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Make your move regardless of who broke up with who offer an apology you may have to swallow some pride

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and your ego by demonstrating to your partner that you understand that you played a significant part

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in the breakup of your relationship and that you have accepted this and are working to understand why

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the problems occurred in the first place.

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This will work wonders for rebuilding your relationship send them a gift.

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It doesn't necessarily have to be extravagant or expensive just a little something to show them you

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care.

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The more personal the better.

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There are endless options such as their favorite brand of chocolate or their favorite flower or a CD

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by their favorite band.

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Anything that only a person that truly cared about them would know because you want to be the person

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that truly cares now and forever.

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Send them a letter.

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People like to know how much they are cared for.

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So try writing your partner a letter telling them all the reasons you love them and how much they mean

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to you and how they make a difference in your life.

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This is a very effective way of rebuilding a relationship especially if you express thoughts and emotions

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that you kept hidden during a relationship.

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To sell them that you truly care.

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Show them that they mean something to you.

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Tell them in person a letter is just nice and can be quite romantic particularly when it's not expected.

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However it is never quite as good as hearing things in person directly from you.

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Set aside a special date for dinner and have a conversation about how much your partner means to you.

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Express all the good things that they bring into your life and the adventures that they've shared.

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Let them know once and for all that you are far better together than apart.

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If you follow this advice and you're not afraid to apologize when you are wrong and are willing to accept

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your mistakes it may be possible to rebuild your relationship with your ex on an even stronger foundation

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that will last a lifetime.

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As I said in the beginning you must put all your heart and soul into the effort for it to work.

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Your actual sense if your heart is not 110 percent committed to the relationship and if that's the case

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maybe you are better apart.
