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Reconciliation and moving forward after infidelity occurs in a relationship many people find themselves

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wishing they could go back to the way things were before.

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Unfortunately since the time machine has not yet been invented it is impossible for you and your partner

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to go back to a time before the infidelity occurred.

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All that is left is to pick up the pieces of your relationship and start to rebuild this process.

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Definitely is not going to be easy.

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In fact it may be very painful.

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However if you are willing to work and put all your heart soul and energy into the process it is possible

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to rebuild a relationship and make it stronger than ever.

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There must be a foundation of love and respect for you and your partner to rebuild your relationship.

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You must do so from a place of true love and respect for your partner and a desire to be with them.

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Without love and respect you have no foundation on which to rebuild your relationship.

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You must be committed to your partner.

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There must be a desire for you and your partner to be solidly committed to one another.

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You need to have this special ways to have a life together in order for the relationship to work.

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Just because there is love in a relationship does not mean that commitment is present.

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It is easy to love someone but it is very hard to be committed to them to be commed it means staying

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with them and supporting them physically and emotionally.

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When times are tough a strong work ethic is required.

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You must understand that rebuilding a relationship will take lots of work.

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It is not easy and will not happen overnight.

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It may take weeks months or even years to rebuild your relationship completely.

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This is because trust is a very hard commodity to come by.

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And once it's broken it's hard to mend again.

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Working on your relationship may also require external help if necessary and you must be willing to

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accept help when it is offered.
