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<i>Out of all the
commands that Christ gives,</i>

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<i>there's... none that
he's telling you to go</i>

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<i>to the synagogue.</i>

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<i>Among this hedonistic world,
I'll build my church.</i>

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<i>In the depths of what
people think is impossible,</i>

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<i>I'll bring the Spirit.</i>

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<i>There's always a plan, but,</i>

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<i>the plan is the
first casualty of war.</i>

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<i>We killed everybody that
was trying to kill us, and...</i>

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<i>yeah, the guy's trying to
kill you, you're trying
to kill them.</i>

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One, two, three, four, five--

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<i>I follow Christ's model,
which is, "Deny yourself."</i>

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<i>"Take up your
cross and follow me."</i>

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<i>I had a very real sense
that this might be it.</i>

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<i>I'm probably--
this could be it.</i>

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<i>I'm probably gonna
fucking die today.</i>

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<i>Inside of all
of us is two people.</i>

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...to the right.

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<i>There is the spirit of
who you are,</i>

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<i>and there is your anti-self.</i>

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<i>Your anti-self wants to be
comfortable, it wants to find</i>

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<i>the easiest way out.</i>

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<i>You're gonna feel...
like this is too hard.</i>

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<i>It's not.</i>

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- Let's go!
- Oh!

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Let's go!

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- ...so hurry up,
they're waiting on you!
- Let's go!

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Let's go,
let's go, let's go.

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<i>It's not gonna
be a problem.</i>

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You guys are gonna
fucking get through this.

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And just in case, it's
not called the "If we quit"

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it's the fucking "Never quit,"
that's all there is to it.

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<i>You guys understand who we are?</i>

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- <i>Yeah!</i>
- <i>Let's do it.</i>

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<i>Let's go, let's go.</i>

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<i>Let's go, double time,
let's get going.</i>

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<i>Stay professional to the end,
you guys understand, hooyah?</i>

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<i>Hooyah!</i>

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<i>Hurry up, hurry up.</i>

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<i>One more is the right answer,</i>

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<i>- let's go, start
loading up, hurry up.</i>
- <i>Sir.</i>

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Standard grade
spelling here.

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Alright, so first off, we--

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in order to take
a look at a belief,

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'cause this is still
based upon a belief,

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what's going on there, right?

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What-- What is impostor syndrome
in your thought process

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or in your terms?

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Is it... somebody...
that thinks like,

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they're... not a part
of the crew?

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Not a part of a crew? Okay.

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And so if that's your
thought process,

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well then what happens is...

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if I'm just purely random,

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and there was no hard work
or grace or rather even...

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nothing that... led to the
creation of the situation I'm in

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- Mm-hmm.
- or, well then that means

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- it can easily go just as well.
- Mm.

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- Does that make sense? Okay,
- Yeah.

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so, like, in your terms,
what does that mean?

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They're there
for, like, no reason,

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and so they can just like
maybe... die for no reason.

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Yeah, your brain's
gonna wanna say to do it.

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Now, whether you do or not is
irrelevant to the outcome,

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but that thought, that you have
something in opposition to

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your value set...

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...people
start to believe that they're

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the only ones that are
struggling with doing...

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what their values are.

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- Whe-- you got any
questions or thoughts?
- No.

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'Cause you guys do gotta
get out of here f-- shortly.

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I... don't think so.

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So my name is
Jordon Bowen. Um...

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Attributes that describe me,

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I think for me... everything
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responsibility, integrity...

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Um... I believe I'm hardworking,

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relentless, persistent.

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And... um... I think
I'm decently intelligent,

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but where I'm not...
I'll just go back to persistent.

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Yeah.

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When-- you good?

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So when you're looking at, um...

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on this... "Struggle to do

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- what you believe" piece,
- Yeah

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- if what you believe... is
not rooted in any truth,
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then that struggle you feel is
probably a healthy thing.

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My name is Jesse Bowen,

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and I would describe
myself as a mother,

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a business owner,
an entrepreneur,

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a free-spirited soul.

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My name is Slade Bowen.

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What I can tell you about my
family is that we're all great

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because we all hang
around as a family.

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My name is Brodie, and...
my mom and dad,

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like, they're always
trying to help people.

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Like, some people could
look at us as role models,

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and I think that's great.
I think it's awesome.

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The only one I could say
that I get tired about...

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is probably just Brodie.

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- Yeah
- Hurry up and eat your food.

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You guys gotta get out of here.

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I-- I'll go do that first.

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- So... I'll see you
back here at nine?
- Yes.

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Have fun, guys.

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Because, you know, for us...

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A friend of mine has said
this to me years past.

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And he said, like, "Hey man,
if your children leave
your house

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at 18 years old, and... they
don't know what you know

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from character and
application standpoint,

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then you f-- you fucked up."

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Either you're gonna take
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or...

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you're gonna farm that
out to somebody else.

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And so like, as we just,
you know, Jess and I

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dissect-- cause he started
in public school.

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Alright? So he was in public
school for what?

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- Two yea-- Three years?
- Three years.

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You have this perception of
what you think a homeschooler

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or home-school kid
is gonna be like.

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And so... we kind of had
that in the back of our mind.

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And Slade was in...
I believe, second grade.

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And he came home,
and he... said something,

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and we don't-- I don't
remember exactly what it was,

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but it was not what we...
would've said.

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Something maybe...
he believed in,

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or I-- it was something weird.

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And we're like, "Where did
you hear that, buddy?"

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And he heard it
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And it was like, so...
drastically different than,

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not just our belief system,
but what I believe is just a--

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a logical outcome when you--
when you just assess

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the facts in front of you.

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I was like, "Oh man..."

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Jordon's like, "Okay,
let's do this.
Let's take a year.

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You home-school em', and
we'll see what happens.

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If the year is not good, we'll
put 'em right back into school."

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I'm like, "Okay, I can handle
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And so we, uh-- we did a
year, and we were like,

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"Oh my gosh, we're so
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You, know, It wasn't
easy by any means.

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It's not easy at
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you're used to your kid
being at school all day.

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No, I've never gone to regular
school, and, I don't want to

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'cause I-- I don't like to
be in one spot for too long.

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Like... I have to go.
I have to be on it.

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So... I've never
gone to real school,

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and I don't really want to.

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You know, our kids...

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can go run around, and... they
can do whatever they want.

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And then we have just a couple
hours to sit down with them,

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and you get used to-- you--
just like I'm used to
Jordon every day.

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Like, you get-- you all
become a unit together,

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and you learn to be with
your kid every day, and--

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and I can't imagine not...

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spending that time with
my kid every day, you know?

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What do we got for food here?

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- Ready for your liver?
- Yeah.

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Let's go.

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Do we ever eat fast food?
Not normally.

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- I love
- For all the inquisitive

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people of the world,

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it won't kill you
to eat raw liver.

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Well, that's not true.
It definitely could kill you.

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You're up.

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It's-- It's better for you
than how it looks.

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Without a doubt, the food system

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is the most detrimental
thing that we have.

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Awesome! So first I wanna
say thank you to Ms. Jean

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for letting us come here and
give this nutrition seminar.

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Um, a little backstory, my name
is Jessie. This is Jordon.

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Uh, we're Brodie's parents. And
we have been training people

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and teaching them about
nutrition for over 14 years now.

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Curious for you kiddos.

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So... do you think about
what you eat currently

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when it comes to your training?
Raise your hands--

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show your hands if this
even crosses your mind.

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The question is... if the
chemicals aren't bad for you,

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if it's not a big deal,
why are we using 'em?

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Why don't we just... use normal
food? Why are we using 'em'?

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Okay, well, because
it's cheaper to make,

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and they wanna get people
addicted to taste, right?

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Real quick, can you give me what
you think is a good food, right?

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We use the words
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- What's a good food?
- Carrot?

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Carrot. All right, what else?

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- Strawberries
- Strawberries.

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- Watermelon.
- Watermelon.

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- Peppers.
- Peppers.

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Yeah, so we talked a lot about a
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a couple vegetables
snuck in there.

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What about... meat?

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Mr. Jordon and I have done

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every diet you can
imagine in the world.

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We try it all because we
want to see what works the best

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for ourselves, and for all the
people that we train.

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So what we have found,
because we work out a lot,

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we're athletes, is that protein
is so important to recover,

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to build strong muscles,
to just feel good.

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Like if you don't eat well,

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you're not gonna
feel like doing anything.

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If you don't feel like doing
anything, you're gonna end up

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having much higher levels
of depression and anxiety.

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You're gonna get heavier.
You're gonna feel

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less secure about yourself.

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If you feel less secure about
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you're gonna have harder times
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Your confidence
is gonna be less.

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You won't go for the
job you should have went for.

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You're gonna feel inadequate.

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It is just such a
snowball that happens,

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and it all starts with food.

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And we'll just end it
with this so you guys

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can get back to practice.
But what I would suggest,

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it's what I did, and what's--
Brodie and I started at the
same time.

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We did a 30-day, you can
call it a "challenge,"

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or we did a "30-day experiment."

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For one month, I'm gonna
see if I can really focus on

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my macronutrients, my
proteins, my fats, and my carbs.

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See how good
my gymnastics is--

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See how much
better you feel.

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The best
drug dealers on the planet

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are the people that make food.

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Alight, Slade, did you know
there's a tornado
watch out right now?

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- No.
- Yeah.

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So we're going to the
pavilion

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So... let's go to the beach.

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All right,
so we are heading to...

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the Destin Lifeguard
Junior Program.

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So it's a junior lifeguard
program that the kids do

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every year, and it's, uh,
three-week-long program,

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um, in hopes when they turn
16, they can become lifeguards,

235
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and, uh... that's Slade's path.

236
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So... in two years, he'll be a
lifeguard on the beach,

237
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so it's pretty awesome.

238
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A strict father?

239
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I guess that depends.
It's not a loaded question,

240
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but it could be a loaded answer.

241
00:14:01,449 --> 00:14:02,842
Yeah, I think I'm...

242
00:14:03,016 --> 00:14:05,496
ultra-strict to principles.

243
00:14:05,670 --> 00:14:07,455
That's one of the
biggest challenges

244
00:14:07,934 --> 00:14:09,544
that you're gonna face today,

245
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To the beach!

246
00:14:13,722 --> 00:14:16,159
One of those principles
is having a good time, right?

247
00:14:16,333 --> 00:14:18,901
So... not in the
traditional sense.

248
00:14:19,075 --> 00:14:21,077
I am... big on principles.

249
00:14:21,251 --> 00:14:22,731
I'm big on character.

250
00:14:28,780 --> 00:14:32,001
We have-- we take what works
for us, and we use it.

251
00:14:32,175 --> 00:14:35,091
We're not... set on
a certain way to parent.

252
00:14:37,572 --> 00:14:39,922
We have standards, right?
and expectations,

253
00:14:40,401 --> 00:14:41,924
but we have that
on ourselves, too.

254
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And we have failed, and
our kids have seen us fail.

255
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But...

256
00:14:46,929 --> 00:14:48,235
we try to show them that...

257
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through modeling and
role modeling, that...

258
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that is life,

259
00:14:52,587 --> 00:14:54,763
and... it's gonna happen, right?

260
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You are gonna fail in life,
but it's how you...

261
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take w-- your failures,
and you look for growth,

262
00:15:01,857 --> 00:15:02,989
and you continue on.

263
00:15:04,294 --> 00:15:06,340
There's a difference
between failing and quitting.

264
00:15:06,514 --> 00:15:09,865
Absolutely, we don't quit,
but failure is gonna happen.

265
00:15:19,266 --> 00:15:20,745
Stay tight!

266
00:15:22,747 --> 00:15:25,620
Christ says, "To all who would
come after me, deny yourself,

267
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take up your cross,
and follow me."

268
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We give our kids tons of freedom
to make choices and errors

269
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and faults and failures.

270
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Three minutes.
I'd like to get my ankles down.

271
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I won't feel my
feet for a little bit.

272
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What we don't give
them freedom to do

273
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is to live negligently,

274
00:15:43,333 --> 00:15:45,988
be disrespectful, to have
bad character, to live with

275
00:15:46,162 --> 00:15:48,686
a lack of integrity.
Those are non-negotiables.

276
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Your bones get straighter,
and your leverage, right,
like the ability to lift.

277
00:15:52,386 --> 00:15:54,649
It's one of the reasons we
constantly set up structured

278
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challenges for our kids.

279
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I think people have a lot of
misconceptions about

280
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kids lifting weights
because it's so foreign to them.

281
00:16:01,961 --> 00:16:03,963
On three, two, one, go ahead.

282
00:16:06,139 --> 00:16:08,358
I was pretty young when I
did my first clean, so--

283
00:16:08,532 --> 00:16:11,927
I started maybe doing like s--
like Olympic lifts and stuff.

284
00:16:12,101 --> 00:16:15,235
It's like, when I was like three
or four... that age.

285
00:16:15,713 --> 00:16:18,020
You see Brodie or Slade
do a-- a dead lift.

286
00:16:18,194 --> 00:16:19,979
People are like,
"Oh, my gosh, her back."

287
00:16:20,153 --> 00:16:21,806
"I can't believe you would do
that," or, "She must hate that.

288
00:16:21,981 --> 00:16:23,373
You must make her do that."

289
00:16:23,678 --> 00:16:25,462
You know, they have all these
misconceptions about

290
00:16:25,636 --> 00:16:29,162
strength training, but yet they
don't-- they don't realize

291
00:16:29,423 --> 00:16:32,730
a child can't dead lift like
Brodie did, right away.

292
00:16:32,904 --> 00:16:35,124
There's no way they could walk
up and even move the barbell.

293
00:16:35,298 --> 00:16:37,735
So there's no really
risk of injury because...

294
00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:39,259
they couldn't even pick it up.

295
00:16:39,650 --> 00:16:43,480
I want my children to
know life has challenges.

296
00:16:44,612 --> 00:16:46,048
It's going to be hard.

297
00:16:46,222 --> 00:16:48,616
You're gonna gain
perspective. It's okay.

298
00:16:50,226 --> 00:16:52,141
And it is probably the singular

299
00:16:52,315 --> 00:16:54,535
best reason to let
your kids work out.

300
00:16:54,709 --> 00:16:57,712
It's why we let our kids
work out, 'cause every
single day

301
00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:00,193
the weights can win.

302
00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:37,186
Twelve, 13...

303
00:17:37,360 --> 00:17:38,840
- Do not give up!
- 14,

304
00:17:39,014 --> 00:17:44,672
15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20.

305
00:17:44,846 --> 00:17:48,154
21, 22, 23,

306
00:17:48,328 --> 00:17:54,464
24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30.

307
00:17:55,552 --> 00:17:56,814
Let's go!

308
00:17:59,730 --> 00:18:02,472
Three, two, one!

309
00:18:15,094 --> 00:18:16,530
First off, speak up.

310
00:18:16,704 --> 00:18:19,446
Second, what are you,
fucking home-schooled?

311
00:18:19,620 --> 00:18:21,752
Can't you count to eight?
Let's go.

312
00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:30,674
Always one more. Ten!
Let's go, Hutch.

313
00:18:30,848 --> 00:18:32,285
It's always one more, baby!

314
00:18:32,459 --> 00:18:34,200
One more.
Who's gonna carry the boats?

315
00:18:34,374 --> 00:18:36,593
- Let's go!
- One, two...

316
00:18:36,767 --> 00:18:38,465
- Oh!
- We're done!

