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Most women at some point or another in our lives dream about the perfect wedding where their Prince

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Charming comes and sweeps them off their feet this is drained and envision this way by bending down

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on one knee professing his undying love and desire to spend the rest of eternity with you.

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Women tend to have a view of the proposal as being very emotional and romantic like something out of

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a fairy tale whereas men tend to view a proposal more rationally rather than to an emotionally romantic

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lens.

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This is not the same and don't have any romantic feelings because they do it just means that they don't

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let their emotions run away with them.

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So if you can understand how a man thinks you will have a better chance of getting them to give you

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that dream proposal and magical wedding understanding commitment in the male mind.

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Women often have this impression that if a man has a phobia of commitment it means that he doesn't love

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you as much as you thought or that he's trying to keep his options open.

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More often than not this is simply not true.

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Committing to you is not the issue deserving you as when a man thinks about commitment and marriage.

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He thinks about whether or not he can take care of you and your family until you are both old and gray

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and whether or not he's able to provide for you and your family is good enough.

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So talk about things like career and family plans and let him know that you are committed to the relationship

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and him beyond a shadow of a doubt assuring him that everything will be fine as long as you're together.

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Admire him rather than complaining to him and others that he works too much or too hard and that he's

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never around to see you.

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Instead try saying that's from a different perspective.

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Something like he is working hard so that we can have a decent steak to start a family.

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You can also express it in such a way like he is working hard to pay off our student loans so we can

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start a new life together.

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That free if he knows he's appreciated and respected his commitment phobia will be far less and the

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chance of a proposal will be that much greater.
