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Leave them alone.

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This may be the hardest part of trying to win your acts back but after you break up don't contact them

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in any way for a few weeks and maybe even a month.

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Give them time to think about their relationship and process their emotions in grief.

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If you have a relationship then your partner is going to be focused on all the good things that you

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did for them and the fun times you had together.

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Furthermore they will realize what an important part of their life you are.

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However this process cannot be rushed.

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No one wants to be hounded by a desperate ex trying to backpedal as fast as possible and rebuild a relationship

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at warp speed.

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The foundation of a romantic relationship needs to be solid.

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People do need space.

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Even if you never broke up at the same point your partner is going to need time away from you because

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they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.

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No one can spend 24 hours a day seven days a week with someone and not build up a little tension.

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If you are unable to give your partner space when needed.

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Perhaps this is something you can work on to show them how much you've changed.