317
00:18:43,426 --> 00:18:44,427
Hurry up!

318
00:18:47,996 --> 00:18:48,997
Be respectful.

319
00:18:49,650 --> 00:18:51,130
You should do it quick.
Quickly.

320
00:19:05,970 --> 00:19:08,277
So I grew up
in a very small,

321
00:19:08,451 --> 00:19:10,758
what they would say
village, um, in Illinois.

322
00:19:12,629 --> 00:19:14,022
I grew up on a farm,

323
00:19:14,196 --> 00:19:15,893
but not the typical farm
most people think of.

324
00:19:16,067 --> 00:19:18,026
I grew up on a
soybean and corn farm.

325
00:19:19,897 --> 00:19:22,987
Um, I grew up with my family,
my mother and my father,

326
00:19:23,162 --> 00:19:25,294
and my brother who is
five years younger.

327
00:19:25,686 --> 00:19:28,210
- Where?
- No, it-- it comes out
of its skin.

328
00:19:28,384 --> 00:19:30,647
- Exactly, that's what
it did. It was like--
- It was outside.

329
00:19:30,821 --> 00:19:34,695
Uh... but when I was, I believe,
13, my parents divorced.

330
00:19:34,869 --> 00:19:36,697
And so that was...
pretty hard on me

331
00:19:36,871 --> 00:19:38,002
because I didn't see it coming.

332
00:19:39,003 --> 00:19:41,571
It was hard when you're so used
to your family together,

333
00:19:41,745 --> 00:19:43,182
and then they tell you,

334
00:19:43,356 --> 00:19:45,009
"Oh, no, we're-- like,
we're-- we're done."

335
00:19:45,184 --> 00:19:47,055
So... that was really
hard. You know?

336
00:19:47,229 --> 00:19:49,971
That was-- was a-- probably the
hardest time of my childhood.

337
00:19:50,319 --> 00:19:52,626
I'm like...

338
00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,802
I'm like,
I know it's Greek yogurt.

339
00:19:54,976 --> 00:19:56,717
- You can taste it.
- See, we're tracking you down.
Slade.

340
00:19:59,589 --> 00:20:01,939
I ended up working for a state
farm and realized

341
00:20:02,113 --> 00:20:03,550
I hated sitting at a desk.

342
00:20:04,028 --> 00:20:05,639
I, like, racked my
brain on what I could do,

343
00:20:05,813 --> 00:20:08,337
and I don't even know
how I thought of the military.

344
00:20:08,511 --> 00:20:10,339
But I drove-- I found the
recruiter's office.

345
00:20:10,513 --> 00:20:12,863
I drove there by myself,
and I just walked in.

346
00:20:13,647 --> 00:20:16,258
But the Air Force was there, and
I chatted with them, and, um,

347
00:20:16,737 --> 00:20:18,913
it was a great chat, and
I thought, "Okay, let's do it."

348
00:20:19,087 --> 00:20:20,349
I had no idea what
I was signing up for.

349
00:20:20,523 --> 00:20:22,830
I had no idea,
like, basic training.

350
00:20:23,004 --> 00:20:25,354
I... just was like,
"Sign me up, let's do this."

351
00:20:25,528 --> 00:20:27,313
Hey! Ah!

352
00:20:27,487 --> 00:20:30,185
Wait. Eyes.

353
00:20:31,055 --> 00:20:33,623
Up, up, up.

354
00:20:33,797 --> 00:20:36,235
I was born here in
Florida, in North Florida.

355
00:20:36,757 --> 00:20:40,239
My upbringing, um, kind of
socioeconomically,

356
00:20:40,413 --> 00:20:43,111
was a little bit of everything,
which was super wild,

357
00:20:43,285 --> 00:20:44,591
but it was a ton
of fun, to be honest.

358
00:20:44,765 --> 00:20:46,941
Like, so... definitely...

359
00:20:47,158 --> 00:20:48,943
got into a lot of fights,
really, just...

360
00:20:49,291 --> 00:20:51,511
due to
being different sometimes.
You know what I mean?

361
00:20:51,685 --> 00:20:53,121
<i>You have the burden to prove</i>

362
00:20:53,426 --> 00:20:54,383
- Hmm.
<i>- formation,</i>

363
00:20:54,557 --> 00:20:56,472
<i>reach, and damages.</i>

364
00:20:56,646 --> 00:20:59,736
I've always felt as, like,
a strong protector of people,

365
00:20:59,910 --> 00:21:04,001
but I don't... remember, like,
an aspiration for a certain job.

366
00:21:04,524 --> 00:21:06,961
First, I was thinking--
I graduated high school,

367
00:21:07,135 --> 00:21:10,051
and, like, especially being
of the millennial age,

368
00:21:10,225 --> 00:21:11,487
it's like, "Well, what
are you supposed to do?"

369
00:21:11,661 --> 00:21:12,706
You're supposed
to go to college, right?

370
00:21:13,054 --> 00:21:15,099
At the end of my
10th grade year,

371
00:21:15,274 --> 00:21:17,972
I had, like, a... .9 GPA,

372
00:21:18,146 --> 00:21:20,061
and it's because I...

373
00:21:21,018 --> 00:21:23,020
didn't really-- I didn't care.
Like, I was...

374
00:21:23,194 --> 00:21:25,458
un-stimulated,
it was very boring, and across,

375
00:21:25,632 --> 00:21:28,025
like, junior-- senior year,
I went from, like, a .9

376
00:21:28,199 --> 00:21:31,028
till I graduated with a 3.3.
My family, at this point, had

377
00:21:31,202 --> 00:21:33,379
started to be able to
actually make enough money

378
00:21:33,553 --> 00:21:36,469
to send me to college, and kind
of everything came, I would say,

379
00:21:36,643 --> 00:21:38,645
like, into line where
it wouldn't be an issue.

380
00:21:38,819 --> 00:21:40,777
By this time in high school,
I was thinking

381
00:21:40,951 --> 00:21:43,258
I'd be an engineer, and so I
went and did, like,
a little tour

382
00:21:43,432 --> 00:21:45,782
at Georgia Tech and stuff, and
I walked around, I was like...

383
00:21:47,871 --> 00:21:50,134
"I don't think I'm responsible
enough for this situation."

384
00:21:50,309 --> 00:21:53,007
Like, this... just looks,
A, mad boring, and B...

385
00:21:53,181 --> 00:21:55,836
it looks like a--
it looks like there's just a--

386
00:21:56,010 --> 00:21:58,099
a host of opportunities
for me to make poor choices

387
00:21:58,273 --> 00:21:59,535
as opposed to, like,

388
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:01,581
advance what
I should be doing in life.

389
00:22:01,755 --> 00:22:03,583
So I was like... "I think
I'm gonna join the Army."

390
00:22:11,547 --> 00:22:14,289
- Here's everyone... guys.
- Jesse, the mag is in your...

391
00:22:14,463 --> 00:22:16,291
I gave it...

392
00:22:16,465 --> 00:22:18,337
So after serving
a year in Korea,

393
00:22:19,076 --> 00:22:21,644
I started at the leadership
school the next week, and...

394
00:22:22,079 --> 00:22:24,908
all of us airmen are in this,
like, big banquet hall.

395
00:22:25,605 --> 00:22:28,042
Jordon was in front of me.
I saw him walk in, and, like,

396
00:22:28,216 --> 00:22:30,349
his whole posse walks in.
And I'm like, "Who are
these people?"

397
00:22:30,523 --> 00:22:33,395
After selection, it's about a
two-year program, all in all.

398
00:22:33,569 --> 00:22:35,789
You got six months of what they
call the apprentice course,

399
00:22:35,963 --> 00:22:37,878
six months of just
paramedic alone.

400
00:22:38,357 --> 00:22:41,011
After I got out of that
training, I got stationed at the

401
00:22:41,185 --> 00:22:44,014
23rd Special Tactics Squadron,
uh, in Herbertville, Florida.

402
00:22:44,275 --> 00:22:48,279
In that place, what happened is
I was doing some training there,

403
00:22:48,454 --> 00:22:50,586
right? And that's when I...
snapped my leg,

404
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,850
spun my leg on a
jump, spin, snap,

405
00:22:54,024 --> 00:22:55,852
like, foot turned
into a golf club.

406
00:22:56,766 --> 00:22:58,202
Finger outside
the trigger well.

407
00:22:58,377 --> 00:23:00,335
I'm gonna check left,
check right,

408
00:23:00,509 --> 00:23:01,902
and then we're
going to the next one.

409
00:23:04,513 --> 00:23:06,167
I was able to study a whole lot.

410
00:23:06,341 --> 00:23:09,039
I made sergeant, went to the
sergeant school, walked in

411
00:23:09,213 --> 00:23:12,434
and saw the most beautiful woman
I've ever seen in my life, yeah.

412
00:23:16,220 --> 00:23:18,135
She was smart. She didn't want
anything to do with me, right?

413
00:23:18,309 --> 00:23:21,312
but I was clever and
charming and patient, um...

414
00:23:21,487 --> 00:23:22,923
I'm gonna put this in here.

415
00:23:23,619 --> 00:23:25,404
Alright, perfect.
You getting

416
00:23:25,578 --> 00:23:27,318
- Well, the kids are
better than me.
- Yeah.

417
00:23:27,623 --> 00:23:29,669
And so we went from...

418
00:23:29,843 --> 00:23:31,584
just friends going
through training

419
00:23:31,758 --> 00:23:33,629
to over the course
of a deployment,

420
00:23:33,803 --> 00:23:35,718
like building a
friendship, relationship.

421
00:23:36,023 --> 00:23:38,852
I got home, I wanna say...
either right in the beginning

422
00:23:39,026 --> 00:23:41,507
of... November, somewhere
in there the same year,

423
00:23:41,681 --> 00:23:44,814
and, uh, we got pregnant with
our son, Slade, that December.

424
00:23:55,651 --> 00:23:56,652
Nice.

425
00:24:11,754 --> 00:24:13,190
Yep, you're good?

426
00:24:13,408 --> 00:24:15,149
Did you have close
moments in combat?

427
00:24:15,323 --> 00:24:16,585
Yeah, for sure.

428
00:24:16,759 --> 00:24:18,282
- ...you were under.
- Mm-hmm.

429
00:24:18,457 --> 00:24:23,592
So like 9/11, 2001,
I enlisted in 2003, right?

430
00:24:23,766 --> 00:24:27,553
Like, we watched 9/11 happen,
sitting in homeroom,

431
00:24:27,727 --> 00:24:30,469
and so for us it was very...
very much like...

432
00:24:30,817 --> 00:24:34,168
"I'm definitely going to wanna
make an impact if I can."

433
00:24:34,690 --> 00:24:37,824
So I remember... the
first time I got shot at,

434
00:24:38,477 --> 00:24:42,524
the first time I shot somebody
as well... on the ground,

435
00:24:42,698 --> 00:24:44,961
we had five different
teams of guys,

436
00:24:45,135 --> 00:24:47,964
and we had went in and secured
like this really big compound.

437
00:24:48,138 --> 00:24:50,053
We're there to do a
counter-terrorism job,

438
00:24:50,227 --> 00:24:52,012
they're trying to kill us,
we're trying to kill them,
it's--

439
00:24:52,186 --> 00:24:54,144
it's pretty simple, right?
I understand why they hate us,

440
00:24:54,318 --> 00:24:56,930
that stuff all makes sense
to me. It's not lost on me,

441
00:24:57,104 --> 00:24:59,280
but I'm called to do the
job I'm supposed to do.

442
00:24:59,715 --> 00:25:01,978
And so... we're getting
ready to walk through,

443
00:25:02,501 --> 00:25:04,633
and one of the guys that was
more senior than me was like,

444
00:25:04,807 --> 00:25:07,114
"Hey, we're gonna get shot at
when we get out of here."

445
00:25:07,288 --> 00:25:08,811
And I was like,
"All right, sounds good."

446
00:25:08,985 --> 00:25:09,986
And... he was right.

447
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:13,947
Reset trigger, we're good.

448
00:25:15,470 --> 00:25:17,124
So...

449
00:25:17,298 --> 00:25:18,560
I hear 'em...

450
00:25:18,734 --> 00:25:19,822
coming off, and I'm like--

451
00:25:19,996 --> 00:25:21,345
so I remember I dropped down,

452
00:25:21,781 --> 00:25:23,826
and I look and I'm like,
"Oh, this is surprising."

453
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,569
And then I can hear...

454
00:25:27,787 --> 00:25:29,397
And I'm like,
"Shit, that's bullets

455
00:25:29,571 --> 00:25:31,225
coming by my ears, right?"

456
00:25:31,486 --> 00:25:33,619
I'm, like, looking,
and I'm like, "Okay."

457
00:25:33,967 --> 00:25:35,882
I identify one of the guys
that's shooting at us.

458
00:25:36,056 --> 00:25:38,232
And, uh, I remember
I pulled him up in sight,

459
00:25:38,537 --> 00:25:40,582
and I just remember thinking
I put my finger on the trigger,

460
00:25:40,756 --> 00:25:43,716
and I'm like...
"Alright... like, this is it.

461
00:25:43,890 --> 00:25:45,108
I'm gonna
take this dude's life."

462
00:25:45,761 --> 00:25:47,458
And it wasn't overly
difficult for me,

463
00:25:47,633 --> 00:25:49,983
because... I literally could
hear the rounds coming by me.

464
00:25:50,157 --> 00:25:52,246
He's there to do a job.
I'm there to do a job.

465
00:25:52,420 --> 00:25:55,162
My job at the time was
to kill this guy.
He's trying to kill us.

466
00:25:55,379 --> 00:25:58,208
It was pretty simple,
and, uh... I shot the first one.

467
00:25:58,382 --> 00:26:00,776
I definitely missed. It was
a cold-bore shot. I missed.

468
00:26:01,211 --> 00:26:03,039
And then, uh, the second
round, I shot him.

469
00:26:03,213 --> 00:26:04,171
It was clear I killed him.

470
00:26:04,345 --> 00:26:06,956
And then, um... hmm...

471
00:26:09,698 --> 00:26:13,615
...it's a weird sense of initial
hesitation to shoot-- you know,

472
00:26:13,789 --> 00:26:16,009
to shoot somebody.
Um...

473
00:26:17,750 --> 00:26:19,273
There's just like a...

474
00:26:20,491 --> 00:26:22,711
...there's a-- a small
risk analysis

475
00:26:22,885 --> 00:26:24,104
that's running
through your head.

476
00:26:24,365 --> 00:26:26,019
That was the first
time, and then, uh,

477
00:26:26,193 --> 00:26:28,412
subsequent to that... yeah,
plenty of times.

478
00:26:28,587 --> 00:26:31,764
That was the easiest to
remember, but... yeah, yeah,

479
00:26:31,938 --> 00:26:34,157
guys trying to kill you, and
you're trying to kill them.

480
00:26:53,437 --> 00:26:55,962
I live in Douglasville...
and I lived in...

481
00:26:56,136 --> 00:26:58,138
like, not section--
specifically section housing,

482
00:26:58,312 --> 00:26:59,748
just low-income housing, right?

483
00:26:59,922 --> 00:27:01,489
Commercialized projects,
if you will.

484
00:27:03,447 --> 00:27:04,971
Everybody is broke, you know?

485
00:27:05,145 --> 00:27:06,929
You had to go in at
nighttime pretty much, 'cause...

