067 3 Secrets Of Superb Man Woman Relationships

1. Listen to your heart

This may sound glib but your heart can guide you. If you put your awareness and attention in your heart chakra space, at the centre of your chest, and use that as a focus for all your loving feelings, you will become very intuitive. As you learn to be guided by your heart, you will transcend ordinary living and your daily experience in relationship will take on a spiritual aspect. Your heart will teach you that there are no mistakes. The man or woman you are with is perfect for you. As you become intimate with love in your own heart, it will be easier for your outer relationships to reflect that love.

2. Commit to love

We are so lazy when it comes to love. We've been suckered by romantic movies into thinking that when love strikes, that's it forever. Remember though, in the movies we only see the couple for an hour and a half. Are they still so passionate after 9 years? The best man woman relationships occur when both parties have made a conscious decision to love. They are committed to loving each other come what may. For love to flower every day, the man and woman have to enter a symbiotic relationship in which they both do what it takes to support each other. Love is a verb, and to make a superb relationship, love is something that we do. On a practical level, this can mean complimenting and appreciating one another, even when you don't particularly feel like it. Little actions of deliberate loving contribute to form a grand big picture of a superb love relationship.

3. Blind love

When a man and a woman first start to fall in love, that love makes them blind to the other's faults. They see only the wonderful qualities of that other person. As the relationship progresses, reality starts to seep in. They start comparing their partner to others and wondering if they made the right choice. Maybe they notice certain behaviours in the other person that they dislike and want to change. They might start pressurising their partner to change or make small criticisms about their appearance or habits. This is one of the pathways that can become a rocky road to relationship ruin.

They had the right idea in the beginning when they were blind to each other's faults. Good man woman relationships have a tacit unstated agreement to be nice to each other. This means that you don't try and change the other person (for you have no right to interfere with another's life choices unless they directly impinge upon your own life).

And you see only the good in the other person. For men, this might involve seeing your partner with something akin to beer-goggle eyes that see only someone gorgeous and sexy (and that filter out any imperfections)! For women, this might involve a good natured tolerance for his terrible jokes and long-winded stories. The point is that you work together at making this relationship wonderful. And sometimes that will involve a conscious blindness to the other's faults.

The superb man woman relationship

You've just learned 3 secrets that will have a powerful impact as you apply them to your life and relationship. It has been said that what you focus on increases. By concentrating on love as an energy in your heart, as something that you do, and as a way of life in your relationships, you will increase the Love in your life and become a more fulfilled person.