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Knowing what you want knowing what you want not only refers to what you want out of life as in your

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goals such as career family education etc. It also refers to what you want in a partner or boyfriend.

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All too often once women started spending time with someone they think they can be their Prince Charming.

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They get caught up in the romance and excitement of love and forget to use their heads and ask themselves

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Is this person compatible with me or do they have everything I'm looking for in a boyfriend.

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You should always carefully think about these questions before starting a romantic relationship because

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you should never compromise who you are for someone else no matter how much YOU THANK YOU MY LOVE THEM.

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Honesty is the best policy after you have found someone interesting charming confident and adventurous

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as yourself.

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It is important to remember to build a solid foundation for your relationship from the very first day.

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Particularly if you want the relationship to grow and flowers and possibly lead to married someday you

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should be honest about your wants and desires for your life.

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If your Prince Charming asks you a question give him the honest answer.

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Even if you think it may hurt his feelings.

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Too often people lie or hide their true feelings in the beginning stages of a relationship because they

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do not want to hurt someone's feelings or scare them away.

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However as the relationship progresses it is going to become increasingly difficult to lie or hide your

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feelings.

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If there are certain things you don't agree on then you can work on your understanding and grow as a

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person.

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Then if you can't reach a compromise or understanding then at least she'll know where your opinions

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diverged before you get too invested in the relationship.

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This does not mean that you have to discuss the major issues like religion politics or children right

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away.

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But no matter how big or small the topic.

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Honesty is always the best policy.

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It's the best way to truly get to know someone.

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Be ready to compromise.

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This is a very fine line and it's very important to understand that no matter what you see in the movies

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or read novels no one is perfect the perfect prince charming is not going to fall from the sky instantly

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understand all your needs and desires and be ready to fulfill them.

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A real relationship takes compromise compassion understanding and empathy.

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You must be willing to learn to accept all the little quirks and foibles that your potential Prince

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Charming may have.

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You must recognize that no man is perfect no matter how much you love someone or think that you do.

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You are not going to agree on everything all the time and just because you are willing to compromise

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on certain issues such as where to take a vacation or what movie to watch.

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This does not mean that you should compromise who you are at your core to make someone happy in the

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long term.

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This won't be good for either of you and the relationship will not last maintain your standards.

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It is perfectly acceptable.

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Contrary to modern popular belief to have standards for the type of people you associate with and allow

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into your life your standards should apply especially to your intimate relationships.

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It is very important for you to know which causes you are willing to compromise on and which issues

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you are not.

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You should never lower your standards for your Prince Charming because you think you have to settle

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all too often.

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Women feel as though they have no hope of finding their Prince Charming so they settle into a relationship

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that might not be quite the right fit just so they aren't alone and they end up compromise and all of

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their standards in the process and more often than not end up staying in a relationship longer than

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they should.

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Simply because they have convinced themselves over time that there is no one better that will show any

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interest in them.

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If you have confidence and carry yourself as such then eventually your prince charming will show up.

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Guaranteed.

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Most especially if you maintain your standards in the company you keep.