486
00:27:07,103 --> 00:27:09,279
there was a high--
high likelihood of crime

487
00:27:09,453 --> 00:27:11,151
and those types
of things. But, uh...

488
00:27:13,153 --> 00:27:15,851
I don't have any memory
of this, but... my parents,

489
00:27:16,025 --> 00:27:17,026
my biological parents

490
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:18,898
split up when I was real young.

491
00:27:19,072 --> 00:27:20,160
And then from there
what happened is

492
00:27:20,334 --> 00:27:21,640
my mom met somebody else.

493
00:27:21,814 --> 00:27:23,772
I'm not gonna ever
weigh more than 115.

494
00:27:26,035 --> 00:27:27,080
No!

495
00:27:28,647 --> 00:27:31,475
I'm super grateful for the man
that my mom married, right?

496
00:27:31,650 --> 00:27:33,129
So that's who I call "Dad."

497
00:27:33,303 --> 00:27:35,958
It's... I-- I was adopted by him
when I was 16 years old,

498
00:27:36,219 --> 00:27:38,134
um, so my last
name changed and...

499
00:27:38,874 --> 00:27:39,875
Alright.

500
00:27:42,878 --> 00:27:45,925
Aww! I love it!

501
00:27:46,099 --> 00:27:48,101
He's the most
impressive man I've ever met--

502
00:27:48,275 --> 00:27:49,493
- But--
- Your stepfather?

503
00:27:49,668 --> 00:27:51,234
Yeah, that's right,
that's right.

504
00:27:51,408 --> 00:27:53,019
And so, uh...

505
00:27:53,193 --> 00:27:55,108
I-- it's just not even
close. He's-- he's incredible.

506
00:27:55,630 --> 00:27:58,415
Heavenly Father, we thank you
so much for this time together,

507
00:27:58,589 --> 00:28:01,288
all the father's in the room,
it's so special,

508
00:28:01,462 --> 00:28:03,116
we're just so grateful that...

509
00:28:03,638 --> 00:28:05,858
He was always very loving, and
would definitely always, like...

510
00:28:06,249 --> 00:28:08,687
help to let me think
through these processes,

511
00:28:08,861 --> 00:28:11,167
but he also didn't have a
low standard either. You know?

512
00:28:11,341 --> 00:28:14,388
And so, I'm super grateful for
that, and my mom as well.

513
00:28:14,867 --> 00:28:17,521
You know? She, uh, had a pretty
rough upbringing.

514
00:28:21,525 --> 00:28:23,136
Come on.

515
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,965
Both of them, I thought they did
a... exceptional job as parents,

516
00:28:26,139 --> 00:28:28,489
and, um...
I'm super grateful for it.

517
00:28:36,497 --> 00:28:39,065
My father, Jeff, was...
uh, a lot different,

518
00:28:39,239 --> 00:28:41,023
kinda in what he wh--
what did and what--

519
00:28:41,197 --> 00:28:42,721
what that looked
like day to day.

520
00:28:43,199 --> 00:28:46,072
So, like... for me...
it would have been

521
00:28:46,246 --> 00:28:48,683
a greater injustice
for me to not give credit

522
00:28:48,857 --> 00:28:50,424
to who it was that was
there and taught me

523
00:28:50,598 --> 00:28:52,208
to ride a bike and
all those things.

524
00:28:52,382 --> 00:28:55,734
But that didn't mean that
I hated my biological father.

525
00:28:55,908 --> 00:28:58,258
It didn't mean that I
disliked my biological father.

526
00:29:03,306 --> 00:29:05,308
- Um... Where?
- That right there.

527
00:29:05,526 --> 00:29:06,919
That's not poison ivy.

528
00:29:11,053 --> 00:29:12,489
- Yeah, pretty neat, huh?
- Very nice.

529
00:29:12,663 --> 00:29:13,708
I've been saying so.

530
00:29:14,665 --> 00:29:16,624
- See, it may be rain.
- What is that?

531
00:29:16,972 --> 00:29:19,018
I know what it feels
like to have a dad, right?

532
00:29:19,192 --> 00:29:22,412
And that was Jeff, who's
raised me since I was a child.

533
00:29:22,586 --> 00:29:24,284
The same thing that
my children feel with me,

534
00:29:24,458 --> 00:29:26,721
I-- I know what that
is supposed to feel like.

535
00:29:27,330 --> 00:29:30,464
So... what do I call...
you know, the relationship

536
00:29:30,638 --> 00:29:32,509
that I have with
my biological father?

537
00:29:33,249 --> 00:29:35,469
I think the closest thing
that makes the most sense

538
00:29:35,643 --> 00:29:38,820
is like... an uncle? You know
what I mean? Like, somebody

539
00:29:38,994 --> 00:29:41,605
that you have a great affinity
for, that you care about.

540
00:29:42,084 --> 00:29:43,651
- Yeah, come on,
let's head inside.
- Yeah.

541
00:29:46,393 --> 00:29:48,264
Listen listen

542
00:29:48,656 --> 00:29:51,659
He was just young. He was just
young and made a bad decision,

543
00:29:51,833 --> 00:29:54,096
and I think... it's a
decision most people make,

544
00:29:54,270 --> 00:29:57,143
which is... tomorrow
won't be here, right?

545
00:29:57,317 --> 00:29:58,840
It's-- there's always
a little more time

546
00:29:59,014 --> 00:30:00,973
I'll get to... trying
to make sure I invest

547
00:30:01,147 --> 00:30:02,844
in this relationship
down the road.

548
00:30:03,018 --> 00:30:05,194
But there is no
tomorrow. You know?

549
00:30:17,380 --> 00:30:19,252
My dad worked really
hard to be a great dad,

550
00:30:19,426 --> 00:30:22,603
and at the same time, he
worked about 16 hours a day,

551
00:30:22,908 --> 00:30:24,344
five or six days a week.

552
00:30:24,735 --> 00:30:28,087
And I remember thinking,
as a child... "I love him,

553
00:30:28,261 --> 00:30:29,828
I'm so grateful for him,
he teaches me,"

554
00:30:30,002 --> 00:30:31,612
and I also wish I saw him more.

555
00:30:32,961 --> 00:30:35,311
I will call an ambulance if you
need one before

556
00:30:35,485 --> 00:30:37,923
- You'll call a ambulance? Okay.
- If you need one.

557
00:30:38,097 --> 00:30:40,316
And so when I got older,
it's just-- by proxy,

558
00:30:40,490 --> 00:30:41,491
I always thought...

559
00:30:42,841 --> 00:30:44,755
"I wanna be successful as
much as the next guy,

560
00:30:44,930 --> 00:30:46,801
but...

561
00:30:47,628 --> 00:30:49,325
18 years isn't that long."

562
00:30:49,848 --> 00:30:52,067
So... Slade's gonna be 16.

563
00:30:52,807 --> 00:30:55,766
I... think I could have
made a lot more money

564
00:30:55,941 --> 00:30:57,507
over the last 16 years,

565
00:30:57,681 --> 00:30:59,770
for sure, as Jess
could have too,

566
00:30:59,988 --> 00:31:02,034
but I wouldn't have
him the way he is.

567
00:31:02,512 --> 00:31:04,775
Public school, they probably
need it for their

568
00:31:05,472 --> 00:31:07,169
They pulled it all out of
schools, but yeah, it's crazy.

569
00:31:07,343 --> 00:31:09,128
Jordon, what's
the real reason why you, um...

570
00:31:09,302 --> 00:31:10,520
decided to go to law school?

571
00:31:16,396 --> 00:31:21,618
Biggest thing for me... was...
COVID, more than anything.

572
00:31:22,010 --> 00:31:24,752
They shut us down during COVID,
as they did everywhere else,

573
00:31:24,926 --> 00:31:27,189
you know?
And we... understood...

574
00:31:27,755 --> 00:31:29,409
why they shut us down

575
00:31:29,583 --> 00:31:32,629
in the very beginning, you know?
But then as it progressed,

576
00:31:32,803 --> 00:31:35,937
it was pretty-- pretty
interesting and pretty difficult

577
00:31:36,111 --> 00:31:38,157
to see, like, why certain
businesses were open

578
00:31:38,331 --> 00:31:41,073
and why others weren't,
and then we came to a point,

579
00:31:41,247 --> 00:31:43,118
we had prayed about it,
and we were like...

580
00:31:43,466 --> 00:31:45,991
we're opening back up. Like...

581
00:31:46,165 --> 00:31:48,558
if you wanna come down
here and arrest me, you come on.

582
00:31:51,997 --> 00:31:53,868
Looking at
available material

583
00:31:54,042 --> 00:31:55,565
we found all of this,

584
00:31:55,739 --> 00:31:58,220
you know, and yet we still
read through discovery...

585
00:31:58,394 --> 00:32:01,615
America has the best
of the broken systems.

586
00:32:01,789 --> 00:32:03,312
That's what I think, right?
So...

587
00:32:04,052 --> 00:32:06,837
we're not perfect, but the
American legal system

588
00:32:07,012 --> 00:32:09,231
is better than everybody else's.

589
00:32:09,536 --> 00:32:11,712
I was fine with whatever
outcome that happened.

590
00:32:11,886 --> 00:32:13,496
Like... I don't care.

591
00:32:13,670 --> 00:32:15,324
I mean... whate-- If I had to
sit in jail for a year

592
00:32:15,498 --> 00:32:17,370
to do what's right,
that's-- it is what it is.

593
00:32:18,458 --> 00:32:20,895
At that point, it was
like, "This is so crazy.

594
00:32:21,113 --> 00:32:24,768
There's enough people that will
eventually become intolerant.

595
00:32:24,943 --> 00:32:26,901
They're going to either
pick up a sword or a pen."

596
00:32:27,858 --> 00:32:31,166
And so for us, we felt like...
"I'm gonna get a law degree,

597
00:32:31,340 --> 00:32:33,255
and then... we can, A,

598
00:32:33,429 --> 00:32:36,693
stand up for people that
otherwise couldn't, and B...

599
00:32:36,955 --> 00:32:40,349
I now have the ability to
not have to pick up a sword.

600
00:32:40,610 --> 00:32:42,830
I can now pick up
a pen and stand before."

601
00:32:43,091 --> 00:32:44,963
Now to Jordon
for the application.

602
00:32:45,398 --> 00:32:47,139
Yeah, as Catherine
stated already,

603
00:32:47,313 --> 00:32:50,620
a company of the magnitude of
Bayer should have known,

604
00:32:50,881 --> 00:32:54,233
therefore they have intended
to... introduce to the consumer

605
00:32:54,407 --> 00:32:56,235
that these statements
were reliable.

606
00:32:56,539 --> 00:32:58,150
Do you think
the law is logical?

607
00:32:58,541 --> 00:33:02,067
I think parts of it are...
very logical, and I think...

608
00:33:02,328 --> 00:33:06,158
parts of it are just proof that
humans are humans, and...

609
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:08,421
no matter what,
people are flawed.

610
00:33:08,987 --> 00:33:11,380
And... until you have a
culture where everybody's

611
00:33:11,554 --> 00:33:13,992
willing to be selfless
and serve each other,

612
00:33:14,166 --> 00:33:16,255
and at that point the
law's not even needed,

613
00:33:16,820 --> 00:33:19,388
then the best you can hope
for is a good logical system.

614
00:33:22,609 --> 00:33:23,566
That's a wrap.

615
00:33:24,524 --> 00:33:25,916
How do you make it perfect?

616
00:33:26,091 --> 00:33:28,702
How do you... get to this
kind of Utopian outcome?

617
00:33:30,269 --> 00:33:31,792
I don't think
you do on this life.

618
00:33:54,336 --> 00:33:56,469
It's like 2 a.m.

619
00:33:56,817 --> 00:33:59,124
It's the coldest day
in Texas in five years.

620
00:34:03,084 --> 00:34:05,782
And the pool is where...
you smash everybody.

621
00:34:09,656 --> 00:34:11,266
Every time you're getting
smashed...

622
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,660
they're... holding you under,
guys are passing out,

623
00:34:13,834 --> 00:34:15,140
pull 'em out,
put them on the deck.

624
00:34:17,272 --> 00:34:19,057
'Cause everybody's tough
until you can't breathe.

625
00:34:24,366 --> 00:34:27,587
I remember I was diving in.
I'm like going under...

626
00:34:28,327 --> 00:34:30,633
and it was just a transcended
moment for me.

627
00:34:33,201 --> 00:34:36,248
I'm swimming...
I'm combing, I'm popping up,

628
00:34:36,422 --> 00:34:38,293
and it's like
it just landed on me.

629
00:34:43,777 --> 00:34:45,170
I'm fucking unbreakable.

630
00:34:56,442 --> 00:34:58,400
Once I had Slade there was
no way I was gonna go--

631
00:34:58,574 --> 00:35:00,881
go back to the military. Um...

632
00:35:01,055 --> 00:35:02,839
Even when I first enlisted, I...

633
00:35:03,013 --> 00:35:05,451
did not have aspirations
to be a 20-year soldier.

634
00:35:05,929 --> 00:35:09,237
And so for, uh, Jess and I,
it was-- it was-- it was simple.

635
00:35:09,411 --> 00:35:11,805
I had served my country
honorably, and now

636
00:35:11,979 --> 00:35:14,460
it was time to make sure
that I... give all that I can

637
00:35:14,634 --> 00:35:16,418
to help prepare this
young man for the world.

638
00:35:16,897 --> 00:35:19,465
We kind of made a
list of all different jobs

639
00:35:20,030 --> 00:35:21,162
when he was about to get out.

640
00:35:21,858 --> 00:35:23,382
We had like a
whiteboard, we had like--

641
00:35:23,556 --> 00:35:24,992
kind of like what we have--
you see all around here.

642
00:35:25,166 --> 00:35:26,298
We had a whiteboard,
and on the whiteboard

643
00:35:26,472 --> 00:35:27,908
we were like, "Okay, cool."

644
00:35:28,169 --> 00:35:29,910
Like, "What jobs could we do
where we're together

645
00:35:30,084 --> 00:35:31,390
and we could raise kids?"

646
00:35:31,564 --> 00:35:32,521
And like, we wrote down
crazy options.

647
00:35:32,695 --> 00:35:34,132
We had bail bondsmen,

648
00:35:34,306 --> 00:35:36,264
we had like... own a gym.

649
00:35:37,178 --> 00:35:39,180
I'm Jessie,
if I haven't met you yet.

650
00:35:40,225 --> 00:35:42,227
The route that we ended
up choosing was probably

651
00:35:42,401 --> 00:35:44,229
the sketchiest route in 2009,

652
00:35:44,403 --> 00:35:46,709
but... it offered the
most amount of time

653
00:35:46,883 --> 00:35:48,146
to actually be my wife and son.

654
00:35:48,711 --> 00:35:52,019
So right back here is where
Jess, um, Miss Katie-Kate,

655
00:35:52,193 --> 00:35:53,673
and Kristen are going
to be going over some

656
00:35:53,847 --> 00:35:56,371
mind-muscle connection,
some glute growth...

657
00:35:56,545 --> 00:35:59,722
And so we had this vision...
of like a playground,

658
00:35:59,896 --> 00:36:01,333
literally like an
adult playground.

659
00:36:01,507 --> 00:36:02,551
We're like, "Let's create
an environment

660
00:36:02,725 --> 00:36:04,466
that people want to come to".

