 --> 01:19:54,267
So as long as he's having fun,
I'm glad that he's going
1631
01:19:54,441 --> 01:19:55,486
to be in the military
1632
01:19:55,660 --> 01:19:57,401
'cause I know he
wants to do that,
1633
01:19:57,575 --> 01:20:00,143
and he, like-- he loves survival
and he loves stuff like that.
1634
01:20:00,317 --> 01:20:03,537
So, I will be sad, but I'm glad
he'll be having a good time.
1635
01:20:08,542 --> 01:20:10,109
[Jordon] You know, you're
looking at going
in the military.
1636
01:20:10,283 --> 01:20:12,459
- What's that look like?
- [Slade] Definitely be a PJ.
1637
01:20:12,633 --> 01:20:15,332
- [Jordon] Yeah.
- Probably do the reserve
so I can do school as well.
1638
01:20:15,506 --> 01:20:16,724
[Jordon] Why do you think
you want to be a Jay?
1639
01:20:17,725 --> 01:20:19,205
Be able to jump out of planes,
1640
01:20:19,379 --> 01:20:21,077
- do med stuff
- [Jordon] Mm-hmm.
1641
01:20:21,251 --> 01:20:22,774
- to help people.
- Yeah, yeah.
1642
01:20:22,948 --> 01:20:25,124
Scenarios like
rescues and stuff.
1643
01:20:25,298 --> 01:20:27,518
Yeah, obviously your
mom and I believe in you.
1644
01:20:28,867 --> 01:20:30,390
Going into the world...
1645
01:20:30,695 --> 01:20:33,524
you're gonna experience
a lot of challenges.
1646
01:20:34,046 --> 01:20:39,269
But most of those will be to
try to get you... to be...
1647
01:20:40,444 --> 01:20:43,708
...different than the way that
you know you're supposed to be.
1648
01:20:44,361 --> 01:20:45,666
And some people will hate you.
1649
01:20:48,060 --> 01:20:49,192
Such is life.
1650
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:54,458
What do you think will be
1651
01:20:54,632 --> 01:20:56,416
some of your biggest challenges
as you press forward?
1652
01:20:56,590 --> 01:20:57,896
What do you think
selection is going to be like?
1653
01:20:59,245 --> 01:21:00,420
Do you think it's
going to be similar
1654
01:21:00,594 --> 01:21:01,857
to the Never Quit course?
1655
01:21:02,292 --> 01:21:03,510
- [Slade] Probably, mostly.
- [Jordon] Yeah, right?
1656
01:21:04,033 --> 01:21:05,643
You're gonna walk in,
1657
01:21:05,991 --> 01:21:08,776
and there will be guys that are
in better shape than you, right?
1658
01:21:08,951 --> 01:21:10,909
Like, I had Olympic
swimmers there.
1659
01:21:11,083 --> 01:21:12,084
- Yeah.
- Incredible shape.
1660
01:21:12,563 --> 01:21:13,607
But...
1661
01:21:15,044 --> 01:21:17,568
...they lack the
characteristic of selflessness
1662
01:21:18,395 --> 01:21:19,439
to the point of death.
1663
01:21:20,005 --> 01:21:21,267
[gentle music]
1664
01:21:25,924 --> 01:21:28,709
Jesus says, "Go sell your
tunic and buy a sword,"
1665
01:21:29,841 --> 01:21:32,365
in the same way that
you have to be prepared
1666
01:21:32,539 --> 01:21:34,498
to be capable of violence
1667
01:21:34,890 --> 01:21:36,239
so that you can be peaceful.
1668
01:21:36,630 --> 01:21:37,893
- [Slade] Yeah.
- [Jordon] You know what I mean?
1669
01:21:44,247 --> 01:21:45,465
You know, it's funny, um...
1670
01:21:45,944 --> 01:21:48,860
If you ask any operator,
they'll tell you the same thing.
1671
01:21:49,469 --> 01:21:53,473
"Most of my memories
are of our epic failures."
1672
01:21:54,910 --> 01:21:56,563
Whenever I got
out of the military,
1673
01:21:56,737 --> 01:22:00,002
you the-- the absolute
central reason for that was?
1674
01:22:00,567 --> 01:22:03,440
- No
- It was you... right?
1675
01:22:05,181 --> 01:22:07,618
So I'm gone 300 days
out of the year at the time,
1676
01:22:08,358 --> 01:22:10,751
and the reason I got
out was because...
1677
01:22:11,578 --> 01:22:13,711
I was shucking my responsibility
1678
01:22:14,146 --> 01:22:16,801
to not give you the
character that I believed that
1679
01:22:17,193 --> 01:22:19,238
should have
arrived to you, right?
1680
01:22:22,285 --> 01:22:25,027
The greatest accomplishment
that I can have in this life
1681
01:22:25,723 --> 01:22:27,855
is to develop character
in my children.
1682
01:22:28,030 --> 01:22:29,683
And when I look at
your character,
1683
01:22:30,162 --> 01:22:32,948
you're so far ahead
of where I was at your age,
1684
01:22:33,122 --> 01:22:34,384
like 15 years ahead.
1685
01:22:35,602 --> 01:22:37,517
You know, the sky
is the limit for you, man.
1686
01:22:38,344 --> 01:22:40,433
You can do anything
that you wanna do
1687
01:22:40,825 --> 01:22:44,437
so long as you will be
selfless, maintain discipline,
1688
01:22:45,090 --> 01:22:48,920
and hold your integrity in
the face of all adversity.
1689
01:22:50,922 --> 01:22:52,793
Walk softly and
carry a big stick, son.
1690
01:22:53,707 --> 01:22:57,015
Nobody... is going
to live your life but you.
1691
01:22:58,147 --> 01:23:00,149
- Yeah
- So you can't live your life...
1692
01:23:00,584 --> 01:23:01,977
for the perception of others.
1693
01:23:03,456 --> 01:23:04,588
- You know what I mean?
- Yeah
1694
01:23:04,762 --> 01:23:06,242
- I love you, man.
- Love you, too.
1695
01:23:09,375 --> 01:23:11,508
[music continues]
1696
01:23:29,613 --> 01:23:31,049
[soft music]
1697
01:23:47,674 --> 01:23:48,675
[inaudible]
1698
01:24:06,084 --> 01:24:07,738
[inaudible]
1699
01:24:20,838 --> 01:24:21,969
[inaudible]
1700
01:24:40,597 --> 01:24:42,381
[inaudible]
1701
01:24:59,268 --> 01:25:00,834
[inaudible]
1702
01:25:09,495 --> 01:25:10,888
[inaudible]
1703
01:25:27,165 --> 01:25:28,166
[music fades]