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Get the right attitude again this goes back to self-confidence and a certain swagger.

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People are attracted to individuals that present a confident attitude.

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The kind of people that look like they know what they're doing in any situation even if they don't the

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kind of people with an air of sophistication and maturity the kind of person who's willing to try new

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things outside their comfort zone.

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Just for the experience this may be a lot for some people.

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So start small eat unique food or read a new book try adding new words to your vocabulary.

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All of these things will build your self-confidence and help you attract your acts.

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Don't be jealous being jealous will definitely not help you when your ex back.

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Jealousy is associated with fear and anxiety which are the two very unattractive traits in humanity

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to begin with on a subconscious level.

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You're telling your former partner that you want to take control and no one likes to be controlled.

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So you have to learn to deal with the green eyed monster especially if you want to win someone's heart

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or a second time.

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Act like nothing happened even if your guts are churning as if you are upside down on a roller coaster.

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Try not to let that get in the way of you having a good time.

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No one wants to hang out with someone who is sulking or moping about someone especially if they are

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trying to win back someone make a genuine effort to have a good time and laugh out loud.

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If someone brings up the subject of your failed relationship politely change the subject or tell a joke

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to take your mind off the painful memory develop a sense of humor people find this to be a very attractive

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trait.

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One of the most common things people say they look for in a partner is someone who can make me laugh.

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This is because a great sense of humor traditionally shows youthfulness and that you are not aggressive

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which puts people at ease.

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It also helps if you can make fun of yourself in a positive way not a mopey depressed way to show that

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you understand you're human and you know you have faults and you're working on them.

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This will go a long way towards your ex partner seeing you in a new way.

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Learn a few jokes.

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Practice them on your friends.

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Keep the ones that work.

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Forget the ones that don't.

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When you're with your former or your future partner you can use them as an icebreaker and a way to break

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the tension and demonstrate once and for all that you have move forward and have turned over a new leaf.