661
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,207
Get the most out of
your core exercises

662
00:36:06,381 --> 00:36:07,556
and... grow your glutes.

663
00:36:07,730 --> 00:36:08,949
You're in charge of that shit.

664
00:36:09,123 --> 00:36:10,820
It is not in charge
of you, ever.

665
00:36:14,737 --> 00:36:17,262
If he tries to go
into a squad...

666
00:36:17,697 --> 00:36:19,568
He got home, and we were
open like two weeks later.

667
00:36:19,742 --> 00:36:21,918
I mean, we were like...
literally working night and day.

668
00:36:22,615 --> 00:36:24,269
But during this whole
time, we lived in the gym,

669
00:36:24,530 --> 00:36:26,967
so... we cut costs...
on everything.

670
00:36:27,141 --> 00:36:29,143
We sold our-- we went
down to one vehicle,

671
00:36:29,317 --> 00:36:31,189
but we didn't want to tell
anybody we lived in the gym.

672
00:36:31,363 --> 00:36:33,495
So... it was kind of
like a secret to like,

673
00:36:33,669 --> 00:36:35,410
"Oh, this is our office. Like...

674
00:36:35,584 --> 00:36:37,064
is our office."
But we lived there.

675
00:36:37,238 --> 00:36:40,110
We lived in the gym for...
two years, I believe.

676
00:36:40,894 --> 00:36:42,374
Jess is...

677
00:36:43,070 --> 00:36:44,637
uh, absolutely instrumental

678
00:36:44,811 --> 00:36:46,595
to our success, period.
I don't think--

679
00:36:46,769 --> 00:36:48,118
I don't think it would have
happened for me alone.

680
00:36:48,293 --> 00:36:49,642
I'd have probably
been contracting, but...

681
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:51,121
- Perfect.
- Woo!

682
00:36:51,296 --> 00:36:52,819
So I was the seller. I was

683
00:36:52,993 --> 00:36:54,386
the one that would
sell it, 'cause Jordon's like,

684
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:55,909
"I'm not doing that."
I would coach, too,

685
00:36:56,083 --> 00:36:57,389
but he would
be more of the coach,

686
00:36:57,563 --> 00:36:58,694
and I would be the seller.

687
00:36:58,912 --> 00:37:01,784
Ready, set, go.

688
00:37:03,090 --> 00:37:05,701
Um, I wouldn't say she was an
introvert, but if you had to

689
00:37:05,875 --> 00:37:08,313
put her... as a classification,
she was an introvert.

690
00:37:08,791 --> 00:37:11,577
But the minute we opened
the gym, she's like,

691
00:37:11,751 --> 00:37:12,969
"There's a job
to get done here."

692
00:37:13,143 --> 00:37:15,320
And... she did fantastic.

693
00:37:16,103 --> 00:37:19,628
Three, two, one, go!

694
00:37:23,328 --> 00:37:25,460
Back then in 2009,
it was like...

695
00:37:25,808 --> 00:37:27,723
"Make them puke,
and they'll sign up."

696
00:37:29,377 --> 00:37:30,422
This was before CrossFit.

697
00:37:30,596 --> 00:37:31,901
I mean, CrossFit
had just started.

698
00:37:32,337 --> 00:37:34,600
But this was before
any type of workout like that.

699
00:37:37,690 --> 00:37:40,258
The workout was, like,
kettle-bell swings, pull-ups,

700
00:37:40,432 --> 00:37:41,911
um... some sit-ups,

701
00:37:42,085 --> 00:37:43,652
maybe a run if they
were really in shape.

702
00:37:48,353 --> 00:37:50,964
We'd have them all come in
one by one, and uh,

703
00:37:51,138 --> 00:37:53,271
they'd try it out, they'd puke,
they'd sign up like that.

704
00:37:53,445 --> 00:37:54,881
And then they'd go tell, like,
five more friends, like,

705
00:37:55,055 --> 00:37:56,448
"You have got to
do this workout."

706
00:37:56,665 --> 00:37:58,058
"You've gotta do this
workout. It's crazy."

707
00:37:58,232 --> 00:37:59,407
And so, like, the next
day, we'd have, like,

708
00:37:59,581 --> 00:38:00,669
five more people
that would come in.

709
00:38:01,931 --> 00:38:03,106
We'd give them the workout.

710
00:38:03,629 --> 00:38:05,544
They'd all throw up.
They'd sign up.

711
00:38:05,718 --> 00:38:09,939
And we had so-- I mean...
we grew so fast.

712
00:38:10,113 --> 00:38:11,854
And we did not think we
were gonna grow fast.

713
00:38:12,028 --> 00:38:14,204
We had a budget,
and the budget was--

714
00:38:14,422 --> 00:38:15,684
I think it was like we
had three months.

715
00:38:16,076 --> 00:38:17,556
If we didn't get 60 people
in three months,

716
00:38:17,730 --> 00:38:19,079
we couldn't pay our bills.

717
00:38:19,253 --> 00:38:21,995
And so... we...
just grinned, I mean...

718
00:38:22,343 --> 00:38:24,258
And then slowly but
surely, word of mouth,

719
00:38:24,432 --> 00:38:25,825
just grew and just grew.

720
00:38:25,999 --> 00:38:28,523
And we reached 100
members, like, so fast.

721
00:38:29,916 --> 00:38:33,093
For us... the parts of the
military that we loved...

722
00:38:33,311 --> 00:38:35,356
we wanted to implement
that in our business.

723
00:38:36,183 --> 00:38:39,578
Okay, one, it has to make a
difference in people's lives.

724
00:38:39,926 --> 00:38:42,015
And then number two is,
this place needs to be a place

725
00:38:42,189 --> 00:38:44,147
that when you get off work,
and you're wiped out,

726
00:38:44,322 --> 00:38:45,975
and you're tired,
and you go like...

727
00:38:46,585 --> 00:38:48,804
"Man, I can't wait...

728
00:38:49,065 --> 00:38:52,286
to go to the gym... where
I'm going to feel uplifted."

729
00:38:52,460 --> 00:38:54,157
Not, "I have to go to the gym."

730
00:38:54,332 --> 00:38:55,724
"I want to go to this place."

731
00:38:55,898 --> 00:38:57,291
"I want to be uplifted."

732
00:39:18,486 --> 00:39:21,228
Mmm, real quick Brodie,
go, "Test, test, test."

733
00:39:21,402 --> 00:39:23,839
Test, test, test.

734
00:39:24,013 --> 00:39:25,580
Sure, what
do you need, chair?

735
00:39:25,754 --> 00:39:28,061
You know, it's, uh--
it's caught, not taught.

736
00:39:28,627 --> 00:39:32,761
For our kids... we
didn't even say, "Do this."

737
00:39:32,935 --> 00:39:35,242
We're just doing it, and they
start squatting with you.

738
00:39:35,416 --> 00:39:37,070
...do is, for...

739
00:39:37,462 --> 00:39:38,898
You know, it's--
You already know this stuff,
so...

740
00:39:39,072 --> 00:39:41,291
just have fun, right?
Presentation...

741
00:39:41,466 --> 00:39:43,206
They see Mommy squatting,
they wanna squat.

742
00:39:43,381 --> 00:39:45,513
They see Daddy doing push-ups,
they drop down to do push-ups.

743
00:39:45,687 --> 00:39:47,559
...staying straight
and we're staying very neutral.

744
00:39:47,733 --> 00:39:49,169
For Slade,
it was definitely natural.

745
00:39:49,343 --> 00:39:50,910
Um... You know...

746
00:39:51,476 --> 00:39:53,216
it was more modeling.

747
00:39:53,391 --> 00:39:55,871
He-- he was with us all the
time, and so we'd-- you know,

748
00:39:56,045 --> 00:39:58,700
when we were living in
the gym, a lot of times... I--

749
00:39:58,874 --> 00:40:00,963
we'd finish class, so I'd go out
and I'd be working on stuff,

750
00:40:01,137 --> 00:40:02,661
and Slade would follow me,
and I would have him

751
00:40:02,835 --> 00:40:04,358
hold on the rings, he would
hang on the rings...

752
00:40:04,663 --> 00:40:07,361
and we would just play,
like, literally just play.

753
00:40:08,014 --> 00:40:10,756
And I thought, "Wow,
like, kids can learn this.

754
00:40:10,930 --> 00:40:13,541
Like... they're picking it
up faster than adults."

755
00:40:13,715 --> 00:40:16,022
What if you go--
What if you go like this,
three...

756
00:40:16,979 --> 00:40:18,111
...squish your arm.

757
00:40:18,285 --> 00:40:19,591
I would go lighter than that.

758
00:40:19,895 --> 00:40:21,506
Oh, okay.

759
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,203
Oh, I got it, got it.

760
00:40:23,377 --> 00:40:24,944
So "Savage Patch Kids"
is our fitness app,

761
00:40:25,118 --> 00:40:26,206
our kids' fitness app.

762
00:40:27,076 --> 00:40:30,079
I've had this dream for
a kids' fitness app

763
00:40:30,471 --> 00:40:32,908
for... probably eight years now.

764
00:40:33,343 --> 00:40:36,129
I... have seen what it
has done for my kids

765
00:40:36,303 --> 00:40:38,174
and what strength training
has done and how...

766
00:40:38,653 --> 00:40:43,223
it has just... changed their
lives in so many different ways.

767
00:40:43,397 --> 00:40:46,792
And I feel for kids that
don't have that...

768
00:40:46,966 --> 00:40:49,621
you know, avenue. They don't--
they don't even know.

769
00:40:49,838 --> 00:40:51,449
And I feel like that
was kind of me as a kid.

770
00:40:51,623 --> 00:40:54,147
I loved fitness. I l--
I would've loved

771
00:40:54,364 --> 00:40:55,670
Savage Patch Kids app.

772
00:40:56,715 --> 00:40:58,194
- Nice!
- Oh, wow. Look at that form.

773
00:40:58,368 --> 00:40:59,805
That's perfect knees over toes.

774
00:40:59,979 --> 00:41:01,502
That is beautiful.

775
00:41:01,676 --> 00:41:03,373
And so I thought,
"How cool would it be

776
00:41:03,548 --> 00:41:06,507
if we could create an app and we
could teach kids from all over

777
00:41:06,681 --> 00:41:08,683
the world how we
taught our kids."

778
00:41:09,031 --> 00:41:10,772
And... we did it, and
we did it in a way

779
00:41:10,946 --> 00:41:12,513
where... y-- like,
maybe you're at home

780
00:41:12,687 --> 00:41:14,123
and all you have is, like, a
kettlebell or a dumbbell.

781
00:41:14,297 --> 00:41:15,777
Well, that's fine.
We can teach you.

782
00:41:15,995 --> 00:41:17,866
We can build a
strong foundation for you.

783
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:19,520
Two would be
like, what?

784
00:41:19,694 --> 00:41:20,608
Like a...

785
00:41:20,782 --> 00:41:21,783
Back?

786
00:41:21,957 --> 00:41:23,524
And the elbow's four?

787
00:41:23,698 --> 00:41:25,265
What I've seen
is only positives.

788
00:41:27,310 --> 00:41:29,399
Their confidence is... insane.

789
00:41:29,791 --> 00:41:31,706
You know, I think th--
for Brodie too,

790
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,187
especially being a--
a girl, she feels strong,

791
00:41:34,361 --> 00:41:35,754
you know? she feels confident.

792
00:41:35,928 --> 00:41:38,452
She feels like... "Okay,
like, I got this in life.

793
00:41:38,713 --> 00:41:40,672
I can-- I can go over there
and pick up that barbell."

794
00:41:40,846 --> 00:41:43,631
That gives her so much
confidence, and I can see that.

795
00:41:43,805 --> 00:41:45,415
And I see that in women
in the gym every day.

796
00:41:45,633 --> 00:41:47,287
So it's not about
what you look like.

797
00:41:47,461 --> 00:41:48,810
We've never done
that with our kids.

798
00:41:48,984 --> 00:41:50,333
It's never about...
what they look like.

799
00:41:50,508 --> 00:41:52,379
It's how they feel...
about themselves.

800
00:41:52,553 --> 00:41:54,599
Do they feel strong?
Do they feel good?

801
00:42:00,039 --> 00:42:02,171
So there are challenges
with the app, for sure.

802
00:42:02,345 --> 00:42:05,697
Um, one, I feel like is--
when we started our gyms,

803
00:42:05,871 --> 00:42:07,176
we could go
talk to people, right?

804
00:42:07,350 --> 00:42:08,613
We could go and say, "Hey,

805
00:42:08,787 --> 00:42:10,310
come to this gym,
you're gonna love it."

806
00:42:10,484 --> 00:42:12,834
Just for the next 12 weeks,
the focus is going...

807
00:42:13,008 --> 00:42:14,662
But with the
internet, it's harder.

808
00:42:14,836 --> 00:42:16,534
You only have--
people's attention spans
are like...

809
00:42:16,708 --> 00:42:17,883
that.

810
00:42:18,057 --> 00:42:19,885
So to, like,
explain something...

811
00:42:20,146 --> 00:42:21,800
and only have a
short amount of time

812
00:42:21,974 --> 00:42:24,324
that people aren't gonna
swipe... is a big challenge.

813
00:42:26,195 --> 00:42:27,501
- Oh!
- No, no, you
can go ahead.

814
00:42:27,675 --> 00:42:30,417
Number two... is getting
parents to invest.

815
00:42:30,591 --> 00:42:31,897
I mean, truthfully, it is.

816
00:42:32,419 --> 00:42:35,248
A lot of parents wanna just...
go take them somewhere.

817
00:42:36,162 --> 00:42:37,816
And even if a parent
doesn't know how to...

818
00:42:38,381 --> 00:42:40,732
do a perfect dead-lift
or a perfect squat,

819
00:42:41,167 --> 00:42:43,082
you still... you
still can learn,

820
00:42:43,256 --> 00:42:44,692
and you still can grow, right?

821
00:42:44,866 --> 00:42:45,867
You can do it with your kiddo.

822
00:42:46,564 --> 00:42:49,349
Small instructionals...
will yield results.

823
00:42:49,523 --> 00:42:51,656
Because now I see Brodie and
Slade, but I'm telling you,

824
00:42:51,830 --> 00:42:53,527
at three and four, they did
not move like that.

825
00:42:55,224 --> 00:42:57,705
And I think pe-- people
have a perception that,

826
00:42:58,140 --> 00:43:00,534
"Okay, well... yeah, of course
Brodie can do that cause she--

827
00:43:00,708 --> 00:43:03,319
her parents own a gym and
tha-- she moves like that."

828
00:43:03,493 --> 00:43:06,584
Well, that's not true because...
Brodie didn't move like that.

829
00:43:06,758 --> 00:43:08,281
And it took us a lot of years

830
00:43:08,455 --> 00:43:09,761
and a lot of
patience, of course.

831
00:43:10,979 --> 00:43:12,285
People are always
going to say something.

832
00:43:12,459 --> 00:43:14,504
And you might read
100 positive comments,

833
00:43:14,679 --> 00:43:16,028
and you read one
negative comment,

834
00:43:16,202 --> 00:43:17,203
and it will ruin your day.

835
00:43:21,337 --> 00:43:24,253
People, uh are always
gonna think what they think.

836
00:43:24,819 --> 00:43:26,429
I think the people that
think kids shouldn't

837
00:43:26,604 --> 00:43:27,822
work out are one of two things.

