077 How can a woman take the initiative in dating and relationships

1. Be a woman.

2. Do and say what you want to men, women, and intersex folk you find attractive.

It’s not complicated.

We women are human beings. We find people attractive, we have sex drives, and we want to find people we adore to build lives and families with.

We are as capable of approaching people, flirting a bit, asking them out, and setting up a date as a man would be. Many of us are, in fact, better at this than many men for a wide variety of individual and societally ingrained reasons.

Some men won’t like it, but in my experience, the vast majority find it refreshing or actively attractive. And those who don’t? They’re likely sexists you wouldn’t want to date in any case.

So approach people, reach for their hand when you want it, and go in for a kiss when they seem receptive. You can even initiate sex without anyone being the least disturbed.

The easiest way to get what you want is to go for it. That’s as true in romance as any other venue of life, no matter what sex you are.