039 How Do I Stop Sabotaging Myself Dating

How Do I Stop Sabotaging Myself Dating?

#### “My break-up still stings. I’m afraid I’ll self-sabotage the whole online dating thing.” Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt boldly recommends…

Question: I am finally taking the leap – I am going to create an online profile and finally get back out there after spending five years “wishing” for Mrs. Right after a break-up that still stings. I am afraid I am going to self-sabotage the whole thing but I still want to try.

Answer: Love, I am thrilled to hear of your courage to show up. Yet did you notice you didn’t even ask a question… you just confirmed your fear which is only going to create your worse outcome.

Did that make sense? When we use our thoughts to confirm “I am afraid…” or “I hope xyz doesn’t happen.” etc., we are sticking ourselves in a position of lack, disempowerment, victim and fear. It’s like you’re in a chariot, and the reigns are on the ground…and you have given away your power, direction and capacity to create your life.

I invite you to boldly ask me a Question like, Allana, what’s it going to take for me to heal from this break up that still stings? What’s it going to take for me to no longer sabotage dating? or even better… What’s it going to take to create a hot healthy long term intimate relationship with a women who’s perfect for me as soon as possible?

Whooooo hoooo! That last question literally turns me on! Why? Cuz you are a King in your chariot who has taken up the reigns of his life and is ready to do whatever it takes to create the future he desires… totally HOT.

AND because I’m a coach and healer… I can literally FEEL the energy of the Field move through me in contribution to YOU. There’s this whole unseen Field of energy, God, Love, Source, the Universe that’s at your beckon call… and yet until you raise your vibration (raise the quality of your statements into empowering questions) this energy can’t support your dreams… it can only report back the low vibration you’re putting out, make sense?