838
00:43:27,996 --> 00:43:30,346
Either one, they
genuinely believe that.

839
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:32,218
They think that there's like
an epiphyseal plate issue

840
00:43:32,392 --> 00:43:33,872
or growth plate issue,
and kids working out

841
00:43:34,046 --> 00:43:35,395
is gonna stunt their growth.

842
00:43:35,569 --> 00:43:37,702
And the other people...
are people that

843
00:43:37,876 --> 00:43:40,574
either are not working
in their kid's lives

844
00:43:40,922 --> 00:43:43,316
or they feel inadequate
about their own actions,

845
00:43:43,490 --> 00:43:44,839
and it's a projection.

846
00:43:46,188 --> 00:43:48,451
"You shouldn't do that," because
they're unwilling to do it.

847
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,803
And... unfortunately, I think
that that's the vast majority

848
00:43:51,977 --> 00:43:54,632
that will often hide behind the,
"That's bad for your kids."

849
00:43:57,199 --> 00:44:00,072
Just-- Just, you know what?
just relax... and keep it there.

850
00:44:00,289 --> 00:44:01,334
Ready? Big jump.

851
00:44:16,131 --> 00:44:17,872
We gave you just
a ton of pointers

852
00:44:18,046 --> 00:44:20,222
and advice and stuff, so we
kinda put it into application.

853
00:44:20,396 --> 00:44:21,876
It was super helpful.

854
00:44:22,050 --> 00:44:23,878
All right, cool.
So... what does this look like?

855
00:44:24,052 --> 00:44:26,098
So let's take... just from...

856
00:44:26,272 --> 00:44:28,317
what we were talking about
on that high crush.

857
00:44:28,491 --> 00:44:31,756
So everything is about... me
being able to stand next to him.

858
00:44:48,511 --> 00:44:50,339
As far back as the
kids can remember,

859
00:44:50,513 --> 00:44:54,126
they don't have a memory of not
being... in the gym or active.

860
00:44:54,909 --> 00:44:56,519
And I look at it more like...

861
00:44:57,390 --> 00:44:59,348
when did you teach
your kids to speak?

862
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:05,746
That's really the same thing.

863
00:45:06,051 --> 00:45:07,226
We taught our kids to work out

864
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:08,836
the same way you
teach them to speak.

865
00:45:10,620 --> 00:45:12,274
Basic words, basic movements.

866
00:45:12,448 --> 00:45:14,886
More complex words,
more complex movements.

867
00:45:17,932 --> 00:45:19,281
Two hours of jiu-jitsu training.

868
00:45:19,455 --> 00:45:20,979
So the kiddos are
gonna train no-gi,

869
00:45:21,153 --> 00:45:22,894
so they'll train
without their gis on,

870
00:45:23,068 --> 00:45:24,591
and then they're gonna
switch over to their gis,

871
00:45:24,765 --> 00:45:26,332
and they'll do an hour of gi.

872
00:45:26,593 --> 00:45:28,073
And then Jordon and I are gonna
do an open mat session,

873
00:45:28,247 --> 00:45:30,075
so, there'll be
other adults there.

874
00:45:30,292 --> 00:45:31,903
While the kids are
competing in gis,

875
00:45:32,077 --> 00:45:34,253
we'll be doing open
mat jiu-jitsu in our gis, so...

876
00:45:35,167 --> 00:45:37,343
Good? One, two.

877
00:45:37,517 --> 00:45:39,824
That was

878
00:45:39,998 --> 00:45:42,696
They're getting ready
for the world competition
for jiu-jitsu,

879
00:45:42,870 --> 00:45:44,263
which is coming up in July.

880
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,918
So kids from all over the
world come to compete

881
00:45:47,092 --> 00:45:48,746
in Orlando in July,

882
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,705
and they battle for the
number one in their age group,

883
00:45:51,879 --> 00:45:53,141
their weight, and their belt.

884
00:46:13,814 --> 00:46:16,077
We have taught our
kids to have grit, right?

885
00:46:16,251 --> 00:46:17,949
Like, we don't want
our kids to be soft,

886
00:46:18,123 --> 00:46:19,472
because the world is-- is tough.

887
00:46:19,646 --> 00:46:21,126
Come on, Brodie!

888
00:46:21,300 --> 00:46:23,606
Let's go!
Get up, get up!

889
00:46:26,827 --> 00:46:29,743
So we are so thankful
when our kids lose at this age,

890
00:46:29,917 --> 00:46:31,876
because we teach them
it's not about losing.

891
00:46:32,050 --> 00:46:33,051
It's not about losing.

892
00:46:33,965 --> 00:46:36,750
We have kept zero medals.

893
00:46:36,924 --> 00:46:38,708
Of anything they've competed in,

894
00:46:38,883 --> 00:46:41,668
we've thrown every medal away,
because it doesn't matter.

895
00:46:45,063 --> 00:46:46,673
Because we don't
care about that.

896
00:46:46,847 --> 00:46:48,849
We're building their character,
and they gotta know that

897
00:46:49,023 --> 00:46:51,025
there's always gonna
be another competition,

898
00:46:51,199 --> 00:46:53,158
and they can't have that
fear of the unknown,

899
00:46:53,332 --> 00:46:55,421
because... that is what
cripples people.

900
00:46:59,077 --> 00:47:00,774
Hurry up, let's go!

901
00:47:07,433 --> 00:47:09,914
Left, right, left, left.

902
00:47:16,616 --> 00:47:18,836
My job is to help
take care of you.

903
00:47:19,401 --> 00:47:21,229
One!

904
00:47:21,403 --> 00:47:22,752
And there's some shit going on
in your environment

905
00:47:22,927 --> 00:47:24,624
right now that I want you
to pay attention to.

906
00:47:24,798 --> 00:47:26,408
- Down.
- Six!

907
00:47:26,582 --> 00:47:28,802
If you don't pay
attention to it long enough,

908
00:47:28,976 --> 00:47:30,195
you're going to fucking die.

909
00:47:30,369 --> 00:47:31,631
Nine!

910
00:47:41,206 --> 00:47:42,555
Let's go, let's go!

911
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,261
Close your eyes. 30 seconds.

912
00:47:53,435 --> 00:47:56,961
I want you to figure out, remind
yourself, as the sun rises,

913
00:47:59,093 --> 00:48:00,921
why is it that you are here?

914
00:48:07,319 --> 00:48:09,538
- One, two, three, up!
- Come on!

915
00:48:23,074 --> 00:48:25,990
So the military needs
special operators, right?

916
00:48:26,164 --> 00:48:29,471
And so special operators,
by nature, "are special."

917
00:48:30,168 --> 00:48:32,648
They're gonna go do
something that is unique.

918
00:48:32,822 --> 00:48:34,302
And... you just basically
need people that have

919
00:48:34,476 --> 00:48:36,217
super high risk
tolerance, right?

920
00:48:38,741 --> 00:48:41,266
A week before Slade was born,
I thought I was gonna die.

921
00:48:43,050 --> 00:48:44,399
They launched us off
on a hurricane

922
00:48:44,573 --> 00:48:46,619
rescue mission off the
coast of-- of Texas.

923
00:48:46,793 --> 00:48:48,882
There was this 564-foot boat

924
00:48:49,317 --> 00:48:51,102
that was listing--
it was taking on water.

925
00:48:51,537 --> 00:48:53,191
And it's got these eight
Chinese sailors

926
00:48:53,365 --> 00:48:55,584
on board this boat, and they
call for the Coast Guard.

927
00:48:55,758 --> 00:48:57,891
Coast Guard's not gonna go.
They call us. We're gonna go.

928
00:48:58,370 --> 00:49:00,067
And... I remember
they called me.

929
00:49:00,546 --> 00:49:02,896
I'm at home, like, in pajamas,
hanging out with Jess.

930
00:49:03,070 --> 00:49:04,898
And like, "Hey, we need a--
a fixed-wing team leader.

931
00:49:05,072 --> 00:49:06,117
Can you come in?"

932
00:49:06,987 --> 00:49:10,338
I kiss Jess goodbye...
and we get on the bird.

933
00:49:10,512 --> 00:49:12,427
We're getting
ready to go, and...

934
00:49:13,298 --> 00:49:14,821
I, like, stop for a second,

935
00:49:14,995 --> 00:49:17,563
and I'm, like... "I'm about
to fly into a hurricane.

936
00:49:18,303 --> 00:49:20,435
Once again, I'm staring at
death, right?

937
00:49:20,609 --> 00:49:23,961
I'm, like, looking at death,
and I'm like... "Let's go."

938
00:49:24,962 --> 00:49:27,529
Get on the-- get on the
airplane. We fly out to Texas.

939
00:49:27,921 --> 00:49:32,230
We get out over the water, and,
dude, the view of it was nuts.

940
00:49:34,145 --> 00:49:36,799
So we're looking out
the back of the C-130,

941
00:49:36,974 --> 00:49:39,106
and I remember I pull in the
three guys that are with me.

942
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:40,847
I'm like, "Hey, guys...

943
00:49:41,021 --> 00:49:43,241
chance of survival is not great.

944
00:49:43,893 --> 00:49:45,373
You guys got families?

945
00:49:45,547 --> 00:49:48,333
Anybody doesn't
wanna go? I get it.

946
00:49:48,594 --> 00:49:49,856
No-- you don't have to go."

947
00:49:50,596 --> 00:49:52,728
And they're like...
"Nah, we're going, dude."

948
00:49:59,474 --> 00:50:01,259
I... hoped that my son is okay.

949
00:50:01,433 --> 00:50:02,782
That was my thought, you know?

950
00:50:04,653 --> 00:50:05,828
I'm never gonna see him.

951
00:50:07,830 --> 00:50:10,137
I'm good with it. Let's go.
And so I made the decision.

952
00:50:10,311 --> 00:50:12,487
I was ready to go, and here's
what happened. Praise God.

953
00:50:14,489 --> 00:50:16,752
We're coming in on
kind of the last little leg.

954
00:50:17,188 --> 00:50:19,668
The storm's so bad
that it ends up ripping

955
00:50:19,842 --> 00:50:22,280
the windshield wipers
off of the helicopters.

956
00:50:22,541 --> 00:50:25,935
So they can't come in and
hold a hover. They can't see.

957
00:50:26,414 --> 00:50:28,634
So the mission ended up
getting canceled at the like,

958
00:50:28,808 --> 00:50:31,593
11th hour where we're looking
at this, and it's like...

959
00:50:31,767 --> 00:50:33,987
yeah, if we can't get off,
there's no reason to go in.

960
00:50:36,555 --> 00:50:38,948
In hindsight, now I get to
look back, and I go, "Man,

961
00:50:39,123 --> 00:50:43,301
God was so kind to me
because... he let me just...

962
00:50:43,475 --> 00:50:44,998
conquer all these
things that, like,

963
00:50:45,172 --> 00:50:47,305
I think plagued people
for a lot of their lives.

964
00:50:48,262 --> 00:50:49,350
I know I'm willing to die."

965
00:50:54,529 --> 00:50:56,966
So I was gone about
300 days out of the year...

966
00:50:57,141 --> 00:50:58,185
right? um...

967
00:50:59,491 --> 00:51:02,189
But when I would come home,
Jess was still the same adult.

968
00:51:02,494 --> 00:51:05,279
She was-- we were-- we worked,
we talked through things.

969
00:51:05,758 --> 00:51:07,760
Then we had Slade, right?

970
00:51:08,587 --> 00:51:09,588
And...

971
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:12,634
...he would drastically
be a new person

972
00:51:12,808 --> 00:51:14,506
every time I came home, right?

973
00:51:14,767 --> 00:51:16,986
I watched him crawl
from Afghanistan.

974
00:51:17,596 --> 00:51:20,903
I watched him, you know,
learn to walk from TDY...

975
00:51:21,426 --> 00:51:24,168
and, uh, you know, being
on different training things,

976
00:51:24,342 --> 00:51:25,343
and...

977
00:51:27,171 --> 00:51:29,912
...I did not feel it was
responsible to bring...

978
00:51:30,304 --> 00:51:31,740
a man into the world...

979
00:51:32,393 --> 00:51:35,744
and leave him... to help
sort through it himself.

980
00:51:48,061 --> 00:51:50,411
- NASB.
- Wait, say again?

981
00:51:50,759 --> 00:51:53,806
- Where are we
starting, Jay?
- Uh, John 14.

982
00:51:54,111 --> 00:51:55,590
What is a church?
I guess it's a--

983
00:51:55,764 --> 00:51:57,679
if you look at it from
a legal standpoint,

984
00:51:57,853 --> 00:52:00,334
well, in Christian America, it
might seem-- mean something,

985
00:52:00,508 --> 00:52:04,077
but... under the laws of what
God's calling a church is,

986
00:52:04,251 --> 00:52:07,211
me and you talking about
Jesus is a church, you know?

987
00:52:07,472 --> 00:52:09,561
And so John 14's
a pretty interesting chapter.

988
00:52:09,735 --> 00:52:13,173
So... to give the backstory
to that, right? Before this...

989
00:52:13,782 --> 00:52:15,871
in John 13, Jesus sits...

990
00:52:16,045 --> 00:52:18,352
I've known since
I was pretty young that

991
00:52:18,526 --> 00:52:20,659
I had a unique,
kind of personality.

992
00:52:20,876 --> 00:52:24,228
So I didn't have like much...
of an affinity for the church

993
00:52:24,402 --> 00:52:25,794
or... any of those things.

994
00:52:27,056 --> 00:52:29,537
Both my parents, I think,
called themselves Christians,

995
00:52:29,711 --> 00:52:33,062
and they definitely are now,
but, um, we didn't go to church

996
00:52:33,237 --> 00:52:36,283
probably for a couple reasons,
but like... we were really poor.

997
00:52:36,718 --> 00:52:41,462
And I remember... like,
early... we went to a church

998
00:52:41,636 --> 00:52:43,725
and... somebody had
something to say to my dad

999
00:52:43,899 --> 00:52:45,901
about the way he
was dressed, right?

1000
00:52:46,119 --> 00:52:48,208
Calling him to account for,
like, "Hey, don't you think you

1001
00:52:48,382 --> 00:52:50,776
oughta dress a little...
nicer or whatever?"

1002
00:52:51,733 --> 00:52:54,301
And so... like, I--have
always been super observant.

1003
00:52:54,475 --> 00:52:57,652
I even remember then, I'm like,
"What a bunch of phonies.

1004
00:52:58,175 --> 00:52:59,350
What a bunch of hypocrites."

1005
00:52:59,524 --> 00:53:01,047
And so we actually
didn't continue

1006
00:53:01,221 --> 00:53:03,049
to visit churches very much.

1007
00:53:03,223 --> 00:53:05,486
And so what God
says in Romans is that...

1008
00:53:06,052 --> 00:53:08,141
the revelation of God and
the creation of the world

1009
00:53:08,315 --> 00:53:10,099
is apparent to all
men around you.

1010
00:53:22,286 --> 00:53:26,638
It would took probably about...
two years, um, once he was out

1011
00:53:26,812 --> 00:53:28,335
and then he...
became a believer.

1012
00:53:28,509 --> 00:53:30,294
And it's like-- I think
that really helped him

1013
00:53:30,859 --> 00:53:32,426
to, you know, believe in God
and understand that

1014
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,080
there is a reason
why things happen.

1015
00:53:36,517 --> 00:53:38,563
And so, you know,
I was just praying

1016
00:53:38,737 --> 00:53:41,435
that something would happen. And
then at the gym, which is funny,

1017
00:53:41,740 --> 00:53:43,916
a guy joined, and this
guy was a believer.

1018
00:53:44,351 --> 00:53:48,181
And he was not like what...
Jordon saw at church.
He was different.

1019
00:53:49,748 --> 00:53:52,403
Jordon was like... "I'm gonna
read the whole Bible." He goes,

1020
00:53:52,577 --> 00:53:54,492
"I'm gonna read the
whole Bible 'cause I
don't believe it's true."

1021
00:53:54,709 --> 00:53:56,537
"I'm gonna read this Bible
to teach him a lesson."

1022
00:53:57,277 --> 00:53:58,757
And the other side of me,
'cause I think there's

1023
00:53:58,931 --> 00:54:00,019
a dichotomy in all of us,

1024
00:54:00,193 --> 00:54:01,760
the other side of me is like...

1025
00:54:02,108 --> 00:54:03,631
"Maybe I'm wrong.
Maybe there's...

1026
00:54:03,805 --> 00:54:05,198
something that's gonna
change my life here.

1027
00:54:05,633 --> 00:54:06,591
Who knows?"

1028
00:54:06,765 --> 00:54:08,201
And she has made a commitment

1029
00:54:08,375 --> 00:54:10,334
to follow Christ and be
baptized, is that right?

1030
00:54:10,508 --> 00:54:11,683
- Yes.
- Awesome.

1031
00:54:11,857 --> 00:54:13,293
And so... I thought
what we would...

1032
00:54:13,467 --> 00:54:14,294
So I started
reading the book of John.

1033
00:54:14,468 --> 00:54:15,600
I read John 1.

1034
00:54:15,774 --> 00:54:18,603
And then in John 2... it's wild.

1035
00:54:18,777 --> 00:54:20,300
...in Jesus' name we pray, amen.

1036
00:54:20,474 --> 00:54:21,823
It was the first time
for me, I was like, "Whoa!

1037
00:54:22,868 --> 00:54:24,217
That don't look like soft Jesus.

1038
00:54:24,391 --> 00:54:26,088
I could get down
with that Jesus."

1039
00:54:26,654 --> 00:54:28,395
Yeah, I mean, we're
two chapters in, and he's--

1040
00:54:28,569 --> 00:54:30,136
he-- he stands for something.

1041
00:54:30,963 --> 00:54:32,965
He read the entire Bible, and
that's when he believed.

1042
00:54:33,139 --> 00:54:34,140
He's like, "No, I believe.

1043
00:54:34,314 --> 00:54:36,708
Like, it's-- it's true.

1044
00:54:36,882 --> 00:54:37,970
Like, I-- I see it."

1045
00:54:43,192 --> 00:54:46,544
Growing up in the streets of
Atlanta gave me a short temper.

1046
00:54:46,718 --> 00:54:49,895
And so... as I, like, grew up,
I had a very short temper

1047
00:54:50,069 --> 00:54:52,680
because I didn't have a
tolerance built up to be able to

1048
00:54:52,854 --> 00:54:55,553
deal with those things, right?
So I had to learn some of that.

1049
00:54:55,727 --> 00:54:58,338
And really what happened
for me was... as I started

1050
00:54:58,512 --> 00:55:01,123
actually reading the Bible,
and I made a commitment

1051
00:55:01,298 --> 00:55:04,823
shortly thereafter that I'd read
the Bible, every single day.

1052
00:55:04,997 --> 00:55:07,216
And I have now
for like 12, 13 years.

1053
00:55:07,956 --> 00:55:10,045
And the v--
the hole, the void...

1054
00:55:10,263 --> 00:55:14,267
that roller coaster
happiness... closed. Right?

1055
00:55:14,702 --> 00:55:17,923
So I... feel a sense of peace
and contentment

1056
00:55:18,097 --> 00:55:20,099
that materialism
just can't fulfill.

1057
00:55:20,273 --> 00:55:23,537
Like... I can be in
anything in life,

1058
00:55:23,711 --> 00:55:25,278
and it's perfectly okay with me.

1059
00:55:31,284 --> 00:55:32,416
And I feel complete.

1060
00:55:50,085 --> 00:55:52,044
The last year
of our life, it was a

1061
00:55:52,218 --> 00:55:54,873
pretty... interesting year,
I would say. Um...

1062
00:55:56,918 --> 00:55:59,791
After COVID, we kind
of... changed our life,

1063
00:55:59,965 --> 00:56:03,142
sold our house, lived
in an RV for an entire year.

1064
00:56:11,542 --> 00:56:14,849
Living in an RV full-time
is... not like going

1065
00:56:15,023 --> 00:56:16,851
on vacation in an RV.

1066
00:56:17,199 --> 00:56:19,114
It was scary

1067
00:56:23,641 --> 00:56:25,120
"Are you not entertained?"

1068
00:56:25,425 --> 00:56:27,296
- No, I'm not.
- Brodie!

1069
00:56:27,471 --> 00:56:28,907
It's supposed to be fun.
When we bought the RV,

1070
00:56:29,081 --> 00:56:31,649
we definitely... still
found moments of fun.

1071
00:56:31,823 --> 00:56:33,607
And it was a collective
decision, but like,

1072
00:56:33,781 --> 00:56:35,304
"Hey, I'm gonna
uproot you from your house,

1073
00:56:35,479 --> 00:56:37,524
and we're gonna go travel
around," and kind of like

1074
00:56:37,698 --> 00:56:40,614
the materiality of what that
looks like can change. But...

1075
00:56:42,834 --> 00:56:46,098
I get to live in every
socioeconomic class, and you
know what I learned?

1076
00:56:46,359 --> 00:56:48,187
None of them are the
ones that make you happy.

1077
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:50,842
It's your mindset,
who you're with--

1078
00:56:51,016 --> 00:56:53,018
So you have a lot
of memories as a family.

1079
00:56:53,192 --> 00:56:54,715
Yeah, I knew...

1080
00:56:55,324 --> 00:56:57,326
that this time
was not gonna stop,

1081
00:56:57,501 --> 00:57:00,460
and I had better...
take advantage of

1082
00:57:00,634 --> 00:57:03,202
spending time with them.
And so... that was the goal.

1083
00:57:03,420 --> 00:57:05,900
It was super fun, but it
was challenging, of course, too,

1084
00:57:06,074 --> 00:57:07,902
because, you know, we all kind
of work from home.

1085
00:57:08,076 --> 00:57:10,514
We do school from home.
So... you know,

1086
00:57:10,688 --> 00:57:12,994
a year was-- a year was enough.
A year was awesome.

1087
00:57:13,517 --> 00:57:17,303
Hey, buddy! Hey, cutie!

1088
00:57:17,608 --> 00:57:20,611
- Is it super hot?
- Very, very hot.

1089
00:57:20,785 --> 00:57:22,613
It's hotter than
the springs, definitely.

1090
00:57:24,136 --> 00:57:26,878
So when we came back
from our year of RV life,

1091
00:57:27,052 --> 00:57:29,228
we... were trying to
find a spot to live,

1092
00:57:29,402 --> 00:57:30,925
and the economy is pretty
rough right now.

1093
00:57:31,099 --> 00:57:32,971
So we've... you know,
been praying

1094
00:57:33,145 --> 00:57:34,929
for the last
couple years to find...

1095
00:57:35,277 --> 00:57:37,845
the right spot that fits our
family, and we finally found it.

1096
00:57:38,019 --> 00:57:41,283
Alright, so we are gonna go
to see the goats first

1097
00:57:41,458 --> 00:57:43,111
and probably the chickens.

1098
00:57:43,416 --> 00:57:45,679
I would say the last year
was a lot of hard work.

1099
00:57:46,027 --> 00:57:47,986
And patience, a lot
of patience, for sure.

1100
00:57:49,074 --> 00:57:51,468
And I speak goat.

1101
00:57:51,685 --> 00:57:53,644
- Then you wanna check
out the chickens, bro?
- Yeah.

1102
00:57:53,861 --> 00:57:56,647
So that's Cock Diesel.
He's our bigger rooster.

1103
00:57:56,821 --> 00:57:57,996
And then I forgot his name.

1104
00:57:58,170 --> 00:57:59,737
- What's his-- He's--
- I--

1105
00:57:59,911 --> 00:58:01,086
Is it Russell Crow?

1106
00:58:23,630 --> 00:58:25,240
Look at that, man.
You gave yourself no option

1107
00:58:25,414 --> 00:58:26,633
and just rocked it.

1108
00:58:29,331 --> 00:58:30,550
It's our nature!

1109
00:58:32,030 --> 00:58:33,858
- One last big one!
- Ah!

1110
00:58:34,511 --> 00:58:35,860
All right. Warm back in.

1111
00:58:36,034 --> 00:58:37,296
See those three lines.

1112
00:58:38,515 --> 00:58:39,951
Keep breathing on.

1113
00:58:42,954 --> 00:58:44,869
Take all that ice off you.

1114
00:59:05,542 --> 00:59:08,849
Come on, this is not
gonna change anything

1115
00:59:12,070 --> 00:59:15,160
Keep your head
underneath.
Keep the head underneath!

1116
00:59:47,888 --> 00:59:50,325
It was after COVID, right?
We did the RV trip.

1117
00:59:50,717 --> 00:59:51,805
And, um...

1118
00:59:52,545 --> 00:59:55,287
I ended up getting,
like, a weird rash from jujitsu.

1119
00:59:55,461 --> 00:59:57,158
Like, you can get a
lot of, like, different things--

1120
00:59:57,332 --> 00:59:58,638
- Mm-hmm.
- It's jujitsu, right?

1121
00:59:59,117 --> 01:00:01,728
And so I had this weird rash.
I went to the doctor.

1122
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,296
He gave me a pill.
I took it for ten days.

1123
01:00:04,470 --> 01:00:07,125
And I told Jordon...
"I don't feel right."

1124
01:00:07,299 --> 01:00:08,909
You know, I don't feel... right.

1125
01:00:09,083 --> 01:00:10,694
You know, it's like you
drink alcohol or something.

1126
01:00:10,868 --> 01:00:13,392
And you're like, intellectually,
you're still there...

1127
01:00:13,740 --> 01:00:15,829
But, like, chemically, you know
things have changed.

1128
01:00:16,743 --> 01:00:19,224
It's like that in the
exact opposite direction.

1129
01:00:19,616 --> 01:00:21,400
It's so cold!

1130
01:00:22,183 --> 01:00:23,402
Welcome! Come on in!

1131
01:00:24,751 --> 01:00:27,232
My hormones tank.
I've never had an issue.

1132
01:00:27,667 --> 01:00:30,757
I've never been ultra emotional.
I've never been depressed.

1133
01:00:30,931 --> 01:00:33,325
Like, I've never understood--
"What do you mean
you're depressed?"

1134
01:00:33,499 --> 01:00:35,196
- Like, just do something, right?
- Mm-hmm.

1135
01:00:35,370 --> 01:00:39,984
She was just, like... in a
perpetual sense of anxiety.

1136
01:00:42,073 --> 01:00:43,901
She loved me.
She was still great to the kids.

1137
01:00:44,075 --> 01:00:45,729
But I could just
see the pain in her.

1138
01:00:45,903 --> 01:00:47,556
And it was terrible
for me, for sure.

1139
01:01:03,094 --> 01:01:04,922
I felt ultra depressed.
I was like...

1140
01:01:05,749 --> 01:01:07,402
I d-- [chuckles] I don't
know what's going on.

1141
01:01:14,409 --> 01:01:16,890
Jesse's one of the most
stoic people I've ever met.

1142
01:01:18,370 --> 01:01:20,067
That's been her
personality forever.

1143
01:01:21,242 --> 01:01:22,722
I re--
Dude, I remember...

1144
01:01:23,810 --> 01:01:25,029
we were in Arkansas.

1145
01:01:26,030 --> 01:01:27,814
This is so unlike Jess, but...

1146
01:01:28,032 --> 01:01:29,033
That...

1147
01:01:30,208 --> 01:01:31,296
- ...and like that.
- Oh!

1148
01:01:31,470 --> 01:01:32,819
You can eat it.

1149
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:34,603
And she's like,
"Hey, I'm just, I-- I just gotta

1150
01:01:34,778 --> 01:01:35,953
go for a walk or something."

1151
01:01:36,127 --> 01:01:37,258
And so...

1152
01:01:38,172 --> 01:01:40,348
she's gone for a walk.
She's walking around.

1153
01:01:41,045 --> 01:01:43,308
It's been a little longer than,
like, I expected to see her.

1154
01:01:44,048 --> 01:01:46,877
I find her, and
she's, like... crying.

1155
01:01:47,442 --> 01:01:49,357
She goes--
she's like...

1156
01:01:50,358 --> 01:01:52,360
"...I f-- I feel so off."
She goes, "Like I--

1157
01:01:53,448 --> 01:01:56,408
I don't even
care if I live or die right now.

1158
01:01:56,582 --> 01:01:58,105
And I know that's not normal.
That's not right."

1159
01:01:58,279 --> 01:01:59,977
Like she-- intellectually,
she knew it wasn't right.

1160
01:02:00,151 --> 01:02:01,152
But, like, emotionally...

1161
01:02:04,024 --> 01:02:05,983
I think we just started praying.
I started praying with her.

1162
01:02:08,725 --> 01:02:10,988
You know, when your hormones
tank like that, you--

1163
01:02:11,162 --> 01:02:14,295
it's rough for women.
You know, it's really-- it was
really, really hard.

1164
01:02:14,513 --> 01:02:16,820
Like I said, I've never been
depressed. And now I understand

1165
01:02:16,994 --> 01:02:18,822
when people say that
they have depression.

1166
01:02:20,214 --> 01:02:22,739
I never thought, like,
"Oh, I don't wanna... be here."

1167
01:02:22,913 --> 01:02:25,045
But I was like, "Jordon,
I'm having thoughts of, like...

1168
01:02:25,393 --> 01:02:26,612
I don't care."

1169
01:02:30,834 --> 01:02:34,315
I realized that there
was no level of convincing her.

1170
01:02:34,489 --> 01:02:37,405
I just had to be more certain
that she was gonna be okay

1171
01:02:37,579 --> 01:02:39,016
than she was uncertain.

1172
01:02:40,452 --> 01:02:44,282
And so I just... leaned
into the fact that...

1173
01:02:44,630 --> 01:02:48,199
"Jess... I know you're afraid,
I'm not. You're gonna be okay."

1174
01:02:50,201 --> 01:02:53,334
And... 10,000 times later,
her cycle

1175
01:02:53,508 --> 01:02:54,901
ended up kicking back in.

1176
01:02:55,075 --> 01:02:58,165
And, uh... she felt
drastically different,

1177
01:02:58,339 --> 01:02:59,950
you know? And--
and a lot of stuff changed,

1178
01:03:00,124 --> 01:03:01,908
uh... It was definitely
a hard time for her.

1179
01:03:02,082 --> 01:03:03,475
It's hard for... all of us.

1180
01:03:09,263 --> 01:03:11,091
I love her, and...

1181
01:03:13,528 --> 01:03:15,748
...as shitty as it is,
and as shitty as it feels,

1182
01:03:16,401 --> 01:03:18,098
I knew that she was
gonna come out

1183
01:03:18,272 --> 01:03:20,013
a level of stronger
that she's never...

1184
01:03:20,187 --> 01:03:21,798
even experienced herself...

1185
01:03:24,104 --> 01:03:25,105
And she did.

1186
01:03:27,499 --> 01:03:29,675
<i>Ladies and
gentlemen...</i>

1187
01:03:40,468 --> 01:03:42,601
Awesome. So today we're
out here with Brent Riviera

1188
01:03:42,775 --> 01:03:44,342
and the AMP World crew.

1189
01:03:44,559 --> 01:03:46,257
They're gonna be going
through a little bit of a day

1190
01:03:46,431 --> 01:03:47,954
in the life of the Bowens.

1191
01:03:50,652 --> 01:03:52,480
- Did I put my hand
in front of your face?
- Yeah, but it's okay.

1192
01:03:53,786 --> 01:03:56,397
- Oh, snap!
- Look at that!

1193
01:03:56,571 --> 01:03:58,138
Go up, I'll take a picture.

1194
01:03:58,878 --> 01:03:59,748
That's pretty wild.

1195
01:03:59,923 --> 01:04:00,924
Alright, close out.

1196
01:04:03,361 --> 01:04:04,971
Hey guys.

1197
01:04:05,145 --> 01:04:07,017
- What's up?
- How's it going?
Hi, how are you?

1198
01:04:10,759 --> 01:04:12,326
Yeah, man, we're
having a lot of fun, uh...

1199
01:04:12,500 --> 01:04:13,893
It's obviously a whole lot
different than, like,

1200
01:04:14,067 --> 01:04:15,808
what we're used to on
a day in and day out.

1201
01:04:15,982 --> 01:04:17,592
So, like, so much of
what we do is, like...

1202
01:04:17,766 --> 01:04:19,638
realistically what
you can integrate

1203
01:04:19,812 --> 01:04:21,422
into your life,
what's a lot of fun.

1204
01:04:23,511 --> 01:04:26,166
So what we're doing here is just
a giant caricature of that.

1205
01:04:26,340 --> 01:04:27,951
- There you go!
- Yo!

1206
01:04:28,125 --> 01:04:29,691
- Twelve is actually impressive.
- Nice, nice!

1207
01:04:30,997 --> 01:04:32,259
Two!

1208
01:04:32,433 --> 01:04:34,218
Yeah!

1209
01:04:34,871 --> 01:04:37,525
It's, like, so much fun
because we just
get to do, like...

1210
01:04:37,830 --> 01:04:40,137
out of the ordinary-- well, we
do stuff that we do, but, like,

1211
01:04:40,311 --> 01:04:41,486
out of the ordinary,
it's just...

1212
01:04:41,660 --> 01:04:42,966
- So fun.
- So much fun.

1213
01:04:43,357 --> 01:04:46,056
All right, here we go.
Three, two, one.

1214
01:04:46,883 --> 01:04:49,015
The Bowen family
has been doing fantastic.

1215
01:04:49,189 --> 01:04:50,756
Um... they've been
absolutely killing it.

1216
01:04:50,930 --> 01:04:52,801
We've been, um, filming a lot

1217
01:04:52,976 --> 01:04:55,369
these last few hours,
and they've been just on it.

1218
01:04:55,543 --> 01:04:57,197
Um, they've been quick with,
like, the jokes

1219
01:04:57,371 --> 01:04:58,329
and things like that.

1220
01:05:00,461 --> 01:05:02,289
Come on, come on. Come on!

1221
01:05:03,116 --> 01:05:06,772
Yeah. Come on. Come on!

1222
01:05:06,946 --> 01:05:08,774
They have been literally amazing

1223
01:05:08,948 --> 01:05:10,471
right from the start,
the get-go.

1224
01:05:10,645 --> 01:05:13,213
They've been just...
providing the lines.

1225
01:05:13,387 --> 01:05:15,868
They're so, um, enthusiastic
about being here and...

1226
01:05:16,042 --> 01:05:18,088
be a part of this. So, uh, yeah,
they're doing a great job.

1227
01:05:18,479 --> 01:05:20,046
Never skip leg day!

1228
01:05:20,220 --> 01:05:21,700
- Oh...
- Good job!

1229
01:05:22,092 --> 01:05:23,832
Two!

1230
01:05:25,269 --> 01:05:26,661
- I'm trying!
- Three!

1231
01:05:26,835 --> 01:05:28,446
- Didn't it feel great?
- Yeah, I feel great.

1232
01:05:42,808 --> 01:05:43,852
Come on, hurry up!

1233
01:05:44,505 --> 01:05:46,638
We're gonna miss
our next time-fall, and instead

1234
01:05:46,812 --> 01:05:48,422
we're gonna stay here
through that iteration.

1235
01:05:48,596 --> 01:05:49,684
So hurry the fuck up. Let's go.

1236
01:05:57,649 --> 01:05:58,563
Alright, good.

1237
01:05:58,737 --> 01:06:00,434
Up.

1238
01:06:00,608 --> 01:06:01,653
Down.

1239
01:06:02,262 --> 01:06:03,481
- Let's go.
- Hey!

1240
01:06:03,655 --> 01:06:05,657
Four!

1241
01:06:05,831 --> 01:06:07,876
Five!

1242
01:06:08,051 --> 01:06:10,488
Stop! Hurry it up.
Hurry it up.

1243
01:06:10,662 --> 01:06:11,663
Hurry it up. Hurry it up.

1244
01:06:16,668 --> 01:06:18,626
London Bridge is
falling. Let's go!

1245
01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:20,367
Shimmy down. Shimmy down.

1246
01:06:21,064 --> 01:06:24,328
Hey, you either have to
do it or you get to do it.

1247
01:06:24,502 --> 01:06:26,373
Mindset is everything.
Where we at?

1248
01:06:27,592 --> 01:06:28,854
Give me a ruck. Let's go.
Hurry up.

1249
01:06:29,028 --> 01:06:30,508
Let's go. Double time.
Let's get going.

1250
01:06:34,207 --> 01:06:35,382
Let's go. Let's go.

1251
01:06:35,556 --> 01:06:36,557
Come on, let's go.

1252
01:06:45,131 --> 01:06:46,437
Let's go!

1253
01:06:50,006 --> 01:06:51,572
- Yeah!
- Never quit!

1254
01:06:55,228 --> 01:06:57,013
I gotta lay down.
I gotta lay down.

1255
01:06:57,187 --> 01:06:59,015
Coswell, get up!
You're a medic

1256
01:07:01,539 --> 01:07:04,063
Watch out.
Everybody move, please.

1257
01:07:09,242 --> 01:07:12,898
So after the military, this was
probably a few years after

1258
01:07:13,072 --> 01:07:15,074
he got a call from a
friend that said...

1259
01:07:15,466 --> 01:07:17,250
"Have you heard of
anti-human trafficking?"

1260
01:07:18,382 --> 01:07:20,166
I know the slides they
made us do in the military.

1261
01:07:20,340 --> 01:07:21,559
That's supposed to be a thing.

1262
01:07:23,691 --> 01:07:26,085
So human trafficking,
for, like, lack of a--

1263
01:07:26,259 --> 01:07:27,782
a better definition, is...

1264
01:07:27,956 --> 01:07:31,090
exploiting humans
for monetary gain.

1265
01:07:33,788 --> 01:07:35,660
In the States,
the American legal system

1266
01:07:35,834 --> 01:07:38,054
is kind of difficult to
even help anybody,

1267
01:07:38,228 --> 01:07:40,143
even people that
are in these situations.

1268
01:07:40,578 --> 01:07:43,146
So where a lot of the
anti-trafficking and stuff

1269
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:45,017
happens is overseas as well.

1270
01:07:45,235 --> 01:07:47,324
overlapping dialogues
speaking in foreign language]

1271
01:07:50,457 --> 01:07:53,547
Went to Africa. He went to--
we went to Uganda in Africa.

1272
01:07:54,461 --> 01:07:57,986
Uganda... is interesting,
that's for sure.

1273
01:07:58,900 --> 01:08:01,468
Beautiful country.
Beautiful people. Interesting.

1274
01:08:01,990 --> 01:08:05,994
We got called there... because
we were hearing, like, reports

1275
01:08:06,169 --> 01:08:09,128
of child sacrifice...
kind of the witch doctor thing,

1276
01:08:09,868 --> 01:08:12,871
and massive amounts
of young women,
kind of teenage women

1277
01:08:13,045 --> 01:08:14,829
that were getting
shipped to Saudi Arabia.

1278
01:08:21,009 --> 01:08:22,315
So we got into the country.

1279
01:08:22,924 --> 01:08:26,537
We ended up working with some
really local trusted assets,

1280
01:08:26,711 --> 01:08:29,322
and, weirdly enough, we helped
them build some businesses.

1281
01:08:29,670 --> 01:08:33,283
Businesses for good
guys to give the-- the women

1282
01:08:33,457 --> 01:08:36,068
jobs and stuff to
do in-- in Uganda.

1283
01:08:37,243 --> 01:08:39,898
If they don't have some
way to have an economy,

1284
01:08:40,072 --> 01:08:42,466
then they're gonna
let themselves get shipped off.

1285
01:08:45,469 --> 01:08:47,427
So we-- we did a
pretty wild system--

1286
01:08:47,601 --> 01:08:49,125
and that's kind of the soft way.
It's like,

1287
01:08:49,299 --> 01:08:50,561
sometimes you wanna
to just go kick in a door

1288
01:08:50,735 --> 01:08:52,389
and save people,
and sometimes you're like,

1289
01:08:52,606 --> 01:08:54,391
"We gotta figure out how to
solve this problem another way."

1290
01:08:54,565 --> 01:08:56,044
Yeah, say hello.

1291
01:08:56,219 --> 01:08:58,308
- Say hello to Brodie.
- Hello to Brodie.

1292
01:08:58,482 --> 01:08:59,700
Yeah!

1293
01:09:00,136 --> 01:09:02,834
He went to Nepal, um, and
then he went to Ukraine

1294
01:09:03,008 --> 01:09:06,229
with the anti-human trafficking,
and that was... incredible.

1295
01:09:06,403 --> 01:09:07,969
I don't really ask too
much about that because

1296
01:09:08,144 --> 01:09:09,710
I don't want to know the
details because it is pretty...

1297
01:09:09,884 --> 01:09:10,972
rough and sad.

1298
01:09:19,024 --> 01:09:20,765
Before the war started...

1299
01:09:20,939 --> 01:09:23,246
there's American non-profits

1300
01:09:23,637 --> 01:09:27,337
that were already working
with orphanages in Ukraine

1301
01:09:27,511 --> 01:09:31,863
to try to get kids to,
you know, um, be adopted to...

1302
01:09:32,211 --> 01:09:35,867
different American, uh,
citizens or just to find homes.

1303
01:09:40,132 --> 01:09:44,049
When the war started, nobody
cared about them, of course.

1304
01:09:49,010 --> 01:09:51,361
And so these non-profits
in America were like...

1305
01:09:52,579 --> 01:09:55,060
"How are we gonna get these
people out of the danger zone?

1306
01:09:55,234 --> 01:09:57,018
'Cause like, all the
way over in the east."

1307
01:09:59,499 --> 01:10:03,155
We got contacted by...
these different non-profits,

1308
01:10:03,329 --> 01:10:05,113
a multitude of them,
and they were like,

1309
01:10:05,288 --> 01:10:08,378
"Hey! can you guys
go in and get them out?"

1310
01:10:12,077 --> 01:10:14,906
"We've got, like, hundreds"
and, they had hundreds

1311
01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:17,909
of widows and orphans
that are trapped, and...

1312
01:10:18,083 --> 01:10:19,780
we got the wildest reports.

1313
01:10:19,954 --> 01:10:22,305
Like, you know, all the bad
stuff you kind of hear about

1314
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:26,004
in terms of like... people being
raped, all it-- it's all real.

1315
01:10:26,178 --> 01:10:27,658
It's all happening, right?

1316
01:10:27,919 --> 01:10:31,792
And so... I go tell Jess,
I'm like, "Hey, Jess...

1317
01:10:32,184 --> 01:10:35,709
how do you feel about...
me going to Ukraine

1318
01:10:35,970 --> 01:10:38,190
to get in between the floats,"
that's what they're called,

1319
01:10:38,364 --> 01:10:39,626
the forward line of troops.

1320
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:41,106
So you got the Russian
troops coming in,

1321
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:42,499
Ukrainian troops coming in.

1322
01:10:42,673 --> 01:10:44,196
They're trying to
kill each other.

1323
01:10:44,370 --> 01:10:46,546
This is where we're
going in to pull people out.

1324
01:10:46,720 --> 01:10:48,592
Gather these people up,
bring 'em back.

1325
01:10:48,766 --> 01:10:50,115
Gather them up, bring 'em back.
Gather them up, bring 'em back.

1326
01:10:50,289 --> 01:10:52,073
Put them on trains.
Get them to the West.

1327
01:10:52,291 --> 01:10:53,510
I'm like, "Jess, how
do you feel about that?"

1328
01:10:53,684 --> 01:10:54,685
And she's like...

1329
01:10:56,469 --> 01:10:58,254
"Did you pray about it?"
And I did.

1330
01:10:59,124 --> 01:11:00,343
"Yeah, sounds good."

1331
01:11:00,517 --> 01:11:01,953
Oh my God, I'm not gonna die

1332
01:11:02,127 --> 01:11:03,650
'cause God told me to do it.
I'm sure of it.

1333
01:11:09,265 --> 01:11:10,831
Traveling towards the capital.

1334
01:11:11,702 --> 01:11:14,139
Current state of
situation is this dark.

1335
01:11:18,186 --> 01:11:19,971
We were in six days
after the war started.

1336
01:11:32,853 --> 01:11:34,333
The entire country's
blacked out.

1337
01:11:34,551 --> 01:11:36,074
There's artillery coming down.

1338
01:11:36,248 --> 01:11:37,597
Russian tanks on fire.

1339
01:11:46,650 --> 01:11:47,694
Shit's bad.

1340
01:11:47,868 --> 01:11:49,087
Danger left and right.

1341
01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:51,872
Trying not to get shot
by the Ukrainians, right?

1342
01:11:52,133 --> 01:11:53,787
Trying not to get
shot by the Russians.

1343
01:11:54,005 --> 01:11:55,311
And we didn't have
a dog in the fight.

1344
01:11:55,485 --> 01:11:56,573
We were just there
to pull people out.

1345
01:11:57,835 --> 01:11:59,619
All right, Redcon fam,
heading up.

1346
01:11:59,793 --> 01:12:02,187
You can probably hear the...
air raids in the background.

1347
01:12:03,144 --> 01:12:05,277
So they're dropping,
actively dropping right now.

1348
01:12:06,278 --> 01:12:07,671
Too easy.
And we're going' get it in.

1349
01:12:13,372 --> 01:12:15,331
If you wanna know a wild
moment from that one,

1350
01:12:16,723 --> 01:12:18,769
we pull up to this house.
We get out.

1351
01:12:18,943 --> 01:12:20,901
We can hear... on the distance.

1352
01:12:21,075 --> 01:12:22,250
We can hear what's happening.
We can hear the tanks.

1353
01:12:22,425 --> 01:12:23,469
We can hear stuff happening.

1354
01:12:24,252 --> 01:12:26,646
And we pull up and
we're like, "Hey, come on."

1355
01:12:26,820 --> 01:12:29,867
And... there's a
husband and wife there.

1356
01:12:30,911 --> 01:12:32,348
She has her children.

1357
01:12:32,522 --> 01:12:34,567
And then she has these
orphans with them, right?

1358
01:12:35,089 --> 01:12:38,179
And I'm watching her husband and
her say goodbye to each other.

1359
01:12:39,442 --> 01:12:42,096
And it was unreal,
man, 'cause it was like...

1360
01:12:44,490 --> 01:12:47,101
...for sure this fucking dude's
dead right now, right?

1361
01:12:47,493 --> 01:12:48,842
It's like, how close they were.

1362
01:12:49,539 --> 01:12:51,845
And, like, I got to just--
weirdly enough,

1363
01:12:52,019 --> 01:12:53,847
I watched them,
like, say goodbye...

1364
01:12:54,761 --> 01:12:56,807
...with a certainty, 'cause
the men couldn't leave.

1365
01:12:56,981 --> 01:12:58,504
So-- I mean, war sucks.

1366
01:13:14,041 --> 01:13:15,086
We get them in the van.

1367
01:13:15,913 --> 01:13:17,305
Uh, We get them back
behind the lines.

1368
01:13:17,480 --> 01:13:18,568
And it was just like...

1369
01:13:19,743 --> 01:13:21,571
...hours of silence. I mean,
there's nothing you can say.

1370
01:13:21,745 --> 01:13:23,616
I mean, you don't even know
what to say, you know?

1371
01:13:29,100 --> 01:13:32,320
Just to watch them say goodbye
was crazy. Yeah...

1372
01:13:45,116 --> 01:13:48,249
And I remember driving, as--
I mean, I was scared.

1373
01:13:49,425 --> 01:13:51,601
I had a very real sense
that this might be it.

1374
01:13:53,080 --> 01:13:54,995
Guys, so,
it's 5:30 in the morning.

1375
01:13:55,953 --> 01:13:58,085
We're headed towards--
towards Kiev.

1376
01:13:58,259 --> 01:14:00,131
As you see, it is
absolutely pitch-black.

1377
01:14:01,785 --> 01:14:03,090
So I wasn't scared.
I was just like

1378
01:14:03,264 --> 01:14:05,136
taking on the magnitude
of like...

1379
01:14:05,789 --> 01:14:08,922
"Dang, all right, Slade's
this old. Brodie's this old.

1380
01:14:09,096 --> 01:14:10,446
If I get killed right now...

1381
01:14:11,142 --> 01:14:12,839
it's probably gonna be
all right. God's got a plan."

1382
01:14:14,754 --> 01:14:16,887
But it was like,
"I'm probably...
this could be it."

1383
01:14:17,583 --> 01:14:19,324
Because it's-- it was nuts.

1384
01:14:19,498 --> 01:14:21,108
"I'm probably going
to fucking die right now."

1385
01:14:21,413 --> 01:14:23,546
And I remember
asking God, like, "God...

1386
01:14:24,503 --> 01:14:25,983
...I feel like...

1387
01:14:26,244 --> 01:14:28,376
I got more to put into those
kid's life before now,

1388
01:14:28,551 --> 01:14:29,682
so what's gonna happen?"

1389
01:14:30,378 --> 01:14:32,337
Because I don't
want to be foolish either.

1390
01:14:32,511 --> 01:14:34,470
I don't-- I'm not the
guy who goes like...

1391
01:14:35,383 --> 01:14:37,690
"I gotta go save people.
Fuck my family."

1392
01:14:37,864 --> 01:14:38,909
That's not me.

1393
01:14:39,605 --> 01:14:41,215
I'm the guy that goes,
"If God tells me to go,

1394
01:14:41,389 --> 01:14:42,521
I'm gonna go."

1395
01:14:42,956 --> 01:14:45,089
And now we're coming
into the 11th hour where

1396
01:14:45,263 --> 01:14:47,091
the real-- the real
hell's about to start.

1397
01:14:47,265 --> 01:14:50,268
And I just remember going like,
"God, if I'm gonna go in here

1398
01:14:50,442 --> 01:14:52,879
and not serve your will...
I don't wanna do that.

1399
01:14:53,053 --> 01:14:54,315
So do you want me to go?"

1400
01:14:54,881 --> 01:14:55,882
And it was like...

1401
01:14:59,277 --> 01:15:00,670
...the fire of certainty.

1402
01:15:08,547 --> 01:15:09,896
Honestly, the biggest
thing I prayed about,

1403
01:15:11,202 --> 01:15:12,682
that I wouldn't have
to kill anybody.

1404
01:15:15,162 --> 01:15:17,904
I'm here to... just save people.

1405
01:15:18,078 --> 01:15:19,602
I don't have a
dog in this fight.

1406
01:15:20,864 --> 01:15:23,475
I hope that nobody puts me in a
position I gotta kill 'em.

1407
01:15:25,869 --> 01:15:27,131
'Cause I would,
I was coming home.

1408
01:15:28,741 --> 01:15:29,699
Like, I'm gonna figure
out how to get back

1409
01:15:29,873 --> 01:15:30,917
to Jess and the kids.

1410
01:15:36,227 --> 01:15:39,186
God won't have His glory
made manifest by cowards.

1411
01:15:48,413 --> 01:15:49,501
<i>Life is war.</i>

1412
01:15:50,981 --> 01:15:52,243
<i>It is war.</i>

1413
01:15:53,679 --> 01:15:55,289
<i>There's deception
and evil out there.</i>

1414
01:15:58,728 --> 01:16:00,077
<i>To avoid criticism...</i>

1415
01:16:02,122 --> 01:16:03,210
<i>...say nothing...</i>

1416
01:16:04,647 --> 01:16:05,648
<i>...do nothing...</i>

1417
01:16:08,825 --> 01:16:09,826
<i>...be nothing.</i>

1418
01:16:16,789 --> 01:16:18,661
<i>All pain is temporary.</i>

1419
01:16:20,488 --> 01:16:22,273
<i>It doesn't matter
what's before you.</i>

1420
01:16:24,014 --> 01:16:25,755
<i>Success is the only way.</i>

1421
01:16:28,453 --> 01:16:30,586
<i>You burn the ships
and you take the island.</i>

1422
01:16:35,852 --> 01:16:37,462
<i>You wanna be great?</i>

1423
01:16:37,810 --> 01:16:40,596
<i>You wanna make a name for
yourself from your actions</i>

1424
01:16:40,770 --> 01:16:43,468
<i>and not... the way that
you describe yourself?</i>

1425
01:16:43,642 --> 01:16:45,470
<i>Then that's gonna involve...</i>

1426
01:16:46,471 --> 01:16:47,777
<i>...natural fears.</i>

1427
01:16:49,039 --> 01:16:50,606
<i>That is the path to greatness.</i>

1428
01:17:02,879 --> 01:17:04,663
- Two!
- Down!

1429
01:17:04,837 --> 01:17:06,360
Three!

1430
01:17:06,534 --> 01:17:08,319
- Down!
- Four!

1431
01:17:08,493 --> 01:17:10,016
- On cue!
- Now!

1432
01:17:10,190 --> 01:17:12,323
- Five!
- Down!

1433
01:17:12,628 --> 01:17:14,847
- Six!
- On your backs!
Move, kids, let's go!

1434
01:17:15,021 --> 01:17:17,110
On your backs, now!

1435
01:17:20,418 --> 01:17:22,812
Feet at the wall! Let's go!

1436
01:17:24,770 --> 01:17:26,119
We're covered!

1437
01:17:26,293 --> 01:17:28,992
Stand the fuck up!
Let's go! Stand up!

1438
01:17:29,340 --> 01:17:30,341
Stand up!

1439
01:17:33,518 --> 01:17:34,911
Turn that fucking music down.

1440
01:17:36,347 --> 01:17:38,175
Turn the music down!

1441
01:17:43,093 --> 01:17:44,224
Team, about-face.

1442
01:18:05,376 --> 01:18:08,161
Gentlemen...
be a light in the world.

1443
01:18:09,336 --> 01:18:12,426
As you step forward,
you are that motherfucker.

1444
01:18:12,600 --> 01:18:14,211
- Hooyah?
- Hooyah!

1445
01:18:14,907 --> 01:18:16,387
Thank you guys for your time.

1446
01:18:16,561 --> 01:18:18,432
If you guys want
some feedback, hooyah.

1447
01:18:18,606 --> 01:18:20,260
But right now, let's
put our hands together.

1448
01:18:20,434 --> 01:18:21,697
You guys fucking got it done.

1449
01:18:35,101 --> 01:18:36,320
Bring it in.

1450
01:19:08,308 --> 01:19:10,484
You are a dog
on a different level.

1451
01:19:13,618 --> 01:19:16,534
I have seen you in
dog fights with people.

1452
01:19:18,449 --> 01:19:21,800
You have an uncommon
level of being comfortable

1453
01:19:21,974 --> 01:19:23,367
with the uncomfortable.

1454
01:19:24,542 --> 01:19:27,763
I just encourage you
to stay in that setting.

1455
01:19:28,720 --> 01:19:32,855
What... I want to do after
I graduate is go be a PJ

1456
01:19:33,029 --> 01:19:36,510
like my dad
because... I like that job

1457
01:19:36,684 --> 01:19:38,164
where it's like helping people.

1458
01:19:38,774 --> 01:19:41,777
And then probably after the
military, I wanna go become like

1459
01:19:41,951 --> 01:19:44,736
a lawyer like my dad so
I can help people there too.

1460
01:19:45,606 --> 01:19:48,261
Yeah, I am definitely gonna
be sad when he leaves,

1461
01:19:48,435 --> 01:19:50,960
but I know that he
will be having fun.

1462
01:19:51,221 --> 01:19:54,267
So as long as he's having fun,
I'm glad that he's going

1463
01:19:54,441 --> 01:19:55,486
to be in the military

1464
01:19:55,660 --> 01:19:57,401
'cause I know he
wants to do that,

1465
01:19:57,575 --> 01:20:00,143
and he, like-- he loves survival
and he loves stuff like that.

1466
01:20:00,317 --> 01:20:03,537
So, I will be sad, but I'm glad
he'll be having a good time.

1467
01:20:08,542 --> 01:20:10,109
You know, you're
looking at going
in the military.

1468
01:20:10,283 --> 01:20:12,459
- What's that look like?
- Definitely be a PJ.

1469
01:20:12,633 --> 01:20:15,332
- Yeah.
- Probably do the reserve
so I can do school as well.

1470
01:20:15,506 --> 01:20:16,724
Why do you think
you want to be a Jay?

1471
01:20:17,725 --> 01:20:19,205
Be able to jump out of planes,

1472
01:20:19,379 --> 01:20:21,077
- do med stuff
- Mm-hmm.

1473
01:20:21,251 --> 01:20:22,774
- to help people.
- Yeah, yeah.

1474
01:20:22,948 --> 01:20:25,124
Scenarios like
rescues and stuff.

1475
01:20:25,298 --> 01:20:27,518
Yeah, obviously your
mom and I believe in you.

1476
01:20:28,867 --> 01:20:30,390
Going into the world...

1477
01:20:30,695 --> 01:20:33,524
you're gonna experience
a lot of challenges.

1478
01:20:34,046 --> 01:20:39,269
But most of those will be to
try to get you... to be...

1479
01:20:40,444 --> 01:20:43,708
...different than the way that
you know you're supposed to be.

1480
01:20:44,361 --> 01:20:45,666
And some people will hate you.

1481
01:20:48,060 --> 01:20:49,192
Such is life.

1482
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:54,458
What do you think will be

1483
01:20:54,632 --> 01:20:56,416
some of your biggest challenges
as you press forward?

1484
01:20:56,590 --> 01:20:57,896
What do you think
selection is going to be like?

1485
01:20:59,245 --> 01:21:00,420
Do you think it's
going to be similar

1486
01:21:00,594 --> 01:21:01,857
to the Never Quit course?

1487
01:21:02,292 --> 01:21:03,510
- Probably, mostly.
- Yeah, right?

1488
01:21:04,033 --> 01:21:05,643
You're gonna walk in,

1489
01:21:05,991 --> 01:21:08,776
and there will be guys that are
in better shape than you, right?

1490
01:21:08,951 --> 01:21:10,909
Like, I had Olympic
swimmers there.

1491
01:21:11,083 --> 01:21:12,084
- Yeah.
- Incredible shape.

1492
01:21:12,563 --> 01:21:13,607
But...

1493
01:21:15,044 --> 01:21:17,568
...they lack the
characteristic of selflessness

1494
01:21:18,395 --> 01:21:19,439
to the point of death.

1495
01:21:25,924 --> 01:21:28,709
Jesus says, "Go sell your
tunic and buy a sword,"

1496
01:21:29,841 --> 01:21:32,365
in the same way that
you have to be prepared

1497
01:21:32,539 --> 01:21:34,498
to be capable of violence

1498
01:21:34,890 --> 01:21:36,239
so that you can be peaceful.

1499
01:21:36,630 --> 01:21:37,893
- Yeah.
- You know what I mean?

1500
01:21:44,247 --> 01:21:45,465
You know, it's funny, um...

1501
01:21:45,944 --> 01:21:48,860
If you ask any operator,
they'll tell you the same thing.

1502
01:21:49,469 --> 01:21:53,473
"Most of my memories
are of our epic failures."

1503
01:21:54,910 --> 01:21:56,563
Whenever I got
out of the military,

1504
01:21:56,737 --> 01:22:00,002
you the-- the absolute
central reason for that was?

1505
01:22:00,567 --> 01:22:03,440
- No
- It was you... right?

1506
01:22:05,181 --> 01:22:07,618
So I'm gone 300 days
out of the year at the time,

1507
01:22:08,358 --> 01:22:10,751
and the reason I got
out was because...

1508
01:22:11,578 --> 01:22:13,711
I was shucking my responsibility

1509
01:22:14,146 --> 01:22:16,801
to not give you the
character that I believed that

1510
01:22:17,193 --> 01:22:19,238
should have
arrived to you, right?

1511
01:22:22,285 --> 01:22:25,027
The greatest accomplishment
that I can have in this life

1512
01:22:25,723 --> 01:22:27,855
is to develop character
in my children.

1513
01:22:28,030 --> 01:22:29,683
And when I look at
your character,

1514
01:22:30,162 --> 01:22:32,948
you're so far ahead
of where I was at your age,

1515
01:22:33,122 --> 01:22:34,384
like 15 years ahead.

1516
01:22:35,602 --> 01:22:37,517
You know, the sky
is the limit for you, man.

1517
01:22:38,344 --> 01:22:40,433
You can do anything
that you wanna do

1518
01:22:40,825 --> 01:22:44,437
so long as you will be
selfless, maintain discipline,

1519
01:22:45,090 --> 01:22:48,920
and hold your integrity in
the face of all adversity.

1520
01:22:50,922 --> 01:22:52,793
Walk softly and
carry a big stick, son.

1521
01:22:53,707 --> 01:22:57,015
Nobody... is going
to live your life but you.

1522
01:22:58,147 --> 01:23:00,149
- Yeah
- So you can't live your life...

1523
01:23:00,584 --> 01:23:01,977
for the perception of others.

1524
01:23:03,456 --> 01:23:04,588
- You know what I mean?
- Yeah

1525
01:23:04,762 --> 01:23:06,242
- I love you, man.
- Love you, too.